THINGS I'VE LEARNED IN DATING AN OLDER FOREIGN MAN (Filipina dating foreigner)

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[@HunkyMan777]

Beauty is fleeting. Character, honesty, integrity, humour and intelligence are the prize.

[@stephilipines]

Absolutely true! ❤

[@Terry-b6p5s]

Damn...best blog yet

[@NotinKansasanymore]

You’re absolutely right Stephanie beauty is going to open the door guys as we know we are visual. That’s what attracts us but as an older man, you better be 10 times as good on the inside if you wanna keep me a real man, a quality man is just not gonna mess around with the BSthat doesn’t make us controlling. It’s that we’re a little bit more seasoned. We’ve seen a little bit more of life most of us are fairly well, educated, and we know how to get stuff done most of the time.

[@stephilipines]

Very well said!!😊

[@d.l.f.7794]

Wow! Stephanie you are magnificent! Wise for your words. I am so pleased to hear you. Every time I listen to your videos, I am greatly impressed.

[@chrisgoeswest9882]

Wow, drop the mic. 🎤 100% great advice.

[@stephilipines]

Awhh, thank you 😊

[@Dp652Talaga]

Well Said Stephanie. Hopefully Other Filipina’s Consider Your Advice Because You Are Actually Speaking from Experience. You Just Gave a Million Dollars of Advice for Free. Thank You for Always Being Honest & Being Committed to Stepping Outside Of Your Comfort Zone to Share Your Knowledge on This Subject.

[@stephilipines]

Awhh that’s very kind of you to say!! 😊

[@phereakazoid]

Peace ... That's the truth.. She have to be an oasis to calm my heart and soothe my head..

[@BruceCinader]

You have spoken some words of wisdom, I hope some Filipinas learn from you.

[@stephilipines]

Hopefully. Thank you😊

[@marclangevin9152]

How much money makes one rich ? Trust , Honor , Respect , Integrity , Communication . Are the keys to an on going relationship.

[@stephilipines]

Definitely well said❤

[@GerbenWulff]

Some good advice. Some guys fall for looks, but especially older guys will look beyond that. Older guys are generally not so easy to manipulate. When I was on a dating site, I looked for girls who knew what they wanted. I didn't want a girl that didn't know what she wanted only to find out it wasn't what I could offer AFTER we got married. As a guy I wanted a girl that I knew I could make her happy and for that I needed to know what she did and didn't want. Valuing his money is important. Some guys like to show off to impress a girl, but that is very dangerous when it is not sustainable.

[@GerinPhils]

You are so smart to understand how much we value women who want to help us save our hard earned money. Thats the kind of woman we want to take care of.

[@stephilipines]

Absolutely!!❤

[@Millionaire-w2r]

Very well said your the best 🇵🇭❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@gumi7195]

When it comes to making good relationship, It is most important whether or nor I can accept her way to think.

[@stephilipines]

Yes absolutely true😊

[@solomonanthony611]

Very well said kudos to you, Steph❤❤

[@stephilipines]

Thank you so much! 😊❤

[@princekingrc6628]

You are a true gem of beauty with this knowledge and understanding 😊❤

[@stephilipines]

Thank you😊

[@princekingrc6628]

@stephilipines you're welcome 😊

[@rodneystuart4464]

Nailed it!

[@stephilipines]

@@rodneystuart4464 thank you☺️

[@tomdagan6361]

Great advice, highly sensible & spot on

[@stephilipines]

@@tomdagan6361 thank you☺️

[@briansmith2371]

That most valued Filipina is the loyal, loving, hard working partner who has the for better or worse, family oriented spouse.

[@mauricepatterson9558]

Also a filipina that knows her family will try to take advantage of her foreigner man. She knows how to keep that in check herself, or willingness to take care of her family needs without wanting to push that on her foreigner boyfriend or husband.

[@stephilipines]

Absolutely! 😊

[@imports4life67]

Well said!

[@stephilipines]

Thank you😊

[@troycoate6746]

Great Video. You are so correct with these things. Yes men are looking or these qualities. Also the more traditional women will get the attention. If you get a good one she will be the most caring and loving woman. Filipina are the best wife material😊

[@stephilipines]

I agree. Filipinas are amazing! 😊

[@troycoate6746]

@ there is no way that I can date another western woman now. Filipinas have ruined my western dating 😂😂😂

[@paulmackie5622]

good video

[@stephilipines]

Thank you for watching! 😊

[@chrisellis9689]

Youre words are absolutely 💯 correct steph. Iv been to the Philippines a few times now and the ammount of younger girls latching onto these older rich guys is laughable. I see it as nothing more than long term prostitution and once the girls lose interest its nothing but a financial transaction. You truly are a rarity steph, the guy that finally wins youre heart and love will be one very blessed man ❤

[@SuperDrJeckyl]

So you want these young broads to get with a younger guy and have 3 babies by 3 different guys? If both parties are happy who are you to judge? Who are you to tell some old, lonely guy he can’t still enjoy his life?

[@stephilipines]

Thanks for sharing your experience as well. Awhhh thank you☺️❤

[@stuartlent2645]

Okay let's start. Some older men are set in their ways. So, you can't change them. The more you try the more stubborn they get. If you ever date an older man look for a man who is open to change. A man who is not open to change will not like life in the Philippines. They will be stubborn and argumentative. A perfect older man for a Filipina would still have the boy in him. He likes to experiment and try new things. He likes to smile and he will embrace the people of the Philippines. He will take you out dancing. He will explore with you. He will make friends easily because his smile is infectious. His inner child will find fun things to do. He will make you smile because his smile is infectious. He likes to tease. In other words look for a boy in an older mans body.

[@stephilipines]

Yeahhh haha. Some guys are just like that though.😅

[@davidcadman4468]

Stephanie, Beauty will fade, The handsome guy will grow old, wrinkles, weak arms, health fluctuate. These are inevitable. Finances can change, up or down. But character can remain constant if looked after. Honesty, Emotional Empathy, Acceptance of each other's flaws, weaknesses, strengths, Respect who the person is and what he or she does and brings to the relationship... All those, Honesty, Empathy, Acceptance, Respect build Trust between couples in a relationship, that can lead to a sense of Security, and well being... That's how Old People, I mean REALLY OLD, still manage to be together over a lifetime... Love isn't about beauty, or chemistry/feelings... Those change like the weather... Those character traits stay and are the foundation of a long term relationship...

[@stephilipines]

Very well said😊

[@marclangevin9152]

In a recent video you mentioned that men want submissive women . For me a submissive woman is not a doormat. She is smart, strong , self confident . If she chooses to submit to me. That is a gift .That I would treasure. And it means she loves and trusts me fully . There are many women that submit for the wrong reasons and to the wrong men .

[@T-Dotwanderer]

Noooo, we are not controlling. We are just a little bit more serious than these little boys. We know more about life and how to win in life!!😊

[@stephilipines]

That’s good!😊

[@vincentnorris3536]

Hopefully one day when I retire I can meet a wonderful person like yourself I will never be with someone who thinks I’m a ATM

[@Neo1-h7d]

A fool in love with youth and beauty is easily parted with his money. This fact is in every culture. Let’s not kid ourselves, many of these age gap relationships at least start as transactional. Both sides have a vision in their heads of what they hope to get out of the relationship. Over time that could change as they get to know each other. I don’t think it’s any girls ideal dream at 25 to want a 55 year old guy. It’s what they are settling on because of various factors. In the Philippines a girl approaching 40 years of age will have great difficulty to find a new native Filipino to have a long term relationship after their first marriage fails. Especially if they have several children. So understandably they hope to find a foreigner with means to make their lives and their children’s lives better. There’s nothing wrong with this but let’s not window dress it as something else.

[@stephilipines]

Well, that makes sense. Thanks for sharing your thoughts 😊

[@clrodrick]

I forget who said it, but it's not like any of these ladies had posters on their childhood bedroom walls of balding 50-70 year old guys with beer bellies LOL! Yeah ... nope. So yes age gap relationships are about both parties getting what they want out of it.

[@GeorgeTurpin-f2f]

Stefanie I am down to earth. Have beard. Blond hair blue eyes. Country. We hear so much. No beard. . Have to be clean shaving. Do we stand a chance

[@scottdarden3091]

Stephanie, you told us you only dated one guy from Arizona.

[@stephilipines]

You probably haven’t watched my previous videos 😅

[@scottdarden3091]

@stephilipines I always watch your videos! No nothing about you dating other men 😔

[@blazerk.7189]

Honesty! ​@@scottdarden3091

[@fredyjohnson7110]

Can I ask you a question being iam 68 years old isn't it the man job to take care of the woman he truly love specially if you have the wealth to do so . Shouldn't you travel and see the world with your partner Shouldn't the man be concern about her goals and dreams and happiness. Its better if your partner invest in something that she can be proud of and earn her own money. Because everyone has a date when we going to leave this earth so a woman need to prepare for when her man is nolonger here .

[@JamesMitchell-iq5vy]

lil Boss, its all about RESPECT. Now... most older guys (70%) are all about sex to younger girls, i can't stand them, they have kids much younger, but think them being 60 with a Filipina at 18 or 19 is ok? 😡 Even at 25 is still a kid. Only 30% are genuine men who still show respect. Its a tough Tough world.

[@bieragaino440]

its brutally honest , I dont want to be a walking wallet. I just love and respect . Not be fooled or deceived . Even some have denied and said to me what do you think i am but later they are revealed as liars . Just be honest. I am simple man with no need of luxury , I was born in a village without electricity or water indoor . I am adaptable.

[@stephilipines]

That's awesome! You seem like a good man, keep being honest. 😊

[@waterbug1135]

In interviews I've watched and Filipinas I've dealt with it seems when they want a foreigner they only have one requirement...they're a foreign guy. I assume because Filipino think all foreigners are the same and that was fairly true for decades. All foreigners able to travel to PH are kind of all the same. But now a lot of pretty bad dudes are moving to PH. Filipinas haven't seemed to learn to vet males and the family structure in PH is also breaking down so fewer fathers are vetting males for their daughters. A mess in the making.

[@stephilipines]

Yeah true. Unfortunately.