Things only highly sensitive people understand :')

[@LanaBlakely]

If you're a HSP - how did you know?

[@gingerbrigite]

We know in our deep souls. I'm compassionate, I feel the pain in the world, I'm sad when I hear the news when it's something sad, I'm an empath. Also I think HSP gives us creativity. ❤

[@marcin3136]

When you have deeply knowleadge from diffrent fields of science you can say it. In other cases you cant be sure (misunderstanding). Im sure you know :)

[@NeoNine10]

Everything that seems to make you not like others. The slightest thing that bothers me, doesn't seem to bother others. I did also pass Elaine Aron’s HSP test on her website, though they say there is no true test for it. Only yourself can really know in the end.

[@alon.galperin]

Annoyed by sounds. Can hear and smell things before most of the people around me.

[@theintentionalist]

When an "outsider" calls me out for staring in awe at seemingly mundane things in the milieu.

[@shivalika10]

“The smallest things can hurt me greatly and the smallest thing can make me extremely happy” felt so much love and resonance in this statement❤

[@d-orbital]

The only time I'm thankful for being sensitive is when i find happiness in those little things :))

[@shivalika10]

@@d-orbital I can totally understand ❤️

[@Zaib593]

It is exactly me, who hurts at small things and be happy small things

[@xw6475]

I feel the same way too!!

[@user-bq4uf1id7i]

being sensitive is kind of a blessing, you feel a lot more feelings.

[@ronny-yj8oc]

a blessing and a curse at times

[@wintermoonlight1111]

@@ronny-yj8oc exactly

[@sameerjassal6841]

@@ronny-yj8oc feels like a curse alot of the time - so much harder to get through everyday life

[@Anonymous-m7r3z]

Yess obviously ❤

[@zharahussain8004]

​@@sameerjassal6841Allah make ease for you and us all

[@vellorenitin]

When you said " Funny how those people never point out your sensitivity when it benifits them" my mind was blown, i was like why didn't i think of that? I used to feel ashamed that i was sensitive but now i won't Thank-you lana!

[@guardian-X]

I've avoided relationships all my life. It involves too many feelings for me and can feel like too much.

[@mrinalinidevi6603]

This ability to already sense what the other person is feeling when they walk through the door is often overwhelming. It's like even though they are not going to talk about it, but there is this constant urge to make them feel better. This ability has helped me a lot in assessing the situation or environment. But sometimes it feels like I am the only one in the room who knows that something is not right and don't know what is it while others are completely ignorant.

[@LanaBlakely]

Oh yes all of this.

[@Seca95]

Try living with a mom and a sister who are completely oblivious, constantly turning life into hell for me as well as themselves. Zero ability to read the room to avoid conflicts, absolutely zero. I wish I were like them or they were like me.

[@LukeLFN]

@@Seca95 I understand

[@notlululucy]

same..!! my mom is similar to me, I love love helping others like it’s just always been there in me ever since I was young like ofc helping others is rewarding and yesys but I would like help others so much to the point where I turned into a people pleaser and my brain only focused on one thing in school which was the social aspect of school “people” I’m a people person I feel and when I got to middle school the environment and energy felt very… yucky.. and that unfortunately affected me a lot, I got anxiety and depression and I broke out due to severe stress acne but after I convinced my parents I want to take online school my skin cleared up and I am doing better and getting therapy

[@notlululucy]

It was always hard to explain to my mom why I felt so affected when I went to school, my brain is like a sponge and I didn’t know how to clear any energy I picked up and so my mom would always say “why aren’t’ you like your other cousins, why can’t you do it if everyone can?” she had that kind of mindset so yea..

[@celestial5036]

“I will love you so hard it pains me, but I’ll also forget all about you” “There is no spectrum of betray me a little or alot”

[@atishya3259]

Lana, I have no other sibling.. But you make me feel so loved, just as an elder sister. Thankyou for filling up that empty space for me.

[@LanaBlakely]

I'm glad :)

[@bryanguijarro4418]

Being sensitive is a signal that you're so much stronger than you think. You feel the world around you and that's what makes you a real smart person. I used to feel like that, but finally I understood it all; many of us don't take a lil moment to meditate and think about their feelings, and they're living their lives faster and, in my opinion, we gotta take just a minute to disconnect and make a deeply search inside of our thoughts to find what's wrong and why we're feeling like we aren't doing things well. Blessings.

[@vivekanand2970]

You don't know how much I appreciate this video. My girlfriend is a beautiful soul and very sensitive at that. There were moments when I told her, it's your fault you feel bad. It's hard to level with her but you saying these words helped me understand what she might be feeling. I've let her down time and time again but I hope I can be a man worthy of her in my future.

[@Emi-jy5ct]

What a beautiful comment!

[@ameliac1190]

Omg! She’s lucky!

[@heeyaustin]

I also think HSP’s tend to fall into addictions easily. It makes sense as it’s usually a way for us to tune out the world and not feel the weight of the world so much by numbing our sensitivity with whatever feels good

[@avtoportret]

Indeed, neurodivergent people (ADHD and autistics - HSP doesn’t exist - are benefiting from the prescription drugs).

[@nateo200]

The vibe she gives is always exactly what I need!

[@janinejournals]

Realizing that being a HSP is a superpower is life-changing. Like, wow. We're neurodivergent people navigating a world built for neurotypical people. That makes it harder for us. There's no filter in our brain. The high highs, the low lows - we experience it all. Ask yourself - do we *have* to experience the whole deal? Or do we *get* to experience all of it? The latter view changed everything for me. You can't change how you're wired, and you shouldn't want to. You heal the world with your empathy. You remind them that beauty and joy are in the little things. Find your strengths and share them with society ♥

[@leeaschmidt2490]

Thank you for the inspirational words!

[@somyahere]

Clicked unnaturally fast

[@LanaBlakely]

:')

[@yasmeenkaram9780]

Omg thats mee😂😂😂😂

[@EmbraceTheStruggle24]

❤

[@lizzieafisher]

Same

[@yuma130]

Why do I feel like smiling and crying at the same time? That's so amazingly relatable

[@kristinandj]

As a highly sensitive person myself, I want to thank you for making me feel less alone

[@daleincisions]

as an Adult Guy I been diagnosed and labeled as HSP , it's a blessing or a curse depending on how we act on it . I feel more deeply than anyone else and notice little things that others can't . My intuition is always 100% accurate . We feel more before we know something is good or bad is going to happen . Thank you Lana for discussing our personality .

[@interestingtimes6242]

It kind of sucks being HSP who is a man. I’m convinced it’s a turn off for most women, but not all. I believe it’s a trait my wife appreciated in me, before she passed. It’s pretty rare, though. Lots of female friend, though! Ugh. No, I won’t go shopping with them.

[@jackwalker1822]

Being a HSP man, women don't want me. They feel that it is only a trait allowed in females. What if a man is just wired that way? Too bad. If you are a man and an exception to this, and found a woman who appreciates it, then you are very fortunate and rare.

[@VaronPlateando]

as a hsp gent myself, I highly doubt xx.s are able to grasp or even empathise with what that implies for gents, due to their (evo.psych) nature, and current culture encouraging their navel gazes. as I note, living life's decades left scars etc., certainly, and as for some (eg inter-personal) impressions, merely phantome pain is registered now. should help to practise non-attachment and | or stoicism.

[@kutay8421]

I see and All in ! As a man of 38, my neurons still trigger same amount for 1/3 voltage (tested). Just sensitive as a baby. But in a 130kg muscular body. I am not sure if anybody but HSP's understand me. Be it a f.ckbody or a nature/nurture relationship or just a person to talk to I want 'em to be Sensitive too.

[@a_man8589]

Sometimes I wonder, how difficult my life becomes being an HSP. How overwhelmed I feel, noticing the unsaid emotional behaviours of others. I forgot that this highly sensitive trait also makes me exceptionally connected to Nature and things that others won't feel at all. Thank you Lana. Love you 🫂💞

[@Kamilakhafizova]

Being a HSP makes me feel so unique and special) and there is no one on earth but you and your sensibility , emotions and comfort.

[@cheekymonkey5150]

Lana you told exactly how I feel lately. A bit lonely and misunderstood with my ability to sense everything, enjoy the littlest things, but I am also easily overhelmed and need my time to recharge. I love nature walks and animals. I definitely don't need drugs or alcohol to feel high. Thanks for this film ❤❤

[@ljubicasmolovic8326]

This is so me. I loved when you said that people don't complain when being sensitive serves them, how I can feel them. Over the years, I learned that real friends don't have problems with my sensitivity, they appreciate me for it. And I so deeply understand the feeling of being high on life. Yes, there is only one way I like my coffee. Why is that so hard to understand? Thank you Lana. I feel understood.

[@softcoach]

I'm a highly sensitive person and I cried at how beautiful this video was!

[@molassescricket6663]

Channel your sensitivity Lana. Expect a lot of dissatisfaction, disappointment, and pain. Yet you will experience great joys in life and highs that are off the scale. It’s all that much more bittersweet for us HSP’s. Write poetry, paint, draw. Turn your sensitivity into strength.

[@girlvlog-sk1fe]

"How those people never point out your sensitivity when benefits them " Begin crying *

[@valerygonzalez7475]

I feel overwhelmed by the world, too much information, too much corruption and too much malice.. I feel can't adapt.. On the other hand, I like things that are simple and considered boring by society, I like order and I give so much importance to health, emotions and details. I'm the quiet, boring girl that wanted be healthy and spend her time in the nature or make some sports instead in the club.

[@sasandipahanmi3580]

Yes, I'm a HSP too. I found it when I met the boy who brokeup with me 4 and half months ago. Cause even his little words and actions were really hurtful for me. Yeah, I can feel everyone's feelings so deeply even when I don't know anything of them or haven't seen them ever. Every bad news like murder cases actually never fail to bring some tears to me. I don't think it is bad to be highly sensitive. Because in this complex world we are so kindful and so empathetic. We can truly be happy about ourselves. Cause we know that among of a lot of bad and tough people ;we are so soft and deeper connected people with the nature.

[@TheRoadrunz]

Just current finding out whether I am an HSP… Just curious for further reference… Do you tend to remember almost every text without needing to go back to it … Do you tend to sense the emotions of your ex from behind the pictures they post…can you tell people from your family apart by listening to the sound of their footsteps or the way they unlock the door when they’re coming back home…

[@Zachiethechan]

​@@TheRoadrunzall of these things apply to me so you probably have it

[@superlyobsessed]

You described highly sensitive people in the best way I've seen so far. Thank you ☺️

[@nelibeshkova]

That's SO relatable! I love how you highlighted the yin and yang of being a highly sensitive person 🩵

[@nelibeshkova]

@@ToriPunjabStyles 100 %, well said! x

[@kirstenvanderpas5356]

Through my deep connection with nature. such as becoming extremely happy with cloud formations, the smell of the forest, the glittering on the water,... also having no brakes on the expression of my emotions and... cleaning as a form of control over my life.

[@Yourmommy-p2h]

1) other moods affects you 2) you feel whiplash of emotions 3) very sensitive

[@sofiasunshine1311]

Listening to you feels like reading a book❤

[@LanaBlakely]

That’s beautiful , thank you

[@jossianbeshai235]

I agree with this video so much and I am indeed a HSP I first realized when I noticed I did not like violence, sensitive to other’s emotions, sometimes feeling over stimulated, getting vivid imaginations and sometimes with my beliefs to like Jesus son of god, and really appreciating beauty. Lana you are so easy to relate to and I love your videos 💕

[@brittanyjohn4577]

are we the same person?? loll

[@bobbyhill8486]

Never have I felt sooooo understood! I’m literally screaming rn at how much I relate to everything

[@marinac.ll.4840]

This was the most beautiful way ever to describe not only yourself, but also HSP. Thank you sm for making this! ❤

[@drabbit61]

I am 62 so it's..50+ years feeling these...differences You expressed, it nicely. Thanks ❤

[@myungssii]

And I thought being sensitive would be something bad. You just gave me a whole different perspective of this topic while describing me also. Thank you for that. I love your page 💕

[@pranavghosh9531]

Others feels the exterior pleasures of life but sensitive people feels the essence of life!...

[@Awhcas]

I am like this. I need to have a routine because i know exactly how I need things for me to have a successful day, and that my day won’t be the same without following my routine. Sometimes it can be overwhelming experiencing such drastic “mood swings” from one little tiny thing upsetting me to one little tiny thing making me the happiest person in the world. I’ve had full crying sessions because I’ve felt so bad for people less fortunate than me who don’t have homes or food, people that I don’t even know. I’ve cried with happy tears at the sight of a cat. I have always been able to put myself in others shoes incredibly easily, and then knowing exactly what they need. Sometimes it feels like I just care too much about everything and everyone when other people don’t care about me the same way. Even people I don’t necessarily like very much, I still care about them and would want to help them. I didn’t know anyone else felt like this, but I’m glad I saw this video

[@maritalma2773]

oh yes. And sometimes it feels like way more than I can handle. I get overwhelmed and just want to cry, but then when I'm sad and on a walk in an attempt to make me feel better, I run into a cat that's extra cuddly and suddenly things are a bit more okay. Or the moon is extra bright, the clouds look like an elephant and the air smells nice. I can't hate anyone, because I understand. I always understand. It's a lot sometimes, but I think in the end it's worth it.

[@Awhcas]

@@maritalma2773 ya I can’t ever hate anybody because automatically I think of all of the things they might be dealing with that would cause them to be the type of person to hate, but then I feel bad for them, and then that reminds me of all of the things other people are dealing with, and I feel bad for them too. Sometimes I can’t ever escape because I just want everybody in the world to be happy but I know I can never do that

[@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving]

Awesome video, Lana. I'll take a highly sensitive person over a non-sensitive person any time!

[@sabrinasmith6556]

Same here!

[@N-HTTi]

Being functional in a dysfunctional world is the curse of the numbed I feel and I feel depleted and my feeling accurately represents my experience To see to feel to touch to appreciate and agonize. What wonderful gifts they are I only wish people can be more sensitive to me instead of labeling me the crazy one

[@vae2real]

i’m very sensitive and i deeply relate to how i am not capable of feeling a little of something

[@LanaBlakely]

I honestly only recently realised this about myself

[@Snailmail1]

@@LanaBlakelydo you mean you don’t get bored with life much? What if I’m the opposite where a lot of things don’t make me happy or excited? Does that mean I wouldn’t be highly sensitive

[@LanaBlakely]

@@Snailmail1 I don’t think you should read into someone else’s experience too much. Everyone is sensitive in different ways. For example, a lot of HSP have difficulty setting boundaries with other people, while I don’t relate to that at all. We’re not all the same!

[@brieschaffer5300]

thank you for this video. I think it helped me see the bright side of being sensitive to the world. I definitely try to hold myself back so that I don't feel things as strongly, which helps prevent the bad feelings but maybe also prevents me from experiencing the "highs" of the world too.

[@ArtishaaNoelle]

This video was just perfect in every way I loved it thank you for clearly understanding us highly sensitive people ❤ I appreciate you ✨

[@LanaBlakely]

I appreciate you too

[@taylora8845]

I can def relate with these examples. The part where clothing tags bother remind me how I find chewing/bubble gum so distracting lol! With my wife as the breadwinner, I find the domestic duties as a house husband so calming as a hsp, (as I get to be alone, & that the fact that I dislike clutter.) 😎

[@bowman-san2681]

OMAGAD, 1:57 YES YES YES I can feel their mood by how they closed the door or how long it took them to take their shoes and coat off, or how they places them on the coach. OMG. I have read in the past that children raised in abusive or toxic household are highly perceptive of the moods of their parents and of tiny details like I mentioned, but I was not raised in such unsafe environment. So I wondered for long why I am the way I am... so sensitive? so emotional... so perceptive of my surroundings, sounds, smells, and moods of other people... Thank you so much for the video. It feels so nice to know I am not alone. I just finished watching, and I wanna add what I can relate to: 4:17 YES, I am really appealed to drugs and alcohol. I drink it for the taste and for curiosity, but I am not addicted, neither am I in need of their effects. YES, going on a hike and being in nature feels so great! I also like just observing nature beauty of life, of real life in nature, not that we have in the megapolis where there is so little nature and birds and animals, just grey concrete, shiny buildings, and loud transports...

[@Ice-ug3ox]

As a male, All my life I've been trying to de sensitize myself.... but once i saw it as a superpower, im more happy...😊

[@nadanada5488]

Ahh i love sensitive man, i just feel they understand girls better

[@chedysouilhi7408]

Sensitive poeple are actually the most caring and affectionate , please try to understand them instead of judging them all the time another great video , im really thankful for your content miss lana it always puts a smile on my face and enlightens me have a great day

[@ana.cruz.]

I can’t stop rewatching this

[@falconprogramminggaming8218]

I have manifested the voracious enigma of words in this quote: "Words are powerful and endorsing creatures. They are silent entities, hiding under the veil of mundane quirks. Yet they are also the sole ambiguous dominators for perpetuity." ~ Me

[@leaodecarvalho4482]

Thanks to your channel cuz you help me better to understand a HSP person, I have a crush on someone who is highly sensitive, and everytime I try to Impress her, it always end up awkward and it often makes her stay away from me, One of her close friend told me that she likes me too, but due to the things above. She often blocked me, I find it hard and overwhelmed. But now I'm more relax, even though, we rarely contact each other, I'm hoping that one day, we'll meet again and I can do better. I like her a lot, because she's calm and smart.

[@khaoulalydia9283]

I thought that sensitivity was holding me back from doing a lot things and struggled a lot because that , people used to call me SENSITIVE and that made me feel so sad I was thinking like I'm that person who focus on every single details how can I even live I tried to change that but I couldn't change anything ... but time made me reallizing that It is something that distinguishes me from others and now I'm satisfied with everything . thank you for the video ❤‍🔥

[@embodiedauthenticity]

What a piece of art this video is! I also highly relate to that heightened level of sensitivity.

[@jimjimmy8990]

Lana, thank u for this video ❤. As sensitive as I used to be, it dawned on me that it's way more relieving not to take things too seriously.

[@indigo_diary]

This was soo beautifully written & filmed 🤍

[@yoshi314]

what i don't like about some HSPs is that they throw around their sensitivity as a weapon : "you cannot say that, because i am HSP, and that hurts me". who knows, maybe i have bad luck with people.

[@OnTheSensitiveSide]

I feel like I’m the only one who always called myself too sensitive. No one else had to do it for me. Ever since, I’ve been reprogramto ming myself to embrace my sensitivity and stop apologizing for being more delicate. This is an artful piece on the beauty of high sensitivity. Thanks for sharing your inspiration 🙃

[@Izzypipsy]

I love this video. I resonate so much with feeling emotions deeply and it can oftentimes make me feel like an outsider but it's nice to know I'm not the only one. This video made me think about the quote "I don't know what it is like to not have deep emotions. Even when I feel nothing, I feel it completely" by Sylvia Plath.

[@93anagirl]

This was so calming and soothing to listen to/watch. I've been very anxious lately and something about this style of video just speaks to my soul and your voice is so calming. Your videography is also beautiful.. it almost felt like a documentary/movie. And yes it's beautiful to feel so much but sometimes very difficult.

[@Karolhaygh]

So relieving to know I am not alone in this world. Thank you Lana, and thank you to every comment down below, I feel understood and loved.

[@SynnoveJamila]

oh! I knew you were in Norway! Perfect place to get overwhelmed by nature's beauty hihi I really appreciated this video, pointing out the beauty of being sensitive. And as you mentioned in the video, it's not always a quality that gets appreciated by other people. Hence, why I've become good at having a straight face when I'm actually feeling a lot inside. I sometimes feel that people won't take me seriously if I show too much emotion, or if I'm too excited about something. Especially in a male-dominated setting and at work. But I'm happy that I have people in my life that appreciate the fact that I care, A LOT.

[@comodemiel]

I’ve always known I’m a HSP but this video just confirmed it for me. Literally everything you’ve said spot on. Ty for being my favorites youtubbie. You make me want to travel the world alone and find myself. ✨✨

[@comodemiel]

Also question, are this dr marten sandals? They seem slimmer and more feminine .. but I’m unsure if it’s because it’s not a close shot of them 😊

[@LanaBlakely]

💕💕 and yes they're dr martens. my most worn shoes for the past 3 summers!

[@AshwiniPreejith]

Thank u soo much for bringing up this topic . I'm a highly sensitive person and could relate to u. Sometimes the smallest criticisms that people say effect me severely. Anyway thank u for this video

[@Stephstar80]

40" in and, I started to cry! It's not easy being like this in, this busy and un empathize world. I can see, hear and feel things, nobody else in my family can and, I'm always called "crazy" or exaggerated! It really hurts most of the time! Before I was diagnosed as a HSP, I really started to belive the words, other people said.

[@thegritsch]

Yep. And you can read people like an open book. Took me a while to learn that many people are not comfortable with that

[@kikiursalone]

I'm the complete opposite but you reminded me of a loved one who passed away so thank you for that! ❤

[@Swastikasarkar-wx2wc]

Lana you make me realise that being a quiet girl who observes everything isn't a bad thing. It's just that I feel a lil bit more than others and never got the one to whom I can open up my feelings and thoughts. All I'm hoping is god will give me a partner with whom I'll feel the most comfortable to share my thoughts 🫶

[@smolsmol1159]

The worst part for me,as a highly sensitive person,is that i also suffer from cptsd and agoraphobia. Cptsd is bad enough,but when youre highly sensitive.....the flashbacks never end.everything triggers me.i got raped and assulted so many times,abused by so many people,even when a loved one changes their tone tawards me when im feeling too emotional i feel like they betrayed me forever,like im getting abused again.like you said,nothing feels "little".i feel too much.all the pain.all the hurt.and when you have past trauma to tie these emotions to,you experiance the endless flashbacks,i feel like no one in this world will ever understand me.i feel like everytime i opened up to someone,its a matter of time before they lose the ability to hold space for my emotions,and instead of saying it gently and kindly,in a mature way of communicating,they go tawards silent treatment,which remindes me more of the abuse and makes me feel so alone in this world. I dont like living in this world when everything hurts.even the good things.i cant enjoy them because i know theyll come to an end too. Im very artistic.i draw,i sing,i olay instruments,i love making gifts for people,when i love someone i love them so deeply im willing to do anything in the name of love.ill write poetry for them.my messages are always long.even now as i write,i cant write "a little".people always say i write too much,its a matter of time before theyre tired of my long text messages,that they dont tell me it bothers them,so they ignore them. I analyze people's behaviors without even wanting to.say someone was more excited and kind tawards me a few months ago,but now theres a slight change,ill be the first to notice.and i will feel like its all my fault.i will panic and fear that now im going to get abused once again.if i ever mention that change,most people arent as sensitive as me,they get mad and gaslight me.they say nothing's changed,but i know what i feel. I hate feeling like someone is not excited about me anymore,but what i hate even more is feeling crazy for having these feelings,cause others never admit them. I think this world doesnt match people like us.i think the world does not have the ability to tolerate a soul like mine.im too much of everything. The good things dont help no more.nobody cares about my art.nobody cares about my love,love is cheap,easy to find in todays world..i mean..not real love,but if everybody loves in such a fake way,theyre gonna be okay with a partner who loves in a fake way as well. I dont find my sensitivity to be helpful.i feel like a victim of my sensitivity.i dont feel like it helps me or others.i dont know if others ever felt like my sensitivity helped them,that being said,maybe they are too in-sensitive to even notice the change between me and people that are not highly sensitive. I wanna feel stable.im tired of being a loner. I recently went on a fb group for highly sensitive people,and posted something,but people were not sensitive at all,i cant even find a community.even sensitive people dont understand me.:( I feel like my existance is pure gaslighting.

[@lily98970]

I just moved back to uni and a big change like that, losing control over a lot of things and life moving too fast and yet somehow too slow is giving me breakdowns per day. Trying to make it work out but to be honest Sometimes It feels impossible. It is a blessing and It is a curse...

[@Sara-zd5tm]

i'm a HSP but i hide it. all the time. because i'm afraid i will be judged or ppl will feel uncomfy or they will dislike me. is this just my anxiety? because i'm tired of this. and lately, i've been feeling lonely. even though i have a loving family, i know i have to be perfect because that's what they expect of me. i just feel like i can't show my sensitivity. what should i do?

[@klaudinegarcia8932]

I feel you!!!!! 😢 I'm very paranoid people won't like me because I've been rejected many times due to my quiet and sensitive personality... My family loves me very much and they accept my quiet side but, not so much my sensitive side... I guess its very hard for them when I'm being sensitive at times 😢.... My parents idea of perfection is for me to be a good, obedient and pure daughter. I think it's because I grew up in a conservative and religious household...

[@Zachiethechan]

@@klaudinegarcia8932 whenever someone dislikes you for being quiet or sensitive it's just the way they see the world. They are the ones missing out on how enjoyable it is to be around quiet/shy people once you get to know them. If you ever need someone to talk to lmk 😜

[@sagarikaghosh1900]

This is the first time I am feeling good about my highly sensitive nature

[@AJSraw]

Sometimes I like to sit alone, speak to myself and admire things in front of me.

[@selmasuleyman9966]

I think i used to be more sensitive but nowadays my mum has been making me less sensitive and “colder” if she was different I probably wouldn’t have needed to “toughen up” to let her not affect me, i hope i can be the same soft sensitive and optimistic person i used to be

[@rojinabaral9369]

Your voice is so calm and soothing💐

[@LanaBlakely]

[@kerrienewton6797]

Tags! Yes! Despise them! Even seeing them stick out of others clothing gets me frazzled.

[@sheila7352]

“tags on clothes are itchy” damn that hits bigtime

[@aizaestebanbinasbas1360]

You are not just a KZbinr, your like a sister, a friend and a sort of therapist. Thanks a lot for this another relatable content, what a relieved knowing that being deep and intuitive is a normal thing its just that we're hsp

[@LanaBlakely]

🥹❤️

[@MaverickJohnson007]

I have no idea how this channel ended up in my feed but I Genuinely enjoyed this.

[@dinahconnell6947]

Being validated and feeling betrayed by family are big big depression point for me. 😢

[@winnyfredxxxx]

I wish there was a book with everything you say in your videos. Your words are so beautiful to listen to ✨

[@malika6713]

Thank you so much for sharing this feeling of being more than ok with sensitivity. I relate to so many things you told. Oh clothes! Yeah, no matter how they are i' ve been always irritated by my clothes and i don't wanna wear them most of the times. When i told it to someone, they didn't understand. As a teenager, even when i painted my nails, they hurt so much i couldn't sleep. I was having a hard time with accepting my sensitivity. Every single person gets it as a weakness, and i end up feeling bad about it, knowing that i can't change a thing... i was considered as an easily-offended, childish, innocent and so on for being like this...Btw, about not getting bored, yeeah! I would sit hours just staring somewhere and enjoying peace and quietness or beauty of nature and i never get bored...anyways, i am saving this video to rewatch, love you❤

[@crystalkauffman3322]

I thought I was the only 1 who had these problems with clothes. Thanks for sympathizing!

[@emadjshah]

My ADHD can definitely relate to this unfortunately, thank you for this Lana 💙

[@avtoportret]

If your ADHD can relate to this you might benefit from discovering autism!

[@Phantom-ez4zv]

what i learned from a life changed experince that changed the course of my life forever, that high senestivity doesnt exist, used to think it exist, but in reality its just lack of exposure or experince to many different part of life, so the cure for it is by accepting everything that happens to you is just part of life, the more you let go the more the body builds up immunity, basically by stoping avoidance to the stuff that makes you senestive, things slow down and theres peace in both chaotic and tranquil places and events situations, those who are senetive havnt lived life, they just build up theories about it.

[@maria-pie]

Ever since I can remember, I was told I was too sensitive. It is only when I moved away, to live indivdually I became a lot more accepting and understanding of myself, and itnstead of getting frusrtraeted to the point of tears, at things, I became a lot more calm. Certain smells or textures annoy me still ,yes, but I also know why. I'm not 'too sensitive, or touchy, or being dramatic', it is just my response, and I've accpeted that. I am now more calm and comfortable within myself, but still get super excited voer the smallest things.

[@poovanna4284]

You're videos has a very different kind feel with you way convey you're thoughts the calmness energy you're bring to the videos is so good

[@LanaBlakely]

thanks so much :)

[@BrownieEXE]

Your voice makes me feel like i'm watching a Psych2Go video. Calm & Soothing

[@youtube_music_lovers]

I'm watching this at 3am and it so soothing. I also resonate with most of what's being said.

[@celestial5036]

I am an HSP but the first part about wearing scented products and clothing with tags isn’t relatable. Like yea tags annoy me but not in a way that would be different from others. In fact I love scents

[@ashishshankar2004]

The urge to be next to you talking life is so much right now I can’t explain

[@VardaanGupta0307]

I feel a lot even of little things whenever someone says something bad it hits in the chest like physical pain

[@JJKcookeryonly]

Being sensitive is actually a habit. You can actually change it and become balance. The more sensitive you are the more you suffer. The key to not being sensitive is not caring, being care free❤

[@jatinsukhija289]

I have similar feeling for nature. But not for people or events.

[@DilCardyn]

As a highly sensitive person, I can totally relate to this! From feeling emotions intensely to needing that much-needed alone time to recharge, being an HSP comes with unique gifts and challenges. Understanding our heightened awareness and deep empathy allows us to foster meaningful connections and appreciate the beauty in the little things. Let's embrace our sensitivity and celebrate the richness it brings to our lives!

[@hankalorinczova]

Today I saw the film Barbie. The first minutes were a great tribute to Stanley Kubrick's 2001, The Space Odyssey. And speaking about the films I believe that you, Lana could be great and extremelly significant, original, fascinating, beautiful, classic, cult director, screenwriter, writer and producer. Watching your videos I realized that even much more. That's all I wanted to write and say. You could really create a history of cinematography.

[@abhishekvarma3529]

Being a HSP can be both a blessing and a curse... Its either OR either everyone affects you to a point you are literally governed by their actions or you transform everyone you come across into an empathetic being

[@hawaiianstarman]

Complete empathy about childhood sensitivity. Took years to unwind the coil of hurt around this sensitive container. As I have worked through this genetic/cultural morass, I have also helped people via bodywork therapy unwind in a similar way. In turn, a reorganizational process leads to a much more fluid human energetic field, of which the body is just one part. It’s a noticeable upgrade. The sensitivity channels fo the body can easily fill up. They’re akin to a sponge. Easily absorbs. When the container is overfilled (can happen quickly depending on circumstances), challenging emotionally-charged occurences can appear quickly. From my observations in session over the years, I have developed ways to help clients strengthen the body’s sensitivity channels. These body and energetic field channels are designed to sense their environment (be it natural, human created, or combined). Not only an alarm system, the sensitive aspects of the human energetic field are a strong catalyst for creative expression. When these channels are in a clear state, creativity and bountiful energy are easily experienced. That’s where bodywork, or other wellness therapies can be of great assistance: helping to strengthen these and other aspects of the human energetic field. A candle cannot light itself. But when it is lit, it’s brilliance is expansive and engaged.

[@iwantabiscuitplz]

As an HSP - YES. We feel everything sooo deeply, from sadness and irritation to being elated by simple things in the world around us. We can feel so much pain from relationships and emotions of others and outselves, but at the same time I love our capacity to appreciate life and things like nature, closeness and humour on a whole other level. It's a curse but also a blessing.

[@stars_at_sunset7011]

I have rarely felt seen and I am happy to say this is one of the beautiful rare times I have. Thank you, thats all I want to say

[@MalinaStarkMusic]

100% relate 🤍 so comforting to know there are people out there feeling exactly the same.

[@-martin-3611]

I don’t know for sure but things you described I don't see characteristic for sensitive people, just for people who are more present in the moment but at the same time not grounded. Like you said “see ordinary thing in an extraordinary way,” for me it's not exactly sensitivity (because sensitivity comes with some kind of weakness) but more like being present for beauty of surroundings

[@quantumrelaxation2199]

I felt so alone. Thank you for describing exactly how I feel.