Things They Don't Tell You About Weddings| Planning, Dowry, Guests FT Tracey Gachie & Dhvani Tombush

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Best Kept Secrets Podcast

Best Kept Secrets Podcast

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@abbynimo1075
@abbynimo1075 10 ай бұрын
I love how Mrs Kagiri expresses herself...so raw and real... she definitely needs her own podcast/youtube😊 would love to hear more from her
@TheLauraThuo
@TheLauraThuo 9 ай бұрын
She actually has a podcast called Too Simple
@bernicerogo9190
@bernicerogo9190 10 ай бұрын
Dhvani's sense of humour on the dowry part about uncles you've never met but show up when your dowry is being paid saying our daughter 😂
@patriciaodhiambo9365
@patriciaodhiambo9365 10 ай бұрын
The way Dhvani talks about Sharon tells a lot about Sharon. Friendship is beautiful
@moureengichuru7085
@moureengichuru7085 10 ай бұрын
Can we talk about Mrs kagiri's skin...its gorgeous!! 😍
@estherwairimu2126
@estherwairimu2126 10 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@missm729
@missm729 9 ай бұрын
I has such a terrible experience, received very little assitance from friends and fam for my dowry ceremony and what i've learnt not everyone will be in the space you are in and its okay. Watching this made me rethink the kind of friends i surround myself with. Please have people who will cross the bridge the same way you would for them.
@Alexis_vee
@Alexis_vee 8 ай бұрын
I'm manifesting Sharon's wedding😊
@hellenseth170
@hellenseth170 10 ай бұрын
Loved the episode, my two cents on dowry payment, it's not "buying " you as you put it. It's basically appreciating your folks for how they raised you and what not. These are our customs and traditions as kenyans, Africans in general. Let's not let the " woke" mindset make us think that traditions are irrelevant because they're not. We should sit down with our grandparents and ask those questions so that you understand why we do things how we do them in our respective traditions as Africans.
@dhvanitombush4469
@dhvanitombush4469 9 ай бұрын
The question then becomes: why not show that appreciation both ways then? The sad reality also is that in some African cultures, when problems arise in marriages, many families raise dowry as a thing they have engaged in that allows certain types of behaviour. As a result, the innocence and beauty behind the tradition is long gone and the cons are what remain; context and dynamism with culture matters as generations grow. Our issues do not arise from 'woke'ness :)
@hellenseth170
@hellenseth170 9 ай бұрын
@@dhvanitombush4469 that is very true as well, however, I still hold my opinion.Thank you for sharing yours.
@hellenseth170
@hellenseth170 9 ай бұрын
@@dhvanitombush4469 just like everything else there are pros and cons to these cultural practices but I completely agree with most of what you've said.
@likanari
@likanari 9 ай бұрын
I agree with you Hellen. This is the only time parents of the bride get appreciated 👍🏼 when one becomes a parent one appreciates this truth more
@AM80series
@AM80series 7 ай бұрын
You mean customs and traditions that were made for men and by men. Many men feel entitled to do whatever they want to their wives because they literally bought them.
@sunset418
@sunset418 9 ай бұрын
I truly needed this. My wedding is next week!!. Thank you Sharon ❤
@estherkazungu2336
@estherkazungu2336 9 ай бұрын
This was so so good gosh! I’ve learnt a lot in retrospect when I see how I went about my wedding and this was much needed. ♥️♥️
@Cecilia4205
@Cecilia4205 9 ай бұрын
Actually people don't know that they can register for marriage at other places other than Nairobi. It's good to start earlier incase of any inconveniences like 2months before. We must publicize the marriage for 21days as per law requirements. You must appear physically for registration both of you. For garden wedding you need a special certificate that's given in Nairobi.
@___luvuno
@___luvuno 10 ай бұрын
I wish there was a part 2 to this😭I really enjoyed the conversation!
@Cate_Kiyeny23
@Cate_Kiyeny23 10 ай бұрын
I am new here. This episode is helpful for those of us thinking of getting married in the coming year. Thank you Sharon for this and thanks to your guests for being honest with us ❤
@lindakimonyi833
@lindakimonyi833 5 ай бұрын
Learned a lot, thanks for sharing your experiences.
@cynthiaKaninu
@cynthiaKaninu 10 ай бұрын
I got married last year we started the planining in April and we were quite chilled and I had no anxiety planning for it whatsover.....I actually went dress shopping 4days to the wedding, left work on Friday midday .....to go for my hair appointment ....Like I was super chilled .....although I thank God for my mum in law coz she cordinated most of the planning for me ....
@rubyabuor646
@rubyabuor646 9 ай бұрын
Get you a Sharon was so sweet 🥹❤❤
@JKalou.
@JKalou. 10 ай бұрын
This episode has come at the right time for me, very insightful. Thank you ladies, for sharing and being real. May your marriages be blessed.
@wachukakamonde935
@wachukakamonde935 10 ай бұрын
This podcast keeps getting better....The choice of guests is sooo top tier💯.....
@ashleymbogo
@ashleymbogo 10 ай бұрын
Wow, this was a very eye-opening conversation but think I might be scared to have a wedding now 😂😂so much pressure and work around it.
@austinpastries1509
@austinpastries1509 10 ай бұрын
I truly love this episode. it's so timely. Thank you Sharon for this episode.
@e.s.t.a.r
@e.s.t.a.r 10 ай бұрын
Love the conversation, Sharon! Thank you Tracey and Dhvani for being vulnerable!
@deotio2768
@deotio2768 9 ай бұрын
I don't care for weddings but this was such a wonderful conversation
@joycemburu8041
@joycemburu8041 10 ай бұрын
This was such an amazing episode! I keep on rewatching the kagiris wedding episode, seems you guys had an amazing day.
@Just.Wairimu
@Just.Wairimu 10 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful episode... perfect guests for this episode...
@Cirukanyoro
@Cirukanyoro 9 ай бұрын
The dowry is also meant to bond the families. Let both sides get to meet and know each other .
@kathy3651
@kathy3651 10 ай бұрын
Beautiful conversations Sharon, Miss Gachie, about the fitting, I am sorry to hear about your fitting experience. As an outsider looking in, you looked absolutely stunning
@WilfridahOkoth-ll8wt
@WilfridahOkoth-ll8wt 9 ай бұрын
Wow just wow❤❤❤
@perryovercommer1562
@perryovercommer1562 10 ай бұрын
I am a terrible people pleaser. I think I will need a wedding planner. 😂😂 Or forego the white wedding altogether. Because weuh..
@hakayi9130
@hakayi9130 10 ай бұрын
My goodness! I need a drink...😂 The thought of planning a wedding has me stressed out already, as a single 🙈😂😂😂
@janetositu8079
@janetositu8079 10 ай бұрын
Same same 😂😂🤭
@hakayi9130
@hakayi9130 10 ай бұрын
@@janetositu8079 my imaginary spouse and I will just elope🤣🤣🤣
@monicahmwai4923
@monicahmwai4923 10 ай бұрын
Am here like... All that stress for a single day😢
@dianagreen1050
@dianagreen1050 10 ай бұрын
Love love this conversation. Such an eye opener. Any gift recommendations from bridesmaid to the couple?
@wambuinderitu2461
@wambuinderitu2461 10 ай бұрын
Hi Sharon, how i wish you could be bringing 2 episodes per week 😢
@belindaakinyi5904
@belindaakinyi5904 10 ай бұрын
I have really enjoyed this episode Sharon
@stacymogire6892
@stacymogire6892 10 ай бұрын
Definitely not ready for this. It's too much😂😅
@NONS1024
@NONS1024 10 ай бұрын
Wow... Absolutely loved my wedding. But the planning wow.. Takes you aback... Wololo.. We had 4 traditional functions and a white wedding in one year. We are still recovering this year. 😂😂 Love love and all it's highs and lows.. Sit and think and plan it ahead, way ahead.. despite what folks want. The economy now is totally different.
@NONS1024
@NONS1024 10 ай бұрын
And start processing your government documents early.. Start 5/6 months before.
@sophiekimathi
@sophiekimathi 10 ай бұрын
the topic is exciting....came at the right time. nikona notebook tayari..
@cecigeno7669
@cecigeno7669 10 ай бұрын
this is a really good episode.
@QueenCiru
@QueenCiru 10 ай бұрын
I really loved the episode❤❤
@W_Her
@W_Her 10 ай бұрын
Truly loved this!❤
@marvynatieno2253
@marvynatieno2253 7 ай бұрын
this was a good one ❤
@olivemutua1775
@olivemutua1775 10 ай бұрын
Loved this conversation😍
@dorryd2769
@dorryd2769 10 ай бұрын
Yoh. This should have come with a trigger warning. All the African parent shenanigans are flooding back 😆
@irenegitonga2712
@irenegitonga2712 10 ай бұрын
Go girl...soo proud of you💯
@Mukami83
@Mukami83 10 ай бұрын
Loved it!!!
@winniemuthoni6822
@winniemuthoni6822 10 ай бұрын
As a young-ish soon bride-to-be this so timely!
@RosaliaShiweva
@RosaliaShiweva 10 ай бұрын
Omg 😳 I can’t imagine me and in that process .
@perisanita
@perisanita 10 ай бұрын
❤Awww I always wanted a Zuhair Murad wedding dress too...
@allthingsrosa
@allthingsrosa 9 ай бұрын
For the govt you cant start way earlie as the time period also lapses and it expires
@cellobeauty6567
@cellobeauty6567 10 ай бұрын
Indian with an Nigerian accent
@bestkeptsecretspod
@bestkeptsecretspod 10 ай бұрын
She’s half Indian, half Nigerian 🙂
@cellobeauty6567
@cellobeauty6567 10 ай бұрын
@@bestkeptsecretspod aaah nice enjoyed it
@tor_p_L_
@tor_p_L_ 10 ай бұрын
Hey 👋🏿 guys, have you heard of the creative society. Would love to be aguest on your show one of these days... I'm a volunteer actively informing Kenyans about it, thanks🙏🏽 #free energy #world unity #freehousing #climatechangesolution #unconditional income $10,000 per month #and much more...
@bigg1091
@bigg1091 10 ай бұрын
Beautiful Sharon, hiyo makeup is a NO 👎
@joykaranja4584
@joykaranja4584 10 ай бұрын
well not all of it, her eyes and eyebrows look pretty.....it's just that hio foundation ama concealer she applied inafanya akue na a dark complexion.
@bestkeptsecretspod
@bestkeptsecretspod 10 ай бұрын
My make up is just fine, how I like it. Thank you 🥰
@valeriecate9235
@valeriecate9235 10 ай бұрын
Her make up is absolutely gorgeous 😍
@bigg1091
@bigg1091 10 ай бұрын
​@@bestkeptsecretspod people who don't take positive criticism are just ugly on the inside 😮
@carolinemukundi4918
@carolinemukundi4918 10 ай бұрын
Sharon looks beautiful❤❤her make up is okay.
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