THINGS WOMEN SAY TO BE NICE, THAT ARE RUDE!

[@Nate-jg2os]

The hypotenuse is wild😂😂

[@oluchiemenyonu]

The screech fuhad made 😂😂😂😂

[@itzf1uffybeatz956]

@@oluchiemenyonu it had him mad for a second 😂

[@lebomakhubedu6376]

I wasn't expecting hypotenuse 😂

[@samminicksm]

1:50 This conversation will always piss me off. 9/10 women aren’t saying they’re small. When we say it’s the right size, we mean it. If it’s too big, it genuinely fucking hurts. Hitting our cervix is literally horrendously painful, and so is stretching to accommodate a super thick one without proper foreplay using either fingers or a toy first. When guys say this, it’s like they want to hear they are hurting us which just makes women more uncomfortable and un-attracted to them. I’ve literally gotten into this argument with a guy before because he asked if he was the biggest I’d ever had, and the truth was no, but he was the best (at the time). He completely glossed over the part where I mentioned I was far more satisfied with him than the other guy and just got hung up on the size thing. No matter how much I told him I couldn’t even enjoy the other guy because it was painful and how I was always down for more with him because it always felt good, He was so deep in his ego he’d rather hurt me and be the biggest than actually be capable of satisfying me like a good partner. It is so fucking annoying.

[@nooneknows19]

I understand the sentiment. Logically what you say is right. Just like how some women like hearing white lies about certain things. Two things you never tell a man are that his thing is the perfect size or that guys with a lot of muscle aren't attractive which is why you like them. As a guy you spend so long obsessing over those things and are so insecure about it, these statements can shatter you. Ik it's not right. But you can't really help it.

[@careycarter]

Girl you are so right! But they love missing the point and only care about having their egos stroked!

[@Stanlos]

Sammi outchere educating the masses❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@meghan8020]

Can’t stress this enough: couldn’t have said it better myself.

[@aleksandraanya9559]

Agreed, it's genuinely unenjoyable when it's too big. It hurts and I get nervous when we're about to do something because I don't like feeling that pain. I can't even understand the logic, because if a guy told me I'm too tight to the point that it gets painful for him, I wouldn't feel good about that, I would actually end up getting in my head and feel like I need to do something about it lmao. Even though we're told it's good if we're tight, there is such a thing as too much. My current bf is actually the perfect size imo, he's not the biggest I've had and he knows that. He actually likes that he's the perfect size, so there are men out there that don't get in their head about that stuff and prefer being the right fit, rather than just "the biggest we've had".

[@MakeWay4CJ]

NOOOOOOO! When a woman says that it's the perfect size, it means that it's not small yet not so big that it's annoying (because that's a thing!) - it's just......PERFECT!

[@nina-w]

exactly. i rolled my eyes when they said that

[@LVL-up-11]

Literally this, bc I’ve ended potential relationships bc they were too much or too little. If it hurts, or is uncomfortable, it’s not enjoyable and and if it’s too small it’s not satisfying. So, if it’s perfect, then take it as a sign we’re loving it. Good sex with a good fit, is important Fr.

[@nusllyamaya1805]

Facts!!! Its true. Am one of those woman. I love the perfect size penis.

[@boliviandimples]

Thank you....and here men want a 10=perfect, and can't understand the perfect size 🙄🤦

[@princessmorgan5444]

I legit tell guys if its over 10 i can’t date them, if it cannot comfortably fit inside me i don’t want it PERIOD.

[@jamahlw]

" I didn't know men needed to read instructions"

[@correenmills3377]

Facts because even I read instructions when I want something done right.

[@sonjamiller8266]

'It's not your fault, it's just the way you were raised'. The number of times I've used this

[@alexandrafarmer5014]

Several times 🤭

[@RedLightz_TV]

What I don’t get is that… it’s true lol If you acting out the way your parents are or how they put you through is just… facts lol

[@DeeVanasco]

@@RedLightz_TVexactly it goes for female and male it’s how it is that’s where most of our trauma and way of thinking comes from 😂

[@nokhie1]

It is what it is😏

[@SlugSage]

Evil 😂

[@deaditeera]

I feel terrible for thinking some of these make sense 😂 It’s also hilarious

[@BbiBbii]

6:00 For the longest time I never realized that hurt guys feelings cause I’ve always said that in DIY situations 😅 “I can call my Dad to do it, don’t stress it.” Is what I said and each time bro got sassy, but my Dad is a maintenance guy who loves building so what am I supposed to do. Watch you sit there and struggle with a tool my Dad can use blindfolded? 😭

[@__itsamiraa]

This is too funny. But as an aside, I’m looking for my Bob the Builder husband

[@LyftraS]

That’s how we feel about y’all with cooking, burning garlic and all that mess? Can’t be bothered with it

[@BbiBbii]

@@LyftraS Can’t say I’ve had that issue personally, with any man or woman I’ve been with, cooking is considered a basic life skill where I’m at 😅

[@chiagoziemikeurulor]

That too, sounds demeaning😂

[@BbiBbii]

@@chiagoziemikeurulor I don’t mean for it to be, I usually say that after they’re noticeably struggling so they don’t get pissy

[@bre9502]

“Lowkey cute” means you are cute I’m kinda shy to say it 😂😂

[@shaspearman8647]

Yes. Why they all sensitive 😂

[@damarisalaman]

Exactly..or if I give a compliment & add “or whatevuh” at the end lol

[@princessmorgan5444]

@@shaspearman8647Nobody knows 😂 they’ll perpetually call Women the emotional gender though.

[@PeaceNStorms]

The woman who was talking about your emotional distance stemming from your parents was really trying to help you. You can heal that now.

[@IamTemiGold]

💯

[@joshrodas5437]

No

[@Larian7]

Just the way you were raised < just insulted your whole blood line lol 😂

[@princessmorgan5444]

What better way to insult an asshole 😂

[@Cantetinza17]

I've had guys say, "That's how you were raised" and "You're low key cute" to me.

[@PlsDontReadThis123]

All scraps no leftovers right there

[@LadyJoolree]

Many men make flippant comments about the bodies of women and girls ALL THE TIME, even in passing to ones they don't know, but women get riddiculed as being oversensitive, emotional or 'can't take a joke'. Its interesting to see men are just as sensitive. Would be nice if everyone just took a beat to be respectful, better explain if their point has been misunderstood, and apologise if feelings have been hurt. Then hopefully people will treat you the same way and respond well when you express your boundaries. Ooorrrrr, people can keep winding each other up until they have to take several seats when they get the inevitable snap back.

[@moniva.m]

Say it louder for the people at the back!!!🗣️🔥🔥🔥

[@princessmorgan5444]

Exactly, i legit stopped being kind to Men because of how apathetic they are; i was always kind or overly kind because of my upbringing. I realized a lot of Men are too misogynistic to be kind to Women with no strings attached, so i just stopped caring and gave basic respect; its a damn shame humans should just be respectful and not be cruel.

[@Muna_413]

I wonder if I've ever unintentionally insulted any guy. I always say, "I'll fix it. My dad taught me."

[@ravenwashington2675]

Same or the follow up with, “i’ll just ask my dad to do it” 😂

[@princessmorgan5444]

Nah i love that, i used to say “My Dad warned me about guys like you”

[@ShannonJohnson-o7i]

Daddy's girls 🎉❤🎉

[@vanessalewis1449]

I’m listening to this and now I realize why men get upset lol! I guess I’m rude lol!!😂

[@LurqN-]

i mean would you see it rude if we said “is it supposed to look like that, in summer?”

[@D123-f9k]

“I love a dad bod” = “I love cellulite” I have heard people say both things sincerely and as a put down

[@Rose-bw5fx]

The way you were raised is just facts!

[@catcameron90]

Saying you don't want us to say it's the perfect size? So you would rather we SAY you're hurting us? Or would you rather BE hurting us? Cuz when its not the right size for us... at best it's uncomfortable but at worst it's painful. Way to say you put your ego above making your woman happy in bed without saying so.

[@kvngslatt_]

uhhh yea?? what’s wrong with saying it hurts? like basic communication literally solves this

[@Muna_413]

​@@kvngslatt_ You missed the point. It just seems that men want to be told that it's too big.

[@chiagoziemikeurulor]

The reason guys hate it is simple. They think you're lying. As far as they're concerned, you're just dying it's too small. Also, I've found out that guys have gotten the idea that they're supposed to have massive dicks that can RIP her apart, if you get what I mean😂 They've literally been brainwashed to believe that women LIKE the pain

[@sena167]

Not every thought you have needs to see the light of day. The way we imagine this scenario happening is this observation comes unprovoked, not from a discussion. If a woman is insecure about something, as silly as it can be, no one would advice a man to comment on it, and when she gets predictably upset by it flip it at her and how her ego is the problem. Turns out humans have egos.

[@perfectchemistry8291]

​@@sena167What women do you know that upset at their features being described as the "perfect size?"

[@D123-f9k]

The hypotenuse triggered a coughing fit 😂

[@wayokify]

"just the way you were raised" boys are raised differently 🤷‍♀ i say it all the time🤣

[@skyecoleman5449]

It takes men 15 minutes to finish. It takes women 15 minutes to warm up. lol

[@Dream-kp7bf]

Yalls egos are so weak... perfect size means u aren't hurting your partner and she is happy and enjoying but y'all only care about your ego and would rather harm her smh

[@princessmorgan5444]

@@samsam-ko3fppelvic exam yikes… yeah that sounds horrendous lol.

[@rohiniguiland4873]

One time I was with my guy and I wanted to go another round of love making. He said he was exhauted. I said ok baby you rest up. He was so offended and was pissed. I mean what did I do wrong here?

[@skyecoleman5449]

He wanted to hear that he wore you out and that you were exhausted. Lol

[@moniva.m]

Ahh, men are actually more complicated than they claim we are fr🤞🏽

[@mufay8032]

lol mines would always ask afterwards if i want water and whenever id say no he'd carry on till i need it. but what skyecoleman5449 said! that part.

[@princessmorgan5444]

I guess he found it condescending, you were just being kind though which sucks.

[@NAL948]

I love that for you is a statement that makes sense. Do you want to be involved in what’s right for everyone? When you know someone’s personality well and you tell them that their idea is perfect for them it’s probably because it aligns with their personality or with something they have mentioned they are interested in. 🙄

[@skyancnikrozinec5647]

i once said to my now husband _ you are just not a technical guy - and i think it hurt him deeply. Because he is, and i told him that i take it back....but i think that my words still dwells in his soul.....we should learn to shut up for once....just because we mean something in that moment we should keep it to ourselves.....words hurt.....even more when they come from someone you love

[@angelbyrd09]

A lot of us do actually like what we say we like. So if we say that we like Dad bods, we like Dad bods. And if a man says he likes wrinkles or something, that's cool too. Everybody has their things

[@averageenjoyer3934]

Instruction manual one would have me livid bro DAMN LOOL

[@lalida6432]

😅 “Do men need to read the instructions?” 😅😅😅

[@marywamaitha6422]

Its the fact that I think have said all of this at one point or the other 😆

[@ScissorN]

Man are soo obsessed with us that every second theres a podcast popping up wanting to discuss while 😊 while we are busy blogging and doing lifestyle content and not giving a damn about them😂

[@princessmorgan5444]

Girlllll this comment is so real, Women started making Male podcasts in retaliation; but most Women just make lifestyle content and i love that for us.

[@hollyarchery]

Yes, please, everyone read the instructions!!! 😁

[@angelbyrd09]

The "it's not your fault, it was the way you were raised" line probably wasn't meant to attack you. I've said it before to my husband and it's because it's true. He had two older brothers that were criminals, and were in prison most of their lives. So he didn't have anyone to look up to and show him how to be a man/husband. So he's just winging it. And let me tell you it's been the most difficult time of my life 😮‍💨

[@withlovebyads]

I pray that he/you both are able to seek help and get through this. It's not his fault how his life started out but hopefully he can take some responsibility (with you by his side) in bettering it ❤🙏🏽

[@shannonkanak4891]

“If you can’t do it I’ll find someone who can. “ … we know what we’re doing lol

[@Ginger_Spicy_Candor]

I don't even like the subject matter they talk about I just like their accents and personalities hahahaha. Keep talking fellas!

[@Tyda777]

PLOT TWIST: 🚺 know it is rude😂

[@ImpureForce]

For 'perfect size' I mean...what would you like to hear? If it's not bigger than average, would you like them to lie and say it's huge? Or if you're smaller than average, would you like them to be honest? 😂 As for 'it's not your fault, In my mind, it refers to patriarchy, toxic masculinity and the way men are raised in our society (not to talk about feelings, guys being players and all macho, subtle sexism, not doing house work etc)

[@ami7873]

I love me a dad body shouldn’t be bad unless you’ve expressed that you’re insecure about your body. My ideal body type for a man is built but soft. That is peak for me so it’s actually a major compliment but I’m sorry to the 2 guys I’ve said that to I guess 😭

[@hustlinhulk]

Sore to the tip Fuhad lolol 😂😂😂😂

[@damarisalaman]

The plot twist: these aren’t things women say to be nice or things they don’t know are rude……………they’re just being honest😂😂😂😂

[@D415h4n34]

6:30 that just sounds like an 80s joke that somebody took serious. 'Oh men dont use the instructions' the way that shit was peddled in the media when i was growing up is wild

[@meghan8020]

I have a theory, that this started when mass produced flat packs became a thing. Like IKEA and what else. Bloke one is there reading instructions to build his missus a flatpack peice of furniture, but the neighbours husband is all rugged lumberjack who builds her something from wood he chopped and processed himself haha It is daft though. It’s almost as dense as if a bloke thought his wife was less of a woman cause she took birthing classes, or struggled to breastfeed or something.

[@nalaa9618]

Men are SO emotional...90% of these things aren´t even rude, just the truth haha

[@SlugSage]

But let a man truthfully call you fat

[@Carole9000]

In my opinion if a girl asked for round 2 it means you didn't finish her off in the first round, sorry not sorry but yall need to do better if thats the case.

[@pamelaflynn1129]

I see it as i really enjoyed that and want some more. I view it as a compliment if he said it to me.

[@Carole9000]

@@pamelaflynn1129 Well that's different, men always get off when they're with women but women don't always get off when they're with men.

[@nameunknown1519]

I wouldn’t want a round 2 if the first round was trash 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Carole9000]

@@nameunknown1519 Good point lol

[@akasha69eyes]

It depends, if the first round was trash and I like the person enough personality wise I'll try and let them redeem themself. If I don't I just say thanks bye and to lose my number. Other times I'm just feral and try to get as many rounds as possible 🤣

[@WholeHeartily]

🙋🏾‍♀️ I DO like dad bods actually! That’s my type! lil hairy, super masculine, big chest, strong arms, broad shoulders, lil beer belly, but not completely out of shape, just… like he eats well and doesn’t take things too seriously. I like beer too! Also, not in the gym very often tbh, so dad bids are the equivalent of whatever I have going on lol. That’s not rude, it’s sincere

[@schnioula]

Gurl, same 😬

[@thrill102]

First of all I always MAKE SURE I tell the guy to READ the instructions. It’s so annoying when they think they “know” what to do and then there’s all these leftover pieces and screws. Like I didn’t spend all this money to have the piece of furniture fall apart tomorrow. READ the instructions!

[@SlugSage]

Women when men have feelings: 😮

[@madein2k5]

at 2:32 i thought for a second James said "he would say" i was about to say explain yourself james lmaoo.

[@tingsisay4790]

Lmaooo i am saying the same thing

[@madein2k5]

@@tingsisay4790 I’m glad I wasn’t alone 😭

[@withlovebyads]

James said "It's a family tree parr." 😅 It be that way sometimes.

[@cori_bri]

If they don’t like “perfect size” just say “oh good it’s not that big!”

[@ChismeAddictFL]

I used to tell my husband and his sisters all the time, its not their fault. As we got older, I have stopped blaming their childhood BUT it was one of the most horrible households of all the people I know in life. They would have been better off in foster care. Idk too many people who can say that.

[@rcchargers]

Well 🤔 this made me realize i need to just stop talking i guess cuz whenever i try to be nice and boost my guy’s ego im just putting him down i guess.

[@jahbrae]

Them paper joints … nah 😂😂😂

[@cweretelnyk]

I'm assuming I'm a little odd, but you'd better consult the instructions. Why would one gender not require assembly instructions? Bizarre.

[@arayofdre]

Wait 😂I say I love that for you and I don’t mean it in a nefarious way at all

[@keahv7900]

Hahahaha not u cut it differently 😂😂

[@Nordia16]

Nothing is wrong with the perfect size!! I'm confused as to why this is rude?

[@Muna_413]

Some men take pride in knowing a woman is in pain.

[@UnKnowmanNumber2]

If you say it's big = you think it's decent If you say it's the perfect size = you think it's small That's the math😂

[@daleciaszerelem9236]

@@UnKnowmanNumber2i see

[@dozergames2395]

​@@Muna_413nah its not that we want to hurt you but it sure can feel like a cop out. Like its not what you really want Like your bank account is the perfect size. Because it wouldnt be better if the bank account was bigger kinda thing

[@TinnaxB]

The ego in men what’s to hear that is almost a Hulk 🤣

[@jessicapeyton5444]

This is soooo funny because we honestly don't see these comments as bad...except the last one, that was meant to be rude in an attempt to get him to do it or make him feel bad for not taking care of it. The INSTRUCTIONS one though?? is just diabolical 💀I get it though because I'm an engineer so I always feel like I shouldn't need the instructions but at the same time I can't NOT read them 😂

[@DuchessChau]

But it’s the prefect size. It’s just right. Why is that bad!?

[@kevinkila9152]

The hypotenuse is crazy

[@gerihall6683]

To be honest, dad's bodies are hot every day. Big muscles=meal prep Sunday. Not Sunday funday.

[@kingpapi163]

As a guy who loves stretch marks, I wonder if women feel the same way they feel about us saying “ I love stretch marks “ as they feel about women saying they love dad bods

[@opippy]

depends on the context and setting...

[@Ian-yf2bd]

My ex always told me he loved my stretchmarks. It didn't feel like he was putting me down but it also didn't feel like this huge compliment. My current boyfriend also always tells me he loves them and sometimes he'll just trace them. But because he takes time to acknowledge them outside of just words, it feels a lot more genuine.

[@racheldavid5086]

The raised one is personal. You’re lowkey cute has two meanings for me either I am too shy or you are not my average type but there is something in you I kinda fancy or you are just a friend.

[@user-rx8no1zt4c]

I’d like to her the entire call and if only it was this easy to sell everyone would do it

[@kamieyonce]

It being the perfect size is not a diss!!

[@Jayj401]

Yoo Wym perfect size 😂😂

[@skyecoleman5449]

Easy. Not too big. Not too small. Doesn’t hurt. You can feel it all. Perfect.

[@brianneml2979]

What? Most women I know complain when men don’t read the instructions… this is a new one to me lol.

[@shenellepemberton]

Their reactions are hilarious!!!

[@Alexamadrexx]

I read some comments about how the boys talked about women. If you are watching often, you can see how they respect everyone. They add a dose of sarcasm and impro in their show. Nothing personal here. For a man, saying is perfect “really means it’s too big”. They don’t see and analyse things like us.

[@jasmineleigh9373]

"mr hammer and nails"

[@drtash21]

Yeah the instructions manual would have me feeling some kinda way. Bruh.

[@youngff6679]

I caught it on the drop😂😂

[@nyya0509]

Crows feet 😂 yall ?!?

[@hustlinhulk]

Sket 😂😂😂😂😂 bet no one heard that from Fuhad to James early out.

[@kerushii868]

Pfft I like how some of these are not insults AT ALL but men either don't understand the context or look too into the meaning and just end up hurting thier own feelings 😂😂

[@Faith-sr8zw]

The Dad bod thing is real but you should never say that to a guy lol

[@TinaHam12]

Fuhad is hot af respectfully

[@tracypeebles9362]

How about that 😂

[@Claudia-yc8xk]

No no but I actually LOVE a dad bod.

[@ladydiamondprisca]

I've been with ny man for 15 years and I still love his belly.

[@republiceviil]

0:15 😂😂😂😂😂☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️😭😭😭😭😭

[@misscali2992]

But I do Iove his dad bod

[@skyecoleman5449]

I prefer the dad bod over the abs. Abs don’t feel great laying on and cuddling with.

[@gabbyseverino9305]

Omg I’ve said “I need a man like you” before but I said it to a mate. So it wasn’t supposed to be insulting. Shit better watch my words next time

[@allchakrasopen387]

Some men absolutely NEED to hear some (not all) of these. Sometimes its necessary to put ego, emotions and pride aside and really listen. Women cant continue to get beat down by sexist and offensive comments and handling it like big girls to protect your egos and pride 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@marilynseptember21]

I have said a lot of this and yes, we are being nice. The Hypotenuse though is something else. Did you go to a different barber.....

[@korqui.p]

Some women are attracted to stocky men. Maybe dad bod is the wrong way to phrase it tho lol

[@hustlinhulk]

Far from Solid 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@hendrick32]

Wooowwww I’ve definitely been rude before 😬🫢 oops

[@KhadijahsMamma]

4:21 😂

[@FinestMumu]

“Perfect size” means you fill it up…perfectly... Means it’s like a lock and key. I don’t understand do men want to cause women physical discomfort and pain during?! Y’all sick.

[@butterflyunicorn3499]

Dad bod are sexy tho😍

[@reaperwhite5730]

They know its rude. Its why they said it.

[@reaperwhite5730]

@@NiEalterest for it to be backhanded is the definition of being rude. I think it may sound nice to people who dont understand that, but i like to give people more credit than that. But more often than not people lack accountability, so they say rude things in a subtle way expecting for others not to pick up on it and escape accountability. But youre right both men and women are guilty of it but i think its more common with women. Men mostly ghost, or go along with the game until theyre done.

[@reaperwhite5730]

Maybe you're right. Everybody different. And even though they may do the same things everybody's got a different reason for doing them

[@reneehall7227]

Whos going to tell them us women know saying these things is rude...and we do it...anyways HEHEHE

[@keahv7900]

Hahaha this is easy stuff hahaha

[@Jaaamo]

Love it

[@jeremiahshaw1601]

obtuse ting is mad, couldn't look at a mirror

[@shadesofkayb4886]

The 3rd one is real not rude. 💁🏾‍♀️

[@PinkytipsByAstride]

So don’t be honest?

[@PinkytipsByAstride]

But I get it for men 😂😂😂 Sorry 😩

[@SlugSage]

Tell me beautiful lies😊

[@aniak.8604]

Tbh when I’m seeing someone from a completely different culture I try to have empathy and understanding that he will see or do or think something differently bc of his upbringing. I truly believe my ex is fixated on reproduction and MUST HAVE kids because in his culture everyone has loads of kids and his family always pushes on everyone to have a lot of children. If he was raised in more liberal household I probably would still be with him and he’d be ok with not having children.

[@chanoy._v8758]

There is a difference between NOT having children and having like, TWO. In any case it’s great that you both had that conversation before taking children into the world or “choosing” not to have any at all while being in a committed relationship.

[@aniak.8604]

@@chanoy._v8758 yeah I don't like and want any kids in my life. If he was raised in a family that wasn't putting in his head every day that he must reproduce, we could have had a beautiful life together.

[@user-fo8dw1mo7u]

Y’all are so sensitive

[@LLawrah]

Fuhad. . . .you kinda have a dad bod tho 🙂

[@yota8325]

How can you tell under that buggy jumper

[@LLawrah]

@@yota8325 I’ve seen his ig. He’s thick 🤤

[@shen775]

He doesn’t

[@vickylovega23]

❤

[@akiaadams5399]

WHY WHY WHY IS THE MALE EGO SOOOO BIG AND SO FRAIL!! Damn smh