things you shouldn't never tell anyone

[@katbow5922]

Agreed !! Even the best of friends can become your enemy

[@Certez2]

Maybe "the best" yes, but not "the true" one

[@katbow5922]

@@Certez2 I agree....true friends are hard to come by

[@estrelltungpalan7629]

Agreed..I had my experience very bad so much inggit na Kabayan at kabatch ko pa.God bless them and me LORD.Not only one but many of them.🙏

[@Sharon-fw9qw]

That's for sure!!

[@thyralmcrae7770]

Fact

[@MrWarriorsMom]

I'm guilty of it. I trust too much and tell them everything.

[@GeneralTortlittle]

Me too bro, I'm trying to stop it

[@user-nm8iq9us9o]

Lol guilty

[@donna6165]

Restraint makes me feel so powerful. ❤

[@fruitypopwhickle6806]

Yep. You're doing it now...

[@kaosaefong2270]

guilty as " charge! 😅

[@kimlogan1278]

2 things I TOTALLY agree with. Never tell anyone about your finances. You could be putting yourself in harm's way.

[@anonaka131]

You can't hide your millions!

[@phululwaphungwayo5152]

"Harm's way!?" How so? I need further clarification...😢

[@solomonchau7725]

​@@phululwaphungwayo5152If they know you have money or good job, scammers will keep trying to contact you via phone, cross connecting, text, What's App, Telegram, social engineering, gaining your trust, grooming, romance scam, sexstortion, kid napping, fake napping, misleading job leads, randsome, phishing emails, cold calls, or just trying to snipe you in broad daylight like Donald Trump.

[@deed3583]

That's one thing

[@PSYCHIC_PSYCHO]

@@anonaka131It is possible to hide one's wealth from friends; I am not flash, I don't wear expensive jewellery, only have one item of jewellery, a chunky sterling silver ring, with a large Emerald stone. I don't wear designer clothes or accessories, I don't look stylish.

[@JackTekkel]

Speaking is silver, keeping your mouth shut is Gold...

[@normathompson5743]

😊 AMEN

[@ROS14075]

I like that saying 😊

[@EternalNero]

Interesting saying, yet I find no practical use in reality, I have neither gold nor silver and when everyone is happily talking and I am there to try "respect my stoicism" I feel alone Nothing good in such a feeling, I prefer being silent when there's nothing good to say, as long as I can make my friends laugh and love, that is one part I will use rarely, and probably never comprehend

[@user-zw9ki6lk5t]

Remember the same people who can be your friends have the dual ability to be your enemies as well

[@EternalNero]

Is that really a wise saying? Then I must be smart because my mind sees such as basics Have a like

[@YoutubeSucks-x5q]

They take our plans and dreams away when we tell our plans or dreams.

[@monicanorman4681]

Yes

[@Michelle.Wilson]

For sure

[@D2255]

They literally speak it out of existence when you speak it in( behind your back) Life and death in the tongue

[@user-qg7xb9pk5x]

💯​@@D2255

[@Nzeru-ey1sh]

​@@D2255 exactly.

[@sandburgmartin7947]

In this new age of entitlement, envy, and selfishness one needs to know there are many "frenemies" waiting to step on you to look taller.

[@stacielivinthedream8510]

Tall-Poppy syndrome!

[@donna6165]

Envy…No one talks about it. Except Robert Green.

[@Jonas_Albert]

CHRIST IS KING!!!❤❤❤✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ TURN TO CHRIST, OUR ONE, AND ONLY LORD, SAVIOUR, AND GOD, AND TURN AWAY FROM YOUR SINS!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ IN JESUS CHRISTS HOLY NAME I PRAY THAT YOU TURN TO CHRIST, AMEN!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@R73949]

That's why i don't make friends at all.

[@user-ty2xv6xw8j]

I made the mistake of sharing when my husband recently passed away only to be ripped off, taken advantage of, and victimized. I learned that the hard way. Cut several ppl out of my life. 😢😢😮❤

[@georgevavoulis4758]

I never tell anybody 1-Love life ,who you're dating or involved with 2- finances as money make people envious 3-political views on things 4-future plans

[@pinkifloyd7867]

I tell myself everything and thats good enough 😊

[@michaelkrull3331]

5. Religion, or lack thereof

[@lukewilliams7020]

What do you talk about then

[@mycouture1922]

​@@lukewilliams7020 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 THA.....WEATHER !!!!!! TV - SHOWS !!!!!!!! CARS !!!!! CLOTHES !!!!!! SOMETIMES - NOTHING !!!!!!!!

[@Anonymous-tx6ef]

​​@@michaelkrull3331you are definitely not a Christian or Jehovah witness. I'm not judging you.

[@Peter-gv6vf]

I was brought up to believe never tell a friend a secret so you cant fear him if he becomes your enemy.

[@Stoicphilosopherinsights]

💯💯💯

[@rexluminus9867]

Unconsciously, someone can sabotage your success!!! Willingly or unwillingly, too. Be very careful!😮

[@jooje100]

Should never, or, shouldn’t ever! Not shouldn’t never!

[@bambina3148]

Yep

[@wattycuffee5664]

Yup, double negative.

[@kathymayes4290]

Drives me mad, all the grammatical errors nowadays.

[@Nosferata138]

Now you went all triple negative. I don't know what to think anymore...

[@coldspell8676]

Now you shouldn’t never say nutin bout dat, ya hear 👂

[@leoninebenit2595]

I agree! Loose lips sinks ships!😅

[@Trac82]

Yes, they do. There's always one or two in a family that have just that.

[@neurogenesis9179]

This was the perfect voice for the narration. It makes it more serious

[@maclac48]

I can relate to what is being said here, & it’s something that I practice regularly. I like to keep my business between me, & the Lord. Everyone doesn’t have your best intentions at heart, & do not want to see me succeed, & they definitely don’t want to see me doing better than what they’re doing. I pray for these competing individuals. 🙏🏿

[@karinodendaal5277]

I agree we need to be careful with whom we share

[@maygrantz4426]

Specially in social media..

[@carriearmstrong7939]

Yup! Move in silence ❤❤.. Amen!

[@elenitapangilinan2975]

Yes,I learned from it. Unknown enemies attacked.

[@patrickchineduikogwe4075]

From personal expieriences,it is very very true. How I wish I knew aboit Stoicism 40 years ago.Thanks a lot.

[@Indigochildwithin]

Patrick..me too,I have always been a chatty Kathy,shared everything to anyone that asked me. Now I keep certain things very close to my chest....if I say anything...its because I want them to know...😅😅 youbtibkniĵ7h97gĝ

[@TC-1985]

Same Here..I Wish I Knew This 40 Years Ago Also...

[@pamelarussell3794]

IT'S OKAY WE'RE HERE TO LIVE AND LEARN CHALK IT ALL TO YOUR GROWTH ❤

[@emilianocatapang8880]

As an introvert, I always keep it secret to myself so that they don't know what my next moves are😅 "TRUST NO ONE" is the ultimate rule, for me😅😊

[@TheyCallMe_TC]

💎

[@indridcold8433]

@@emilianocatapang8880 Trust no one. Depend on nobody. Keep a well defined distance from everyone, and you will be healthier, smarter, far more self-reliant, truely independent and more free than any social person could ever hope to be. In the past, if one was not social, you were destined for a short life. Today, being social is what shortens your life dramatically. It is very unhealthy and dangerous, as compared to isolation. Keep your enemies far and your, "friends," further. If you can avoid making both, you will live a long, prosperous life.

[@emilianocatapang8880]

Absolutely right. In my past experience, I used to trust people so easily thats why I always got hurt. Being kind and too nice to them is what I always do for I know that that's the right thing to do but I realized that doing that will never be enough so I started to isolate myself from people. I set boundaries for everyone especially those "toxic entity"😂😂😂

[@emilianocatapang8880]

I realized that when we get older, the more that we just wanting to be at peace and doesn't need to please everyone. Live by our own rules, as long as we don't harm anyone ❤️❤️❤️

[@magicalindigoadult3838]

That hurts keeping it in I wa t support a d I know u do to people that don’t share look trapped and sad

[@MI6-W]

Proverbs 16:28 (NKJV) A perverse man sows strife, And a whisperer separates the best of friends.

[@asmith8898]

...kind of like expecting the NKJV to not dilute the word of God.

[@dalehood1846]

@asmith,. Some Versions of The Bible are easier to read for some people than others. I have read King James and NIV versions. I went back to King James version when I found out missing verses in NIV. For me, I prefer it.

[@asmith8898]

@@dalehood1846 it's all english. If one cannot understand kjv then they will never understand the things they need to. People who are slow just need to overcome being slow

[@lesleysears9808]

@@asmith8898What the F are you talking about people can never understand unless they bla bla bla. Makes me assume that you under estimate that there are many intelligent people that can understand something if you can. You are arrogant and stupid to think otherwise.

[@ingridbergman-vz7go]

Totally agree. This is the exact advice I give the young ones in my family.

[@CrystalCollector-g4n]

The best guru mantra is: never tell anyone your secrets. It will destroy you one day

[@EternalNero]

That's a bit sad though, it's like expecting problems, alas... Such is today's reality I can admit being too naive, seeing the world in a light, which it never truly reflected back

[@motormouthalmighty]

that voice is so serious and frightening!

[@joelfrombethlehem]

A. I. (Artificial Intellengence)

[@JasonMarano]

Teach u a lesson

[@motormouthalmighty]

@@JasonMarano lessons?that's the only problem.we never learn do we?

[@naturalbeauty4734]

🤣😂👏

[@arthurgames9610]

My father always told me the 2nd one. He himself always pretends to have way less money than he actually have for anyone else.

[@MelanieFeehan144]

A friend today may not be the friend tomorrow.🛡️©️💯⚓🤔🦉

[@carolmack1751]

Exactly correct I learned my lesson

[@Nzeru-ey1sh]

I have that feeling when with my friend. Keeping the friendship until stripped.

[@Stoicphilosopherinsights]

Fact 💯

[@Bkmdluli]

@@carolmack1751 That's why I have no friends anymore, got rid of them. Lessons learnt

[@LilAbum742]

There's a few things I wish I hadn't told anyone about but I have to admit that I've been privileged for sharing with a friend that I have to wear nappies and he has shared his own personal experiences with pooping himself every time he has done so and has said that he really appreciates the fact that he has someone who understands and wouldn't tell anyone else which makes me feel rather special

[@yellowguy4004]

Things you should never tell anyone. Not a damn thing. Trust no one period.

[@ColleenLytle-sq8tx]

It's taken me 68 years, but I've learned to trust - it has to be by watching their behavior over time. I pay attention (not to what they say) to how they show up. Be careful with whom you share yourself with, especially financially - that's what the stinkers are aiming for. The consequences of not paying attention could cost you everything.

[@lindas343]

@yellowguy. Yeah that's me as well. I trust no one.

[@KPark-hn8jf]

Can you tell me this though??. Are you really yellow?!.

[@viqtorchewinner]

What a lonely life

[@IamParalegal]

That’s actually Scriptural.

[@MoonPhaze5]

"Discretion shall preserve thee, understanding shall keep thee:" Proverbs 2:11 KJV

[@Nizzle69]

a true friend listens and encourages you.

[@Mihi_Dana-z2x]

Dont encourage wrongs also.

[@EternalNero]

Haven't had too many of those, alas those few I have had were invaluable... May they rest well

[@TC-1985]

I've Learned This The Hard Way As Well .

[@deborahjane68]

Me Too

[@jthacker3585]

Very True. At times those we call friends turn out to be an unfriendly friend masquerading as a friend. Sure, carefulness is the key.

[@oldmate9650]

I wish my grandma was still here to show her this. I let her down because I trusted my uncle. The unknown enemy

[@ssmoothe2000]

So stay to yourself. 😂😂 noted.

[@mrpink6022]

KEEP YOUR FRIENDS CLOSE AND YOUR ENEMIES CLOSER........

[@lynroyfrederick8928]

So true Never Tell anyone about your personal Thigs That's why I drop all FRIENDSHIP.

[@stilesjohnson1745]

A friend today can be an enemy tomorrow.

[@shonevans2563]

So can family who do ya trust 😅

[@stilesjohnson1745]

@@shonevans2563 No one

[@kristofertogun9688]

ABSOLUTELY DISCRETION IS THE BETTER PART OF VALOR

[@jewelljoyner3723]

Very true I had a friend asked me how much you have in the bank. Butt, never told me how much he has in the bank.

[@ArnoldTupas-oc3bk]

I am guilty of it. I was robbed of the best opportunities that came my way. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

[@Stoicphilosopherinsights]

Another better opportunity will come but this time you are wiser. Guide it jealousy 👌

[@yolandaz2706]

Excellent advice🙏 Thank you & God bless you for posting🙏💜🙏💜🙏

[@gulamahmed4773]

Learned 😂 this the hard way

[@dougbrown7023]

Same as of only yesterday. Person I thought I could trust decided that it was their job to speak to someone on my behalf 😮😢. They only stirred the pot and spread discourse and strife instead of letting me speak to the person myself in love and wisdom. I forgave them but will be guarded from now on. Happy 4th of July everyone. Have an awesome day and may God bless you

[@GameN3rdz]

​@@dougbrown7023👌🏿

[@desiree6256]

But yet you STILL do tell and teach so THANK YOU FOR THAT 😌

[@DragonGoddess18]

This is pretty sound advice I hope more people will hear this

[@emmettmckenna4565]

You shouldn’t never use a double negative!!! 😂

[@notesencantos]

I was wondering what they mean by shouldn't never. That you actually should?

[@pardonmyfrench4760]

The fact that so few people are catching this worries me...

[@epifanioesmero536]

Friends are future enemies!!😅

[@R73949]

But some idiots need lessons so they can understand

[@mehere337]

These men all look very STOIC!

[@twilighttime952]

The use of the double negative is doing my head in.

[@ceceoo3]

Yes! I had to get past that before watching the video😂 but I'm glad I did. .......they need to fix it though lol

[@chriper77]

Actually, 'things you shouldn't never tell anyone' - actually means things you should tell people. It cancels itself out. It should be 'shouldn't ever' lol

[@pardonmyfrench4760]

Haha beat me to it! It's so funny when people try to be smart and enlightening, but little things like this makes everyone laugh at them

[@clevelandsavage]

You shouldn't have told anyone about that, now they're going to use it against you.

[@deed3583]

Thank you! Thought I was the only one

[@sportzrunner]

Having studied psychology and sports medicine I can help people by combining them with nutrition to balance their bodies. This is what I do as I feel it’s what I’ve spent many years learning and it’s only right to share it. I only do it when I feel I have experience to help. I enjoy helping but thats my extent I used to be very private but after having identity theft for the past few years do I have any privacy anymore? But it don’t mean to make it worse either. Personal ideas and plans should be kept shared with only those you trust and for me I’ve been cyber stocked for a gray number of years so there goes that. But finally it all has to end sometime! KABOOM! 😊

[@pardonmyfrench4760]

Sure, you studied something, lots of people study things. But do you hold any credential that says you understand and demonstrate mastery of said content?

[@closedaccount3441]

Shouldn't never means "should" tell...

[@greyberet1]

And (to me, anyway lol😊) implies that one should always tell whatever… Depending upon how literal the reader gets… The idea of a double negative becomes an exhortation in the positive…grade school grammar 😆.

[@lesleysears9808]

Agreed.

[@gerrimiller3491]

Observing more than discussing personal matters means keeping your peace😊

[@KalyaniKoppala]

Yes exactly 💯 percentage of correct advice 🙏🙏🙇

[@ev.adelemandagie4589]

I have been open to everyone all my life. This is good advice.

[@katferguson]

There's many a true crime stories of murder when others learn of someone's finances.

[@prameelarajakumaridasari3142]

This was the perfect voice for the naration . It makes it more serious 🙏.

[@KristinaBergkvìst]

All this very true. Thanks..🦉🦅🦅🦅 .

[@stevenmorganofficial5696]

Thanks for the information 💯

[@bettiewalston764]

Thank you GOD AMEN 🙏🙏🙏

[@kingtank4679]

THE" BEGINNING" IS MOST DEFINITELY!!! THE" TRUTH!!! PERIOD!! 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@drewskiwest5284]

SO TRUE about NEVER SHARING FUTURE PLANS because literally E V E R Y single time I've shared my "plans" about ANYTHING, something has gotten in the way - not someone but the universe flat out caused those plans to NEVER happen.

[@user-ph4ct5iv9q]

Truth is Truth FOREVERMORE

[@MalkuthEmperor]

Its poetic and i like it, but its totological ( which isnt bad, just its circular so it doesnt offer us what truth is) A tree a tree forevermore xd

[@NanaBanana-bb9wc]

Thank you, very great things I learned the hard way ❤

[@MalkuthEmperor]

Thing with future plans is that some of us( me) tend to not want to do the plan of i share it most of the time, idk why tbh, it just becomes that much less motivating to me, i heard huberman talk about how talking about plans secretes the same dopamin that youd get then you were actually doing the goal, but thats as much as i remember and understand from that explanation. Exceptions to this are, plans with people im actually working with, and telling people the imediate next steps of the plan. So if i tell someone my next two steps it wont be a problem, but if i tell them the final outcome i want to attain, than is when motivation drops. Tho even if im working with someone, it can sometimes become a problem, especially if the other person needs be get motivated by me but doesnt also try to motivate me . By motivate i mean, making progress by themselves, and then asking for me to either give me feedback, and to continue building off of what we have, or i suppose to brainstorm if we just started. Thats about as much as i need to get motivated, yet what i find disapointing is that that is rarely dont by people i work on side projects with. But lets not get in to my complaining😂 Have a good day

[@lunaluna5815]

love life. income. next move.

[@user-lf7fd6mp4r]

YES ITS SO TRUE, AMEN, YES THANK YOU FOR THIS LESSONS WE HAVE TO LEARN, AMEN 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Anta2790]

Absolutely positive communication 💯💯💯💯💯🎯‼️

[@N.gVanUytrecht]

I Strongly Agree With This, Thankyou Sourse For Your Wisdom Amen

[@natalieclairezaloumis2174]

May discernment & discretion be a strength in my life LORD ❤

[@dereckmearns4596]

Absolutly correct.

[@hairlessharescrambler56]

He forgot the most important thing to never tell anyone nowadays "I do"

[@derricksmith3614]

The 🐟 who never bite the 🪝 never gets caught!

[@AworotiJan]

I am guilty of My self. I have been robbed in my hold been.thank you for the education may God bless you.

[@LaDonnaShielded-kc7zm]

Shouldn't never is a double negative

[@yukiannie666]

infairness...following tips from videos like this really improved my life 💖💖💖💖💖

[@Stoicphilosopherinsights]

👌🙏

[@shantemoore6265]

Noted. Number one has been my experience. ✅️

[@Vishfeast]

It's important to remember that people will value gossip and spill the tea on your personal life, just for the fact to fit in. You should not keep all of your plans to yourself, but learn to find people who have honor and cherish your friendship. If you never bounce ideas off people without experience, you may set up unrealistic expectations and set yourself up for disaster.

[@son2495]

Couldn’t be more accurate 🙌 learning after decades of sabotage ❤🙏

[@lindam.2739]

Absolutely Correct....it's called WISDOM!

[@lindam.2739]

And I may send these EXCELLENT Stoicism videos to Pres TRUMP ASAP. 😊

[@lewissearson5760]

(shouldn’t never?) either put (should never) or (should not ever) such wisdom

[@lesleysears9808]

This is understood easily even if you don’t think it fits certain grammatical standards it still makes complete sense although a little verbose.

[@kabontsimorekisi6136]

100% true 👌👌thanks for the information . Dear God help us to be aware every time to protect what's happening in our lives so that our future plans, financial information etc may not fall on the hands of wrong people and it will be known by others. Help us my Lord to be very careful in everything in Jesus mighty name I pray AMEN ❤🙏🙏

[@Stoicphilosopherinsights]

🙏🙏🙏

[@dayanNFNF]

Im 23 n fr I experience this thing even there r some persons who r thief of future dream it's definitely true unless ur make it never tell our plans do it let they watch it

[@HeKnowsEverything]

Truer words have never been spoken 👏🏾 🙌🏾 💯!

[@user-bp3wu4uf2m]

Surely, perfectly said 🏅

[@karas.6438]

Couldn't agree more. The second you get into an argument is when it's used against you or try to destroy your plans. You never can be 100% about the ppl in your life. Look at families that fall apart over wills & financial gain from the loss of a loved one.

[@maishabora5639]

You also shouldn't never listen to anyone that wants to give you advice without understanding proper grammar. Just so you know it's things you should never tell anyone.

[@Stoicphilosopherinsights]

😎🤝

[@user-zo4vm3yy9m]

I would rather leave someone wondering than knowing. 😊Silence is Golden.

[@Stoicphilosopherinsights]

👍👌

[@CaryFenelon]

A double negative is confusing. Do we or don't we?

[@pardonmyfrench4760]

I think he wants us to tell everyone this list of things...?

[@lizmortensenmortensen149]

So true thankyou for sharing this information with us all ❤❤

[@whiterodman]

I'm guilty. I'm getting better since I've started studying stoicism.

[@nicoldavis-johnson7080]

Thank you for sharing this information. Something that needs to be heard.

[@tanishamcdonala3181]

the wealth of the wicked laid up fit the justice bless the chosen ones reacting amen hallelujah hallelujah amen hallelujah glory yes lord thanks lord hallelujah! my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge amen

[@myrabyrd3522]

I learned that the hard way!!! BUT GOD‼️thank you Father!!! For Wisdom, Knowledge and Understanding🤗💝🕊💝MB

[@markdemo6814]

All of MY plans are always gone wrong. Do you want to make God laugh, tell Him YOU'RE Plans 😂 God bless 🙌 🙏 ❤️

[@Rondondemarco]

FACTS

[@angieford6012]

I am such an open book, the leeches all come out of the wood work when I am excited about all the things you explained that has happened to me!..learning my lesson though, thankyou to your explanation.....👍💝

[@ofeliagobangco6925]

Yes, thank you for sharing

[@edwardEyap]

YES, Sir...I thank you for that Great advise.💝

[@bienzelynalquiza6086]

As an IGLESIA NI CRISTO we're already taught on how to escaped from things which is against the will of our ALMIGHTY GOD. We're to careful on our own personality not to be influenced from any bad acts. Besides we have no one to hide pertaining to ourselves. We don't.hide anything from our friends or enemies. What we know if it is ours must be protected. And we wouldn't allows anyone to get it from us. We only TRUST to GOD pertaining to our lives. What is important to us are the RULES written in the BIBLE through our SAVIOR JESUS'CHRIST.

[@ronnie_5150]

Remember, people you work with are not your friends.

[@Rondondemarco]

This is major truth

[@abigailbosibori2510]

Very very very true

[@MaileKeliihoomalu]

“My ❤on my sleeve” … yep , it’s been me. I gotta be more aware of who I’m talking with for I’ve shared my life to people who only meant harm … Bob Marley quote: cowardliness of a man is to awaken the love of a woman with No in tensions of Ever loving her…😢

[@MaileKeliihoomalu]

Mahalo nui loa for your recognition . I’d like to request if you will the late great Bob Marley and or late great Maya Angelo! Aloha ! Love, MaileGirl

[@christiebender968]

Never tell anybody everything keep it to my self

[@user-zm1ql1gv6w]

Silence is golden and I learned the worse lessons from running my mouth trusting too much love and blessings to you❤

[@user-xo3kr5yd1p]

❤😊👏😇🙏 Amen and Amen

[@MalkuthEmperor]

A man, and a man, walk into a chirch..😅