Thinking In Your Favor Should Be The Normalized Standard

[@jillkx]

Confidence and self love is key. Literally. Focus on you, maybe even stop affirming for your desires all together bc you deserve them, no need to chase them. Magnetise things towards you. You’re the prize. Make YOU your main priority and your relaxed state. Think in your favour and do it in a way that still feels ok for you without crazy resistance. E.g. instead of saying ”I‘m always so loved“, tell yourself ”I deserve to be loved.“ or ”I‘m learning that I am deserving of love“ etc. Just shift your mindset to a more positive side and most importantly, prioritise how you feel! You. Are. The. Priority. Not your SP, not your desires. Stuff will come to you, effortlessly, once you start loving yourself. Much love to everyone 🌸

[@IAm_DylanJames]

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[@RandomthoughtswithKay]

Thank you for sharing that!❤

[@jillkx]

@@RandomthoughtswithKay You’re welcome! 💜

[@LouC2chi]

Yessss!!! 👸

[@jilliannlove5871]

Amen. Absolutely.🙌🏽💖

[@racheIbane]

i used to be so terrified of putting me on the pedestal and refused to but truly, me on the pedestal is the best decision i’ve ever made 💓

[@Ayannafromoakland]

I sooo appreciate this message. Like how brainwashed are we?? Why is it the norm to ALWAYS live in doubt 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Nbx3]

I agree. It is so “weird” to me that expecting the worst or just saying “I hope it works out” is the norm. IM the delusional one when I say everything is gonna be great?

[@Nbx3]

I usually tell people it will work out and 99% of people say “I HOPE xyz” the word “hope” is so irritating when you know law of assumption and manifestation etc. I cringe when I catch myself saying “hope” 😂

[@Westside444]

u are even delusional if u think negatively it’s the same like positiv thinking there is just your imagination as the only reality your 3D is just a projection of your imagination (Delusional Thinking)

[@SwearWerdDebris]

Right?? It gets on my nerves too😂but the way i look at it, is that person(or me if I would catch myself saying it lol) is still evolving their mindset for the better, because hope is the bridge between disbelief and full belief@@Nbx3

[@zzzwayup]

I love this comment

[@Nbx3]

@@zzzwayup 😊

[@sooticablue1664]

I just wanted to say, as a woman, 51 years old, how much you care genuinely about women, and I don't mean you don't care about everyone, I just mean, i see and feel how much you truly understand and feel and care about women and the pain they go through, (I know we all go though pain, I have a son but there is a particular pain and and vulnerability which I know you just somehow see) how much you have empowered women and are genuinely rooting for us make us know we are seen, I'm actually crying right now. I don't even know you and yet it's something I've never experienced from a man in my life, Yet! It's on it's way. Thank you for everything Dylan.

[@IAm_DylanJames]

*hug* thank you for sharing. I do really care! And I see a lot, I think I also have a level of perspective too because I am gay so I date men. Everyone goes through things and mindset applies to both men and women, but I think a lot of what’s going on right now… women need to be seen and supported. It’s something I’m very passionate about and I’m happy my genuine nature translates. Thank you for sharing this, really 🥹

[@goddessvibes2345]

I remember a time when life was difficult for me. When anxiety would strike me at night, I found comfort in watching Dylan’s videos. I’ve come along way since then and I’m grateful for this man ❤

[@annabarone8727]

Thinking negative never gives u anything good

[@jonaralmartin6892]

It’s funny because when I met my boyfriend- I knew I had attracted him. After a few weeks of dating, I told him I wrote down that I wanted someone #1 beautiful (and he is gorgeous), #2 someone who has my back, #3 someone who is culturally competent, etc..… I wrote down eleven things, and he is all of them; of course, I told him I manifested him😂😂😂😂

[@CRISTINAGABRIELA-ck2td]

And what did he reply😂

[@Trust1111Believe]

😂😂😂he said if they think it’s bad, look at what they got going on in their life……💯💯💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯that’s real

[@Erin_KatTatTat]

I had to laugh at that because I've been saying in my head regarding this same thing, "And how's YOUR life going for you?" 🙃 Like I'm on top of the world feeling great about my life, and it's just getting better because of it. I think this is a beautiful way of living.

[@BB-li1wv]

I had just read something that said “forgiveness is the ability to assume the best of someone going forward” and then i see this video! Definitely going to put this into practice

[@nomblej]

PERIODT! Never let anyone tell you what you can and can’t have ‼️🫡

[@ZacandDora]

I really neee this on loop ➰ ➿ in my head 24/7. Anyone else?

[@abstergo06]

I can't stress enough how I love that you alwyas include small reminders like "in an healthy way/people matter/if you're moving very carefully and spiraling delulu that's not it" because i feel like so many people capitalize on the toxic side of self-development

[@crassbmt]

spending time with my mom made me realize where i got my catastrophizing mind set from lol her first thought is always worse case scenario and now i just shut it down as soon as she starts with her bullshit lol

[@sueden.]

I love this video so much hahahaha it's so good. Great reminder ❤

[@annabarone8727]

I am worthy I am beautiful I am wonderful I am terrific I am amazing my specific person loves me can't stop thinking of me

[@SanctaJives]

Dylan, THE most WILD thing has just happened to me! I used to be terrified of the thought of my sp being with anyone else. Thinking of it made me feel nauseous. And in the whole time we've been talking, I've never dared to ask him if he's single. Today I realized there is no one else. I GENUINELY don't give af if he's in a relationship, or even married. (And I'm NOT one who EVER gets involved in that type of thing- cheating grosses me out!) And I'm SO CONFIDENT about this now that I actually told him today that once he has me, he's not going to be able to even get it up for anyone else. And I told him I don't care if he's in a relationship, because I'm going to be taking him. Holy shit. My AUDACITY!!! I'm still laughing about how confident I am and how unafraid I was to just state the facts! There is NO ONE but me. PERIOD. No matter what else he thinks he's got going on with anyone else. 😂

[@kabelarose1935]

I hope your doing ok Dylan we miss you and sending positive love your way

[@IAm_DylanJames]

I’ll be back tehe…. I’m always updating my story on insta @iam_dylanjames

[@kabelarose1935]

@ ok babes 🫶🏽I’ll go check you over there 🫠

[@inmyworld97]

Hi Dylan please consider making chill parents and giving complete freedom to their children. This is a huge thing in Asian countries especially India. Its not like even though you are an adult it feels like I cant feel the freedom.

[@andreaj7458]

Well yes, i'm the one who has been deeply insecure for years, not believing in myself, not believing that i'm worthy and deserving of having a relationship with the men i've been attracted to my entire life. And yes, i've obsessed over them liking me back somehow with affirmations and everything and of course it never worked. Because i hadn't been adressing the root of everything, lack of confidence, low self steem, and it feels horrible seeing how its´like a never ending loop with every new guy i like. This week was hell, so now i've just started with Wim Hof and tapping, all as a begginer but i'm working through it. Along with sleep tapes and daytime affirmations. Direct, honest, and to the point Dylan . Love it, and thank you. ❤💫

[@suhaanwar7240]

Yaaaayyyyy Dylan , pep talks again . Oh gosh, how I miss them 🥹✨️🫶🏻

[@pookieshark523]

This video makes me feel like crying, I love your no holds barred attitude so I’m adopting it for myself. Eff everything else, this is my life and it’s about me!! I love you, Dylan, thank you!

[@sxna0214]

So much mindset content coming out lately on podcasts and stuff and it’s honestly so refreshing to see! You been hear for years preaching and teaching us about this - Will never forget you showing me my true worth Dyaln ❤

[@SC1HQ]

YOU ARE A BLESSING 💯 literally the only person on KZbin that I trust w my mentality at this point..

[@lenarolls443]

This video is so on time! The fact that I have normalized thinking more negatively in my favor is not acceptable now! Why cant I think the best towards me? I used to feel so bad about thinking better smh I felt guilty. Nope! Its my turn to hype me!!! I deserve it! Yes!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@indigoangel7209]

Miss you Daddy Dylan!!! ❤

[@theo.anthony]

What Dylan James is doing for humanity is just extraordinary!

[@Pavlova19846]

Ive been listening ti you constantly for a month and ive seen so many changes but one thing that keeps coming back is my belief and as a result reality that guys don't fall in love with me/ dont want to be with me or don't feel that spark with me. And these beliefs got narrated back to me today by someone im interested in and someone else i used to date. I didn't let it trigger me a lot and went back to affirming that i always get commitment but it created so much anxiety within me and the desire to chase that person

[@tots8888]

I would love a nightly track on healing religious trauma daddy!

[@vanillacupcakeee89]

Omg the sub I didn't know I needed soooo bad 😭😭🫠

[@邱思晨]

I always find peace with Dylan's videos. They always cheer me up when I feel down. Thanks Dylan!

[@prachisaxena6897]

Sometimes it feels really hard to think in your favour, when you see failed relationships all around you, everyday there is a new story of how someone's love failed, as I have started to work on my beliefs I feel less effected, but it still makes it hard.

[@nehahense6447]

Hi my self Neha Saxena I am going through same condition trying best but it literally feel hard but have a belief magic is happening

[@larissamarcelinoo]

This video is important in a mental health level. Thank for your powerfull words.

[@liliyapetrenko615]

Dylan is so on point!!! It works but you need to keep working after you attain what you want. Finish line don’t stop just yet. Keep believing ❤ much love

[@jayanembhani4157]

Im coming to this video 5th time..thans for addressing the mindset problems in a realistic way🎉

[@Khs394]

Playing this video on repeat every morning lol

[@fiora5643]

Dylan, I just won a competition through my favorite soccer team that I forgot about. Been listening to your affirmations for two weeks and my life has transformed. Now, I believe I am lucky, good things like this happen on a daily basis.

[@hyperboreacenter]

Thanks Dylan

[@thingsthatclick]

Great video/message, Dylan!! Thank you!! 🙌❤️👏 It’s so true - most people have negative/disempowered mindsets, we are here to slowly, but surely change that and model how our beliefs create our reality! Decide, be from the new self-concept, ignore the limiting beliefs of others, and go for what you want/know you deserve! 💃🪩🕺🏼

[@fishintheuniverse]

Dylan, your videos are changing me- your night time affirmations have made me actually bring to light the AMAZING relationships I have that I never saw as before. I feel so blessed. I cried a lot of cathartic cries in the first week of your tape (took as a shedding of weight and negative beliefs). And I feel like a new person now. I am so present during my day, I love this energy I’ve found ❤️

[@michelleymouse]

I was so upset at myself for checking the 3d today!!! Thank you for letting me know I need to RE- FOCUS on me!!!!

[@axbax93]

Dylan, I keep looking for movement and get disappointed. And keep thinking I don’t have these changes. I’m listening to tapes and doing affirmations. Have a good routine and even started going to the gym. Everything is better than before. But can’t help but to worry

[@IAm_DylanJames]

Are you actually addressing what you’re struggling with? I would really discern what’s going on because once you figure it out and apply yourself you will notice any negative behaviors / obsession / fear based ways of operating really starts to dissipate. To be clear I mean from a belief standpoint, IE. being secure, grounded in the treatment you deserve, normalizing the experience of the relationship you desire, removing comparison to others, forming healthy attachments, etc. Also - like I said in this video you don’t need to “ignore the 3d” or avoid anything… if you’re confident within yourself you can look at whatever you want, you won’t be doing it from a defeated or anxious POV. So, it’s not like you have to stop thinking about something or avoid anything… it’s all in the approach..

[@axbax93]

@@IAm_DylanJames I’m addressing them through the nighttime tapes but not when I’m awake. Should I start addressing them while I’m awake as well?

[@IAm_DylanJames]

Yes. Regulating your nervous system will help a lot and so will short daily meditations. Go on the “live” tab of my channel and check out the recent lives I made public from the membership side. One is “start here” and the other is “importance of nervous system regulation” I know they’re long videos, but it’ll really help if you listen and apply the advice. 🫶🏼

[@LouC2chi]

You aren’t your thoughts, you aren’t your feelings. Self soothe, and put on your bad b**** crown. You got this!!!

[@layinbackinhistenderness588]

DYLAN!! I am soo in love with you! Your man is so lucky to have you and thank you for this KICK ASS content!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@Alkemiss]

Dylan you are so loved! I am praying for covering of PROTECTION over you at this time. You are such a light to world ✨️

[@catlady3147]

This was a defining moment in my life with my spiritual mentor, with whom I have known for around 8 yrs. She's highly psychic and has always been a positive in my life until the moment I realized she and I were no longer on the same page. My neighbor had bought the house next door. Great neighbor. Manifested him. Then he got involved with some woman. Ended up moving in with her 8 mos later. Decided to rent his house out. Promised me a good neighbor would move in. She was a skanky Ho. Horrible. We'll leave it at that. I was already manifesting her ass moving out. My cat had just passed. I was feeling so vulnerable and highly charged when I told her about this neigbhor. Her response was actually shocking to me. She said I wanted everyone to bend to my will. Ummmm....yes. That's correct and that was the end of the relationship. I just felt this anger coming from her text and the fact that I didn't give a fuck and was grieving for my cat kind of solidifed things. Haven't spoken to her in a year. Guess what? My neighbor didn't renew the renter's lease. He's selling the house. She's not on my energetic level anymore.

[@IAm_DylanJames]

Not a skanky ho 😂 lol I’m happy everything worked out for you, as it always does 🫶🏼

[@Coyia24]

Thank you for this reframe!!! This was right on time 😊

[@JourneywithGigi]

Thank you, Dylan for always preaching the truth!!!! 💯✨🌟

[@huyentranphamkhanh2694]

I've applied exactly what dylan taught us for about a year now. And let me tell you, today, there is a person who talked down on me and say that I'm too weak and fragile, it is an insecurity that I struggled with before, but for the first time in my life, it didn't move me at all, I went home laughing by myself cause it's kinda weird (but not unexpected lol) before I would immediately break down crying on the spot, or at least I would try to hold my tears till I go home and ugly cry (and let those words haunt me for a whole week) but right now, I can just shrug my shoulders and say "fck it"? That's the spirit.

[@DanielGabani]

For me the overthinking and thinking how much of nothing I'm, was normalized. Working on change of mindset. It's definitelly not an easy task, But I will do it! Thank you for great video!

[@jennspth2freedom]

New subscriber here! I appreciate your work and energy. Thank you for taking the time out of your day to make this video and share this message with us. ❤

[@drjedi]

My cutie pie daddyyyyyyy!!!! Love you with my soul Dylan!!! So proud of you!!!

[@zembamwasi]

And that's on period. Love from Kenya🇰🇪

[@JoannaAu]

I fucking love you daddy Dylan! These just keep getting better and better 💜🩷

[@MultiDjgabri]

Man you're such a legend, love your videos!!!

[@goddessyouniq7938]

Did anyone have to replay this or is it just me???????? Because the gems was def dropping in this video❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@graham3673]

I've been listening to one of your affirmation recordings about stability for 4 nights now, and last night, I woke up in the early hours and it was a different vid playing on millionaire mindset. Not sure if I'm being guided to focus on that one or stay with the stability one. Any insight appreciated and thanks Dylan, your doing a wonderful service ❤

[@forgotmyun]

This is what I needed! I made a mistake and accidentally unmatched someone on a dating app mid conversation and they had even posted their number and I forgot to save it. Am I about to go on a Serendpity journey?!

[@FollowerofDuck]

this!! never assume anything but the very best bc thats what u deserve 🙌🙌

[@swasandswam]

Can you talk about having a good self concept but still feeling pain over current circumstances? it‘s like I know it‘s gonna be okay but I‘m still hurt

[@matthewisthebest8152]

Keep working through the layers nobody to change but self you’ve got this

[@LUNAOFLUMIERE]

It's alright to feel pain, you are still human after all but don't dwell on negative thoughts! Don't worry you already got this!

[@inbetwixt5505]

Oof. Dylan helping us get back on our damn thrones 👑

[@Tatianarain]

Exactlyyy

[@theoliviamontgomery]

Yes! 👑

[@marylee7036]

I miss your content. I hope you’re doing well 💖😊

[@talethiacotton3393]

I really needed this reminder.

[@Desivanilla007]

I love your honest coaching

[@SuperPinkblossom]

❤❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you 🙏

[@michellemarie953]

Just love your voice thank you! ❤🙏

[@dimaawad7725]

I love this guy ! Thank you Dylan

[@LupitaVCoaching]

I love you. Thank you.

[@IAm_DylanJames]

❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@iloveyu2]

COME BACKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK

[@CourBarone]

YESSSSS so fucking good. I needed this video today.

[@jamievallas6648]

could u maybe do some kind of video that centers on trans people like trans woman and like harassment and normalizing people being attracted to u and embracing it etc!!! if u could that’d be EVERYTHINGGG

[@lilyb2617]

Love love love this ❤️👏🏼

[@Iriskalel]

You saved my life ❤

[@NellyMohammed14]

Hi! You’re such a guiding light to this community 💕 Thank you! I hope this is okay to ask but can you do an affirmation track for winning scholarships or fully funded masters/school programs 😘 Thank you.

[@karolinadosty]

Hi Dylan, I recently discovered you and im so happy. I watched few of your videos. In my relationship i struggle with jealous men. My current boyfriend is long-distance. He always assume some negative things about me and i always get triggered. I started to not react but he is going crazy even more when i dont go into fighting😂. I started to feel more confident i dont need to defend myself always. Do you have any simple advice to move things faster in the correct direction? Have a beautiful day

[@loveling55555]

Babe i missed youu!!!

[@gracieq522]

wow this was really helpful thank you!!

[@ebonyeskyler]

i love this video 😭

[@CRISTINAGABRIELA-ck2td]

What's the right attitude/ affirmation when you live under the same roof with your grown up child who shows a lot of disrespect and even criticism. Mind you i have been a single mum and train them both single handedly till they finish university and got jobs.thank you everyone and lots of love and positivity

[@dawnwojcik4335]

I am treated with love, respect and kindness. I am a phenomenal mother. Also tell yourself that your children are healed, whole, harmonious. They are secure, stable and confident. - I know how you are feeling....I went through this too!!!

[@CRISTINAGABRIELA-ck2td]

Thank you so very much for the prompt and kind response.i will start with the affirmations you sent as from today. Im sure my daughter is changing once i undertake this. Once again thank you very much for the help.from one parent to another im grateful​@@dawnwojcik4335

[@CRISTINAGABRIELA-ck2td]

​@@dawnwojcik4335thank you very much. Im grateful

[@dawnwojcik4335]

@@CRISTINAGABRIELA-ck2td You are welcome!! Just persist, even if you see the opposite...it will show up!!

[@emeejay5430]

"Its good & attractive to decide what is it to in life.I feel very confident & knowing in who I am and how relationships Show up for me and I know you're gonna like me or you do like me and I feel confident with the direction that things are going to go and I've Just reinforcing that from a very secure self recongized and growth place within myself, I'm not going to sit here & assume the wrost .I've been building up my confidence and deciding whats going to occur in my life, whats weird about that?" Unhealthy way to watch out this in a way that is not neccerarily that healthy meaning you're very insecure,dont believe in yourself, You don't think that you can get in a relationship that you want and instead of addressing those things you just obsessing over a person and trying to convinience yourself that they love you" what to do is : dont give a fuck about what you see now, dont search for problems ,its not going to serve as evidence for your ongoing experience well okay yeah I get what it want genuinely when you hold those beliefs you're not going to be worried about it and you're going allow for it to naturally shift & things to unfold. So its not crazy for you to decide whats going to occur in your life, its not a bad thing for people to find about it because its hot as fuck! Yeah you're right I've been manifesting ,I've been believing in myself I have not insecure and I've been deciding that I get what I want and Im not obsessed with any particular thing, in fact my life has been so much easier ,because I'm not being constantly barged with lie intrusive thoughts and worries ,doubts or fears I'm just out here living my best life allowing things to unfold and continuing to grow each day.

[@LouC2chi]

I’m gonna jump to the timeline where Dylan is straight and make him wifey. Haha ♥️

[@Nattyann986]

I’m pretty certain that i have an addiction to negative thinking 🙁

[@theonly_competitor_of_me_is_me]

Hey Dylan,, can u make a tape for freedom from parents to anything and pursue our dream career ❣️?

[@AnaMarquesSilva]

Your best video ever 🙌🙌 thanks 💞

[@goddessvibes2345]

I manifested losing my purse (with everything in it) and then finding it later. What the heck is that all about? No wonder people believe in a devil and a God. That devil stole my purse and then sweet Jesus helped me find it. 😂 Obviously, it was all me, but it's just crazy. It's like there's a malfunction in the subconscious mind

[@sianextfriday]

Dylan please help me because I’ve never felt so at the end of my powers. I was a child athlete striding towards a bright career then life happened, I went through a lot, whatever I’m not identifying with it anymore. And now I’m trying to get back into my sport & I’m trying so hard to believe it’s not to late (I’m 20). I’ve been working my ass off, I’m disciplined, I’m doing everything I’m supposed to be doing but the results keep missing. And I know I’m supposed to ignore it but it’s at a point where i feel like im not progressing the slightest especially as im in such a result based sport. Im putting so many resources, so much time and effort into this, that I kinda need to see results soon if I want to be able to afford this any longer. I don’t know what to do & on top i’m breaking down more frequently because it feels like if nothing changes soon this is the end of my career. And I just don’t know what to do. Please anyone share any perspectives, i am begging.

[@chaseatlanticfan6553]

first of all when you’re going through this type of mental, I don’t even want to say breakdown, but it seems as if you are, you shouldn’t be on the Internet you shouldn’t be begging people for advice. (but i don’t wanna completely knock u cus ive been there)You should be trying to regulate your emotions and I think the best way to do that is either by using binaura beats and affirming the inner belief that that’s causing all of this in your mind, or using Wim Hof breathing techniques to calm yourself down, and then get to a place where you can realize where all of these inner beliefs of you not being able to achieve it is coming from. As far as being 20 and it too late for you to be an athlete is so laughable (20 is young asf)people start their careers and athleticism way into their late 20s even early 30s so I think it all depends on your inner beliefs and how willing you are to stay in favor of ur desired reality versus delusional in ur bad reality. because one thing I’ve learned is that people think that being delusional is a one-way street and it’s not when you’re delusional and you manifest bad circumstances that doesn’t make it less delusional and vice versa so whatever you persistent thinking is what’s gonna happen to you. Good luck .❤

[@annabarone8727]

Love your videos

[@annabarone8727]

Ive been working on myself

[@ReginaRoldan-iw3kv]

Could you do a sleep track or a short meditation for losing fat? Thank you!!

[@dbsk06]

So true!!

[@yourunclesteacup]

dylan can you make a tape for parents and family approve of your relationship ❤❤❤

[@BritneyMontes17]

Dylan what do you think about creating a Spotify! Playlist for your affirmations and maybe podcast for your video?

[@anikofarkas4411]

I’d love to listen your advice on s topic of how to manifest someone out of our life without going into an argument or doing anything in the physical reality please. Let’s say a toxic family member

[@Nanohhh-rt4cr]

Do I have an avoidant attachment style or am I really just not giving a fuck about whether a person likes me or not.

[@simplyemily8251]

I need your skin care routine plz!!!

[@Rose-lq7uo]

Can someone PLEASE tell me how to join the discord?! I've never used it lol

[@IAm_DylanJames]

It’s on the membership side of my channel love. I’m sorry I don’t have a free version of it. 💔

[@Rose-lq7uo]

In that case, joining today 😆 been meaning to join anyway 🙏🏼

[@MarukoChan08]

Hey Dylan i really need ur advice . Is there any affirmations to make my SP leave drugs ? I can't c him ruin his life .

[@d3smf]

THIS IS A SERVEEEEEE

[@IamMs.Trinidad]

Dylan ❤ please can you make a Home Owner recording?

[@South_star777]

Hey Dylan! Can you talk about revision in some video? Like revising past situations, please 🌟 if someone knows about a video in where he talks about that, please let me know

[@createa.googleaccount713]

Love, Love Love you Dylan ❤ Super Thanks [ Curious, is the video speed modules on Fast? Or are you really teaching at this hyper fast speeding speaking?] Again ❤🏆🎖🏅🥇

[@no-name1025]

i figured my struggled was trying to keep those good things i manifested to stay consistent in my life and to not lose it easily. but now i'm confused which sleeping tapes should i listen to..