This Chapter Is Called...Second Chances: Mielle, New Babies, Our Birth Story and MORE! | Vlog

[@TeeRo617]

He sounds childish and immature. He needs to speak for himself. I've never in life heard any man say he doesn't want the mother of his child to breastfeed due to his selfish, ridiculous reasoning...smh he's a 🤡

[@KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds]

Oh, I've heard of it🙄🤨😑

[@Lashamalaya]

Yea because there's lots of men that don't speak the truth out loud

[@tashicag9914]

@@Lashamalayafacts! They are made to feel ashamed of their feelings.

[@themommymichelle4614]

I didn’t find ol’ boy funny at all, it actually made me not finish the video. His commentary was wildly immature at best.

[@C.VEEJay]

I understand because he is really an absolute idiot! And the funny thing is, he will never give birth. It's the Mysoginy for me.😮

[@WilliamsPinch]

Same, I clicked off. I couldn’t afford to lose any additional brain cells.

[@mrod87]

Yea….im childless and looking for a Godly man and this really made me upset…but hope his podcast is successful!

[@leslielewis40]

He’s speaking for himself on the breastfeeding and that’s a VERY childish perspective. I’m sorry to say. There are men out here who are evolved enough to understand the benefits to their child that come from breastfeeding. Formula is chemicals. God created women with the remarkable capacity to create, bring forth and sustain life. If it wasn’t the woman’s choice to nurse that would be one thing, but to say no because he wants breasts for toys. Nah… selfish and childish.

[@C.VEEJay]

And super STUPID!!!!!

[@Godisloven09]

So I’m assuming that the man is 19. He can’t be a mature man who cares about the mother or the baby. Just plain selfish and ignorant. Ignorant means he’s has not educated himself on nursing. He couldn’t me my husband or most women. He admitted it doesn’t understand child birth. If he doesn’t understand that, he’ll not understand the benefits of nursing.

[@Bree_Bunny]

He's a 🤡. Unfortunately too many women (especially in the church 👀) are so *desperate* to be "married" and have a "husband" they'll get with the first loser that asks. 😭 He's sounds ignorant and annoying. I'd rather be by mySELF! 💀

[@WilliamsPinch]

I couldn’t stand to have a conversation with someone so dull-witted. Truly confused as to why she entertained such primitive thinking.

[@alee7322]

I appreciate you sharing that conversation. There are a lot of men who feel the same way . Not to mention their women’s pregnancy being unattractive. Then being jealous of the attention the baby/kids get above him. Fortunately my husband wasn’t one of those men. His mom breastfed all of her babies and was the driving force in me doing it for both my children. He adored that I did this for his kids. My husband made it his mission to make me feel beautiful while pregnant, when I didn’t feel it. Our kids came first for both of us, yes we got in “we” time. Our kids are grown now and it’s all about me for him, and him for me. P.S. Breast are made to feed babies, not for a man’s pleasure.

[@missytaylor1gmail]

Crazy that men are jealous of their own children but it’s very common, so immature. Glad your man wasn’t that way.

[@Nikki_alterego]

​@@missytaylor1gmailsome women are too especially their daughters

[@mountaintimewiththelord53]

Boyyyyyyy what's the matter with you?! Faye I love you but your friends from church are crazy! Spouse or not my body is still my body. Yea become one with the spouse but the whole point of breasts is to feed the baby so the baby can survive. I'd have a problem if my spouse wasn't ok with that. You know, I heard someone else comment about his wife breastfeeding once like that and it bothered me than too. Love your thoughts at the end about accountability. I'm not aware of the brand issue but I do like extending grace to people especially when they learn, amend from their past, and move forward better. 💗 Others need to be shut down because they're corrupt.

[@angelafoster3807]

Clearly, he is not educated about childbirth and breastfeeding and does not want to be educated so that makes him deliberatly ignorant, which is pretty sad. Men may feel like him but most understand the benefit of breastfeeding for the child. The child's need must come before your own. My prayer is that he learns this and his heart is changed.

[@Kym-N54]

Mother's milk is healthiest for a newborn. Most species of animals feed their babies their own milk. It's the most natural thing to do.

[@awp8331]

My husband is a strong advocate for breastfeeding and he makes sure I put good stuff in my body for our baby. He knows that mother's milk is really best for your children.

[@CrazyNaturalPrincess]

💯formula has so many chemicals

[@tyecooper4536]

Not true about the breast feeding, my husband wanted me to breastfeed but I didn't want to. He felt like it was healthier. I think it depends on your maturity level.

[@keynolivia]

Being married to an out of touch selfish immature man can be draining. It’s low key abusive and traumatic to a woman’s mental health. Not judging, speaking from experience. No one should have to go through that especially after having a baby.

[@KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds]

He stoopid. Her breasts were never his, they have always been hers; and if they *were* for anyone else, they would be for feeding *her* babies.

[@lashelleluxe6918]

He need to speak for himself. Most men want their child to be breastfed because of the health benefits. I pray he gets it together.

[@LaShumbraBatesAuDHD]

I read a crazy story on Reddit. A man was worried about his baby girl growing up to be lesbian because she was so into breastfeeding, unlike her brother when he was a baby. All of that makes no sense to me, and it's weird. 🤦🏾‍♀️😂😂

[@MyBrilliantCreationtv]

Champs haircut is so cute.. he looks like a big boy now!😀🥰

[@FayeInTheCity]

Thank you

[@ladyt3182]

I know how He feels, we have 5, and the last 2 are twins. They are 32,30,28, 19,19! I don’t agree about the men and breastfeeding, my husband was not selfish about it. At least I don’t think he was. He shouldn’t use Jesus as an example though. # Twin Mom. # Babies are a Blessing!

[@Bibi_nolaBibi_nola]

Had to fast forward through the conversation with the male, at the church 🤡

[@keelaw6749]

Wow!! I’m so proud of you. That is grown woman stuff with a double dose of God!!!!!! I love it here Faye!!! ❤

[@FayeInTheCity]

Love ya right back! Thank you for your support!

[@ncdiva919]

11:53 He wanted me to breastfeed as long as I could. I wasn't producing enough milk and both of us were very upset about going to formula.

[@ivymerritt7577]

Happy 2nd birthday, Champ!!! 🎉🥂🎊🎉🥂🎊

[@lennettewarner8338]

Hopefully they apologized to that influencer, because that really was nasty what they done. Apologizing and having discussions with others while totally not accepting responsibility for what was done in my opinion shows they haven't taken responsibility for their actions. The fact that it was her husband that done this made it worse. Because why would he think that approach would go over well is beyond me. At the time she was busy defending their actions and not apologizing. Not everyone is going to like every product a brand makes. You yourself give honest reviews on products...some you like some you don't. That's life. And hopefully they realized that. And apologized to the influencer. I haven't seen anywhere saying that they took responsibility and reached out to her but I may have missed it.

[@michellenedd8195]

😊

[@allison.a]

I’ve been thinking about giving Mielle another chance lately 🤔 I remember all the mess and so it was a conscious choice to stop buying them. I appreciate you modeling that it’s okay to change your mind (within reason)

[@skizbees]

He thinks feeding a baby is weird for himself. Wide berth to this person.

[@fastpray353]

He is so ….IGNORANT! Not a bit of intellect at all.

[@tnjones522]

“I’m late I might as well be happy.” 😂😂

[@FayeInTheCity]

Facts! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@cannedgoodz]

One thing about Mielle is that it has always WORKED. Never stopped using her products.

[@BritBoo16]

Heyyy booski!!!! The growth I’ve seen over the past few months, you are doing the dang thang!!! Love you! ❤😘 and of course, you are glowing, per usual!

[@FayeInTheCity]

Love you! Thank you boo!

[@LaToya_C.]

My respect for you was definitely solidified after this video. "Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us." If we dont forgive, we don't get forgiven. I came to the same conclusion about a year ago about that company and I also heard another saved influencer share the same sentiment. I also appreciate you sharing that conversation with your friends, I really enjoyed it. The girls are in a tissy about it...whew chile. Lol. Unpopular opinion, but what he said needed to be said and addressed. I don't agree that all men think that way, but some do and if you find yourself there, then education and a conversation (or several) should be had. But baby the girls are burning him alive in these comments. 😂 I just had a baby in September and can understand both sides.

[@ceceken]

Hi Honey I pray you and your family are well!! My condolences! You are such a pleasure to watch! I can’t wait to try your oil! That was an awesome gesture reaching out to the owner of Mielle! You are truly a Blessing! Keep serving God! Many Blessings 💗💚

[@FayeInTheCity]

Thank you so much 🩷

[@Glammmahgotguts]

Hey Faye, I just wanna say YOU’RE AWESOME!! Lil’ champ is so darn handsome. I’m sorry for your family’s loss💜💜💜💜🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@sassybrown12868]

Hey Gurl, I've been a subscriber for awhile now..(4or5yrs).. Congratulations on all of your successes...I'm so happy & equally proud of you...Your Glow up is definitely God's Blessing ❤... Wishing you endless happiness &success 🥰🥰🥰 BTW:You look gorgeous 💄💅🏾

[@FayeInTheCity]

Thank you!

[@gettat5832]

Omggg my husband is the same way about the breastfeed 😂😂😂😂 I thought he was lying but hearing another man confirm it is hilarious and crazy at the same time 😂😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@CrazyNaturalPrincess]

Sorry for the loss of your family member🙏🏽 Happy Birthday to Champ🎊🎈🎈too handsome!❤ Regarding the podcast conversation, my husband wanted me to breastfeed our sons because of the chemicals found in the formula so he can't say "all men"😮

[@bobbuilder2356]

An Arby's ad came on right as you pulled to the drive-thru. I was so confused 😂😂 We also need more of this green on you 💚

[@FayeInTheCity]

No need to be confused cause you know GOOD AND WELL I AINT EATING NO ARBYS!!!!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Scenariel]

Yay! Another vlog!❤❤ you said you’re tired but still looking cuteeeee❤❤❤ That video of baby boy at the store made my dayyyy lol sooo cute lol loved it!!!🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️ his little reactions in that video 😆 Waiiiit I just went back and saw the main photo awwww did lil man get his first hair cut🥹❤️❤️let me keep watching 🥰awww soooo handsome!!!❤❤❤❤️

[@FayeInTheCity]

Thank you so much!

[@SimplyMahoganie]

I’ve never heard of what he was speaking on. He feels how he feels. And praise God I don’t care about that honestly. That’s one thing I genuinely don’t care how my husband feels regarding bringing our future children into this world and feeding our future children. I appreciate you sharing that conversation though. And Champ’s haircut looks so good! Looking like such a big boy 🤩.

[@Michelle-vg9sq]

Hello Miss Faye! I had my daughter forever ago. When I found out I was pregnant, I knew that I knew that I knew that I was getting shots, epidurals, etc. After 34 hours of labor, I asked to be put to sleep😂.

[@guinabells]

🙋🏽‍♀️We are being forgiven every day from God...we're not perfect but that is something we must work on always...thanks for sharing...your awesome and beautiful sis...you & the family have our condolences during this time ...ky

[@FayeInTheCity]

Thank you!

[@fascn8ng]

3:05 The way I cackled when you said you were late and proceeded to play an order at the drive thru window.

[@capitolhilldr]

Your friend was funny!! He said what he said and he meant it. Amen. Thanks for sharing that conversation. PS-Forgiveness is great, isn't it?? #belikeJesus!!

[@FayeInTheCity]

He’s nuts but I love him! 😂

[@Kawaiicutiebaby]

My condolences. Sending my love and prayers to you and your family 🙏🏾🫶🏾 I love your sons new hair cut ❤he’s such a handsome baby

[@YoudontknowMimi]

Hey Faye! Naw the face is giving GLOW!

[@FayeInTheCity]

Thank you, boo!

[@DiLauris]

He happily shares his breastfeeding and birthing opinion and that’s he and his wife’s business. Just happy I didn’t have that experience.

[@BlkLatinMami]

Concerning that “company” situation: there is definitely a blessin’ in the lesson! Thank you for that. You are truly my sister in my head ❤…..stay blessed Faye

[@jeanninegorden8142]

My church is now hybrid in these post Rona streets. And this makes me even later than I was pre Rona. I watch the service as I am getting ready. So TECHNICALLY I am NOT late.....😬😬😬

[@ladyt3182]

I remember that situation, definitely time to move on. Everyone makes mistakes. That was Beautifully stated Faye!!

[@timaaa50]

Sending love and prayers to you and your family ❤

[@FayeInTheCity]

Thank you!

[@MsBrown-tu4vv]

Yeah…. He pissed me off a little bit

[@sarahogayonne3710]

“Only come to get me when it’s time to eat or somebody die!” - a man 😂

[@CrystalMoore-e9t]

Im a OG natural (40 plus years) and I watched it play out and was not impressed by either side but the product worked for me because I’m allergic to shea butter and product heavy coconut and olive oil irritate my scalp so I stayed with the product(s) because of the ingredients in one line of the brand and I still use them. I appreciate your transparency.

[@mrshopewoods227]

We are gonna get to church on time!!! With or without coffee Sista!!!!

[@FayeInTheCity]

You right! 😂

[@libbietaylor-mccowan5310]

IMO he's immature & selfish🤷🏾‍♀️😒..breastfeeding enhances brain development, helps babies immune system, helps w/weight loss for Mommy, also it helps some in reducing breast cancer developing, we were designed to nurse our children...I nursed both of my children until 8mos they're grown now, but I will always believe it was the best thing I did for them!

[@millicentfiles2762]

So sorry for your loss🙏🏾Champ looks so big boy handsome

[@FayeInTheCity]

Thank you!

[@lilshonnie17]

Jesus wasn’t selfish at all were supposed to be striving to be like Jesus so that’s all ima say about that

[@jamielake905]

Hey boo! Keeping walkin into your season and blessings ❤ God's favor is looking beautiful on you

[@FayeInTheCity]

Thank you!

[@starmaxx4]

Amazing video! 🥰💙.. Champ haircut is soo cute.. & I agree he’s a big boy now almost 2 .. whew time is flying by.. 🥰.. I’m seeing you Grow right before my eyes 🙌🏾🙏🏾.. Praying for you and your family 🙏🏾..

[@Blessed2Bme73]

He’s right my husband was all for the breast feeding until he realized ii was doing for a year.. he would would talk smack to the baby every time 🤣🤣

[@naiymaf.9744]

I know God will bless your company! During the time the convo around Mielle was happening, I was not in agreement with how people really attacked the company for making a mistake. We all make mistakes and NO ONE can say they do not. I was even attacked for saying people make mistakes. Some people who did not bully the company were bullied by others online. That personally made me stop going to certain pages on KZbin. But on a personal note, I remember, during Covid, after my pastor passed away, she personally sent me a recorded message where she prayed for my Church family. It meant so much. And almost every Monday she does a live prayer.

[@FayeInTheCity]

Yeah, I’m retrospect the “punishment” didn’t fit the crime. I’m ALL for accountability but some of what was done was not fair.

[@tbev58]

Hi just wanted to comment I don’t feel that company made a mistake it was a bad business decision very unprofessional. I agree to each its own I no longer support that company. But thats my choice and good for those that do.

[@ClarkN93]

I have the utmost respect for you! Love you my Sista

[@ladyt3182]

In marriage we definitely belong to one another!

[@jasminebrown492]

Love your videos Faye, but sorry your friend has a very weird perspective...

[@FayeInTheCity]

I totally respect that stance

[@awp8331]

You look good without the lashes. Your natural ones are good enough.😊

[@Blessed2Bme73]

It doesn’t always work like that sir, when the doctor came back in to give me my epidural I just had time to push

[@sierra4291]

The way Faye looked at her invisible but visible camera when he started his nonsense

[@nayafitzgerald]

Amen, that portion on forgiveness. That hit home for me. I struggle with that. 😢

[@mightystrong5484]

COME ON FAYE ❤❤❤ IM ALL FOR REDEMPTION 🙏🏼 YOU'RE THE REAL M.V.P FOR REAL 🙌🏽🙌🏽 IM LEARNING THE POWER AND FREEDOM OF FORGIVENESS THANK YOU 😢.....MVP❤❤❤

[@FayeInTheCity]

Thank you!

[@SHESOMAJOR]

Very big of you Faye for speaking about second chances. I think what happened to that influencer was wrong and should've never happened, there were so many violations. I never saw a public apology which there should've been - just as loud as the offense. Not everyone will like or love what you do, but you can not let that deter you from doing your work. That's business. I also don't even want to start on the blatant infringing of Curl Cap's patented caps, another crazy ordeal. I took a few years off from using them because I just didn't like the business of it all, I have used them recently, because their products are good....but businesses have to know that what you do, how you move, can affect the bottom line. Ethics matter.

[@chanreka]

Sorry for your lost. May God be with you and your family 🙏🏽

[@FayeInTheCity]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@tbev58]

Hey Faye yes I’ve moved on and just chose not to support that company anymore. No it was not your video that helped me make this decision. I just move differently when I’m spending my hard earned money. My choice Congratulations for you🎉

[@FayeInTheCity]

I TOTALLY respect that and thank you!

[@FineNaturalHairROCKS]

I love that you made peace with Monique Rodriguez and Mielle. I agree with everything you said that she is an awesome, God-fearing woman, full of love; and that she did not deserve the intense backlash/bullying that flowed against her and her company during the Pandemic. This is a beautiful reconciliation and I love the fact that God intervened and made it right. I'm sure this video was not easy to make, and then post publicly but yet you did it. Look at God's work. You go, Queen!!! 🙏🏾💕

[@ladyt3182]

What products are you selling?

[@AuthorLHollingsworth]

@11:08 😮😮😮🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@naturalshatara9559]

No low confidence of self esteem here, Faye you are beautiful! If you have another one it will be a bigger problem, you have lost weight had a baby and look gorgeous JEALOUSLY IS A BAD THING PLEASE BE CAREFUL 0:17

[@ALMad04]

God bless you baby. I remember. 🥰

[@leslielewis40]

You’re a real one Faye! ❤🤗

[@FayeInTheCity]

Thank you 🩷

[@jaemaur814]

He is wholeheartedly wrong about men and breastfeeding. My husband was his(our)chidren's biggest advocate for me breastfeeding. When I wanted to give up, he said no.Telling his wife that he dosen't want her body to change is very immature of him. Her body is going to change regardless if he likes it or not. I can't believe a man, a whole father is behaving like this.

[@Bree_Bunny]

That's the part that sent me! 😫 Not only did some woman agree to marry this fool...she went and had a whole CHILD with him too! Was he this ignorant when she met him cuz I...😭 Good luck to her I guess...cuz...whew chile...😮‍💨

[@jaemaur814]

@@Bree_Bunny I don't really want to lambast the guy or call him any names. He does however need to humble himself to his wife in this season of their relationship. And while I do believe that some of his comments were jovial, the part about breastfeeding and body, I think were his honest feelings, and that showed a level of immaturity. I don't think he's a bad guy, but a little humility won't hurt him either.

[@nikiedmonds6236]

Faye your friend is hilarious and crazy 😂😂😂

[@FayeInTheCity]

He’s a PSYCHO but I love him! 😂😂😂😂

[@melibnice2126]

God Bless You♥️🙏🏾

[@ItsJasDarling]

Aww champ with his big boy haircut 🎉🎉🎉

[@1holyghostpower]

Hey moms. Faye when will the order for the oils be going out? I did pre order on 2/15 did I miss anything about it not being launched in March just inquiring?

[@ItsJasDarling]

That whole thing with that company 😐 First of all, well said sis❤ I watched it play out with my own eyes and I didn’t agree with how it was handled. I do think it was a huge mistake, and everyone should move on. I personally do not purchase the products anymore but I stopped before that incident. They just didn’t work for me anymore. Those that still purchase them, cool, use what works for you.

[@Nille0212]

My condolences, Sis. I have been dealing with the same thing in my family so as I pray for you, please pray for me. ❤❤❤

[@FayeInTheCity]

Aww! I’m praying for your peace, Sissy!

[@cheshiredj]

Condolences to you, I was going through the same thing which is why I'm so late to this video. I agree about Mielle but I have to confess that y'all influenced me to much the other way because that conditioner has never been out of my house 😉. I didn't like how the situation went down but I do like the products. Always feel free to speak your truth!

[@MaiaSmith]

Oh you go to a church church 😭🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🤣

[@FayeInTheCity]

Girl. Real sanctified. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@godsprecious6884]

I agree. Never stopped using the brand. We’ve all done things. We’re always quick to want to take down our companies. I’m hoping no more companies sell 😌🤔their brands ❤

[@Boushe_desi]

Champ’s hair cut is sooooo cute!!! ☺️

[@FayeInTheCity]

Thank you! I love it so much!

[@glammaof3871]

​​​​@@FayeInTheCity your little man is so handsome!🤗 My grandson's name is Champion and we call him champ as well!😊. He's 7yrs old, a purple belt in karate and learning Chinese in the school he and his sisters attend!🤗 He's very overprotective of his twin sister and swear he's his older sister's big brother! 😂 My sincere condolences go out to you and the family. May your loved one RIP 😇 🙏🧘🙏🥰

[@tierraharris8310]

Faye, I love you! Please accept my sincerest condolences. You and your family are in my prayers! I was thinking about you recently and was like I wonder if Faye will update us on her favorite products. I didn’t know about any of the drama you mentioned in reference to the hair company. But I still use the conditioner per your recommendation. I use so many products per your recommendation. Girl I trust you! 😂

[@abrown5620]

Is this the pastor she's talking to in the session

[@deb8911]

#FAYEBAYE ON A WEDNESDAY

[@FayeInTheCity]

Heyyyyyyy!

[@ominouscherub]

I have no knowledge of the mielle situation mainly because I don’t watch any other hair content. Imma stay tune because I was contemplating buying it. Now me and my wiggly baby gonna watch the video

[@FayeInTheCity]

Heyyyy! And girl it’s old news. In summary: buy it lol

[@ominouscherub]

@@FayeInTheCity with the current sells i’ve been seeing I think I am well wishes to you and your family ✨

[@coral.cc0]

Take your time and continue to walk in faith. Keeping you and you family lifted in prayer❤️‍🩹

[@jewellemason4614]

Hi sweetie how are you sorry for your loss

[@FayeInTheCity]

I’m good, thank you!

[@lilshonnie17]

I really like Faye she cool fr

[@mssonya4081]

I'm proud of you @faye

[@FayeInTheCity]

Thank you 🩷

[@sierra4291]

Awwe champ looks so nice! Something about that haircut gets them to smellin themselves lol good luck to you!

[@janicehenry4796]

Lady, how is the baby 2 years old already!!!!!!

[@FayeInTheCity]

I know!!!! Time is FLYING!!!!!

[@tiam5365]

Hi, Faye with the utmost Raspek I must question y I wish allow ignorance of this magnitude on ur platform⁉️😳 Im assuming I r unaware of the connection with that mindset and DV⁉️🤔 so many women first experiences is bc of this malignant selfishness and jealousy. I agree that the convo is necessary however, extremely distastefully facetious to laugh at such a serious lie experience. This "man of God" said that he rather push man made chemicals in his newly born child not bc it's their only choice (many can't breastfeed for whatever reasons) but bc he's immature and ignorant; not having the ability to prioritize one's child overall health is indicative of irresponsible parenting.‼️ The goal is for r babies to thrive NOT just survive‼️😏 It's no judgement for those who do surrender to modern medical protocols & convenience but we must keep in mind that our long-term health is NOT factored in to such means but merely profits at r expenses; we pay we l with r health. This is a serious serious matter and should have been addressed must more Raspekfully, sensitively and irresponsibly 🤷🏾‍♀️ just words of wisdom from an elder Ps, have u all not seen the exponential recalls on formula, baby foods recall, n/or issues from epidurals? To each's own but just truly comprehend the cost of parenting b4 becoming parenting and maybe we can eventually change the current pathologies and plight of Bppl💪🏾✊🏾🙌🏾 peacefully

[@ladyt3182]

Definitely requires plenty breathing and patience. My water broke at home only with our twins. Good discussion!

[@MoodysMood-lt6wh]

Blessings.

[@mzzzdivajoy]

You look fabulous

[@FayeInTheCity]

Thank you!

[@bossladykey2]

Come on Pastuuuuuuuuuu Faye. Love you girl

[@FayeInTheCity]

Love you too