We may not _NEED_ people in our lives, but we do _WANT_ that special someone. And if you're that special someone, you should feel very lucky indeed 😌
@mikevecchio62845 ай бұрын
I may be in the end of a 30-year marriage because I always thought she would come around and listen to me with intention. It seems as though sticking your head in the sand is just easier for them
@ErinIsRealАй бұрын
I'm not needy in any aspect of my life, except for honesty and integrity!
@zitrone309 ай бұрын
Finally my world explained. Thank you so much!!!
@Heidi14666 ай бұрын
I am so happy being a INFJ
@marzenakubitza61198 ай бұрын
I agree. it's like walking against the wind all the time. It irritates people terribly when we do what we think is right and don't listen to orders, I always laugh and say I'm a born rebel. but the fact that the discussion I have every time someone tries to convince me that I'm doing something wrong because I go my own way and don't behave or think like others, is amazing even for me. I don't know where it comes from, but I always know what to say to convince other people that the path I am taking is the right one and helps solve problems in the blink of an eye. and man, like a blind man, gropes for solutions and then becomes even more lost. so I will never do what is expected of me just to please someone because in their opinion it is the right thing to do because it is well seen in society, I just walk in peace and joy and every obstacle I encounter is another lesson to develop even more to become become a better person because that's why we are here, not to meet someone else's norms and rules. have fun with life and spread your wings and fly up. Best regards 🤗
@cherylberk459310 ай бұрын
Female sigma INFJ, very interesting, 100% spot on. It is a blessing and a curse. I could not, would not ever try to explain myself to others bcs all my lfe people/family tell me "I dont think like you." From earliest childhood memories we have always thought like this, born, not learned, exhausting. While this is hard on your social and relationship life, I dont want or cant change. That is OK.
@jeanross74308 ай бұрын
Well said and you pretty much Saud all that I needed to say, so thank you. I have never understood why other people don't seem to strive to be the best that they can. I was rewarded well for thinking differently.
@mlkc3271 Жыл бұрын
Spot on! I find most people think I'm crazy or way off base when I express my thoughts or potential solutions, and they just ignore me--until they figure out their solutions aren't quite working out for them. Then they come knocking on my door . . . Getting used to it, though! Look forward to more videos on us "most magical and rarest creatures" 😉
@PaulBrake6 ай бұрын
I am rare indeed. To my knowledge, I have not met another.
@CC-mr5xq4 ай бұрын
Me neither. It gets lonely. I'm thinking of starting an INFJ club where I live.
@L4ki019 күн бұрын
And you are not from Serbia (like I am)
@starbest1x6 ай бұрын
Anyone else deeply studying physics to understand the universe? Would love to make friends with a likeminded person
@mikevecchio62845 ай бұрын
It's hard to find people in that like kinded mindset. I lost my son 7 years ago and was obsessed with death and everything that had to do with it and research every square inch of it. That's the same way with the cosmos learning how everything works. I need to know the engine outs because I am a fix it kind of guy. What I am realizing is that I am better off alone than with another person in my life because there's not one person that can handle this form of energy and they all try and quell me to make things comfortable instead of celebrating me for all the great things I bring to the table. I used to think it was my loss but now I know it's theirs.
@ReVolt_e-Vlogs Жыл бұрын
I'm a male Sigma INFJ, & it's like WE KNOW we're good chess players, but when we feel someone is "trying" to play mental games, OHHHH..... now they entered my world, & I'll act like a wounded animal to get people to expose themselves & THEN i go in for "CHECK MATE",& then let them know it's like prey in a spiders web, they're in no hurry to consume their catch, either are we!! 😅 We can be your best friend, OR WORST ENEMY, but one thing that really pushes us in over drive is when someone tries to play with our intelligence, this is when we become Bobby Fischers of mental chess.... 😈
@BradHoover-m1i9 ай бұрын
Is a huge ego a part of the list of descriptors of SINFJ?
@Peaceforall201118 ай бұрын
@@BradHoover-m1i these are based off of experiences that all of us have had and if you want to call it, ego you do it at your own peril your choices are yours,make them as you wish
@Freedom4Palestine36727 ай бұрын
@@BradHoover-m1ionly online, we don't tend to talk like this in public as we know it sounds preposterous and verging on arrogance lol
@ZJCitricAcidGraf.E.T.5 ай бұрын
I concur, OP And I'm a female SINFJ
@SamirKankalwar5 ай бұрын
Your are right bro like i am also chess player and what is your elo my elo is 1120 and wanna become GM. so i see psychology videos to become safe abd dont get manipulate and see some video to manipulate my friend at school and i am 13 years old but when i go to school i dont manipulate them i just tell them that psychology trick and warn them that dont get manipulate by others
@lindore168911 ай бұрын
💯 Spot On. This is how we are... love the night owl one. Honestly, I'm self employed and I often tell people i do my admin from 1am to 7am. That's when I'm most active. Around 10am to 2pm... I don't often follow well. Feel too loud outside
@jensmueller-p1r Жыл бұрын
we know a lot, we see a lot. Nobody listens to us. It is then the so-called old soul. How can you accept grievances when there are solutions for everything! Why don't people see it? Why don't they strive? Why don't they develop? Seeing what could be and no one wants is a heavy burden on our souls.
@ChuckieWoodhams9 ай бұрын
Like people are lazy? Lol
@z32luvr8 ай бұрын
I couldn’t agree more.
@StevhanHand7 ай бұрын
Most would rather continue to struggle on a long term (or lifelong) issue and "relate" to others through sympathy or misery. Misery loves company after all. If someone presents them with an honest, simplistically logical answer their struggle is felt as a insignificant. "It can't be that easy", even if it is. Some see constructive criticism as an attack. Some instantly compare themselves to you (or more their perception of you). Usually they all just forget it and go back to running in the same hamster wheel. Or at least that's how it usually is more often than not on my end of life.
@DanielFiorella6 ай бұрын
Absolutely!!
@mikevecchio62845 ай бұрын
Could you come over here and explain to these morons the same stuff that I'm trying to tell them then. Maybe if we do it together and then you'll be more credence. Haha that's impossible. They would never even listen to two people saying it. Everybody likes to live with blinders on.
@muffintopz469211 ай бұрын
7:08 Now you have said a mouthful right there Sir. Conversely, I’m actually not a night owl, believe it or not. It may appear that way but things aren’t always what they seem.
@yobiborja68775 ай бұрын
Finally, the unexplained me has come to light… never to be misjudged anymore.
@theawakenedone85427 ай бұрын
I have come to know, I am Batman the Dark Night, with Sherlock Holmes and Monk! all combined into ONE! Love it
@jensmueller-p1r Жыл бұрын
a detail, we long for the deep connection because we see it as the solution to all human problems. When we are under emotional pressure, we develop deep connections. We can stabilize ourselves in connections with other people. Stabilization also means growth for all people in this group.
@michele15887 ай бұрын
WOW! Boom! After boom after boom…after boom! Correct that’s a sigma INFJ
@MonoyaraArju7 ай бұрын
This explained me better. Seems it understands me better than myself
@ForEntanglement6 ай бұрын
Great video....! You described me to a t....oh, how i love my solitary nights of thought in silence 😊
@Lightness45510 ай бұрын
Wonderful video. Thanks
@danielkean6146Ай бұрын
Yep my life in video form. No I understand why.
@jensmueller-p1r8 ай бұрын
The time settings of the visions can be freely selected. It ranges from 11 years until death to a week's notice or 10 months.
@jensmueller-p1r Жыл бұрын
and in many ways I say thank you.
@jensmueller-p1r8 ай бұрын
Why do we strive so hard? Intuition never sleeps. We have to create special constructs to give our intuition a task so that we can have peace. For me it is a star that I vary again and again. This star is the imagination of intuition and your true core. The true core of intuition likes to create, think, and connect everything. If intuition were not given a task, it would ask the question of meaning, who am I?
@JaneenStokes104 ай бұрын
This is a perfect video telling you about Simga INFJ, thank you 😊
@KidsTV-rj8qc11 ай бұрын
Accurate. Watching right now, 12:18 am.
@cuadstar14 күн бұрын
My mind won't stop looking for solutions.
6 күн бұрын
Loved the context as it was very relatable. Hated the background music though. Discordant with the voice. Very distracting too.
@mikevecchio62845 ай бұрын
It has literally gotten to a point where I have purged nearly everybody out of my life including friends and family. I don't want to hang out with people with these kind of shit values and constantly having my light dimmed by them in an effort to control me. It's very very hard to admit you've been hanging out with shitty people but after these last couple get done I will never have a problem again because I will be sure to identify my boundaries early on instead of placating and conforming to other people's expectations.
@mki277467 ай бұрын
Love the duck analogy
@jayapadmanabhan19555 ай бұрын
Thanks for helping me, to find myself
@johnsonmaxius Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@MarleyOlivo5 ай бұрын
I love your genius Einstein cognitive behavior!
@happinesslight5101 Жыл бұрын
Yep sums me up. Next new person I meet who inquires into my weirdness will be receiving this video saving me valuable time. I couldn't even explain myself as well as you just did in 10 mins.... you have a gift I look forward to watching more videos on your channel. Thank you!
@mikevecchio62845 ай бұрын
I have tried that avenue and but you're going to learn is that more than likely people will not be into listening to it and they will shut it off within the first 5 minutes because they don't want to know the truth. And this is how it happened for me and with my closest family and loved ones.
@oo0RECON0oo7 ай бұрын
Yup this describes me
@rkhudd5 ай бұрын
Sigma INFJ here… I can honestly say I responded to every statement in the affirmative lol 👊🏻
@spmoran47039 ай бұрын
Describes me very well.
@maricarfigueroasetosta6 ай бұрын
This is my First time to watch this video and im very amazed , and interesting for this, im a 3rd yr collage student taking a course BACHELOR OF SECONDARY EDUCATION MAJOR IN MATHEMATICS here in Philippines
@coryjay279110 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@hichemo94003 ай бұрын
INFJ + Sigma = really dangerous or marvelous COMBO 😈
@missco28207 ай бұрын
Like a cat that plays with a mouse 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love playing with people to see what triggers them. 😊😊😊
@L4ki019 күн бұрын
3:45 earth is not globe
@vktravellog12428 ай бұрын
I am a mix of INFJ and INTJ. As I get older I think I am leaning to more INFJ
@PaulBrake6 ай бұрын
You cannot be both.
@remhk66723 ай бұрын
@PaulBrake I tested out as an INFP but INFJ personal qualities and traits most definitely fit me to a T.
@donmulder80615 ай бұрын
Try being a male combat arms officer in the army for many years and being a SINFJ. Funny thing is when I was a young lieutenant, I tested out as a strong ISTJ. By the time I retired, I was an INFJ (borderline). A few years after retirement and I am pegged to the max as an INFJ. People change and now I see myself in this video. It is lonely as a SINFJ. It is hard to explain to people why you demand something in their performance or a plan or a contract. But you know that you wouldn't demand it if it werent absolutely necessary. Then the one thing you demand, they don't want to give unless you can explain it but you cant because they cant see it - they lack the ability. And when it goes haywire because it was not included in the plan or contract or a mission, they never say, yeah you were right. Then you beat yourself up for letting it get by. If you force it and all goes well, they never attribute it to the fact that you demanded x,y or z. It just happened recently on a contract. A tiny detail and it slipped thru and I caught it but no one else could see the pattern. Only me. It's not brilliance -- it's ability to see certain things certain ways. And people don't like it.
@mikevecchio62845 ай бұрын
Mostly people don't want to hear it is I think the actual truth. People like living in a gray and fuzzy world. Ignorance is bliss in their mind.
@jensmueller-p1r Жыл бұрын
All decisions we make are made from a moral perspective. It is not a choice of your own, but a dictate of intuition. Our brain works like this. Our brain thinks morally and then in the second “loop” logically, explanatory. It is not society that tells us morality, but the lawyer. Yes, and the lawyer sees the world differently, so we see the world differently.
@ebooboo6784Ай бұрын
So me but never a night owl.. I'm a super early morning owl.
@ritakus9871 Жыл бұрын
You make us sound as though we are the most magical and rarest creatures in the world. 😅😊
@DanielFiorella6 ай бұрын
Because WE ARE!! Literally!❤️ Lol don't it suck!?
@JustinaJayne8 ай бұрын
Sigma Infj here. Yes. 👏🏻
@brianmoser39474 ай бұрын
We have got to Love one another...OR ELSE!?!🙏👍❤️😊🎈
@t2dwarrior2095 ай бұрын
Ahreed 100% as a Sigma INTJ-A.
@Cynthia-rt2mz4 ай бұрын
On my FIRST DATE with a man, we sat down and took that personality test! That was a new one for me! Anyway according to that test I scored that INFJK11-29 thing a majig 🤣. Like I cared, rolling my eyes. We did date. It's NOT THE MONEY HONEY, it is the MIND CONNECTION sweetie pie😉👌🏼😁.
@KerryConrad-o3v4 ай бұрын
SINGJ isn't playing chess, with others playing checkers, it's more like someone playing Go, against someone playing tictactoe.
@mattcole62926 ай бұрын
I'm nearly 60 and have been living in my car in the bush and beaches. Art will express soon.
@mattcole62926 ай бұрын
Ì never fell for the C scamdemic hoax fraud 19.
@TyeDyeTapes5 ай бұрын
That could never be me lol 🤭
@CC-mr5xq4 ай бұрын
Dear God, Please help me become more Sigma. Thank you, INFJ
@anthonylemison22337 ай бұрын
Glory is no good 😊 without blood, sweat n tears 😂😆😆😆😆
@jensmueller-p1r8 ай бұрын
In case there is still a SIGMA INFJ. Never try to find the logic, there is no logic in the future. you can find the vision through an additional loop and have a logic search, but that's difficult. Ask about variation in vision, about improvement. It is not true that the visions always come true if you choose another one.
@LanternConduit7 ай бұрын
What r u lying bout?
@PaulBrake6 ай бұрын
Our logic is non-linear, just like the math that runs the Universe. That is why people cannot understand us; they are linear thinkers.
@nikkinova.sd.6 ай бұрын
Maybe put the pipe down?
@LanternConduit6 ай бұрын
@@nikkinova.sd.look mama no hands!!!
@jamesdean62809 ай бұрын
Det lyder lyder godt med en masse om om
@TifaAnnTheEmpressJourneyАй бұрын
^_^° I love this ❤
@ErinIsRealАй бұрын
WE KNOW WE'RE NOT ON A PINNING BALL!!
@jensmueller-p1r8 ай бұрын
We see a better way, so why settle for the old one?
@L4ki019 күн бұрын
Sigma infj is perfect fit for conspiracy theoretist
@alphaomegalovesu10176 ай бұрын
end game
@lucbedard75645 ай бұрын
I feel more like a cursed that i didn't know at the age of 17 44 year ago. i'm in the generation of Baby Boomer and at the age of 30s i saw deeper within the timeline of first Bedard who came in Canada Quebec, i fall in love with detective stories with all kind of mystery as i start writing scenario's before my teen. In the age of 50s i start to looking who and what i am by finding video on youtube. It was at the age of 30s i start cracking cods to see beyond information of realms of reality, with a new found skill combine with investigation and scenario's, i saw very clear to outcome from what the past reveal with confirmation to this day. ....the day will come with a new advance technology we've won't need physical transportation by using ''Conduct Matter Energy Field'' throughout the universe property,
@mentallightspeed7 ай бұрын
I'm a Sigma...Super Empath..whats a Sigma INFJ? I'm just like this as well...what is with the INFJ? THIS SOME KINDA SIGMA CLUB? 😂
@Freedom4Palestine36727 ай бұрын
INFJ is a personality type. From the Myers Briggs categorisation. Sigmas are rare, as are INFJs, this coupled together it's a very rare persona.
@mikevecchio62845 ай бұрын
Did you ever hear of the word cognitive dissonance... I'm in my late '50s and just like all you brainiacs, I struggle with relationships because people refused to want to know the truth. Jordan Peterson said that people like it gray and fuzzy and without clarity because it makes life easier for them. And as we all know, we do what's best and not what is easiest. And if you don't stay on course then you'll fall into the pit that they all lay in.
@tomahgoings90754 ай бұрын
The way I think is what you wish your minds could evolve into. Ancient conversations would and are a letdown. Your minds disappoint me.