WHEN THE INFJ FINALLY DARES TO BE SEEN (this happens) - Rarest Personality Type MBTI

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INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Today, we delve into the transformative journey of an INFJ when they finally embrace visibility. While fears of standing out are universal, INFJs seem to experience this fear amplified. The underlying reason is simple - our rarity. As only 1% of the population, our authenticity naturally draws attention, inviting both positive and negative reactions. Unlike others who blend in effortlessly, INFJs face a unique challenge. Yet, once we bravely step into the spotlight, confronting our deepest fears, an internal metamorphosis unfolds. This profound shift within us ultimately renders external opinions insignificant.
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[@Wenzes]

What is keeping you from being truly visible as an INFJ?

[@natureglimses]

😂 I am truly visible not once but trice but truly the world is blind and therefore I am invisible according to them

[@ramprasathp4940]

Our own mind, 🤷‍♂ but not any more!🚀✨❤ @Wenzes

[@nourfattouh6547]

💙 I think I'm in the first step and all those who r supposed to be close are leaving

[@johnnymac6178]

The door to my apartment that I almost never go through to be seen by other people. 🤣😂

[@jojoqueenofswords932]

what do you do if your family ridicules you?

[@stephaniesomer5934]

I’ve mastered the art of not giving AF. I’ve no secrets and I do not care what people say about me. Abandon me at your own detriment, for those who have, regret the permanent loss of me, after I’ve slammed and barricaded the door…there’s no coming back and I don’t give AF. I’ve got no secrets and who am I to judge about judging?😉😂 🤗❤️🇺🇸

[@basantidevi2305]

I actually have imposter syndrome now. Once my employer found out I was INFJ after taking the test, they began gaslighting and creating cases. I left but this happens all the time. I'm quiet so it makes people uneasy. My bf who has a software engineering degree said I carry myself like I have a doctorate even though I just have a HS diploma and life experience. The confidence I have and how quiet I can be being busy observing people unnerved people who are superficial. I see right through them and they hate it.

[@Lyrielonwind]

They know you can see through their bs 😂

[@priyanshuranjan3047]

You said it right what toxic and poisonous people fear from us .As we expert in exposing them by our observation skills. 😂😂

[@kg_nyc]

Being an INFJ is weird. We start as these like low level characters with the least amount of points to put into stats and have to go through this 'learning curve' of needing to learn how to live in this world. But then we get this unique trait right off the bat where we also start with like a Bachelor's of Psychology.

[@lynnejames2806]

Most of my life, I didn’t understand why other people didn’t see the truths and the patterns that I see. It would make me mad that they didn’t see them too, or I felt I was wrong, or crazy. Thanks for helping me understand I am not. Also in my childhood, my Dad teased me about always wanting to help others. That’s me. INFJ.

[@theADHDinfj]

This is me

[@ammarraza7327]

"You can't hurt me I've found peace within myself." Michael Jackson

[@drlarrymitchell]

Chamone.

[@rigamarole1117]

He def did not have peace

[@marvinbeachy1893]

INTJ here. I think INFJs are very special. ❤

[@DeeDeex007o]

As are INTJs!

[@jennifercee5584]

And so are you! 🥰

[@sarahlanctot]

INTJ’s are the best! ❤️(INFJ here)

[@cazzalyric]

1% darling ❤Oh yes we are✨

[@corporaterobotslave400]

Accept and embrace your difference, your weirdness. As you accept your differences you will find others will, too, and you will attract your tribe while avoiding those who misunderstand you. Trying to "fit in" is where INFJs constantly face rejection, so create your own space, your own world, and your own ways, and then share that with open minded people who dig your vibe. Don't try to be like others, be yourself.

[@alaalfa8839]

What is wrong with thinking and behaving like a robot???? 😃 And collecting hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of stuff that you probably don´t need. Wait a minute robots don´t feel? I forgot.

[@DearYoungerSelf111]

Thank you for this ❤

[@sayusayme7729]

Thank you,yes been stuck there a few times. Icky conservative city. Moving soon 🦋

[@ristaariani6178]

The older I get, I don't want try to fit in. I love myself. Who care with judgements of other people 😂😊

[@ranc1977]

This topic is closely linked to social anxiety and trauma, bad experiences from the past where we stopped going out and started avoiding people and expressing ourselves.

[@spiralweaver7740]

I love how us INFJs need coaching! Im glad there are some other people out there like me, thanks internet!

[@priyanshuranjan3047]

Hey buddy ✌️best wishes from INFJ to another INFJ

[@suefluger3786]

My new mantra is ‘Let them.’

[@natureglimses]

Whoever has lost connection with true values has lost everything - "all is lost if character is lost "

[@R.S-1986]

Dare to be seen, become a legend. People love our energy, as simple as that 👌.

[@7goldglamour777]

I think it depends on what our personal beliefs are, based on who might be seeing us. The environment is everything. I think we can sense that.

[@R.S-1986]

@goldglamour6457 The only thing that matters is you believing in yourself and the thing you like to do.

[@p.l.l.jburleson23]

❤

[@drusillialeavel7533]

When I realised that 9 out of 10 person who were saying I was weird, to me were narcissistic. They were doing this to ashamed me for clamping my abilities. So embarrassed about not being a sociality clone. And helped even more efficiently people.

[@stephaniesomer5934]

😂of course narcissists will feel uneasy when around you…for you are empathetic and a human lie detector… their kind are the mortal enemy of the INFJ. Slay!😂 🤗❤️🇺🇸

[@drusillialeavel7533]

@@stephaniesomer5934 you're true 😂🤣👍🤍😇

[@peacefulsoundtracks]

Wow…I feel like God dropped this in my lap and I’m so grateful. I’m one of those people who have done lots and lots of internal work, made some progress, but my life pretty much exploded after I decided to publish my first fantasy novel a month ago. Exploded as in-my self esteem went down the drain as all my insecurities were dredged up and basically reinforced with mixed reviews and feedback. Rejection is my biggest fear, along with being invaluable and worthless. Anyway…half of me has regretted doing it, being in as much pain and agony as I’ve been in. But this video gives me hope that it’s the exact thing that’s going to heal me the most and set me free. And ultimately, I’ll do almost anything to be free of the emotional pain I’ve been in and the blocks that have held me back in life. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@mm810ification]

Publish your books for YOU. And don't read the comments/feedback. You finished something great and that's something to be proud of. Your opinion of you matters more than the opinion of all that feedback. Keep putting yourself out there courageously, after all, you just did and you made it through ❤

[@peacefulsoundtracks]

@@mm810ification thanks so much for reminding me of this. I really needed to hear it. 💚

[@aninfjsoul7886]

Now I understand why I always felt so lost when I went out, as if I was an alien. As long as I was in my own space, home, I felt peaceful and had an identification but whenever I would go out, it felt like hell because nobody would think of me as someone special, even though I had such different thinking and ideas. I still feel that way but atleast I know that there's nothing wrong with me.

[@Lola-mt1ne]

This is a fabulous channel. As a 76 yr-old INFJ who didn't know that for much of my life, I appreciate this content.

[@lindateuling7862]

The test really does explain a lot. I first took it in 1985. The Myers Briggs Indicator has stood the test of time. It came out a few years before I was born (I'm about a year older than you).

[@michelleelizabeth1063]

A person at work said I was dumb and weird and followed me with a smudge stick lol. It made me laugh and I walked away. She was furious. 😅

[@rigamarole1117]

Omfg I'm sorry you work with a karen

[@dawnmurphy1169]

Fear of rejection and reprisals always hold me back. But reality is we can’t control how others react to us. This video is a wonderful message. Tough love ❤but needed.

[@the_alizerah]

Wenzes, a national treasure, nah a Universal treasure. Just on point with every character ishh❤

[@jasmin1773]

Fear of rejection, and fear of criticsm. For me its not that hard anymore to be authentic with friends and family, but in job life it feels really complicated and I feel like Im just at the beginning.

[@natureglimses]

Come on you can do it , stand alone but put your values right first and stand by it , or go against all at your office then being alone you can see what really are the things that you like

[@jasmin1773]

@@natureglimses Thank you for your supporting words😊💪.

[@stephaniesomer5934]

I’ve been following the stoic philosophy… tons of videos on KZbin and they resonate…

[@etcwhatever]

What i can tell you from my own experience is: dont do too much work, pass the message that your time is precious. Avoid too many useless meetings. Im more appreciated now that im not available. Before i was walked over.

[@Peaceforall20111]

I have been let myself seen as my pure Infj self for a few years now. Very interesting results. As excepted, some love it, some hate it, and some can’t get enough of it. Never expected this reaction at this level

[@LifeontheBush]

I don't know if this is an infj thing or not but throughout life I'm constantly improving and learning and I do feel that to some extent once people get to know this about me and see my true self that they can be intimidated by me. This has lead to many friends leaving me over the years. I feel like people seem to be resistance to change and because I'm forever changing it can bring up unusual feelings in those people.

[@susandoerr3896]

1st 30 years living next 30 figuring it out.

[@CJBradley]

I'm such a old INFJ I make it easy for people to know what to expect from me, and I don't care what they think or say, I'm used to it.

[@diannadinno128]

loving your new hairstyle!

[@yeswing10]

Yes, she has a beautiful face...new hairstyle frames her perfectly. 🌹

[@jx3751]

If I could take one INFJ video to a desert island it would be this one

[@evashnan]

Totally agree🎉

[@Digits-nf9fo]

I built sigma on top of my INFJ to deal with and advance the developed sense of mission/self. I really love to analyze then advocate, but also recede to recharge. I still love adventures in ideas and learning. I am now 61. I am respectful, but forthright. I stay fact-based, and as objective as possible. This keeps me away from dialoguing about me, just advocacy.

[@lindateuling7862]

When I made my big change it was a process: a change in conversational habits, and facing something that had been bothering me for a long time. I told very few people about it, but a lot of them were seeing changes - which they couldn't always explain. The steps I started didn't happen all at once, but bit by bit, things improved. And interestingly enough, I did manage to find the right people with whom I could talk about it freely. There weren't a whole lot of them, but they were key people, and that's what mattered. I know that the biggest thing that caused the change was simply doing certain things in a way that came naturally to me, and not explaining why or how. I still continue to grow, and I know a lot of the growth even now was based on the times when I made choices that harmonized with these five points you've made here. And by the way, in my experience when I am doing something my own way, I usually find out that a person who tells me, "You're weird" says it because I'm not doing it his or her way! 😄

[@MDWavemaster]

As I watch your videos, I find myself taking deep breaths or not breathing at all...and then taking deep breaths. After nearly 45 years of life, I still don't like that this is a reality.

[@MeelaBliss]

Same! I do it more than I realize

[@Name_Lessness]

Just walking around the mall yesterday I could hear comments as I'm walking by like, "where did he get that coat" or "how old do you think he is?" These are typically neutral comments but do people understand that we can see them staring at us in our peripheral view and that it extends to our hearing? Lol, people watchers can be the worst. 😂

[@olusha]

I never took the MBTI test seriously but after listening to your videos, you're clarifying a lot for me and it's surprisingly revealing. So now I'm thinking that there must be truth in it because your observations and suggestions are so relatable, compassionate, supportive & helpful. Thank you @Wenzes

[@erkkapehto9125]

As an INFJ male, self-acceptance has been difficult as I'm not the stereotypical masculine man who likes weight lifting and cars, but I'm rather quite sensitive, artistic, empathetic, and sometimes I come across as quite serious and too deep and sentimental for some. But I've embraced my nature and learned that the only way to thrive is to be authentic so nowadays I try to not care about being "cool" or "normal" but just purely myself regardless of what others think

[@broyout3586]

Wenzes, I want to say thank you. I am both astonished (and quietely proud) of how much of what you say I figured out myself, including how to best approach it, as well as impressed at how much more there still is to digest. I also wonder what my life had looked like now if I had discovered this 30-40 years ago (I am 49). I still feel reluctance towards embracing labels and strict classifications on my condition, even if those understandings fit to a tee, and I am sticking those labels myself. The time I put any value on the labels others use is long in the past. i will purchase one of your prodcucts as a token of appreciation of what you do and what you give. I also want to extend my thanks to those in the comment section. I am perfectly fine alone. But it sure as hell feels nice to discover I am not the only one after all. Thank you, all of you.

[@aniokay]

Honestly, I feel ashamed when I am seen. I am afraid of letting my quirky side show. I am actually really quirky, when I'm not internalizing other people's gaze. I am so much up in my head and in my own world that I am sort of like the absent minded professor. And I know if I let that side of me show people are going to take me less serious and think that I am not dangerous or think that I am cute or whatever, and I don't really want that...

[@lindateuling7862]

I'm a big believer that we need to take responsibility to live good, rational lives. But these decisions are easier to make when we know ourselves better. When I listen to the explanations that you make, I appreciate the fact that you emphasize how we can take personal responsibility for how we handle what we were given to work with.

[@olusha]

Thank you so much, your structure and communication of this topic is excellent and so helpful .

[@amrutak4945]

Over time, I’ve realised It’s so important to grow to your full potential - to feel good about yourself and to be of service in the real world. Thanks for this content!

[@JH-lb7ig]

This is a fantastic video ❤ thank you Wenzes! 💫

[@casablanca3830]

Amazing content. Thank you!

[@channelskip]

Came to my feed at the ideal time. Appreciate you!

[@ms.donaldson2533]

I am an INJF living in Baltimore, Maryland and my lifelong obsession has been history. Now that the Francis Scott Key Bridge is siting in the Boy - the DEPRESSION that is fueled by others hater and ignorance is REALLY affecting me! No one understands and it hurts my heart.

[@Digits-nf9fo]

You are very good at this Wenzes.

[@pariszelfora]

This means a lot and also came at a time when I'm struggling with this issue! Thanks for sharing this, Wenzes! ☺

[@bumblebee_mrs]

So many "she (Wenzes) blew my mind" moments in this video.

[@meganmck1473]

Great message...timely! Your videos have changed my life. Thank you 😊

[@lissandragonzalez9253]

Gracias Wenzes! en verdad gracias, ahora estoy entendiendo mi ser INFJ, siempre me sentí tan fuera de todo, pero ahora mi espíritu se siente libre ...

[@Lyrielonwind]

Mi madre primero y después otra gente me han dicho que soy rara. Antes me dolía y ahora lo veo como un cumplido porque no quiero ser como los demás. Tampoco quiero ser como mi madre que valora a la gente según lo que posea. "Tanto tienes, tanto vales" es su forma de juzgar a los demás. No me importa ser su opuesta. Me parece un privilegio no parecerme a ella. Suena mal si no la conoces como yo la conozco: no tiene un gramo de instinto maternal. Saludos 🤗

[@Thechameleon14]

You explained it so well. Thank you so much. Your videos are really helpful. Blessings to you!

[@Earthangel11179]

Universe got me here 😂

[@nadineappesbacher952]

this video comes at a time, where I am pretty far on my self-concept journey, which made me guess if i am not an infj anymore after i am almost fine with who I am amongst other people ... but here we go...

[@sayusayme7729]

I appreciate your wonderful wisdom, thank you 🤍

[@CharleneCoscarelli-vk2bc]

This is such great advice. ❤

[@ablprose491]

That’s a female perspective, not a male one. Fear is not driving force for the latter, but rather, integrity. Just cos people choose to be insulting, doesn’t translate into me being insulted.

[@NevilleHewines]

Amazing! Thank you!

[@user-bu2mq3tw7w]

I have other intentions by showing myself, so that following young INFJs don't spend their entire lives thinking they are crazy. You can grow and understand yourself where I last needed for over 30 years. Knowing who you are allows you to have real, deep, inner happiness, but I have that even without saying anything to anyone else. We have to grow and that can only happen in harmony with ourselves. Our abilities are not freely developed and yet they form some incomprehensible things. I see the true INFJ and how they suffer, how they don't even understand that a simple intuition question about a "task" in your language is a question of meaning. Many people know too little about ourselves.

[@DjTahoun]

Thank you so much , that was very insightful You ve got a new subscriber 🌹😇🌹

[@RememberTrueStyle]

This video is much better than anticipated. So on point! Describes the process I have been through so much! Wow...thank you so much! We'll done

[@royal_lotus8834]

Thanks you Wenzes! I needed this! Your video's are helping me a lot getting my epic life!! ^-^

[@stopwars8642]

great video

[@AskAuntChina]

Thank you so much for all of your work! I’m blessed to be experiencing this point in life 💕

[@vj.joseph]

I really love your advices. Very Empowering ideas you have. Do make more advices for fellow INFJ people. 😍😍❤❤

[@luciana1930]

Thank you

[@Cloven137]

Introverted Intuitive master race!!! I knew a girl who I suspect was INTJ or FJ. Yes, she was a rare one... I am something around an INTP, and I am viciously strange, but I JUST DON"T CARE anymore...

[@duckey83]

I really need to talk to an INFJ, just one conversation to ask for a judgement about something that i feel guilty about. anyone? please let me know and i would appreciate it very much because it's gonna help me with self realization.

[@askask7468]

Hello. I'm INFJ.

[@victoriabrand2777]

Thank you- I am still in the caring what people think phase

[@DialecticDeveloper]

Thanks. This topic seems like one of the most important, because pursuing life as our true selves is one difficult thing, but then knowing the reactions to expect as a result, how those reactions affect INFJs, and techniques for handling those reactions is very helpful--including encouraging. Courage to be our true selves is something discussed across cultures throughout millenia. What does Wenzes think about Stoicism aligning with INFJ types?

[@jazzychazzy007]

Love this: it's not reality it's a perspective.

[@Joohee4]

Your videos help me so much❤

[@user-bu2mq3tw7w]

I really tried over and over again to find a way to create the harmony. I analyzed it over and over again for a long time. I examined so many things and finally realized that people don't want it by their nature or they don't know it. I don't know if you can't see that everything could be different or if your nature is so rigid that it won't allow anything else. The second is fundamentally wrong, because over a period of eight years - which I analyzed and tested in social structures - people can adapt to my behavior. People want harmony and happiness. It is the most fundamental and simple question. Show a person the way and he follows you? No he does not. People don't follow dreams and goals, only power.

[@carmencook7026]

Wait I can have epic life?!!!

[@rosemckenzie8269]

I just laugh at them cause its funny to me 😂🤭 when they try to put me down, make fun of ne, mock. When they try to bring up my past I tell them " my bad, i forgive myself for my bad ways but im not there anymore" and roll my eyes

[@shashankkasliwal6381]

Simply super ❤

[@japanesereadingandwriting]

Ich liebe diese Sendung!

[@1050545]

4:45 👍

[@victoriabrand2777]

Subconscious programming and projection- confront my feelings, right

[@FulvioGa]

I am very interested in INFJ women.

[@roxifinch9997]

Shared love roxi finch uk ❤

[@3six9_eye_am]

Talking right to me.

[@stacydemontagnac5948]

I have a new statement: Fit OUT

[@coralhahn3389]

Hmm. But we are supposed to have some level of engagement. Ive put my book out thrre 4 years and 200 followrrs and still extremely low to no engagement. I want to reach certain folks and certain avenues and have taken steps to connect with people in those areas. Its discouraging because people dont understand anymore it seems what healthy engagement is

[@jameskeating4719]

Yeees ❤

[@kensweeney9057]

Just out of curiosity, I've noticed KZbin has made changes to cards and video links for in-video pop-ups, and I don't think any of you have noticed. The video you reference at the end of the video actually pops-up a minute and a half before your queue. I have noticed this, because these pop-ups cover-up the video in the most inconvenient places and times. I mention this only because I want to know if you all have even noticed, or if you review your videos before-hand to make sure they display correctly, or if you just "Spray and Pray."

[@KingDomsKingdom85]

Being an INFJ is tough as s###, mentally. Its exhausting. Wenzes state of mind is my aim, as everything she says is who i am, with frightening accuracy. She knows how to fix our gifted, yet messed up minds lol.

[@alaalfa8839]

"The slave is waiting for a reward. The happy person rewards himself." - Pavel Nováček "The system is creating slaves." - Jaroslav Dušek What is nice about these quotes, you can be manipulated at work, feeling like nothing you do is good enough, even if you make all the plans 100 percent. or you can be manipulated by social media algorithms and nonsense, or by corporate media. But only when you abandon yourself, only then is it a problem. You would abandon yourself and others, you can not give love to yourself and others. because in the materialistic 3D world, nothing will be good enough. Go out, enjoy nature, the sun, the fresh air, and exercise. It's for free and nature will never make you feel that you are not good enough. The body is listening to you, therefore you should listen to your body, to feel joy, happiness, and gratitude for yourself and others Scientists prove that it makes you look younger and live longer because it activates enzymes called Telomeres and it increases the immune system of the body.

[@thecasualreviewer2148]

Not only does she have my personality type, she pretty much speaks with my accent as well. Go figure

[@stacydemontagnac5948]

Yep we do stick out. I try to blend but it doesn't work. I get the odd looks no mayter what

[@dhamon-pi6os]

Whats tge problem with being weird?

[@Lyrielonwind]

None. 😊

[@angelabenz315]

❤❤

[@VidMaya999]

❤

[@user-bu2mq3tw7w]

I have a nice question for your community. A question that bothered me for decades. Why don't people want harmony? I thought they wanted you to have money so they could be harmonious. Money made you obsessed with power and hurt others. I thought you were talking about technology and the opportunity to grow. I gave you technology and you use it to hurt others and gain power for yourself. I thought so often that people were missing something and I tried, like a puzzle, to find what would fix them.

[@glenshaver9013]

Question; why does it feel , that’s a circle of babbling of con friction .

[@glenshaver9013]

Question ; why do we feel , that was just a babbling circle of constructive suggestions .

[@rhythmmantic1758]

INFJ 1% HD Reflector 1% It'd be interesting to know how many INFJ's are also Reflectors in the Human Design system 🤔

[@peacefulsoundtracks]

I’ve always been curious of the human design ratio too. I’m a manifestor in HD

[@user-rc2xs5ti2w]

Yes. We need to be seen in steroids.

[@Magicalfluidprocess]

What’s an infj?

[@micramz]

Huh?

[@tinaLcormany8111]

Who? What?

[@fearenheit7423]

🙂😶‍🌫️

[@KundaliniKing42]

2:58 I AM INFJ AND I AM WEIRD AND FEARLESS I DARE TO BE SEEN kzbin.infoXc-e2CurHzo?si=mA8b6c3D7bNL3n05

[@eminak4351]

Try Trauma Work

[@hotep7942]

What is infj?

[@CarlosSahajdacny]

And what is the difference with *Autism* ?

[@Lyrielonwind]

Or complex ptsd, adhd and so on. I understand your question. I think being Infj is childhood trauma related in the shape of a scapegoat. Just my theory.

[@lextor4712]

​@@Lyrielonwindthe NF is creates through trauma

[@Lyrielonwind]

@@lextor4712 Thanks for your comment. I had that theory and just yesterday night was confirmed by this channel in another video. Character is inborn and personality types the results of upbringing.

[@summerrain3251]

@@LyrielonwindScapegoat of a highly sensitive truth teller.