This Is How You Distance Yourself From A Guy The Right Way!

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In today’s video, Alex Cormont the French Relationship Expert will tell you exactly how you can distance from a guy the right way. In this video, Alex will give you the tips you need to know on how to be distant and be able to ignore him.
00:57 - Men love a challenge.
01:57 - Focus on your personal life.
03:08 - Plan in advance.
04:39 - Create habits.
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[@Pollyk]

Would be amazing having a relationship with someone that we can have an honest communication about our feelings and we don't need to feel like we're playing chess all the time. I'm exhausted

[@sonias9722]

I had a good thing going with someone.. then he started to treat me worse when he realized he's got me.

[@TheWBWoman]

I'm focusing so much on my life & myself that I'm exhausted. Dance class, road trips, long walks, doing my nails, studying for a work certification, etc... The only way to not obsess over these men I'm dating is to ensure not to scare them off is to be so darn busy. I even had to turn down a date with a cute guy because I'm just too busy! Plan the next 10 weekends!? I'm planning next weekend to turn my phone off and sleep all weekend!

[@sandracarli1110]

I think the main problem is the way we were educated. Women have to be nice, reliable, supportive etc. Then all the films etc. show us things that aren't real. If we had been shown to be independent and that it's good to follow our dreams, even if it means that we can play football like a boy, we would be less dependent from love. I'm trying to change some of the principles I learnt when I was a girl. Even my son told me that I don't need to answer messages immediately. I will do it only when girlfriends will write me. Women appreciate immediate support etc. With men it's different. Isn't that weird? The men we refuse, run after us.

[@Hillarymaryy]

THIS!!! I just want to be myself not this calculated person

[@lisadipasquale6121]

@Sonia S my mother use to tell me the nicer you treat people, the worse they treat you. Relationships are just too damn complicated. I'm exhausted.

[@Kamo27944]

I pray God blesses me with a man whom I never have to "make myself busy for" one who values me. An easy effortless love with someone who wants me as much as I want him.

[@hajji1509]

Good luck with that one! That's what I've thought all my life. Problem is, reality is just not like that. The reality is that probably 80 percent of men operate differently. The subconscious biological system is not at all what women are conditioned to believe. Took me a LONG time and many relationship coaching videos to get it through my thick head

[@amydamjanovic9183]

Dating is bloody exhausting.

[@nicoleta-teodoraiacob3386]

This feels harder than keeping a job in your life😂😂

[@eleveneleven5875]

i know right? eff this.. i'll do whatever i want.. if it requires so much hard work and effort just to keep him then byebyeeeee! i want a love that will feel right, secure, and effortless

[@TheWBWoman]

It is!!!

[@imanibroadnax921]

😂😂😂

[@ashash0]

so fucking true

[@hopeshavewings]

😂😂😂😂😅

[@saras.2173]

I’m not trying to get into a relationship because I want to be distant. For me the whole point of getting into a relationship is to be able to feel close to someone. If I have to change my lifestyle this much to keep him, maybe he’s not the right guy for me.

[@JulianaNeidhart]

Distance! Ignoring! Mirroring! The guy am seeing is the worst when u give him attention or show him affection! Now am using those 3 tips and things are following in good direction😊

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

This is great to hear! I'm happy this video is able to help you!

[@samboriboun2213]

Working more helps me to forget him, im loving the work making more money and saving for trips away to drink cocktails food and relaxing.

[@free2bemelj66]

Love the information! Thank you!!😊

[@precious..1111]

Thanks Alex another great video🇬🇧❤

[@irinakushnir8338]

To be educated in relationship domain is very important, it's important to work with a coach like Alex.

[@KyalisiimaJoy-oz8ej]

Thank you so much Alex cormont 💪

[@sharafunnissapv4825]

Thanks.. A lot Alex. You are amazing..

[@kimgordon3695]

Managing your inner feelings is key It's recognizing our happiness is our own responsibility. Taking your power fully is a total turn on & when He compliments You saying "Wow!you're not needy!" You'll feel valued. #DoYou (then) #ShareYou 💞 BeYou #Plan10

[@jennymolbomai5595]

thank you so much Alex for your good advice

[@annabarone8727]

I am someone that always responds fast and when I don't I feel like I'm playing a game. I love him I don't want him forgetting about me

[@mariannaoosthuizen9639]

You should only be living together if you are already married thats the point!

[@AnitaSharma-hc3ib]

Thank you so much for sharing such a wonderful tips 💐💐🙏🏻

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@dannibritton333]

You are brilliant. Always the best advice 💕

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@almlaoztas7475]

Alex im happy to have you as a coach even if we not meet with eachother face to face but whenever i feel so lonely and sad , im watching your videos and being happy

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching! I'm always happy to help you!

[@Faizah227]

Same as me I am here new subscribers

[@glasysmabada1984]

Thank u so much alex

[@liselotteberntsen7109]

Thank you 💚

[@karengarr8370]

Thank you so much Alex. I'm already doing this, but you just verified to me that I am doing things correctly. And it is good, I'm sure that my and my guy's relationship is good because of this. For me anyway, I like my own time and my alone time anyways, I myself don't always want to be around him, so this works out for me, and for him

[@petermary5181]

Alex, this was very helpful. Thank you. I love your accent by the way

[@melodysakala9290]

Thank you so much

[@mariadelamercedcharro1047]

Very usefull

[@rachealmubanga5521]

Yes I want to be independent, distant and a challenge to make him fight for me

[@shilpabagade6205]

Superb video!!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much Shilpa!

[@bebe1415]

You are the best!

[@RoselynAbella-fr6wj]

I try that way.. thanks the tips..

[@karyna2824]

brilliant advice

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@denniseperez6158]

I love your videos, your content.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you !

[@janjasmolic5674]

Thank you💫

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@lucye5752]

It’s so much easier to be single 🤦🏼‍♀️ I don’t think I can be arsed anymore

[@ARMYSTRONG007]

I love giving a man the gift of goodbye.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@ARMYSTRONG007]

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert just be full of care knowing that a lot of woman are not making it out of these “relationships” alive.

[@syramalik8914]

Thanks alot Alex

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

You're always welcome, Syra!

[@shoshannacorner8753]

I spend my time learning French; and I’m meeting people from all over the world. The one I love is in France. I know if I am supposed to be with him someday, it will happen.

[@zelik654]

Love you Alex ❤️

[@juliealleston9116]

Very true words i focus on myself then he does the chasing 😅

[@generationalcursebreaker5397]

Just move On and act like he doesn’t exist. Respect the dead

[@vivianmunene4867]

Exactly 💯. I love your comment ☺️...

[@themessengerinternationalt3341]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ChristineNaibei-eb6vs]

😂😂😂😂🤣

[@fatimasalie3911]

Thanx❤😊

[@madhurifeldman995]

Have found your videos very insightful, and appreciate how you break things down from different perspectives. One thing that I'm having trouble finding is situations like this where you need to incorporate distance, but how do you do that when you're trying to start a long distance relationship? Someone you've met once and trying to see where things go. Since it's not like you can go on regular dates, how do you know what's too much txt/communication and what's not enough? I did see the video you did with Mark about setting a future meetup. But what about the in between? Thanks!

[@Soniaks]

Hopefully I can help, since you’re in a long distance relationship I think what you can do to incorporate distance is not always being available to text so quickly because you’re busy in your own life. You can create space there and same goes when your person wants to call you. Not always being available so easily and replying really quickly. Take your time when texting wait an hour or so sometimes and other times reply faster just don’t be predictable. When you do this he will miss you more. Of course don’t play games but actually create a schedule to keep your life interesting and busy like what was said in this video. I hope this was helpful! ❤

[@blingblingnelida]

Thanks!

[@blingblingnelida]

I like and Enjoy learning from your Videos Transparency Honestly...!!! Keep going 💪 with your Success Uniqueness Equisite manner.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much it means a lot to me!

[@solacesarfowaa1104]

I like your background

[@zahraalaswad1953]

I want to watch the next challenge Vedio

[@ishtaneel8305]

Ty! But women have to then cancel her old weekend plans to mk time for him. That gives a bad impression that I’ll skip original plans for him. So may be, keep one day of weekend free, do some chores if nothing better comes up?

[@FatmataFogbawa-rb2gr]

Yes sir I want to

[@deborahblaine4488]

I believe you are right to put distance between yourself and the guy. My person is young enough to be my son but I know he is attracted to me. Since he already claims we have a friendship..he makes no effort for us to get together plus there is so much more to this situation. I tried to end things last week but he would not have any of it. So I am taking things in my own hands and puttimy a lot of distance between us for months.

[@musicbrazilian7065]

He is probably avoidante, those guys dislike to create emotional attachments.

[@danilaroche1156]

Old enough to be your son? I don't know, hon. Doesn't look long term. I'd let it go for good.

[@madhuri.n5]

Hey Alex. I am from India. I want to tell you I suddenly bumped on your video and guess what it was 3:33 Angel nos. I kept thanking Angels for a minute and I realised you turned out to be an Angel for guidance for my situation. Thank you Alex. Much gratitude for your initiative for women in the world. I truly understood the meaning of self worth.❤ Much appreciated❤

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching and for your support! I truly appreciate this.

[@mayofw3163]

I have a long distance relationship for 10 months.He become cold and distance and I am the one who always make effort.Then I broke up with him and after a month were back for 2 months and now he is the one who broke up and I let him go.I still do love him but I won't chase him

[@nineangels7572]

I panic when I don't hear from him for 3 days. I hate this feeling & I need reassurance as we build our connection. We live in different states.

[@saras.2173]

He is not giving you what you need to be happy. He is failing. He is not enough for you.

[@alejandramontemayor9016]

Or you want to regulate your nervous system to become securely attached, and not depending on his actions to be regulated. Yes, he Can upset you, but derailing yourself emotionally for a guy that doesn’t call… what would it be if you had real problems like a kid sickness?

[@josephinejeffery]

We had a long distance relationship and could only see each other every other weekend due to children commitments- so when I did fill my free weekends with other fun stuff for me I literally couldn’t see him and he got offended and now we broke up. He thought I wasn’t interested as I didn’t keep my free weekend for him

[@vhayashi7369]

They're lazy and selfish. You need someone who will pursue you. These guys expect us to cater to them and it never works.

[@kimgordon3695]

That's okay. He's not ready yet...

[@sassydragonfly5063]

Good riddance! He wasn't that serious about you or respectful of your time if his expectation was that you would be "on call" for him.

[@ItsAllMoThug33]

As i man i would feel the same

[@ItsAllMoThug33]

@@vhayashi7369 low hanging fruit men who have no life will be happy to pursue you.a men with self respect will choose women who makes things easy for them

[@samanthaclark1547]

Does this even work when you are in a long distance relationship?

[@suzannecermy3700]

Stabd up for yourself,never sit by the phone for 2 weeks waiting f I r them to remember your alive! LIVE! Do You!!!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your comment!

[@alejandramontemayor9016]

What many women don’t get is that you CAN NOT place your emotional well being in something outside to you: Nor a guy, a job, your children…so for the ones “not wanting playing games” what they are really saying is: I depend on him to be happy

[@shoshannacorner8753]

Amen ; I’m learning to do this

[@shshafieha5379]

Hi Alex How a man can forget every memory and give a cold shoulder ?dont they miss a woman after a long term relationship really??i dont understand men ?don they have any feelings actually?

[@kimgordon3695]

A wounded child is different from a Man. Cherish your memories & #run

[@rvresh4789]

Thank you

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

You're always welcome RV!

[@munafibolong]

The thing is I don't know what I enjoy anymore. I used to like cafe hopping, going to the spa, swimming, clubbing. I don't find them enjoyable anymore. Now I only like to read books on my bed. How can I plan a fun life for myself??

[@RubGoddess]

Are you depressed?

[@twemtoomas3223]

You are so me

[@TheWBWoman]

Try some new things - take some different classes or join some meet-up type groups. Dance, art, hiking, - just try some things and see if you love anything.

[@Heavenlysky89]

If that's what you like, keep reading ...

[@blissedout-gu4cl]

So in other words be distant for good ? How does that land one an actual relationship or marriage or time with the loved one ?

[@kimgordon3695]

distant translates to having your own life. The rest is chemistry 💞

[@Sarasarah3]

I find it’s best not to overthink it, just make sure you always make time for a separate activity you enjoy like staying the night at your girl friend’s place, grabbing dinner with your bestie, taking yoga, stay the night at a relatives etc

[@FergbyFive]

Yes, speaking from the perspective of someone who was married for 20 years, irs very important to have a separate life as well as planned togetherness. That’s how you maintain desire for each other.

[@monhingmang2665]

hi sir

[@es-fu3qc]

What if they told you they're happy to not talk or see you? Will distance make them feel sorry for how they treated you bad?

[@basicinfo2022]

why would you want someone who doesnt want or like you? go where you are loved and valued. watch sheraseven youtube channel to level up.

[@Hailey0605]

Aw you have to get the focus back on yourself. Grant his desire by leaving him alone and use that space to build your confidence up. Once you put yourself on a pedestal that guy will either get in line or you'll realize he was never who you wanted

[@reneecrotty6910]

3:53 - So tip number thoo 😂

[@SusmitaSarkar-hl1ll]

Sometime he does not reply my call and SMS so what can I do

[@emmamauram765]

I want to be a challenge

[@wouldntyouliketoknow5342]

What if you have a husband that condemns you sending time with friends in the evenings and weekends when he is available and that I have to be available for him during those times.

[@lisaariottiart]

🤷🏼‍♀️I thought the point was getting together and building a life?

[@RubGoddess]

Yes but this will keep the passion going

[@kimberlylewis3952]

What do I do when acts not interested anymore? We were close now he’s dating someone else. We’re still okay with each other but I’m not going to make the effort

[@myra7379]

Alex I also follow you (with few other coaches Helena Hart is working with) You guys agree on one thing IF men tell you something believe them (such as I like you.. I always have great time with you) I met a guy ( btw I am 7 years older then him and have 2 kids and in the process of separation..He is single but he was living with someone last 5 years and they broke up 6 months ago & he said he doesn't date much.. he was the one who approached me & asked me out.. we had 2 friendly dates but we both felt the chemistry-attraction and he told me he likes me) after 2 dates he is ghosting me now (last 1 week no text messaging at all) One of your podcast with Helena you have advised " mirror his silence with silence 10 to 15 days " My Qs are 1- How come they say I like you but treating u this way 2- If he doesn't contact after 3 weeks Do u advise ladies to contact and ask some explanation ( even tho explanation just right front of us.. sorry I just lied or I'm not brave enough to face it " ) or even don`t bother and move on ? Thanks Alex

[@rickylumo8666]

I would say move on. If a guy likes you and respects you, he won’t leave you guessing.

[@user-kx7so1pc5f]

How can I get him down in text with me instead of long distance relationship

[@SusmitaSarkar-hl1ll]

Alex I think my ex said me lie that he will marry with a girl and does not talk with me anymore but how can I get him back please tell me that

[@timelesswords6826]

Stay single is the key😂

[@munirachechatwala]

Sir pls make your videos in hindi also

[@maggiedaniel1862]

6 months no communication with my husband he asked for a divorce I said ok but he’s not filing we don’t talk at all I feel like like pulling my hair out I don’t miss him I hate him I will move out no matter what he has no intention of doing anything finish it or fix it I’m losing patience

[@traceyrobinson1926]

When being distant, should I just ignore his FB posts too?

[@TheWBWoman]

Yes, he knows he's still got you 100% wrapped around his finger if you're still liking or commenting on his facebook posts every day.

[@princessvimari]

yes

[@katbess]

How long are you suppose to do this for??

[@jelka392]

forever 😂

[@melisasmith9485]

Is it too late to be a challenge when you have been assisting them through the breakup?

[@danilaroche1156]

It's never too late long as your alive .

[@SbongileMavuso]

Please send me the video of how to be a challenge

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Here is the video on my channel that will teach you how to be a challenge! i hope you have the time to check it out: kzbin.infotXrDzXhpMDk?feature=shared

[@sumitasarkar2767]

I call him but he blocked me and never call back

[@user-be7vy7mh8r]

I really need your help, I have a boyfriend who cuts me off most times, he only calls or texts me when he wants me to be at his place, after that he goes mute., I always try to communicate with him but he does not put in the the effort to call when he finds my missed calls nor text back after he gets messages from me, but he is the sweetest man I have ever met, so how do I make him communicate with me more often?

[@alomumbs]

That man is not interested in you. Find someone else who loves you for real.

[@rizabaran4503]

💖💖

[@user-zk7mc3jv5m]

We still live together but don't see each other much. He works evenings. So I see him for 1 hour before he leaves. Then on Friday and Saturday since he decided to split, he stays out drinking and sleeps at friends. They don't know that we have split, he hasn't told them. He says they just think he's having a good drink and can't drive home..Why hasn't he told them? How do I create the distance?

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Hi there, I know coach Alex would love to help you with this but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you through this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link; www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team

[@christinacatalano]

I just left a connection due to something similar. Granted me don’t live together, I realized it isn’t wrong or clingy to want to spend time with someone I’m dating and sleeping with. Of course, having our own lives is crucial. But when you see them actively choosing anything above spending time with you.. don’t you think you deserve more?🥹❤️ this realization helped me remain steadfast in my decision to take a break.

[@NgiestoKebaneetse]

How can I make him happy ,because he is always willing to be broking mie hurt each and every moment

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Maybe you're too codependent on him? And needy?

[@AndjelaRadovic-pf2ge]

I WANT TO BE DICTANCE

[@gracelikerain5848]

They love toxicity

[@SandraAlcorta]

I have a boyfriend we haven't seen each other face to face we haven't met in person I've been texting him for the past 2 days and he hasn't respond only maybe yesterday morning but that's it I haven't heard from him all day I don't want to judge him this he has someone else you think I should stop texting him and let him text me what do you think desperate for answers

[@princessvimari]

Yes, focus on yourself and stop doing first move. Change your behavior.

[@ToxicRelationships-t7z]

Sounds like a scammer. Not a boyfriend 😢

[@louvonnekline4676]

I need to know how to distance the right way cause I’m not doing it right. For sure not.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Hi there! Why do you feel like you're not doing it the right way?

[@louvonnekline4676]

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Because he will go back to ghosting me again. Am I supposed to not ever have sex with him? I will tell him next time that I will give him his space. It’s been over a week and he has not contacted me at all and I have not tried to contact him except this one game I play and it was only once and it’s a gaming app. That’s all. Eventually he’ll probably contact me again. I don’t get why he ghosts so hard.

[@rinalacuaren1815]

😙😙😙

[@tashacad1]

Wish all men was like you

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for the compliment!

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

🎬🎬

[@lourdesmapute8060]

Alex I'm. Break up my boyfriend last June and I no contact for 7months he comeback to me

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I'm so sorry to hear about this!

[@kristo3003]

Don't try to drive a man crazy . who want's a crazy man chasing them... 😊 😁

[@EvolvingMindsNow]

Job is easy than keeping a man happy

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

depends on the job!

[@AriessunvirgomoonlightLibraise]

Swear nothing should be this difficult, irritating an unnecessary... If women or men have to do all this just date 10 at once

[@Cvill502]

There’s absolutely nothing on your advice that is authentic . To be vulnerable is to be human. Tactics, strategies, manipulating and calculating situations are the opposite of what love and care embodies. If the guy doesn’t reciprocate an effort , he’s just not the right one.

[@yasminah6823]

Love is different from attraction. Love is not a game but attraction is. Attraction is based on human nature whether you like it or not. It's not fair and it's a bit messy. That's life.

[@hakbug]

I'm so tired of this manipulative advice and mind games. it is annoying; no wonder I'm single. Too much work

[@ItsAllMoThug33]

Haha how to ruin your relationship.don't trust these coaches

[@yuktiarora7105]

Know how to do it

[@nicoleta-teodoraiacob3386]

This feels harder than keeping a job in your life😂😂