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@janetstraw191 Жыл бұрын
After a few dates with a real high-quality man, I was at his place for a nightcap. I looked at my watch and told him it was time for me to go. He said, “Well, you are welcome to spend the night here - but I don’t suppose it would be polite to ask.” I turned to him, smiled, thanked him for a lovely evening, and replied - “No, it wouldn’t be.” I gave him a quick kiss on his cheek and left. We were married 18 months later. 👍🥰🙋♀️🇺🇸🌹
@KittyOfficiallyNotYo Жыл бұрын
how many years ago was that?
@iam303511 ай бұрын
🙏🏼🙏🏼
@mamaknow805610 ай бұрын
Still married??
@SpartanMGTOW19 ай бұрын
Meanwhile chad and Tyrone never had to wait! 😂
@danilaroche11569 ай бұрын
@@SpartanMGTOW1STOP! I'm abstinent too. Waiting to have sex after marriage .
@rehemabanks5002 Жыл бұрын
The best way to challenge someone it’s just focus on yourself what’s for you will always come to you. Too many times as women we put ourselves this side for men. Focus on you, your goals and bettering you see how much more attractive you become. Confidence is attractive. Be a better you
@janembabazi475510 ай бұрын
Yes,true
@amazoniandoll10 ай бұрын
Amen❤
@georgannkingsland7678 ай бұрын
You're asking you trying to rekindle.
@hannahstriker7 ай бұрын
Speak for yourself, I know plenty of individuals(regardless of gender)that are not willing to put the needs of others before their own.
@joanna777756 ай бұрын
Amen ❤
@TheAttractionTriggers5 ай бұрын
*Marry your best friend. I do not say that lightly. Really, truly find the strongest, happiest friendship in the person you fall in love with.*
@CynthiaSitara3 ай бұрын
❤
@gwortman3515 Жыл бұрын
Best challenge is not to give a crap!!
@SewwandiWaduthanthri5 ай бұрын
"I suffered a lot due to my relationship. I always tried to be a kind and good person, but he treated me poorly, cheated on me, and left. It took a long time to heal and return to a normal life. It wasn't easy. I appreciate your work and thank you so much for your advice."❤
@danilaroche11564 ай бұрын
Let the Lord help you navigate your next relationship. I'd avoid sex if unmarried. You'll only get hurt.
@simphiwebuthelezi29724 ай бұрын
I’ve been there I’m heal back at it again now I’m watching these videos are helping a lot in my life
@SewwandiWaduthanthri2 ай бұрын
@@danilaroche1156 💜️💜️
@valetinaxo Жыл бұрын
i met a super successful guy about my age (32) , im talkin multi millionaire successful.. he constantly has younger 20 year old girls chasing him around because he has exotic cars, diamonds, modern houses and he thinks thats how it should be when the girl likes him.. but with me i never acted like that, i was chill i showed him i like him but i wasnt chasing him and his money.. so he thought i didnt like him that much but i do like him a lot and i wish he would just date me but i am feminine and i feel like its his job as a man to make me his girl and chase me.. i feel like with rich guys its so different.
@esden4871 Жыл бұрын
sad thing yeah with rich guys its like we kinda have to do the chasing ...coz they know they got options
@bluezonefun808910 ай бұрын
In my experience rich guys love chasing the most! If you're the prize all their friends want. They want to 'win' you & be the alpha among his friends...but we do have to give them hints they might have a chance only with them
@hannahstriker7 ай бұрын
@@bluezonefun8089 Since wealthy men have plenty of options, they will only pursue women that are high quality, or separate themselves from the rest. If you desire a high quality man, you should be a high quality woman yourself.
@FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz2 ай бұрын
Exactly what is happening to me now..he is used to women fluxing around him chasing him. When he started talking to me at first he got me by giving me a task to wake him up in the morning when am awake because he New that I didn't careless about him.. though I like him a lot and all so which he will just make us official. When I start listening to coach Alex... especially push and pull techniques we go no contact for some weeks to months, this hurts him and he couldn't help but to purposely pin point me in the church and then we sorted out the issue. Now we're still friends he called me and I do the same.the issues now is that he started saying that he is in love with someone and the person refusing loving him back... which I know ironically he's talking about me...I never respond to any of this because I don't really know what to say and how to say it since he hasn't been open on what he really wants from me.. Should I talk to him about it or just leave things the way it is... please I need encouraging words
@shantavalentine953711 ай бұрын
Your absolutely right all the guys I didn’t like I ended up married or long term relationship with because my attraction for them was low and so they did so much to get me. The ones I like I never end up with im watching this because I really like this guy but I did things backward and he’s gotten distant
@amandaguvi31246 ай бұрын
Hey hun, how did it go? Lol I’m kinda invested in your story and wanna know what happened after
@Braveh3artGirl11 ай бұрын
I really value how much you care about women. Your advice is 💯 perfection and what we all should have been taught while we were really young.
@hannahstriker7 ай бұрын
As long as you are willing to be a "Queen" yourself, you are absolutely entitled to a "King". Otherwise you have unrealistic standards and expectations, that obviously any high quality individual will reject for the better or worse(regardless of gender).
@Bianca-sw5id Жыл бұрын
So so so True 🥰 Alex 🥰 ♥️🌹 One Hundred Percent 👍🥰 , don't buy or give men much. . . More than buy them a coffee on His birthday , unless he bought you a stunning gift for your birthday 🥳🥰 (I think) don't reward him for no commitment and or not doing the things for you that are your currency
@kintuinka Жыл бұрын
Damn yes
@hannahstriker7 ай бұрын
I definitely agree with you, although once a man has shown his commitment you should absolutely reciprocate as much as possible to keep him interested. Otherwise this will result in an "one-dimensional" relationship that will fulfill no one.
@lynnesunshine11 ай бұрын
I wish I heard this a few months ago! So good ❤
@ScarlettNacht Жыл бұрын
Tysm Alex ♥️ You’re THE best!! 🔥
@gabj46658 ай бұрын
This is the best advice I’ve ever heard!! Wow!!!
@FrenchRelationshipExpert8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your support and for watching!
@CLGlitter7610 ай бұрын
Your videos are amazing. Brilliant advice as always. Thank you 🙏
@user-eq1em2lp3w5 ай бұрын
Ur my best coach ever because i have results from every word that comes out of ur mouth.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the support!
@mirandakerr19434 ай бұрын
Why would anyone even bother with dating again, be happy solo, so much more to life
@snuggie20188 ай бұрын
I would never leave this community i love getting the advice i didn’t receive growing up and this has really helped me and will continue to help me! Thank you Alex ❤
@VeraLawRN4 ай бұрын
I’m not a late night girl. I’m not a hang out girl. I don’t really do those things.
@uchemaureen466 ай бұрын
Thank you, Alex. You’re a great coach!
@FrenchRelationshipExpert6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@SuperLiliana19736 ай бұрын
You are right! Great ideea!
@FrenchRelationshipExpert6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@kaveribhar8197 Жыл бұрын
Alex, you have something new to say in every video. Thank you so much.
@zeljkamarson9507 ай бұрын
It means we must Look all his videos!
@yenhaitrieu Жыл бұрын
Thank you Alex
@4d.4c.4b46 ай бұрын
So well said Alex, the guy I am not interested in it's easy but who that makes my heart melt I am almost vulnerable and feel he takes time to pursue, that I prolly come across as easy to get 😮
@user-mg5oe2zj6y22 күн бұрын
So true
@fatimasalie391111 ай бұрын
Very good advice..❤😊
@hettyqs5194 Жыл бұрын
Am new here..loving it already!
@nolisaharris9006 ай бұрын
I subscribed…thank you …..I am learning so much 🎉
@FrenchRelationshipExpert6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for subscribing!
@kathysidoti98852 ай бұрын
Great advice ty
@FrenchRelationshipExpert2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your comment!
@muzzukuluwaggunju.86749 ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉🎉 Watching from UK 🤝🏾🤝🏾
@lamaelcharif1523 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Alex! I understood that to become a challenge we should focus on ourselves not on him. Could you describe the concept of reversed psychology in a few words?
@umehchinenye774 Жыл бұрын
I will have love to but am busy for now
@judylyndilao8106 Жыл бұрын
I love you Alex ,,, I love your advice.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@wanjiruesther496211 ай бұрын
I love your response 😊😊😊
@vanrom138910 ай бұрын
Power of saying NO, but tomorrow I’m free for breakfast
@ningalminar40095 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@mbambutumusimedebora67015 ай бұрын
Thanks so much,I'm happy I got you
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching and for your comment! -FRE Team
@user-ck6ly4st3v10 ай бұрын
I like your answer and also the advice here to focus on self. My first response to the man would be, "no way." My next words would be, "you are a skank, the opposite of what i want, which is a prince." I would say it in the nicest way possible, but definitely, so he'll know I mean it. It's sort of the same thing you're saying but I'm letting him know I'm the ultimate challenge. I don't tolerate any disrespect. When a man has proven himself to me totally to be my prince, and put the wedding ring on my finger, then maybe i will let him call the shots, not before. I know my way is not popular but it's my way. I don’t want a man, i want my prince and will take nothing less. This really weeds out the players, separates the men from the boys. I know there is one man who will accept my challenge, the right man. A woman can't change a man, nobody can. But a man can change if he wants to, if he has a compelling reason to change. And i don't go to bars. Women today have not been brought up to understand what women understood in the past. We are all animals. Look at any animal in nature. In every species, the males pursue, fight over, woo the females. The females just go about their lives and either reject or accept a male if he impresses her sufficiently. There are no exceptions to this rule in nature. So ladies, take your cue from nature.
@hannahstriker7 ай бұрын
You can demand a "King" all you want, as long as you are willing to be a "Queen" yourself. And obviously vice versa.
@danilaroche11564 ай бұрын
I'd avoid the insults. It accomplishes little even if you are right.
@raeesakeswell11566 ай бұрын
Alex u a Gem 💎 of a guy u give. Us women hope ❤
@FrenchRelationshipExpert6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@jensweeney41289 ай бұрын
I just discovered you my friend. I’m listening. You remind me of a favorite, “Mr. Montreal”, you are damned good. Grateful. Alex. An interesting perspective
@jeannejones5449 Жыл бұрын
You are so cool!
@FrenchRelationshipExpert Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your support!
@Bianca-sw5id Жыл бұрын
It depends on how long you have been in the relationship
@Faaiaa9 ай бұрын
"do you think its ok if i ask u to come (to my place) to see me tonight?". My response- "i have sympathy towards you too . And i think it will be ok if you ask me for a walk or for a visit to a cinema and we can decide on the day and time :) " This is typical me with men :) if he would say something like "noo, i would still like you at my place" or anything similar- i would say- well, apparently someone has a lack of patience :D i would start making fun but gently and politely :D
@FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz2 ай бұрын
Exactly what is happening to me now.. this guy is used to women fluxing around him chasing him. When he started talking to me at first he got me by giving me a task to wake him up in the morning when am awake because he New that I didn't careless about him.. though I like him a lot and all so which he will just make us official. When I start listening to coach Alex... especially push and pull techniques we go no contact for some weeks to months, this hurts him and he couldn't help but to purposely pin point me in the church and then we sorted out the issue. Now we're still friends he called me and I do the same.the issues now is that he started saying that he is in love with someone and the person refusing loving him back... which I know ironically he's talking about me...I never respond to any of this because I don't really know what to say and how to say it since he hasn't been open on what he really wants from me.. Should I talk to him about it or just leave things the way it is... please I need encouraging words
@FrenchRelationshipExpert2 ай бұрын
Hi there, I know Coach Alex would love to help you with this but he would need to learn a little more about what you're going through in order to help you through this. I would highly advice you book a coaching session with him by using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
@projectfev21905 ай бұрын
I would say - Well - that's certainly something to think about. And you can ask whatever you want and be fully yourself - my true-to-myself answer to that offer is - No thank you - I am not there yet - (winky face and polite kiss emoji) - Have a wonderful night. And then don't respond to any of his texts that aren't a better offer than that. Actually - I might hold out for a call to invite me for a better offer to be honest after trying to rush intimacy. What do you think? Better offer text or wait for the call? Hmmmmm....
@deepmaven87734 ай бұрын
I've never had a problem keeping men interested in me.
@wincordukes8134 Жыл бұрын
No way! He must come to me and take me out!
@CatherineZee Жыл бұрын
Give him an headache ..
@josephineburke1962 Жыл бұрын
Lol! I know I'm giving my guy a headache!
@bbana1745 Жыл бұрын
My respond: Ask me and wait what will happen if you are brave enough.
@aparajitamisty468310 ай бұрын
It is helpful to hve subtitle
@syzygy43652 ай бұрын
I can't believe Im up at 2 am trying to figure out how to make him interested in me. Im not boring. I know I feed him more conversations to talk about other than sex, so why am I trying to change his mind if I'm just for sex. I guess i just cant figure his out. Is he anxious avoidant? Warming up with a high sex drive. This is maddening and I don't think it's right for me to want to do the chasing. He came on with such a strong game now.. POOF! Getting mixed up signals by a high-school friend. This dating thing is frustrating.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert2 ай бұрын
Hi there! I'm sorry to hear what you're going through! I know Coach Alex would love to help you with this, I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with him so he can know your situation a little more and help you through this. If you would like to check out more information on our coaching sessions, I would highly suggest you use this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
@cynthiawellas6465 Жыл бұрын
Really good answer alex, The first thing that came up on my mind was No, please don't be a lazy man😉 Is that a good answer?
@cynthiawellas6465 Жыл бұрын
Or yes"in your dream"😂
@Koukouna1546 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@blingblingnelida Жыл бұрын
I would say...No, it wouldn't be : with A Smile Firmly attitude
@zeljkamarson9507 ай бұрын
I would say I m coloring my Hare.. You are the best! Alex are you merried?😂
@FrenchRelationshipExpert7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your support! And yes, I am married! 💍
@zeljkamarson9507 ай бұрын
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert That's wonderful and I wish you happiness
@vivhiggins565610 ай бұрын
What a bout older woman know not jealous off them has time waits fore know,
@aboutLife2489 ай бұрын
hello, how can I have a coaching session with you?
@helenhelen51319 ай бұрын
I would say to him : I feel that maybe thats something for a time in the future … 😉
@estherbanda42899 ай бұрын
I met met a guy went in 2 dates after that he went quiet few days later he texted me saying he was quite because he lose his job and was disturbed about it.he came back around and we would communicate but now his quiet again but is constantly checking my status.what should I do?
@mamaknow805610 ай бұрын
They have shut down my plan every time n I shut them down seeing me ever again.
@georgannkingsland7678 ай бұрын
Yeah but if you've already been to desperate and needy how do you change as a person. And how will they think
@JJ474369 ай бұрын
im in an LDR for two yrs but lately he ignoring my msg just bcuz he said i alway okey when things is on my side,so how can i response this behavior
@suzipuzi20016 ай бұрын
Question: when should I suggest the 2nd place to go on the date? After we've akready finished eating at the restaurant he suggested? Or when planning the date?
@FrenchRelationshipExpert6 ай бұрын
Whenever it feels right to you!
@Nela121249 ай бұрын
well, I did decline the forst 2 invites, we had nice dates so third attempt i went along.... anyhow 1 week after and no concrete evolution although expressing how attracted he is to me.... I am puzzled. I think i did it all right
@nalubegamariam898011 ай бұрын
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@venuspsychicmasseuse Жыл бұрын
yassss
@user-kx7so1pc5f6 ай бұрын
I never had a date and I never seen my long distance boyfriend but pictures he said was him
@shaikhdoultani56579 ай бұрын
Alex i hv a quiz wht to do?
@johnfilshrestha10 ай бұрын
How about my friend ,we met may this year and we keep texting and he told me I miss you and i would like to go out with you to eat in the restaurant.😂pls help me out😊
@kenzomakeupartist90896 ай бұрын
My ex leave me bcs he say he prefer to find easy girl, but i was just being my self im not pretend or make a game like this 😔
@shanicethomas7259 Жыл бұрын
I would say well I guess if you want too see me u will figure something out lol
@e.k85068 ай бұрын
Mais pourquoi fighting???? All us parents were easy going..and seriously in love...
@emmarentiabezuidenhout347711 ай бұрын
I want try to challenge him because he thinks women don't have a say and on the end of the day he will get angry and blame me for everything
@frankyavery10 күн бұрын
Every man I have ever dated jas asked me to his house by the second date. Drives me nuts
@FrenchRelationshipExpert10 күн бұрын
🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
@NilgunYetis9 ай бұрын
Sorry bro, in that 20 minute video you only talk about your coursem you do not giving any hint..bad marketing hook.
@danib56084 ай бұрын
Challenge response to him I should ??? Say : This is not what a gentleman will do . After dinner let’s do what I want then tell him… Omg I would love to go get something like some icecream. Break the date by doing something you decide to do ??? Is this what I should do to regain control??
@ramatualiyu3003 Жыл бұрын
Coach Alex,.my ex tell me he doesn't want to be in relationship with me, but he ask if I was seeing another man. And I really don't know how to respond to his message. Pls guide me.
@ramatualiyu3003 Жыл бұрын
Coach Alex,,,,my ex tell me that he doesn't want a commitment with me, but he just ask me if l'm seeing another man & I really don't know how to respond to that text message. Pls guide me
@louiseemssy Жыл бұрын
Say yes make him see what his missing,then if he says why say we’ll you don’t want a relationship so of course I’m seeing other guys I’m looking for the one 🙏🏼
@Mimikadk3 ай бұрын
Hi Alex, i tray to take your free book , but im not geting in my inbox. Please can you assist me? Regards,
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 ай бұрын
Hi there! Please contact my team about this at 754-230-1416
@weightlossjourney3641 Жыл бұрын
My response would be …how hv u convinced me enough to be with u tonight darling 😊
@obiohapreciouschizuruoke188510 ай бұрын
Alex what if he always invite you just only when he wants you
@everlynemakungu15410 ай бұрын
Turn down some of the invitations Dont be too available
@HighlyfavouredMutale-wb9fu9 ай бұрын
Give a good excuse why you can't make it so that he knows you value yourself
@akpenguin18594 ай бұрын
This shit is exhausting
@mariadelamercedcharro1047Ай бұрын
I am losing him so sad
@FrenchRelationshipExpertАй бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear this! If you would like to book a one on one coaching session with me so we can work through this, please use this link to find more information on my coaching sessions! www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
@movingthroughlifewithdusti68955 ай бұрын
Super Simp to the lahahaaaa rezcue’
@celestialtomas882Ай бұрын
3:42
@FrenchRelationshipExpertАй бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@exist.3322 Жыл бұрын
My response would be, i would really love to meet you, however i had a busy day at work and so tired, how about we meet tomorrow for lunch, and you can come pick me up😉
@4d.4c.4b46 ай бұрын
But is this not just pretending? If I had a truly busy week and tired I understand but if it's just saying it for the sake of saying isn't this not playing games too?
@Challenger2A78 ай бұрын
My simple response: "I can't make it tonight."
@lilliankirk434 Жыл бұрын
Alex,what would a woman do with a man ,married to for 20 odd yrs. Running off to be with younger women .having fun adventures, leaving you high and dry.if,you still love that man and do not want to split after all those yrs the woman put In .Never been or looked at another man.what does such a woman do,when told about it and especially if this is done when he is going overseas on trips.etc.by himself.Please yr expert advise is needed.
@melanieinspires11 ай бұрын
Get a fun life of your own. Become interesting learn some new things. Be happy without him
@SwissNight10 ай бұрын
Then this man lacks principles. He is less than a man if he is married and going after a younger woman
@celestialtomas882Ай бұрын
8:46
@FrenchRelationshipExpertАй бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@louvonnekline4676Ай бұрын
I cannot.
@FrenchRelationshipExpertАй бұрын
I'm sorry to hear this! What are you struggling with when it comes to challenging a man?
@blackkitty111110 ай бұрын
but if we are the ones suggesting the place to go, won't that make him think we have to pay 50/50 ?
@YanaRass09 Жыл бұрын
Dude, listened to your video for 20 minutes on your website. Before you fish for a fish, you give them a worm, not a boring story about Sara. It’s like buying a needle in a haystack. How would I know it wouldn’t be a repetition of Sara’s story that would “lure” me to get more expensive program. So disappointing.