When building rapport if she doesn't show choosing signals, high interest, respect, attraction, affection, attention and genuine desire for you? You've no incentives to be intentional with her so keep it moving fellas and make it quick. Never chase or pursue women because they'll happily waste your time and resources because if the man she desired walked in she'll have no issues showing her interest and going on a coffee date while you're wondering if she likes you due to some good encounters. Get a grip of your Faculties, you'll never need to question when women have genuine desire for you.
@JosuegurrolaАй бұрын
Facts as 10.000 STONES.
@putiner2039Ай бұрын
Hey man. What are the choosing signals? Love to hear more from your advice
@TheAcumennАй бұрын
@putiner2039 First impressions, Held eye contact, frequent glances across your way and putting herself within your vicinity. These are good indicators for a confident approach, the strongest indicator obviously is when she approaches you but also it's not needed if she hasn't noticed you as you can still gamble and see if your approach is well received. Once you've made an approach identify who she is by creating some small talk and asking her name to continue on your initial greeting into conversation, preferably the aim is she should ask for your name before you leave mid conversation asking for her contact details. And at this point you should be able to gauge her interest in you, eye contact, facial expressions, body language and playfulness.
@CommandoMasterАй бұрын
Had a girl told me exactly this - didn't see any physical connection yet, so she wanted me to take her on more dates before she decided. And she wanted me to pay. Why would I go on more dates, pay for her, and hope that one day she feels that way lol. I just left her.
@Fr4nkBl4ckАй бұрын
after-how-many-dates?!
@DanielCruz-xq6eoАй бұрын
dude just sleep with other girls and feel free to play the long game, you can let her know in an indirect way that you’re having fun and not waiting for her to like you
@CommandoMasterАй бұрын
@@Fr4nkBl4ck max for me is 2
@CommandoMasterАй бұрын
@@DanielCruz-xq6eo Ya, but i didn't feel like wasting money and time going to see her because she wanted to go out and eat, and she wanted me to go near her house.
@putiner2039Ай бұрын
The guy she likes she would sleep on first date right?
@openomniverse446Ай бұрын
I was dealing with an older woman. We went on a coffee date, talked on the phone, but after 3 weeks still hadn't slept together. I just ghosted her. At first i thought I was being too harsh, but I've been a nice guy my whole life, so my instincts still need improving. I'm glad I did something right for once. Sge works out at my gym and gave me cut eye today, but I honestly couldn't care.
@Key-p1kАй бұрын
at least you did something right to maintain your inner piece!!!!
@JamesHawkeYouTubeАй бұрын
Older guys: don't fall for the younger woman who's keeping you in the FZ while she takes advantage of your generosity. 😎💪
@abel4776Ай бұрын
Unless she's a virgin, forget it.
@gkniffenАй бұрын
Your "generosity" is nothing more than trying to purchase sex. That's not how it works, so stop being "generous." It's bullsh*t. Put a move on her, if she balks, you walk. Simple.
@Hoki4Ай бұрын
No man should remain in friendzone, if ya got real interest towards a woman. If ya just want to really be a friend with woman, go ahead, but if you brought up your interest directly and she puts you to FZ, then its time to move on. 2 women in past have tried to friendzone me when I brought my intentions up clearly and both times I told the same thing, which is "it's not what I'm looking for and I wish you good luck for future". Both of these women got mad at me in their own way, first one came and exploded on my face screaming some bs trying to tarnish my reputation and the other one was bit more mature, just seething in her own way but it was clear as day she didn't like that I moved on.
@prader1330Ай бұрын
@@Hoki4 Yeah absolutely. Women are actually a lot of fun when you stop thinking of every single one of them as a potential bedmate. On the flipside of being critical towards how women act for a second, this "nice guys finish last" thing is real peeve of mine. Truly "nice" guys aren't keeping score. Everyone else saying that just picked a really atrociously bad strategy to attract one or another of them.
@oonojoeАй бұрын
She can sleep with you Today and be gone Tomorrow. THIS. MEANS. NOTHING.
@AndreyGreenYtubeАй бұрын
Yes 100 times. "She likes you then, and only then she's sleeping with you".
@wchamp170Ай бұрын
I would say not one of the easiest ways, the only way. And that is only for that period of time. Men, accept it for what it is and do not get attached. Most importantly, if you feel like leaving, do not hesitate for one moment and go
@TheklaUvarovaАй бұрын
this video literally came in the perfect moment in my life, love you
@bolt-dbtfgАй бұрын
Arousal is an uncontrollable spontaneous emotional state, it's not a logical choice. There's a world of difference between a girl who through her words.l, actions and body language shows you that she is AROUSED by you but because she has good Girl Game, wants to make sure you're invested in her before she has sex ,,,and a girl who tells you she needs more TIME (dates, gifts, relationship label etc) to BECOME Aroused by you.
@YellowPaint100Ай бұрын
These ppl don't care! But thank you for at least attempting to explain it.
@PaybloyАй бұрын
No, they don't "need" that time, they just want to take advantage of that uncertainty. When they want, that needed time can be just a few minutes.
@Hon_cb1krАй бұрын
I couldn't agree more. Right on brother
@guywoznicki7847Ай бұрын
I’ve asked this question in relation to other videos but I’m never sure if it’s me, her, or some event/trauma. Been in about 5-6 relationships in my life and a couple played out like this. First they want sex all the time, then it’s a couple times a month, and then I end up having to beg. The last one was a nut job so I wasn’t upset when it ended. However the other one I liked and no matter how I tried to figure out what was wrong, the worse it got. In the end it got ugly with us spewing hateful speech at each other!
@USSResoluteАй бұрын
Women will sleep with you even if they don't like you. What if I'm actually a moral person and don't welcome that? If she sleeps with you on the first date, how many other men has she "liked"? If they like you, they will want physical contact. Doesn't have to be sleeping with you, but if she pushes you away, it's dead.
@putiner2039Ай бұрын
Physical contact how?
@carlosemiralonso7997Ай бұрын
@@putiner2039 IF she smile at you, talk to you in a friendly manner and ... (here's the thing) touch your arm, your face or make an excuse to hug you... that's physical contact and a telling on her feelings.
@OmegawerewolfxАй бұрын
If she tells you, it's so much easier to know.
@RyoumaYoshidaАй бұрын
its hard to put into words, but the book Magnetic Aurafe and it's not new age bs from Talesio completely changed my li
@frankindabankАй бұрын
Yeah all dating advice is flawed and unlogic. Everybody is still on their own. So no body count but sleeping with each other easily... The only general true advice is to better yourself, accumulate money, be a decent guy who cares and don't let women stand in your way in achieving that. She can walk with you, but don't let her stop you.
@SadamiItouАй бұрын
good video yet again, thank you love ❤️
@LitoGeorgeАй бұрын
Yeah, no. Depends on your moral or spiritual authority. I am half way through life and rue the day I let myself go down this road with a woman who was liberal in her morals. Not outsized so, but willing to boink before the ring. And with gusto within the relationship. Look where that led me. Hell on earth. Now, I am very gently courting a much younger woman, who has exceptional moral and tightly held virginal values, and I think she is worth more than all the harems in the world. Someone with whom to build a very fulfilling life with. After being celibate for 8 years, and only now dipping my toe into the waters.... this seems like the only water worth getting into.
@Starias5Ай бұрын
… is if you feel like she likes you. 😂
@themasculinismmovementАй бұрын
Yea the longest a girl who liked me ever waited to have sex with me was 4 dates and that was only because she was young (18) and was a conservative small town girl from a religious family who had only recently lost her virginity and only been with that one other guy. And in those 4 dates she was showing romantic interest in me in other ways that were escalating steadily up to sex. A woman who claims with her words to like you, but not with her physical actions, doesn't actually like you and is just using you for free "dates" (can you really call them that if there's no physical romance?) And shes right that religions/churches are full of predatory women who will want to "date" good providers without sleeping with them, and that statistically religious women get divorced even more frequently than atheists, because their religion does not actually make them ethical/moral or loving/romantic just because it idealizes marriage.
@R._L.Ай бұрын
3:57... " This is how we get the notion of the _born-again christian._ " 🤨 Hopefully, he meant the _born-again _*_virgins_* perhaps...
@JosuegurrolaАй бұрын
2:33 there is another level to this. IF SHiiiiiii WANTS YOUR LITTLE MINI-YOUs
@DelectatioАй бұрын
Hey, this guy knows what he is talking about👍
@elasticharmonyАй бұрын
None virgin is "fallen" and she does nit get back up.
@pete6498Ай бұрын
Exactly! I don’t work well with implied 🐱
@PhoenixRising82672Ай бұрын
Go with the woman that lives you Not the woman you like
@Niwde8411Ай бұрын
What if the only ones that like u are women u don't find sexually attractive?
@Enochrry6024Ай бұрын
@@Niwde8411...Huge barrier, those are the women your subconsciously being more of yourself around more masculine, genuine, comfortable, and really don't care one way or the other by the energy you put out because you do not want them=Put out the same energy with women you want, treat them just like all the rest of the women you don't want.
@Niwde8411Ай бұрын
@@Enochrry6024 I agree. A major component of getting beautiful women to want u is treating them like a regular person & not being afraid to say no to them if they want u to do something u don't wanna do. A lot of guys that women consider to be a "bad boy" are just dudes that have a backbone and don't comply with their every request.
@bolt-dbtfgАй бұрын
virginity/body count. What ultimately concerns a man is how a woman BEHAVES towards him. We know women with higher body counts TEND TO not behave the way a man likes. Why?? Because the woman feels less happy. Why?? Because she's had a greater number of sexual experiences in the past which has altered her ability to be happy with any ONE man. Because we cannot unlive or unexperience our past . Women treat their sexual pass alike a buffet. Picking out the best bits: this guy was taller that guy was richer the other guy was better in bed the other guy had a better body etc etc Her attitudes, standards and behaviour are built up from her past experiences just like any other human being. ... And so when she then expect one FINAL man , her a Husband/ Partner, to be better than a multitude of other men it is increasingly difficult . (and the more men she's had to compare him by the harder it will be for any one man to out-compete all these men) Obviously this is not a straight jacket, but the study show the more bodies she's had the higher the level of unhappiness women report. So yes, it is possible for a cornstar to think her husband is the best out of all the men she's had in her past and treat him like a king, but its less likely. . . likewise a Girl who's only had one man previous to you but that man was better than her new husband in every possible way, may treat him like dogshlt. Because of this avoiding women with high body counts is just one way men try to mitigate potential trouble and avoid wasting time. EDIT: let's flip this around and look at it from a man's point of view for a second. if you've dated a smoking hot 23-year-old Victoria's secret model, do you think that will or will not have an effect on how you appreciate the next girl? If the next girl is not as slim, not as young, not as hot, not as good in bed. do you think that's going to have no effect on how happy you are with her?. or how begrudgingly you get with her in the first place (Because you've got no other options) Now, instead of one Victoria's secret model in your past, let's say you had 3 or 10 or 100 all differen, always slightly better, different qualities and THEN you're now expecting the last girl your new Wife to be better than all your sexual experiences in the past? Don't you think the fact that you've had those sexual experiences is going to affect how you behave towards your wife or whether or not you're happy with her or whether or not it's going to affect how you want her to look or behave? now take that feeling and multiply it by a big number and that is how much more it affects women. Because men and women are different and women are more impacted by body count than men are.
@Bren12602Ай бұрын
3:25
@carljohnson6264Ай бұрын
Young men: If a woman proclaims something WITHOUT you asking… RUN!!! You don’t ask , But she says “I’ve never done x, y, z” No. Run.
@putiner2039Ай бұрын
What u mean? I went on a date with a girl who told me a few days ago whilst on vacation she went on a date but didn't hook up with the guy
@carljohnson6264Ай бұрын
@ run
@Chud-mb7glАй бұрын
Agree with the first part but what's the point of overromanticizing virginity? I wouldn't care if my wife/gf slept with someone before me unless her body count is like 30 or something
@rowen_correaАй бұрын
Over 5 is too much. You can't tell if it's 5 or 50.
@FittyTrader-fp8bmАй бұрын
. Lol I agree . Op is a product of societal lunacy . Over 30 ? Lol 😅 . What a fool . 5 is too much .@@rowen_correa
@paulcolin9071Ай бұрын
Over 5 is probably not ideal. The more it goes up after that the less predictable. They're not men
@proseyootoobАй бұрын
How can you ever actually know her body count then? Because she told you? Fantastic logic: women never lie. “But if she has a low body count” are the words of a phuul and a simp After you graduate high school and touch a human woman and maybe run through a few of them you’ll realize how silly you sound. Now women are as foreign to you as North Korea.
@oonojoeАй бұрын
@@rowen_correa You'll never know for sure anyway so why worry about it, besides, She should get it out of her system just like they say Men should,
@vladcraioveanu233Ай бұрын
OK, no woman would ever love me. Good to know.
@toddjohnson271Ай бұрын
Women choose with kitty. If you are going over time and thru hoops ambiguity..... You are being courted as a manipulated provider
@marcusmcgraw3519Ай бұрын
No they don’t. They have no power to pick anyone, they don’t control dating. You sound delusional. I control whether I want her or not, not her
@marcusmcgraw35197 күн бұрын
They’re not able to do that though. They don’t determine what happens if it just “kinda happens”
@sosdada-x8Ай бұрын
I dont want to sleep with woman i prefer my whole bed to be mine 😂
@BurninVinylАй бұрын
Then you complaining and praising virgin whamen.
@justinferreira5780Ай бұрын
Who hits on girls at church? WTH
@kyjack3721Ай бұрын
did you not listen? Its even worse than what you assumed. She literally said certain woman only go to church to prey on naive men. Youre prolly one of them from your comment lol woman are not good they are way more lustful and inappropriate. how many times has woman just touch you out of no where? now imagine if you did that to a girl. lol i get sexually assaulted damn near everywhere i have a conversation where a female thinks she could she would and does. Your naivety only thinks shes being friendly. No they are copping a feel dude
@kthxplsАй бұрын
@@kyjack3721 Don't explain, just by his question we already know, he doesn't understand how the world works. There's satanist women who go to church and try to have s3x with married men to destroy their relationship with God and their wives, religious people are literally npcs, most of them.
@YellowPaint100Ай бұрын
Church, Mosque, Synagogue, Temple, etc etc! Wolves in sheep clothing everywhere! Both sides do it, too! But this channel & others like it focus on women to teach men what to beware of.
@Niwde8411Ай бұрын
Dudes that actually get pussy know that church is where some of the biggest freaks are.
@oonojoeАй бұрын
None of this means anything. All the video's talk about the beginnings. Relationships are largely spent in the middles and there is usually an ending. None of this means a thing.
@nickpeluso7511Ай бұрын
I think Pearl is cute. Call me crazy.
@carrocestaАй бұрын
she is femenine :)
@BF-nonАй бұрын
crazy
@永藤義雄Ай бұрын
its hard to put into words, but the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio completely changed my life and it's not new age bs
@LolitaAksakovaАй бұрын
if you're seeing this comment, it might be a sign to read 'Magnetic Aura' from Talesio ❤️
@OlesyaKorovinaАй бұрын
this video literally came in the perfect moment in my life, love you
@УстинияГорбуноваАй бұрын
good video yet again, thank you love ❤️
@ThaisMaslovaАй бұрын
if you're seeing this comment, it might be a sign to read 'Magnetic Aura' from Talesio ❤️