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@CharismaonCommandShorts2 жыл бұрын
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@allenrodriguez13462 жыл бұрын
This makes perfect sense and unfortunately no one's honest nowadays sot he fact he is honest that's very attractive in itself
@Nick-fy1zp2 жыл бұрын
FFS what a load of bol🔒
@teresadownes2422 Жыл бұрын
@Dr Joey oh gee thanks EASIER SAID THAN FUCKING DONE!!!
@billy48882 жыл бұрын
"Courage isn't the absence of fear, it's the willingness to confront it" -Said somebody, probably
@mysterious70922 жыл бұрын
Even Mike Tyson said his fear helps him out & still faces the challenge like a man unlike people who have to join some crew to have their beans sprout.
@coltafanan2 жыл бұрын
It was probably Master oogway of course
@boward40322 жыл бұрын
Be you don't quote
@Thawhid2 жыл бұрын
YAa
@samsingh52022 жыл бұрын
Nelson mandela
@therealdarklizzy2 жыл бұрын
After a lifetime of bullying and introversion, I had a mental breakdown and just started doing whatever I want. I no longer fear talking to people. I think I was an extrovert all along, but one that got beat into submission by a society of bullies.
@markcliffe72 жыл бұрын
Good luck man, a more positive life is coming to you 👊
@silverfox88012 жыл бұрын
Keep moving forward brother 💪🏼👊
@itsRudeGal2 жыл бұрын
Yes that makes sense and I can relate to some of it.
@hapemokenela73882 жыл бұрын
Good for you. Glad you found your hidden power.
@DavidSmith-qf3sm2 жыл бұрын
I overcompensate and will talk to anyone and everyone, which sometimes gets me into trouble. If I want to talk to a woman then I will do and then I’ll walk off, it confuses my friends and even the woman in question. Now I was the fat kid at school who knew the cool kids but I wasn’t respected by them or even the opposite sex. I’ve learnt that the people I grew up with could just put on a better false sense of security and hid there problems, better then I could. Nobody is born wise but you can become it. I am 35 and learnt a lot of things after turning 30, I make mistakes everyday but I try not to make the same one twice and I use the word try as some things are out of your own control.
@davidaustin9022 жыл бұрын
Confidence is only partially earned through self acceptance. You need to find confidence in something in order to be confident in your flaws. It can be anything.
@VoidDweller862 жыл бұрын
Confidence is just an aftermath feeling that comes from past success nothing more nothing less. For an example if a person was able to attract someone that they was interested in than that person has gained past success which is what established and contributed to their confidence in the first place.
@DiogenesNephew2 жыл бұрын
@@VoidDweller86 I'd call that superficial confidence (though it's 100% valid). A person CAN have a certain confidence independently from their failures. It's the difference between being conditioned passively to be confident from successes and overcoming failure and actively being mindful that there's little to worry about despite even a long string of failures and whatever emotions may crop up inside. Idk if that came across right, but that's just my opinion.
@VoidDweller862 жыл бұрын
@@DiogenesNephew I do believe That my description of confidence is more in depth and scientific but I do hope That you have a good day and a great life sir.
@DiogenesNephew2 жыл бұрын
@@VoidDweller86 My description of confidence includes yours entirely. However, that absolutely isn't the only aspect to consider. Mindfulness plays a ***huge*** role in ameliorating any kind of mental disturbances or distortions, which is also completely scientifically valid. I think there's tons of nuance to be added, but we don't need to get into it really.
@VoidDweller862 жыл бұрын
@@DiogenesNephew Me, personally I can be a well rounded person to The full most but definitely not "confident", I am just speaking for myself.
@fulahno2 жыл бұрын
"How can a man be brave when he's afraid? - asked Robb to his father That is the only time a man can be brave - answered Ned"
@buzzedbrain2 жыл бұрын
I just reread this 8 hours back. From the book.
@heroblok62 жыл бұрын
Man I need to start reading those books. Ned was cool as fuck stoic took John in as his own and took one for the team to protect him screwing up his marriage in the process for that secret
@SavingPrivateBob2 жыл бұрын
"A man is only able to show bravery when he's afraid." You could have cut that much shorter, but nice comment
@BriLoveMusic2 жыл бұрын
@@SavingPrivateBob It’s quoted from a book.
@kikidiii63002 жыл бұрын
@@BriLoveMusic what is the name of the book?
@nickypoundtown95682 жыл бұрын
Admitting you're scared actually connects you with people better as you're touching on a common interest
@shara1979Ай бұрын
It's endearing if communicated properly. Like the narrator said, without unloading on ppl, etc... Ppl can relate with ppl who arent perfect. Because we are all insecure & have flaws. And to admit it shows you're secure. & confident, but also not conceited & don't think you're perfect. It's secure, admirable, honest, & endearing.
@shara1979Ай бұрын
It makes someone whos a superstar relatable to us regular folk, bcuz hes not being cocky & conceited, & has flaws like the rest of us. I agree with u 💯
@clintmcbride78302 жыл бұрын
I have always loved this train of thought. Confidence isn't about being a loud "alpha" wanting attention and treating others as unimportant...... that's called ego. What confidence means is to be honest with yourself and working to overcome your fears. To stand up and do what you feel is right to do even if you are afraid, and to not care about what others will think when you do.
@VoidDweller862 жыл бұрын
Confidence is just an aftermath feeling that comes from past success nothing more nothing less. For an example if a person was able to attract someone that they was interested in than that person has gained past success which is what established and contributed to their confidence in the first place.
@clintmcbride78302 жыл бұрын
@@VoidDweller86 that's cool and all, but ai like mine..... think I might keep using it.
@HomicidalxPanda2 жыл бұрын
This is what I'm working on. I'm trying to change, to finally be true to myself and face my fears, but I feel like people around me don't want me to.
@clintmcbride78302 жыл бұрын
@@HomicidalxPanda don't worry about them. Any voice telling you not to work on self improvement is not a voice to listen to.
@Mrbingles92 жыл бұрын
@@HomicidalxPanda yea dude who cares what other people want/dont want for you? You want it for yourself, that’s all that matters. Keep striving.
@bajovato2 жыл бұрын
As I’ve gotten older, I’ve learned that owning your flaws goes a really long way.
@saltykraken9471 Жыл бұрын
I'd rather fix them than accept them.
@australianpatriot Жыл бұрын
@@saltykraken9471 often you cannot
@tootsieboy778 Жыл бұрын
@@saltykraken9471 ive always dreamt of it that way and hoped it was that easy but i hate to break it to you that isnt always the case for people. Some people move forward and accept it. Some continue living their lives with hate and anxiety for who they are. The moment you realize that nobody is perfect and that just here breathing on earth is a blessing then the only thing left is to find it in yourself to be grateful for who you are and to make others feel heard and understood as well. Yet thats what we do as humans though right we judge we criticize we compare . For what to make someone else think your good enough. It may seem hard for a person with so much anxiety to feel confident but its more so about FEAR. Its all in your head. May you find peace within yourself and love your life in ways you never thought possible
@oliverclothezoff33612 жыл бұрын
How can you be brave when you're afraid? "That is the only time you can be brave" -Eddard Stark
@joelc26502 жыл бұрын
“How to have confidence” when you don’t look like Tom Hardy…. Where’s that video?
@fullfradi952 жыл бұрын
You start workout and use good quality face/ skin/ beard care product and whoala you can looklike him and having confidence
@user-nz7mv2iy6d2 жыл бұрын
@@fullfradi95 Stop coping, Tom Hardy has confidence because he is attractive, has received constant positive affirmation, and is famous. You’ll never look like him no matter how you trim your beard.
@fullfradi952 жыл бұрын
@@user-nz7mv2iy6d "never going to look like him" " trim your beard " , okey sure.... if you say never going to look like him cause of the triming , im out
@user-nz7mv2iy6d2 жыл бұрын
@@fullfradi95 Re-read my comment.
@jamesprakashjc2 жыл бұрын
@@user-nz7mv2iy6d nah, you are the one coping. You can look like him if you put in the work. I don't know you but I suspect you are just lazy and irresponsible. You definitely can't look good with that attitude. Your attitude is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
@lilxsweet2 жыл бұрын
Tom made a statement once in an interview that stayed with me "all sentient beings are important"
@greenjupiter2 жыл бұрын
What's his full name
@lilxsweet2 жыл бұрын
@@greenjupiter who? Tom Hardy? Is it necessary? He can be googled.
@greenjupiter2 жыл бұрын
@@lilxsweet googled my ass. Not every English speaking person is from USA or Europe. I don't have an effing clue who tf he was until I checked some other comments to check his full name duhhhh
@lilxsweet2 жыл бұрын
What are you even on about? I'm very confused by your agressiveness. Not all English speaking person is from the US and blah blah the what now? What? 🤔 Where did that even come from? LOL Do you even know why you're angry for this reason? You need help. This will be my last reply to you because you are just not making any sense. I hope this is not your passing enjoyment, because it is such a sad existence.
@HolyCodzta2 жыл бұрын
@@lilxsweet I think they just wanted to know his surname because it wasn't mentioned in the video. Their response was a bit over the top though. Seems like people thinking the world revolves around the US or UK really gets to them (not saying you think that btw).
@evolition72 жыл бұрын
One of my two top favorite actors. Hes a legend
@edwardnygma55492 жыл бұрын
Is the other Leo?
@goldenboy29972 жыл бұрын
Tom hardy,leo and johnny depp...cameleons of acting
@fourkinhench27442 жыл бұрын
My favourite actor os Boris Johnson
@alexg.92792 жыл бұрын
Pleaseee 🤦🏼♂️ legend, legend? Legend status is Clint Eastwood, these actors nowadays don't come close to legends like Clint.
@gaininguangrongmei51682 жыл бұрын
Cillian Murphy
@donnatassa20182 жыл бұрын
It's called having COURAGE. Being courageous isn't the absence of fear, but the mastery of it.
@Jhulinare2 жыл бұрын
What do I fear? I fear stagnation and lack of progress. I fear never reaching potential and being average. I fear being forgotten... The past... Yesterday's news. I fear giving up and being passed by, going softly into that goodnight. I fear letting those I love down, letting myself down. I fear settling, giving in to the "that's just the way it is" mindset. I fear dying without leaving my mark. I fear not feeling these fears anymore and just floating along. These fears feed me, they nourish my drive. I love my fear.
@DiogenesNephew2 жыл бұрын
What if I told you you can have drive without any of that fear? Fear is a fuel, but it's not the only fuel, and it certainly isn't the best for you.
@teresadownes2422 Жыл бұрын
I'm afraid of men I can't talk to men
@ardenalexa94 Жыл бұрын
@@teresadownes2422 just try small talk or simply saying hi. Baby steps. 😊
@arslanduha2 ай бұрын
@@teresadownes2422 we can chat under this thread , confirmed man here 👋🏻. what scares u about a guy?
@wdtripps442 жыл бұрын
A very long time ago I worked in a Prison. In that environment tattoos are everywhere. Quickly it was apparent that most but not all people who have alot of tattoos are actually insecure.
@johnny-mnemonic132 жыл бұрын
Interesting...
@greenjupiter2 жыл бұрын
Woww
@booya20022 жыл бұрын
Society raised people to think tattoos are 'scary'. Much like everything else society taught me: that assumption was completely wrong and for years did me a disservice of not talking to people simply because I was scared of them.
@FluffyBunny90022 жыл бұрын
I got tattoos because of my insecurities and now I'm insecure about my tattoos, amongst many other things. Lol. Whoops.
@zippiedoo35832 жыл бұрын
People who end up in jail usually are very insecure peoples with unresolved issues, so yes void of confidence
@mrchaotiq2 жыл бұрын
It's funny he said stop trying to look flawless. I remember years ago walking through a mall with muddy boots, concrete dust all over my shirt, unkempt beard and hair and thinking to myself weeks later I truly do not give a fuck what people think 😅 I had spent years trying to maintain a certain level personal grooming etc but realized as I got older It's hard to try and look flawless all the time and also a huge waste of time. True confidence comes from embracing and being proud of what you're good at and accepting what you're not good at. Also stop giving a fuck about others opinions, you know you more than they know you and if you think you're the shit and they don't then clearly they're wrong 🤣🤣🤣
@mannyms66782 жыл бұрын
No need to look flawless but I wouldn’t say zero effort in your own appearance is good either.
@IsraelCountryCube2 жыл бұрын
I hate suits. But there is specific ones that enjoy wearing I don't have any suits. But that does look cool sometimes concrete dust on your shoes paints on your pants and shirt. Working boots. They don't know what it's literally the feeling of working in construction. If you feel tired and it's not necessary to be dressed properly wherever else you're going other than work then I think it's comfortable. I can't look flawless with my hair standing up all the time so I shave my 4th dimension hair off and as of now I'm not bald because currently I supply my body to my scalp the nutrients it needs to literally keep my hair and not go bald lol. I sometimes hate the hair on my scalp. I hate cutting off my hair and I hate growing it but sometimes it looks good and I look good. But I'm unhealthy af right now so I had to cut it because it was literally dead human hair seaweed on my scalp which no longer had a good reason for being there and had to be cut down.
@lotsofciggies2 жыл бұрын
Wow, what a hero. Someone making 10 bucks an hour had to clean those floors and I'm sure they were real happy for you about whatever dumbass epiphany you had while you were tracking mud and concrete dust everywhere. I hope eventually you had the "I'm kind of a huge asshole for not taking 15 seconds to wipe my filthy fucking boots, maybe I should do that" epiphany.
@mrchaotiq2 жыл бұрын
@@lotsofciggies Yeah sorry if you and your family had to clean that up bud.
@lotsofciggies2 жыл бұрын
@@mrchaotiq the fact that you think insinuating that my family members were janitors is some kind of insult tells me everything about you. Sometimes confidence is unearned.
@robletsdoit58862 жыл бұрын
Tom is definitely a guy that guys wanna hang with and women wanna be with.stand up, awesome dude.
@rcjames42 жыл бұрын
When he was asked about his sexuality, it was a great moment bc he was confident in himself in his response
@debraarning85932 жыл бұрын
Real man, real gorgeous.
@IsraelCountryCube2 жыл бұрын
Let's keep it that good way let's hope that real men will exist and feminism will disspist.
@deepbluebeer2 жыл бұрын
@@IsraelCountryCube what feminism has to do with Tom Hardy
@andrestorres82232 жыл бұрын
Being handsome helps a lot
@thewanderer1842 жыл бұрын
When you look like him... No fear would come to a man
@junaidinomani68212 жыл бұрын
This is the reason he's one of my favorite actor
@HomebodyRJB2 жыл бұрын
Confidence makes you accept your flaws, Imperfections and failures instead of hiding and denying them.
@richardfisher55082 жыл бұрын
Im a bodyguard. I got to know Tom quite well about 12 years ago after he'd returned from the States filming Warrior. With me he was very down to earth and easy to talk to. True fact, he'd even considered becoming a bodyguard himself before his acting really took off.
@74mayberry2 жыл бұрын
These observations remind me of the themes in the “Tool” album “Fear Innoculum” Inoculate your self of fear basically.
@sunofpeter22 жыл бұрын
I am going to listen to that album with this in mind
@derekgardin15122 жыл бұрын
That is an awesome album and was well worth the wait imo.
@bman88242 жыл бұрын
Such a good album..we waited so long but it was worth it
@andro.56782 жыл бұрын
did you observe he is a high status Chad as well?
@samanthawalker4171 Жыл бұрын
I've actually met him in person, and I can honestly say he was such a gentleman, extremely humble and polite, and a very VERY nice man. 2 of my boys age 10 and 14 were both entered in a Brazilian jujitsu tournament. Unbeknown to us, so was Mr. Tom Hardy. There had to have been easily 1000 plus people there, both adults and kids and everybody kept asking him for photos (even though he was trying to warm up for his fight). He never said no to anyone and actually was so incredibly nice to them all. Outstanding, beautiful person.
@amoses5852 жыл бұрын
Just be honest. I needed to hear this.. I've tried being consistently appear "flawless" and that MO I've learned from my upbringing has been a detriment and a liability. I've watched this video 3 times back to back. This video helped me to drop that habit on the spot. Some of us need to watch this on repeat to soak in. Every man old and young need this video. Thanks for the vid 😎👍🏾!
@darkcrypto_yt7 ай бұрын
“You don’t need to hide parts of yourself to become acceptable to other people” man that hit hard.
@montelcarlos1432 жыл бұрын
I always subconciously do this,admitting and making fun of myself and my weakness,making others not expecting much from me,but in the end if i can somehow overcome my weakness,they will be suprised
@philstone38592 жыл бұрын
It’s the man thing. Never show weakness or perceived weakness. That’s not healthy even though we don’t want to admit that. It’s a horrible way to live. Putting up a front is false and painful to keep up. It’s very hard to break out of. It’s fear based. I’m not young, I’m aware I’m like this and I still struggle with it! You really have to be present in your mind, present in the moment and be aware of your behavior while you are doing it! You have to actually think about it as you respond to things. You have to train yourself to be aware of your actions in real time. It ain’t easy, but you have to focus. I’ve even thought of writing that word Focus on my hand to remind me!
@steppentofortune79342 жыл бұрын
To admit weakness takes courage and courage = strength. I commend you
@IlIamo2 жыл бұрын
It's all biological. A weak person in a society back in primitive times were a liability. Weakness meant death. It imprinted in our DNA to never show weakness and this is something that cannot be erased. People might say it's okay to cry or show weakness as a man today but people will unwillingly judge that man subconsciously, which is sad really but that's life. Nature is brutal and always have been. Everything becomes easier to understand when you study humanity objectively through the lens of nature and biology.
@killerrmaaniac2 жыл бұрын
You shouldn't show weakness, you should work on not having any, not saying you should be perfect cuz no one is, but work on being the best you can be at everything.
@philstone38592 жыл бұрын
@@killerrmaaniac, that’s solid.
@fromthedumpstertothegrave36892 жыл бұрын
Think this is super ingrained in men part society part biology. The funny thing is soon as you start being more accepting and forgiving of your flaws and less self critical what you can actually achieve skyrockets. All the energy you were devoting to beating yourself up for 'being weak' or 'failing' can just be expended on getting on with things.
@galmanferguson2 жыл бұрын
If I looked even a quarter of what Tom looks like, I would be confident as well.
@SOG-xb4qh3 ай бұрын
Honesty in the midst of fear & not holding it back even when its not going to be in your favor is Honorable.
@jtg19722 жыл бұрын
It's very liberating once you stop caring what others think of you and just live your life the way that makes you happy. Social media has made that very hard for most people.
@abdulax69102 жыл бұрын
He's gorgeous!
@paulpelle30462 жыл бұрын
I really like this one. Some of these “self-help” vids/channels are utter 💩...feeding on folks’ manifest and latent insecurities...but this one is spot-on 🙏💪👏
@bew52302 жыл бұрын
This is true I was so obsessed with these "self-help/improvement" so much that my thoughts pattern seem crazy as I try to be perfect every second I becomes aware later on that my insecurities only grow bigger and bigger.
@paulpelle30462 жыл бұрын
@@bew5230 life isn’t easy brother, especially nowadays. Just be yourself man. 💪🙂🙏
@bew52302 жыл бұрын
@@paulpelle3046 Thanks man 🙏
@paulpelle30462 жыл бұрын
@@bew5230 you’re welcome bro 🙏
@kathieward21552 жыл бұрын
Tom Doesn't Need to Try, He Naturally Is A AWESOME Flawless Being. BLESSINGS TOMMMMMM.
@aboodabulaban28672 жыл бұрын
“can someone be brave even when he is afraid? one can only be brave when he’s afraid”
@adveniasabiana38032 жыл бұрын
When I fighting with my anxiety it always make me awkward and so hard trying confident to tell my fear, but thank you Tom ❤️
@bipin2492 жыл бұрын
When you have looks confidence is just natural
@rt2255 Жыл бұрын
Not really.look at all the pretty people with major issues. Just ad money does not make you truly happy. It can make life easier but it does not make you good person
@-lee7867 Жыл бұрын
not entirely true
@naturallybecoming8312 жыл бұрын
It’s about feeling the fear but still doing it anyway. We’re all human but all of your power lies in how you choose to respond to things.
@MarylnBowan-vg7te9 ай бұрын
FACTS OVA FEELINGS. Confidence Doesn't Change Who a Man is it Simply Reveals Who He is
@Lu-KN2 жыл бұрын
He was/is so awesome as Alfie Solomons in Peaky Blinders! It was pure pleasure for me to watch mim play that character.
@ninaninapasadena56872 жыл бұрын
Being gorgeous, talented, famous and extremely wealthy doesn’t hurt when trying to have confidence.
@A-RJ2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. But no one would give a shit otherwise.
@ninaninapasadena56872 жыл бұрын
@@A-RJ Yeah exactly. Think anyone cares to hear a fat, unattractive, poor, bald man talking about his fears? My guess is no. This is kind of stupid
@mitfreude2 жыл бұрын
I love honest person, they are easy to understand. Just like this guy, I'm afraid of anything too..
@1KKVV2 жыл бұрын
If we're going to simplify it further, if you want to have confidence, you have to be honest with everything.
@kellikakes812 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Vulnerability is INCREDIBLY sexy and admirable
@VoidDweller862 жыл бұрын
Confidence is just an aftermath feeling that comes from past success nothing more nothing less. For an example if a person was able to attract someone that they was interested in than that person has gained past success which is what established and contributed to their confidence in the first place.
@elvd12962 жыл бұрын
Everyone needs to shut up
@korbella2 жыл бұрын
I could watch him talk about a watermelon for hours and still be intrigued. 🤣 Whatever he's talking about in this I AGREE 💝 OH yeah, confidence. I agree 😊
@gokukakarot63232 жыл бұрын
Tom Hardy. I am not just a fan. He is my inner spirit
@brianlittle92022 жыл бұрын
He is so underrated and truly one of the best actors in the business. Most actors act a roll but he becomes an entirely different person everytime a true badass of an actor. He should have won the Academy Award for his acting in revenant. In my opinion he was a co star
@manifest.on.sumo20242 жыл бұрын
True
@benjaminroman9162 жыл бұрын
He's nowhere underrated. He's starred in indie films as well as blockbusters. Respected and admired by his peers and fans. He's just not a famewhore getting "candid" pap pictures. He belongs in the Christian Bale and Cillian Murphy class of actors: true talent and doesn't give a fuck about celebrity.
@brianlittle92022 жыл бұрын
@@benjaminroman916First off he's nowhere underrated make No sense but he doesn't get mentioned when people talk about the great actors they always mention Denaro, Pacino,Hanks but never him and he is every bit as good as them and he deserves an Oscar but he doesn't have one does he no there for he is not getting the credit he deserves so he is underrated he may be getting the work but he isn't getting the credit
@benjaminroman9162 жыл бұрын
@@brianlittle9202 Oscars are overrated and it takes years of butt kissing and expensive campaigns to win one. See Leo. Also those actors you mentioned have decades in the business and he's not there yet.
@brianlittle92022 жыл бұрын
@@benjaminroman916 Well the man has made over 47 movies and has been making movies since 1998 which is long enough for anyone to judge his work and while Oscars may be overrated to U and I if U busted your ass at any career and was among the best in the world at it U would want the appropriate raises and or credit U deserve. I know Hollywood is a filthy out of touch even satanic sh*t hole but none the less right is right and he should get what he deserves if U were an actor who was that good U would want that Oscar especially when U see some of those who have reserved it in the past.
@maria321432 жыл бұрын
Surprisingly, this is a really good advice 👏🏼
@mikecole96762 жыл бұрын
Right?? I feel like I could be watching a Brené Brown video or something
@Joe-ie8vk2 жыл бұрын
He is a fantastic actor…and I’m not a Hollywood guy who follows celebrities but I got respect for Him
@danielwalker6436 Жыл бұрын
This is on point. Honesty creates integrity, as does understanding ones fears.
@mariosparaskevas2882 жыл бұрын
He is one of my favorite actors 💪🏼
@theam60202 жыл бұрын
Man I have seen other actors saying this but Tom Hardy seems like a different beast , you can't tell what he's gonna do next
@robertodelgado63872 жыл бұрын
Anything Tom Hardy related is just awesome
@adrianwalker54152 жыл бұрын
vulnerability can be courageous and confident imo
@DiogenesNephew2 жыл бұрын
It's the classic example of actual courage. Courage isn't a lack of fear, it's moving forward in spite of it. If courage were merely a lack of fear, then one couldn't characterize it as a positive character attribute; it would merely be an unearned fact of the situation. Much like the unearned praise given to attractive people purely for being born attractive.
@andro.56782 жыл бұрын
@@DiogenesNephew lol which is basically what you are doing here. the guy is a high status Chad (ie highly attractive). that's the lesson here. normies can't get away with acting like a snowflake.
@DiogenesNephew2 жыл бұрын
@@andro.5678 Can you explain what you mean in that first sentence?
@andro.56782 жыл бұрын
@@DiogenesNephew 'praise given to attractive people'
@DiogenesNephew2 жыл бұрын
@@andro.5678 Ah. If I were the one who made the video or maybe if I'd searched it or something you might have a point. But I didn't come here to give props to this actor for any reason, let alone how he looks. Do you not see a difference between being vulnerable and being fragile?
@zxtraterrestrial2 жыл бұрын
Omg he’s beautiful 😍
@nonelikememe2 жыл бұрын
That man is fine af
@ldfab36092 жыл бұрын
@@nonelikememe it’s a female-to-male transgender
@davidguliver30002 жыл бұрын
Yes he only needs some dental work
@jessanna41382 жыл бұрын
@@ldfab3609 he was born Edward Thomas Hardy?
@bambi31632 жыл бұрын
@@davidguliver3000 some imperfections are fine in people
@dougandreano88692 жыл бұрын
With Tom being sober one of the biggest things is being honest.
@theshortside50492 жыл бұрын
This is probably the only short I’ve seen that actually promotes a healthy mindset lol well done
@WhoIsTechFour2 жыл бұрын
Being attractive and a millionaire also helps
@umbraheart12 жыл бұрын
Straight up me him eye to eye he’s right I gained confidence still introvert but social af fear still there but coping
@Lorenzo120892 жыл бұрын
One of the top ten talents in the industry.
@bobbybyrd12362 жыл бұрын
he has great genetics, male model looks, and a very talented actor. You cant compare yourself or think itll work for you
@jessicaaguirre12292 жыл бұрын
Omg I so love Tom Hardy 😍 ♥
@daddypig.57962 жыл бұрын
Golden rule: stop learning how to be yourself or gain confidence by watching KZbin videos about famous people.
@rooster5555552 жыл бұрын
This video is actually good advice tho
@mydarling32722 жыл бұрын
This
@frzack_.2 жыл бұрын
Umm tom hardy has a point its not all about fame
@kris46452 жыл бұрын
I agree! Sarcastic but true 🤣
@TheProtagonist379 ай бұрын
Im not learning how to be myself. I'm learning how to not try and be someone else.
@shannonpickens76952 жыл бұрын
I don’t fear too many things but I do sit back and watch people.. you learn alot that way…. I have been lied to mislead, gaslighted, taken advantage of… nothing to be scared of really.. just live and learn. He is an absolute legend. ❤️
@shannonpickens76952 жыл бұрын
@Omari L thank you. It is the truth. You just have to pick up the pieces and move on… make yourself happy in life
@IllIllIllIllIII2 жыл бұрын
Honesty and confidence are two different things
@jeztickles43612 жыл бұрын
With his looks + money he could say anything and be popular
@waningmooncancer96282 жыл бұрын
Good on you, Thomas! It ain't that fear is going to go away and leave you alone forever. Don't expect that. Courage and bravery are just words to describe doing whatever, afraid. Battle through fear, and don't worry, GOD's helping you. You don't have to do it alone with no help. Just do it afraid. Then, with diligence, the voice of fear will get to where you can't hear it. YAY 😁!!!!!
@vaughnueatts55462 жыл бұрын
Tom Hardy is what every man should strive to be!!
@wingman-19772 жыл бұрын
Phenomenal actor. His work in Legend was some of his best work.
@amyb78232 жыл бұрын
"Stop trying to look flawless." Impossible for Tom Hardy. What a dreamboat. 😍
@lokisfriend2 жыл бұрын
He is awesome, every movie I see him in is my new favorite.
@hemanthkumartirupati2 жыл бұрын
Truthful and Honest life builds confidence
@Abstract.x2 жыл бұрын
A recurring message I get from this channel is to be Honest and Genuine 💪🏾 that's the way to go
@danielseverinsen2 жыл бұрын
A guy gets tattoos to look tough, I would have never guessed 😅😅😅
@thandicandy54522 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@jhorse69682 жыл бұрын
Probably helps if you're a 10/10 like Tom Hardy... Now what's the advice for actual average Joes?
@yanceyboyz2 жыл бұрын
Super models are literally paid to be beautiful and still have body confidence issues and eating disorders.......your logic is flawed.
@jhorse69682 жыл бұрын
@@yanceyboyz oh boohoo. Try being an ugly person who isn't treated like there a king every day of their life. We all have problems but beautiful people have such an advantage its crazy.
@StruttinStrayCat2 жыл бұрын
Imagine that. Being yourself is what makes you look best.
@theFoxxx866 Жыл бұрын
Fear will keep you Sharp, keeps you in Shape and being the Best Version of you. Once you lose respect for fear and no longer set it as something to Be afraid off is when death creeps. Dont Be ashamed of harnessing fear, it'll keep you and those around you alive.
@blackpilledchad19272 жыл бұрын
"Tom easily becomes aware of how handsome he is so he don't care how awkward he can be. His beauty makes him automatically confident and interesting, even though he has an avg personality"
@rebekahbailey52722 жыл бұрын
My partner met Tom hardy and forest Whitaker one morning they were shooting a film in Wales. So down to earth really nice guys my partner called forest Lawrence 😂
@CandaceJDunkley Жыл бұрын
This is great advice! Thank you 💎 We often try to look flawless because we attach our self-worth to our performance. I hope the person reading this knows you are valuable because you are a child of God and nothing and no one can take that away. Someone once told me that sometimes you have to love yourself enough to do things badly (until you can do them better.) Your dreams are waiting for you to get started. Start imperfectly it’s okay. Just take a step! You got this! ~ Candace KZbinr and Poet Covering Self-love
@katapulta321 Жыл бұрын
That's exactly what I do since i realized that I'm kind of shy guy... But now it's getting into me that if you realize that you are shy and start thinking that you are shy, you can easily fuck your brain up, it's better to think that you are confident and it's just normal human behaviour but at the same time it's good to be kind of "responsive" :)
@MetallicaKing482 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this in a lot of ways. I’m covered in tattoos, it’s simply just because I wanted to face one of my greatest fears in life. Being under the needle for prolonged periods.
@Jayskiallthewayski2 жыл бұрын
Lol, dude's making monster movies making millions and whereever he goes everyone tells him how great he is, that'll harnass your fear pretty quick. Doesn't really apply to the normal dude in the street though. Nice try.
@thomash72522 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I was thinking. He can afford to come out and say that he's scared of everything. It's charming, instead of lame, for someone in his position.
@KittyKittyBangBang2492 жыл бұрын
@@thomash7252 I think what most people want is to just be authentic to who they really are. I would find it absolutely charming if a “street dude” said these things as long as he was being real
@Counz2232 жыл бұрын
Being authentic works for everyone.. there is no self development without being honest about yourself
@moneynmusic33662 жыл бұрын
Yeah seriously! Whoever made this video has a huge hard on for Tom Hardy!! This was lame...
@LeglessWonder2 жыл бұрын
It’ll work for everyone. Definitely easier for him, in ways, but possible for anyone
@bevbiltgarage97912 жыл бұрын
Confidence comes from not caring what people think about him. He sees honesty and integrity and dignity more important than seeming tough
@silkroad12012 жыл бұрын
Being a rich and famous actor who women adore definitely helps with your confidence
@LtKregorov2 жыл бұрын
It’s much more fun, easy, and liberating to walk through life being honest about who and what you are. Faking and lying to please people around you is exhausting and provide stress, a couple mistakes and people will see right through the show you put up. Honesty and integrity will always make you shine.
@RoadWarrior-lo9vt2 жыл бұрын
Been a fan of his since Star Trek Nemesis. Guy's cool as hell. Love anything he stars in. Not gay, just like the dude!
@imjustsam1745 Жыл бұрын
This works, crack a joke about your deficiencies while doing something well and people treat you like a leader. Tom is an amazing example of owning your masculinity.
@dannyc72272 жыл бұрын
And because he’s well spoken and good looking. That’s doesn’t hurt any either.
@torbenfranke18592 жыл бұрын
You could argue, that he has the strength to be honest, even when it's hard or difficult for himself to admit the truth, and people will realize it takes a certain badassery to do that.
@PACSALTY Жыл бұрын
And he gets through those psychological issues with out drinking or using. 🔥🙏💪
@electricblue81962 жыл бұрын
The "look" of confidence
@ACCH-cm9ou Жыл бұрын
i respect people who have the courage ,to be real with their weaknesses ,than building a super persona and become fake in the end
@prepperjonpnw64822 жыл бұрын
Something that Tom Hardy does which earned my respect was he never answers questions about his sexuality when being interviewed. He says that it’s inappropriate for them to ask him about it, also that his sexuality is his business and nobody else’s and that it has nothing to do with any of the various projects he’s worked on. I agree with him 100%! I don’t care about his sexuality one way or the other. I think he’s a great actor and I enjoy the various roles he has played.
@newt21202 жыл бұрын
What do you mean? Are there rumors about him being gay or something?
@gierer7972 жыл бұрын
@@newt2120 yes he was actually asked
@BroughtCat2 жыл бұрын
Such a cool and grounded guy.
@Topself242 жыл бұрын
He’s a beautiful man. Love him
@elvd12962 жыл бұрын
U love me too
@champer12902 жыл бұрын
“Courage is being scared, but saddling up anyways.”