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[@tena2013]

This can't happen when they dont reach out. And women dont come back after dumping you. They expect you to chase. And you cant pursue someone from a place of strength. My biggest struggle rn is just accepting that i was alone in the relationship and she saw no real value in the 10 years we spent together. I wasted my life

[@S1lverspike]

This is a victim mentality

[@Champman543]

?? How do you do this if they want no contact? And why is this only on the perspective of the dumpee? Even if the dumpee does the work, why should it work the second time if the dumper stays the same? It takes two to ruin a relationship...

[@docholliday7381]

so you want to take someone back who has already left once ??

[@ClayAndrews]

Taking someone back who has left before can be a complex decision. It depends on various factors, such as the reasons for the breakup, whether the issues have been addressed or resolved, and if both parties are genuinely willing to work on the relationship. It's essential to assess whether the person has shown genuine remorse, effort to change, and a commitment to improving the relationship dynamics. Communication and mutual understanding play crucial roles in deciding whether to reconcile. Remember that we all have free will to decide and make better choices. So whether you want him back or not, will depend still on you after you have evaluated things between you and your ex.

[@docholliday7381]

@@ClayAndrews To get a divorce and break up a family needs very good reasons and those reason a rarely resolvable (I know there can be a few instances where it happens but its not a rule). Most divorces today happen because in most cases the woman is not happy. I do not think a marriage nessesaryly when involving kids is about happiness. So in most cases the woman leave due to her own ego and greed and disregard for her family setup. So while it is possible to get your ex back. You should not if she left for the above reasons since she will most likely do it again and are not trustworthy.

[@mrgonzalez8838]

Or, don't ever take back your ex. You are assuming they return from good intent.

[@ClayAndrews]

That could be an option as well.

[@alfredobermudez6430]

How

[@ayeshakhan2709]

we don't want our x back...

[@ClayAndrews]

That's totally fine. Remember, at the end of the day, we have to assess if the relationship is something that we really want or let go. :-)

[@ayeshakhan2709]

@@ClayAndrews we already happily living with husband and kids...🤣

[@Sofancykelly]

his with someone else 😢