This Is Why We Need To Bring Back SHAME

[@alexandergrace5350]

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[@ogbmt]

Shame isn't as simple as you described in the video. I mean to say that it's not just an expression of guilt for acting against one's personal morals. I would just describe this as guilt. Not everyone is open about sharing their own moral standards, because apart from the actions, those standards in themselves could be the subject of judgement from others. Shame is about the fear of others finding out about your actions, because those actions go against the moral standards or accepted norms of other people. Plenty of people who are living their lives in a way which others would disapprove of (for example homosexuals in traditional or religious communities) feel shame for their actions, despite the fact that their own actions do not go against their own moral standards. The women who have 'no shame' do not have no moral standards at all, they just generally have much more relaxed moral standards than most other people.

[@BoldStatement]

- [00:42](kzbin.info/www/bejne/kGS1oaGMmKygiKM) 🌐 Shame is considered a positive force, essential for morality, standards, and a sense of right and wrong. - [02:06](kzbin.info/www/bejne/kGS1oaGMmKygiKM) 🧠 Modern women often shift discussions about morality to consent, avoiding the evaluation of the actual merits of certain behaviors. - [03:31](kzbin.info/www/bejne/kGS1oaGMmKygiKM) 🔄 Consent does not equate to morality; actions should be judged based on whether they are good or bad, not just if they are chosen freely. - [05:23](kzbin.info/www/bejne/kGS1oaGMmKygiKM) 💬 Expressing disapproval or criticism is not equivalent to violating freedom; negative freedom vs. positive freedom distinction. - [07:44](kzbin.info/www/bejne/kGS1oaGMmKygiKM) 🤷‍♀ Modern women may have negative freedom but lack positive freedom to receive universal moral approval for their choices. - [11:38](kzbin.info/www/bejne/kGS1oaGMmKygiKM) 🤝 Engaging in thoughtful moral discussions involves considering the impact of choices on oneself and others, showing self-awareness and insight. - [13:01](kzbin.info/www/bejne/kGS1oaGMmKygiKM) 🤔 While freedom allows making bad choices, it's essential to question whether those choices are beneficial, especially for women in the West. - [14:10](kzbin.info/www/bejne/kGS1oaGMmKygiKM) 💍 Quality men are unlikely to commit to women who engage in certain behaviors, emphasizing the importance of making wise choices.

[@Trizzer89]

Bruh, so embarrassing to stoop to this ad

[@ItsNotMeItsYou007]

Instead of drag queen story hour, they need Smart Indian Princess Story Hour. I was going to write she needs to be a teacher but that is incorrect. We need her and people like her to be teachers of the children. The children need people like this.

[@marklane61]

I used to think shaming was a good thing until I realized peoples behavior is the same with or without shame. With shame they just hide it better.

[@miguelgonzalez6213]

For a short while, my then teen daughter thought she could live without shame. Then, her mom made a wise choice and my daughter came to live with me full-time. I packed us up and moved us away from all the influences in the area that were bringing her down. Her world went into a 180 degree turn. We went to family counseling. She got into team sports and fitness training. Trust me, she is most definitely someone who understands the value of having morals and understanding as she's way happier with herself and life overall.

[@tharukkus]

Thank you for this. You've proven fathers are absolutely essential AND necessary for both sons & daughters! Even her mother knew that, but more importantly, acknowledged and put the welfare of her daughter above her ego & pride so bravo to you both.

[@allseeingotto2912]

Well done sir .

[@woody4269]

Good on ya Miguel. Children do heaps better with a stable environment. And boundaries. We need more of u in this world. 🤙

[@Joseph-gi1mn]

Superb.

[@budbas]

You are good father to bring your family to move out from that environment. I do move out from toxic neighborhood for the same reason. It much better a modest house in good neighborhood than a mansion in bad one.

[@robertfindley921]

30 years ago my brother managed a restaurant. He said he was shocked at how there was no shame or modesty among the young women who worked there. One would do something crude or highly promiscuous, then brag to the others who cheered her on. Sounds like it's been getting worse.

[@kristeneichhorn6913]

Robertfindley, a woman doing something promiscuous, bragging to her friends and being cheered on is nothing more than females doing the EXACT same behaviors men have ALWAYS engaged in! The only difference here is that when men do this it is completely normal exceptable and even expected. When a woman dose this she is called names labeled as immoral and looked down on by society. I believe the correct term for situations comparable to this is DOUBLE STANDARD!

[@freidenker2915]

>One would do something crude or highly promiscuous, then brag to the others who cheered her on. Sounds like the same lots of immoral men would do.

[@Mancer1980]

Restaurants are by far the worst. Worked at one years ago and this one waitress wasn’t even there for 2 months before she screwed one of the dbag managers. Btw, she was married. Then had the audacity to slam her husband for not “understanding”. She later remarried a coke head she met at the bar, can’t even imagine what a mess her life is now.

[@Rampart.X]

'Shame' is a consciousness of guilt.

[@deanomarino31]

And that's why the 304 have no shame = no guilt

[@Pterelaos1]

It is not only that. It is also a sense of lack of ideals.

[@RedPilled100]

Wow!Nice one

[@Dionysus_Athena]

@@deanomarino31in order to have guilt it would need to be part of one’s environment. Blame parents with no knowledge in stoicism and society for this.

[@edheldude]

Shame is more like social fear. You have stepped outside the acceptable rules and you feel bad about yourself. You'll try to hide your face. Guilt is the sense that you've broken someone's boundary and you'll try to reconnect and apologize. Alexander had a video about how guilt does _not_ change women's behavior.

[@Kanivalos80]

Make shame great again

[@molnaredmond]

MaShaGA ?

[@bilboriches7216]

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[@terminator_x.24]

Make America Great Again

[@ryutenken1]

​@@molnaredmondsounds like an onlyfans slogan

[@JPs-q1o]

Alexander: "Shame is a good thing, without shame there is no morality" Also Alexander: "Buy my penis pumps, on sale NOW for $14.99!!!"

[@herbert993]

Lack of shame comes from lack of accountability….

[@NoahBodze]

Almost - but you missed something crucial. It’s not a lack of responsibility, it’s the open defiance of it. Their entire identity is to defy standards because they can’t meet standards. These are not deep people.

[@TheAchilles26]

You're close. Shame is an external source of accountability. Guilt is the internal source of accountability.

[@NoahBodze]

@@TheAchilles26 Great point which seems like semantics but isn’t.

[@jasonblizzard9635]

It's a more complex process than that

[@herbert993]

@@jasonblizzard9635 naa it all begins with not being held accountable by their own parents at an early age. Fatherless homes and being raised by a single mom is pretty much the reason.

[@claudenobles779]

Shame is the threat of isolation and that's hell for people who seek attention and are people pleasers. For people who have not developed and internal compass, banishment may curb the expression of this socially corrosive reprobate behavior. That's useful. But for those with a moral internal gyroscope, even amidst this corruption of values, to be banished from fools is the gift of solitude and simplicity.

[@thomasprogli3372]

I think we need a shame button right next to the like button.

[@NoahBodze]

I think you don’t quite get it - these people are vaguely aware of their inability to meet standards others would feel shame for violating, so they derive their entire identity from flipping the script. Their whoredom, their criminality, their defiance of our standards is the only way they can cope with not meeting them. It becomes their identity not only to fail in trying but to proclaim the failure is on purpose, and they prolifically violate those standards as the sole source of their nihilistic identity.

[@john.norris]

left everyone and everything 25 yrs ago live alone in the woods, in alaska. i will not participate in insanity

[@Nyet-Zdyes]

@@thomasprogli3372 Funny... we DO have a "shame button" right next to the like button... it's just that most social media has decided to hide how many times people disliked a post.

[@lucasy4790]

“But for those with a moral internal gyroscope, to be banished from fools is a gift of solitude and simplicity.” 👏 well said!

[@mikeb8720]

“You couldn’t water board this out of me”. Haha. She didn’t say she would never do it, she said she would never ADMIT to doing it. Women always tell on themselves.

[@christaferduran3952]

😂😂 heard that too

[@Rick_Cleland]

Well, Emily has quite the reputation.

[@maximus6667]

I saw that as well. 😂

[@ITIsFunnyDamnIT]

I noticed hat too. Meaning you KNOW she's a huge 304 probably has a body count way up in the thousands

[@Rick_Cleland]

@@maximus6667 Remember that thing with Elijah Schaffer and her getting finger blasted in a hotel lobby? Trey If I can recall correctly.

[@gamercatsz5441]

4:19 notice the guy WAS saying they where dating, but the woman just used him as a placeholder untill something better comes along. LITTERALLY every behaviour that women found outrageous in men 30 years ago (and which fueled feminism), women are now encouraging eachother to behave exactely like that.

[@lucasfabisiak9586]

This is the result of the long process of demoralization that has been going on in the West since the end of WWII. Whereas once there were fairly clear ideas about what is right and wrong (good and evil) and true, now everything is relative and all about "my truth". The symptoms of a declining society are all around us, but there's so much inertia behind this change that I don't really see any way to reverse it. I fear that all we can do is hang on to something and see where it goes.

[@Kunigunda897]

Yeah, it may take couple of generations to change people. Big portion of population may also suffer from generational traumas, and it takes a lot of work to break through.

[@TheConqueror009]

It's the small hats

[@lucasfabisiak9586]

@@TheConqueror009 The small hats are the people who gave us our conception of good and evil in the first place. Ever heard of the Old Testament? They kind of wrote it. And Jesus was a small hat. Small hat conspiracy theories are for people who aren't clever enough to see the complexity of the situation. Instead, they "simplify" it, scapegoat a group of people, ignore everything else that doesn't fit the narrative, and call it day.

[@OrwellsHousecat]

Who won WW2? Hint: Voltaire said that if you want to know who rules over you, consider who you aren't allowed to criticise

[@Dionysus_Athena]

The west has been in shambles for a very long time. The shameful part is too many people have no idea about history, in particular Ancient Greece, stoicism and science should lead society always. Too many fools these days think stoicism is subjective, another sign that education doesn’t equate to intelligence, any idiot can read a text book and still remain an idiot.

[@48Boxer]

The anti-bullying campaign was one of the catalysts of this. Now there's a difference between bullying (stereotypical dumb jock beating up nerds for lunch money) and a lot of what got grouped in with bullying. Such as shaming people.

[@teonactalpizza]

Crybullying from the ideologues is the new bullying .

[@theelder4797]

Allowing wimmins to finally expose their true nature: Embodiment of LilithJezebel behavior.

[@michaelhoudecki3657]

You're right!!!

[@I_S_Chew]

Shaming people is bullying at least 1/2 the time regardless.

[@michaelhoudecki3657]

@@I_S_Chew Yeah, people are mean. I'd rather have bullying and shame than no bullying no shame. BTW there's still bullying and shame, just no shame where it's actually needed for a functional society

[@cesardiezv]

'Shame' makes people want not to be caught. It's 'remorse' what motivates people to stop wanting to repeat the behaviour.

[@charley420]

Gotta start somewhere

[@bro4539]

Best way to not get caught is to never do it. In a perfect world people would police themselves, in reality we have to accept that sometimes the threat of social disapproval is the only thing standing between a person and misbehaviour

[@bigneiltoo]

"NO REMORSE!!!!" - Metallica

[@NerdlySquared]

80% of what women do is for social approval and attention. It’s why they take hundreds of pictures of themselves and every single mundane irrelevant activity they do, to post online. Shame absolutely shapes behaviour on both the front and back end. In your conception, only back end remorse matters to behaviour, which is demonstrably not true. Incentives matter just as much as remorse and an enviroment with no shame and infinite unconditional praise and attention motivates much more behaviour than any remorse could ever dissuade.

[@radhiadeedou8286]

You're part of the problem

[@DEPHCON.est.2002]

👍 a agree with her assessment. One best way to create positive change in society is with the use of SHAME and EMBARRASSMENT.

[@itsMe_TheHerpes]

the only way to positively change a society is to remove shame and remorse. who are you to say what's good or wrong ? how about you stop discriminating ?

[@MourningZenith]

100% agree. Shame, guilt, embarrassment, they all let you know that you're doing something unhealthy or undesirable. I always tell my kids that if they feel like they need to hide something, they should probably just avoid it.

[@The-Man-On-The-Mountain]

You don't know how many times I've said the same exact thing since a decade ago, and you wouldn't believe the hostility I got, not only from women, but from men also. Caveman is the most beautiful thing I've been called.

[@the_rover1]

I, as an archaeologist, would love to be called a cavemen since I know that these people back in european palaeolithic (h. Neanderthalensis and Sapiens) and mesolithic (h. Sapiens only) were tough, smart and incredibly fit as well as adapted to environmental circumstances. What an honour to be called a caveman.

[@TheVagolfer]

Shout out to the black woman at 13:33, her preaching is what women need to her.

[@thomasprogli3372]

It shows that it is a lot easier to talk about virtue when you are a virtuous person. That is why most women are on the offensive because they know they are not virtuous people.

[@chazzitz-wh4ly]

The irony is how many immoral women are going to tear her down and shame her for her choices while also shouting about how people keep trying to control them because they slept with 100 people last month. Standards so good they couldn’t help but double them.

[@jasonblizzard9635]

It's preaching yes, and that's why it won't make a dent.

[@Nyet-Zdyes]

@@jasonblizzard9635 I would say that the main reason that it won't work, is because a great many other women (of a certain group/type) preaching exactly the opposite things... like "choice"... while simultaneously doing everything within their ability to remove any and all negative consequences for women making stupid choices... while also blaming all men for all women's stupid choices.

[@jasonblizzard9635]

@@Nyet-Zdyes you're getting really close to the heart of it, yes.

[@ralphemerson497]

I’m all in for “my body, my choice.” That type of entitled behavior deserves huge amounts of personal responsibility. Do what you like, but no government handouts to offset your bad mistakes.

[@yucatansuckaman5726]

Tax dollars are used for these....things and it's disgusting.

[@redbaron07]

Try saying "My body, my choice" as a man, especially to a group of women, and watch the shocked Pikachi faces.

[@jscullyandmulderx25]

But tax dollars for war and religious institutions or bail outs?

[@whocarescrapsa]

Yeah, I agree. They can do whatever they want with their body. However, I do care what they do to my child's body. "My wallet, my choice" seems to infuriate them.

[@ralphemerson497]

@@jscullyandmulderx25 Against that also. Religious institutions? I’m all for zero government social handouts.

[@liviuursegr]

Almost 800 views and 90 likes within just 15 minutes from posting. Congratulations Alexander and thank you on behalf of all your viewers. You're definitely doing something right

[@DB-sd3cw]

Unreal meat riding

[@f.schmid468]

Bro keeps coming with that deep truthful analysis and meta learnings! Doing the work of the good! Great value, allways love learning from and with you man

[@jasonblizzard9635]

​@guitarszenexplain?

[@mikehawkins4752]

They are free to do as they please, but we are free to reject them.

[@TheBestPill-no2xp]

Just posted this yesterday on another channel... Guilt is for men, shame is for women. They are both social course-correction concepts. *GUILT is an internal compass men use to navigate their actions.* It doesn't matter if it's a religion, military regulations, or the code of a street gang. A man only needs a mirror to course correct ONCE HE ACCEPTS HIS SCRIPT. *On the other hand, SHAME is an external compass leveraged against women to manage their behaviors.* WOMEN DO NOT FEEL INTERNAL GUILT to enough degree to make them correct negative behaviors. The community around women must tell a woman the standards by which that woman can remain in the group. In our society, the guilt of men failing to meet standards is constantly talked about. On the other hand, concerning women, there is a war on shame itself. Now you know, and knowing is half the battle. G.I. Jooooooooooooooooe!

[@jasonblizzard9635]

Women shoot the arrow and paint the bullseye around it, men work tirelessly to develop the skill necessary to hit the bullseye. This is why men built the modern world.

[@jasonblizzard9635]

You identified the war on shame, but do you know why that war is underway?

[@TheBestPill-no2xp]

@@jasonblizzard9635 Nice.

[@TheBestPill-no2xp]

@@jasonblizzard9635 I do: The Feminine Chaotic is not bound by rules as men understand them. There is one rule in a woman's brain: What a women _feels_ will benefit her is the thing that should happen (whether it _actually_ benefits her or not). *That is her "moral compass", and thus, why I say they are amoral (not IMMORAL, that's different).* Therefore by default, women are incapable of seeing the actions that they take as "wrong", because by definition of their feelings, it's "always right" ("How can it be so wrong if it feels so right?"). This explains the woman in the video. *This is also why women never feel sorry for their actions, but instead are hypersensitive over how people **_feel_** about the actions they take.* To them, the problem is YOU FEEL NEGATIVELY ABOUT WHAT THEY DID, _not_ that they did it. They do not say, "I'm sorry I took this action", they say, "I'm sorry you _felt_ this way about the action I took" or "I didn't mean to hurt you" (because they never considered you in the first place). *To remedy it, they don't change their behavior.* They buy you a video game or bake cookies or get on their knees to make you _feel_ better about the actions they take (see, this works for _them,_ so they assume you accept it as well...and some men do...idiots). And it's _this_ reality is also responsible for the following phenomena: 1) Double Standards, and the inability to see them when explained. 2) Not being discouraged by the 80/20 Rule ("my prince is out there") 3) Disregarding statistics, data, math, and even *_the definitions of words_* (all rule-based) 4) Creating and backing policy based on the *_exceptions_* to rules ("Don't single people out, lower the standard so no one has to feel bad...even if the end result is low standards across the board" - -And now you know why schools are failures) 5) She can survive without the boundaries (a "rule word") of social rules like honor, integrity, and duty, *so she does not value them.* Even worse, since she does not value them for herself, she does not value them in male mates, either. She doesn't need a man with integrity. She just needs a man that won lie *_to her!_* Eff everyone else. 6) She also doesn't pass them to her SONS! What do women teach sons? Not morals. They teach their sons HOW TO GIVE WOMEN WHAT THEY WANT, the only "morals" they know. Conclusion: This is why every ancient religion and philosophy taught young men not to trust women.

[@zaklex3165]

Which is also why it's easy for men to be guilt free...if you don't think what you're doing is wrong, you won't feel guilty about it and internalize that guilt.

[@TheTyrial86]

When she hugged that guy. He should have left. No woman is worth that.

[@thedalillama]

Agreed, but nearly everyone would be in shocked. There's no great move, but telling both of them they are trash is the best option.

[@h2oGrunt]

Shame is alive and well. "Shameless women" often shame anybody for not accepting them. Shame hasn't gone anywhere... its just being used by the shameless themselves

[@jameswillard-brown6697]

11:24 👏 Recently, Rollo Tomasi referred to the modern feminine mindset you are referring to as solipsism. It’s a very fine line between that and narcissistic sociopathy if there is one at all. This behavior has become standard practice. At the very least, they should face the social or legal consequences that men like myself have faced. Props to the woman in the yellow dress.

[@paulclinton6414]

If she gets caught bringing false charges against a man, she walks away free.

[@zaklex3165]

I'd ignore the woman in yellow dress...already 33.3% of the requirements in a possible mate aren't available for evaluation.

[@publius5128]

It's solipsism AND sophism.

[@Hack3r91]

That clip of the girl "hooking up" with the other dude gave me canceraids, that is so screwed up. If I were in that guy's shoes, I'd just walk away without even addressing the situation, she can go get lost.

[@TheVagolfer]

The first girl is one of the prettiest women I have seen on You Tube. Glad she's not one of the women that needs shaming.

[@paulclinton6414]

You are thristy af.

[@Dionysus_Athena]

To each their own. I will never call a woman who wears make up beautiful unless I have seen her natural beauty and who she is as a person, for one is not beautiful unless he or she has virtue.

[@doncarlodivargas5497]

In addition did she talk in a normal tone and behaved herself in a dignified way, something that signal intelligence and the ability to reflect, a rare quality

[@Remember-Death]

She's flat-out mesmerizing. She'd give me no other choice, but to keep her pregnant and barefoot... shame on her for being damn-near 10/10.

[@tinderbox218]

There's a lot to be said for decorum.

[@ESNchris]

you're totally right. people are free to take bad decisions. but others are also FREE to despise them for that, dislike their decisions or even them, and FREE to want having nothing to do with them. DEMANDING the right to take any decision and not be judget nor face consequences is not only a huge degree of entitlement, but iof delusion as well

[@khure711]

In the age of the internet, misery loves company, it’s impossible to truly shame people because there will always be a group that looks to shield that shameful person. And they will never reach rock bottom of guilt.

[@NoahBodze]

The internet neither created or proliferated this; only your awareness of it. It’s always been like this.

[@khure711]

@@NoahBodze the internet connected everyone. So no it hasn’t been like this. You are wrong. Before the internet I would have never known someone who named themselves NoahBodze was a moron.

[@NoahBodze]

@@khure711 Oh, and boy - the world is littered with books about how progress is an illusion. While you’re cleaning to toilets, think about all the books you’ve never read that could have stopped you from being the low-IQ quixotic who’s only qualified to clean toilets. They better be clean, too. You can’t lose this job, too.

[@markaurelius61]

I think there are 2 sorts of moral barriers: shame, which is about how you expect others to perceive your actions, and guilt, which comes from an internalised moral sense, that an action is wrong in itself, regardless of the response of others. In the west a guilt-based morality developed, while more of the world was shame-based. An internalised morality is better. It allows people to be more mobile and more autonomous. Shame-based moralities really only work in the village or tribal context.

[@Alex-oy6ci]

Shame is more the lack of being Able to live in accordance with cultural norms aswell. Guilt is being able to choose better options, and still not choosing them. In a tribe setting, this sort of makes sense as other people are more expected to look after each other, so they may not be as exercised in taking responsibility etc from less inter personal boundaries, if it's not as clear who does what. Where western world, guilt could be more prominent as it's self responsibility is more so expected rather than less boundaries and requiring other people to take care of those affairs.

[@shadyc7044]

Yo, hearing YOU talk is so refreshing. I was starting to think I was the only one that was saying these things. (And I'm mostly referring to wishing people would ENGAGE IN CONVERSATIONS without flooding it with fallacies.)

[@alexp7274]

13:33 to 14:33 Amen to every word of that one minute speech

[@yucatansuckaman5726]

This lion-maned woman speaks the truth.

[@ghostbeetle2950]

"those girls are saying things you could not water-board out of me..." - I'm dead.;)

[@jonnnybravo4092]

Shame is the effect to a cause. Its how we grow as a society. You make mistakes and you learn to not make them based on negative feedback. The stove is hot, dont touch it. That pain tells you to not touch it. Removing shame literally handicaps society.

[@jimc.goodfellas]

Unfortunately a lot of women are doing and saying all these things for attention....and yeah as far as shame, it needs to make a comeback in a lot of areas of life

[@ghostbeetle2950]

The girl in yellow has gotten pretty famous already. We desperately need to see more like this, to normalize striving for ideals, instead of racing to the bottom!

[@Dru2maBoii]

All actions need checks and balances. Consequences keep people civil. Without them, there is chaos. Unfortunately, morality is self driven.

[@theelder4797]

Yes, but shame imposed on you by everyone in society keeps most people in check, forcing them to behave morally. Those that still don't act accordingly are usually impulse behavior prone, or severe social problems. So, get society back in line with moralsEthicsValues instead of "lol do whatever you want, we need to be allowed to be as degenerate as possible!"

[@Detector1977]

If only...but it's really hard to go back once that pandoras box was opened.

[@bigneiltoo]

The fundamental issue is: women think they are just like men whenever it suits them. They can be an astronaut or a police officer, and if they have lots of lovers and tattoos that is so hot!

[@cassidybronson6891]

304 telling other 304’s you should be ashamed. Ironic, isn’t it.

[@Thenogomogo-zo3un]

Quite funny really

[@GeneralProfessor]

Note that there is a difference between shame caused by guilt one feels over his wrongdoing, like in Christian societies, and shame one is expected to display to the collective as a form of repentance, like in Japan for example. All those girls, in this case, who appear shameless, aren't truly so. Get enough people to accuse them of racism or -phobia and watch them display shame publicly and apologize to the group. This is because the fundamental question is: What is your god? To some people their god is the mainstream and the most popular part of a given society - whatever that part allows is virtuous, whatever it condemns is sin - end of discussion. (Which is why the allegedly shameless girls I mentioned earlier brag about their deviance, because their god that is leftism defines such behaviour as good.) To others, their god is what we commonly consider God to be, he is a sort of internal judge who allows and condemns things regardless of society's shifting opinions. Thus, depending on the sort of god, when one sins he reacts differently. Some apologize because they fear for their social standing. Others apologize because they internally regret their moral failure. The former has been a norm for about a decade now, that is why it's become common for modern people when faced with someone's apology to often dismiss it and conclude: "X isn't sorry for what X did. X is only sorry because X got caught."

[@canelareina3795]

I agree with most of that, but lefties do feel personally guilty for making global warming, or whatever the no-nos are. It isnt all just cow towing to the group.

[@jscullyandmulderx25]

Sorry but it's not leftist or feminist to cheat or and just because you don't believe in your God means you peculiarly condone these girls behavior or guys.

[@jeffreyzie]

Bro you are verbalizing things SO WELL THANK YOU

[@kalasatwater2224]

We need more women like her

[@Rick_Cleland]

Emily Wilson (@emilysavesamerica)

[@freidenker2915]

We also need more chaste men.

[@ararune3734]

@@freidenker2915 What are you talking about? Small percentage of players pollinating majority of girls. Most of dudes aren't fking all that much.

[@creola2910]

@@ararune3734Yes they are.

[@ararune3734]

@@creola2910 No they're not. You have data that shows 1/3 men under 30 have never had any sex. Of course you don't know about it, because a huge percentage of men are invisible to you, y'all only have eyes for the top men. A third of men isn't having any sex at all. You only think all the men are smashing left and right because those are the men you surround yourself with. It says more about you than men.

[@maxpower2881]

I'm really impressed by the topics and the depth in the analysis of the latest videos. The quality of content has reached an outstanding peak. I also applaud the respect towards women when developing the explanation in these issues that are delicate to cover. Thank you!

[@erielugo891]

Not only shame but traditional morality. Bring back the "scarlet letter".

[@latetotheparty184]

I think it is women who have to shame other women. They are the experts , of course, of gossip, reputation destruction and slander. And men for example wouldn't likely shame loose women, or partially clothed women. But women taking the initiative of policing their own would then have men's support.

[@allseeingotto2912]

Shame and morality go hand in glove

[@itsMe_TheHerpes]

yeah i bet you would love that, wouldn't you ? what next ? bring back the inquisition too ?

[@zaklex3165]

You must be upset that you aren't living in the 1950's.

[@clivegreen7139]

We are most reliably defined by what we repeatedly do. That is to say, we are the sum of our choices. Luckily, it is never too late to learn how to choose better, and eventually become a better version of yourself. Start by examining the value system that has underpinned your choices up to this point. Ask: how did I get here? answering this question can be difficult at first, because you have to be brutally honest with yourself. You have to work hard to UNDERSTAND the choices you've made. When you have done that, you can begin to consciously embrace better values, and these will help you to make better choices going forward. You will be astonished at just how quickly things can change. I know I was!

[@cavetroll666]

what a crazy world

[@irisu88]

As some sort of "hero" said once on the land I live: "Morals and Elightenment are our prime necessities" (Simón Bolívar, 1819). And by the time I heard those words first time, they'd just in and out, I was a kid, not innocent, but ignorant. Over time, after growing bound to a moral compass made out of pain and shame, while watching how lots of other people just don't. Embracing all knowledge I have been able to gather and still thirst for more, while others preach "ignorance is bliss". I have come to see it, how important both those things are, without shame, there'll be only debauchery and short term hedonism, and while young, we don't think and we don't know consequences. We're like a boy with a gun going to a shootout, believinig himself invincible until reality shoots back. Will this be a flesh wound for the record or the bullet of mankind's demise?

[@yusuf-jt4xr]

Brother I know you did not just make an ad on penis products talking about shame..

[@josmclove4426]

😂😂🤣🤣

[@M.SA93]

There is such a difference, my friend, there is no comparison😂😂

[@TheHated0ne]

Alexander preaching as always 🗣🗣🔥🔥

[@terrydactylspontaneous2596]

Shame left the building with accountability. Just avoid these women. It’s only a problem for a man who is with a woman like this. Women can do what they like. Just don’t be part of it.

[@Sorakingdom4]

Just because you can, doesn’t mean that you should.

[@MGJpredador]

The way non-religion people present the subject based on academical subjects is much more enlightening than religion-based podcasts on modern women. You got a subscriber.

[@IlLAD3LPH1A215]

Everything he’s saying has been said in scripture your just not familiar with it ..there is no objective morality without God but the world loves the advice of The Lord while simultaneously rejecting Him because they humanity hates accountability.

[@asmyself4021]

​​@@IlLAD3LPH1A215God thinks it's ok to torture someone for eternity. Not only that, but he victim blames its own creation for behaving exactly the way he predicted it to behave. With god, there is no free will by definition. Sorry, but god has less morality than you think.

[@markaurelius61]

And yet our wisdom, all the moral ideals he presented, come from Christianity. The morality presented here is borrowed.

[@loganblackwood2922]

Moral statement + truth + God = bad Moral statement + truth + academia = good ?

[@asmyself4021]

@@markaurelius61 No they don't. Humans were doing fine before that. Take Japanese people for example.

[@gellister]

One thing that is utterly forgotten today: "Results take time to measure". People are such dopamine goblins now that they don't consider anything besides instant gratification. But instant gratification rarely meets your needs over time.

[@goooc]

Well, if they were actually willing to stand up to consequences that would still be some kind of morality. I made my bed as it is, it was my choice, and I've got to lie in it as it is. That is alright in my book even if I don't share the underlying worldview - live and let live. But we all know that they won't and that they'll blame everyone else and try to falsify and whitewash the past when the consequences kick in.

[@ron-kf8sf]

You just described our society. That said I really do t pay much attention to people sitting in their car talking to their phone

[@MegasXaos]

I'd marry the woman in yellow. She's one of the rare few women nowadays that is focused on what's important: being a good partner so you can have a strong family.

[@freidenker2915]

Are you holding yourself to the same standards? Are you saving yourself for marriage and not risking to beget children with women you would not want to be the mother of your children?

[@MegasXaos]

@@freidenker2915 Correct. You throw out those questions like you think it's hard to do that.

[@freidenker2915]

@@MegasXaos No, I hold myself to the same standards. I just know that there are many hypocrites here in this regard, including Alexander himself.

[@M.SA93]

@@freidenker2915 what Alexander did!? Why are you mad at him?

[@Guildofarcanelore]

Actions without accountability, that’s modern western women.

[@JSFGuy]

No shortage of this.

[@reo2048]

My current understanding of shame is that it is the most civilized punishment for behaviors that if widespread would destroy society (whichever society that would be whenever it existed). That is the society without shame has no means of enforcing the rules that hold it together in a civilized manner. The best and most thought provoking material I've seen to date on the subject is "The 7 Emotions that Push Civilization" by Whatifalthist on youtube

[@timmy1tap678]

"If I don't have boobs, grow some, if I do, cover them up!!" Ooohhhh man, talk about a hard life!! How do these modern thinking women possibly handle it??

[@Thenogomogo-zo3un]

That girl got crazy eyes. "if you have crazy eyes, wear sunglasses, dont care if its night-time, dont go around scaring people"

[@thisdyingsoul76]

The problem with a lot of people these days, both male and female, is that nobody ever taught them "just because you can, doesn't mean you should."

[@cslearn3044]

There is a reason we have shame and certain emotions you muppets

[@LJSiar]

IM CONFUSED... I always use shame. Shame guilt and loss are the best teachers. #STRUGGLEWELL Gentlemen.

[@TheVagolfer]

Another reason why women should have limited choices, they usually make poor decisions when they have unlimited options.

[@stuarthdoblin]

5:22 "Words are not violence, and my disapproval is not control." Smooth poetry to the ears.

[@ConservativeSatanist666]

I think that one of the reasons why there's not any shame is because guys will lie to women to get with them.. agreeing to her nonsense; leading women to say craziest things or even do them for attention. That being said I still struggle wrapping my mind around how women even for attention would be willing to say such things even if they weren't true. 😅

[@markdsm-5157]

you're suggesting women don't have any agency. they shouldn't be getting with those guys to begin with.

[@OrwellsHousecat]

Don't blame men.

[@thedalillama]

You just reminded me of something that happened around 1989. A woman really wanted to show off her new (downtown) piercing at a party. The guys goaded her into thinking it was okay. She showed it off to 20 or 30 people, spread eagle on a kitchen counter. It was the trashiest thing I had seen up until that point.

[@OrwellsHousecat]

@@thedalillama 😂😂 "up to that point" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thedalillama]

I once overheard a woman boasting about her oral skills to a group of guys, berating another girl because she didn't perform it on enough guys at a 🐝 j party to qualify as a proper host of said party, and that she's the one that actually knows how to host a good party. That then became the trashiest thing I witnessed. It was on the pizza deck at Yosemite. Must have been an interesting summer for the workers there.

[@kevinfurr3311]

What that lady said about protecting her virginity and dress was refreshing and made my heart soar. Good for her. The problem with your stake in the ground on revolving the discussion about morality is what is the definition of morality if you do not have a reference point? To a large extent that is a religious discussion that I adhere to. It is guidance from a source greater than me that I can see as true north and then try to be true to. Without that reference point everything becomes relative to what YOU want and morality without such reference points is different for every person, thus what these women say. I would bet that they think that they are moral in their world(with the caveat that they are probably burying a truth).

[@deepzone31]

In America you are told not to shame the fats, the homeless, or the hores but you are shamed for wearing a red hat, respecting law enforcement, and being patriotic.

[@zaklex3165]

Does someone really want to make America great again...then we have to rule the f'ing world, not turn away from it...only then would the United Stars of America be truly great.

[@publius5128]

You're shamed for being White, Christian, and not an implicit communist.

[@exsosus5002]

100% Gotta love there are still real girls / women out there, like this one at the start. Her boyfriend must be So blessed.

[@brycenlanager1216]

That girl in the yellow dress needs to be appreciated. I'm glad there are women still like this, even if they are few and far between.

[@bluwater1422]

Facts

[@tdotsmooth]

Honor and shame are two of the most important tenets of a functioning society.

[@claudenobles779]

Your logic A.G. is well thought through. Well said. Unfortunately, fleamales are not logical which traps them in feelings and a narcissistic "now" which disregards future ramifications. Maybe the pain of failure will wake them up, nah they will double down and keep running from their shadow. As for me, monk mode, entrepreneur-$hip and observing the clown show.

[@tophat2115]

According to the American Psychiatric Institute, the prevalency of personality disorders in the USA is 9%. One in eleven adults has at least one PD, if not more. It seems to me that many of these people are platformed via the mainstream media, via alternative media, via social media. They're either lifted up and celebrated or condemned and cancelled-or both depending on your perspective. Social media and a voyeuristic impulse has given these folks a celebrity that is not to be held up as anything but what not to be.

[@mv6113]

Consent is the morality of the Devil

[@anthonybasile6079]

Based observations sir.

[@fingolfin2112]

In sodom and gomorrah the people there were proudly telling everyone their sins. no regrets or shame.

[@kriscubero6778]

That kind of shamelessness naturally infected Lot's daughters

[@Anelipka]

@@kriscubero6778 It infects a Lot of daughters.

[@gintoki_sakata__]

​@@Anelipka😂 I see what you did there

[@BWater-yq3jx]

History rhyming again.

[@ruthlessreid9172]

They call it common for a reason most are. I've been married for 24 years. I choose a good one they are rare.

[@quelodequelo]

Why is she beautiful but a total disaster? Because her mother was shallow and beautiful and chose a good looking boy but a disastrous father. It's a timeless chain.Break the chain and choose your partner only when she's happy with her father and respect him. Beauty is a red flag

[@talea9593]

Not always. Anyone can land anywhere on the morality spectrum. It's not a simple "if they're pretty then they're bad"

[@chazzitz-wh4ly]

Freedom requires temperance. Without self control, there is only chaos and enslavement to one’s own personal desires.

[@howelltaylor6774]

No, you are not ethically obliged to respect others freedom in respect to they're own choices in they're life that is incorrect. Respect comes from admiration and I do not have to respect anything about another person or there choices. They're personality, culture, customs or traditions can be judged and condemned without any moral obligation although it may also be there along side it.

[@smithsmith1956]

As a dude who's losing his hair, I'm jealous of the 1st chicks lions mane hair.

[@Rick_Cleland]

Be careful, Emily is a maneater.

[@DrFunFong]

CommercIal is a real turn-off. Sorry.

[@thedalillama]

Agreed. A bit ironic considering the video.

[@shyamsunder3358]

A psychopath have no guilt

[@Monkeypoop533]

It’s refreshing to know there are still women with morals and standards.

[@oscaraurelio8869]

There are too many people who believe because they can technically do something, it MUST be done, the same way there are too many people who, after an action, good or bad at the moment, is done, are complaining about its consequences

[@marycross5010]

0:43 So true, feeling "SHAME" is a MORAL code, it means you have a conscience. "Shame" is not a NEGATIVE feeling. It is a POSITIVE feeling. 7:03 Yes, Negative FREEDOM means you can do all you desire to do including CRIMES, and not take any responsibility for the good and bad causes. It is egotistic or narcissistic. vs Positive Freedom means you abide by human merits that don't violate other freedoms as well as your own freedom. You empathize with what others would feel.

[@KingRichardVI]

8:44 Those crazy eyes! My goodness once you see them you cannot unsee them.

[@JABINVA]

The woman in the yellow dress proves unicorns do still exist!!

[@firstnamelastname8058]

I think a very similar thing could be said about FEAR.. In a world that lacks repercussions we are seeing the rise of sheer disrespectful and utterly idiotic behaviour from not just women but men and children too. Kids in the classroom, Karens in shopping centers, Elderly on our roads and crime on our streets are just common examples. Fear causes the brain to be alert, responsive and decisive and without it we get... modern society. Human Cattle.

[@Mrbfgray]

In my childhood there was teasing game of chanting: "NO SHAME!" at anyone who did something silly, tripped, fumbled....it was for fun but had recognition of the concept.

[@spacecandygames7575]

Shame only works when it’s met with isolation. With social media there will always be a group that supports women. Remember we shamed egirls and onlyfans for years but simps still supported them…..on the flip side women shamed men for toxic masculinity and literally abandoned many of them so this caused men to changed.

[@puppyupper4565]

best video so far. You are repeating the apostle, Paul. He said all things are lawful, but not all things are profitable. If only girls would understand that. Their lives would be so much better. Praise God that we have a choice. I want a pure girl. Looks like I have to become a passport bro to get one. That's good.

[@Kivlor]

unfortunately shame cannot be brought back under the current paradigm.

[@varasano]

We have plenty of shame just about different things. All canceled culture is about shame.

[@matton36]

Ive been saying for years to bring back shaming people and ill ad to that, mocking people as well. Peer pressure is the most powerful deterrent to hedonism and debauchery known to man.

[@Falstaff-mr8fk]

Shame hopefully leads to remorse and change of behavior also known as repentance, not in a religious sense but just in a change of direction and also making of amends to those effected by our behavior. All actions have consequences for us, either positive or negative, If you choose behavior that society has deemed negative, we should expect the reaction to be negative. That's why we lock up murderers, thieves and abusers in general. We also laud people who make right choices in life and those that behave "heroically". Now about the charge that just want to control women. No, we don't. But we would love them to learn how to control themselves.

[@franklee1550]

Like the famous last line from that classic western-“Come back shame!”

[@jeffcauhape6880]

Something that used to be heard: "Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should."

[@leefer1955]

Wow the girl in yellow dress is displaying comparative genius. ❤