“This KEEPS 99% Broke And Miserable!” - Fix THIS! | Jason & Brett Oppenheim

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Timestamps:
00:00 - INTRO
01:34 - Biggest complaints about each other
10:28 - Growing up as an alpha
18:04 - How to control an alpha
23:29 - Becoming RICH lawyers
36:22 - Being short AND good with women
41:00 - Abundance vs scarcity mindset
45:05 - The mouse experiment: purpose is everything
01:03:17 - This trait makes you rich
01:13:14 - Why perspective is the MOST important thing
01:23:51 - The scar experiment: avoiding victim mentality
01:29:44 - The orphan experiment: fake it 'til you make it
01:47:41 - Biggest faults and how to fix them
01:50:46 - How to be "good with women"
02:00:41 - Women want a man who likes himself
02:26:13 - Recent real estate trends
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[@FinancialMatter]

I love how Jason is just eating McDonalds during the interview 😂AND also randomly gives Graham his old clothes.

[@mustafabaris9681]

The message is loud and clear : All successful people spent ZERO time reading self-help books , going to seminars to look for answers..They all are in the " doing " business, not "pontificating " " planning " " thinking " " searching " " contemplating " business.. Just go do..!

[@shawnstoik]

I have so much more respect for Jason. After hearing his thinking about how if he pays more big deal it’s gonna bless somebody else’s life! That’s the true meaning of having WEALTH ! I feel sorry for those who live their life, cheap and stingy…

[@Vidaesuna]

So true!! Every rich person I know is super greedy

[@amerisum]

Lol

[@pkja1]

Long time listener, first time commenter. Love the podcast and watched it grow to where it is today. My only feedback for Jack (which I’ve noticed a shift in his behaviour over the last 10-15 or so episodes) is to allow the guests to finish speaking or conclude their thoughts before following up. Your interjections are quite jarring to the overall flow of conversation, and negatively impacts the listening experience. You have amazing guests on the show and great questions, but we want to hear about your guests’ full responses, perspectives and experiences rather than cutting them off and challenging them with your ideals; which is fine, but there needs to be some level of self-awareness to ensure a natural and coherent flow of conversation/exchange of ideas. As a long time listener, I want the best experience of enjoying your show.

[@user-ch6ui5jc7k]

I LOVE how Graham brings ups points his past guests have made, as it shows so much respect towards them and that he actually listens and is excited about having them on his Podcast. :D

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

Each episode is basically a long therapy session lol

[@janelleg597]

Yes yes yes

[@therealSae]

​@@TheIcedCoffeeHour😂😂

[@diegocaracasfc]

He was almost another furniture haha

[@martykauffman]

Can we get Graham back on selling Sunset?

[@TheRideshareHub]

His 4 second cameos were really what made the show what it was!

[@martykauffman]

@@TheRideshareHub oh, but it would be totally different if they just brought him in right now or hear me out maybe they make a Selling Sunset but in Las Vegas

[@hottygirl1468]

AGREEE, I saw it and I was like GRAHAM. Also I love how they started arguing in season 1 and he just gave the biggest SIDE EYE

[@martykauffman]

@@hottygirl1468 yeah, we at least need a cameo like they’re in the office and Jason is like oh I got to meet Graham for lunch

[@gliver2549]

graham needs to start a fight and cause drama to be upgraded to main villian of the season

[@Chanchavacable]

I love the dichotomy of Graham focusing on every dollar while these guys are not I love how we can all just live our own lives and have our own mentality While Graham gets satisfaction on the principle, I do too These guys get satisfaction from spending which is awesome for them And they’re speaking in a respectful manner while giving space for how someone else feels

[@craigshultz2826]

This is definitely in my top 2 favorite episodes ! Jason & Brett are awesome. Great interview guys !

[@sidnistandard]

This is such an incredible episode!! Jason & Brett are very insightful and this just increased the amount of respect that I have for them. Thanks for sharing!

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

Our pleasure!

[@lowpolar]

I love Graham, but they actually taught him what being wealthy is all about from a mindset point. Not worrying if you're actually helping someone less fortunate getting a few more dollars. Not a scarce mind that everyone might screw me mentality. This is Genius wisdom here from both of them.

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

There's definitely a lot to learn from them!

[@PakiGames]

Surrounded by idiots is a book i recently read and it splits personalities into 4 colors, red, blue, green, and yellow. Jason and Brett's definition of "alpha" is very similar to the red personality described in the book. Definitely recommend reading it if anyone is interested in learning more about "alpha" or different types of personalities.

[@TheRideshareHub]

I struggle with a major health disability and totally get the victim mindset. It's often times very hard to separate yourself from being a victim and I think it's a great conversation to have.

[@darleneatkinson3906]

This part of T.I.C.H. reminds me of I'll be happy someday when I am out of debt, or when I have x amount of money in my 66 years being alive, I discover I had to just be happy be thankful no matter what is going on or where I am at. all 4 of you guys seem to be happy with your lives where you are now, I learned live in the moment and be happy and grateful for my life. I am retired from 37-years career however I still have reasons to do thing in my life and enjoy the process. Thanks all four of you guys for this video very interesting to listen and watch.

[@marianavelazco9300]

Always great listening to all of you guys together again! Thanks Graham & Jack for providing us with this dose of knowledge!

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@shotsofkennessy]

Damn it all comes full circle Graham!! Love that you have the OGs Brett and Jason here 😂

[@obvdiego]

I've watched this pod on and off for a while now, and I wanted to say that Jack has come such a long way. Great questions, pauses, listening. Nice work! Good episode.

[@joshua.alejandro13]

Wanted to comment the same thing

[@id_rather_NOT89]

They should legit have their own show or podcast. I’d watch it 😂kinda like those real estate twins on the WE channel but their personal life lol

[@biscaynesupercars]

They really should. They have the netflix show but it shows more of their staff and drama, not really them or their thoughts

[@VioletIsBulletproof]

​@biscaynesupercars agreed. I always found them to be the most tolerable in the show (cuz the ladies get the drama scripts lol) and watching this was amazing. Seeing this side of them and their perspective and things i myself struggle with.

[@kahn2009]

I really enjoy the interview. This the first time I stay from the begin to end. Thank you.

[@rhknow8888]

So excited to watch this! I loved when Jason was on the podcast the other time.

[@blitzstriker567]

I always love the Podcasts/Interviews with Jason

[@bettylee234]

"My mcdonalds is here" from Jason.. TWICE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 and jason just eating it asap during this interview is SO funny and kinda rude during an interview 🤣 im dead !

[@kedenyoder6676]

great pacing and interviewing no thought lingered too long and points made were bold and direct

[@realestatewithlarissa]

This was an incredibly insightful conversation!!! Thank you all!

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

So glad!

[@brendand9721]

I appreciate this podcast so much. Thank you for your vulnerability and authenticity fellas.

[@MorganLittleRealEstate]

Such an interesting dynamic in their relationship. You can really see the connection between them as twins.

[@PhotoDaveJax]

Jason does look much more relaxed. Noticed it right away. 👍👍✌️

[@Stephanie-ki5oz]

this was so so enjoyable for so many reasons. Insightful, motivational and funny!

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

So glad!

[@ahota84]

this is such a wonderful glimpse into adult twin relationships

[@MrMlbfan6]

I think is mostly brothers that are raised super close

[@gemigem]

The brothers have emotional intelligence, which is why they don't need self development books, but for the ones who don't, it can actually get them to that much closer to learning how to have emotional intelligence. Reading self development books saved me, and now it's a mindset, so please do real the books if it will actually push you forward!

[@egee1010]

Loved listening to this! So many good takeaways from here!

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

Thanks!

[@arielnimni1760]

Awesome episdoe, Jason and Brett are so well spoken, its incredible. they really know how to exaplain everything in a really good way.

[@HoneymoonAlways]

I think the same way as Graham. I am finally getting to the point where I know I can always make more money.

[@daveknight336]

this is a really interesting podcast cause its inside the minds of Los Angeles residents. I love LA but could never move back there

[@NaughtyRalph]

Always love these guys on your podcast

[@AyyItsMeee]

This pops up a few hours after I just binged the show till 6 am

[@DBZoom]

Great Podcast! I remember I used to see these 2 and even Gram on Sunset Plaza when I was a Driver at Chin Chin years ago.

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

Yeah!! Those were the days!

[@Ciera_Banks]

Not sure if they Jason & Brett have a podcast? Not that they need one, but man would I subscribe so fast! Love seeing these guys.

[@elaine378]

Loved this podcast, I remember when you had Jason the last time, you should definitely have both of them back in a few years to see their predictions and if perspectives have changed

[@davidl4145]

I'm glad Brett was on with Jason. He's a smart guy. But we don't see him as much. Nice to hear off them both.

[@charlottea0157]

So happy for this!! THANK YOU! :)

[@carson911]

Graham thinking a plumber fixing a “little” piece is only $75 is wild 😂😂. A plumber won’t leave their house for less than $150-200

[@Ben_Schumacher]

It’s no wonder these guys are so confident, there’s two of em

[@Laughing-doves]

Being happy all the time is delustional - the goal shoiuld be "to be at peace" most of the time.

[@clevinjack1129]

1:28:17 About 3 years ago I was on a Zoom call with a series of other people and someone brought up the fact that once you are seen as a victim in the situation, regardless of what it is that you're in. You have given up your power to control the situation or conversation. It spirals the control and most of the time you hurt yourself and doesn't help anybody else and people start to not like you as much or not like to be around you is what I've noticed. It's one of the reasons I don't like complainers and I do my best to not complain about the situations I'm in. I think of them as challenges that only make me stronger and it only makes me want to overcome that much more. srry 4 paragraph

[@dond1227]

They can communicate without talking and know what each other is thinking always it’s a twin thing can’t explain but is real

[@kkp4297]

"IF YOU WANT A GOOD GUY, DATE A FUGGIN ACCOUNTANT" words of wisdom every young woman needs to hear goddammit

[@experienceeverything581]

Twins arguing who’s redundant!❤

[@VioletLife8]

The zooming in on how Jason is eating the fries is everything !

[@DavidNipps]

Another great episode as usual!

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

Glad you enjoy it!

[@ericavene]

this episode deserves more views. lots of gems here!

[@jjhoagland]

Great episode and great advice throughout

[@whysoblutube]

Honestly, I don’t think Jack has problems opening interactions with hot women. The issue seems to be that he drags out the interaction until they put him in the friend zone. Momentum is lost somewhere down the line. When you start trying to date a girl the first thing you should do is set up that first date instead of spending weeks texting back and forth. Once you go on that first date you talk about fun shit that has nothing to do with business.

[@brucebanksshow]

Love Jason and Brett! Good interview!

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

Thanks!

[@janeorlov]

The quote that I think about when thinking of people who comment negatively “hurt people hurt people” ….

[@RobGoldy]

These two gave some insightful perspective this episode

[@Jcslim138]

“Ive knocked him out cold a couple times” 😂😂😂

[@jacoblloyd2573]

WOW that esoteric mice study is a massive learning moment for me

[@MatthewManzella]

Always learn so much from these guys... Mind was blown first time you had him on and it was just blown again

[@ryancastner6200]

Great episode! Loved it!

[@albert1137]

thanks for finally having them! I love their shows the money the hot women the cars scenery lifestyle its motivating

[@SnapsCFB]

Really enjoyed this episode. Rewarding those who complain came with social media. In 2000 if you constantly complained, the people around you would tell you to “shut the f*ck up” because usually they wanted what’s best for you. Now everyone who doesn’t know you at all, or care, just wants to echo the chant of misfortune on Twitter.

[@olgasamoylyuk7004]

I love this episode. It's insightful and entertaining. It contains honest open conversations, transparency, self-inflicting humor and scientific studies.

[@Raewins]

How fun! Good guests this week!

[@NextGenEvs]

Great podcast!

[@w3rdnama1]

This was excellent. Thanks.

[@sandstorm973]

Phenomenal interview!

[@liahext3892]

Love this episode! I'm dying at the "no balls necessary" lololol

[@Louisadamson]

Identical twin and the fighting part is the same for my us.. We had to be in separate classes in school and different schools wasn't really an option. There wasn't a problem with us having been in fights, but the school just knew from past sets of twins. We are 44 at the moment and are not dramatically different in physical structure, like muscle mass, hide her arm length. When I've been asked that question in the past I just say that it's fun and a challenge to fight my identical twins cuz it's the perfect Nemesis one could have. It's difficult to imagine another matchup that could be so even.

[@pur3stownage]

For Graham, have you thought about volunteering? If you look at other successful people, such as Bill Gates, etc, a lot of their time is given towards others through the Gates foundation. Maybe start something similar but with more of a financial twist? Also, I've found happiness is made by who your friends with/in a relationship with. Money, living somewhere nice won't be very fulfilling unless you have people to share it with.

[@ondemandaquaworkouts]

There is no need to think about volunteering. Just do whatever you want to help People and do not share it on the social media…. Most people do it to brag about it.

[@USCitrus]

this is one of the best interviews ive ever seen

[@krislimpus]

Haha the camera work for the fist bump... Great episode gents!

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

Thanks! 👍

[@andrewcoon192]

Wow, only 6 likes. This was a great episode and very interesting. Great job guys

[@Orange949]

Awesome Pod!

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

Thanks!

[@biscaynesupercars]

I met one of these guys at an F1 event in Miami a few months ago. I have no idea which one it was lol but he was really cool

[@TMM9116]

LMAOOO why did you zoom in on Jason while he is eating like that...

[@sabrinabattaglia2465]

Great Podcast! Love the O twins

[@nicoletteescanillas9007]

This is a very great conversation

[@countrifiedjose7537]

I remember seeing Graham on the show.

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

Slightly...in the background lol

[@shotsofkennessy]

Those were the best parts of the show 😂

[@GaryMLive]

Dang great episode!

[@janaynmelis5250]

Side note but I saw them in the JSX airport in Las Vegas this June. There was a delay on flights that day, so maybe thats why they switched to flying first class. 😅

[@TravelWithNala]

"Now with society it's like you're defined by your problems. How much of a victim you are on the scale, is like how good of a person you are." 💯

[@Toematetoe95]

10:24 LMAO JASON MUNCHING ON FRIES

[@hamsiniravishankar4293]

So crazy that I relate to Brett with the twin and having a companion for life. I also have a twin, and I didn't feel a need to date until late into college age and grad school.

[@pavilova29]

1:13:57 Just randomly pulling out McDonald’s in the middle of the podcast recording 😂😂😂😂

[@jdlove1978]

Graham finally got the right haircut

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

WOOHOO!! I've gotten so many compliments on the new cut, I think I just need to stick with this from now on

[@networth00]

@@TheIcedCoffeeHour ... and somehow Jack's haircut looks like a mess. They switched.

[@oumayma10]

Love the interview keep going 👌🏻👏🏻 haha love the end Hala Madrid Brett ⚽️🇪🇸

[@newbiedebater]

A lot of how this works for Jason and Brett is they are very content never having a long term romantic relationship or children - when I had no one to fail but myself, it was a MUCH different level of risk assessment.

[@nowellclay1283]

When flipping a property and taking the profit to invest into more properties how much of it should be used for closing costs, down payments, and renovations?

[@YoutuberJeremy]

A LOT to learn from this one!

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

Enjoy!!

[@geverniveup]

I knew these guys were switched on but i didn't think they were that aware....very interesting dudes. I've always been curious who they really are after watching that stupid show on netflix. Lots to learn from them both for sure. Awesome episode fellas

[@castaway996]

Great podcast- did not think these short fellas were that interesting

[@DJjussi1]

I honestly started watching the show after you first had him on the pod lol

[@nowellclay1283]

When flipping and owning investment properties should I buy were there dirt cheap or in surrounding states?

[@user-yh3mr1wc9u]

Jason and Brett. What gene pool are you from? You are leaning so much toward the successful South African!! Love it!! Love your purpose!!

[@Judykay470]

Hey there, I have been trading for about a few months now and just about every trade slaps me in my face. Nearly impossible for me to catch more than a few points . I try to do top down analysis and MTF analysis, but it doesn't work for me. I say to myself, clearly I'm in the 90% that lose money, so I open a demo account, do my analysis, then take the opposite of what I would normally take(I know, it sounds stupid but I was desperate) and get the same result. I'm starting to feel hopeless, any advice for a struggling trader?

[@LinaBelfiore-ev9tt]

Working with someone who has experience and well to do will be highly advised. Clearly, get a mentor or a trading expert who can manage your account and give you high returns in time to come. Trading is not easy doing it alone. You will lose a lot, but investing with the right broker will clearly change the situation..

[@patrickdiamond295]

I also have a problem like this, and I've lost over $65,000 trading on my own in just a space of 3 months, and it just really drains me mentally and emotionally too. I really will like to invest and get good returns but I'm still scared because I don't want to make the wrong choice. Your recommendations will be highly appreciated 😢.

[@AbrahamOommen6]

I know of an expert by name Oliver West and I've been investing other him for over 9 months now and also have amounted to over $468,000 from just a small scale investment and its been totally awesome working with him. Oliver is like the only person I can ever think of when I hear things like this.

[@WarizYahushua]

Trading is not for everyone and that is why i will also recommend investing to anyone who will buy the idea.

[@AbrahamOommen6]

​@@WarizYahushuaI totally agree with you sir

[@saidchammas]

These keep getting longer and longer (in a good way)

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

Enjoy ;)

[@sitka49]

I think their working up to the world longest podcast, I would say Lex Fridman might hold that record for now.

[@NextGenEvs]

Jack is such a natural! Keep crushing it dude

[@roblincoln10]

Jack is having the best hair day ever in this one. Friggin dreamboat.

[@atlas101]

Big fan ! Just wished you went a little longer on the real estate side! Either way thanks for the content

[@hulksmash2816]

It's called respecting your father, not being scared. There needs to be a level of respect for your parents