What do you look for in a woman?

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[@celestial5036]

The young guys are all saying "intelligence or good looks" while the older men are all about "understanding, and simple" cause they know beauty fades but a good heart always stays.

[@-simplicity7551]

Right? Wits and looks dont always keep a marriage together. Someone with patience and who just wants to be with you is whats important.

[@txrebel3620]

Noticed that! Some young men need some growing up to do. Beauty is not all...

[@ann_banan13]

Yesss

[@maribart4237]

Beauty doesn’t really fade...

[@QueMeVezWei]

- Simplicity I’m kinda looking for simplicity

[@Zikii63]

"Someone I can be lazy with" that is my spirit animal.

[@heiresslaite2950]

I wanna join the club.. Haha

[@arrietty1619]

same!

[@halahana8194]

YESSS SAME

[@akira03mae]

Can I join?

[@Elisa-dv4ob]

Introvert, likes somebody to be lazy with, i like so much! and he is so handsome😄

[@ZareenaEvelina]

The guy who said "what can I offer?" needs to be protected at all costs

[@TheEbulla]

what a king.

[@diruholic]

He was my favourite too. He is a keeper

[@boldandcourageous4176]

Where is he?☺

[@varshamishra3340]

@@boldandcourageous4176 7:00

[@thegamingkids_234]

Whoever's reading this remember God loves you so much!

[@mansourehdehghani9456]

The “what can I offer” guy has truly understood that love is a verb, an action we take, not a thing we look for.

[@Thecelebritystudio]

Love, love is a verb. Love is a doing word. Massive Attack- teardrop

[@MithunPenheiro]

love is a state, not a verb.

[@Thecelebritystudio]

@@MithunPenheiro it’s a song lyric by massive attack

[@manuferrer4057]

@@Thecelebritystudio i believed that you're a person with class

[@manuferrer4057]

@Chris D. coz am a classy BOLLOCKS

[@KingEtho]

Honestly, Shy/Introverted people are underrated. It's such a vibe when they open up to you and they are usually more loyal and trustworthy.

[@blessingsbest6838]

Ethan nods

[@euk1074]

Mmhh, well, yes its a good sign and feeling if an introverted person opens up to u, but more loyal, mmmh I don't know, sometimes those who speak less do more, i wouldn't really relate introvercy and loyalty!!

[@Skater21Loverboyz]

omg me!!

[@mefia97]

I love shy guys. I like doing the first move and It's so cute when they blush.

[@galbulbul]

I married shy and introvert guy and I’m very happy. He is sweet, carrying I love him.

[@juliejones8798]

"how she treats other people" I love that answer

[@uchihahikaku1630]

Yeah that's a beautiful answer

[@soldaliberdade13]

me too... and it's really nice to hear men talking about loyalty being important to them... and kindness.

[@wavetech_]

that's the highlight for me

[@ruthdjarbeng3260]

that's what my husband said when I asked why he was interested in me :)

[@user-3dfhdha24]

lol

[@Linnea-xu5px]

the guy who mentioned independence... wow, made me really happy to know independence in women don’t always intimidate men. it’s refreshing to see strength not be perceived as a threat!

[@navindamansitha3684]

Lol he meant independence from her.

[@Linnea-xu5px]

@@navindamansitha3684 exactly!

[@bacitracin_]

He also mentioned he was raised with strong independent women around him

[@oOIIIMIIIOo]

Independence could also mean, that he must not care. Many times women interpret sayings different. 😉

[@howint1578]

@@oOIIIMIIIOo Exactly, maybe he was babied by them all and just doesn’t want to change his lifestyle of being taken care of

[@gugumasombuka3480]

The “what I can offer a woman” man, love it 👏🏿 most of the time people have standards that they themselves cannot match

[@kwaziengubanair9687]

Ngamthola umZulu wakithi🤗

[@RobertLMC]

@@morinette8162 today's women are heavily effected by feminism which is a huge no-no for many men

[@morinette8162]

@@RobertLMC that's the problem. Feminism shouldn't be a big no no for men

[@rishabhdeb8747]

@@morinette8162 it should. Its full of hypocrisy and awful double standards that are very fucking apparent to anyone with a half developed brain.

[@acharich]

🎯🎯🎯

[@malinstiernborg7522]

Filming so up-close makes everyone just look absolutely beautiful somehow. I feel like I can see their souls and beauty.

[@carudelstrudel6269]

It's the eyes 🙃

[@uka828]

Carudel Strudel lol idk why but the 🙃 emoji is so threatening to me 😂

[@elaf4992]

@@uka828 samee that's why I always use it when I'm mad at a friend

[@gaya3ps92]

Oh I love your comment so much ❤️

[@malinstiernborg7522]

@@Meilat1890 haha, yes, as a matter of fact I am!

[@cherryrealness]

"I just wanted someone who is my friend" I really felt that

[@geekista]

Me too

[@krissyg5630]

The best relationships start out as friendships! They should be your friend AND your lover in my opinion

[@bastje]

@@krissyg5630 Agreed

[@DoraWinifred]

c1981 a small number of women do that, but are the most vocal

[@hallowelt6412]

@c1981 I want a friend as well date meee

[@editsforlife3308]

"I'm not looking for a woman , let's start there" Imagine one of them said that :D

[@happybirthday2078]

Yeah, Rihanna overreacted a little with that one.

[@jamiljden1470]

😂 Rihanna version

[@thedestroyer9024]

@@happybirthday2078 nope, she just said what finally needed to be said.

[@CoraDagger84]

@@happybirthday2078 nah not really lol

[@Rico401Prov]

Or how about… What do I look for in a woman? Idk…my penile appendage? 🤷‍♂️

[@jessicay1676]

The single dad that mentioned loyalty, monogamy and only having his child know one person (and seeing him being happy)....that guy is a unicorn....I’m surprised someone like him even exists. It’s beautiful to hear.

[@tatianatatiana7676]

MAybe his partner was a cheater with multiple people

[@jan.mal.1284]

I am a single dad. I decided not to date until he is small. Don't want to mess his mind. He already has a mother. I begged ex for loyalty but she laughed about it. It was not important to her, because her mother was cheating for years.

[@juliebrown4087]

Why is this so surprising to you?

[@juliebrown4087]

@penalcrack Wow there are a lot of assumptions and exaggerations in there. Okay, well here's my news: I'm 31 and have only dated 1 or 2 guys. I'm not really sure what the "it" is in what "it" feels like. My point was that I know decent men like him do exist. Culture may corrupt most, but it doesn't corrupt everyone.

[@saduu94]

The older the men got the more they looked for the essence of a woman rather than the beauty.

[@Dancediva240]

But does not necessarily mean that they will accept an ogre with a heart of gold. They still have standards looks wise. Their eyesight may not be what it once was, not like they are blind as bats

[@NAConen]

That’s why older men have always hit on me. And because they’re creepy.

[@Dancediva240]

@@NAConen so are they looking for essence?

[@NAConen]

JKK . Many, yes.

[@4viruz]

I've always looked for that... My first real gf had 26 and I was 17. It not worked out long term because her parents was always making her life hell because I was too young. I remember the breaking point was one day i went to pick her up and they where fighting because of me. I was listening outside their house and then went back to my house. After that I left her and I regret it till today. She needed my support but I didn't knew what to do... I also was afraid of her father.

[@oanar1289]

"i look in a woman what i can offer" wise man. Seems that today we always want the perfect partner but never look back at us and ask ourselves if we are the perfect partner for the other..

[@deepdiver849]

Exactly!

[@AnkaMara7940]

Agree

[@mariah471]

Well said👏🏼👏🏼

[@februaryfatigue]

@@CS-sv8fg nah fam... not every woman is like that :)

[@princesslacson6291]

My boyfriend is like that. He always offer me something whether be things or service. He always say "Just call me and I'll be there". We're 2 years now and he's still the same. I love him.

[@lisamendez7479]

I love the guy who said "laugh at my jokes and stay with me for the rest of my life "! That's a kind of man I'm looking for.

[@thematriarchy2075]

🙂

[@simplyme166]

I definitely second that

[@user-gp2by3km6c]

That is what i have wanted to my gf but she is opposite of that

[@sissywizard1764]

Screaming internally because i'm so happy to hear someone say he connected with someone and became their friend first before dating. Personally I hate jumping immediately from strangers to romance , and sometimes I feel like one of the only people who feel that way. Really nice to hear that!!

[@mariaa9056]

Right? It’s nice to get to know the other person before you romanticize them :)

[@theraefication]

me too as well! that's my dream relationship :) as well of someone who is humourous, same interest and laugh at each other silly jokes

[@a.m.9115]

Totally! Popular notions about relationships and love are toxic and dysfunctional!

[@bongimabaso1534]

"Someone I can be lazy with"😍😍😍 Gosh, so many likes!!! I’m glad it happen in my fav channel, thanks Thoraya for amazing content

[@hamishcallander3130]

Bongi Mabaso definitely! The comfort of silence together too. Just feel comfortable being in their presence

[@justumm4490]

Ikr😍😍😍

[@harleyquiinnnn]

@@hamishcallander3130 Yes!! as an introvert i really feel that too!

[@SuzanneDeniseB]

This!

[@uncharacteristic_invalid2679]

Eish, I want that too.

[@bbloodyangel1]

all of these men are looking for me... and yet here i am, single as fook.

[@huluplus7002]

yikes

[@THEMAGICIAN0001]

😂😂😂😂

[@thetruepuresoul]

ilikemonkeys dying 😂😆🤣

[@mamavanaedan]

😂

[@bbloodyangel1]

@@rejected4760 i am gorgeous my personality sucks

[@NuvemdeIdeias_]

That guy said “eyebrows” i NEVER thought that was a thing people would feel atracted to! hahahaha

[@erk44]

Considering a ton of people dont really do much to their eyebrows that was an interesting one

[@virifdrl]

I AM! lmao, i fall in love with brows

[@valeriaruey8887]

I feel soo attracted to eyebrows too haha 😍 they are the frame of the face

[@parvathisudheesh9820]

I really feel attracted to eyebrows 😂

[@anonymousmadlad433]

One of those things you don't think about but makes a difference.

[@ishitawadhwani6263]

That guy who said- "She should just love my family"- sounded very Indian 😌😌

[@aneelatasneem5749]

he is actually. he is wearing a turban probably he is seikh

[@athomewithfrancsicio]

Yes!!

[@deeptis5675]

He was a sardaar and other Indian said eyebrows and teeth sld be good. Indian men wont see a person nature, they only want looks and how they treat their family. Typical Indian men

[@arshpreetkaur9]

@@aneelatasneem5749 *Sikh

[@wendypeeters3675]

But he forgets that if yhe family dont like her she probleby is to blame. He really doesnt get it

[@Squattydoesntknow]

“She knows who she is” Ok wow that was so cute

[@pragatisingh2884]

Cute is not the word

[@lovettdeleted]

dude talking about the woman he married made me cry biiiitch

[@avonwithcynthia-canada8615]

🤣

[@fahmidameow8529]

So cute

[@MeowzKitty]

Same...you could really feel what he was saying

[@Jobe-13]

Le Lo ikr

[@Momma_AL]

I wasn’t expecting him to say that. Then he said they got married and I was like whaattt??? 😃

[@sunflowerr4808]

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.” 1 Corinthians 13:1

[@seemranhoro1572]

❤

[@sandra0749]

It's 1 Corinthians 13:4-8. Can't stop the teacher inside of me. 🥰🥰

[@sunflowerr4808]

@@sandra0749 ohh my bad thanks😂

[@lisamendez7479]

Amen! I wish more people thought this way.❤🙏

[@madisonmclendon7191]

amen and amen. thought it was so cool when that guy mentioned he had been saved two days after he met the girl he later married.

[@86sineadw]

As a single woman this gives me hope ♥

[@GT-xp6bx]

That man who talked about what he can offer is a very mature person.

[@NomenFugazi]

Germana Leal Brasileiro Not necessarily,he is just clever enough to know what women like to hear.

[@NomenFugazi]

Nafi Ssa I know,was only joking,but the rarity applies to both sexes.

[@1881eagle]

there is SOME i would say. then again it should be both ways in my opinion. him saying that is like, she wears the pants in the house and his willing to be 2nd and her first when it should be the both of them. kinda comes off as he to be dominated, as in, she asks, "I want a baby, now and tonight." when you just got back home from work after a 12 hour shift and its already 10PM and you got a shift the next 6 hours.

[@gins8781]

It sounds like he knows he needs to feel needed. Most emotionally stable, mature men do. That is not being subservient, or dominated. It’s being vulnerable and honest. How many men feel comfortable doing that? I wish more did. The world is hostile.

[@jaykay5086]

I feel so uncomfortable being this close up in their faces lol..

[@islandghoul417]

On the contrary, I think it really captures the raw emotions we wouldn't get to see otherwise

[@love2livelive2love88]

🤣🤣😂😅

[@thatobaloyi6194]

'Specially the guy with the weird moustache'

[@icyfendi7903]

Ikr and like i would just scroll down in comments and just listen instead of looking so closely at there faces

[@TheKawaiiDango]

Ooo really?? 😲 I always thought it brought out the beauty in everyone and made it more personal, but that’s just me 🤗

[@gbeana81]

7:03 “I’m looking for what I can offer her” says a lot. I love this answer. On the one side, it means that I am respecting the other person’s needs and seeing if I am right for them. On the other side, what a person wants me to offer them says a lot about who they are and if they are right for me. Either way it indicates if the relationship will work or not.

[@jan.mal.1284]

Wise thoughts.

[@ryanmck06]

Personally I don’t have experience but I’d say relationships work best when both people offer each other equal amounts of things.

[@thegamingkids_234]

Whoever's reading this remember God loves you so much!

[@AnaMarroquin468]

Thank you for the reminder :)

[@levirodgers4087]

Beyond our understanding God bless Christ fam may God bless you and give you peace and rest on your journey.

[@davidalen9279]

Thank you

[@emilie8151]

Amen 🙌🏼

[@elizacollins6549]

God loves you too 🙂

[@fLaUpYY]

When the guy @1:00 said "I'm pretty simple,...." I thought he was going to say: " I like boobs"

[@kenangedik3678]

Florian Decker 😂

[@GummiMaggi1995]

i thought he was going to say i like big buts and i can not lie :D

[@McJewBacon]

I thought he was going to say, "A woman who does nothing but makes all the meals, cleans the house, and..." You know the rest.

[@seille]

Внатуре ебать😂

[@sarahnorment]

I thought he was going to say, "...someone with teeth" lol

[@3mmar522]

My answer would be a woman who brings the best of me!

[@Thorayaa]

Ammar Alsamak I absolutely love your answer!!!! :]

[@nuhailaal-rawahi6159]

me too!

[@mrswolfy2574]

First do that to yourself 🤣

[@tasneemamin1164]

وراء كل رجل عظيم امرأة عظيمة

[@dearthofdoohickeys4703]

I was going to say the same thing, so instead I’ll like your comment lol

[@shine2678]

Many guys wanna date girls who look like super model but want to marry someone who take care of them like a mother..

[@DemonRuby]

Those type of guys are immature momma's boys. A real, grown up man is able to feed himself and doesn't depend of woman's breast to feed him. He also has hands and this thing called "super power" to wash his socks and his own dishes. A grown up man doesn't need a servant or care taker, he wants an equal partner in life, equal give and take, mutual respect, understanding, love and support. A real man realizes relationship is a team work and does not take his woman for granted. I am listing those things because I know who I am and what I can offer in a relationship, so I am pretty confident in it, so if a man is not equal to me and does not share my viewpoint, I am not interested.

[@deeptis5675]

What about two indians who said family and looks (eyebrows and teeth) sld be good.

[@gouthamvarma381]

@@DemonRuby pay half the rent and split all the bills half. Any men would cook and do his share of chores.

[@rmw090]

Honestly the last guy is me 😂 “ no one wants to compromise so you could just be happier and stay by yourself”

[@Galemor1]

I am... 😁

[@sweetgirl4u247]

Same 😂

[@katharinag3283]

"more than what I am looking for in a woman it's what I can offer a woman" 7:01

[@KingDayDayDay00]

That's why hypergamy is true

[@richchigga7563]

straight up

[@soldaliberdade13]

[@chickenchaser125cc9]

And get nothing back

[@inesfragoso6873]

Yas

[@monanana-04]

The guy who was talking about the importance of monogamy looked like he had been hurt involving that.🙁

[@saudichic]

Ufff I felt his hurt through the screeen

[@lienytran]

Yea I felt his hurt when he said that

[@juliettevashton1007]

A rare thing for a guy to feel!

[@an78652]

I was currently looking at this on the video and thinking that EXACTLY this thing and your comment appeared like how? 😂

[@acharich]

Mmm.. 😅😕😅

[@masego_thole]

The second guy. "I look for honesty; someone who has a sense of what they actually care about - what they're really out for in life and someone who will follow through on their dreams." Damn, if only I could meet someone like this around my age

[@Hvors]

The one "she should laugh on my jokes" - his smile is so contagious I'd smile to whatever he says 😄

[@jaclynm7122]

"You'll be happier if you stay by yourself." I feel that, dude.

[@idrather.goblind]

Yup

[@Momma_AL]

Made me kinda sad to hear someone say that but at the same time I can relate.

[@blu3fan638]

your favorites list is pure gold, they're my kinda videos, love your choices.. i saved it for myself haha!

[@Sigmaclipzz]

Yea you would think you would be happier until he/she is gone than you’re alone you miss everything about them, trust me you are happier with someone

[@norskawarrior1919]

@@Sigmaclipzz I'm not sure I get your response post. The man stated that being alone was better (for him) as he doesn't need to compromise. I don't want to either. I used to think that I needed or required a relationship and all that goes with it. After a horrible situation in life happened to me, I no longer want it, let alone "need" it. I love myself, that's more than enough. Additionally I don't require another's validation to make me feel whole, I am whole. We live in a society that tells you we have to pair off and be with our mates. But that contradicts science and biology. I also don't believe that everyone was meant to mate. Some have other wonderful gifts and talents to offer the world and they can do it alone.

[@tarynking7665]

Every guy whose standards fit me are 30 years older than I. Guess I'll become a cat lady.

[@oliverweise4414]

Taryn King 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 girl say we will be cat woman

[@timotheusn.h.nakashona1001]

Okay, cat lady!

[@edithonwuka7477]

Same here...I hardly find ppl of my age grade ok....just prefer sum1 like 10 years older

[@timelord6035]

Same 😂

[@anneb889]

I’m sure some of those older guys wouldn’t mind a younger woman!!!!

[@HeidiJoubert]

ahahahaha the last guy! Love his final philosophy

[@jan.mal.1284]

Yup. Honest. He is not a trouble maker.

[@thecallitaspadechannel2794]

He's been through it. You can see it in his eyes.

[@a12i9]

He spoke my exact thoughts

[@keepitsimplestupid3012]

Relationships can be a lot of work.

[@erzascarlet5748]

The best thing is when you are looking for something in people and then a person just comes, has none of those things you were looking for and gives you everything you needed and didn’t even know you needed it untill you met them. Then you realize that everything you’ve known about relationships and love till that moment was a bull*hit ✌🏼

[@noemib.2324]

4:48 "For me, the most important is the respect". He nailed it. I think that was one of the best. That's a young man giving a really mature answer, that's rare.

[@mirtesteyaert408]

True

[@ElaBlu3]

What if he meant that she respect him, like the old fashioned sexist way....

[@noemib.2324]

@@ElaBlu3 I don't think that way of thinking is old-fashioned. The man has always been the head of the woman since history is known, and this has only been changed in our age. So, I think this way on thinking isn't wrong at all. And, that's his business about what he really meant, we don't really know so we can't say. I don't care about that. I still think respect is the most important thing. In a few words, I respect his answer whatever he meant.

[@atturkiyyah]

that was literally the one i was waiting for

[@lindamp85]

I agree! so many people are in relationships with people they don't even respect... and they complain that it is bad, like yeah you don't respect eachother, so offcourse it's bad!

[@kk-gn1sy]

How close the camera should be to the faces? Thoraya: YES.

[@hawihawi9260]

Kkkk. I feel like am abt to kiss these guys as I watch.

[@kk-gn1sy]

@@hawihawi9260 lol yes and look how quarantine made us come together on random old videos

[@honeymilktea6651]

yayyy army 💜

[@m.p.r.6999]

That's zoomed

[@cowsrock1q]

TOO close in my opinion, it's distracting and uncomfortable

[@jenj1221]

When I was single I was looking for connection, good heart, and ambition. I found that the more genuine I was the more genuine people I met. I eventually found my forever and I only hope the same everyone.💕

[@madib6601]

I’m so shy, like I always thought it was a bad thing until I found my man, and he’s the same way in fact more so, like he rather stay home then be in crowds and I’ve always worried about that as well:’) like I just have so much gratitude for the man I have in my life who I get to wake up next to everyday, we’re best friends and I love the way my life turned out:’) he’s my strength and my stone that grounds me when I get caught up and put too much energy into unimportant things:’) Damn I sound cheesy but damn I’m lucky af🥳🥰

[@InshasChoice]

Stay blessed 🙌

[@jan.mal.1284]

Humility and appreciations are so rare. You got both of them, so you deserve happiness. IMO.

[@adaaleide]

the man that said he’s more interested in what he can offer a woman! WHEW a KING

[@maksimkirandziski9660]

SIMP

[@ThorstenLochmann]

Adaleidexox I get the idea but it’s unrealistic

[@angeazze6667]

It's because he feels more of a man when he can provide. Makes him happy & fulfilled within the relationship

[@natalove7073]

Ange Nski I agree, people are generally much happier when they give, instead of always expecting someone to do things for them. I feel very happy when I see the person I married to be happy.

[@Emilia497]

@Stop the foolishness, seriously. Then she's clearly not the right woman for him. Just because someone likes to "offer" the other happiness doesn't mean they're walk-overs and will accept about anything. So if that happens, most likely he will leave. Not really a nut-cracker this one...

[@MonaLisa-kz6hz]

"What can I offer a woman" MY GOD where is he??!!! Marry me 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@nicoleavery7238]

Derek Johansen or something you sound like a bitter immature boy. Many people in general suck at Love it’s not just women or just men

[@MC-mh2ju]

@@nicoleavery7238 Maybe most people don't know what love is. If they are able to answer that question, then love will be easy for them.

[@pathetic2399]

+nicole avery He doesn't sound bitter OR immature. YOU do. It's not a both gende rs thing in thius scenario because he's looking for a woman. He likely wil l end up being used if he keeps up that mindset. There are an unfortunate amount of women who expect men to wait on thrm hands and feet and cater to their needs but they don't offer the same amount of love and affection in return. You have to meet your partner halfway and worry about your needs as well.

[@pathetic2399]

What can you offer him as a man? Don't only think of yourself and don't let your boyfriend only ever put you first.

[@MC-mh2ju]

@@pathetic2399 True. Most people don't know what an "ADULT" relationship, or should I say "PARTNERSHIP" is all about. That's why I suggest people first get to know what exactly is LOVE. Once they know what love is, they will better understand themselves and others that they wish to create a loving relationship with.

[@jamesm7549]

Love isn't a thing we expect something from, it's something to do and to share.

[@pa4760]

7:12 this man exactly knows what love is. Love is all about giving. What a strong man he is!

[@milo_thatch_incarnate]

I’ve seen people say that they don’t like how closely your videos are zoomed in, but it’s one of my favorite things about them. It feels interpersonal, like having an actual conversation with an actual person, instead of just watching them on KZbin. And I *love* seeing peoples’ eyes and the wrinkles of their smile up close

[@KayKayBayForever]

Melanie V S YES! It’s one thing that makes these videos stand out to me.

[@wanguinailantei3548]

I love them too. I feel connected to their emotions. Seeing their truth. It's breathtaking to see the honesty in their eyes, in their expressions. Love it

[@ninjabreadgirl]

Omg I love the close up.... the wrinkles and the pores and the REAL. It's all so beautiful, so human

[@jodie3950]

Same! Especially with the lovely music in the background. It felt like a really private moment.

[@Mari-hb5do]

Yeah but we should respect people's boundaries. If they're not comfortable with it we should respect that

[@frecklesandblackroses3453]

How are there so many nice people in one video and I am not even able to find one friend/boyfriend?! :'D fml

[@Yurrskiii]

Probably friend zoned him

[@donnabanks7656]

That is a question many of us women ask.

[@yusufzulfi]

One friend?

[@joerogaine7984]

Incoming white knights?

[@kikothecat3700]

U might be good person if u stay with shit people trust me no good guy gonna show interest. Voila

[@tasyaiznadasyafira832]

for all of you scrolling and find this, i hope y'all got yu true lover asap and for people's who've got it, i hope y'all relationship always good 'till the end - Best wishes

[@jan.mal.1284]

Thanks. The same to you.

[@chrissi975]

You too, love. Thank you

[@realtortiffytom]

I adore these comments. Makes men seem individual and also simple to love. So many people desire a partner. I wish more people would ask these questions especially if they are on a dating profile or seriously searching for a partner.

[@cloudcampos4555]

4:33 " ..companionship, complicity, reliability and....love" how perfect

[@AI-gd7lz]

cloud campos complicity sounds like he looks for a partner in crime

[@cloudcampos4555]

@@AI-gd7lz haha really ? He seems italian judging from the accent and I Assume that just like in french ( which I am) it means being particularly close and intimate with someone on an emotional level ^^ I didn't realise that in english it's meaning was an svu material lol

[@AI-gd7lz]

@@cloudcampos4555 that's the beauty and pain of being bilingual!

[@jessicacalderon-rico89]

His explanation sounded lovely... I can just see a little old man and his little old lady sitting on a front porch somewhere 😊

[@martanavarro5234]

@@cloudcampos4555 I would say he's Spanish... He sounds Spanish to me... which I am, haha

[@deannasmith1680]

The “what can I offer” guy is a king

[@k.t.7507]

I like the dad that wanted his son to see him happy. A lot of parents ignore that, because they just want to see their kids happy, but you're human beings just like you're kids.. and I swear to you your kids just want you to be as happy as you make them

[@saimanrijal9931]

I look for someone who is ideal in her ideals,before imposing it on others.

[@jan.mal.1284]

Wise.

[@ZebrazRus]

plot twist: Thoraya was conducting her own dating experiment to find a mans

[@civilizedmonster]

Lol. I like this one.

[@marymesk577]

LOLLLLLLLLLLL

[@amanrai4989]

😂😂😂😂

[@lovemetilliammeagain4452]

Truth is out

[@eveallusion]

We all just want to be loved. It’s the deepest human emotion yet it is so hard to find. If you have it cherish it. It is so rare

[@patriciakeats1621]

It is hard to find. I have been with my husband for 31 years. I agree, it is rare.

[@navindamansitha3684]

@@patriciakeats1621 wdy imply? That he wasnt a good husband or that kind of him is rare?

[@patriciakeats1621]

Navinda Mansitha to be honest, I don’t remember the video...I just feel generally men and women are naturally very different. I think it makes it hard for us to connect on a true, deep level. I think men and women who love and cherish each each other in an unselfish way is hard to come by...does that make sense?

[@LovleeBaker805]

"Awesome to talk to" was simple and honest.

[@izabelaserban3215]

I really appreciate the older men who have matured answers through experience. When some guys say they want a strong person, who knows her place in the world I really feel intimidated. Like, are we not all lost souls sometimes? Can we not have doubts and insecurities? Both men and women of course. What matters to me is being always there through it all for each other.

[@tatianaveronique]

I LOVE HOW THIS BROAD QUESTION TURNS INTO THEM TALKING ABOUT A VERY SPECIFIC PERSON THAT THEY KNOW THEY LOVE COMPLETELY

[@italiana7308]

The most beautiful thing about this video is seeing how everyone women has their own traits and every man wants something different. There is always going to be someone who will find exactly you exactly what they want. It's so beautiful and encouraging. Everyone is not looking for the same type of person.

[@contentdeleted5428]

Italiana 7 beautifully said

[@AuroraBoarder1]

Apparently, all a woman has to do is be herself, and true love will come along.

[@Mai_fouad]

I ABSOLUTELY love your comment, it really made my day. Thank you wherever you are!

[@Chelsea-il3xz]

Some of these guys have really clear skin

[@JuiceBox22]

Why can’t women have clear skin?

[@thetruepuresoul]

Chelsea 😆👌🏼

[@mainamain5899]

@@JuiceBox22 hormone

[@unnderneath]

Dank focusing too much on makeup and less on skin care

[@matttheman9740]

I lol so hard at this comment because of it's complete randomness as I was scrolling down 🤣

[@louisasmiles]

Monogamy guy looks like he needs a hug

[@creativedutchess4866]

It is funny how in the comments a lot of people pick different quotes that they resonated with. Love to see that beautiful diversity.

[@chiaradelia829]

It's amazing how people's eyes change when they are talking about love, emotions and feelings

[@teeshhh2951]

It's just beautiful ✨

[@chrisnikki999tarot6]

The truth is, you can ask these people this question when they are 25.Ask this question again when they are 35.

[@yvasquez2449]

Try again when they are 55... completely different answer again

[@longodyuo9162]

Lol

[@AmaO-pj8hj]

@@yvasquez2449 how will the answers be different

[@yvasquez2449]

@@AmaO-pj8hj when we age, our view of people and what we need from life changes. After you have been through a few relationships, some of them long term, we start focusing on other things. Wont tell you what because depends on what the life experience has been for each person.

[@jenniferwebb677]

Answers always changes, with different ages. Beautiful answers ❤❤

[@victoriamadeline1917]

"I can be lazy with" this underated answer that hits me like woaah thats what I'm looking for

[@tinamarisia123]

My son and his partner are both quite introverted and enjoy being lazy together.. both are beautiful souls...both work hard too..

[@parnianghorbani8316]

Such a beautiful work you're doing, hats off!

[@user-tz6zc6bb5p]

People always say personality over looks, but remember that without looks you won’t be approachable enough for someone to want to get to know your personality🤷‍♀️ (edit: this got a lot more attention than I expected SO let me just make a couple things clear. 1) I did not say ONLY looks matter, nor am I saying that this applies for every human being on earth, so relax. 2) Looks means how physically attractive they are, so face and body, but also style, hair, personal hygiene, ETC!!! 3) I am a WOMAN saying this so I don’t wanna be hearing any bs about this being a MAN only thing. Be mature and don’t put words in people’s mouths, don’t disrespect, and relax because this is a KZbin video comment and it’s nothing to get worked up about.)

[@Smiley957]

A G some people do

[@kingdomheartsasha]

Of course not, haven't you seen Belle and the Beast? She fell in love with a fiend lookalike that kept her hostage. It's not all about looks. If looks fail it's all about being a billionaire prince with a big dong.

[@user-tz6zc6bb5p]

Snake97_ I never said it’s all about looks. I said that you need to look good to be approached, that’s fact

[@aubee2744]

then be their friend first

[@imanoljesusdelpozo4907]

A G Yeah of course, good looks like taking care of your body, good posture, being clean, using good looking clothes, and having a cute smile are super important.

[@allisonreaser9500]

My favorite answer was the guy who was holding the balloon animal. He was shy and sweet.

[@Thorayaa]

He really was! And I loved his answer :]]

[@davon_DaGod]

@Dojocho Same here bro, being shy gets you no where.

[@lsanchez02]

Allison Reaser where is that in the video?

[@shecanhavehimfr]

@@lsanchez02 around minute 4

[@blessingsbest6838]

Allison Reaser yes he was 🥰

[@NuvemdeIdeias_]

I feel like deep down we all know what we want, we just don’t know how to explain

[@ivanajovanovic856]

YOUR CHANNEL AND EVERYTHING YOU DO IS PUREEEEEE GOLD I EVERY WAY POSIBLE!!! ❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you!

[@naisaShip]

we are all so different yet so beautiful

[@wshelby83]

Exactly!! That's what makes us all unique

[@cdeep4548]

I look for a woman who can make me feel like home, meaning when I'm with them theirs no other place I'd rather be and just being with them feels like home.

[@oOIIIMIIIOo]

So you want a mother? Love is not about someone creating your feelings. 🙂

[@koustubh]

@@oOIIIMIIIOo your comment makes no sense

[@pragawa]

That's beautiful, Carlos

[@grace199x3]

YEAH THATS VALID CARLOS♥️

[@amandeepanand6201]

Wow!! I loved the last person's answer. So simple yet so deep!

[@grahamsaundersstewart3982]

Friendship is paramount as this truly reveals who she is. Looks & figure will fade but friendship will grow...

[@YoDiggyDog]

I’m just scared I’m never gonna find someone, you know. Like I’m very chill and lade back, and fun... But I’m very shy bc of my insecurities and I’ve probably turned down many opportunities for a good relationship bc I’m scared to talk to them and I’m scared I won’t be what they want and once they tired of me they will leave. Maybe once I find that soul recognition I won’t be as shy and introverted.

[@lydiafielding8894]

If it makes you feel any better, I sill worry about how I will find my eternal companion. Although not because I'm shy but, or as everyone keeps telling me, it's because I'm very independent, outspoken, determined, very nerdy(I just bought an 851 book about the US Constitutionto read for fun), I am loud, ... and very intimidating. So I'll have to wait till I can find a man that is willing to be my best friend through this life despite my intensity. So you're definitely not alone in this feeling of "when on Earth will I have the opportunity for a companion?" 😂 And hey, if we find the right man, I have no doubt that our strengths/ weaknesses will help balance each other out and help us individually to become better.🙂 Wish you luck! 🙂

[@SusieHerr]

You're not alone. There was a time where I didn't feel good about myself, and thought no one wanted me the only me who talked to me where 4+ years older then me who only wanted a wife but not a WIFE I'd it makes sense. So I never planned on finding someone my age (20) and yes I know it takes time but I never got the opportunity to date anyone and my plan is to get married at 23 so when I'm told I could get married at 26-30 I felt down cause no offense but that's to old for me.

[@YoDiggyDog]

Thanks guys that’s mean a lot that you responded 💗

[@beatam.n6687]

Me too 😢

[@julka474]

Same, but I think if we don't focus on that so much, we will find our partner someday and it can be very unexpected :) Just be yourself and you will find right person.

[@SnowFoxParty]

That awkward moment when you have most of these qualities and your still single 😏🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@bethgeni]

That's because you can have all the great qualities mentioned, but if you're not eye candy, no one will give you the time of day to even discover those qualities in you.

[@SnowFoxParty]

@@bethgeni eye candy can fade over time. No one is immortal lol, not even porn stars

[@mirabella2154]

@@SnowFoxParty That might be true, but still Bethany is right here: If you're not considered to be really attractive by men, no one will care to even discover your inner traits. It's just how it is.

[@unnderneath]

Bethany Garcia unfortunately you’re right. You can be the best person ever but if you’re physically unattractive, all of that goes out the window.

[@krakatauer1464]

Its so anoying to hear this "only looks matter" thing oder and oder again. Yes looks Player a role, but lets assume you are objectivly ugly(which is impossible). You could still become partners with someone, who is ugly too. Then again there are always people, who go less for looks and more for the character. Sure, its rare and the bigger the difference in looks, the rarer it gets, but its still possible. But then again, these words "only looks matter" sre said so often, that from a statistical standpoint its impossible, that all saying this can be realy that piss ugly. Most are probably average and have a shitty personality/a shitty taste in people

[@dianavandevalk3714]

Just love the simplicity answer. 💕

[@lolaherrera3906]

This video made me cry thank you so much for making it.

[@danitestalkr]

What I'm looking for: Someone with a kind heart

[@valerie9999]

That is exactly what I was thinking! Must be Kind!

[@jan.mal.1284]

Me as well. Definitely. Sooooo rare these days. I hope I am kind hearted as well.

[@danitestalkr]

A year later, I finally found her 🥰 I'm so happy

[@thefoolmountain9481]

God bless that man who said "what can I offer?"

[@kittyrawr55]

The way this was filmed close up made the setting much more intimate. I feel like I'm really connecting and like I'm there with each one of these people. I think that's amazing!

[@rubygonzalez9015]

I love you Thoraya! Your videos bring joy and hope to my heart. Thank you for bringing us this amazing channel!

[@lookits_fran]

"i just wanted someone who was my friend" my god, the whole talk of this man broke my heart. that hits so close home.

[@oumaimalou]

This is a prayer for any of you who are struggling Dear God, I want to bring my friend to you right now. I know that they are not feeling well and worry is taking a lot of their emotional energy. I pray that You will give them special peace in the midst of their crisis; draw close to hem. Give them confidence that healing will come. I pray that that You will give them special insight and wisdom during this upcoming appointment. Show them how to treat and relieve the pain and bring healing. 1

[@cascata7770]

This made me cry. Thank you

[@polarisation]

Thank you so much

[@DS-uo1zy]

@@cascata7770 bruh fuck off with religion go back to the 16th century where you belong.

[@fatemaali2309]

D S Maybe you don’t necessarily believe in religion, but you have to realise that what you did here was rude. Do not adopt the manners of those who use the name of God for their own personal desires. I love God and my religion in every single form, so do not bring your ignorance in this beacon of hope.

[@DS-uo1zy]

@@fatemaali2309 I'm ignorant? You guys are ignorant to science and logic bro. Sure thing god took a rib and made some humans sure sure definitely happened. Religion is a cancer and has terrible influence on society. We need to leave these fairy tales behind and base our values on something other than a book that was written 2000 years ago... Some religious people are struggling with accepting gay people for no other reason than 'gOd sAiD itS bAd!'

[@eisraa.8105]

This question reveals so much about someone’s personality i feel. It’s nice listening to their answers and kind of getting a sense of their personalities.

[@whitleyhodges5509]

Aw they are all so sweet and humble. Great picks and awesome answers.

[@sararose8751]

I really appreciate that you don’t cut out the parts where they talk about their spiritual beliefs.

[@merncat75]

I LOVE that.. An introvert wanting someone to be lazy with 💞

[@robinhooper7702]

I can't thank you enough for being honest with your self and finding the security to share that with others. You have made me feel much more comfortable being an individual. Thank you

[@dumbdumber8026]

I love this very close up shot going on here. It expresses their emotions so well. Simply beautiful

[@elleluv6502]

I'm impressed didn't think there would be that many good answers (;

[@Thorayaa]

Hahaha... I'm glad it exceeded your expectations :]]

[@xoxoLeony]

same! that was really refreshing. and they all were so genuine about it, too.

[@Thorayaa]

I loved how genuine the answers were as well!!

[@ibooks.s]

Aww I'm impressed a guy said "she knows who she is" means that he'll totally accept and love her as the way she is. Imagine myself someone tell me "I love the way you are" How lucky is this life ☺

[@navi3430]

That’s so beautiful 🥹🥹 To love someone and accept them for who they are is the most beautiful thing you could do. It’s setting their soul free ❤

[@kristikiser8762]

❤ I love your camera work, makes it feel like they're talking right to me ❤

[@anngo1840]

I hope you will have this kind of videos with the same question for women and gay! Really appreciate your work, it's so so so authentic and interesting

[@8047228]

The guy who asks what he can offer in a relationship 👌👌

[@Christopher-ms5ke]

Seth Schanzer What a stud. Knows his worth. I was kind of attracted to him and I’m straight

[@gratitude5740]

I found that on point as well . One should be able to give in order to receive. Reciprocity not tat for tat but not one sided relationship either. Relationship is a community of 2 and no room for selfishness or complacency .. No one is perfect but we shall try our best and from there we can see if the best is enough for the other person. If not , move on .

[@Blueeyesinthesky]

Awww “what can I offer to a woman” that’s a nice way to look at it. Sweet guy.

[@SetsoAmantle]

I'm too lazy for love, I just love myself by myself.

[@cojones0457]

Good sense of humor and loyalty