Women Answer: What do you look for in a man?

Ladies, what do you look for in a man/significant other? Comment below!
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[@nunyabiznezz6038]

"You fall in love with the people who make you love the person you are when you're around them" Read that twice.

[@ahauntinglybeautifulmelody]

Why do you have the ugliest fish on earth in your profile pic lol

[@deletedlmao9541]

Mehdi are you making fun of the god fish?

[@winnietp596]

So love is selfish huh

[@ahauntinglybeautifulmelody]

deleted lmao my bad

[@Futurepointmusic]

@@winnietp596 isn't everything in a way?

[@TommoCarroll]

The lady that lost her husband. She broke my heart! She seems like a really great person and sounds like Mike was a good lad too. I wish her the best!

[@nessalee8705]

I felt like describing what she wanted in a man was her thinking about her late husband and just describing him. It made me cry ❤

[@TommoCarroll]

Vanessa Lee yep :( I’ve got a lot of love for that lady and I’m not ashamed to admit it! Wish I could give her a big ol’ hug!

[@nessalee8705]

@@TommoCarroll definately. No shame in that. Wish I could hug her too.

[@juampaortiz1831]

Shit went deep too fast, damn ninjas cutting onions over here

[@isabelfakyeee2174]

I wonder what he died of so sad

[@TaylorGessler]

“The Lord has given me contentedness with my singleness” That’s iconic

[@Violet-tf1rd]

I was looking for this comment really

[@karinas5833]

It is her mantra :)

[@reaganotieno2521]

Yes

[@martinezyonick]

cuz she cant hook up with jesus

[@keelanesquivel3854]

it truly seemed as though she was attempting to convince herself of that rather than inform the viewers...

[@juniper_woods9508]

"Look into someone elses childs eyes and say 'you're mine and I love you'". That hit home

[@anja6983]

I dont have a child. I want to adopt one, but i fear that it will be harder to find a guy... Maybe he doesnt want a family with a stranger (no judgement).

[@evicaf4e]

@@anja6983 If it is the right soul for you, then he will accept you for who you really are.. you always should do the things you think/know that are right for you. Because at the end of the day it's your toughts, your life and your heart.

[@kevinpace866]

I call this kidnapping.

[@summerdawn6777]

@@kevinpace866 SO DO I

[@gospaironija2762]

When you sleep with man without thinking if he is going to be a good father you have this and i do not suport it at all.Man that takes care for other mans child is not ok,not how nature want us to exist.Ok if you have 3 of his own kids but a guy that just take care of 1 kid that is not even his own when woman made a stupid decision.... is not good and good soul and all that but pathetic excuse for a woman to get out of here mistake (sleeping with a guy just for fun) most of the time that is the case.

[@Mohamed5ch]

2:08 "in an uncertain world you're looking for constancy" well said ma'am

[@aartadventure]

Her entire answer was perfection! What a well spoken and thoughtful woman!

[@hotmessmissy]

Everyth8ng she said was spot on

[@MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee]

A father.

[@TheSincerety]

She is wisdom incarnate.

[@MeJustAimy]

she was lovely

[@erincarroll9412]

the girl with liver disease. omg. im crying

[@enadine6405]

@Alexandra Cruz Same here

[@sugarkanesugaringspallcsug9879]

I was so shocked. I pray she got a cure. I'm tearing. Didn't expect that

[@kunalnagarkoti1097]

I'm crying now

[@KiritsujuEmiya]

I wish she could do liver transplantation

[@benlotus2703]

Hopefully she can get a Liver transplant

[@Jobe-13]

As a guy, the thing I take away from this is just being the best person I could possibly be every day.

[@lolasart3408]

Yup, just be your great self

[@trustmaker1014]

We should all be constantly striving to be our best and better. If not for the people around us than ourselves. We all should be kind and respect the people around us for who they are. After that everything else falls into place. It's really hard though

[@FinkleFries]

TRUSTmaker101 you’re spittin wisdom, homie

[@dylanthomas3310]

When girls say they want Loyalty, Honesty, Passion and drive, kind etc. Why does the media say nice guys finish last? Why do men with such great qualities that have and do all these things tend to be single whereas partiers and people with no ambition get girls? Just a question that's been in my head for years.

[@akashhazarika2782]

@Maryam Abbani no real world isn't like that. I'm a nice guy, the more i care the more they lose attraction for me.

[@pdad58]

The young lady with the liver disease.... Her bravery blew me away. God bless her and her family. I pray that she receives a cure.

[@isabellavansmoorenburg6232]

Yeah that was my favorite answer her. Her boyfriend is a keeper

[@Khanyisile3]

I was touched by her too! Hope she's well.

[@ritakus9871]

This video was recorded 3 years ago, I wonder what happened for this young lady. Autoimmune liver disease is terrible, and steals a very big part of people's dreams 😓

[@JATR1X]

i absolutely love the idea behind your videos. making an ordinary person a centerpiece... their thoughts and emotions... so refreshing... a zoomed in style makes it so personal and close too! great.

[@Thorayaa]

JATR1X Hii! Thank you so much for taking the time to write that! It means more than you know... I hope you’ll continue to watch :]]

[@kingleeq4561]

FACTS thats what i was thinking about all of her vids

[@kingleeq4561]

@@Thorayaa STAY ALIVE, DON'T YOU DARE DIE EVER

[@FilouChilla]

i agree but the zooming factor. getting a little bit of the shoulder in would be great - it'll feel more like a pov, yet the person will stand in the center also. but it's just my opinion!

[@IANinALTONA]

I like that the zoomed-in frame really focuses you on what people say. You are not distracted by what they wear, whether they are fat or skinny. No don't think 'nice rack' or 'hot legs', which admittedly most of us would do otherwise...

[@Dan_Mk2]

"The lord gave me contentedness with my singleness" I love that

[@Jobe-13]

DanMk2 Ikr. Being single isn’t a bad thing, and I wish more people knew that. There is honor in being single.

[@Hunter-ui2nr]

Lol she really didn't sound content

[@mioVanz]

Hihi

[@simetry6477]

I heard sinfulness.

[@EffHaters]

It’s good to be content. Hopefully the lady didn’t confuse contentment with complacency.

[@garethjones1827]

The lady with the serious health issues (liver), what a beautiful Woman, with an amazing calm soul, she made me realise how minor my problems actually are, very humbling.

[@deborahpayton4105]

In the mighty name of Jesus, I'm praying that you are healed and that God will use your physician as a vessel to do so. Amen

[@booshoo9996]

3 important things matter in men : 1. Humor 2. Loyalty 3. Kindness

[@laughteraddict1003]

4. Humility 5. Healthy libido

[@rinpuii]

7:16 'if I was looking for a man, which I'm not' i felt that

[@anja6983]

I get that, i still want to be young... But if i would find one whos could fit, maybe he would be the one.

[@eternalbliss7367]

Jesus

[@L96OZZ]

I cracked up

[@egesukari4758]

The way she said it killed me

[@theworldisimmense]

Anja someone who’s fit? Ok but are you fit as well?

[@michellehawk282]

The Lady at 2:10 somehow has something so enchanting about her. She seems so wise but at the same time she looks so young to me. I'd love to just sit down with her and have a heart to heart talk, somewhere in a park, while pwople around us are living their own lifes...

[@RemyElysee]

She strikes me as an old soul- very wise and calm

[@afnanealaoui2678]

Well because of her accent 😂

[@Matchchai]

Omg I thought I was the only one that felt that

[@-calicocat-9692]

I wa sthinking the exact same thing. The way she speaks and everything about her seems so mature and wise. Amazing that someone else also noticed that

[@evicaf4e]

Love that, I imagine myself talking to her in the same like circomstances.

[@havenwhisper]

That young lady with the liver disease I hope she is cured. To be that young and given such a dark prognosis and yet still have the sweetest smile and attitude as well as being so understanding of her disease on other people...She looks like she is very brave, I wish her all the best.

[@bossy12379]

there is no cure for autoimmune liver disease, only treatment with steroids or a liver transplant, and even after the transplant you are not cured.

[@arianneperez6842]

There would be ,hopefully in the near future

[@janeferwachera3988]

"Sometimes when you're leaning on someone too much ,you tend to forget that you need to be strong too"The fact that you're getting out of the house and smiling shows how strong you're. May God healing portion be upon you

[@jan.mal.1284]

That sentence caught my attention too. IMO she was really strong, humble and kind to even think that in those circumstances.

[@amorosa4life]

Constancy, sincerity, authenticity, accountability, trust, love, respect, humor, passion. She nailed it. Everything I need in a partner. Edit: These are qualities that many people desire in a significant other, myself included. But desiring particular traits in a man causes some folks to rave about sexism and equality in relationships and are also assuming my gender based on my comment. OF COURSE couples should be prepared to give as much as they take REGARDLESS of gender. Equality is a vital aspect of a relationship but knowing and asking for what you need in no way means you aren't ready to work your ass off to be the best possible version of yourself. If you merely take instead of give, then you didn't deserve that person and they're better off without you.

[@lapapa7089]

amorosa4life Factsss

[@amonpeideng1545]

Anything else?

[@gospaironija2762]

What most woman realy need is reality check.YOu want all that and what do you have to offer?

[@trustmaker1014]

@@gospaironija2762 there's no room for negativity in this comment section. Please go away

[@nc-pf3qm]

you forgot bank balance

[@victorialouisstyles1158]

the first girl has really pretty eyes

[@FirstLast-nz9vo]

I hope she’s doing okay! She looked like she was in pain, like someone hurt her. Especially because she mentioned respect.

[@righteousthunder12]

Thank you for putting in the Christian ladies. I know that Christianity can get the dumpster from youtube comments but they are people too.

[@marijaperkovic4384]

The problem is that people that dont know enough about Christianty talk about it. Like Jesus said love everyone like you love yourself, dont judge or you will be judged, the way you judge others is the way you will be judged. And people forget this and these are some of most important teachings from Jesus. Sad but true...

[@stanfatou2002]

@@marijaperkovic4384 ok but alot of people know what he said about judging others. I try not to judge others. And there are many Christians like me.

[@marijaperkovic4384]

@@stanfatou2002 no no I did not mean it that everyone is lile that. I am sorry you understood it that way🙂

[@matteomuscas8974]

@@marijaperkovic4384 Christianity has many confessions... I was raised catholic, and i grew out of it. I respect religion and I understand people who find peace and meaning in it. Whoever attacks religion no matter what is in the wrong, but assuming that somebody that doesnt support it doesnt know anything is wrong too. I guess some hate christianity because of its hypocrisy for example by hating on homosexuals and many other things. Jesus was a cool dude tho, nobody can say otherwise. Kindly, a positive nihilist

[@maxwalton7044]

Christianity and Islam in particular are both full of festering contradictions. They tear the world apart.

[@infiresman7145]

"How he treats other people especially when no one is looking"i repeat "especially when no one is looking"

[@jan.mal.1284]

That caught me too. Wise.

[@maiiouma]

Someone who understands my introversion. Someone I feel emotionally safe with. Someone I'm comfortable around and not intimidated. Someone who is there for me when I have those terrible mood swings.

[@amyamy2240]

Me too may, me too.

[@CV-yy9qz]

Me too...

[@taoubayacoubi9245]

Are you an Aquarius?

[@amarachiozonuwe7388]

Me too 100%

[@user-lt7ff1tg9f]

I feel ya girl I really do.

[@LorenzoMarch]

Prayers going out to girl @ 6:50

[@arlo247]

Yes💗💗💗❤️❤️😭😭💗💗

[@jamssnana4084]

Adding my prayers as well. She's so young. 💔 I'm 58, and am having liver issues too. Autoimmune liver disease is one of the likely diagnoses, but nobody told me anything about it being terminal. Also, right now, my liver is in good shape; maybe hers is very damaged. She must have some horrific enzyme levels, blood counts, etc., God bless her. 🙏

[@joannad.490]

Adding my prayers too ❤️🙏

[@hairynippul4195]

Prayers doesn't work.

[@ic2513]

Oliver T then go somewhere else😂if you don’t like prayers, you can move elsewhere

[@oliviabrod]

my heart broke when that girl said she had 2 years to live and it's been 2 years since this was uploaded

[@darakshasurve7861]

oh shit. didn't have to attack me like that.

[@sidthekidpresley4483]

Damn... :( maybe she was able to get a new liver...?

[@happygucci5094]

🙏🏾🙏🏾💗💗🕊️🕊️

[@zonibone]

The way you zoom in on their face so close to reveal their physical imperfections while they say so many beautiful things, is a very nice artist choice.

[@xoxoLeony]

the lady at 2:06 is spot on. -- respect, trust sincerity, open mindedness, vulnerability, calmness to balance out my crazy.

[@xoxoLeony]

"He's a real smooth brother, never in a rush And he gives me goose pimples with every single touch Spends quality time with his kids when he can SECURE IN HIS MANHOOD 'CAUSE HE'S A REAL MAN A lover and a fighter and he'll knock a nucca out Don't take him for a sucker 'cause that's what he's about Every time I need him, he always got my back Never disrespectful 'cause his mama taught him that"

[@Thorayaa]

I was curious where this was from so I googled it- Salt 'N' Pepa feat. En Vogue - Whatta Man! I love that you referred to that song haha :]

[@voyance4elle]

girl at 5:10 you deserve more than "almost". I can see the sadness, the uncertainty... Take this relationship as something to learn from and grow... Once you mostly overcome your own issues and give yourself the love you deserve, you will find someone who does it and respects you aswell... I wish you all the luck in the world!

[@jodieblackwell1315]

I’m trying and thank you. I come to this video often and it triggers my personal insecurities and I’m reminded I’m not yet healed or whole so therefore I’m not ready but like I said. I’m trying. ❤️

[@voyance4elle]

@@jodieblackwell1315 I am sure you are doing everything you can and that is enough ❤️ Thank you for replying and being so open 🙏 To me you seem like a wonderful, kind, interesting person and you deserve everything you're dreaming of. 💖 If you ever want to stay in contact, you can contact me on IG @melenkawentbacktothegarden I create illustrations and sometimes try to share some personal insights as much love as I can 🥰

[@oponomo]

@@jodieblackwell1315 i liked your answer the most. But kinda felt you need to first feel those words through self love first, then from a significant other. Wish you the best Jodie!

[@stephanieh5478]

I saw myself in her. My ex couldn't be as vulnerable and raw as me! Once I emotionally moved on, he wanted to "change" however, my feelings were out the window by then. She'll eventually come to a breaking point!! Definitely a life lesson :)

[@acharich]

😅

[@blossom936]

Am I the only who felt like when the lady who lost her husband was asked what she would look for in a man, she named everything here deceased husband was. Its so heart warming.

[@Taniesha__]

I want to be content in my singleness.... those women are strong in the Lord❤️

[@lizjoy6828]

I think contentment in the Lord is realizing that you can trust Him to have your best interests at heart. If you are single, you can enjoy your life and live life to the fullest knowing that you are still being held in His perfect hands. If you want to be married, don't give up on that hope, but be content with God's timing by trusting Him. That's where I'm at 😁 I'll always put my best foot forward, and keep my eye out for a godly man, but I'm not letting being single stop me from moving forward and pursuing my dreams 🥰

[@amarahsrabbitry1073]

I am so glad that you are so inclusive. There are so many influencers who claim neutrality and inclusiveness who actually cut out and demonize Christianity. This channel is such a breath of fresh air to hear. Thank you!

[@paprika7930]

The same can be said vice versa.

[@summerdawn6777]

AMA, I was thinking the same🤗

[@summerdawn6777]

@Ст тС Excuse you, what?

[@DoraM12]

Ah yes, the most famously persecuted group in the West, Christians...

[@user-ty8xn1mv3r]

Thanos as a Christian your comment didn’t even touch me. I hope you heal and find peace within yourself, have a lovely day.💕

[@benbarnett3886]

I once heard a girl in one of your call your crush videos say “Find someone who makes you feel like spring” and I don’t think it could ever be put better

[@monababtain588]

I don’t want hay fever 😅

[@LBaker805]

my fav season💕

[@susieenglish302]

In your 20's you have a list in your 30's you revise the list in your 40's you wonder if the list is worth it in your 50's you realise the list was a total waste as nobody is perfect

[@youtubedrifter5594]

I’m glad I realized this very young. The problem is I have unconditional love to give. However I still haven’t met another who understands what unconditional means.

[@SWIFTzTrigger]

@@youtubedrifter5594 No love in unconditional, there is always a deal breaker

[@joanurb8015]

I'm 22 I don't have a list still single

[@youtubedrifter5594]

jayjo joy: Lets get sushi then lol

[@rissroo4325]

I made a list because the man I married and then later left me the week of my 27th birthday a few months ago was a man of low standards. I made a list to get standards and make me stick to them.

[@berliyoz]

Years ago I heard a joke: Q: How do you deal with kids mental disorders? A: You treat their parents issues even before they met. After hearing this joke I decided to be the best person and partner I can be. I wanted to be worthy and in level of the partner I would like to spend my life with. I think I'm ready to be a father. Thank you for this video.

[@hannah5092]

that’s really cool. i wish you the best of luck

[@berliyoz]

@@hannah5092 Thank you 🙏. Same to you!

[@jan.mal.1284]

@@berliyoz I wish you best of luck too. Beautiful attitude.

[@AM-dp9tv]

Ah this made me want to cry, I hope you are doing well

[@berliyoz]

@@AM-dp9tv thank you for your comment! Surprisingly, I'm doing pretty well the last year and a half. It seems that the hard work have paid off and suddenly something started flowing. I also hope that you're doing well. And as I know myself every now and then I will remember your comment and hope again that you're doing great and life is smiling at you. Good night and sweet dreams.

[@richchigga7563]

that english woman is so classy and spot on

[@Kashmachine10]

tripleheshy and you know all of this how?

[@trustmaker1014]

@@yakiimii they're just butthurt because she said something they didn't like about their god trump

[@suesheification]

She's Australian

[@psychosissafari]

@@suesheification English more like

[@peterdelaney1946]

@tripleheshy Wow. That's some jump.

[@ningmeikamei]

I can feel the pain of the Lady who lost her husband. I’m in love with my high school friend too and it applied to me in my head. Almost made me cry.

[@jasonsalistean9192]

Ningmei Kamei same I actually fell in love with an old high school friend, exactly ten years later like her were together...going strong almost 5 years and luckily she’s still alive.

[@twiztidmomma22]

💜

[@abenezerbiruk8707]

Am ur 200th person for liking

[@mharyoussra365]

I almost cried when that girl someone who I can draw for hours with him... That would be the best thing in the universe, having the person that you love sharing with you the most beautiful activity that represents your soul.... It's basically looking to a mirror one is your art and the other is your lover

[@khalindavis7322]

Its been almost two years...any insight on the girl with the auto immune disease?

[@dearthofdoohickeys4703]

Ladies pro tip, look at how he is with elderly people. Kids work too, but the results are clearer with the elderly.

[@miywws]

👏

[@cuauhtemocmorisco3493]

I find that all women struggle with these sort of proofs. Literally they will go the other way and marry the bad dude type then years later they will be old and miserable. They risk everything for one special moment instead of having alot of special moments.

[@lockhart1895]

lazy Guitarist et voilà

[@gabrielserrano5757]

@@cuauhtemocmorisco3493 Exactly. Ive seen it and experienced it too many times. I tend to roll me eyes at stuff like this because they tend to choose someone very different from what they say.

[@trustmaker1014]

@@gabrielserrano5757 I didn't

[@okgoogle999]

Is it weird that I love those deep deep topics

[@liamivarsson]

Jean Elysée I love them too. I want to have them more often because when I do I get into this mood that I LOVE. Idk why..

[@rrarebird]

No not at all

[@ahauntinglybeautifulmelody]

It is not weird 🙂

[@lordadamson]

Yeah it's so weird man wtf

[@berliyoz]

Yes ❤. But it is a good neighborhood to be in.

[@jackhancho8571]

I can’t imagine having a spouse die...that’s so heartbreaking

[@Volkslady]

I can attest to that. Widow since Christmas Eve 2019. I have no expectation of ever again finding a love like we had.

[@Aditya-te7oo]

7:16 "If I was looking for a man which I am not" that part 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@priyankashankholia8599]

Aditya Das Rihanna

[@colaboytje]

A good question would be: what do you have to offer your possible partner.

[@Dahmer_Jeff]

Nothing

[@meghanaroy16]

@Trust Valentino this particular reply is a mood!

[@kaylasheppard7746]

People always forget that part

[@wiswc]

I honestly have no idea.

[@monikaa3587]

There’s a saying that you should be the right partner before looking for one

[@TheRacingWind]

The people mentioning eyes- I so get that! The guys that I’ve had the best relationships with have had so much love and joy in their eyes, it was so enchanting.

[@nabilahrahim5354]

But how to notice that? I just can't read someone's eyes

[@bigmoisture743]

@@nabilahrahim5354 she's talking about a Chad's eyes

[@haileyt857]

NABILAH RAHIM when you see how they look at you and life. They tend be sparkly with squinted eyes when they smile (which is a lot). My favorite are when they also have this warmth to them that can only be described as ‘melty’, like melted chocolate or a warmed-up-by-the-sun ocean.

[@PlanP16]

I don't think we should be looking for anything in a man, but recognizing something in them, that you would love to be around.

[@Victor-kt6qn]

The person that can make you love yourself specially when you can't see why anyone would love you.

[@FirstLast-nz9vo]

Yes absolutely!

[@Rainahwallacexo]

So many Christians on your channel... I can’t believe it. It makes my heart so full and hopeful ❤️

[@ruthpaul9964]

ikr !!!!

[@SweetSerenadeXyWem]

Well I don't see that many of them but what I like is that comments aren't negative about it.

[@jordanstpierre22]

❤️❤️

[@georgeosborn421]

Rainahwallacexo well it makes me want to shoot myself personally

[@carinak2388]

yes i agree! it’s so inspiring and encouraging to see them be open about their faith : )

[@odiepriscy81]

9:47 wow! She found herself a catch! He’s handsome! 👍🏼👍🏼 was hoping you showed him as she was talking about him and you did thank you!

[@jamssnana4084]

He's hot, right? They're beautiful together!! Look at those beaming faces!!!

[@anasousa6425]

Don't wanna overcomplicate, but I feel that these are all important (and not that easy to have!): - A man with enough grit and perseverance - in relationships when adversity appears, he must be able to stick and solve the problems - that is able to communicate - in the right way. To listen and to talk. - someone with the same core values - which in my case is how he treats others, doesn't discriminate; - someone that already loves himself. self-love is really important, I cannot be the one providing constant reassurance. haha, maybe is my experience, but a man that is just nice, or geeky or funny is not enough really to make a relationship work.

[@annaost2727]

I hope the girl with a liver disease is ok now 🙏🏽

[@gnathp4497]

Its been 2 years... I hope she's still around

[@gwendolyno.3330]

Loves Jesus, has drive and pushes me to be my best, similar vision for life, hard working, appreciates me and my family, noble.

[@patriciacole8773]

Remember the fourth commandment KJV

[@chococone2552]

“You’re not kidding” had me rolling😂😂

[@contentdeleted5428]

That liver girl broke my heart:(

[@emmawelsh5336]

The lady who was sick and said she appreciated her partner staying with her in spite it. I know how valuable that is. My x left me.because I have a chronic disease. I reallymhope this lady gets well and enjoys a good life.

[@mbdsgnsuk6853]

Never stop this! :D

[@Thorayaa]

I won't :]

[@IAmAnEnigma4]

2:47 I absolutely love this answer. So relatable. She’s got such a cool personality.

[@FirstLast-nz9vo]

Yes I agree, but did you hear her laugh? 😍😍😍

[@fiercabear]

Kindness, trust, passion, spiritual, self-aware, good sense of humour, intuitive, mature, emotionally intelligent, smart, thoughtful, spiritual connection and physical attraction.

[@agonzales5813]

I like how you produced this. The tone of this video was so fluid and it felt very raw and intimate. The way you focus on the person, the serious build up in the music in the background, how you allow them to open themselves up through great questions. Each woman was so unique and you allowed each of them to express their truest selves. Well produced, yet simple. I’m excited to see more of your work. Keep it up!

[@elementsofbeing8203]

Can express emotions, met me half way, trust worthy , values honesty, mindful, understanding, loving, the balance between being deep and light hearted, spiritual, emotionally mature

[@caseydoherty1701]

7:14 Country boyyyy I love youuuuu.. (lol it's a vine)

[@abdul1999x]

I legit said "country boyyyyyyyy I love you" when that part of the video played. I did the face too.😂😂

[@avielorwhatever5680]

I’m so glad to know I wasn’t the only one

[@nailah2709]

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[@emilyboutin9873]

I appreciate how you include a variety of peoples' answers and stories even when they do not directly answer the question.

[@janexian9232]

I wish you could bring this wonderful project to people from other parts of the world.

[@desi3180]

I want someone that will love me in ways I can't love myself

[@frenchieval3026]

Amen...i am a harsh critic of my own self :(

[@elliana5728]

THIS

[@cct306]

You will never found that someone. It has to be you!

[@solus8685]

@@cct306 well then I'm screwed lmao

[@lissihayray2227]

Nah lol-- heal those parts first on your own. If you can't love and accept certain parts of yourself, its unfair to think someone else will. You deserve to invest time and love into yourself by healing. Whether there's a man in the picture or not. Who knows, You might even meet him in that journey 💫

[@whynot4318]

This is something i've been considering a lot lately and tbh my final answer is: someone who makes my heart beat. Someone who gives me butterflies when i look into his eyes, who can make me smile no matter what mood i am in just by being there, you know? Because in the end of the day, I might find all the qualities I want in someone, but he will never attract me as more than a friend. So I guess somebody who makes me _feel_

[@kaylasheppard7746]

Be careful with this. Because feelings fade. In fact, they are made to fade. The lovey dovey feelings fade after about 2 years. There will be days when he can't make you smile, or he needs you to make him smile. Love is action, not feelings.

[@keithsimpson6386]

@@kaylasheppard7746 Completely agree. Love is absolutely not a feeling. Feelings change too easily for love to be that. I think when the lovey dovey feelings fade is what people call "falling out of love." I'm one to say you were never truly in love to begin with but that's just my opinion.

[@guccifairy]

If anything love is probably the most powerful of all the feelings. It can be both the most beautiful thing to experience when its real and severely painful which is why most people are so afraid to allow themselves to completely fall into it. You have to feel it before you can act on it. If not than whatever actions you are taking in the name of love isn't really love. Honestly the longer your list is the less likeely you are to find it because no one is perfect so there's always at least one thing they would be lacking from the beginning but settle with it because its just one thing. Then from day one you've already doomed your relationship because you're already looking for the imperfections causing a snowball effect. Truly unconditional love is beyond all judgement with no expectations. Its not impossible. I've seen it. I've felt it. The same way you can tell just by a look when someone doesn't like you easily.... teach yourself to recognize what true love looks like when given whole heartedly. If you've never been able to say that you love someone with your entire being then you haven't truly truly experienced it and how can you possibly know how to act on it if you've never felt it? Its simple. Reciprocity. I know the capacity of my love and could never accept anything less. Unconditional love is all you need because everything else like loyalty, honesty, respect, etc.... will fall into place naturally. Even your perception of their physical appearance changes because the feeling is so intensely real and pure that you're not even looking at them physically anymore. Its a soul connection that transcends all things. I can tell you for sure that if you don't think something like that exists then it will definitely never come to you.

[@mich8050]

'Your mind is your own prison' that's an awesome quote

[@drukharimatter2962]

The woman who said someone she can look into their eyes and see her own soul….you hit the nail on the head for me as well. If I look into someone’s eyes and see genuine kindness, love and softness….I’m all in.

[@havensabaini7334]

The third woman nailed it... her list was well thought out and someone like that.... is what makes a perfect partner. I loved this video … virtually everyone had great insight.

[@BlueCrystal1996R]

5:54 I really hope you lady, will stay with us a little bit longer than two years :) Much love, and may you be happy! ^^

[@poutymouf]

💕💕💕

[@jbye214]

Omg live long 🙏🏻❤️

[@clau0ira]

For the 2nd lady in the video, it made me cry 😭, she was very strong by holding her tears, I’m sorry she lost her husband 💔 but I can feel they were a great couple and that Mike was a great man and a wonderful father. I wish the best for her and her family 🙌🏻💖🙌🏻💖🙌🏻💖

[@kimmyqueen8009]

What I look for in a man is someone who is respectful and has eyes only for me. Who lets me be who I am and doesn’t try to control or brainwash me. A man who is a hard worker and loving with me. Someone who is real. Honest, and faithful.

[@Hegetstheglory]

Your videos are beautiful. So glad to see Christians giving glory to God. How beautiful.

[@charitygracestanford881]

@Thanos We love you too. Jesus loves you more. Believe on him and you will be saved from eternal damnation! ❤

[@mshemanthkumar7186]

"In an uncertain World you're looking for constancy" everyone gets it but yet no one live by this. Love is too much to ask for ♥️♥️

[@firefly91286]

I absolutely LOVE your channel. THIS is what we need as a society, seeing REAL people and hearing their stories to remind us of our human connection. Thank you so much for this, Thoraya ❤️

[@MsXyz-gp1ex]

I love this show - open, honest, and filled with heart!

[@arlo247]

So beautiful. I LOVE these. So honest and touching and revealing. Makes me think of my answers of course and so fascinating and endearing and bonding to hear other people's thoughts and feeling and life experiences. I loved the Portuguese speaking woman's answer, a noble heart, caring/affectionate and true. Beautiful.

[@roselle.0835]

I look for someone who is funny, but when a serious situation, they comfort me, and make me feel better. That's why my crush is who he is.

[@luismx8]

These answers touch my soul. Thanks for the great work that you do! I deeply enjoy watching your videos. You made me think about my ex girlfriend and how I fell short of some of those “expectations “. It also doesnt help that you look so much like her.

[@sian578]

ive only seen two videos but I am HOOKED THANK YOU for restoring my faith in humanity

[@deannadean3d]

I'm also sick constantly, I've got about 10 years to live - I really understood what the lady with liver disease was saying. Not many people will accept it and stick around

[@brenosantana1458]

Try a plant diet.

[@user-tb5fc6yr7o]

@@brenosantana1458 Have you no shame?

[@brenosantana1458]

@@user-tb5fc6yr7o Not a bad intention.

[@dearthofdoohickeys4703]

3:26 omg this girl just described me! I’m just thrilled to know there are girls like you out there.

[@jerrygonzalez3433]

Thank you honesty is the best! Stay strong ladies and realize guys ARE shy and we question ourselves. Much love.

[@Camaron9769]

Someone with a huge heart, compassion, and someone who is truly caring towards everyone around them.

[@shesdreamin4637]

idk what to comment like this is so beautiful continue making such videos

[@HerveDaCosta]

I love this. Thanks! Women are so wonderful. Thanks to life for my 2 wonderful daughters and my wife with whom I have been married for over 35 years. I am still learning!

[@fashionsenses1]

I think it's awesome that you are open to people of different faiths and beliefs being super candid on camera about their feelings and where they stand

[@seemranhoro1572]

Yeah

[@jackshipman6490]

You’re videos honestly make my day, plz keep doing what you’re doing

[@thobie001]

I look for someone with a kind heart...who truely cares for people

[@sammysam2615]

As a man I was looking for a woman that I essentially created in my head as this perfect person grown in some lab just for me (sarcasm) I fell in love with and married my wife who is nothing like what I imagined I could only be with and I the same for her. Just these two examples are how opposite we are She's Republican and Catholic I'm Independent/Progressive and an Atheist. We didn't fall in love with a thought, belief, salary, and so on. We fell in love with the complete opposite when we least expected it, because we weren't marking off the imaginary check list. We've been happily married for 6 years and they've been the best 6 years of my life and I wouldn't trade it for anything.

[@srishti3579]

I can relate to almost everything that you wrote except the marriage part...cuz we are still very young. And also...I too had that imaginary perfect partner in my mind that would grow with time which I wanted my future partner to be like at that time...but things turned out differently and I'm very happy with them❤😊. Exactly relatable on that checklist part too that you mentioned. Also, he is an atheist while I believe in god. Good to see people with similar stories around being happy. Thanks for sharing your story❤

[@sukanyaghosh6604]

I don't know if anyone's ever mentioned it but I adore Thoraya's voice. ♡

[@gianlucamatarazzo4606]

Thoraya your work is amazing! I wanted to thank you personally for what you have created. You are a real artist! The questions you have raised and the camera shots, are unbelievably deep. You have the power to show the light and beauty of people, keep up the good work!

[@beepot2764]

I just instantly felt like I was home when I met her. She's creative, intelligent, attractive and everything else I've found out about her over the years has made my life significantly better. I just hope to be the same for her.

[@Taymanator0051]

This was so beautiful and insightful! Thank you Thoraya, you have a very unique and consistent filming style that just gets more beautiful the more you look at it.

[@suzystone244]

This content bringing strangers together is a genius way to a happier life❤

[@chrishanke9523]

I really love your channel. The real ness of humanity is captivating to me and that’s what appeals most of all.

[@samuelmuiga3101]

The way the Third person talks is so captivating

[@NonanoN-er6de]

Communicative, Well spoken , Confident and a Reader - Deal breakers Arrogance , Aggressive

[@DC-sr7gu]

that woman is a tearjerker at 0:52 seconds. honestly and being sincere, I really hope she finds someone new again or she finds happiness. ive re-winded the video back to her multiple times no lie!

[@josephinevaldez1720]

Honest,understanding,faithful,thoughtful, makes me laugh,loving,authentic

[@TheSincerety]

6:34 omg... this is almost exactly 2 years ago. I wonder if she's alive still or not... If she isn't I hope she's at peace.

[@urdadsayshi8218]

For me, honestly is number 1. If you're not honest then there's going to be too many trust issues that are gonna break the relationship. Number 2 would be kindness. Someome who is open hearted and loves helping instead of hurting other people. Number 3 would be someone who can make me laugh! ❤ Also like to add: loyalty. I can't stand cheaters and I personally couldn't do open realtionships.

[@julianakostyuk2414]

Thoraya, Thank you for sharing these videos! You feature so many different people and different stories, thanks for including everyone! I’d love to hear your life story, and the things that shaped you to be who you are today! ❤️

[@brandisbrinkman8113]

I love how passionate you are about your work. I am so inspired by you!