Thousands Of Women Identify With This "Ordinary" Woman & Her Story

I had a business years ago that trained local videographers around the USA to do my kind of interviewing. We offered the service to family members interested in having one of my videographer/interviewers conduct an interview with a family member. We called it a legacy video. This woman was one of the videos we made. Unfortunately, the business didn't succeed and there were several reasons why. But I thought had lived a terrific life and was still living it at 60. The local cameraman in her area just sat down, set up a camera on a tripod, and told her to tell her story. So it wasn't really an interview. She was ready to speak out and proud of the life she had been living. Of getting out of her early life challenges. Of the support of the Mexican community. Of her fascination with Mexico and Spain. Of the men she was with, both the relationship successes and the failures. When I posted this video I was unprepared for how strong a reaction women would have who had watched it. Not that they live the same life that she did or want to do. But the honesty and - telling it like it is - style has helped many women to be more open and expressive in their own lives telling their own stories.

[@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker]

This 100 year old lady, as you can imagine, has a lot to say. Worth watching. kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5DKqoVjmpiXiZY David Hoffman filmmaker

[@vegassurvivor2745]

Amazing that she looks back on the good and bad and seems to have no regrets, laughs at the stupid Mistakes and blames no one. I love her she has a good heart

[@redwoods7370]

I love the way this woman firmly dodged all her parents' criticism and barriers and did what she wanted to do for her life. She raised herself. Such a wholesome story.

[@amuroray9115]

And this was back when people said Parents like hers were more “disciplined”

[@brettsprang7991]

Her parents are hardly an inspiration 😶

[@teds3rdof6]

She said she was Catholic so “strict” probably meant they stayed connected to the church. That was the only parameter to measure by….Sunday Church, catechism, Communion & Confession. So if you met their requirements you could do whatever you want.

[@fairynuff167]

Wholesome! Neglected more like it

[@janicewatson172]

@@amuroray9115 pa

[@SA-ho2nw]

Interviewer, "You have one minute left" Me: Soo disappointed. I could have listened to her story for hours! I wish they would have done part 1, 2, 3! What an interesting, funny, adventurous, loving woman. A beautiful spirit! Bless her future adventures. 😘

[@amber.cartomancer]

Me too!

[@tealpaisley8434]

Will always remember her. We shared similar experiences. 🌷

[@bethmendoza1847]

I’m 63. I was also fearless in my teens and twenties. I look back and wonder how I lived through it.

[@sharoneuby-62]

Yes, me too. Lol

[@gaylechristensen6285]

Me too. I am 60, was kicked out of my house when I was 16 for going to a 9th grade dance with an African American. He was only my friend, but my dad was desperately prejudice. Wish I would have had her strength. I floundered, because I wasn't that strong.

[@pammckay6805]

the same.with.me.

[@savonnae.7246]

I have no idea how I ended up here, but I was riveted. This lady is remarkable. If I am being honest, I truly envy both the variety of circumstances she experienced and her visibly unsinkable spirit!

[@minniebonsall]

Found this by accident and to be honest I almost didn’t watch it but glad I did. I’m the same age and we lived in some pretty wild times and us 60 something women have some crazy stories that would be frowned upon in these politically correct times where everyone is an armchair expert yet they’ve done NOTHING interesting in their lives !! I LOVE that she was truthful and didn’t clean it up because real life is gritty and untidy and yes,embarrassing. Watched the whole thing !!! Thank you !!

[@bobbazoid909]

@@patriciacole8773 its seem that ppl lost the connection from our Hearts to our minds.

[@phyllismagunde5844]

Just like me. I nearly didn't watch and thank God I did.

[@CityThatCannotBeCaptured]

What a fabulous comment.

[@dreamcrone]

I watched the whole thing too. 65 year old retired Art teacher. I could relate!

[@meko3089]

Stop glorifying struggle when we live in one of the best countries and pay high taxes. Theirs nothing wrong with high expectations when we pay such high taxes. The government rebuilt Vietnam but let an American expect anything

[@jennymisteqq695]

She thought she talked too much. I listened to the entire thing and was disappointed when it ended. I wanted more! Such a neat lady.

[@misst.e.a.187]

Yeah, me too.

[@pattyw7952]

Me too! I was fascinated with her life story. Her parents were very similar mine. I wish I could meet this lady.

[@silverbubbles4728]

Me too! This lady is a ball of energy. Hope she gets to see Niagara Falls some day & maybe I'll bump into her.

[@pleashette9108]

me too.

[@pattyw7952]

@@silverbubbles4728 I'm in WNY too!

[@Lukavichiano]

She is such a wholesome soul. I love her. I want to have a cup of tea with her and just listen to her stories.

[@elisabethstrazzanti2312]

She is absolutly amazing, isn’t she?!

[@lucycolgan3362]

fully aggree with U Luke I'm Lucy Colgan from Ireland I love people I find people so interesting 🤔🛍️

[@brendapaul5950]

What an absolutely delightful woman! Way ahead of her time by way of having been an adventurous young woman but still a traditional wife for that period of time. So nice to see someone who continues to be delighted with life in spite of the bumps and bruises. I want to be like you as I age! Thank you for a lovely and inspirational sharing of your life story. By going to school and being brave, traveling and living internationally, you have undoubtedly changed the trajectory of your children's lives and generations to come. Congratulations on a life well lived so far. Hoping you are well and continue to be delighted and curious about life.

[@sharonbrandon3521]

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[@Arid_OasisLLC]

I’m a 54 yr old Grandma & when my oldest & only son Stephen was killed at 26(my chathead pic). I said I would live as he did. He packed a full adventurous life in half the time I’ve been alive. This Dear woman has reminded me that promise to myself. Thanks so much for this beautiful storyteller.

[@carolginsberg662]

@Sadie Bajei Garrett~ I’m sorry for your loss. I can tell by the photo that your son was beautiful. God bless you. 💕🌈

[@justinamusyoka4986]

I too took note of that youthish photo,will surely be missed.I'm a 57 yo grandma with a troubled life and now widowed.

[@juzagirlntheroom2692]

Stephen was a beautiful boy. My family also lost our baby boy, our only boy. He was in an accident that put him in a coma at the age of 27 yrs old. He never awoke, but was in the coma almost 10 years. It broke our hearts, but not our familial spirit. Bless your bless.

[@christinetarquin3773]

Prayers for you on your journey.

[@lh3441]

My son was 30 when I lost him. He left a child and I have another son another son. It’s very hard even with them. My heart aches for you

[@drewpall2598]

I encourage young kids and teenagers to set aside one hour each week to listen to older folks and the stories they tell about what life was like when they where young. I love when my mom told me what life was like for her growing up in the late 1930's and 40's having to brothers in the armed forces and saving scrap metal and planting a small victory garden for war effort.

[@mazieg7072]

My mother is from the same era,but refused to talk about her past. My father was born in 1929 & was the same.. many old people refuse to speak about their pasts . Both of my parents are gone now. So it’s too late to get any stories from them. I has no grandparents. Aunts, Uncles or cousins. No extended family. I grew up with just siblings and parents. My parents kept us away from people. We were not allowed to go over friends houses or have friends over. I never knew why. My parents were abusive, but were different outside the house than inside. So maybe trying to hide how they really were? I can only guess. But not all kids can get stories from the elderly people they know. Many elderly are very secretive about their pasts.

[@vishnupriyaarcharyya4915]

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[@angelacarleton9575]

Every opportunity I had I was able to listen to the older people to hear how they lived their lives and learned a lot from them too.

[@lillysnet9345]

@@vishnupriyaarcharyya4915 What "8" mean?

[@batmanb8194]

i encourage kids to run away and form their own society

[@billtaggart1393]

Ended up here by accident and just started listening only to discover that I went to high school with her. I graduated one year ahead of her (1964) in Yuba City. Had friends that worked at the cannery and my girl friend went to work for the phone company there just as her friend did. It's a small world!

[@mindsigh4]

that must have been a trip, i always get a jolt when synchronicities like that happen.

[@ValerieSue]

Wish they said what her name is? Great story!!

[@joydew7457]

BBB

[@commentcraftsman]

That's amazing.

[@ValerieSue]

@@joydew7457 Well done! Love hearing others stories. Plus you were so uplifting about not so uplifting things that happened along your journey. Wish I was more like you. I do wish they would have let you talk more. 😁 Thank you so for sharing!!

[@kristabell5107]

True confidence: true courage - no encouragement from family. Not a lot of support but the strength to stand up and forge forward. And I’m not hearing any bitterness- which is the reward for being gutsy enough to do what she wanted. Inspiring really. Adorable person.

[@leahjones8539]

What a true feminist!!

[@64slugirl]

Her independence was necessary in those years. I know this. Hard for parents (MOMS) to accept ; if you diidn't "go for it", college and leaving hometown wouldn't happen to some of us in the '60's! Was an age of knowing your mind, no other reason than a drive to be making decisions for yourself. Determination did the same for me; not part of "Women's Lib" or "feminism", just personal goals! Not many young gals had the guts to do it, sometimes having to defy parents, to just do what you know is good for self! Was great!

[@fireforcecreative]

she is an adorable person. she would be a good supportive friend. And she’s welcome in Australia as far as I’m concerned!

[@judithgill9512]

She’s adorable! Such a great laugh!!

[@LaurieButts]

Krista Bell Saying no to strong-willed children only fuels their ambition to go anyway! Determination digs in!

[@kawi8507]

These stories are fascinating. I’d rather hear these stories than the crap that comes out of Hollywood. I love them.

[@laylacicconi8447]

Amen

[@victoriamayo5774]

Ka Wi me too and I live in Hollywood. I love documentaries ❤️

[@coverboy1050]

Well, new Hollywood atleast.

[@Lori79Butterfly]

Hollywood just manipulates our society with their misogynistic, ridiculous repetitive stories!

[@pattiespetitetanks6181]

I like both kinds of things

[@erikaarnold4780]

I love stories like this. My mom and I will be on the phone for hours, and I love when she tells me her life stories, especially from her teenage years…shit was bananas back then, a time time I can’t even imagine. I try to wrap my mind around the things she’s been through as a Black immigrant in America during the 60s and it’s like 🤯. I could listen forever! I am going to film her stories just like this. It is perfect and so simple and honest. ❤️

[@ThompsonSmith207]

Hello Erika How are you doing today?

[@valerietownsend1445]

I admire this woman for standing in her own power and being independent during a time when women were not encouraged to be their true selves. Such a lovely lady. Thanks for sharing your story.

[@aliciao.5731]

I was a dominant Spanish speaker and I worked in the fields in Arizona and then I became a bilingual teacher also. My father was not happy. Fortunately, my mom supported me. I have so much in common with her. I got married and got pregnant while in college, too. I took my son with me to classes and exams on occasion and graduated from U of Az.

[@eva1480]

I love Your strenght too. Good for You bring strong

[@ithacacomments4811]

I grew up on farm a few miles east of Cornell University. My father would not allow his children to go on campus. To him all those foreigners were at Cornell. He was afraid of people who were not like us. I missed so many opportunities growing up. At age 50, I dated a man who was pursuing his masters at Cornell and we totally experienced everything that we could on campus from ice skating at midnight to kissing in the engineering library stacks ! Concerts, lectures, parties, ....we did it all !!!!

[@suzannegaglie6146]

Greetings from downtown Ithaca

[@Liz-ek3hc]

Good for you! 🙂👍

[@ladywolfwolf]

I grew up in Huntington WVa, home of Marshall University. Marshall's stadium was my high school's home stadium. I remember the plane crash that took the lives of nearly the entire football team. I had chicken pox, so I was home and saw the hearses. Hearses for days. My pediatrician was also on that flight. In my teens and able to be unsupervised away from the house, I met and befriended people from all walks of life and many countries. We went to concerts, lectures, the planetarium, the Ohio river, the fantastic Ritter Park, (where we played at tennis or enjoyed the rose garden by our very own World War 1 Remembrance arch that looks like the Arc Dr Triumphs in Paris. The famous Keith Alby theatre. My gosh the things that we just considered normal, most people can't even dream of doing. That small city at that time was very cosmopolitan and had just about every amenity (even side walks and alleys) because it was an international college town. Sorry, I know all of this sounds like a brag, but I miss that place so much. I joined the U.S. Navy after I graduated in January of 81. I haven't been able to get back there since. Maybe, before I leave this Earth..

[@foxopossum]

What a very cool lady. I am so grateful you take the time to record people’s stories.

[@RalphDratman]

As a young person I was reasonably cool. No longer.

[@foxopossum]

@@RalphDratman i think “cool” is really only for the young, but that’s just my opinion.

[@RalphDratman]

@@foxopossum I think anyone of any age could be described as cool, but not in the sense that the person has special qualities. Rather in the sense that I might say "That's a cool hat" so no effort is required from the cool person or thing.

[@lindamartin8614]

This lady could not talk too much, quiet the opposite. What a lovely story of her life.

[@denniscarter7347]

I learned something quite profound from this video. Now in my senior years with time on my hands, I have often thought about writing my life’s story. I find myself unable to believe others would be interested. At the risk of being viewed self promoting, my list of exciting life’s experiences outweighs this lady’s many times over. I like many who have made positive comments, found that her story held my interest from beginning to end. This is what I learned. It isn’t so much the content of your story that will make it interesting reading but rather your ability to tell the story.

[@kiwigirlNZ]

You should do it. I'm sure a lot of people would be more than interested in hearing about your life experiences growing up. Don't worry about what others may think. If you let that bother you, you'll never get anything done. Write a book. I'll buy it. Be brave!

[@Liz-ek3hc]

Very true. Good luck with the book! 🙂

[@darcusann]

Do it! 🥰🙏🏼

[@sharonsmith1677]

This woman looks so much like my biological mom. Watched it just to feel close to her. Ended up watching the whole thing. Loved it. Miss you mom...

[@1978UA]

Sharon Smith did you get to talk to her. Mine won’t see me. She won’t help me find my bio dad.

[@bmmccoy4461]

Sharon Smith - NOW, THAT (YOURS) IS A GREAT STORY ..!!

[@1978UA]

For a while we were close but recently like 10 years ago her daughters father died and she got screwed out of her inheritance from him. All of a sudden I’m not welcome there. She never could give me definite info on my bio dad. She gave me a name but it has gotten me nowhere. Her niece said her mother, my aunt, said my grandfather, bio mom’s father, was my father. My other cousin says it’s one of her brothers.

[@mark-jx9uh]

R.i.p. moms!

[@kathleensmith950]

Sorry for loss of your mother you will reunite some day in yhe by snd by.

[@misodinamosa]

Omg! I can’t believe they cut you short! It is as important to listen to a story like yours as someone who suffered abuse because your story is a life without abuse. Of course you may have chose to leave that out. I have always wanted to know what life was like for people that lived without the controversy. For me it is wonderful to know it can be a reality! God bless 💜🙏🏻

[@gaylechristensen6285]

I feel you. The sad part about abuse in childhood is you generally wind up marrying an abuser. I guess it's all you know. Breaking the cycle is not easy. I often wonder what my life would have been without the abuse, also.

[@pammckay6805]

​@@gaylechristensen6285 l.know.where.your.coming.from.

[@gaylechristensen6285]

@@pammckay6805 Sorry to hear that, Pam. I think there's a statistic that says 3 out of 5 girls are abused on some level, either physical or mental or both. I suffered 11 broken bones and 2 gunshot wounds during my 10 year marriage, from age 17 to 27. I'm married to an amazing man today, but it took many, many years to even partially heal. I hope and pray that you have someone in your life that is helping you. It takes a special person to really comprehend what you've been through. Not that you can't do it yourself, but it helps to have someone walk through that dark valley. Blessings ♡

[@HLB512]

I wish there was a part 2 so we could find out what she ended up doing. I love listening to people tell their stories. Fascinating.

[@patriciamharris5664]

Agreed!

[@JediJan]

Yes, interview was 3 years ago and the Covid pandemic hit so with closed international borders she wouldn’t have been able to travel to NZ or Australia. I’d say she would have visited the east coast of US though. Maybe she is making plans to travel abroad as we speak.

[@anainmazatlan]

@@JediJan This video may have been uploaded three years ago but it definitely was filmed much longer ago than that. Because if it was filmed 3 years ago, then she would be 73 at the time of the interview and she is definitely much younger than that. She mentions that she's still going to school at the end of the interview. I'm guessing it was filmed in the late 90s.

[@alohalivin556]

I love her - she had her own mind and was not just a timid soul wanting to be the good girl - she was smart and a rebel. God bless the rebels!

[@annaleebillings]

Let the Rebel in you Reach the Rebel in me and the Rebels we be bring sweet harmony 🤗😍🤗✔

[@jestertshumamaphisasavings2509]

She's a very organised 'rebel' as she's really assertive & fairly developmental. She couldn't be forcefully made into getting married like her sister. Quite open minded to explore the world.

[@M5StAr.2.0]

@@annaleebillings beautiful!

[@tanyabonnette1796]

This lady has a lot of Good things happened to her. She's a person that sees good in everything

[@zampieritto]

She has an huge heart

[@Liz-ek3hc]

Isn't that a wonderful trait to have! I'll do my best to emulate her now for the rest of my life. It's all so fleeting.

[@lori970]

She was a very strong child to break out with her own ideas. It's a shame how some parents don't encourage their children. Very open to diversity and culture during that era. She was definitely ahead of her time!

[@francopp1124]

So many options in life and yet so interesting the steps that make each of our lives different. In a way she was blessed to have found her own family and friends so that she didn’t become a bigot like her parents. She gravitated to the best circumstances around her to fulfill herself. She learned how to trust herself. I could relate to her story bc I used my neighborhood to investigate nature, explore the rich neighborhoods around me on bike and walking. Escaped from abusive treatment and see life reflected around me outside of the bounds of my immediate family. I took my knowledge that I learned through all of the mistakes and achievements I had and carved out a life that wasn’t spoon fed. It’s made me more tolerant.

[@MeadowDay]

Fran Copp Don’t think insulting her parents was warranted by you, rude! This was a wonderful rich story and times were different.

[@francopp1124]

@@MeadowDay she was abandoned by her parents who didn’t like her hanging around people that were different then them. Those were her words. I just named the behavior.

[@keepingthefaith9041]

@@francopp1124 Yep, Fran your comment was very bigot itself. We never heard her parents side of the story. And this wonderful woman , could have miss understood her parents. ( did you understand Everything your parents told you. Were your parents Perfect at communicating to you. I know my parents weren't that good. They many many times never told me why they thought the ways they did.) Their might have been reasons or maybe not.. We just don't know.

[@francopp1124]

@@keepingthefaith9041 it’s interesting that you want to protect her parents and yet they seemingly were not there to protect her? Why are you doing that? This woman was courageous and inspiring bc of her ability to launch herself into a life of self creation. I’m inspired by her.

[@mariansaldo1]

What a great story. She kept saying she was overweight, she doesn't realize even now I would bet, just how beautiful she is.

[@LCmonman]

She has the most fantastic attitude about life and culture! 💕

[@Lindaj26292]

I certainly enjoyed your story, what an interesting life you've had. You told it so well, I was wishing you had more to share. Thank you for giving me a glimpse of your good and bad times.

[@bwenluck9812]

@Laura Coleman That's what happens when you don't allow other people to make you fearful of other peoples and cultures!

[@LCmonman]

@@bwenluck9812 agreed!

[@johnallen2771]

This woman is a lot like me. People kept telling me all my life I couldn't do things and I just went ahead and did them anyway. I've had a wonderful life and now only live about four hours from this woman outside of Chico. Kudos to her for loving other cultures and studying what life is all about. Don't grow up to be dull and boring. Have some experiences in your life so you can look back and reflect one day. Get out there and make your way in life. It's a blast.

[@mauirain1]

Loved hearing her story. Hope she gets to New Zealand and the East Coast and continues her journey & her happiness :)

[@madrespain7]

Your year in Spain sounds like my year in Germany in 1968/69. I was 19. Did crazy things I hope my kids never do! I travel in Spain for two weeks then and fell in love with the country. I went back as an adult in 2006 and stayed for two years. Best decision of my life!

[@ashliesmith9312]

I loved living in Germany!

[@maggialbiez]

If you can giggle trough your life like this lovley lady can, you did it right, love her story 😍

[@glendamiller3201]

Those of us who lived in those times really had some fascinating stories. Young people now just couldn’t understand the times we experienced. We grew up quick and took on responsibilities without looking back.

[@ThompsonSmith207]

Hello Glenda How are you doing today?

[@marzymarrz5172]

She had a very healthy way of ignoring her parents. Very interesting woman.

[@pappafrita9269]

Yeah, she’s very cool

[@christibown8723]

Yes, I wish Id met her in my early life and learned that from her.

[@patriciahaaker5611]

I agree. I suspect the parents are narcissists and she is quite intelligent. She found a way out and thrived. I would love to be able to have a conversation with her.

[@lynncameron9885]

Me too. I would of done things different ❤️

[@barrett7893]

She had an idea and her parents have a idea how she should live her life. But she lived her life the way she wanted to. And she still respect to her parents. 💯

[@PINKTOES5150]

She has a lot of living wisdom .... you can’t teach that .... you have to live it your way . I tell my stories to my grand children . My children have heard them through out my life thus far . This lady is very special . Bless her .

[@rubytuesday5412]

Now this is the kind of "Reality TV" I love. I don't watch TV anymore because of all the reality crap and other crap that being shown. But I could binge watch stuff like this ladys wonderful life story all the time. More please.

[@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker]

I will be presenting more of these in coming months. Stay tuned. David Hoffman-filmmaker

[@rosalynsmith5232]

Ruby Tuesday exactly this is true reality

[@rosalynsmith5232]

David Hoffman love this true reality

[@debradodd2535]

David Hoffman This is real life, non censored life..... the truth!! I hope u continue to have these stories!!

[@lorebay2593]

I watch more KZbin than tv, hardly turn it on these days.

[@mommaseesall4270]

I wish you had more time too! For the record she is NOT too much of a talker! She is a gifted story teller, Loved every second of her life journey, and dying to hear an up date.

[@helenmcdonnell2585]

Had me riveted.... Hope there's a to be continued...

[@paulchristian7693]

Those were different times the 1960’s ’s The men and husbands made all the decisions. Women had very little choices in careers,their bodies and legally.

[@carolynaitken7632]

Paul Christian Yes that’s right I was a child in the 60s and my father put my sister and I in a children’s home behind my mother’s back when she found out she tried to get us out but she couldn’t because she couldn’t go above his head his word was law because in those days the children belonged to the father! The only time a father had no say was if he wasn’t married to the mother but all that’s changed today.

[@patriciax3677]

@@carolynaitken7632 "all that's changed today"....yes, but it didn't change by magic...it took a LONG, very hard fight, which is still going on btw, for women to gain power legally, in relationships,etc. Let's recognize how we gained empowerment and appreciate it. It sure didn't happen overnight. www.imdb.com/title/tt9244556/

[@TheBjabeytalial]

Yes, please.

[@HugoBrown]

I absolutely enjoyed her life story, It was so riveting and inspiring too in her youth how she understood the different people /cultures around her, I really wished she could have continued speaking and telling us more. I hope she got to go on those holidays especially to Australia and New Zealand - both counries are my home countries. Thanks again david for these fascinating people stories. I wish television was filled with these kinds of series instead of the junk we get everyday, I suppose this is why we all come to youtube to see real peopel real lives.

[@annarasmus8737]

Yeah. Totally agree

[@susanrobinson-browning4687]

There's actually alot of great low budget docs. The great thing about KZbin is it's actually pretty good about feeding you more of what your tastes are.

[@jaffa74]

Good korero hard to find

[@Liz-ek3hc]

Excellent comment! I was born in Canada, raised in Africa, schooled in Northern Ireland (mum's home), lived through The Troubles in Northern Ireland and the Biafran War in Nigeria all before I was 17. I worked in the Channel Islands (near France) for 6 years then went back to Canada for 15 years but spent 6 months of that in New Zealand! Stunningly beautiful country with the friendliest, most welcoming people. I really hope this lady made it there cos she would love it! 😍

[@user-cy4vw1qj9m]

Agree.

[@raeraewells7053]

I’d love to record my mother telling her life story. She had such an interesting life. She is about to turn 67. I’d better hurry.

[@susansnyder11]

Please! I implore you to invite your mother and her siblings (if possible) to lunch and record them reminiscing. In years to come it will be one of your most prized possessions. I waited too long and my mother passed before I got the chance. Good luck!

[@Lisa-gy5pw]

Your post was a year ago. I hope you are able to record your mom. I wish i had done that. I'd give anything to see and hear my mom.

[@nancygreggpasiecznik4673]

One of my biggest regrets in life was that I didn't obtain an oral history from my paternal grandmother, who was born in 1888. I was born in 1950 to a woman who had Hodgkins' disease, which was then unusable. My mother died one month after my fifth birthday. My father was a disabled WWII Navy veteran who had to retire from his civilian job because of very severe rheumatoid arthritis. My parents were in an out of the hospital, so my father's mother came to live with us, until I was in sixth grade; then she lived nearby in a mobile home in the same small town. I would have learned a lot.

[@patmurphy389]

No, you don't talk too much, I enjoyed your story immensely! I know what you are talking about, I was married back in the 70's at eighteen in Colorado springs, Colorado. Back then women were expected to do everything w/the moving & stuff like that, you never questioned it. With my ex-husband being in the air force, we had to move twice & I did all the packing myself. Thank you for sharing her story!

[@rogerdodger5415]

She is a precious being. Got to admire all that. I hope she’s doing well. GOOD LUCK 🍀 WHERE EVER YOU ARE!

[@lg316]

60 used to seem so old to me. Lol At 51, I'm like "oh, she's only 60"

[@krisbest7846]

I,m 67, thinking on my next adventure, sad in Australia our native language is mostly ignored, we borrowed a few words and place names.

[@verlenavelinasutton1568]

LG That’s so funny. I was I Spain in 1967 so I knew downtown Madrid at that time also. But, it’s so funny that an age that we thought was so old now becomes, ‘oh no, she/he was so young. She was only 80.’ I’ll be 74 next month! Kate, theflutterby🦋🦋

[@cmendoza9255]

She has had a hard life. That's not what 60 should look like, kids...no way!!!

[@jlcollins7673]

Yes!!! Same!!!

[@lhurst9550]

yes

[@t.hunter9484]

GREAT story...She should write a book. We need more people like her in this world!!!

[@allinaday9882]

Many people in this world like her. You have have either been alone or never asked the people around you to tell you about their adventures in life.

[@tonyajustice6678]

I have no idea what made me listen to her story, but I'm glad I did. I thoroughly enjoyed it. I hope all of her wishes have been fulfilled.

[@paigehaugh3578]

Love her free spirit. I have the same free spirit but have been tied down to Virginia and could never do the things ive wanted to do. This story is amazing and inspiring.

[@darlenenicholas3622]

Paige Thacker mm

[@juventusventuno9213]

I want to hug her. She is a survivor - what energy and will to keep moving forward! I love how mother oriented she is - its not for every gal, but so cute when a girl states its her dream.

[@liduvinamyres4776]

I’m so glad I found your video…I’m a graduate of Chico State and was probably one of those little kids running around at the farm worker’s camp. I also had a brown Camero 😂 I loved your story telling so much! I wish I had met you then I’m sure we would have gotten along real well 😄

[@JordanRants]

Clicked on this video by accident and ended up watching the entire thing aha. Loved her story!

[@trish1898]

Same here! lol Her story was very interesting!!

[@GJ-dj4jx]

Same lol

[@jaggirl]

Me too Great story..

[@denasharpe2393]

What a wonderful way for life to work out for this lovely woman

[@noonespecial619]

JordanRants I did the same thing. She’s a great story teller.

[@pattiwise2122]

I have so much admiration for this woman. We are the exact age, and I relate to so much of what she said. Got married at 19 because he needed someone to work so he can finish college. He had the draft hanging over his head if he didn’t graduate. Then, all decisions were based on where and what he wanted to be and do, I had a great life and wonderful kids. We have been together 50 years. But it is the sad complacency about how women took was someone else decided that just. Kills me. What were we thinking? I did insist my daughters did not repeat this. One is a lawyer and the other an RN nurse. Things are just different these days.

[@sandragruhle6288]

Patti Wise We didn’t know it could be different for us! We all had a part in changing our world in some little way. Some raised their children to be more gender sensitive and inclusive, and some set examples by being strong teachers and fighting for equal rights for female students and staff. Our world is so different from the one kin which we grew up, but, unfortunately, still, in 2016, many did not feel a woman was capable of managing the country’s highest office. Look what We got instead!

[@maggiedoor6093]

Patti Wise I got married at 19 and I have often wished I hadn't, though I have two wonderful sons. I often wish I had got married much later and travelled the world first.

[@Lisaj4431]

We graduated high school during a recession and a lot of our dads were getting laid off or struggling the thought of going to college was not even in the picture.

[@nirvana2165]

@@sandragruhle6288 It's not that a woman couldn't do the job, just not Hillary. Trump 2020.

[@TheDebymoore]

I can relate .

[@michelleswanson9041]

I’m from the South and my parents especially my father was very strict, I heard this lady say that she didn’t have a boyfriend until she was 16-I was like 16? My parents would have killed me if I had a boyfriend at 16-! I didn’t get a boyfriend until I had graduated college and even then it was pretty hard-I enjoy hearing stories like these-!

[@sugarbum99]

You had really caring parents. I promise you a boyfriend would just have been a distraction to your success! :) It’s not the old days anymore, there’s no need for a high school girl to have a boyfriend

[@marciasloan534]

Where on EARTH are you from ?

[@linda5388]

I feel like this is my soul sister. I to have an affinity for Spain. I spent a month, solo in an immersion experience in Salamanca and Madrid. I was much older but not necessarily wiser! I encourage all young people to take healthy risks and reach for the moon. Thank you so much for sharing the story, it makes my day

[@ThompsonSmith207]

Hello Linda How are you doing today?

[@mmdishman1]

You can tell she’s a teacher. Very linear story line. Captivating. Beautiful story. Love it!

[@suzannegaglie6146]

Gotta love a linear story ❤️

[@mollyhorse]

Yeah ...because she talks a lot and is very irritating

[@annchurchill2638]

My story is similar but I grew up in CT. I kept being told to work for the phone company. I majored in French and was prevented by my family from going to Grenoble my Junior year. My husband, the father of my 2 children, told me when they were 2 and 4 years old,? I don't want to be a husband, I don't want to be a father and I don't want to live in the suburbs". I am one of those women with good intellect and judgment, except when it comes to men.. I really enjoyed your story. You were aimated and interesting to listen to. Thank you!

[@jilllovesbeegees70]

I’ve always told my husband he has such an interesting childhood it would be interesting to other people, you should write it down. He grew up very very poor in Appalachia. And he made a good life for himself and our family. He rose above the hardships. They have no money but is that saying goes they had a lot of love LOL

[@mitatime89]

Would love to hear it

[@cherylmahaffey6184]

Do Tell the Tale. 💁🏻‍♀️

[@chocolatetye797]

Now i want to hear his story...

[@DarlaVaughan]

My mom's people are from Appalachia. The family has wonderful stories and knowledge. I would love to listen to his!

[@AAMARTCLUB]

The book, “Where the Crawdogs Sing” is very much about life for poor people in the Appalachian mountains. Moving beautiful and a fascinating story.

[@sarahperoutka6057]

Fascinating life story! What a fireball of a person! I loved hearing about all her adventures and lessons learned along the way. So vivacious, independent, and full of life. Not sure exactly when this was recorded, but I pray she got to hit the road and have a ton of adventures before the pandemic hit. Well done.

[@ThompsonSmith207]

Hello Sarah How are you doing today?

[@loisannarter2263]

You don’t talk too much. Very interesting life. I can relate to going along with things and not questioning it. That’s the way it was! Thank you for sharing! I hope you get to travel a lot and share more!!

[@LuckyLucky-xp2sz]

I like her, she is such a nice person.

[@debbieangel9376]

I Love this lady's story she tells it as if it happened just yesterday😄she raised herself while her mom raised other people's kids and she did a darn good job too, free spirited, loving people and life and I'm sure her life wasn't easy. Bless you Ma'am now that u 60 just Enjoy life you deserve to.

[@ThompsonSmith207]

Hello Debbie How are you doing today?

[@amazinganna9982]

My mother-in-law, a bit older than this lady since she was born in the 1930s, had the same experience; they adopted a baby girl not knowing that MIL was a month pregnant. My husband and his sister are 8 months apart to the day, and everyone always thought they were twins because they were in the same grade. This "ordinary" woman tells a compelling story!

[@bongoloboy3800]

I absolutely loved listening to this. She's such a badass!

[@traceymarshall4481]

Omg...I love this woman, her amazing life, being such a strong willed woman, doing exactly what she wanted, such an exciting fulfilled life. She has such an amazing outlook in life and a beautiful personality, I'm so so glad you posted this. I love hearing about ppls lives. She has one awesome memory as well lol 😄 fantastic video, thank you so much ❤️

[@ThompsonSmith207]

Hello Tracey How are you doing today?

[@r.c.miller6161]

Such a smart, independent, positive lady. Such a positive attitude. I want to go with HER!!!

[@sherriehagenhoff5342]

Absolutely beautiful soul. What a lady! Knew what she wanted early on. To not care about the house as long as her family was together, unheard of devotion. Enjoy all the days you have left! God bless.

[@ThompsonSmith207]

Hello Sherrie How are yiu doing today?

[@Audrey-wb2zh]

I loved the look on her face when she said she bought that gold Camaro, priceless!!. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. I enjoyed every minute of this. :)

[@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker]

I am pleased that you did. And I didn't find her a wonderful person. David Hoffman-filmmaker

[@Audrey-wb2zh]

Wonderful person or not, the story was definitely worth sharing. You know, there is something to be learned in every human story and we need more of them told. I stumbled across your channel and I've enjoyed every story I've seen thus far. There is a lesson to be learned in all of them and I thank you for sharing. Keep up the great work :)

[@angelzap100]

@@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker ?

[@bethknight4436]

David Hoffman what kind of person did you judge her to be?

[@angelzap100]

@@bethknight4436 I was wondering the same thing.

[@mariechapman7626]

Great story... amazing lady... she experienced everything with a ‘they were wonderful’, or ‘it was wonderful’. What a great approach to life.

[@reneerader281]

I found this by accident and almost didn't watch. I pushed play and boy did I enjoyed your story!! You little rebel LOL! Thank you for sharing❤

[@Gloriouslyupright324]

I don't know how I got here but fascinated.

[@kelleykelkel3370]

lol, same here😁

[@jak9483]

I was watching someone looking in old empty houses!

[@trish1898]

Nura Kosar ~ ditto! lol

[@niksatan]

We all got here 'cause David Hoffman is heluva guy

[@dancingfirefly7761]

Me, too!

[@donnamays24]

What a full life she has...loved her story and she told it very well💖

[@p.s.womack6734]

I was born in Yuba city in 57', raised by a dysfunctional mother, have never returned to the area since birth but I hear I have relatives in the area. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@heavensmountains323]

Very interesting story. In spite of the later hardships that evolved, you still had a positive attitude. Non of the ‘feeling sorry for yourself’ stuff. You just got on with things through the whole of your life. Commendable!

[@bonnieikamas1201]

Adored this video! I would absolutely love to hear from her again about how she’s been doing since this was taped! PLEASE??? Thanks so very much for your fabulous work!!!🥰

[@monkeynumbernine]

This lady is my best friend and I have never even met her 🤩

[@sarahakelo-agona3280]

Love yr spirit a fighter to the end nice to have come across you.

[@lesmilne]

😍❤️😍 I hear you!

[@robertduncan2742]

More people needed in our world like her, be safe in our times today

[@1wholovestrees]

As soon as she said she was from Yuba City, I knew. She is beautiful. What a trip to be able to travel to Mexico via someone else’s “nickel”. A great lesson for her. And a great story for all of us. My family would travel south to Mexico and spend weekends and vacations on the beach. It was the best experience of my life. I learned the culture, the attitudes of the people, and where I was in the mix. I befriended a girl when my mother put a box of our old clothing on a fence. The girl was picking through them, unseen. I came up on her, and she was surprised. In her selfless self, she reached out to me with her hand, and said, “Chicle?” That was my first Spanish word. She had gum in her hand. We were friends for the rest of that weekend. She didn’t speak English and she taught me Spanish.

[@ThompsonSmith207]

Hello Beth How are you doing today?

[@RB-hj9iq]

This was a treat to watch. I find as I get older that looking back can be tricky. But we are the people we are today from the experiences from our past and I also find that looking back helps me to continue to learn things about life even today.

[@bernices8481]

I'm so happy you did not become a telephone operator!!

[@aungar2403]

Telephone operator...been there, done that!

[@AlaskanAndie]

MY DEAREST DAVID HOFFMAN, I'M THINKING WHAT OUR PLANET NEEDS MORE OF... AND, HEHE! NO ITS NOT THAT SIMPLE BUT, WE NEED MORE AND MORE PEOPLE TO TELL THEIR STORIES!!! TO ME, THIS IS WHAT'S WRONG WITH THE WORLD TODAY!! SO MUCH INFORMATION LOST BECAUSE STORIES WEREN'T RECORDED!! IN THE FAMILY, COMMUNICATION HAS DWINDLED TO A SILENT ROAR AND OUR ANCESTRAL HISTORY IS LOST BECAUSE PARENTS AND CHILDREN DON'T GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER AND SHARE THEIR LIFE'S STORIES!! SADLY, THESE WAYS HAVE MOSTLY BEEN LOST!! I FEEL THAT THIS IS A TERRIBLE LOSS FOR THE PEOPLE OF THE WORLD!!! I'M 63 NOW AND IT'S TOO LATE TO RAISE MY KIDS BY STORY TELLING! BUT I CAN STILL CHANGE THINGS, SO FOR MY KIDS I'M GOING TO WRITE MY OWN BEFORE I PASS... IT'S A HELL OF A STORY!!! SHARING STORIES ARE CRUCIAL!!! THANK "YOU" FOR SHARING!!!

[@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker]

Don't write it, Andrea. My suggestion. Video it. Tell your story on video using your cell phone. It will have much more impact on many more people that way. David Hoffman-filmmaker

[@trish1898]

David Hoffman ~ I just told my kids I need to write down “my story” I never thought to video myself, great idea! Ty for suggesting that:)

[@lapis3834]

That's so true! My family dies and I wish I had more pictures and taped or written information. I struggle to remember what they told and I so wish I had video of their history and laugh and jokes and everything, history, dreams, goals, feelings... Not just for me, but generations to come, even strangers would love such treasures, if they are like me. I wish so much I was better at taking video and pictures, but I feel they doesn't like it. Even I... There hardly exist pictures of me, because I hate seeing pictures of myself. I shouldn't care, tho! Anyways, do that! That's what matters most of memories from family or loved ones. 🎬🗣🎦▶📲📜🗄🗝🍀❤👨‍👩‍👦‍👦❤😘

[@Wisdom6159]

@@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker what a great idea about taping ourselfs. I have written down my life story I'm 59 yrs old but I have lived thru so much. I am thankful to so many people ( who were around me then when all this happened to me) they wrote and signed what I had gone thru, because no one would believe what I have gone thru and still live to tell. My friends who knew told my children and husband later on in life when I got married. They thing I am a super mom.

[@stanleyhape8427]

Why do people post their entire comment in all caps. I understand some people do it to simulate yelling or screaming . Maybe the OP is screaming her entire post.🤷

[@Dan.D.Lion.Wishes]

1970 a childhood friend got pregnant by her boyfriend, they were 15. They both completed high school and now 52 years later they are still married and great grandparents. So very much of their success comes from two highly supportive loving families and those qualities continue through the generations. So many of us without even getting pregnant long wished we had families like theirs.

[@user-qi8su4mo3l]

I just love this lady. There's something so familiar about her and I honestly think she reminds me of a mother we would all love. I hope her life is full and blessed . Hugs from UK 🤗

[@ThompsonSmith207]

Hello Dear How are you doing today?

[@barbaracollins8293]

What a wonderful spirit this woman has......she is so strong, and fearlessly, and loves life so much!!!

[@CristinaF210]

I'm from Portugal and I understand her, I absolutely love my country wow and I have beach all around this gorgeous country , it is vety special indeed, though I never visited Spain who wants to in my country when we have the same and more 💕wonderful interview 💕

[@garypuckettmuse]

It's interesting how having that friend while she was growing up provided so much support and direction for her. People live such private lives now. I remember when I was young that kids were a little bit more wards of the community in ways -- if you didn't get along at home you would be sent to your aunt's house for a year; kids had that good chum like this lady did who on some level opened her horizons -- now people are so pre-occupied with themselves and what they can "get" for themselves and their own kids life is a lot more a competition than a community exercise. My daughter's friends, for example, were told not to tell their friends where they were applying to college because of competition or saving face -- who knows. This is a good lesson in how a resiliant, spunky kid was able to set herself free from her family in a way -- they let her go and there was someplace for her to go. A community which acted more in loco parentis.

[@garypuckettmuse]

@@sharonmorine5407 I love that story especially considering the woman was working at a drugstore so presumably she was not considering buying her child a pony or something very grand. thanks for sharing.

[@simonebittencourt8251]

It was such a pleasure to listen to this woman telling stories of her life while growing up. I loved especially the way she expressed her desire to have children. It was so wonderful to feel her aspirations, her loving nature about that. Thank you so much for sharing this gem. I hope she lives happy and is very much loved back by her lucky children.

[@TheDoggybag]

I was wondering who she was so I clicked on here 'just for a minute', to find out. I can't believe I stayed through the whole program'. She so reminds me of my dear sister who is her age and the dearest person in my life. Thank you Mr. Hoffman. Oh and one more thing, if the interviewer is going to talk, give him/her a mike.

[@ericag5346]

Like a gentlemen naked Mike or you mean short for microphone so mic?

[@TheDoggybag]

@@ericag5346 I was referring to a microphone. Best wishes.

[@wilsonsothernames]

I wish there were more people like her to tell their story

[@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker]

I wish that too, Paul. David Hoffman-filmmaker

[@ColleenKitchen]

I could tell mine, but somehow I don't think anyone would care to see it.

[@debradodd2535]

Colleen Kitchen yes we would love to hear it!! Please !!❤️

[@debradodd2535]

Beverly Balius Tell is your story!!❤️

[@patriciax3677]

@@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker David Hoffman 4 months ago I am pleased that you did. And I didn't find her a wonderful person. David Hoffman-filmmaker Several people on here asked you about this comment. I also have wondered about it. Is it true that you "didn't find her a wonderful person"? and if not, what did you think of her? Very curious.

[@lisas525]

What a delight! I hope she gets to travel to all the places her heart desires.

[@ThompsonSmith207]

Hello Lisa How are you doing today?

[@beng0327]

Grace and grit. What a wonderful balance of responsibility and of being carefree. She’s full of positivity, courage and a deep sense of adventure. She’s mastered the art of living to the fullest in every situation she found herself.

[@janetdamboise6225]

Boy I wish I could get to know her in person! She brought back so many memories for me! I also had an exciting life like she had. I got married young to a military man and went to Spain right after high school graduation in 1974. We left Spain and moved to Little Rock Air Force Base and then my husband got out of the military. It wasn't a good marriage so we ended up getting a divorce and left him in Texas where he was from. I went back home to Caribou, Maine which was not far from Loring Air Force Base where I met my husband. Well I did it again and met another military man and went to the same base in Spain which I really loved Spain so much hitch hiking and all! Again not a good marriage so when we left Spain 3 years later we went to San Antonio, Texas and I left him there. So all my ex's do live in Texas was made for me LOL!!! I've been happily married now for 25 years to a wonderful man and my best friend which grew up on the same road as I did in Caribou. We live in Laconia, NH now. I could tell so much more of my life which was very crazy but would really love to meet this lady in this video. Janet from NH

[@tripleyoker2049]

Janet Damboise those were the days my friend....glad it all worked out for you, tidings from Maine.

[@martaaltheide5146]

Janet Damboise Wow!! Her story and yours, amaze me too!! I am 64 and our stories are so similar!!! Email [e-mail] Am in NW San Antonio and would like to be pen pals ( remembering my old pen pals, ) via E-mail.

[@martaaltheide5146]

Janet Damboise Oops my name is Teresa called " Terry" my whole life.

[@martaaltheide5146]

Janet Damboise Julia Kreinest from Sanford Maine was my High School best friend. Have lost touch with her and do not Facebook Maybe one day she will find me.

[@TheDoggybag]

Greetings from Texas. I hope Mr. Hoffman can set you up for an interview real soon.

[@HisAmbassador7]

Lovely to hear a lovely story. I had 60 years of hell... Will tell one day.

[@Christine-xt8fr]

Why wait?

[@BoomBoom-xn7ud]

@ Lion of Judah: Do tell ~ !

[@kittycat1302]

I’d love to hear your story. I think it might help me personally.

[@RetrnRetrn]

Be proud that you survived it and hopefully thrived since then. Love and blessings to you❤️

[@patriciamccarter7081]

Retrn88 Retrn88 💕

[@lillianbowen7408]

Dear Lady, Thank you sharing. I love your story (which is far from ending). I am 5 yrs older than you so I can remember these times in your youth. You have such an open mind, humility , clever , adventurer and altruistic force within you. Your curious mind lead you to explore other cultures and lands. Many aspects of your story impress me, however choosing to study and travel to another country with another language is definitely what I envy most.I believe with your world view due to your travels and education choices led you to share this with a family of your own is demonstrating pure love as your higher power intended. There is no doubt you are a wonderful friend , Mother and teacher. You have inspired me to leave a narrative for my children and grandchildren (set the record straight as is said). Your video was recommended to me by KZbin . I often watch KZbin while I'm in the kitchen. Thank you again , God Bless You

[@kurdtacolbain731]

I enjoyed listening to her life story. The way her ex husband took advantage of her financially still happens today. I've been divorced 7 years and I'm still paying the debts my ex piled up behind my back during the marriage. Most people think the woman is the shopaholic, but it was him. He used my credit cards for online purchases and refinanced the house on a bad loan behind my back.

[@annarasmus8737]

Horrible 😱

[@Puppynutter123]

This is why everyone needs a prenuptial agreement, not to protect wealth, but to protect one from the other’s debt

[@MariaMarquez-gw6lf]

A friend of mine ended up paying her ex bills and credit cards opened in her name by him too. Besides putting their business on his brother name to leave her without any rights or ownership.

[@jonniehickson5599]

I filed for bankruptcy on me and my ex. I did not have to pay for his debt or mind. The only thing I was in debt was the house he let go in foreclosure. He however had leans on his paychecks for a very long time.

[@Puppynutter123]

@@jonniehickson5599 while I’m sure you a padding your own back, you are the ex, that most women refer to. Just because you feel entitled doesn’t make you so. Fair and just goes both ways.

[@sweettina2]

What a courageous, amazing woman! She's as beautiful as her story, I loved every minute.❤

[@zizimycat]

I love this woman. Such a sweet soul. I hope she enjoys her travels.

[@Lula_F]

Accidentally found this and I’m glad I watched it all the way through. What honesty and excellent recall. I’m about the same age. And of Hispanic heritage. Thank you and thank this strong woman with a great memory! Wonderful for family history and genealogy.

[@ThompsonSmith207]

Hello Lura How are you doing today?

[@kandygammie7242]

Please come back and share more of your story🙏. I spend $20 per week on the lottery. If I hit it I will pay to this interviewer to record, and share he rest of your story 🤓. Don't forget about us. Good luck in your travels 💗

[@rozcole8560]

David I saw the documentary you made of a very old ladies memories of a young woman ( who after a very long time ) ended up marrying her own son. It was very sad and it upset me as I felt the bigotry towards her. Such a senseless life and death !!

[@traceeteeter9875]

I saw that also!! So sad. But made worse judgmental neighbors.

[@BoomBoom-xn7ud]

I loved listening to her tell her story, she is awesome! Thanx for the video.

[@yolandekruger7048]

What a story ,what a life she's having ,the positive vibes is beeming from her! I loved it!

[@janetpressler7787]

I love this lady! I wish I had been more like her. My life would have been much happier!