TikTok Nurse Hannah Situation is Crazy

[@Show_Love_Serina]

Not a parent, but a former Nanny. If something you're doing would get a Care Giver fired, think twice.💯

[@aelwynwitch9460]

Former nanny as well. I keep saying this.

[@plursocks]

This is a good rule. Completely agree. I was also a nanny and was basically in charge of taking care of all of my cousins during family gatherings.

[@Show_Love_Serina]

@@plursocks Isn't it lovely when relatives expect free labor from us? XD

[@plursocks]

My brother and I would flinch around my dad and it made him lose his shit. "WHY ARE YOU FLINCHING AROUND ME?! I'VE NEVER HIT YOU! PEOPLE ARE GOING TO THINK I HIT YOU!" I didn't really have an answer for him. I read that you can flinch around a parent even if they've never hit you as long as they demonstrate intimidating behavior...and my father had anger management issues.

[@Crisjola]

@@plursocks i’m sure you’re (also, like me) one of those kids who’s heard someone angrily putting the dishes away. Even thinking about it now is making me flinch. Doesn’t help that once a dish got broken by being tossed at the ground and _even_ with vacuuming, I still ended up with a piece of plate in my heel the size of a pretty large house cat’s canine. And because my GP literally hates me (my ARNP is the best though and the reason why I’m getting my life back) he thought I just wanted more medications (I’m severely under medicated for my bone and nerve malformations but he thinks I’m lying which… is just a whole other barrel of ableism that my current doctors would like to punch him for. Especially my ortho who feels I’ve been neglected) he refused to do more than send in a new ARNP (who is now working with me and the best doc I could hope for). She came in hot with accusations of me wanting more meds in the middle of the month when I wanted an x-ray because I didn’t think everything had gotten out of my foot. It hadn’t. Got to the ER, and they managed to get that aforementioned cat tooth piece out even though the ceramic kept reflecting the ultrasound. Point is: when you’v heard a larger than you, and usually parental, figure be angry or simmering so they’re doing things that are quick to turn violent _around_ you, you flinch. I was never hit with a plate. Just one was smashed at my feet for me not appreciating what we owned (because I couldn’t walk? I don’t think there was a rational logical reason). And now? Years later? It’s been completely denied that the plate was ever thrown hard enough to shatter on carpet and the cats have been blamed. There are plenty of non physical ways that _never touch you_ that can make you flinch or shy away. Like in my case, when I do have meltdowns from overload, and I’m not allowed to go hide/calm down in a quiet dark, room, I… it just makes it all worse and I start shying away from that anger and fear of the “wisdom of the time.” Because _heaven_ forbid I shy away from being “slapped out of it” just because “it only happened a few times and I didn’t best you.” (But this same parent has said some outta pocket stuff like regretting I hadn’t been beaten so I listened better and fell in line and… yeah. Kids feel that anger and they fear that anger being directed at them. No child wants to leave a parent, because we’re evolutionary hard wired to get their help.) Best of luck healing! I’m glad we have this community here that Max has built. :) ❤️

[@dillchives]

My mom would mock me if i flinched like that and say, "what, did you think I was going to hit you?" And it's like, "YES!! You've actually done it dozens of times before!". But I couldn't say that because it would make her mad enough to actually do it again.

[@aelwynwitch9460]

Omg same! It's insane that they act like they don't hit us.

[@dillchives]

@aelwynwitch9460 Yeah, they feel justified in doing it, but don't like to admit how often it happens. But, you know, they're "doing their best". Which includes hittin' children.

[@AuDHDVee]

A lot of people freak out because i lock my son in his room at night. How did those words just fall so casually out of your mouth?!😮😭 This woman should not have children, jebus.

[@aelwynwitch9460]

Locking in if sleep walking is an issue is fine. But otherwise it's a massive fire hazard.

[@Mychannel67-wh4tc]

Flinching is an adrenaline rush. It’s instinctive, the little boy is hyper vigilant, children should feel safe & secure

[@larap483]

I don't understand why cps is not involved... they will fr not do anything until the child is no longer here

[@b.3277]

Shes a white lady, hope this helps.

[@Just-in-Space]

Usually social media figures (especially family vloogers) get lots of calls. This can be for real signs and not so real signs of child abuse or neglect but they (cps or cops) start to disregard information unless it’s coming from somebody with firsthand knowledge. But also this behavior often creates a higher barrier where they do not take firsthand knowledge as seriously because they get a lot of false alerts. (8 passengers for example!!) most often health checks are bare minimum check ins. ‼️ do not report internet figure unless you have first hand knowledge! Cps is already pretty rough. They understand the internet even less.

[@larap483]

@b.3277 you're right, my bad

[@Marlena-i5x]

Because nobody is actually calling CPS on her, they're just raging about it online

[@larap483]

@@Marlena-i5x I'd call it if I could but I don't actually live in the US so I don't think I can

[@cherrycobbler550]

I don't know if this is the case for her specifically, but that part where she lists "tithing" as an expense might indicate that she's a Mormon (bf is exmo). If so, that unfortunately explains a lot

[@brieanastraiton3665]

Good point. Still beyond fucked tho

[@jamiepender6667]

This is literally exactly what I just said!!!!

[@jamiepender6667]

It’s a cult and it breeds abuse.

[@lillmiss22]

Damn I missed that part but you're probably 💯 right. Sad they'll both give 10% of their incomes to the church but complain about buying a $35 coat and diapers. Makes no sense to me

[@elen5871]

sure does, speaking as an exmo who finally taught myself to stop flinching just before my 40th birthday

[@savageinkstudios2969]

Broooooo, my kid has peed, been changed, then immediately peed again, AND WE LITERALLY CHANGE IT AT THAT MOMENT. we have gone through three diapers in 15 minutes before. Hitting your kid is neanderthal behavior. It is not going to teach them anything but to resent you. If youre going to have kids, be an adult and use your grown up words to discipline your kids.

[@RobertZellers]

Also, literally never seen a chimp or gorilla hit their infants. They just hold the kid out and away till they're done. If they gotta pee again? Well, better hold them back out again. It's not hard, guys, our cousins can do it.

[@loisprew8820]

Who’s just randomly throwing dirty diapers around? And why? She just seems so angry. Then again, I’d hate having children. This is why I never had any. Childfree is an option that more people should take advantage of. Also, the Goodwill and Salvation Army have more affordable jacket options. And damn, change the diapers so your kids don’t get a bladder infection. Who wants to stay in a wet diaper?

[@5Demona5]

I really don't understand people who clearly don't like kids.... having them. I agree with you that Childfree IS an option more people should take. My husband and I are on the Childfree boat and we're very happy this way We know we don't want or like kids, so why bring them into this world?

[@loisprew8820]

@@5Demona5 I agree 💯

[@AuDHDVee]

@@loisprew8820 I absolutely agree. If what another commenter suggested is true, that she's LDS/Mormon; AFAB folks are raised to believe their entire purpose is to have as many kids as possible because they have to bring more Mormons into the world. It definitely seems like she resents having children and having to take care of them instead of just spending the money on herself, but if she's a true believer she would believe that she can't make it to the celestial kingdom without popping out as many kids as possible. It's truly frustrating to watch kids suffer because of religious beliefs, especially after my own religious trauma. (I grew up between the Pentecostal and the Southern Baptist churches myself and left the church entirely at 19 because it had become obvious to me that most of the people in these religions never even read half the Bible nor understood what any of it meant. Like yes, there's a ton of horrible stuff in there but Jesus' teachings were more in line with building community and taking care of each other. But it's been so twisted and corrupted at this point that they just cherry pick the scriptures they feel like backs up their individual behavior like abusing their kids or homo/Transmisia (hatred instead of phobia for fear).

[@AuDHDVee]

@@loisprew8820 and yeah the wet diaper thing boggled my mind. Like that's how you give your kids a UTI or bladder infection WTF are you doing Lady?????!

[@nicoleparreira1024]

The diaper thing has to be rage bait.

[@mi2lq933]

Never thought about this before, my mom used to tease me about flinching when she reached for me 😢

[@AuDHDVee]

@@mi2lq933 🫂🫂🫂

[@jamiepender6667]

That’s an abusive parent and I wish you all the healing vibes. You do not deserve abuse and it’s ok to set boundaries so no one can hurt you anymore.

[@Julie-si3hi]

That's awful. The child is scared ! As for the nappies...she threw or left shitty nappies around the home... gross,unsanitary and absolutely ridiculous that she even thought it was funny to record it! She's literally recording evidence for cps.

[@thegrimlooper]

You are very.. emotionally intelligent. Please keep posting. KZbin and the world is a better place with you in it.

[@space_cadetmk6125]

It's weird that people forget they don't actually have to broadcast any of this. Like, they can just not put out a real time narration of their terrible choices

[@nitemoth]

I don't flinch at damn near anything because I've been desensitized to it from the trauma.... BUT I still flinch if either "parent" tries to touch me, or gets too close.

[@Trinniemon]

All these parents who justify abise wouldnt dream of doing these "lil things" to a coworker, a random person another adult, EVER! They see their human babies as property! My sons father does this argument but cowards when confronted by another man about anything. Which is why we ahve a pfa and he has no custody! Stop justifying abuse! Edited for spelling errors!

[@saltydinonuggies1841]

💯 these cowards see children as nothing but objects. And when those objects don’t act the way the adult wants, they decide they get to do whatever they want to them. It’s disgusting. I’ve watched kids, including supposedly “difficult children,” and I never once had to raise a hand to them or yell at them. They listen to me because I treat them like people.

[@Trinniemon]

@@saltydinonuggies1841 EXACTLY! I've been asked before how do you get kids to listen to you without losing it? And it's because you treat& speak to them as the human beings they are. Not-mini adults, not their property, but human children. I don't know why this is so difficult for so many people to understand!!!

[@akelly4207]

I’ve looked after a lot of kids. Never wanted my own. But I can tell you that hitting your child is lazy parenting. All it does is teach the child that you parent through fear and intimidation. Even screaming at your child is useless. Parents who use these techniques are too lazy to learn to do it properly. They are taking anger and frustration out on someone more vulnerable. I wish people would really take birth control seriously and really think about whether they want to be a parent. Having kids just because you can is incredibly selfish.

[@TomCollins-i1o]

If the saying goes "once bitten, twice shy" then 100 times bitten, infinite anxiety. This lady is really using Tiktok to beg CPS to take her children away.

[@Brain_Kandi]

The videos of the dad flicking the food away from the baby too.... awful awful people... anyone who denys a baby food like that is evil... and you can't tell me otherwise. otherwise

[@Goatbreath37]

Why wait til the end of the day to throw out your diapies? Like... Just throw them away when you change its diaper, tf lmao. Its not that complicated

[@AuroraPaintBrush4444]

35$ for a "cold weather jacket/coat"? Thats good for a kid. I've seen 40-150$! I've seen a low incom parents use a "mummy bag, rates for negative degree sleeping bags to keep their children warm! Heck, you can be "smart/investing" by havinf yard/garage sales! Literally you can have 20 socks and a jacket bundled together, and make back the cost! Any parent will be willing to buy a 20 set socks and jacket for 40 bucks, at a yard sale.

[@Pixie_xx]

This woman gives me the same impression as the daddy of 5 parent; posting content because she finds it amusing to public humiliate, neglect and mentally abuse the children. Max, you sharing how you feel like you've gotten over it but your body hasn't, I and I'm sure many others here relate. Just pure evil and she knows better, as she is a nurse. I flinch when I'm given a coffee that I ordered because my body and brain's wiring will never forget the abuse. I'm soo sorry to you and anyone else who had to experience anything like this. No one should ever be treated like that. The strong response of criticism to this woman's "content" helps to know there are many happy children and beautiful parents out there in the world. I hope these children are given a chance to live in a loving home.

[@Crisjola]

@@Pixie_xx I forgot to post this since I didn’t want to double post (my post was about how/why cats might flinch vs dogs, and that dogs usually always flinch if they’ve been hit. A cat with perhaps cringe their whiskers back because their face is basically a giant radar system if you’re moving a toy too fast, or will let you just crash their toy into their face because it’s not disrupting air currents. Dogs don’t play via face smacks like cats do, so they have almost no context for being smacked. Until they are smacked). But there’s a book Max reminded me of and your post reminded me of which I really need to read which is “The Body Keeps Score” and how physical and emotional trauma is reflected in our bodies even if we push through it and make it out alive.

[@Pixie_xx]

@Crisjola Thank you soo much for your comment 😊 That's soo interesting, I never thought of the comparison of cats and dogs in that way before. I have an adopted rescue cat. She's reacts to almost everything, poor thing. She's like a mirror of me and soothing her helps my triggers. Thank you for the book recommendation. I have heard of it before and am still reading it. I thought to share some books that have been recomened to me in therapy because you so lovely shared Max's recommendation (I haven't read them yet). A Boy Who was Raised by Dogs (content warning, it's about one of the authors childhood abuse and how abuse impacts children's developing brains). A book I think might be helpful for viewers of this channel, specifically within the subject of estranged parents is: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents. And a book I absolutely love, Man's Search for Meaning.

[@whims6278]

Her explanation of the dad and son constantly "playing" and scaring "eachother" is concerning. That just sounds like the dad terrorizing the son. I have a 7yo and 7mo and when I or their dad run up to them they giggle and run into us, not flinch. She's just so dismissive and its concerning

[@Spagettigeist]

Yeah, if it were a game the kid would look and react differently. Seeing the kid giggle is a huge indicator that they see it as a game. Another good sign that my two little monsters show is that they switch roles and play the monster themselves so that I have to run away from them. We sometimes have a quite a bit of a back and forth, it's fun.

[@validark]

My little brother (9) enjoys it when i chase him "threatening" to kiss or hug him its a huge game for him and he loves making me chase him

[@amandakorbe3773]

On a happier note, our club of Estranged Adult Children has one more member!! The golden child in my family reached out to me this week and asked to know everything that happened to us as kids. I told him things that he didn't know. He told me a couple of things I was too young to know-- like how my parents knew that my oldest brother was SA'ing me at 2yo. We had a GREAT talk, and all of this is because he left religion, got a therapist, and realized that our mother is a narcissist. Miracles do happen! Now, he has joined me in the Estranged Adult Child Club!!

[@thegrimlooper]

i got 2 kids and suffered a lot due to medical problems and neglect, and honestly.. its one thing to have like 2 diapers where the kids cant get it, then you have a trash can and/or a plastic bag near you to AT LEAST keep it contained, at least. BUT ON THE FUCKING TABLE? Behind the couch????? I

[@5Demona5]

4:35 I left my phone on the table for a moment and just listening and when I looked at how she was HOLDING THE BABY!!!! I jumped scared. YOU DON'T DO THAT! I don't like babies, I don't like holding them, but for fcks sake I will hold em properly!!!

[@Brain_Kandi]

These people need to be on a watch list... and this hurts to watch... my parents did that to me too ...😢

[@AuDHDVee]

You're absolutely right. This is absolutely horrifying behavior, and her calling herself a nurse is going to legitimize the toxic nonsense she's spreading. I really hope you're on the road to healing now, fellow survivor 🫶

[@k1tties12]

Literally just saw someone respond to a video where they’re out for dinner in a restaurant and that poor baby is sitting at the table, near tears with a camera in his face while mom and dad stuff their faces and he can’t touch anything. I just. As someone in healthcare rn there’s so many awful nurses and the idea that this woman is being paid to look after…. What. Who? Is she a pediatric nurse? Does she have access to more children? Is she working in a nursing home? Are her patients elderly and physically unable to clean themselves? I have so many concerns BEYOND what she’s proud to post because if this is behavior she’s comfortable showing the world and it’s how she treats her own child…. This absolutely carries over to whatever patients she is put in charge of.

[@AndreJNick1]

It wasn't just my parents that beat me but all the other people living with us too and it's had a really weird consequence. I have an extremely high pain tolerance, but I am still deathly afraid of pain

[@thegrimlooper]

IMO, as a depression sufferer for most of my life---- I get trying to relate. But this is laziness. I cant with you Hannah

[@who818]

..... of course she's anti-vax. Save that baby

[@yolandaponkers1581]

I would bet she’s making at least six figures with all of her content. I have seen moms work two full time fast food jobs going without meals of their own to get their kids winter clothes. They will actually go hungry before they let their kids feel cold.

[@0The_Farlander0]

How hard was it to just throw the diapers in the trash when the baby gets changed. What is even happening

[@minnarosenqvistmr]

I had bad depression after two of my kids, i have three, and i never had dirty diapers,or even a dirty home! There's no excuses.. I'm sorry . But your kids should be your priority,first!!!

[@SarahBent]

Im a "realistic" mom and my kids are well out of diapers. Sometimes, i would have 1 diaper if baby fell asleep straight after. 17 is insane.

[@nastycrafter4640]

She's wearing a jacket. Why isn't that jacket on the baby? I think most moms would flay their own skins off to keep the baby warm.

[@nocause5395]

Is she a nurse? Then she must absolutely understand the importance of cleanliness.

[@savageinkstudios2969]

If something comes at my kids face fast he giggles XD he assosciates it with play pillow fights. Also, i work full time, and you will not find a single dirty diaper just hanging arpund my house. He gets changed, it goes in the trash. Man i just have to keep coming back with the edits. The coat?? Im the sole breadwinner for a family of three, we are lower middle class and i soent at least $250 on coats and jackets for him this season. You know what i dont have? Manicured nails, salon treated hair, expensive clothes or jewelry. F her. Seriously.

[@haleyspence]

"The high school bully to nurse pipeline" bit hit me so hard today I almost died laughing. There's a nurse I went to HS with who would absolutely gone down the mean-girl to nurse pipeline,, but we were in marching band together and she dubbed everybody who played flute with her to be under her wing and that included me.. She is/was also 0% like this woman. Like not at all

[@z.s.7992]

behind the couch? Im a pretty tidy guy....I literally would throw away the diaper in a small waste basket that had a bag in it?

[@brieanastraiton3665]

The kirkland sweatshirt is spot on bro! This whole situation is so fucked. I wasnt abused as a child but i had a close friend who was. She flinched at everything even as an adult. I also worked in ecfe with kids who had behavioral issues ages 0-6. Many times we had to involve cps. I never hesitated. As a mom, that clip hurts my heart. As a human being who knows what to look for, this makes me furious! IT ISNT NORMAL!!

[@lpstigerlily8506]

She’s definitely one of those parents who is only cheap when it comes to her kids. She said that she doesn’t spend $20 on her own clothes, so she wouldn’t spend that much on her kid’s clothes either, but she’s spending a crap ton of money on take out. She just doesn’t like her kids

[@BunnyQueen97]

I think her entire brand is click bait, but I HAVE met people this crazy.

[@murta]

Yeah seems like acting to me!

[@Trinniemon]

@@BunnyQueen97 I hope so! If this is the new tiktok grift, I'll take that over actual abusing these babies! But I also know so many people who think like this lady in real life, the father of my child being one of them. We had to get a PFA and luckily I was able to obtain full & sole custody. We all need to stop justifying this shit!

[@lostaname64]

Devil's advocate here: how would her acting explain the flinching of her son? Because even if she did fake, for example, the diapers vid, then she can still be neglectful for not noticing something about her child's well being. Such a strong reflex does not spontaniously appear in a vacuum.

[@emilyk6510]

That wouldn’t explain the way her you g children act

[@murta]

@@BunnyQueen97 I think the kids reactions to that were real, but when she realised how much money she could make from the outrage, she leaned into it. Obviously could be wrong, maybe it's just cos she's rehearsing what she's saying it seems acted

[@MorellaDeville]

Shes says all the nappies are from a 24 hour period, but in another video she says she doesnt change her kid for every wee. So she is lying. Those nappies are so wet. She obviously isnt changing her kid every 90 mins just in case.

[@yolandaponkers1581]

People really don’t think of kids as human beings and I think that’s a big reason corporal punishment (ab*se) happens. The reality is that there is literally no reason and no excuse to lay hands on your child when they do something wrong.

[@dannabanana52]

17 dirty diapers! I had 3 in diapers at the same time and we threw them out to the outside trash once or twice daily, but in the meantime there was a big trash bin in the garage by the outside door as far away as the house as possible, used as a holding area. Not inside the house! We also change the litter and scoop dog doo daily. Gross.

[@jewdy8915]

How is she making 17 diapers with two kids in one day when she only changes them if they poop. Those kids are pooping 8 times a day each?

[@dannabanana52]

@@jewdy8915 good point

[@jewdy8915]

@@dannabanana52 I don’t know anything about babies, but 8 poos a day seems like a problem.

[@RJBrightstar]

I’m in my 50s I still startle easy and flinch because I was severely abused as a child. I recognized that response as soon as I seen that video. It breaks my heart. I really hope someone in her state intervenes to protect those babies. Too many people out there un alive their children. This isn’t okay

[@haleyspence]

I did the flinch test on my toddlers, double terrible two trouble, and neither of them flinched. They laughed at me. One thought I was gearing up for tickles and like rolled over like a puppy. (Babies = Puppies cannot change my mind.) And then I called my youngest son a dickhead while chasing him around the living room because he had the baby-powder and was trying to make a mess lmao. It just slipped out like, "broseph! Stop being a dickhead and give me back the thing!" and yoinked it from him while my daughter giggled maniacally. I have no room to @ her with the diapers, 15 is a f'in lot to not have just drive-by threw away at some point during the day, but like I too will often just f'ing forget for a couple hours.

[@blazeycakes93]

Okay I have ADHD and I thought I was gonna be on her side about the diapers but no. What happens with me is that I’ll change my baby, and if she starts crying because she’s hungry or if we’re late for nap time then my brain just turns off the thought of the diaper once she’s clean and I pick her up and tend to her. However, I’ll literally walk away and come back like a few minutes later and throw it away because I see it.

[@ellyk8834]

How much did that dye job cost? I bet it was more then the $35 jacket.

[@whims6278]

I was thinking "this lady's hair is different in every video! That's hundreds of dollars!" And idk if she has friends or family but we have gotten like 70% of our kids jackets as hand-me-downs (sometimes several a year!) and then we get super cute ones at Marshall's for like $20!

[@hieithefox]

I worked at a summer camp and we had infants there and we had to change the even in the woods we had trash cans and everything was tossed in them immediately in your house there is no excuse to not have a bin in every room

[@Truffle85]

I'm not a parent, and I know things have gone up in price, but I don't think I had a single jacket growing up that cost over $20. And I've lived in the Great North all my life. We shopped second hand and garage sales a lot. Usually my parents could guess when someone was growing out of a jacket, so they did shop ahead. I do flinch sometimes at unexpected people, but it's less out of fear and more 'oh, didn't see you there'.

[@SarahBent]

Things have 100% gone up but second hand for the under 12 crowd is still alive.

[@jewdy8915]

Every spring all the winter gear goes on sale at my Costco for $5-$10. The kids’ stuff is usually a system of coats with a hat. I’m sure it’s like that at other places like Walmart. If I had kids, I’d buy them new winter stuff in the spring in a larger size at $5, especially for the oldest/biggest kid. You know they will need it, so why not be smart about stuff like that? There is no reason to not have coats that fit your kids before it gets cold.

[@RobertZellers]

Yeah... there are some women who think being a nurse makes them smarter than everyone else. It's the same phenomena we see with "business" people or certain academics who shall not be named.

[@witchsistah]

5:00 This is why not everyone should contribute to the potluck. Okay, sis resents her entire life and is taking it out on her kids.

[@laughingwaters8309]

You just put the dirty diapersin a plastic bag and take it right out. Wet ones can just go in a diaper pail because they don't smell. Then you take them out when you have 5 or so.

[@evil_katil]

Like the diapers is not normal and this is how plague spreads... nor is the heavy flinch. I really wish there were parenting classes required for all new parents as this is mighty foul.

[@bcpr9812]

I'm sorry, but... she's a nurse??

[@TheMirandaCowles]

The flinching 💔 The diaper thing....just disgusting. I didn't have a diaper pail either, and we lived on the second floor so I would put them in a bag and take them out to the dumpster while she was sleeping. How bad that house must smell.

[@katecrosby7890]

I always get so psyched when I find out you have a new video 🙌

[@AuroraPaintBrush4444]

On the diapers part: Top tier, all diapers all in the "diaper" trash can 2nd place: "diaper trash can" and random trash can, and trash bags, travel diaper bags. 3rd place: all in the bathroom. All others No!!!!!!!!!!!!! No!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@AvaEFF]

Think about how often you pee vs poop and then think about wearing a diaper with all of your pee from the day and only getting to change it when you poop. This woman needs to be in jail.

[@nickit7655]

I’ve only ever seen her nursing videos. I’m not a nurse but I’ve seen some of the comments saying that she’s not doing things correctly and taking shortcuts

[@sadiefalco4673]

As a a parent… not sure an out this lady but they actually recommended hou don’t use a coat on a child in a car seat. But it’s so hard to wrap a big blanket around them without it falling off on the way to the car.

[@stacyfakename]

I worry that the toddler would get into the diapers and make an even bigger mess or lick something they shouldn't.

[@5Demona5]

10:27 my coworker's 5 year old loves to play fight with the boss's 8 year old grandson. Neither of them flinch at each other's hands. And food? Those 2 kids suddenly have 6 "aunts" in the company telling em to "eat all the food your mommy made you"

[@umetnica82]

How is it so hard to put a diaper in the trash? How do you live like that? Gross… I had PPD and could put the diapers in the trash, I mean…

[@DelphineTheWorstBladeEver]

I didn't know you people ever got off tiktok to exist anywhere else. I'm not a mom, but I already know everyone handles babies differently. Diapers all over isn't a big deal if they're breastfeeding. And even if they weren't, things can be cleaned. She wasn't living in trash. I'm sure you have some kind of habit that others would judge and think is disgusting. The child's life wasn't in danger. And didn't she have twins? Regardless. Someone isn't a bad parent or worse than you in any sort of way, just because they leave diapers around. I'm sure they eventually made it to the trash, like the rest of her garbage did. But they are trash for making their child flinch by slowly handing them something.

[@umetnica82]

@ No, sorry. You absolutely have enough time in a day not to accumulate 17 (!) diapers sitting around the house.

[@umetnica82]

@@DelphineTheWorstBladeEver no, sorry. You absolutely have enough time in a day not to accumulate 17 (!) diapers sitting around the house. Put them in the trash. Don’ be lazy. Don’t be gross 😒

[@hiddenhand6973]

I have seven children, and I’ve never left diapers on the floor.

[@minnarosenqvistmr]

I've been married for 22yrs,to an amazing man,and i still flinch, and my husband has never hurt me.. so it tells a lot 😢

[@Crisjola]

I am less than a minute in, but I just did this with all of my cats. The only time they shut their eyes and put their ears from direct up was if it was my hand coming to pet them. I know, in the feline world, why this happens: they have a radar/sonar dish equivalent strapped to their face. Each whisker, and all of their ear hair that is on the inside part of their ear, gives them feedback, from vibrations, to the way air currents move. So if I have say, something I don’t normally pet them with like a stuffed animal and I’m not going for a nose boop (which I try very hard to avoid all whiskers so they’re comfortable) they just let me either crash it into their fuzzy little heads, or if I move it fast to make it seem like it might crash with more force by air current movement, they might flick their whisker back around their mouths and squint (they will also willingly go lay in front of a fan that clearly is just air currents so some of them are weird). If I go to pet them I don’t ever go face on, I go above because I intent do pet their forehead and on back. Even _charging cables_ which, depending on the state of my cables when they were little, they either got gently tingle-zapped by sticking their wet nose in it, because I don’t want them to actually fry themselves by chewing through one, or I used the smaller (so not the big USB-A) end of the cable to gently rap them on the skull. Even after that they will not flinch or recoil an hour later, if the cord is presented to them. The reason why some cats (especially ones not socialized to be smothered in kisses) will cringe away and put their front feet on someone’s face when it gets close is because we have big faces! They’re little things. Dogs, however, are usually more likely to be smacked by human, I’ve noticed, and unless they’ve been smacked (we’ve all seen the cat videoed of cats whacking each other in the face they have context) a dog isn’t going to think it will be if you quickly move something toward them. I had/family had a rescue dog who I had to take my shoes off in the other room because the sound of shoes hitting the floor would make her flinch and then wiggle her huge husky sized body under the coffee table. We worked with her three years, and slowly I was able to kick off my shoes on the couch. There was a traditional phase where I’d not realize she was on under my feet laying along the couch’s walk way and occasionally kicked my shoes off and they’d land next to, or on, her butt, and she’d still get spooked. This is always a sign of bad things what the little boy is doing. Heck, I finch myself, not because I was beaten (I wasn’t) but I’m autistic and used to have really bad meltdowns (because I was being repeatedly SA so my “overstimulation” meter was basically maxed) and for a while the “going wisdom” was to slap/hit children/teens into “snapping out of it.” Which as anyone can tell you, either makes the meltdown worse, because a safe person became unsafe as well as adding more sensory overloaded information, or the kid fights back because the meltdown goes into fight mode. So someone male or female, looking like they might slap or hit me on the shoulder or back for almost any reason, will make me flinch. Going to finish the video now.

[@louhortonsculpture]

17 very soggy and definitely poopy diapers is much worse than we all thought. We all thought it was a bunch of regular diapers- like just one less in it- not all full diapers!

[@jlrc3991]

That baby doesn't feel safe. That's exactly why he's doing that & and it's very concerning.

[@hiddenhand6973]

She could’ve easily ordered those jackets online

[@_Amanda_Lynn]

She pulled the chair out from under her son and then said he fell like he just randomly fell. I can even see this evil look on her face as she pulls it out. The woman has issues! She also said she didn't have time for him crying after like it was his fault

[@stacyfakename]

I was writing a comment about the jacket but WHAT change your kid's diaper! UTIs and dermatitis/diaper rash city up in that house 🥴

[@matthewfranklin2137]

I react so poorly to being jump scared that I once stabbed my brother w the fork I was taking to the dishes bc I was so used to my mom just punching me unprompted. I stabbed him in the face too. My siblings are a decade younger than me and sometimes I walk past them and flick them , and they just go “Hey!!” And then flick me back while laughing. Bc they know I won’t retaliate. Because I’m grown adult and they are 13.

[@slsm9355]

there's other uploads where she brags about not changing wet diapers. I'm very concerned about the entire situation.

[@jamiepender6667]

She’s Ruby Franke 2.0

[@Sang-Je]

The lady doesn't deserve to have or take care of kids.

[@shelbyhuseman1220]

I treat my dogs better, my chihuahua wears multiple layers in the winter. She gets a new coat EVERY SINGLE YEAR. My Aussie loves winter and doesn’t need a coat, but she has boots when the ground is too cold or hot for her paw pads

[@chelletic6787]

Who the hell leaves nappies on a coffee table 🤢 why not bit it as soon as you change it ??? Gross 🤮

[@Show_Love_Serina]

If y'all check out the post she made addressing all this, it screams cry for help. 🚩🚩🚩

[@AvaEFF]

Can you link?

[@lady_boar]

my parents never hit me, but they would yell and scream at each other and sometimes us. I cant stand loud noises/scream etc, I get spooked and jump when the toaster goes off. I could never have kids cause my house has to be a safe, calm space for me to thrive in.

[@RadCenter]

I shudder to think of the "care" this "nurse" is giving to the patients she is supposed to be helping.

[@RadCenter]

The whole diaper thing is puzzling. It would literally take her less time to manage the dirty diapers if they were disposed of immediately in a limited number of containers than to have to roam around the whole house searching for them. The whole "I'm so busy" excuse is completely bogus.

[@hiddenmistninja111]

$600 for TITHING. TITHING. Her financial responsibilities are skewed. $600-$35 and you have a winter coat. Poor kid.

[@jokerquest3413]

I have bad filing for this baby 😢 JUSUS PROTECT HIM

[@minnarosenqvistmr]

OH MY GOD,I GOT SO ANGRY AT THE COAT THING!! i used to wear to small or too big clothes, that were horrific, just so my kids had the best clothes everytime! I hate this.. They suck as parents. Someone call cps... I mean it!!! I've been beaten,and i had to eat soap even as a kid, and I've never hit my kids or punished them psychically, or mentally! Kids understand when you talk to them, with respect and calmness! Your child will always be afraid of you, if you hurt them! Those kids will turn on those parents,and then will exhibit the behavior the parents do.. i feel so bad for those kids 😢 omg, i feel so awful...😢

[@ephraimjohnson8146]

Woah. Here so early it's wild

[@leiliabug5240]

Gosh, this Hannah lady is so sick in the head. :(

[@DorisJuenger]

That's so weird, I stumbled across another YT channel where they showed a video of her saying, she doesn't change her kids diaper if they only peed, bc it would be too expensive. I wonder where all those poo diapers come from within such a short time frame then... it just never adds up what these family vlogs try to present... it's such a load of BS.

[@DorisJuenger]

Oh awesome, you actually have that video in here, too 😂

[@Kandei-Kain]

Wow... learned something about myself today, I'm very well into my adultness, I'm probably 2/3rds the way through my lifespan... The other day my partner went to do something, I don't even remember, he was probably putting something on the bed or picking something up to throw it away and I full on flinched like backed up, put my hands in front of my face, backed into the wall (I was laying down so I just kinda rolled to make space and hit the wall) and he was like "I'm not going to hit you"... I was like... well logically I know that, but you moved fast near my face and it scared me and I can't explain why. He doesn't hurt me on purpose, I'm delicate and he's a large man, so yes he's bruised me and hurt me but it's always an accident like he's falling and reaches out for me and I'm reaching for him and we miss and his nail hits my arm and I bruise kinda thing. I feel like this kid and that's horrifying knowing what I've been through...

[@mimi-yt7gq]

Leaving a dirty diaper laying around your house is just like leaving dog poop or pee on the floor. You should clean it up it has poop or and pee in it. YUCK! I had a home daycare when my 3 kids where little and I never left a diaper laying around for later clean up. I did not have a pail or diaper Genie I had only a trash can in my kitchen. Yes I would change 2-6 at once but I threw them away as soon as I was done along with the gloves I used to change each child. I had 3 in diapers and would change in different places and never left them laying around even at 2-6 am feeds and changes I threw them away.

[@angel467]

It’s a toddler ,baby ,a grown man is hitting 😢😢😮

[@ket1507]

Take this with a grain of salt, as it's been a while, but when I was studying for a social work degree (in Australia) I read an article/section in a text book about cultural differences re: supporting a baby's head and neck. Apparently this isn't common practice in Indigenous Australian cultures, and that studies showed there were no adverse effects (provided, you know, you're still being careful not to bash the kid's head into something or move them quickly/aggressively). I think it mentioned there being some benefits, such as the baby being able to support its own head and control head movements earlier developmentally, as well? If I can find the article I'll edit or reply with a link or title/author. It's absolutely not a cultural difference in this case, but here in Aus it's led to some really awful assumptions about abuse/neglect in families due to racism/white ethnocentrism, and wanted to drop that info here in case it makes a difference at some point for someone 😅

[@elen5871]

yo i love that hoodie

[@esemusic8294]

Social services, police, asap. Disgusting people.

[@tashakayrivera8930]

I was with ya until your comment about vaccines. Many of us have been injured by them which is why we now question them!

[@murta]

At a quick glance, lots of it looks like fake/rage bait 🤷🏼

[@lindamiles2220]

Sir there’s one now where she’s eating and not feeding him

[@Maximmmino]

I'm just now getting to most of the comments and so many people have said this it's mortifying I checked tik tok and someone found her address and reported her to cps so hopefully something happens

[@brieanastraiton3665]

Ok so is it just like reflex to post the worst shit wo thinking about what it looks like for younger adults? Im 39. I lived and have memories of life pre internet and smart phones. So dont have that irresistible drive to post everything in my life. In fact, i rarely use social media. KZbin is my socials lol. But its definitely something im seeing more and more frequently. Ppl just shit posting the worst parts of themselves and dont question it at all. Really glad all i had was MySpace and fb when i was in my 20s actin a fool.

[@YaKuB_fool]

I don’t know if the kid has been abused but this mob mentality on the internet without actually proof is not good at all especially if she’s innocent, this moral policing on the internet is a cancer and it ruins people’s life, if someone really thinks someone is guilty they should call the authorities or equivalent but not post videos and TikToks condemning them without proof

[@80023375]

I was curious, so i tried it on my daughter (almost 2) and she put her face in my hand and cuddled ❤