thank you for these tips. helped ease my anxiety leaving my girl while I'm at work :)
@ThatCatMommy2 жыл бұрын
Awwww. Yay. I am so glad.
@ichatwithcats11 күн бұрын
I worked from home for a long time and now I have to go in one day a week. My cat does not take being left alone very well. He will meow loudly calling out for me. I don't know if the cameras are a good thing as it makes me feel worse when I see him sad and lonely. He's an older gentleman so I'm not too concerned about him getting into trouble but if there was something I could do to make him feel less lonely and anxious about being on his own that would be great.
@ThatCatMommy7 күн бұрын
Try leaving something that smells like you where he loves to sleep. Also, get him some toys or special treats for when you leave. Only bring them out when you leave. We have our cats trained so well now they get excited when we are going to leave because they know it will be special treat time. It will take a little bit but once he understands you will come back the crying will stop I promise. It's like a mom dropping her kid off at daycare for the first time. They will cry but over time will get better. Sending you love as all kitties have the saddest meows ever! I know it is hard.
@hananelgayar98513 жыл бұрын
My husband and I have long working hours and our cat is only three month old and i feel so guilty for leaving her alone
@ThatCatMommy3 жыл бұрын
Awwww. One of the best things to do is get your baby some toys to play with just when you are gone. That will give them something to look forward to. Also, get the cameras so you can check in on them. That will give you peace of mind.
@redraven35658 ай бұрын
Im thinking of getting kitten my self but i also like going out in day for couple hours of course when younge i wouldn't but when older i would still like to go out from couple hours but at same time i would feel really guilty leaving cat for couple hours is because i like to go for nature walk and little drive then i settle for evening im also autistic so i can get very anxious
@ThatCatMommy8 ай бұрын
Why not take kitty with you? We have backpacks and strollers for ours so they can go with us outside. I have ADHD and my little ones bring me so much comfort. Definitely think about it but just know kittens are super playful and full of energy. But talking them with you on walks would help with that.
@redraven35658 ай бұрын
@@ThatCatMommy thank you so much for replying a lot people said I shouldn't do that because stress cat out but I'm like it would be my furry babies I would want to take my cat to my boyfriends and adventure I get very anxious with animals I have pets little ones but at same time they help me I think jut having reassurance helps
@ThatCatMommy8 ай бұрын
@@redraven3565 So that might be more true with older cats who have never been outside. With older cats, you would have to see if they liked it or not but with kittens you can train them so it is normal for them. Just make sure to get a good backpack. I recommend this one. kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y3vVqnd8bKehaJY
@redraven35658 ай бұрын
@@ThatCatMommy thank you so much I really appreciate your advice and I have subscribed to you I love your vibe and your personality and love your videos
@ThatCatMommy8 ай бұрын
@@redraven3565 Awww thanks.
@correiaalicia93337 ай бұрын
Hello, My house has 4 floors, and I don’t know if I shoul let my kitten free around the house, or in only one room because of the stairs. There are these stairs protection for babies and pets but my mom doesn’t want these in every stairs.
@ThatCatMommy7 ай бұрын
Start small in one place and gradually open up other areas. Make sure they are comfortable and know where the litter box is before moving on to another area. Usually, they will let you know when they are ready. It is when they start trying to get out of wherever they are and want to start exploring other areas. Also with multiple floors, you need litter boxes on all of them if possible. ❤
@iamtaher18342 жыл бұрын
If I leave my kitten alone for 8 hours ? Is it okay? For remaining 16 hours I will be with her...
@ThatCatMommy2 жыл бұрын
She should be as long as you have kitten-proofed your home or the room she is going to be in. Here is a video that will help with that: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kGbFamBrnsRgidk Just know she might be a little sad that you are gone and need to play when you do get home to get out some of that kitten energy. :)
@lindagardner7062 жыл бұрын
I have to leave my 8 year old cat for about 5 days. Do you think it's okay ? I'm a bit nervous. I have a water foundation for him.
@ThatCatMommy2 жыл бұрын
Just make sure to follow the tips in this video and have someone to check in on your cat every day to change the litter box and feed your kitty. :) I would also recommend getting a camera so you can look in on your kitty anytime you want to.
@lindagardner7062 жыл бұрын
@@ThatCatMommy problem is I just moved here and don't trust or know anyone good enough to have them come into my home
@ThatCatMommy2 жыл бұрын
@@lindagardner706 I ask at my vet's office. Lots of times some of the people who work at the vet have a pet sitting side hustle. One of the vet techs at my vet is who watches our kitties. It makes me feel better to know someone who knows my cats and could access their records is pet-sitting my babies. You could also go with a pet sitting service and if you get the cameras you will be able to see what they do. :)
@GAMEBUDZ2 жыл бұрын
Good tips. I left a 5 month alone today. First day. Lol I am at work!
@ThatCatMommy2 жыл бұрын
Definitely get a camera so you can watch them on your break. I love looking in on mine. ❤️
@GAMEBUDZ2 жыл бұрын
@@ThatCatMommy The wife said the same thing. Will speaking with them through the camera calm their nerves? She is small but not a baby. I hope she does well.
@ThatCatMommy2 жыл бұрын
@@GAMEBUDZ I am sure she will be ready to see you. Expect a excited kitty that is ready to run and play. ❤️
@psblossom Жыл бұрын
I m watching without having one
@ThatCatMommy Жыл бұрын
Awwww. Thanks for watching. ❤️❤️❤️
@alfitrieabdulmunap6741 Жыл бұрын
Thank you maam, this help me soo much
@ThatCatMommy Жыл бұрын
You are super welcome.
@markhoredits2 жыл бұрын
I'm worried because I'm thinking of getting a kitten but I go outside with my family and the house is empty on weekends. Can you tell me what to do?
@ThatCatMommy2 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't recommend leaving a kitten for the weekend. 😥 You could either pay a pet sitter to stay with it or you could teach it to be a travel cat and take it with you. That is what we are doing with our little ones. That way we can just take them with us. Hope that helps. ❤
@markhoredits2 жыл бұрын
@@ThatCatMommy I was thinking of making it adapt to come with us, is it possible if you can make a tutorial about that? Once more, thank you so much!
@ThatCatMommy2 жыл бұрын
@@markhoredits Sure. :)
@markhoredits2 жыл бұрын
@@ThatCatMommy thank you!
@nadiaabdulhadi92603 жыл бұрын
Thaaaaank u so much!!
@ThatCatMommy3 жыл бұрын
You are super welcome.
@raphaellavictoria012 жыл бұрын
Good tip re" the bathing suit top, never would have thoughht they can strangle themselves with things like that
@ThatCatMommy2 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@Yassmine_Amelia Жыл бұрын
Hey I have a huge issue, so I'm 15 and live with my VERY strict parents, we are travelling for one week and my dad said there was NO way we're gonna be taking my cat with us, and even worst, my mom jumped in and was like, '' I'm not leaving a cat in my house for an entire week, what if he gets poop on him and spreads it all over the house!! We're gonna lock him in the bathroom and put food in there '' And I was like "mom that's ridiculous", and she started yelling at me, I'm very upset that my cat has to stay for an entire week locked in a small bathroom, and I'm scared he will run out of food or water, and I personally struggle with depression and my worst nightmare it's my cat getting depressed, and I'm afraid he'll think that we abandoned him and he will probably get really depressed and feel trapped inside of the bathroom. Please I need advice on how to convince my parents to take him with us or at least let him free inside of the house. Or maybe just some tips
@ThatCatMommy Жыл бұрын
Oh no I am so sorry. Hopefully, you can sit down and talk with your parents and work something out. Maybe ask if the cat could stay in your room or tell them you would be willing to clean up any mess the cat left behind if they allowed it to stay in the whole house. Also maybe you could have a relative or someone the family trust come over and check on the house and the cat while you were gone. They could change the litter box and make sure the cat has food and clean water. Sending you good vibes and well wishes for you and your kitty. ❤️
@IndigoCosmic9 ай бұрын
OMG how was the cat?
@shefaleejadhav40882 жыл бұрын
my cat is 3 months can i leave alone when i go to office
@ThatCatMommy2 жыл бұрын
As long as you have kitten proofed your home or the room the kitten will be left in you should be ok. Here is another video that will help kzbin.info/www/bejne/kGbFamBrnsRgidk :)
@yasminetouti21782 жыл бұрын
My kitten is 2months old and i have school 7hours a day is it ok
@ThatCatMommy2 жыл бұрын
You should be fine. Just make sure to kitten proof your home and make sure the kitten has plenty of things to keep it entertained.
@Queenkitty963 жыл бұрын
New fear unlocked
@ThatCatMommy3 жыл бұрын
:( Oh no! I don't want you to be fearful. Get the cameras that will make you feel better.
@mnz92143 жыл бұрын
I have a 4 month old kitten. But nowadays I have to go back to my mom's house as she's no longer strong enough to take care of herself. I can't bring my kitten along (kitten will be at my 1 bedroom apartment). Do you think he will cope? Behaviour wise, needs, etc? I'm really worried):
@ThatCatMommy3 жыл бұрын
I am sure the kitty will miss you but as long as you spend some time with him/her daily it should be ok for a little while. However little kittens need lots of attention and without you there to entertain them they may destroy stuff. I would definitely get a camera to watch him/her as that will for sure make you feel better.
@mnz92143 жыл бұрын
@@ThatCatMommy thank you so much
@ThatCatMommy3 жыл бұрын
@@mnz9214 Anytime.
@mnz92143 жыл бұрын
@@ThatCatMommy how many times a day should I drop by though?
@ThatCatMommy3 жыл бұрын
@@mnz9214 I would try for at least 2 but for sure 1 time. Make sure to change the litter box, feed, and play with him/her when you are there. :)
@Straluxire3 жыл бұрын
Hi there. I need to ask. Is it okay for me to leave my kitten in my bedroom the whole day with all the necessities? She's alone and quite active. 🤣
@ThatCatMommy3 жыл бұрын
That would depend on the size of the room, room set up, and the kitty. If your kitty is super active it would need to run and climb to burn that out or it could end up messing something up in your room. Defiantly get a camera so you can see how the kitty reacts and make adjustments where you need to.
@erikkison2 жыл бұрын
My kitten gets bored and wants to run away sometimes.
@ThatCatMommy2 жыл бұрын
Awwww. :( Maybe try to get it a few new toys. If money is an issue you can make a lot of things yourself for cheap. I have one video on a DIY puzzle feeder here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rXvYaIqhgNGig8k
@nadiaabdulhadi92603 жыл бұрын
I will leave my cat alone for 14 days and i don't wanna to put her in a pet boarding
@ThatCatMommy3 жыл бұрын
Ok. Just make sure you get a pet sitter or friend to take care of your baby. If you need a pet sitter I have a website you can check out to find someone. Just let me know.
@genesismillion2 жыл бұрын
@@ThatCatMommy what is the website?
@ThatCatMommy2 жыл бұрын
@@genesismillion My website is thatcatmommy.com/
@um.78172 жыл бұрын
I have a question please someone answer, I have school everyday for 5 hours my cat is 6month old and I got her two days ago, and I leave her in one room is it ok?:(
@ThatCatMommy2 жыл бұрын
Just be prepared with water, food a litter box, and toys for her. Also, make sure to play with her before and after school and let her out to explore the house when you get home. She should be just fine just make sure to remove anything she might get hung up on or chew like cords. :)
@itsgabbella56542 жыл бұрын
My cat won't let me go he thought I'm his mom 😭💢
@ThatCatMommy2 жыл бұрын
Teach him to be a backpack cat and take him with you. :)