Tips for picking cute non binary names!

[@Miss_Lexisaurus]

Totally sent this to my non-binary BFF! Love these tips, thank you.

[@AWylde]

Glad to hear it, more to come!

[@wormonastring8472]

@transwomen are sexist men if you really mean what your name says, why are you on this video?

[@chaainsawman]

@@wormonastring8472 DANGGG

[@Bixter23]

I'm a 21 year old named Esther, this is discrimination. 😂

[@AWylde]

No offense 😅😅😅😂

[@silly_goofy_human]

My younger friend is named Esther 😂

[@the_5th_night]

In Sweden, Ester is really comon for girls born in the 2010s. So when I hear the name Ester I think of a little child who likes crayons. Or I think of someone who’s really jewish.

[@mikiavidan508]

In the UK Esther is very common in the ultra orthodox Jewish community 😂

[@ryn2844]

Since about a year ago my name is Ryn. I followed exactly none of these tips haha, but I'm very happy with my pick, and other people have also only had positive comments about it :) My tip is experiment with DnD character names. See how it feels to be called by that name by the people you know in-game. You can do this before coming out, even.

[@AWylde]

What a cool idea! For those who do role playing games that would be such an excellent way to test out names. Thanks for the helpful addition!

[@brynjames3779]

Also if you like those sorts of fantasy sounding names, check out some names from Ireland, Scotland and Wales! Some Welsh ones I love are Celyn, Carwyn, Morgan and Morwen

[@queerparadox8328]

That is so incredibly smart and I will 100% be doing that in the future.

[@raineveeraine]

Hey Ryn, my name (I think) is Raine and yours kinda made me feel reassured because they sound similar :)

[@romanhill263]

I just started trying out a new name so it's feels like such a coincidence to see this! I'm nervous to use my new name publicly so if anyone else is in the same boat, try asking just your closest people to use it to see how you like it or sign off journal entries with your new name for even more privacy 😊

[@AWylde]

I love the journal entries tip!! I’ve got a video coming soon about trying on your new name 🥰 Glad you’ve found a name you like!

[@todorokisfavouriteobject9109]

I love this idea! I feel awkward about all the names I like such as Zayne or Aaron but I keep finding cute names that I just really like such as Kai. I quite like Kai ngl.

[@Adriancatdad]

I can't tell you how happy I'm seeing that notification, it's great to have you back 💘💘💘💘

[@AWylde]

I suspect I’ll be making content on and off throughout my life, but when it feels good and fun to me, I’m really happy to be able to share things that help others!

[@robynisgonee]

At first my name was Rawan, which is a feminine name in Arabic. I've changed my name to Riley which means courageous as I am now a non-binary. Your video legit helped me so much 🤠👍

[@timterrimoriartygradine3329]

A. I was never more honored than when my trans kid chose the name they would have been named if assigned another gender at birth ❤️. Thank you for your messages!!!

[@AWylde]

That’s a huge deal, you must really be a supportive and loving parent for them to feel honored by a name you’d have chosen for them. Best wishes 💛

[@viological]

for me i took 3 letters that sounded pleasing wrote letters like v, z, x, i, l, k, k. i picked vowels like e, i, o, u. and shoved them together and now my name is vio :)

[@SlugcatEmporium]

What's up: I scheduled the consult for my next GCS, finally! I don't like my name but I don't feel like any *other* names speak to me.. that's a tough spot.

[@AWylde]

I was there for a realllllyyy long time. In fact, I didn’t even ~dislike~ my name, I just felt neutral about it. And then eventually I decided I deserved more than feeling neutral about something that I had to hear and see every day. But it’s really up to each person, and what is going to make them feel okay. It’s okay to keep an ear to the ground for the right name, and to be comfortable with the fact that it might not come.

[@SlugcatEmporium]

@@AWylde Thank you so much, maybe neutral is a better word to describe how I feel. The thought "I deserve more than feeling neutral" is one I'm going to keep in mind moving forward. 🖤 to you!

[@Justaguyiguess]

Same

[@nehalittlepony]

That's how I feel...

[@the_black_swan2983]

Yup...i have a deadname but no new name so thats fun 😀

[@Abyssal2808]

I'm between Nova, Mist, and Storm. I was born with a rare feminine name, and I grew an attachment to it because it resonated with me and being powerful, but I have been growing weaker between it.

[@phillysteak-t5v]

My deadname is Annie. My name is Cassidy now! Do you all like it?

[@ikan_rasanya_enak]

OMFG I love that name it’s so pretty 🥰

[@andysartz]

I missed you and your videos! They have helped me a lot in the process of discovering my gender identity. I feel like this one is going to help a lot of people, too. Thank you!

[@AWylde]

Thank you, Andy!

[@isaacavalcanti4882]

My name is Isabela, and although it's a gendered name in my country (and most countries as well) to me, my nickname (Bela) sounds neutral enough because it's me and I feel so neutral. I don't know how to explain, but that's how I feel about it, and that's why I don't feel like changing it

[@AWylde]

That’s perfectly wonderful! The most important thing is that you feel the way you want to feel about it.

[@rayoliver760]

Oh thank you so much for this video! I love the Ester reference too! After accepting you are non-binary/gender fluid it is so fun to pick out names for yourself! Although the hard part after that is narrowing them down though.

[@purpledaydreamer9682]

I am so excited about these videos to come :D timing couldn't be better

[@goliathh.]

im currently going by a few names! finn, knives, shrooms and frisk :)

[@randomundertalefan7041]

Hmmm.... where have I heard the name frisk before... Oh yes! I’m a omega undertale fan!

[@goliathh.]

@@randomundertalefan7041 lmao yesss i love undertale :D

[@LoafCatNG]

@@goliathh. same

[@thatchaotichuman6140]

Shy non binary tamiki

[@peachy__pg]

i loved this video and i can’t wait for the next one, so good to see you again.

[@AWylde]

Thank you!

[@AdrianJade]

I'm happy to have found my own knew name. Idk if you remember AbiROAR from back in the day. But my nombinary self chose the name Ashton. I've been using it exclusively for almost 2 years now. It feels so good! Love this video! I did many of these things to find my name. The thesaurus idea is brilliant! I hadn't thought about that. Great stuff!

[@amaru8882]

si son latinoamericanes pueden buscar nombres típicos de sus culturas prehispánicas

[@Ariel_Kiki]

Me encanta ❤

[@svevabloomsbury9549]

Ashley, you are much more effective than a therapist! thank you for coming back🙏🙏🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@xuanwod6166]

2:18 in my list of names I made one of them is Asia

[@thattypicalomni9738]

I might go by jazz or something sax related because it’s kinda what I’m known for at my school and when you hear jazz you think saxophone

[@zee1010]

welcome back and great video!

[@randomyoutubeshorts1868]

Is alex considered a gender neutral name?

[@TheWizardEmu]

This video really helped me! Thank you! ^^

[@AWylde]

I’m so glad to hear it :) More videos on this topic coming soon!

[@musicluffler]

YOU'RE BACK!!!!!! Ahhhhhhh~ Missed you!!

[@aBbY-im4uo]

Im non binary and I’ve known this since I was 10 ( I’m 14 now) and I’m not out to my family and most of my friends, they are all calling me by my birth name and I really want to change it so me and my gender fluid friend are trying to come up with names for me and I found one I really like ( the name is Kai )and they have been using that name when referring to me and it makes me so so happy. And i am planning to come out to my family soon and I’m so scared. And I’m worried they will not except me and they won’t let me change my name. my profile name is actually my birth name but I have it written like that because it’s kind of in a mocking way. And also so my parents don’t find out before I am ready to tell them.

[@Stevonniewolf3113]

I am a bisexual nonbinary and my preferred name is Stevonnie Addison Wolf.

[@shroomie_2263]

something i’ve been doing for finding a name that fits me is first finding names i like on various baby name websites and then using different names for all my more private social media accounts!! it’s really easy and it works for me as it’s comeplete strangers :))

[@april_showers15]

Masc names: Kennie, Fin, Alex, Max, Gabriel, Joshua, Britton, Emmett, Grayson, John, Ollie, Xavier, Tyler, Zach, Theo, Leo, Liam, Kole, Lewis, Rio, George, Jake, Isaac, Clint, Noah, Josh, Edwin, Blake, Crew, eddy, Sylvester, Simon, luke, Aiden, dennis, caden, ryley, keegan, mark, thomas (or Tommy for short) willy, fred, Isaiah, kenneth, amir, parker, Dylan, Ben, Shawn, benton, •Gender neutral names: Taylor, Carry, Clyde, Psy, Flint, Jamie, eden, • Fem names: Callie, Mackenzie, Jocelyn, Sally, Kennedy, Susie, Diana, Nicole, Lillyana, Aspen, Abbi, Kyra, Ceylin, Celeste, Izzy, Amy, Charlotte, Lucie, Sandy, Rose, Daisy, Emery, Natalie, Ellie, Sky, Lilly, Quinn, Saphira, Hannah, paisley, kirsten, (you can change the spellings of them) I hope this helps! (Me, haven't even figured out my own name yet)

[@pixurumaa]

thanks for these tips! i think i will end up going with the name coda, which is the term for the concluding section of a music piece. music means a lot to me, and the name koda means "little bear" and "friend" which i love both of those meanings.

[@estheraltamirano1174]

My birth name is Esther and a friend came out with this nickname "THERO" because it is more gender neutral. They are so sweet, although I'm not sure if it suits me.

[@AWylde]

Love that!

[@hungry_frog8235]

I wish I had watched this before deciding my name, Sammie! These tips were so great and I can’t wait to share them with my Non Binary BFFs!

[@los3r426]

Wait Sammie is such a good name i have my eye on Charles or Charlie but Charles is a gendered name in my country but I really like it

[@lolymop333]

I had a few names I considered, but ultimately decided against in relation to what my parents were going to name me and centered around my birth name. They just didn't fit me. And my parents would pick on me too much for Pacen (I pace all the time), so that's a no go no matter how many times they joke they should have named me Pacen. I ultimately decided on Morning Cyannide, which sounds crazy, but hear me out. 1. I go by whatever shortened version people wanna call me (Morning, Cyannide, Cyann, Morning Cyann, Morn, MC, Cy, Cya, Mor, Morn Cy, Mo, etc.). 2. Both have significance and I like them together and I like them both and didn't want to choose. 3. Cyannide actually comes from my middle name given at birth, which is Cyann. The reason I went with Cyannide and not just Cyann is because my dad got the name Cyann upon seeing the word cyanide, which I think is cool. So anytime I told anyone I was Cyann, it came with the story of how I was named after cyanide, because I felt it was an important part of the name and I think it's cool. Thus, I thought, why not go all the way so I don't have to tell the story all the time? I kept the extra N, because that was also an important part of the name. 4. Morning comes from sort of the self-insert character/persona I created for myself in daydreams and lucid dreams when I was, like, 10. There's lots of complicated lore around it, but Morning was more of a title gained through my accomplishments, abilities, an personality in the world I had created than a name. My true name in this world was, wouldn't you know it, Cyann. So I was Morning Cyann. Now, how titles and names work in that universe is that you would publicly go by your title and share your name with those you were close to. One of my best friends at the time and now one of my QPPs ended up joining in on my fictional adventures in this alternate reality, and so I've technically been going by Morning Cyann with him sice I was 12 (I'll be 22 in June). It is important to not that in this "realm", I was a magical shapeshifting light dragon elemental thing from a genderless society where everyone was asexual and arospec (I'm apothi aroace agender). It should also be noted that a lot of people are confused about it because I'm a night owl, but that's actually another contributing factor to the name because that meant that I was in this other world in the morning most often. As such, I felt like this persona is and was a reflection of who I wanted to be and who I deep down knew I was. When I was Morning Cyann was the only time I could truly be myself, and I'm ready to be myself outside of just my head. On top of that, mornings represent new beginnings. So I just felt it was a significant part of my identity. 5. I feel like the name Morning Cyannide is pretty androgynous. 6. In professional situations, I tend to either stick to Morning or Cyann, especially since I live in a conservative state. 7. I like that people are able to come up with unique things to call me.

[@Jacie_sings]

I’m thinking of going by either Asher or Ezra but idk which one suits meee

[@plutocafe4377]

These tips were so so helpful, thank you sm!

[@AWylde]

Thank you, I’m glad you liked it!

[@plutocafe4377]

@@AWylde you’re welcome >

[@SillyStringStars]

So my birth name is Sam. I know it's already for all genders, there is something about me being called by the name that sends shivers down my spine. Asking for advice on either accepting my name or replacing it.

[@rocks-and-sticks]

If your name makes you uncomfortable then changing it could be good. You should do what makes you feel happy and genuine to yourself.

[@gingerninja5542]

I chose to go by Maverick...

[@lemondrop6469]

Thank you so much by using the tips you gave me I think I found a name that I’m finally happy with 😊

[@matildacaiman3894]

Im Choosing Lotus because I love it and its a bad ass name and a bad ass beautiful flower and completly opposite sounding of my original name

[@andreayanezlopez9577]

So nice to meet you again!

[@craigisalive]

When I was born my parents said "Oh she's a girl! so we can call her Nora!". Well, I'm not a girl, I'm non binary, so... I changed to Noah, becuase why not? I really like my new name :]

[@flintfoster8010]

I think I'm gonna go by Flint 💁

[@AWylde]

Love it 👊🏽

[@brody1216]

The James Taylor album in the background 😍

[@AWylde]

Oh I LOVE James Taylor don’t even get me started

[@willow8826]

how can i tell someone my nb name comfortably

[@cass_sorrel]

Welcome back! ^______^

[@yasmingracea5524]

My first name is Yasmin... not only is it very feminine, it's also the name of a birth control pill! Lol

[@semechkimcblyat9777]

Your mother should have taken that pill way sooner.

[@yes-ov9gz]

wtf!???! what did she even do to you. shut up. maybe your mom should have taken that pill.

[@yasmingracea5524]

@@semechkimcblyat9777 hahahaha what a big strong man you are!! Big boy got triggered and posted a big mean comment for a complete stranger 😂 I love it

[@riverchampeimont]

Interesting advice! Thank you!

[@Helloknight]

Tip from a person who already chose their name: Name yourself after a fictional character. One with a human name. I legit named myself percy after percy jackson

[@emilyganguly277]

ASHLEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Welcome back!

[@AWylde]

Thank you!! I am going by Atlas now 🥰

[@neoptlemus]

Do you thing the name Neo is a good unisex name for me?

[@SilentSong123]

I'm finally able to choose a name myself one that I like instead of one forced on me. I always hated my name. But every time I think I've landed on one I keep changing my mind..

[@quincyhethey6220]

Originally (before I realized how masculine I lean) I used the name Quinn. Now I use Quincy but most people still use Quinn or Quinc, which is fine! They’re less formal, y’know. When picking my middle name, though, I wanted to have Lyn/Lynn be a part of it because it’s a name that’s run in my family. However it’s only been used for females so I wanted something different, more me. I went with a German name (because I’m part German) that means gentle! These are great tips and I’ll be sharing this with my younger sibling if/when they decide they want to change their name!!

[@DovelyVeil]

Hello, i am a trans guy and rn, i am going with the name Mew, which i connect to in so many ways, example: my old cat was called Miez and i translated that into the english language and got mew. One of My favorite pokemon is called mew and i just relate this name to some adjectives i like. Tho, many people see it as a Fem name, but i see at as a gender neutral name

[@vikyipee001]

0:33 nah,I thought of a cis teenage boy who has a pink hoodie and blonde hair ._.

[@AWylde]

Lmao nature is healing

[@Usernamee619]

Opinions on the name Celeste?

[@annabelle228]

i think i might be genderfluid and i am looking for a nickname for my birth name, annabelle, that is more neutral. i don’t want to stray too far from the name. any ideas?

[@AWylde]

Off the top of my heads, Anders, Andi, AB, Bells

[@annabelle228]

thanks for the suggestions!

[@moremorerie54]

I’m not sure if your still reading comments, but I need some help. Is Vivian too feminine to be my new name? I heard that it used to be a boys name, then unisex, then almost exclusively female (which reminded me of genderfluid, my gender). I’m afab so I feel like I shouldn’t change my name to something else “girly”.

[@iluvlittenanimations2.010]

Honestly in my opinion, if you like the name go for it!

[@nnhzyy]

What is a good gender neutral name for “Natalie” ?

[@rocks-and-sticks]

Nate maybe?

[@achookangaroo]

My legal name is Emily, but I HATE how feminine it is. I’ve been going by E online because it’s easier, but I don’t feel called to any other names. It’s also hard because I’m an academic so my name is already on research publications. So I “need” (want to) stick with E as an initial. I’ve been considering changing my middle name and going by that though. Any recs much appreciated! I’m GNC and seeking something that honors that.

[@AWylde]

Video with names alphabetized in coming in the next two weeks! I actually have TWO videos with lists of names coming so stay tuned :)

[@acc45460]

"Elliott" is a genderneutral name with "E". I think "Eden" is considered neutral too, I'm not sure on that one though. I know someone who just goes by "Em", like the first syllable of "Emily".

[@strawbziemilly]

My name I chose was rai, at first I was gonna choose Kai or rain but I was almost done typing in rain and I went with rai

[@omaimaiscool]

Haha, I am a demigirl and I mostly identify as non-binary and realized I am not comfortable with my current very feminine name, Omaima, so I like to be called Sky now! It's different from my old name but I like it a lot. Thank you so much!

[@enbybunny6827]

I just named myself a character from a book I was writing and then shortened it to a more gender-neutral + easier to say name so it's Kiyo now...

[@jesseferret2334]

Wow I didn't think I wouldve needed this video. I've already chosen my preferred name as Jesse but I'm open to suggestions

[@Eyeywiwueyvdhhd]

1:32 I’m adopted lmao 🤣

[@markobagara8791]

I can't really choose between Lou and Kris, someone mind helping me out? Maybe suggest some other name I might like. Thank you

[@AWylde]

Personally I lean toward less common names, so I like Lou! That’s my 2 cents :)

[@parkerburr9556]

i'm debating changing my name to wren/ren/ryn! i'm a demi girl so i wanted something somewhat feminine but still gender neutral :)

[@summerdodson5493]

Is star good?

[@drippedoutbeanz158]

I am so glad this worked out for everyone! Oh what you wanna know about me? Oh I haven't had any luck yet and am kinda starting to give up after everyone says a feminine name suits me more even though that is the last thing I want- the point of me changing my name is so I won't have something linking me to my birth gender- but ig no one sees me as a they/them just a she/her 😔

[@lupin-the-wildog3191]

I've wanted to change my name to bee not sure your thaughts?

[@angeldomino9359]

I’ve already picked a name but I’m still watching this lmao-

[@darthjarjarbinks2480]

I was named Filip over a arcade game breh

[@count-countess8464]

i want to name myself count contessa (first name count first middle name contessa second middle name and last name) cause not only am i genderfluid it is part of my original name and i am goth. when i told my mom she said it hurt her that i would want to change my name and that it isnt even a name and that im just giving myself a title however she is the one who named me contessa and i pointed that out to her and she repeated it saying contessa is a name count is not then when i wanted to drop it cause she started screaming at me that i would regret it. she told my dad as i told her not to yet. i had thought keeping my original name in my name would be enough. and shes wondering why im the one crying when she should be. idk im just here cause i dont know what to do. she said she wouldnt help me or call me by any other name. i really dont know what to do. she said she was fine with me being genderfluid although she mentions my afab ness a lot and i never pushed it for years. this was the first time i pushed it. and while im in my 20s i am living with them to help them since there disabled

[@Slumber392]

I actually get scared when I say my non-binary name when ever adults ask me because I’m scared they’ll get angry at me and tell me to use the name I was born with so I go by “Mai” or my real name even though I don’t want to please tell me what to do when it happens 💜🖤💛🥺

[@summerdodson5493]

My birthname is summer

[@rmeows5087]

I’m making my name Ren…? Something like that. Here’s the names I’m deciding between: Ren Wren Ryn Rin

[@Kixtii]

I love Ren and Ryn!

[@cxpid_royalhigh8943]

Mines now “Blair” :>

[@carolinajimenez7116]

There was a point where i literally wanted to name myself Arson

[@lina-.-4087]

eduard -no thanksss 💀

[@graphi-t1949]

2:06

[@trafficconepossum3186]

My friends name is moth and they are adorableeeeeee

[@los3r426]

My name is more feminine since it has a feminine ending but I really like charlie and charles but they are gendered in my county

[@kiahmadison8541]

I picked my name because I hated my old ones. I have chosen them because they are unisex and I liked the meanings plus I got to honour my favourite fictional characters and favourite singer - their names are hidden in my name.

[@DeGenderZender]

i have a feeling that this non-binary names serie might end in us finding out what the A in A. Wylde stands for 👀

[@AWylde]

I like to make videos that can help others, not center my own experience! But it’s no secret, I just haven’t needed to do a public announcement. You can call me Atlas :)

[@DeGenderZender]

@@AWylde Ah okay 👍🏻 Should have known from the example I guess 😅

[@KameronSkye]

Yeah I like the second tip cause my name is Kim and I'm fine with that name but I'm genderfluid so when I feel more like a guy I like going by Kam short for Kameron (possibly will go by Kameron in the future) instead of Kim

[@AWylde]

Kam with a K is so cute!! And I love how Kameron is is a riff off of a name that can be gender neutral

[@acxdblzz]

[ helpp :((( ] I have no clue how to find out my name bc one minute i like it then the next i dont and it really frustrates me bc i want to be my true self but i dont feel like myself without having a name

[@Lonely_Raven_666]

I know it's annoying right! Personally I think I found what I like as a name so maybe I can help. You can ask people around you what name suits you You can find a meaning you really love and care about You can write letters you like and try to form a name, maybe not even a "real" one, one of my friends found "Rayden" like that. In your childhood did you used to use a different name to refer to you ? Some trans people did (not all obviously) That's all I can think for now...good luck

[@acxdblzz]

@@Lonely_Raven_666 this means a lot and it really helps thanks!

[@isabelyoung3760]

thank u this help me alot

[@emmahowes6642]

My name was Emma and I have chosen Emmet. To me it seems androgynous, both slightly feminine and slightly masculine which is perfect for me. It also rhymes with "ribbit" and yup I like frogs cos my favourite colour is green. I think cute and goofy are words that describe me well so Emmet feels perfect :)

[@Creeping_Cryptid]

I'm a Bigender ( biological fem ) and my name is Morgan, which is a gender neutral name already and some people call me Mor

[@cooki3gurlz5]

Yeah my dad wanted to name me “different” because his name is “same”

[@Thatonebeekeepervr]

My name is Kayden and I might make it Kai or Kay. Idk yet though. I’m still not sure if I even am nonbinary or not. I’m just confused.

[@rebekahl840]

I came out with my new name very quickly after I found a name. My name is Raphaël, and people call me Raph or Raphie, because the R makes it so I can put my initial and then my last name on stuff, because I'm not out to my fam. But I've been looking at names for my agender friend, because they want a new name but dont know what to pick, and I've become more and more attached to the name Alex. I also saw a thing that said : going by multiple names is ok. Which made me think, I need to evaulate the name I have given myself, does it reflect everything I want it to, and try and pick a good name for my nb self

[@cowboylikemartin]

this is exactly what i needed

[@levihackerman8670]

My name is Ayana but I usually just call myself Ayi.. more gender neutral since my name is a feminine Japanese name

[@isaacavalcanti4882]

Ive missed you and your videossssss

[@AWylde]

I hope you’ll like the ones I am posting this month!

[@isaacavalcanti4882]

@@AWylde I most certainly will!!! Have an awesome week!!! 🌺🌺🌺

[@familliefornitz8727]

Ive resently found out im agender and im trying to finde a name i like more then my corrent name, but my contry has strikt naming roles, so im struggaling. Corrently im thinking of eather Mio, which is spanish and Passerine, which is the name of a bird type and i don't know if you can be named passerine. So im in a bit of a stuggel rn T~T

[@viological]

im picking between Dominic or B R E A D idk at this point

[@RosheenQuynh]

I really wish Róisín-Quynh was gender neutral because I LOVE it but both are feminine names... Which I guess is fine since I still identify as female but I wouldn't be able to find enby names that mean what I want them to mean... which is probably why I like Rose. It's feminine sounding but people still assume I'm male online LOL

[@hoppop8521]

Hey, I’m not non binary but I really hate my old name, I actually got my new name FROM this video (Esther) it just sounds so majestic to me

[@siennaxbshshshw]

i got my name from rue form euphoria haha