Tips On Being More Feminine

[@Golden4k_ash]

Finally a realistic video about femininity. I feel like a lot of videos on here just encourage you to change everything about yourself (primarily to attract a man). But you can be feminine and have an edge. I want to be more feminine but keep my edge.

[@OctaviaB]

Same here !!!! I’m Definitely not your typical feminine female I am very goofy and sassy at times and have a little bit if you know something extra to me and I definitely do not want to let that go.

[@Golden4k_ash]

@KASHMAER I have some tattoos. I think there’s a way to have tattoos but keeping it cute and simple

[@indeeditiscirro]

What do you mean by edge?

[@Golden4k_ash]

@@indeeditiscirro spice, sass, etc. not to the point where it’s unappealing but helps form your individuality

[@madisonwhyte976]

@KASHMAER Your comment wasn’t needed and unnecessary. Nobody cares about your opinion.

[@iChristianGurl]

Loved! 💕 Here are the tips: 1. Hygiene 🧖‍♀️ 2. Wear quality fitted clothes 🧥 3. Self-care 💅 4. Posture 🧍🏽‍♀️ 5. Less is more (minimalist) 🌱 6. Welcoming/Feminine Body Language 😃

[@heyyou3525]

Thanks 😊

[@ShamyraC]

I just need to throw out 80% of my closet & start over.... I’ll be 26 but dress like I’m in college lol I’m also really cheap & refuse to spend $30 for a shirt. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@heavennbound3352]

This is my problem too lol we can do it 😂😂

[@OctaviaB]

Girl I feel you but the older I got - I learned QUALITY OVER QUANTITY . Just buy 3 good shirts and you’ll be okay

[@arkesha2009]

Lol, I’m pretty much like Octavia. I’ve invested in clothes and I purchase cute coats to mix and match. Also, use accessories like scarves, cute hats to make things pop.

[@ShamyraC]

Life Coaching 365 yes!!!! I work from home too!!! We technically don’t NEED to get dressed up. But I think I’ll take Octavias advice and buy maybe 3 good shirts and 2 good jeans lol 💕

[@solarlola5953]

Me too I need new clothes but very reluctant to throw out some clothes

[@bettinaorevil5056]

My tip: Go to the thrift store, ladies. You will find beautiful fabric clothes, excellent quality, yes it's not NEW. But it's from people changing clothes by the season, so the garments will be frugal. At ross $20, but thrift will be less than $6. Be Smart! For the hygiene section, if you don't have sensitive skin, buy the generic brand but buy quality brands to wash your perineal area. Shop at Macys for formal dress events.

[@MiaBella07]

One way to wear loose clothing that’s feminine is paying attention to color such as blush tones, proper tailoring, and fabric (silk, velvet). I think the most feminine outfit is a midi length skirt and loose silk blouse with polished makeup and delicate jewelry. Great video! 💕

[@OctaviaB]

Great tips ❤️

[@Oceanlinx]

Proper tailoring is so important.

[@10qoal]

Thanks for this comment! It definitely gave me some ideas for myself.

[@10qoal]

How many pieces of skirts and blouses should one own? I'm just wondering how much clothes I should have.

[@bananaclara]

thanks for this video, i was born in a predominantly male household and ive been struggling to find my feminine side, i just watched another video and the girl said "be more submissive to men" and i was like nuh uh girl

[@svenskaela1234561]

Same I grew up with my dad and brother so I never had any female influence and lately I have been in love with people like Marilyn and Dita Von Tease. I wish I am able to be so alluring but also intelligent and strong since I think my masculinity and dominant aura will never dissappear but I want my feminine side to also be strong and find a perfect middle ground for me.

[@Naomi-pj8le]

Girl I love you, I found this channel, and my whole personality and style changed for the better. I dress more feminine, I do the bare minimum but it still looks like I put effort into it, I start budgeting for self care. I have a whole new wardrobe. THANKS!

[@OctaviaB]

Omg that’s amazing ❤️

[@clairec4305]

I also started budgeting for self-care. I got a lot of my help from the "Femininity & Finance" channel

[@thisgurl1123]

I love how octavia is so consistent

[@OctaviaB]

Aww I’m happy you guys appreciate it ❤️

[@mahgelaperez695]

Wear your confidence every day. That’s the best way

[@ShayBlossom]

When you mentioned about posture I sat up straight right away lol

[@michelinerebecca5082]

🤣🤣🤣

[@OctaviaB]

Lmao 😂

[@kenyaSaunders]

😂

[@kenyaSaunders]

Me too lol

[@yassiryassin5337]

LMAO hhahhaha

[@becky15707]

One thing that draw me to you is that you ain’t over the top , lip smacking trying and trying be ghetto to be relatable, you are simple and put together hair makeup your personality is refreshing, I feel most fashion videos here is constantly replayed the fashion nova tacky haul , always excess lashes over provocative clothing is all why some women are lost in their looks .

[@OctaviaB]

I feel you on this

[@maried5486]

preach!!!

[@dearsimone1928]

Agreed✊🏽

[@yernmoma5]

This comment is very racist and gross

[@heatherhussler6709]

@@yernmoma5 It isn't racist. I'm black and don't find this racist. "Ghetto" is NOT exclusive to black people and the only reason you'd find this comment racist, is if you think being ghetto is some how associated with blackness.

[@lillyhosie1093]

A tip with wearing loose clothes would be if you wear a loose top try and wear tight bottoms and then the same if you are wearing loose bottoms where a tighter top :)

[@SimplyAlethia13]

Do the financial and budgeting video next!

[@gabriellas]

the only youtuber i've found that treats women like... human beings when giving tips like these. instant subscribe!

[@lutadoramaculele2025]

Right...some of other people's videos made me want to throw up😒

[@raheal9254]

Definitely agree with you on not agreeing with some of the tips on some feminine videos. & sometimes I feel like the videos literally just say oh do this so a man can like you more but tapping into one’s femininity and feminine aura is much more than getting a guy’s attention. Chic as always, love ya💖

[@OctaviaB]

Thank you so much 😊

[@clairec4305]

Girl I feel you. That's why I stick to Chrissie and the Femininity & Finance channel. They focus on way more than just landing a man.

[@GabxCaroline]

Aesthetically pleasing AF! Love from the Caribbean

[@OctaviaB]

🇯🇲🇯🇲❤️❤️❤️

[@c_brownlove87]

I knew it, just the way you pronounce your words. Love the message.

[@dantoinettem6825]

@@OctaviaB 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

[@CeleneDiedrick]

Fr

[@failaezenwa4110]

@KASHMAER why are you spamming?

[@maried5486]

I love your french manicure. It's a fresh take on the original one. Did you ask her to do the white slant? I agree with you. I was confused about the femininity thing. It seems like a lot of KZbinrs are using this as their platform. However, after reading some comments, I now understand that it does not come easy for some ladies. They were either not taught by their Moms (or Grandmas) or if they were feminine they were being preyed on but lecherous men. Hence they had to act hard. My Mom and Grandma were super feminine. For example, when they purchased perfume, they had to buy the shower gel, body cream all in the same scent. They were into self care, skin care, makeup, hair, so naturally my sister and I are the same.

[@OctaviaB]

Yes - I told her to slant it , for a fresher take . And yes after research I realized that a lot women /girls just weren’t raised this way

[@ramia184]

I subscribed to tour channel because your look is very clean. It's not overly done , it's done just right and That's my go to as well.

[@OctaviaB]

Thank you ❤️

[@jonnetamkweji8179]

Me too I just scrolling and see your channel, she look beautiful and clean that's why I subscribe, I can't stop watching you

[@ninawestlake5005]

I love loose and comfy clothing. However, i never do loose on loose. I balance it out. Hygiene is totally my thing. Grooming is what makes everything look better on anybody. I watch my diet. I try to eat grean as much as possible, maintain good posture and try to stay positive. You look great btw. New subbie!😚

[@sg3109]

Feminine Tips 💅🏽Hygiene/smell good/look clean 💅🏽 wear clothes that fit your body 💅🏽self care routine 💅🏽good posture 💅🏽Less is more 💅🏽body language/mannerisms

[@Brwngrly]

& this is something I’ve learned/still learning to do. I had both parents in my life but they were divorced so for years i saw my mom do things on her own such as (washing the car, mowing the grass, working hard as hell nearly 7 days a week) etc.. so growing up seeing her have that independence has made me grow into a independent woman until now I don’t know when to turn things a loose and let a man handle it. I have such this fixed way of thinking of “nah i got it”. I’m currently trying to work on more ways of being more feminine and just letting go. I love this video!! 💖

[@cortneeluxx]

Hey sis! Thx for the vid! 🤗 Let’s do a “less is more” vid: outfits, jewelry, hair, nails different categories to help us over the top kinda girls! Lol

[@ultralight5493]

Cortnee Luxx right 😂

[@OctaviaB]

Lol I gotchu - great idea ! A LESS IS MORE SERIES ❤️

[@cortneeluxx]

Octavia B yess definitely! It’ll be cute! Thx for the reply🥰

[@satoyaspencer2215]

Your energy is so relaxing and you’re beautiful. 🇯🇲🌻

[@OctaviaB]

Thank you so much 🇯🇲❤️

[@njai8714]

anyone else watching how to be feminine videos with an ugly pjs on and bag of chips

[@kizzyrock]

🤣🤣🤣😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@faithful31us]

Lol

[@JennA1]

hahahaha I laughed so hard because I can totally relate

[@Manolochoos21]

im sitting here with my robe on, 6 1/2 months pregnant with a bag of salt and vinegar chips wondering how the hell to be more like how I was before I was pregnant! People use to ask me how to be feminine and now im asking KZbin!!! I CANT FIT MY NIGHTIES! 😂😂😂😂 My husband "you are so sexy though!" yea right! In these undies that goes over the bump and a sports bra??? 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@njai8714]

@@Manolochoos21 hahaha! don't be so hard on yourself, you're carrying a soul and a baby inside and that's so lovely and powerful

[@shackeriabrown2378]

Listen sis keep doing you, your influence is definitely what the world needs.

[@skylarh.singer3205]

honestly i came to this video bc i was questioning myself and my taste in things and i came across those girly girl videos with rules created by boomers. thank you for actually giving a genuine video with good advice instead of saying wear all pink to be seen as more feminine.

[@OctaviaB]

You are welcome !

[@pesalemagaonakgang6067]

almost 50k Girl we have grown ...

[@OctaviaB]

We sure have !

[@lativoluxury]

Exactly what I’ve been looking for I’m trying to do a lifestyle change and I have a toddler daughter. We do Girly things but I wanna rid my bad habits for her and my bf.

[@yayadrew]

If u choose to wear loose or baggy clothing make sure you have on makeup and your hair is done.

[@eternal.faith408]

@KASHMAER Why are you yelling your poor generalizations like people want to hear it 😷

[@jeanellreynolds7291]

The tips were great. Sis I'm loving the hair and new nails.

[@OctaviaB]

Thank you so much 😊

[@BD638]

A lot of feminine energy is not what you’re doing but mostly what you’re NOT doing.

[@HeyItsMaori]

Dr. Michelle, Lisa Heart, Karine Alourde, level up journey, and so many more talk about all aspects of you as a woman and not just your outer appearance.

[@Janayexoxo]

Just found your channel a few weeks back and I have grown to love your channel. Your vibe is everything girl!

[@ariellecampbell]

Wish I could smell the perfumes through the phone

[@_simply.normal_]

Tell me why my dumbass actually kept trying to to smell the perfumes by pressing my nose on my phone screen. 🤣

[@lilygranger22]

Alexandra Arvizo lmaooo

[@allthingdranabeauty]

It so nice and stay all day until next day

[@lovepurple1416]

Can you make a video on that 180 thing you talked about previously to shape you to who you are now and how therapy helped etc ... ❤

[@miraclenhyira7953]

I‘m so in love with your chanel! I love this simplicity on you. I feel so inspired! Much love from germany.❤️

[@sanjae08]

My girl the patois a come out bad. I love it❤️❤️

[@AllThingsJadene]

I love smelling good I just love when I smell good and my scent lingers on my sheets and my clothes and I love a man who smells good jeezus 😂

[@OctaviaB]

Girl mi a tell yuh 🤤

[@AllThingsJadene]

Octavia B yesss it’s just my favorite thing man lol also made sure that I had the black opium on my Christmas list that you spoke about a couple months ago and now I have the Zara ones from today I love a grown and sexy scent lol

[@andreasavenuee]

You are cranking these videos out! Keep up the great work ❤️

[@OctaviaB]

Thank you !!!

[@habiba4518]

Right! I love it. I watched 5 minutes of a video and instantly subscribed!

[@lunashadow9942]

Awesome tips; I liked the way she explained everything...Notably, also I think who we, as women, innately tend to look toward and admire or regard as motherly can give us a lot of clues on what we find feminine, and what we might want to mirror.

[@SweetNeece23]

i’m so happy i found your channel! you are so gorgeous, classy and elegant but i love how you present it so simply and not over the top! thank you for making this video! i totally agree with you on the fact that a lot of others making femininity videos are saying a lot of things i don’t agree with. to each it’s own of course, but some are just doing too much and it’s such an emphasis on being feminine just to appeal to me which is super annoying. thank you for such quality videos queen! sending you love and hugs 🤗🤎🧡😘🥰😍🤍

[@OctaviaB]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@daa.4987]

You are a doll!❤️....thank you for sharing the inspiration, yes to a part two

[@daniellegray7031]

Your hair looks amazing 😍

[@OctaviaB]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@Dragonflyjones67]

Octavia B you are *GORGEOUS!!!* More Black women that has a self hating personality needs women like you to uplift them.

[@jhenely3836]

Girllll!!! You be making my day with these vids❤ love your channel much love from south America!!!

[@OctaviaB]

Hey !!! Thank you so much for watching

[@gislaine8098]

Thanks for the perfume tip. Been looking for something cheaper to wear daily so that I don't run out of my black opium too quickly. That bih expensive 💔

[@OctaviaB]

Right !

[@npl5160]

girl perioodd😂💯

[@SelenaSalmaAppiah-s6o]

The hair stroke tho!!!! Love love the feminine energy you exude…

[@sashajames6790]

Lmaooo sis I saw this and thought of the “ school of affluence channel” with that woman who teaches women how to bag a billionaire 😂😂😂😂

[@EvaElyse]

Sasha James Lmaoooo yes 😂😂

[@nenashanta7121]

Sasha James lmao so I’m not the only one who low key be over there taking notes!

[@OctaviaB]

Wait ! I gotta go watch her channel - I need tips 👀

[@dominiquegolden]

Sasha James YES! That lady is so funny! 🤣

[@allthingdranabeauty]

Sasha James me too I learn this from her 😂😂🥰

[@Usernotfounddd748]

I was recently looking up videos like this! I’m glad you made one cause like you said the typical ones on here be doing too much. I’m mid way through your video & this was good 💅🏾

[@marvine8429]

My favorite, I love how consistent you are girl 🤍

[@OctaviaB]

Thank you so much 😊

[@userunavailable6342]

Soon get here ... give me a year. Tired of being a likkle tomboy 😫😫😭😭 I love the realism in this video! Very realistic ❤️

[@OctaviaB]

I’m happy you thought so ❤️

[@userunavailable6342]

Octavia B lol I think everything is a challenge so watching this I’m like ... wow it’s that simple?! SAY NO MORE! Lol 😂

[@niashamahase3057]

please do a series about this. you are so put together

[@GoddessY1968]

Great tips. Feminity is also your attitude, thoughts and confidence.

[@roxanniemiller8973]

i really agree with you.i am feminine but i dont have the girly girly voice ,neither do i wear the girly girl colors like pink and purple and i dont want to be a girly girl,i just want to be the best version of my self

[@Shindacia]

I love this video. I'm trying to incorporate "femininity" in my own content and these were helpful

[@thejasmineskyy]

This is a really common topic lately!

[@OctaviaB]

I’ve noticed !

[@AWholeVibe96]

And a year later it’s even more popular !! Amazing

[@tiffaniemcmillan209]

Your Caribbean essence shines through. Gorgeous. All great tips. I struggle the most with posture.

[@OctaviaB]

Thank you 😊

[@Ky-sk1bi]

This is amazing! Literally changing my whole life to fit this new age of 27.

[@anicole210]

Your hair and makeup is slayyeeed

[@robynolivia1975]

Content Content Content! Here for the multiple uploads! Keep it up

[@OctaviaB]

Thanks girl !

[@fpitts8025]

I used to think I was feminine bcuz I look and smell the part. I've come to know femininity is more about your attitude, personality and how you conduct yourself. I'm working on that part lol it took my current mate to show me how masculine I behave🤦🏽‍♀️ Good video.

[@Ms_Jksn]

Yay! I’m glad you decided to do this video 💕 you are very feminine and it suits you to do this video. Thanks hun ❤️

[@joannaajoi8539]

🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🤗💕🤎✨ thankss for sharing sisss! I enjoyed this beautiful and soft content! Definitely subscribed & yess youu look naturally feminine (meaning you have no problem being your feminine self) and a woman who embraces it! It shows!! Keep inspiring others & keep up the great work ! Youu look stunning siss 🤗🦋🦋

[@mske0372]

I love your content girl!! You are so uplifting and consistent with your videos!! ❤️❤️🙂

[@OctaviaB]

Aww thanks ❤️

[@rajalovescake2180]

I typed I KZbin I want to learn something new today and u popped up! Ur so pretty and articulate! Definitely just gained a subscriber❤️

[@OctaviaB]

Awww 😊

[@lizylize9866]

Love this vid 🙌🏾. I have actually searched KZbin for advise like this and none of them spoke to me like your advise does. Keep up the great content 👍🏽. Great tip by the way in finding your style. I’ve actually been doing the Pinterest thing for a while. I’m glad to see I’m not the only one who seek inspiration from others like you 💙

[@nyakallomaema1181]

Octavia you are just spoiling us, I watched your video yesterday without commenting and today I woke up to another upload. ♥️♥️♥️🌹what did I do to deserve all this goodness all over my screen. Keep up the good videos girl, love 💕 always. 🤗

[@OctaviaB]

Awww you are most welcome! You guys deserve it ❤️

[@mbendashley]

I use Zara Oriental scent, will get the ones you recommended next time. Thanks 😊

[@michelleokoye]

I remember when u were at 13K, so proud of your milestone!!! Love your content! Keep it up, Octavia! ❤️❤️❤️

[@OctaviaB]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@JESSIEBSMITH]

I love how you are natural in all that you do😍

[@OctaviaB]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@writeousrhema]

I'm definitely focusing on my femininity. Thnx for the tips

[@linaa9036]

Yess please, we need a part2. You were very helpul, I love you and your videos!!

[@OctaviaB]

Coming soon ❤️

[@missunderstood977]

I really liked that video!! Thank you for the cute tips... I’m now starting to learn that less is more. ❤️❤️❤️

[@OctaviaB]

Thank you so much for watching ! And yes it surely is ❤️

[@heyjenny_shorts]

notes to self: 1:35 4:13 5:53 7:06 8:24 9:43 10:16

[@ciaracurry4211]

You allude class! Keep it up sis

[@OctaviaB]

Thank you so much 😊

[@kw6724]

She really does!

[@ms_foster_ja]

Loved it. Can we see a body care/self care routine for every day . To include all the products you use.💗

[@lilbabytears]

You are so pretty wtf ❤️

[@trinculo1912]

i just found your channel ✨💕...absolutely love.this may sound stupid but rn i’m stuck between having short cutesy elegant nails and medium length black stiletto nails.i feel as tho if i do black nails i’ll look less feminine however black makes me feel empowered.

[@kayleighkeegan4085]

WOW ! We are here for this consistency !!!

[@wairimumasimba394]

I’m glad I found you at the the right time, thanks missy.

[@OctaviaB]

❤️❤️❤️

[@abbi7038]

I got to say it you are looking absolutely gorgeous and I use that same soap from dove...love the scent

[@OctaviaB]

Thank you 😊

[@maja8437]

you probably already have heard this a lot of times but i must say that you are so beautiful and charming, you are inspiring me ❤️

[@valeriehoule5896]

this is the first video i see of you and i already love you as a person. Ur amazing for doing this❤️❤️

[@lexibee1804]

I love these tips! I will definitely be implementing them into my life!

[@OctaviaB]

Thanks for watching ❤️❤️❤️

[@kalvin9027]

Your accent is everything!

[@welisanerich5376]

Please do a video on how to pair the shirt you got from zara. I bought the shirt too but i dont know how to style it.

[@ThePinkApartment]

Definitely agree with the less is more statement! ❤️

[@terrytrammell7730]

Watching you made my snap into my femininity real quick

[@OctaviaB]

Yasss love that

[@elekesful]

Another video!!! You’re spoiling us 😭💞

[@destinycomillee]

I am really loving your hair!

[@vickeybaby9983]

Very good presentation on how to be more feminine. I agree you can dress like a lady and still leave something to the imagination. A fashion consultant can provide constructive feedback or make recommendations as well.

[@BubblySkittles14]

are your nails almond? or whats the name of the shape called? I’d like to try it😍 loving the consistency hereeee

[@OctaviaB]

Yes almond

[@BubblySkittles14]

Octavia B Thank you beautiful😍😍😍 and I love your sunglasses you posted on insta do you have a link?

[@Yodiwestbrooks]

I feel like I’m communicating with the big sister I never had ❤️❤️❤️

[@WanderlustVisuals]

Oh I’m hearing a Caribbean accent ✨ These tips were appreciated

[@OctaviaB]

Yessss Jamaican

[@tiondramarkwell4926]

All amazing tips ! Loved this video! Pt2 please !!

[@essien9113]

You are so beautiful! Thanks for this video! Random question though, what foundation and concealer are you wearing? You look so flawless!

[@OctaviaB]

Mac matchmaster 8.5

[@VictoriaJoy85]

Great video Octavia! Great tips and as always, you look amazing!

[@OctaviaB]

Thank you ❤️

[@Anna-sd5gt]

I'm just like this but I'll tell y'all rn confidence is key. If you're not confident, you're not going to feel like a feminine baddie, like me lol

[@moniquemontgomery3335]

Feelings dragged 😂😂because I’ve bumming it with not getting my brows done trying to grow them out 😭

[@OctaviaB]

Omg me too

[@jordynknight7288]

I can't really afford to shop in high-end stores like Macy's or Dillard's, so, I get my clothes from Thrift stores , but , I do have them tailored to look nice with them. And I can't wear a lot if makeup because of my sensitive skin , but , I make sure my skin is clean and moisturized , I can wear a tad bit of BB cream or light-toned moisturizer and I can't wear a lot if perfumes because of my allergies, but , I make sure I use like a vanilla scent , but , nothing heavy .But , I am the queen of accessories, I'll wear bracelets , earrings , and necklaces .