I love that you prefaced this by saying being feminine is not just to get a man because being feminine should really be for yourself and to make yourself feel good. The men will come when you’re ready
@Riathecreator2 жыл бұрын
Tips on being more Feminine. Here's a rundown of the video 😘. 1. Work on your inside first before the outside. 2. Have a routine or a feminine ritual ( eg self-care, do you, take care of you) 3. Cleanliness and creating beautiful spaces (create an area in your home that makes you feel clean, beautiful, attractive and good ) 4. Be more open to receiving (you can ask for help and receive it: help. Allow yourself to be taken care of sometimes) 5. Be open to receiving compliments and don't feel bad about it. 6. Be compassionate and giving 7. Do something creative once in a while (do something fun like listening to music or dancing or painting).
@jazelwhite60142 жыл бұрын
Lol I really appreciate people who do this 💕
@nenashanta71213 жыл бұрын
I actually saw someone talking about “being feminine” and they used your picture as an example lol
@fatimaissufo3 жыл бұрын
Same 😁💜
@allthingdranabeauty3 жыл бұрын
Same
@jeanellreynolds72913 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful compliment.
@DionneJourney3 жыл бұрын
I saw it too
@virgeanngeorge53293 жыл бұрын
@@jeanellreynolds7291 true
@brielax44413 жыл бұрын
I am in the process of rebranding and reinventing myself this year: new wardrobe, skincare, body care and routines for my new feminine journey. I love this video!
@kenishah.20413 жыл бұрын
Let's talk about the energy you're sending through this screen: CONFIDENT, REGAL, and very FEMININE. Thank you for addressing accepting compliments. I'm famous for giving ppl compliments on the street. I must say my "sisters" look at me like I have 10 heads😳🤭 when I compliment them. I feel weird afterwards, but not for long bc I know I did a good thing. Honestly your tips sound fresh to me. AWESOME video as always
@princessp88883 жыл бұрын
I second this comment... radiant 😍
@Vee-yc5ht3 жыл бұрын
@Kenisha Harty- that is my vibe too, always complimenting other women. Even my patients in the hospital or in clinic, I look for at least one thing to compliment each patient on before I start an assessment or propose a treatment plan
@je399813 жыл бұрын
Feminine energy is needed especially at work. I was at work yesterday and this new employee tried to tell me how to do my job ! I was amazed because I never experienced confrontation with anyone at my job till new people came along this month. I had to breathe and not react at the sound of every remark she made. "You should do it this way", "You're not doing it right", "Grab it like this". I rested in my feminine energy and decided to speak my mind but she wasn't taking the hint. I took it to the managers to address my concern with an employee that refused to give me my personal space. Ladies some people aren't worth our energy nor time. Remember who you are and remember to breathe.
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@brielax44413 жыл бұрын
I really appreciated the reference for men and becoming their peace. I feel a lot of feminine videos today are only about attracting men and what a man can provide YOU only, it's never about a team relationship.
@gloria7703 жыл бұрын
I think I just found my favourite youtube channel. I turned 22 this year and I wanna change my entire look. I desire to be more feminine. I know it's going to be a journey to get to the kind of woman I want to be but I am so ready to work for it. Thank you Octavia for helping me in this journey.
@danielletaylor15123 жыл бұрын
How you talked about receiving compliments gives me such a Toni Childs vibe, I love it!!! How she takes compliments very well and even compliment herself regularly. It's important for your mental health and self-esteem and gives you such a boost of confidence.
@ShamyraC3 жыл бұрын
love me some Toni Childs 😍
@Exodusllfreedomministry3 жыл бұрын
toni childs was the goat lol even though she was trifling
@ShamyraC3 жыл бұрын
@@Exodusllfreedomministry we love trifling lmao it’s entertaining
@NATSCOTT3 жыл бұрын
Octavia your like a breath of fresh air. We stan a consistent and luxurious Queen 👸🏾
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@MorgannFlowers3 жыл бұрын
I definitely feel better mentally when I'm happy with how I look. The confidence will boost and boom, there's my feminine energy!
@WendyLiving3 жыл бұрын
I was saying this today !
@MorgannFlowers3 жыл бұрын
@@WendyLiving yes! Just like that
@hannas78063 жыл бұрын
I know this video isn’t about men but I loved your tips on receiving. Today I went on my first ever date (I watched your video again yesterday) and I just allowed him to pay, open doors for me and take lead. Before, I always assumed that I wouldn’t let a guy pay or other traditional roles because I was capable on doing these things. But, I listened to what you said and It was so refreshing and It really heightened the experience for me! I can’t really compare the date to any others because this was my first one, but I had a really good time. Thanks Octavia xx
@chloesamuels15393 жыл бұрын
I’ve always lived by making sure my heart and soul is beautiful because the outside beautiful will fade
@chrissikinsm30512 жыл бұрын
"him need fi guh bout him business" lol I love that you are so authentic! Thank you for keeping it real.
@thandekambhamali60743 жыл бұрын
She said 'FOR YOU" point taken girl.
@cathylianaelizabeth27703 жыл бұрын
Girl this white top, the entire look is so beautiful on you!
@madamnaija11173 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on 100k+!
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😀
@HoneyStyleJoy3 жыл бұрын
Just the epitome of effortless divine feminine beauty! Thank you so much for this video. I've naturally found myself doing ALL of these in my quest to tap into my feminine energy and you're so on point. Thanks again beautyyy 🤗💜
@LifeWithMonet603 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing ❤️ You’re gonna think I’m crazy but you literally have inspired me in so many ways. Not only to create my own channel and follow my dreams but also how I present myself! I just became a new mom and I wanted to change my whole vibe. More grownish and feminine. Right now I’ve been working on my wardrobe and revamping. Next will be the space.
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
omg , what a compliment ! love that ❤️ and congrats boo!
@mckcheer093 жыл бұрын
So I’ve never been a “feminine” type of girl! I’ve always been a Tom boy since childhood and I’m super independent and rough around the edges, borderline abrasive (because of the way I was raised) but I just entered my 30s and I’ve always aspired to just be classy and feminine and tap into my feminine energy. This video really has opened my eyes. I don’t want to lose my edge though because I really do love that part of myself BUT I aspire to be more feminine (if that makes sense). This was helpful! Any tips on not losing your edge while embracing femininity?
@Talentgirl20133 жыл бұрын
This was soo needed. I've felt so disconnected lately and I've been all over the place. Sometimes all you need is yourself and I've forgotten that. Thank you love!
@broughttoyoubynmblake3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, someone talking about being “feminine” for you. 🙋🏾♀️
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@roxanneadams52383 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your 100k and recieving your plaque i probably much older than your mom but i like watching you young girl!!!!!
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@cultivatingwellness40283 жыл бұрын
@@OctaviaB me too👑👑👑
@miag62113 жыл бұрын
Everything you said is 100% true .
@TheRealDealWithAmaka3 жыл бұрын
🥰 I love your calmness when you speak, watching you is sooo soothing ❤️
@WifeOfTheBeast3 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right, and this mindset is on life support right now. We can see how that's turning out for everyone. Thank you for bringing back classical feminism.
@xoSilverSurfer3 жыл бұрын
Omg, I definitely need the details of this makeup look as well!!! 😍 You look stunning!
@Imani..3 жыл бұрын
The slip of accent that pops in and out☺️☺️
@bella-rue3 жыл бұрын
I love when you talk about femininity. Love all of these tips. In my videos, I frequently share that we should have one day of the week where we slow down and take our time. As women romanticizing our life helps us to tap into our feminine energy. Femininity is less about doing and more about enjoying life's finest experiences for instance an inexpensive way to tap into our femininity is spending time enjoying nature. Simple as that! Also, a great way of giving is by volunteering with children.
@almariehackshaw47193 жыл бұрын
You're so real and confident that's why I love your Chanel. You're bless
@TheTintin19821003 жыл бұрын
I look forward to your Sunday blogs! 💙💙💙💙💙
@chelseawilliams26472 жыл бұрын
I can't believe I'm even looking up how to be feminine but now I see why I am. I really need it. I have broad shoulders and been at life on my own for a long time including taking care of men so I'm like full blown husband material at this point lmaooo but naw I'm really like damn I wanna be a girl or something cause this agreessive manly thing has men always trying to compete with me like whose stronger or something on top of the fact that I'm tall. I'm just kinda tired and ready to just be feminine and man this video pushes out so many vibes like I can tell you transformed into this! The positive energy you bring let's me know this transformation made you happy and still is and I want that as well. Don't know how I ended up on this video but Octavia B I appreciate this and I'm subscribed and ready to take notes 🔥🔥
@gaymarcampbell-bernard10783 жыл бұрын
You make alot of sense Octavia.
@maryvl082 жыл бұрын
You literally encouraged me to change my life. To forgive more 🙏 😌 and just be confident and do what I love 💘
@OctaviaB2 жыл бұрын
😊
@TheLongWayDALDIVA103 жыл бұрын
I need to add receiving to my list this week. That’s tough. Baby steps but you made some good points. Thanks!
@bongiwenkgasho49733 жыл бұрын
Love this. I am on the journey of change and self discovery. This is what I needed. I'm taking the first tip ad running with it. Love you. B
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@shonamarie11163 жыл бұрын
One of the best femininity videos I have seen! Well said Queen💗
@cicilewis20433 жыл бұрын
Your character continues to radiate Octavia. You look adorable in that top? where is it from. Great tips as always. Thanks for sharing. I swear I need to work harder on letting my worries go and let God take over..
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you! top is from aritzia
@i.nichele24703 жыл бұрын
You look so gorgeous💕
@empress13063 жыл бұрын
I am from Guyana and i just fund your channel and i am loving it.
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
Welcome!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@KimikoA243 жыл бұрын
Also the perfume ! Ppl compliments me on my look my hairstyle my perfume 💕
@GladToBeNatural3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I just listened to this while drawing some flowers, your voice is so calming!
@Ty-cu7qj2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful energy 💖💖💖 wish I had a friend like you 😇🙏🏾
@annvic39962 жыл бұрын
i can relate with you so much....i want to be on this level shortly.
@2d6792 жыл бұрын
You are beautiful 😍 You are so inspiring thank you for this video ❤️
@phelokazingqamakwe11092 жыл бұрын
#Befeminineforyourself💕 thank you sis for this vlog really loved and enjoyed it.
@Yeaaaah_z3 жыл бұрын
Yes I want a video on how being feminine helps in everyday life. 🙋🏽♀️ Thank you
@maricelg7773 жыл бұрын
Love this. Thanks for sharing
@terrytrammell77303 жыл бұрын
This video is sooooo soft and beautiful I love it
@maricelg7773 жыл бұрын
Love this. Thanks for sharing love.
@georgianelson10373 жыл бұрын
You make me feel good about myself already by just watching your video. Beautiful video!!!!
@uhleaseayah3 жыл бұрын
You look soo beautiful! I love your videos, and I prefer getting advice from you because you carry yourself so well ❤
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I appreciate this ✨
@BiancaColacin3 жыл бұрын
I love this so much. Thank you 🤍
@kadinereynolds65673 жыл бұрын
Self care is essential!!! Great tips 👌🏾
@soso_brownyy3 жыл бұрын
We’re here for it💕
@nombre12483 жыл бұрын
You look stunning, as always, legend!!
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you!
@estrickland6143 жыл бұрын
Thanks Love 💕 these were some great tips especially the ‘being creative’ part I love to crochet knit and sew as it puts my mind at ease!
@petehadhlomo15572 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed watching this Xx
@kiannad4183 жыл бұрын
Iam learning to be more feminine it’s hard due the the person iam with but iam trying and it feels so good💋love the video you’re very graceful and hilarious when you switch to your accent that part has me on the floor😭
@chrissiec21233 жыл бұрын
Oh Octavia, I never knew you were Jamaican 😌 Big ups to you, stay blessed ❤
@jasminetyxo3 жыл бұрын
You’re glowing inside and out ✨
@GabxCaroline3 жыл бұрын
I love what you are saying, the video quality, the aesthetic, everything
@mandisa73563 жыл бұрын
This is my dreeeeam makeup look! Please do a tutorial
@belledelemos96153 жыл бұрын
Love the energy that you giving us, and your self Love is awesome Queen ✨
@abigailosei27593 жыл бұрын
This video was soothing and relaxing, and the purple orchid peeking in the background tied it all together - lol besides the point, great tips!! ☺️❤️
@Destinee.marthe3 жыл бұрын
I need to channel my feminine energy more , great tips girl 👌🏾💕💕💕
@jasminewalker38343 жыл бұрын
Thank you honeybun for your tips. They help with me remembering to take care of myself first.
@UXDA_Official3 жыл бұрын
Stunning and wise woman ♥️
@virgeanngeorge53293 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for uploading this video it will be very useful for me since I'm really lacking these qualities
@DianaMillan3 жыл бұрын
This video was so relaxing to watch. Thank you for sharing this! ❤️
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
I’m happy you enjoyed ❤️
@ayana_2643 жыл бұрын
Congrats on the 100k octavia!🍾
@princessp88883 жыл бұрын
Love love this video... revamping this tips as we enter this summer weather
@simplysarah3873 жыл бұрын
I love shower concerts! 🤣 those are some of my best moments. the simple things in life do get me by
@stacie61343 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video on how being feminine helps you in your everyday life?
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
Sure thing!
@winnieomoni43633 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tavia. Always looking forward to your videos. Keep inspiring girls like me. ❤
@idaliarice47733 жыл бұрын
I just had my Mimi concert while I was mopping the floor yesterday. I love music and I had really got out of listening to music and dancing and I found my self having a low libido because of it... if that’s not TMI... but I see the correlation btw the two...
@amandasmith59183 жыл бұрын
Sooo helpful!!
@miag62113 жыл бұрын
You look absolutely Beautiful
@DeandraAdriana2 жыл бұрын
Loved this video & how you buss out in a likkle patwa fi some emphasis haha. New subbie.
@OnlyOne_Her3 жыл бұрын
Perfectly put❤️
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@BubblySkittles143 жыл бұрын
Octaviaaaa where is this top from?? I love it on you so cute😍😍
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
linking soon
@nadiapugh9333 жыл бұрын
Please do another video about how femininity works in your favor in dat to day life. This was a great video and I want to know more.
@theviewzkey3 жыл бұрын
How do you stay fit? Any tips? You are so flawless, beautiful and above all kind hearted 🥰
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
should i drop a workout routine?
@vixytori3 жыл бұрын
@@OctaviaB yes please:D
@rw94273 жыл бұрын
Please
@lexiewalters68663 жыл бұрын
Yess ❤️
@iamkedia2 жыл бұрын
I love how the patio just came out 🤣.....love your videos.
@rw94273 жыл бұрын
Please do a video on femininity helping with your everyday life.
@chideraangelina_2 жыл бұрын
Love this video so much ❤️
@vegardtverli57703 жыл бұрын
Your eyes are to dream of. You are very special💗
@shackeriabrown23783 жыл бұрын
I always enjoy these... feminine energy is on my vision board for 2021 it's a journey I must admit
@niiyaisichei33323 жыл бұрын
This really blessed me!
@goldsand3 жыл бұрын
Love this. I’ve been implementing new small changes and this was so helpful
@melw53253 жыл бұрын
Saw your picture on a feminine mood board on Twitter! 💜
@OctaviaB3 жыл бұрын
Awww what !!!!
@Cristina.Antoniuc3 жыл бұрын
please do a skincare routine, you have beautiful glowing skin i want to know your secrets 😍💛💛
@DiamondNet20093 жыл бұрын
Love it, love it! Love this! So glad you did this video. Thank you!
@babusisibanyoni4023 жыл бұрын
Great video I soo relate. Thank you
@mipi50763 жыл бұрын
You look sooo pretty 😭😍
@babe2004903 жыл бұрын
LOVE LOVE we want more! Loool x
@TheRealDealWithAmaka3 жыл бұрын
Please we will love more of these videos 🤩
@Selena-Appiah Жыл бұрын
I really love your videos Octavia 😍
@jeroniquelabban57752 жыл бұрын
I'm a female n i feel your energy lol ...its attractive as hell.