How I Changed My Life 2 | how to stop caring what people think & needing validation

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Octavia B

Octavia B

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@thaliamartin826
@thaliamartin826 3 жыл бұрын
I heard this today “ you are not gonna be everyone’s cup of tea so be the best bowl of porridge you can be”
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@ste_channel3591
@ste_channel3591 3 жыл бұрын
Explain please esp bowl of porridge part?
@thaliamartin826
@thaliamartin826 3 жыл бұрын
@@ste_channel3591 everyone does not like tea or may not even like the tea you drink so just be the best version of you. Porridge is sort of similar to Grits it’s a breakfast/lunch meal
@DeneatresLatreec
@DeneatresLatreec 3 жыл бұрын
Ayeee!!! I love this!!! Yass hunni!!
@PrincessAmmanii
@PrincessAmmanii 3 жыл бұрын
At 29 I decided I wanted a new life so I quit my corporate job, enrolled in grad school and started my journey. I’m 31 now and I still haven’t figured out what I want lol but I know I for sure that an inauthentic life is NOT it!! ❤️❤️
@yzma6142
@yzma6142 3 жыл бұрын
As a 26 year old who is unsure of what I want this is very inspiring! All the best in your journey ✨💕
@PrincessAmmanii
@PrincessAmmanii 3 жыл бұрын
@@yzma6142 Aww you’re so kind, thank you! We can’t give up, our dream lives are on the way 🥰🤗
@babyhips
@babyhips 3 жыл бұрын
Feeling so proud of you!!! Good luck in your path babez 🤗🤗
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so proud of you and your new journey and don’t worry about having it all figured out! Your path will always find you.
@PrincessAmmanii
@PrincessAmmanii 3 жыл бұрын
@@babyhips Thank you so much!! 🤗 I’m receiving your blessing into my life ❤️
@TiphaniJnae
@TiphaniJnae 3 жыл бұрын
Love this video! I'm a 34 year old single mom and a full-time government employee. I decided to relaunch a business I started when I was 20 years old and went back to college to finally get my degree. I can't believe I'm finally graduating after nearly 20 years lol. It's NEVER too late. When I turned 34, I vowed to stop caring what people thought about me and finally started living life ON MY TERMS.
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Good for you!! That’s great ✨❤️
@coaluck
@coaluck 3 жыл бұрын
Tap tap...is this me? I’m 34, a single mom and I work full time for the federal government. It didn’t take me until now to get my degree but BOY did I struggle with getting my bachelors and finally went on to finishing my masters. I WOULD LOVE to dedicate some time to my business . I’m unsure and worried it will fail. I’m a horrible risk taker I go with the guarantee and the guarantee will forever keep you broke. Sure I live decent and I thank God for it but I want financial freedom.
@clerknorth9695
@clerknorth9695 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 39 and I haven't cared whether people liked me since I was 12. It was revelation from very early on and I've lived my life with less stress than I see other people experiencing. I was always called different and different is not always a bad thing. Different is peaceful and quite a cool place to be. I have never consulted anyone about decisions I wanted to make. People can be so negative. It takes a very thick skin not to care but it's something that must be learned from very early on. I have been called ugly and I have been called beautiful. I have been called fat and I have been called too skinny. I don't absorb any of it because who asked them? Not me.
@beautifullybliss
@beautifullybliss Жыл бұрын
👏🏽
@GLAMAFROMNYC
@GLAMAFROMNYC 3 жыл бұрын
I always remembered this quote and it helps to keep me calm, cool, and collective-“those who anger you conquer you”. No one will conquer me, ever again
@gabbys.9398
@gabbys.9398 3 жыл бұрын
Yes 🙌🏽
@GLAMAFROMNYC
@GLAMAFROMNYC 3 жыл бұрын
@@gabbys.9398 yasss
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Omg I love this quote! This is basically what I was trying to say but couldn’t find the right words! But yes trust me I have a learned to master my emotional intelligence because I will never allow another person to control me again 🗣🗣🗣🗣
@GLAMAFROMNYC
@GLAMAFROMNYC 3 жыл бұрын
@@OctaviaB 🗣🗣🗣
@mali-ngose360
@mali-ngose360 3 жыл бұрын
I live by this too. Am always calm and people look at me and think am rude or not grasping whats going on. 😂😂😂 when in reality am not letting them conquer me.
@relaxingsounds3032
@relaxingsounds3032 3 жыл бұрын
Dear, whoever is reading this I may not know you, but I wish you the best in your life 💜💙💚❤💛
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@FindingJoy2023
@FindingJoy2023 3 жыл бұрын
That’s very kind! Thank you and same to you!!!
@ShanTalks-Podcast
@ShanTalks-Podcast 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@plubin123
@plubin123 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you and same to you🎉💃🏾💃🏾
@ML-ni1tk
@ML-ni1tk 3 жыл бұрын
you too🥰🥰
@dionneslife808
@dionneslife808 3 жыл бұрын
Wishing everyone all the success in life and a peace of mind. Love yourself always and be the best version of YOU!!! Blessings to you all!!!
@MelSpeaksMD
@MelSpeaksMD 3 жыл бұрын
**NOBODY cares.** literally. If you’re struggling with anxiety just remember that. I was so nervous about finally starting a KZbin channel and when I finally posted my first video I realized that no one actually cares 😂. It’s sad but kind of freeing lol. Don’t let fears of what ppl will think stop you from doing the things you want to do. Thanks for sharing Octavia! ❤️
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha I feel that
@nicolelewis6312
@nicolelewis6312 3 жыл бұрын
You know you're blessed when the haters can't keep your name out of their mouths!
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
True that
@Fa33389
@Fa33389 3 жыл бұрын
who would call u ugly? girl u are so pretty i m literally staring.
@kelzway2405
@kelzway2405 3 жыл бұрын
Someone who is ugly, inside and out.
@itschelsray
@itschelsray 3 жыл бұрын
listened while I drove to work and this was so well received. I wish I had this peace of mind in my 20s instead of my 40s..my life would be so different. However ...where i am I'm happy and that is to be valued
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
I definitely understand where you’re coming from I often times wish that I learned this much earlier but I’m so grateful for the experiences and the lessons that I’ve learned.
@mb5823
@mb5823 3 жыл бұрын
I was going to leave the exact same comment! I am in my 40’s as well and I wish I had this peace in my 20’s. So proud of Octavia for figuring this out early...
@je39981
@je39981 3 жыл бұрын
The likes and dislikes analogy also relates to Instagram as well. Post your pictures because YOU know you look good. It doesn't matter if you don't get enough likes or lose a following. The ones who don't stick around wasn't genuine to begin with so why shrink yourself for applauds. Wonderful video !
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@taylorm0307
@taylorm0307 3 жыл бұрын
Your accent coming out when you start speaking straight facts👏🏾❤️
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
✨❤️🇯🇲
@Seisha-Eagle
@Seisha-Eagle 3 жыл бұрын
I know right...it's absolutely beautiful to hear!💕
@ingridmalcolm6619
@ingridmalcolm6619 3 жыл бұрын
As a fellow Jamaican, I am so proud of you. I love your channel. Keep up the good work
@thewellnesscampaign
@thewellnesscampaign 3 жыл бұрын
Love it!! Your feminine energy is fully loaded. ❤❤ When we stop caring about what people think about us, we can start living life on our terms. Understanding who we truly are and what truly matters in life, everything else will fall into place.
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Amen to that!
@SESmithy
@SESmithy 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I needed this video. I am 27 and I feel stuck terribly stuck in life. Which is sad because I really am not! I haven't even been able to indulge in things I like including KZbin and videos just wind down time. Just stuck in my job and hours... I can't wait for my next step. I feel it coming!
@stacygordon9836
@stacygordon9836 3 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate to this. I am also 27 and my corporate job has been mentally and physically draining me. Sigh
@SESmithy
@SESmithy 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Its now rolling over into my physical aspects. Ugh! We have to do better.
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Oh ladies I can relate to this all too well ! I’m not sure if you guys are able to see the difference from when I was working a stressful 9-to-5 job versus now. I felt like I was being drained but I also know it’s not easy to just pick up and leave a job that is basically sustaining you . I literally prayed long and hard to be freed.
@SESmithy
@SESmithy 3 жыл бұрын
@@OctaviaB I can definitely see the change in you! I also am looking for that personal change. Need to get back to praying! ❤❤
@chocolatelovin19
@chocolatelovin19 3 жыл бұрын
27 here too! Been working on myself. Covid really changed where I thought my life was going but I’m taking it a day at a time. All that you need to know is that YOU come first! Always!
@maurissae
@maurissae 3 жыл бұрын
*smiles intensely * when Octavia uploads a video you did not know you needed 💕
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Awwwww Ily ! Thank you for watching ❤️
@kadinereynolds6567
@kadinereynolds6567 3 жыл бұрын
Keep Thriving and Shining Octavia, keep being your authentic self, we appreciate you.
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@Lovealwayswen
@Lovealwayswen 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Be okay with people not liking you. So true .. as long as you’re happy that’s what matters really🤍 also, do what you wanna do and what you think it’s right!!!! Don’t ask for people’s opinions. 😘
@janetics.
@janetics. 3 жыл бұрын
YES YES YES. Stop asking people and do what makes YOU happy.
@CallMeTink
@CallMeTink 3 жыл бұрын
HAPPY HEALTHY WEDNESDAY LOVELY OCTAVIA 💛⭐👑 I PRAY EVERYONE'S LIVING IN LOVE AND LIGHT
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Happy Wednesday ❤️
@amoyastewart9916
@amoyastewart9916 3 жыл бұрын
Dis grab mi up. I literally use to ask permission for everything, even to buy myself something with my own money. Lol thank God for therapy.
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@lebohangmaloisanekhumalo4323
@lebohangmaloisanekhumalo4323 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, wow, after seeing this video I don't feel guilty about this weekend. Will stop being so hard on myself. Its ok to not be perfect. Thank you.... Love from South Africa
@simplysean1
@simplysean1 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this more than I knew. I turn 27 tomorrow 8/12 and I have a very pessimistic mindset that I need to work on. I never focus on my present only things I haven't accomplished not realizing I have accomplished so much. Thank you so much for this video 💖
@ChaM_25
@ChaM_25 3 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite KZbinrs 😌
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@kenishah.2041
@kenishah.2041 3 жыл бұрын
Same here 💯
@staciaparkes4998
@staciaparkes4998 3 жыл бұрын
Yesss!
@belledelemos9615
@belledelemos9615 3 жыл бұрын
What an authentic and real moment, keep striving Queen... Your growth is impeccable..✨
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much !
@Riathecreator
@Riathecreator 3 жыл бұрын
Incase anyone needs a breakdown of this video 😘. 1. Nobody really cares 2. Stop asking for people's opinions and do what you wanna do 3. Develop thick skin a.k.a desensitize yourself 4. Protect your energy 5. Understand that you cannot please everyone 6. Understand that you are not perfect and cannot be, so mistakes are welcomed. 7. Stop reading negative comments and reviews, and feeding into it 8. Work on your emotional intelligence 9. Focus on the positivity and leave the negativity 10. Get to know yourself and appreciate you.
@ndyfrank1036
@ndyfrank1036 3 жыл бұрын
Your Energy is one of the reasons I love your channel. 😍😍
@krishawnfranklin1502
@krishawnfranklin1502 2 жыл бұрын
I needed this! I am 26 also and have been in the process of elevating my life. Sometimes I battle with the fact that not everyone will like me but I realize that it has helped me to weed out ppl who most likely weren’t meant to be apart of my journey anyway.
@lmusima3275
@lmusima3275 Жыл бұрын
Thanks 🙏🏾 for this video. I struggled with being liked from teenage years until my late thirties or early forties. I’d been through bullying and rejection. Even in dating I’d been rejected too. Around various groups of people I knew as friends or acquaintances I was so worked up why certain people who didn’t know me were so horrible towards me. I wanted to fit in badly via social media and in person. Then a friend told me “not everyone is gonna like you. Be ok 👍 with that.” It’s so true. I moved on and eventually deleted social media. I accept that not every man will find me attractive. Not everyone wants me as a friend. Not everyone would invite me to their wedding or gatherings. I go where I’m appreciated
@ayonnazglam9050
@ayonnazglam9050 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this topic! I’m 29 now and I feel stronger than ever. Did a lot of growing and stretching this year. Thank God for growth 🙌🏾😃
@honeyb1007
@honeyb1007 3 жыл бұрын
Big up yuh self my girl. Inspiring as always. I'm 33 and still learning life lessons.
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@nicolabutterfly2602
@nicolabutterfly2602 3 жыл бұрын
I am jamaican just like you.... please ignore negative comment.... God is good and he will continue to bless you.... I look forward to your video's weekly.... ♥️
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Trust me, they are ignored lol
@nicolabutterfly2602
@nicolabutterfly2602 3 жыл бұрын
👍
@priscilliam.4202
@priscilliam.4202 3 жыл бұрын
Hey I really needed this video. I'm in college and in a room of four and sometimes when they are talking , I just feel like they are talking about me. But this video has taught me not to give a damn.
@NoItGrl
@NoItGrl 3 жыл бұрын
I clicked on this so fast. Love when you speak on self improvement. 👏🏽 Very motivational for me!
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Yassss thank you for tuning in ❤️
@Stacey_Ts
@Stacey_Ts 3 жыл бұрын
I try not to care how people think about me, but it’s hard not to. People are mean and will make you feel bad about yourself, for no reason. I have depression and feel so behind in life. I just don’t have the motivation to do a lot of things at times. It’s draining. But watching these videos helps to motivate me and push me to keep going forward.
@On_Point10
@On_Point10 3 жыл бұрын
You’re beautiful, wise and encouraging. Thank you for sharing your perspective ✨
@maureenbennett809
@maureenbennett809 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant advice. IGNORE the haters they didn't make you so they can't break you. God bless you Octavia keep up the good work.
@itskota4603
@itskota4603 3 жыл бұрын
I found your channel a little while ago. Recently i have been struggling with not feeling pretty or like my normal self. You have really helped me with living my best care free life! Keep shining!! ❤️
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Awww I’m sorry I’ve helped you ❤️
@marshapollard3148
@marshapollard3148 3 жыл бұрын
We all have our days. Stay strong, you got this ❤️
@benjaminslife9424
@benjaminslife9424 3 жыл бұрын
This information is very useful. I could listen to this as a reminder regularly these are the thoughts I have often.
@inotamaja
@inotamaja 3 жыл бұрын
These tips are so authentic and You’re so right we are so much stronger than we think. Everything we need lives on the inside of us! Sending love God bless ♥️
@Rose-dn5yt
@Rose-dn5yt 3 жыл бұрын
You inspired me to go see a therapist im forever thankful for your chanel ❤️
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Aww I’m so happy for you Wendy !
@veeviccy
@veeviccy 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my God, I so needed to hear this today. Stop asking people for their opinion
@Chinachyree
@Chinachyree 3 жыл бұрын
I hate to openly admit I never comment on your videos but I definitely do alwaysssss like them. I especially enjoyed this one. I love the growth! The self love , the confidence, and the way you carry yourself with a level head is beautiful. I hope this video reaches all the wonderful beings out there that need it . This truly made my heart smile. Keep it up beautiful ❤️ sending love from Los Angeles 😘
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@cynthiaciciho885
@cynthiaciciho885 3 жыл бұрын
Love this! I remember Jackie Aina saying something like she would post a 20 min video and like the second she posted she'd have all these dislikes, needless to say there's people who will always dislike your videos for no reason at all, even before watching like that is their job in life haha pretty sad
@theviewzkey
@theviewzkey 3 жыл бұрын
Love the accent. God’s glory is on you. My babe is glowing. Told my 10 year old girl to start watching one video of yours everyday. She said ‘Mommy she’s so beautiful’ 🥰🥰🥰
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you 😊
@melissaburrell4370
@melissaburrell4370 3 жыл бұрын
“Perfect is an illusion” just do your best and the rest will follow! Great tips thanks you ❤️
@jackiek4159
@jackiek4159 3 жыл бұрын
Could not agree more about the coming to terms with "Not everybody is going to like you and that's okay" and to stop asking people for their opinions! It truly doesn't matter at the end of the day and you should never sacrifice who you are for others! Loved this video girl and glad you're doing better! Sending lot's of love to everybody! 🙏🏻💞
@lifesinceseptember
@lifesinceseptember 3 жыл бұрын
Best video yet!! Spilling some serious wisdom😘😘👏🏾👏🏾
@thegiftedfit
@thegiftedfit 3 жыл бұрын
Loved the tip about not asking people for their opinions! That clip was so true. I tend to ask people for their opinions on my personal decisions sometimes and realize even when they do provide their opinions, 10/10 it is still up to me to decide.
@TheRealDealWithAmaka
@TheRealDealWithAmaka 3 жыл бұрын
Came back to watch this video for the 2nd time because it doesn't get old ❤️
@Destinee.marthe
@Destinee.marthe 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. I’ve learned that a long time ago we not for everyone, and not everyone will like us. My energy is not for everyone and I rather protect that.
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@CLib791
@CLib791 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with all your tips! So true!!!!
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@nyacholdavid1154
@nyacholdavid1154 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks you so much for sharing. I love this because I was too much for myself and Opinion of every damn person. And pleasing everyone which’s killed me everyday. Watching this video free thanks you so much❤️❤️
@amorebella_
@amorebella_ 3 жыл бұрын
I have been on my self love journey for a couple months now! It's so important to make yourself a priority ✨ ITS OK to be selfish sometimes for your own health & well being 💪🏼🙌🏼 Love this video 💖 thank you so much for sharing!
@beencouragedinthelord9796
@beencouragedinthelord9796 3 жыл бұрын
You are growing into such a beautiful woman! Of course you are beautiful outside but your inner growth is so beautiful to witness! God bless you and never stop growing! 💕
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you so much ❤️
@beencouragedinthelord9796
@beencouragedinthelord9796 3 жыл бұрын
@@OctaviaB I’m sorry I’m so late responding! You’re welcome Octavia! ☺️
@millzdinz4772
@millzdinz4772 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent (and timely) video. I'm 50 and just learning this, somewhat he hard way! Thank you Octavia 💕🇬🇧🇯🇲
@sylmanyeki9323
@sylmanyeki9323 3 жыл бұрын
I bought that book Octavia. Especially since I work in retail during a pandemic!
@simplylightness
@simplylightness 3 жыл бұрын
🙊😭😭😭😭am so sad and happy at the same time because you're talking about me....this video is so helpful thnkyu Octavia ❤❤❤❤
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@xamandiloftman
@xamandiloftman 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 28 and also from Jamaica, I love your videos and I'm very proud of you queen 🤗❤🇯🇲
@TrishTV1
@TrishTV1 3 жыл бұрын
I'm currently in that space in my life where I feel something is missing, I know what it is and now really figuring out my next steps. I work in corporate and have been since forever! I'm so ready for change. Everyone has their own journey but the goal is the same... to be HAPPY!! ❤🙌🏽
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Amen! You got this girl!
@NoItGrl
@NoItGrl 3 жыл бұрын
7 mins in and it’s everything I needed already. 👏🏽 👏🏽
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Yassssss
@kenishah.2041
@kenishah.2041 3 жыл бұрын
So BEAUTIFUL ( inside & out). This was so eloquently stated. You are wise beyond your years in the GREATEST way. I learned what you are mastering at 26 later on in life. So, by the time you get to my age, you will be SUPER. By the way, wish I saw this video in my early 20s, I could have by passed so many things. AWESOME video
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you so much! I really wish I was able to have this kind of insight in my early 20s as well it would’ve saved me a lot of pain and suffering.
@kenishah.2041
@kenishah.2041 3 жыл бұрын
@@OctaviaB So, sorry you had to go through what you went through in your early 20s. Thank God you're here now. You are still at a very pivotal point in your 20s , so it's AWESOME that you have learned what you have so far.
@LizNoelle
@LizNoelle 3 жыл бұрын
I kept on smiling throughout this video! Wow I really needed to hear this!!! Thank you Octavia ❤️🙌🏾 sending love and piece your way.
@cannabee9687
@cannabee9687 3 жыл бұрын
See this the type advice that we need real raw and uncut!!!! 💯❤️
@zaedzaed1245
@zaedzaed1245 3 жыл бұрын
After watching part 1 and just stumble upon part 2 I am so happy.i never did subscribe and you probably thinking girl what are you waiting for.i am subscribing right now.those videos helped me so much and I want to thank you
@mxrtx9
@mxrtx9 2 жыл бұрын
You’re becoming my therapist lol. I’m a new subscriber and I just want to let you know how inspirational you are. Sending you so much light and love ❤️
@user-xz1xr1fb8m
@user-xz1xr1fb8m 3 жыл бұрын
I'm starting to change my life too & octavia Inspired me 😭❤️❤️ Subscribing to similar women like her is so refreshing❤️ Now i'm starting youtube as well! Best of luck ladies in your journey🥰🥰🥰🌹
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Best of luck !
@nombre1248
@nombre1248 3 жыл бұрын
This legend with the wisdom we can learn from without even trying
@almamckenzie8802
@almamckenzie8802 2 жыл бұрын
You really inspire me, so thankful for the video💕 coming from 🇧🇿!!
@JaylaSherell
@JaylaSherell 3 жыл бұрын
This is literally me at 26 & I need to stop. Thank you for this video 💕💕
@simpleyolan3014
@simpleyolan3014 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Octavia, I cry so much throughout this video because literally this video is about me. Everything that you Mention am struggling with and because of my struggles I don’t have friends.Thank you so much for your Video it helps me a lot to know am not the only one.
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Awww I’m so happy to hear this video has helped you. Keep strong babe
@simpleyolan3014
@simpleyolan3014 3 жыл бұрын
@@OctaviaB Thank you so much. I want to ask you this question but am so nervous. I just started my own channel, I don’t have much content there yet but I would be so happy if you like and Subscribe to my Channel? I had a lot of doubts starting my Channel but and going for it.
@kashhlaw
@kashhlaw 3 жыл бұрын
That video definitely impacted the way I look at things. I've watched it like 3 times just to reiterate the points to my self. I really appreciate this video and I am confidently taking on my healing journey 😌
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I’m happy you found it helpful
@la-tanyawilliams9182
@la-tanyawilliams9182 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I could hit the like button a thousand times plus infinity! Well said young lady. I'm twice your age and it's amazing that I learn something every time I watch your videos!!! There is a force, (a power) behind you that no one can touch. Be well, be healthy and may God continue to bless you Octavia!!!!
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you so much !!!
@la-tanyawilliams9182
@la-tanyawilliams9182 3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@gabbys.9398
@gabbys.9398 3 жыл бұрын
YES TO THE POSITIVITY 🤎 We all need to focus on the positive aspects of life...🙌🏽 leave dem scuffa scrub dem in the back 😂
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
In the back 🗣
@Chase_71
@Chase_71 3 жыл бұрын
I just found you on youtube and the one thing i already love about your video(s) (2nd one i watched) is you seriously open up and share the step by step process of your thoughts, not just give us a list of advice.
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
🤍🤍🤍🤍
@yanitzastephenson9166
@yanitzastephenson9166 3 жыл бұрын
All of this !!! When you know who you are and living in your purpose!!
@laurenlachelle671
@laurenlachelle671 3 жыл бұрын
That video (How I changed my life) is how i found you and I've been tuning in ever since.
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you 😊
@nailswithkams
@nailswithkams 3 жыл бұрын
Wishing everyone healing , peace and love ❤️
@LIFEWITHDEE.
@LIFEWITHDEE. 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! For this video I needed this solo much, I have a twelve year old and sometimes when she tells me of her issues I cry inside and then talk to her and just now when I started watching this video I had to call her because some of this was for her and all of this was for me...thanks Octavia..you rock!!!!
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Awww that must be so tough for you and her ! I’m happy I can help you help her , god knows I know I hard it can be 😔 you got this tho !
@LIFEWITHDEE.
@LIFEWITHDEE. 3 жыл бұрын
@@OctaviaB 🌹💕
@cicilewis2043
@cicilewis2043 3 жыл бұрын
All well said and well received in this video.. You continue to inspire me. I have always been very optimistic for others but pessimistic when it comes to getting me together. I've started making positive changes to improve myself.
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Good luck on your journey! You totally got this, just be very intentional. Thank you Also for watching ❤️
@eastistowest2819
@eastistowest2819 3 жыл бұрын
Thank u Octavia. This has been one of yr realest, ur bold and confident. I have watched u becoming. Well done cc. Peace and love from South Africa 🇿🇦
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you so much !
@ericakane6388
@ericakane6388 3 жыл бұрын
You are speaking the truth sis and I love your beautiful accent🥰
@HomeWithSimone
@HomeWithSimone 3 жыл бұрын
I literally glanced at that book sitting on my bookshelf this morning. I read it a few years ago. It’s so matter of fact. It’s like ripping the bandage off and allowing yourself to heal. The Art of not giving a F... is a good read. You’ll walk away with thicker skin for sure. Great Video 💞
@llllllllllllily
@llllllllllllily 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I really needed this. I read self help books sometimes but they way you articulate these points is so personable and authentic.
@taniriches
@taniriches 2 жыл бұрын
thank you for this octavia. I value you and your content
@earla-ashleemassiah4649
@earla-ashleemassiah4649 3 жыл бұрын
I'm watching this and im like yo.... I'm listening to myself. I'm happy I'm past this and I know it's a daily practice for me but I'm grateful for you sharing this video bc for me when I was in that dark spot I thought only I experienced it. xx
@FutureAttyInTheMaking
@FutureAttyInTheMaking 3 жыл бұрын
That’s why you are one of MY FAVE KZbin CONTENT CREATOR(s)! 💞 Your transparency and genuine outlook on never apologizing for who you are is truly AMAZING! Keep being AWESOME, GORGEOUS, AND STRONG - QUEEN 👑 A MILLION AND ONE BLESSINGS TO YOU! 😍🙏🏼
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@FutureAttyInTheMaking
@FutureAttyInTheMaking 3 жыл бұрын
@@OctaviaB 💞
@armaaneclark4545
@armaaneclark4545 3 жыл бұрын
Octavia I literally wish you all the best sis! You’re such a beautiful soul.🤍 Thank you for sharing such great advice xo
@LisaSmith-oz9mi
@LisaSmith-oz9mi 3 жыл бұрын
Octavia speaking facts!!!! I needed to hear this.♥😊
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Kokoskitchen.
@Kokoskitchen. 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much baby girl honestly this is what I needed to hear I'm 24 but I'm going through the same thing but after hearing all these things you said I feel so relieved and happy thank you so so much and you got a new subscriber today
@jae-annedanae4512
@jae-annedanae4512 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly just found your channel but this is great advice and I’ll definitely have to keep returning to this video
@garainesumatsenga9177
@garainesumatsenga9177 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Octavia I needed to hear this TODAY
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@d.nelysm
@d.nelysm 2 жыл бұрын
I watched when it was released and I had to come back to this for the reminder. Thank you Octavia 💎❤️
@DanieG91
@DanieG91 3 жыл бұрын
And that’s on THAT 💁🏽‍♀️💕✨, this video came in perfect timing! I’ve struggled with similar things that you’re mentioning and it’s SO good to hear someone else speak on it especially using the platform that you have! You’re one of my top fav KZbinrs
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you so much!
@marshapollard3148
@marshapollard3148 3 жыл бұрын
Octavia you can always tell constructive criticism from bad mind. Continue to let it roll off your shoulders❤️
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@MissAuntieAshAsh
@MissAuntieAshAsh 3 жыл бұрын
I applaud your word of wisdom
@ashavalii
@ashavalii 3 жыл бұрын
so grateful for subscribing after the first video of your's i watched, we think so much alike its refreshing
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
❤️✨ Thank you for subbing
@phoebechristina
@phoebechristina 3 жыл бұрын
Ohhhhh you added a clip from Nur!!! She’s amazing!!
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Yes love her
@chemirem.3934
@chemirem.3934 3 жыл бұрын
You’re going to be a great motivational speaker one day. I can already see you giving seminars on life improvement skills. Touching content as usual
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@OctaviaB
@OctaviaB 3 жыл бұрын
❤️✨
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