TIRED AND OVERWHELMED CLEAN WITH ME | DEALING WITH MOM BURNOUT | CLEANING MOTIVATION

Hello everyone! Long time no video, so sorry! In today's video we'll be doing some much needed cleaning and discussing mom burnout. If you've been feeling like you're constantly running on empty, juggling too many plates, and just downright exhausted, you're not alone. Mom burnout hits hard, and today, we're tackling it head-on, together. So, grab your mop, your duster, or just a cozy blanket to wrap yourself in, and let's chat.
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Hello everyone! In today's video we'll be doing some much needed cleaning and discussing mom burnout. If you've been feeling like you're constantly running on empty, juggling too many plates, and just downright exhausted, you're not alone. Mom burnout hits hard, and today, we're tackling it head-on, together. So, grab your mop, your duster, or just a cozy blanket to wrap yourself in, and let's chat.
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[@yagurl7494]

Wow Okay! These videos are amazing and needed. To the “tough love” comments I’m reading… ANNOYING. depression is so real and it doesn’t just disappear because you received some great advice. So how about you keep that “tough love” to yourself because it’s honestly really sad and unnecessary to see. Most of of the time people who have a similar experience as this beautiful creator, already beat themselves up, CONSTANTLY. They don’t need others yelling there insecurities in a comment section. Let’s practice sharing these videos to others, and posting a heart and a story to motivate the other viewers who needed this video and maybe even your inspiring story. Much love to everyone!

[@user-nw8eu6bk8n]

Some of these comments are awful. If you don’t like here content…don’t watch it? With that being said, I absolutely LOVE how relatable and transparent your videos are. I use these videos consistently for motivation and tips to clean my house! You’re amazing❣️

[@FaithMatini]

Thank you for the kind words! I do appreciate a little feedback even when it’s hard to handle (sometimes those are the ones we really need to hear!). ❤️❤️

[@lisajohnson4190]

Stay strong! You have a community supporting you!!! Ignore the negativity even though I’m sure it’s tough. One of the hardest lessons has been not everyone likes me but my true friends do.

[@PrettylikeTisha]

I’m NOT a mom, and I’m experiencing burn out. Life is HARD, and adding others that depend on you for care and guidance, having to work as well as keep your mental health in check is a difficult task most days. You ARE doing what you need to do to care for yourself and your family, and that’s what matters. Having to admit that you are burnt out and then seeing people belittling and insulting you is not what you need. Keep going…this is more motivating than you think. Thank you for being so transparent and letting us know that things get hard, but we can pick up and keep going!!!!❤❤❤

[@brittanyhorn236]

No need to apologize for rinsing dishes before going into dishwasher. I do the same with mine. I don't have a platform on KZbin, but I I'd completely ignore those statements if I did. Or laugh them off. Do what works for you in your house. They don't live there. Love your videos!!!! ❤❤❤

[@PrettylikeTisha]

I also wash my dishes before running them in the dishwasher. Mine has a sanitizing cycle, so I feel better about washing them twice lol

[@canishamoten5419]

I'm experiencing mom burnout. I have been so overwhelmed. I can't find the energy to even get up and clean. I work Monday thru Friday 8am to 4pm. Help is bare minimum and it's just been taking a toll on me.

[@FaithMatini]

You got this! Let’s get better together, one day at a time!

[@nevergonnagiveyouup1104]

I’m a full time working mom and I’m married with 2 kids. I definitely know what it is like to feel overwhelmed and burnt out. I love your honesty and can so relate. Great video!! Take care you are doing great😊😊

[@Sassymom5]

I understand being a mother of four never allow anyone or anything make you feel bad about yourself keep moving forward and let God make a path for your family

[@ms.carmeng7995]

Faith it takes a lot to post your life on the internet. I know you are doing the best you can. Just be you, learn and grow. You will be fine.

[@alesiajohnson-bracey]

Welcome back Faith. I've been waiting for your newest video. Keep them coming. Praying for you.

[@kristentoomey3092]

Hey I just want to say I love your videos. These negative comments are awful and honestly disgust me. You are a strong, you're not making excuses, your beautiful and mental health is real. Unbelievable how stuck up and horrible people can be. Your videos motivate me!!! And I don't mind that you talk about the same stuff in your videos because I'm in the same boat and it takes years of healing!!! But we are getting up and doing the work!! I'm proud of you and I don't think you should ever stop working on yourself or pretend like your problems aren't real. Keep going faith. ❤️ And thank you for these videos.

[@srichey444]

Hi Gorgeous! So glad that you're vlogging again. You don't have to apologize to us who have been with you from the beginning Sis, nothing is more important than your well-being and the well-being of the Twins. Another great vlog! 🤌🏽🤍💫 God bless you all. 🙏🏽✝️

[@mtchar9312]

The best response for nonsense comments is silence. Do not feel obligated to dignify ignorance with acknowledgement. You keep soldering on being your awesome amazing self!

[@marynelson3094]

I really enjoy your content. I’m NEVER annoyed by you. This is real life. We are to show grace and respect towards each other. I’m very proud of you Faith. God is with you. You are truly blessed and beautiful. Always remember that people will be people and that’s exactly why our trust and faith is in Christ. It’s hard sharing our lives with others. Especially the imperfect areas which we all have. You are courageous, smart, intelligent and blessed. Keep moving. Vlog, video, record whenever YOU feel comfortable. Post, share, complain, laugh, testify etc. You true fans love it. Stay genuine and humble. Don’t let people change when, how or what you upload. 🎉❤😂 And remember no one can minimize, manipulate, intimidate or control Gods children. Be free in YOUR life and on YOUR channel. If they don’t like it they can scroll away. 😊🎉😂❤

[@lisalovett5902]

I am another who is always looking out for your videos. I would like to offer up a suggestion that has always helped me. I will not cook in a kitchen that is not clean, and so I have found that is motivation enough for me to ALWAYS keep my kitchen clean. I raised our three girls with that belief, and now that we are empty nesters, I still live by it. Pick up when the boys go to bed at night. The peace and joy that comes from it is truly priceless ❤.

[@agentskyhouse]

Wela’lin, thank you, for all that you do, especially for going at whatever speed you need to. No one else can decide that for you. I absolutely get what it’s like to be frustrated that you can’t do more, chronic pain/seizures from nerve damage (from hate crimes with decades of overwork piled on top) have me doing 5% of what I used to, and I’m still learning that what I usually need to do most is stop, breathe, listen to what Life is telling me, and probably slow down even more so I can actually heal. I came to this vid from your vid recapping/revisiting your oldest depression/clean with me vid, and while I know the circumstances are extremely different, I hope you’re recognizing that your home is so, so much cleaner and your routine is so much smoother. It’s often hard to see the amount of progress we make when we’re just getting through the day to day, but you should be proud of yourself for everything that you’re doing. So for anyone that says you’re not changing: You are, it’s impossible not to. And you’re clearly not only following the path Life designed for you, but you’re doing better and better, despite the stress or the exhaustion. Be well and take care 😸✌🏼🌈

[@alicialove2811]

Thank you for saying out loud what a lot of us are feeling

[@LivingLikeMary]

I completely feel you! I do KZbin as well not the burnout is REAL‼️ I recently became a mom and whoa. Event though my husband is an amazing teammate, the weight I put on has hindered me in ways I can’t explain! I’m currently on a weight loss journey and I’m so happy I watched this! Thank you for the transparency! ❤

[@Suzie-he9ni]

I do dishes like you. There's no dishwasher in the world that will absolutely clean dishes.😊

[@AFPB11]

Oh lovely girl, you are doing the best you can, being a single mother is not easy, in fact it is one of the hardest jobs in the world. My advice to you is put a little money away each week even if it is $5.00. Having a little money watching it grow each week is your security for the future...As a single mother and now raising grandchildren I wish I had done this...life is tough enough and having a little nest egg makes you feel more confident and eventually the future will take care of itself. Keep telling your self how wonderful you are, because in my eyes you are. Sending you lots of best wishes and love always

[@FaithMatini]

Such great advice! Definitely working on building that nest egg!

[@scarlettpinkrose]

Thank you for being open and transparent when you don't even have to share such feelings. It definitley helps me remember that I am not alone. You have a new subscriber. I enjoyed this video. It was very motivation. I listened/watched as I cleaned my kitchen. It was last on my list today, and Iosing steam. Lol. Glad I decided to click on this video!

[@seithatim9833]

I love the fact that you are putting the more important things first. This shows you a hardworking and reliable person . I will take this and learn from it. ❤

[@NjoguNjogu]

Nice to see you back Faith n thanks for sharing nobody is in your shoes to stop you sharing how you feel...talk it out if you hv to,it's your channel afterall!

[@peterrenzi4674]

You are beautiful the way you are God made you that way be blessed you don't have to be a size 5 like everybody says oh if you lose weight your knees feel better if you lose weight you can go up and down the stairs better you know what God didn't make us all the same be blessed the way you are because the number one thing is health and there are people that are skinny that are not healthy at all so ignore those people what they say be happy you're beautiful and you know what don't change nothing❤ fiorella from Canada God bless you and your children

[@sabrinagivens6467]

I agree life is overwhelming sometimes and I understand where you coming from because there's times that I shut down so I understand where you coming from but stay strong baby girl you'll get through it God bless you and your you're handsome twins

[@lornahenderson2245]

So amazing to see you back! Love your videos ❤

[@nicolehardy8124]

So glad to see you again. I really enjoy your videos! Doing an awesome and amazing job! 🙌🏾😊

[@FaithMatini]

Thank you so much!! ☺️

[@meganstewart6160]

Love you!!! Always a joy to see you 🤗 God has you!!!

[@user-eb6pt6gz6d]

Glad to see you! ❤

[@tamikomcgee-conley2055]

We missed and love you. Keep sharing!

[@karenfrancis1527]

Hi! Glad to see you back on. First of all you’re a great mom. Your kiddos are adorable and are well taken care of. Your situation is for sure tough, but I admire how you keep going each day. I enjoy your videos. Stay well and take care.

[@shaybaybay]

This video is why im cleaning after dropping my kid off at school! ❤ you are so sweet and relatable you dropping this video was divine timing for me. Blessings to you and yours😊

[@user-il7mi7bw3c]

You are doing a great job! Just do what you can! Enjoy your boys!

[@cheeksl4914]

Good to see you back. Sis ive lately have experienced the same things you have been going trhough and yes, sometimes we need to take a brake bc its alot and will continue to be alot especially when we are alone doing it all. Dont let anyone discourage you with foul and insensitive comments but embrace those that lifts and inspire you. Bc if they are not experiencing what you, we, others are actually experiencing then they will never know. It is an up and down thing and as long as we can gain strength to bounce back with Gods strength and Grace, it shall be well and better.🙏🙂

[@donnaw8265]

Missed you ! Glad you are back !!!

[@andreiafigueiredo6681]

Q bom q voltou !! Gosto muito dos seus vídeos 😘

[@cokeytate6022]

Faith I was so happy to see you post a new video I said where she been it's just a joy to see you 🖤🥰😊

[@kimberlydouglas7892]

Welcome back 😊 Love your videos!!

[@FaithMatini]

Thank you! 😃

[@anasfactory9797]

Welcome back Dear! Missed you!

[@ruthyanosko5635]

I am inspired by you and your loving care for your home and your children...i struggle with energy too. I think you are very intelligent and hard working. Your comment about taking time to exercise and eat right resonates to me.

[@FaithMatini]

Thank you so much!

[@frankiecarrington3224]

Hey ❤ same tired and overwhelmed but God is still good keep going we got this

[@kimberlybenjamin-thevoice5333]

You are doing a great job ❤ and I’m sure your boys are loved

[@pepiortegajimenez1068]

Se que es muy difícil salir de ese bucle y se de lo que hablo porque he pasado por ese camino! Pero ir repitiendo eso como un mantra (y yo lo hice millones de veces) pero eres tu quien tiene que decirte otras cosas! Me alegro mucho de volver a verte y ver tu fortaleza por que la tienes! Créeme! Fuerza!!

[@Damnrustynail]

Happy to watch your upload today. Take care 💗

[@Sharon-xd7vw]

Welcome back I missed u

[@chichigirl214]

Love you Faith, good to see you always ❤

[@itllhavetodo]

You are doing great! Keep it up mama. This is normal and not enough people talk about it♡

[@chantelegorham6005]

Hi, I don't know you personally but i can sympathize with your situation. I understand what it is like to sometimes feel helpless or even backed into a corner. Perhaps your first step is, since you know how your mental is, is why not confront that situation head on instead of letting it take you over the edge and then you have to start from the bottom to begin to even be back to where you were when it started. Example: if you know that ever Tuesday you need to buy milk and you hate going to the store on Tuesday because the store is packed, how about you go Monday or even Wednesday? Meaning give yourself opinions so you won't feel overwhelmed. This might not work everytime but it could at least make it so that you can eliminate some discomfort from your life on your on terms. This is just my thought, do with it what you will. I hope that you eventually find more peace in your life. Take care!

[@kat10784]

Keep your head up ❤❤ sending positive vibes 😊😊😊

[@jackiehutton1023]

I enjoy your video good to see you back

[@Christine-hy3jd]

Thank you for sharing. God bless you all

[@FaithMatini]

God bless you too! Thank you!

[@margaritamartinez6413]

God Bless you and Family❤

[@FaithMatini]

God bless you too!

[@rickyandtheothers5835]

Lovely video Thankyou, watching from Australia 🇦🇺

[@jackieginy366]

I just love your videos ❤❤❤❤❤

[@phahlamohlakaAnita3778]

It has been a while mama,we missed you so much❤❤❤

[@shh2248]

Thank you Boo 🩷😘🥰😊

[@Redd.Ro1]

Good Morning nice to see you ❤

[@colleenfromnh5860]

Thank you for your honesty oxoxoxox

[@user-fd9jn2uz7u]

Hi Faith,it’s Merlyn from S.A .Love u girl it doesn’t matter to me about how long you take to come back to ur channel.❤

[@fatenghalayinii2456]

God bless your effort .. where can i find like your dish dryer rack

[@tannir1543]

Thank you so much...ich love your videos❤

[@ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq]

Good morning 🌄🌞 blessings ☕ awesome 👍🏾 job 👏🏾❤

[@honeycandy5741]

I can't clean in jeans and a sweater i just can't....i don't know how u do it

[@conniesanelli8816]

Thank you for sharing 👌❤❤😊

[@tresameeks6416]

Hi faith good to See you again, where have you been? you're doing an Amazing job also get Some paper plates that should help take Care God Bless! 🧡🧡

[@colleenfromnh5860]

Nice job. Not easy but this season of life will pass.

[@user-ro6hb3qs1z]

ماشاء الله نظيفه ومرتبه تسلم يدك❤

[@Charenia1]

I’m going to clean now❤

[@brendamurphy1099]

Your looking beautiful❤❤ God is proud of you beautiful queen...❤❤❤❤❤

[@FaithMatini]

Thank you for the kind words! ❤️

[@wandaramos6760]

I love your videos. Kisses from Brasil. 🇧🇷

[@anad5238]

Greay video Thank you for sharing❤

[@beekind6267]

Glad to see u! How are the babies? ❤

[@FaithMatini]

Growing fast and keeping me busy! ❤️

[@beekind6267]

@@FaithMatini of course! Enjoy your weekend 😘 🥰👍🏽🙏🏽

[@user-iv3vd5zi4f]

Amazing

[@thalirianpereiraneto6628]

Oiii adoro seus vídeos vc esta de parabéns são 10 maravilhoso ❤

[@lorrainesimmons2645]

Hello Faith. Good to see a video from you. The twin's should be 5 by now going on 6, if I'm correct. They a few year's younger than my Grandson ❤

[@FaithMatini]

Yes, just turned 5!

[@user-yu7kl9sj1n]

Hey ms Faith..b blessed

[@einekundin9490]

Hey beauty, nice to See you again.❤ greets from germany. Anna 🌞

[@sugarbie]

💛

[@wilnajaye9644]

Gurl! You are beautiful and you are doing amazing juggling all the roles you have! Take it ONE day at a time. Start by just walking 30-60 mins a day. May Christ cover you and your babies! Daily Pray your way through👏🏾

[@FaithMatini]

Thank you! ☺️

[@FATIMA-qm5jz]

❤❤❤

[@carlabraham4857]

Girl I do the same thing nothing don't wrong with it you can't the dishes in the dishwasher with food

[@mardwella]

💜💜💜💜💜

[@yupdest7129]

Hi I know some tips that can help you with weight loss you can do Intermittent fasting so you don't start eating until 2pm and dont eat past 8pm or 830pm, so you can eat between those times and still have your meals and snacks etc and before 2pm you can still drink liquids water juice milk tea, and i dont mean this in a inconsiderate way ❤

[@genadigenua8498]

Bentornata. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[@margaritamartinez6413]

Have your Family help out too❤

[@FaithMatini]

They do and I’m so grateful for them!

[@sylviawashington4502]

Hello ❤❤❤❤❤

[@juanyescas8715]

Hey faith i have a question

[@majdachanane7754]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊

[@Xedice463]

Hay my svit you have byutiful home l am always looking your vidoes ay love you ay am from Azerbaycan❤

[@meltemezer9995]

Merhaba Faith.uzun süredir video paylaşmadin.Merak ettim.Sevgiler❤güzel günler çocuklarınla birlikte🌷🌻🪻💐🍀🌹

[@thalirianpereiraneto6628]

🇧🇷🙋‍♀️

[@bobbybailey3428]

Hello Long Time More.video

[@MzBonafyde]

I swear women are the worst, these comments could serve as a Masterclass on Entitlement, Audacity, Passive Aggressive Backhand "compliments" and the pot calling the kettle black. It's called an UNFOLLOW BUTTON Folks.... That being said Hugs Gurl, one day at a time, lil changes in habits over time equal out to big changes in the end. Still life has its phases! Focusing on getting your body right first is such a god idea, it will help you gain the energy needed to tackle other areas of your life. In 2021 I had a burnout and gained weight that had me at my heaviest. I focused on nutrition, ditched the coffee for my energizing debloat tea cocktail, and started walking everyday. Later I added in working out on KZbin. I lost the weight and my energy skyrocketed! Filling my mind with personal development also helped tremendously. I wish you success on your journey.

[@christelarmstrong9598]

I understand someone showing how life is for them but i dont understand how many times will u keep repeating the same story and not taking the steps to change...change only comes when u really want change find the resources to get better and get the help u need to be better its not about what people see or say on internet that matters..

[@latieshatabb-hp4cy]

What's the point of having cleaning videos with nothing to clean, i enjoyed the video beautiful ❤. Keep going queen 👑🤎

[@FaithMatini]

Thank you!!

[@dashulamite]

Strict keto diet. Dr. Berg, youTube.

[@MelkysBusiness]

We can tell if your place is really filthy and you are struggling by the level of filth on your floor. I think this video is a filler video which is smart and actually shows your growth. Best wishes and don’t feel as if you have to fake depression or anything for views or $$$. We watch for you and your triumphs too. Xoxo. 🌷🌷🌷❣️❣️❣️

[@FaithMatini]

Aw thank you for saying this!!

[@Scifi-eh8fw]

People with depression don’t fake being ill they fake being well to avoid the judgment and lack off understanding off others.

[@corasbloom]

Get a house keeper.

[@FaithMatini]

Already got one - me 😂. She just gets tired of cleaning sometimes 😂

[@niecybaby1960]

And this is why I get annoyed with you. You talk about being tired and overwhelmed a LOT! I mean it’s the same cycle. You leave and you come back with the same anthems: single mama, I’m tired and I’m overwhelmed. But when you’re given practical advice or held accountable you want to push back! It’s difficult to change believe me I get that. But what makes it more difficult is talking about it and still not changing. Making excuses for why you haven’t changed and then getting defensive when someone talks about what might be helpful. If you want to make peace with yourself either change or make peace with what you have now. It’s about making a decision anything else brings on suffering. Just like you needing to lose weight is obvious to you it is obvious to us as well. You don’t have to talk about any of it and then we won’t have to talk about it either. Forge ahead! Much Love.

[@liliandiaries4592]

Aouch! Tough love right there. Would love a friend like you😊

[@adayinthelifeofv6837]

Some much tough love. But I was honestly thinking the same thing.....and then to come back after not posting for months with a 20 min video is crazy. She is a great youtuber....I love her content but it's getting kind old.

[@corasbloom]

You can tell she self sabotage herself because of how she became single baby mama and that's very frowned upon in her culture. She has to let it go and build herself up.

[@msbridgettrbradley]

Maybe her goal is not to get advice. Maybe, just maybe, she is a Creator, who likes to share her actual life, thoughts and feelings. I appreciate her sharing her story. She is in the thick of it, so change cannot happen right now. We are all a limited resource. And there are periods in our life that require so much of us, that we do not have anything else to give in certain areas until later on; Its called prioritizing. I appreciate her speaking about it for as long as it is true (however long that takes!) We all struggle with things for years and seasons. If you are so vexxed, leave, as to not grieve yourself. Our answers cannot be to silence someone because their struggle incites frustrating feelings in ourselves; we should be encouraging people to continue to talk about their experiences. Maybe her content is not for you; she has ppl who she is serving with her story. I would have loved to have felt the connection & not feeling like I am the only one when I was raising my son earlier on, and I will always support more people speaking up. Other people need her vulnerability, and its okay if its not you.

[@itllhavetodo]

Imagine a world where mental health could be solved by just "changing behavior" its not that simple and if you get annoyed that people don't improve at your pace, maybe you should find another channel to follow.

[@user-nw8eu6bk8n]

Some of these comments are awful. If you don’t like here content…don’t watch it? With that being said, I absolutely LOVE how relatable and transparent your videos are. I use these videos consistently for motivation and tips to clean my house! You’re amazing❣️