Will This Frugal Mother’s $9 Pageant Dress Wow The Judges? | Toddlers & Tiaras

[@metheanimallover]

"She's gonna look the way she feels comfortable looking" -Amazing pageant mom

[@jordannowings3035]

-Alane*

[@suspiciouslysollux590]

Annabelle Guiditta it’s the mothers name

[@lol_absolutelynot]

yes ma’am 👏🏽

[@tamielynne7374]

@@jordannowings3035 i thought it was spelled "Elaine"? Or is it pronounced with an "A"?

[@daisyrobnson9281]

Ye your right my mams nome is Elaine so​@@tamielynne7374

[@hapustatw]

She may be the only pageant mom I've seen that isn't a terrible mother.

[@edenlobb4431]

She seems really sweet and her babies are happy its very refreshing

[@Saniyah7]

Like it

[@cezza6474]

Hannah Haul ‘we don’t do that [fake tanning]’ ikr??? It’s not putting her daughter down like some of the other mums on this show. What an amazing woman 🥰

[@hapustatw]

@@cezza6474 Like all the other mums on the show more like.. she's the only mom I've seen that encourages her daughter's talents over her aesthetics.

[@Charlotte-hd2mp]

Hannah Haul I saw one others that’s it

[@Mysterychan]

“Who needs fake lashes” “Not me” Yes queen give her that self confidence

[@pillowy1526]

Mystery Chan Ikr! A mom who teaches her daughter well!

[@-crybaby-6751]

😀😀😀

[@chocolatecookie6992]

And that's on good parenting 😁

[@sigourneyivison7838]

For once it's actually good parenting

[@Nick-dx2pt]

@нεηтαι !?!?

[@evamojje]

Refreshing to have a mother that wants her daughter to look natural. She’s a winner in my book.

[@lailahdlc]

Definitely

[@mermaidreviews4693]

Yes she would do great in the natural ones with out the judges that want all that fake stuff

[@malina1239]

Putting a child in a pageant make lose all respect for every mom who does that . It’s a horrible culture. This mom might be better that the others, but no model mom, that’s for sure😅🙄

[@sorryimwrong433]

@@malina1239 nothing wrong with pageants as long as the girls (or boys) are having fun doing ir

[@bharathym]

@@lailahdlc yep

[@danailazaridi4695]

"it's like being an artist ....and I'm terrible at art." I felt that

[@nebula983]

Ikr

[@venusrages8424]

Doggo • 25 years ago my brother got

[@lovelysparkle7931]

Totally got her on that

[@headintheclouds7905]

Same

[@kyleeg_10]

True dat

[@scarlettmacpherson4630]

When she said she doesn’t fake tan and glue fake eyelashes to her daughter I smiled. So much better for children in the long run

[@OtterThanMost]

Exactly! If my daughter ever wanted to do a pageant, this is exactly how I would do it! It’s all about learning, being humble, being modest, but still having fun and trying your best, all the while learning so many skills along the way!

[@realsmollbean]

Uh spray tan and glue fake eyelashes are completely fine, but what DOES get on my nerves a bit is when parents would bleach children’s teeth or waxing legs or eyebrows

[@OtterThanMost]

@@realsmollbean yeah I don’t see an issue with things that won’t harm the child and as long as they are taught that it doesn’t make them “better”

[@madeline7824]

Judges: ew I could see the hoop in her skirt She is NINE keep it to your damn self. How about her TALENT. These people boggle my mind.

[@courtneywilliams7869]

I judge pageants. And unfortunately you have to find discrepancies in each contestant. The parents pay for them to be JUDGED

[@cubixdani3347]

@@courtneywilliams7869 The parents do pay for that, but at the end of the day they're still kids, and the way that one judge said it was honestly disgusting to me.

[@purpleeyeshadow9560]

Yeah. I think she could have said it nicer. She said it so rude. She's a KID, be nice about it.

[@princess_mina1015]

@@courtneywilliams7869 that's true, but some of the judges were saying some things that weren't very nice. Yes, they are judges, but the judges were being mean. It's unfair that they are tearing this girle confidence

[@courtneywilliams7869]

@@princess_mina1015 unfortunately some are like that. I'm not 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Bottledincandescence]

Ok but the dress they thrifted was actually really cute and suited the daughter well? The hoop skirt/cupcake dress is LITERALLY a staple wedding dress style for adult women - cause it. is. cute.!

[@rebeccapalm2863]

I thought it was a beautiful dress. Much more suitable for a child than the short ones they usually wear. The fact that her mother refurbished her own wedding dress for the hoop had me amazed, but when she said that they got her gown for only 9 dollars…. Great job, mom Not only should the other pageant moms take notes, but the judges should also I’d like to see one of them try to make such a beautiful outfit with the same things… Oh wait They wouldn’t 😜

[@robbiewalker2831]

@@rebeccapalm2863 I'd say Natural Beauty Pageants are the better choice, Glitz Beauty Pageants have got to go.

[@j.j.9123]

The problem with the dress is that it wasn’t altered to fit and had the wrong support underneath. It could have been stunning.

[@Barny-26]

She’s too young to be looking like she has boobs. That top on that dress was inappropriate for a little girl👎

[@Lovedance5678]

The dress fit the kid horrible it made her look like she had breasts.

[@kiwiraichu]

"Wow who needs false eyelashes?" "Not me." "That's right." She answered in such a sure and confident way! Such a good mom.

[@jaymeswinn6397]

read this comment EXACTLY as it happened

[@oddtalkwithaubree]

4.8k like 😊

[@kimberlyabbott2767]

Why is the title "will this dress wow the judges" when it should be "amazing heartwarming mother is actually a good parent"

[@kt_ladybug]

Agreed

[@madeelumis4710]

True

[@teethsdump7651]

"who needs fake eyelashes?" "not me" lil queen in the making foreal

[@urmum3100]

Yaaaaasssss in itttt

[@doofy379]

Every time my sister says she hates her long eyelashes. BC they get in her eyes because she wears glasses. It that just her?

[@lllm5421]

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[@beansythedoggo177]

Omg that part happened right as I was reading the comment

[@evasteinbacher7235]

This is the best pageant mom ever!

[@coraavenue1941]

I did pagents for years and the one thing I can say is that is that this girl has natural talent. Her mother choosing natural, no tanner, and telling her not to be robotic is going to make her stand out every time. I’m glad she doesn’t want to compromise her child and her budget for a hobby.

[@nerdgeekcosplay909]

I’ve never done a pagent though if were I’d only want to do one based on my natural beauty.

[@robbiewalker2831]

@@nerdgeekcosplay909 Alane has taken Alessondra to natural beauty pageants, which is what the mother/daughter duo specialized in. They didn't want to falsify Alessondra's inner beauty. So, we learned that natural beauty pageants are more sane than glitz pageants.

[@Yankeeladyb17g]

Natural is the way to go!☮️♥️😃

[@BrittCrescentMoon]

This is the most normal mom I've seen on this show. Honestly props to her.

[@jianneparallag580]

Types of mothers Other moms to their kids: She didnt do well, she will lose Her mom: it's fine😑

[@Lady.B0420]

I completely agree. And after the talent performance, she was so supportive and pointed out the positives instead of the negatives. I love her mom❤️

[@Sasha-bh5fm]

Ysabella Razon yes but that is only on the show in real life all the parents are nice the show is fake

[@abe2661]

You mean the cheapest mom

[@AkiraAlexisSoyra]

Yup

[@sophiax3774]

this mom seems like she’s actually in the pageants because her daughter enjoys them - not just for money. we stan.

[@calilovett2063]

Yes, she seems to see the whole thing as a fun hobby for her and her daughter to bond over, which is what it should be considered by EVERYONE.

[@Beezlebub6913]

she treats it like a kids school talent show and i love it.

[@katzuart5128]

666th like-

[@magpietheclown]

We stan

[@chilledart1269]

Exactly, its so refreshing to see, probably the best mother from these pagents ive seen

[@andreasalicrup7159]

"Who needs fake eyelashes?" "Not me" "That's right" I love this mom

[@kamrynkarlson8882]

Andrea Salicrup yup

[@ambiflawn9703]

I remember my first pageant when i was like 6 i think, my mom put on fake eyelashes even tho i have long and thick eyelashes and its so annoying!

[@zoeyelaine]

I like how realistic she was, she really cares about her children and treats them like a actual blessing.

[@Cheetahgirl_Studios]

She called her daughter a miracle child that’s enough for me lol. Props to this woman for encouraging her daughters to love themselves for who they are.

[@nooneimportant361]

That dress is prettier than most the really expensive ones I’ve seen in the show. And no tan? I respect that

[@lazy5670]

No one Important honestly the tans kinda makes the kids look orange lmao

[@marleniquintin7236]

Ollie Chiu like that orange president

[@humanthefinn3409]

Right? Most expensive dress that I've seen in this show are wacky and ugly. Her dress is simple and comfortable for a kid.

[@crazyowlgirlcncowner]

Her dress looked like a mini Quinceañera dress. ☺

[@brittanyrosie5531]

She has natural beauty,so she shouldn't need anything to change that.

[@velky_reeds]

Hearing a pageant mom say "no big deal" is so rare, she's a great mom

[@MsBrendalina]

It probably helps that the mom is smart enough to not blow thousands of dollars on dresses and tans and professional makeup for her kid. It's a lot easier to brush off a loss when the parent has the good sense to not invest an obscene amount of money into a silly beauty pageant.

[@jazzyjaz9108]

She's a great mom but still puts her kid through pageants, she still has her 9 yr old acting like a pretend 25 yr old

[@crazyowlgirlcncowner]

@@jazzyjaz9108 Well, Alessondra actually really wanted to do pageants and begged her mom to do them. Besides, I follow her on Instagram and she's a really nice teen now focused on her school and on cheerleading. ☺

[@jazzyjaz9108]

@@crazyowlgirlcncowner yeah a lot of the children want to do pageants, they're younger, and everyone goes crazy that the mom's are terrible to put kids in these pageants. Great that she's a nice teen but these pageants are still disgusting either way.

[@dove8722]

That mother is lovely. She respects her daughter and isn’t forcing her to wear or do anything she doesn’t want to. Also I love the mothers hair. Daughter is adorable. And I was shouting at the screen saying no no no at the damn popper not going off!!!

[@nicolecourtney8688]

I was big mad at that darn popper too! 💀Like can we get a do over? When i was a kid we got do overs 🤷 That little girl is gonna grow up well rounded though imo. Her mom is such a good mom

[@susanwilliamson9096]

We dont have this type of pagent in uk. For that i am pleased. All those little false girls will not know how to cope au natural .you go girl great mom

[@halcynical]

she's one of the best moms in this show to be honest. she teaches her kid to love herself as she is, without needing a fake tan, fake lashes or fake anything.

[@sierra4766]

When she said we don't need fake lashes do we, I was so happy. Teaching her daughter true confidence.

[@ChamplooSamurai8]

"Who needs false eyelashes" "Not me" "Exactly" That just warmed my heart

[@imfine5834]

Mine too it warmed my heart too

[@Felix-hx7td]

Ikr

[@Emily.Russell]

Same

[@knees7133]

She said "that's right"

[@iAmMadeOfSoup]

I think fake eyelashes are ugly

[@grells_kid7883]

•No whining✓ •No screaming✓ •No being spoiled✓ • great kid✓ •great parent✓ •WHOOOO✓

[@gachapango2234]

Lol

[@peelove8513]

When the kids ARE spoiled it's the parents fault

[@LakennaChitmanBooker]

Definitely

[@Carolinaloveschrist]

I’m your 1k like!

[@xestien]

And the kid actually looks happy

[@moonlightbae8311]

Not that much makeup No tan No fake lashes This is what you should be teaching your kids

[@aelipaen8445]

Yes, exactly

[@moon_marina]

And she still looks stunning

[@whitedove2137]

But judges didn't seem impressed. What do they expect exactly from these kids. They were not encouraging enough. Instead they were giving looks and being mean. I understand that they are judges but a little encouragement is never wasted. That mom was resourceful conservative and she did everything economically. So this paegent gives a wrong impression that only rich people can make it. I think paegents should not be just about beauty and looks. But instead they should give a strong message w And judges need to show that. For eg. Look at Priyanka Chopra . She is a pagent holder miss world but she is a woman of substance. Strong headed, straight forward and a matured woman who realised her responsibility towards society. These kind of paegents are giving wrong messages. This woman and her daughter were so genuine and true. And their approach towards life is so perfect

[@elizabethbaird7671]

Teaching your kids to be effortless

[@birdy4696]

Moonlight Baë I feel like- I think you should teach your kids to do whatever makes them feel happy and comfortable

[@jaylennjay-abe4052]

I love how the mom comforts her daughter when she thought her dance didnt go well and she told her daughter how amazing all her tricks were to a popper. Thats a good mom right there

[@iimuffinsaur]

A mom not giving her child a spray tan for glitz??? Can she please gt a reward.

[@jordannowings3035]

Muffinsaur no

[@krinhmcfluff]

there should be a "natural look" section in the competition... u know all those other kids would loose XD

[@jordannowings3035]

Krinh that kinda defeats the purpose of the whole pageant😂🤦🏼‍♀️

[@iimuffinsaur]

@@krinhmcfluff There are actually pagents without glitz.

[@krinhmcfluff]

@@jordannowings3035 good

[@victorianrat65]

“When I hear that someone spent $1800 on a pageant dress, I just think of how many hungry little children I can feed with that $1800” PLEASE PROTECT HER

[@lovelyoliveart]

Omfg hades

[@veosins5574]

Umm yes i love your profile picture 😍😍

[@figpixie]

Ahh hades with glasses is very good. Yes good. Very good.

[@collinlewis520]

Ikkkkkk

[@petitcactusamer]

But how many hungry children has she actually fed is the question

[@inomu9129]

I love how her mom is so calm and isnt stressed. She just wants her daughter to have fun

[@lili-ki1ik]

Baddie and she doesn’t force her child to tan, wax, bleach or anything

[@samanthaxprettyb]

Yesss

[@pearl9731]

Right?! And how the mom empowers her child instead of pointing out her mistakes

[@katecarney6746]

I was the seven thousandth like

[@addison.6347]

Baddie that’s the best way to make your child to be comfortable or they’re going to have temper tantrums so I would be calm too as their mother😂😂

[@paigeschmidt1506]

I’ll be honest, at the beginning of this clip, I was ready to roll my eyes but as I kept watching, I really liked this mom and this little girl!! This mom has a down to earth approach to being a pageant mom!

[@nicolassmith1278]

Hi pretty lady. How are you doing today?

[@j.schlagg]

@@nicolassmith1278 Sir this is a Wendy's Drive Thru 🤨✋

[@suesylvester6456]

i love this mom. she doesn’t want her daughter to be fake, all she cares is that she’s comfortable

[@janetcarpenter6236]

Oh my god I’ve never seen sue sylvester say something nice before 😭

[@dan-gy4vu]

SHE EVEN COMFORTED HER WHEN THE POPPER THING FAILED LIKE WHAT THE HELL.

[@rachelelizabeth2115]

sue sylvester Yeah even if she doesn’t like the best she’s comfortable and happy with what she’s doing which is what matters

[@LynagustheSmall]

thats a good Mom. :)

[@camrynaimi5499]

Janet Carpenter lmao

[@unconventionaltoothfairy2068]

That little girl actually looks happy doing pageants, it warms my heart

[@callanightshade8079]

When kids are doing pageants because it's fun to them it's always heartwarming. I also love how the mom teaches her that you can still look fancy without having to spend a lot of money. That's not something you see often with pageant mom's

[@anna-oj7uu]

Calla Nightshade Some kids parents force them to do pageants and you can tell

[@callanightshade8079]

@@anna-oj7uu oh yes and when that happens you can see how unhappy the kid is

[@malloryscherff2299]

“who needs false eyelashes?” “not me!” THAT WAS SO POWERFUL

[@bxxyz4093]

Ally S THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING

[@angelinajose4410]

Ally S bahaha

[@elizabethbaird7671]

Nothing about that was powerful

[@lonelyglader8154]

Elizabeth Baird wow you have no heart, do you?

[@bunni3.248]

ONCE U WEAR THEM U NEVER GO BACK

[@Hannah-uv8hy]

"We're not gonna win at any price, there are certain boundaries" THANK.YOU

[@nothingtoseehere2234]

“Think about all the hungry little children I could feed with that 1,800” BLESS HER SOUL 🥺💓

[@DaMenaceSociety]

Tea_ Xoxo when she said that, I knew she was a good person.

[@nothingtoseehere2234]

XxLilTeenGamerXx ・ ikr. She isn’t like the other moms, and I respect that. She’s gonna be my role model when I get kids.

[@Loophole9239]

No hate, 2:18 she said eighteen hundred dollars ($1,800). (18 grand is $18,000)

[@nothingtoseehere2234]

devora shapiro my bad. Thx for correcting me

[@helioheaven3074]

Julisa._. H True, She isn’t like those moms who are like “you’re getting boob implants at age 10”.

[@trishataylor]

"you don't wanna look like a robot, you wanna look natural." *applaud people , applaud*

[@curlyfries9151]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@wrenclark4907]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@frogonthebikeheh]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@ellaforlin8160]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@hiyabme1670]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@meadowamore7757]

This mom is not a frugal mom. She’s a good mom, she doesn’t bother spending money for her daughter, she’s just teaching her good lessons and life skills. She’s teaching that she doesn’t need expensive clothes or makeup to look good, and the personality inside is more important than beauty. Great job, Alane! Alessondra would definitely have great life skills.

[@Luna-wy7sq]

Well said!

[@llloraremos1240]

ikr

[@cyb11114]

What part of the word frugal made you feel like it had negative connotations ? It just means sparing with money.

[@ilovelife_111]

And she wasn’t also mad at the things that went wrong on stage

[@sp1derweb082]

I agree but I still don’t agree with parents sending their children to pageants because they are being judged on how beautiful they are and when they don’t win it can really bring down their confidence

[@TaterTotXDXD]

I love how her mom was talking about how that one crown was more special to her because it took her 8 years to win it. This is the first mom I've truly liked

[@averageday]

That really resonated with me ❤

[@deadliestchic8768]

I normally can’t STAND the moms but I really like her! I love the fact that she lets her be natural. The judges SUCKED!

[@drawingdoritu]

YESSS

[@jordynehargraves]

The fact that the mother wasn’t mad about he popper was amazing bc most moms would be LIVID

[@Tara-id3rk]

Jordyne Hargraves yep, and they would totally blame it for their daughter not winning the highest title. This Mom is fabulous

[@yasthedino3802]

Ikr

[@elliecubitt8176]

i read this comment before the video and thought you meant the little popper during her home practice bc it went everywhere

[@jessellafriends6761]

This mother is more mature, she doesn’t cake her face, and she also doesn’t give her tans.

[@bl1247]

yes! and because the mother is mature and well adjusted her child is too. Alessondra isnt bratty or screaming like i see in other pageant girl clips.

[@katea2279]

She also doesn’t bleach her teeth! 😂

[@animehuntress9018]

I'm not a fan of kids pageants, but I can certainly appreciate this woman's attitude. She reminds me of a "dance mom"(an actual dance mom and not that crap on tv) or "Soccer mom" . Her kid likes to do something so she supports her but doesn't go nuts or overbearing with that support.

[@ljmazzeo]

Jessella Friends k

[@mikaelasolis6443]

Indeed

[@hotsoup1339]

This genuinely made me smile. Alane clearly cares a lot about Alessondra and how comfortable she is. She does her best to lift her child's confidence and looks out for her wellbeing whilst allowing her to compete. She seems very down to Earth. I wish more pageant moms were like her.

[@kurtsgirl8376]

This is how pageants are intended to be, the kid is happy and the mom isnt spending the grocery money on pageants

[@alexis-eb9nq]

kurts girl *and the kid isn't having a mental breakdown about makeup*

[@lanilol1700]

XDDD

[@jamieplatt9238]

kurts girl exactly plus she looks like a little girl.

[@riawally5627]

kurt's girl yes, AND the mom didn't flip out on the poor kid when the popper didn't go off. She tried to make the daughter feel good about the extra cartwheels she did instead. I thought that was sweet

[@IntrusiveDuck]

@Hashtag Be yourself not in that way some of the kids look over 15 and higher

[@deeznutz4572]

a pageant mom that lets the child have a childhood? YES BEAUTIFUL-

[@smileyouregonnadie]

Duuude... hoshi!!! *hugs from fellow carat*

[@Maya-ym3jz]

Can you help me get into Seventeen thank you

[@no_where_land9947]

This mom actually seems like a great mom. Doesn’t want her daughter to look fake, doesn’t put a ton of pressure on her kid, wants her daughter to do her, supports her daughter

[@sigourneyivison7838]

I know eh

[@lovestruck2222]

agreed

[@faithslijters3958]

Agreed

[@skylahpompomyeet3001]

But pain is beauty soo I’d get fake

[@caramel2230]

Most other moms force their kids into this but this mom is supportive in her daughters hobby and doesn’t sexualize her

[@arixlla458]

This mom is so supportive and loving. No child meltdowns, no mad mothers, NOTHING! This girl was raised right.

[@lilybreee]

I think I had a stroke... a *reasonable* pageant mother who I agree with

[@yezi8584]

SAMEEEE

[@lol_absolutelynot]

yas girl this was a refreshing episode to watch lemme tell you 👏🏽 it made me smile soooo much #gomom!

[@laurenw6225]

Ik!!

[@Whitneypyant]

Same

[@nekale1439]

Lily Cortes 😂🤣

[@courtneyehalchak]

“We’re not going to win at any price; we have certain boundaries...” This mom is amazing! Other pageant moms need to take notes.

[@lisababy4lyfe]

Exactly.

[@ITI-xi5zx]

I mean, she's still entering her children into vanity pageants that prioritize girls' looks/outward appearances/sexualizes young girls, so I wouldn't call her "great".

[@Havis_Princess]

@@ITI-xi5zx if people see kids as sexual it's their probelm not the kids. A kids wearing dress, makeup and sometimes nails, all of which they have stuff made specifically for kids.

[@ITI-xi5zx]

@@Havis_Princess No, telling young girls that it's all about their looks is a problem. do we really need to be telling little girls at THAT age that they need makeup, fake hair, nails and dresses to be valuable?

[@ruthodell4021]

Agreed!

[@emilyperry541]

"How long did you compete in that pageant until you finally won?" "8 years" Alessandra: 9 years old

[@gowonsnuggets7332]

Well these kids do start very young

[@Anonymous-eo2er]

Emily Perry dragging a 2 year old to a pageant isn’t great

[@niicoleplayzrblx8470]

Anonymous [26490] she wasn’t dragging her. The daughter was inspired by it at a young age and started doing it.

[@Emily-nr2xd]

🤦🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

[@21phandomsatthedisco29]

Anonymous [26490] to be fair this mom doesnt seem to be as bad as the others. Therefore, this kid actually enjoys it and she has confidence.

[@BCFarbo]

I liked how this mother points out how hard and long her daughter worked on something. "This one is special it took 8 years to earn." Excellent tone about life and grit.

[@user-rq9nw7et3l]

I love the fact that even though the popper didn't work out, the mom still comforted and encouraged the daughter.

[@trouvaillx1132]

I mean what she did when the popper didn’t work was more impressive

[@ashlynnheller8400]

It always bothers me when parents on this show get all worked up when a costume or prop malfunctions or somethings wrong with the music. Its great to know she handles it like an adult.

[@xgacha_._berryx8958]

I'm your exactly 1.1kth likes

[@user-rq9nw7et3l]

@@xgacha_._berryx8958 wait i have 1.1 k likes-

[@anashe11]

@@ashlynnheller8400 yes! And comforts her daughter w a big hug when the daughter was upset over it. Absolutely love this mom she has the healthiest pageant mom mindset ive seen

[@Painted_shark3471]

"it was a little too much" they say about the girl with the most minimalistic look

[@makimxyvko855]

RIGHTTTT

[@rosemary_carll]

Yeah suuuuuurrrreeee

[@janhabibarat7271]

Sorry if this sounds forward, but honestly, you are a beautiful girl!

[@Painted_shark3471]

@@janhabibarat7271 really? Thankyou I appreciate that 😊

[@skibby504korea]

I cried a little lol like she is so sweet to her daughter “who needs eyelashes?” “Not me” like yessss give her unbreakable self confidence 😭😭

[@gabriellecoupland5835]

YES!! im so for this

[@eli2658]

skibby504korea we all know you didnt cry.

[@skibby504korea]

Kermit tears of joy

[@caramel2007]

most pageant moms are kinda forcing their kids and this kind isnt against the idea of doing spray tan and heavy makeup but the mom isnt because she knows whats right

[@domc4522]

skibby504korea her ego is gonna get big

[@haileyosaurus]

Honestly I approve of this mom more than others I’ve seen. She comforted her daughter by listing her accomplishments and kept the spirit of it’s not the end of the world

[@abfarrow3596]

At least she's not a spoiled brat like most pageant kids.

[@socorrobrun7284]

True (3×)

[@Straw_berri3]

Or being forced to do it.

[@beccak8166]

I think some of the kids seem spoiled because they're having so much pressure put on them by adults and they cant really express that frustration yet, so they act petulant

[@gachawolfy9041]

AB Farrow ikr

[@juliuspearson4202]

theyre not spoilt theyre raised wrong and constantly overwhelmed with expectations despite being literally like 8

[@cha-ve-lyoop3696]

Her mom is actually the only good mom I’ve seen in this show, she budgets with her preparation and is calm about her daughter’s mistakes I love it

[@calliann2840]

Cha-ve-ly Estevez go look at Brooklyn birds mom. She is a really good mom and does not force her kid to do stuff she does not want to and she only spends around $300. And her kid is not a spoiled brat she is very sweet 💕

[@laurensliwka480]

Cha-ve-ly Estevez me to

[@user39104]

I know right! This mom is doing so well

[@cinnamontoastmunch8652]

Cha-ve-ly Estevez I know!!! It’s so amazing!!

[@hopexx4006]

Cha-ve-ly Estevez I was literally gunna say something Somalis but you done said it lmao i Stan the mom so much

[@jazzkyle6835]

“Who needs false eyelashes? Not me” yes tht confidence

[@NeneMiko22]

Jazz Kyle Yass!

[@deleted1539]

more confident than i am when i get called on in class lol 😂

[@MsDudette21]

I never understood fake eyelashes. It just seems too pointless to me. I myself hardly acknowledge eyelashes. It's fine if you want to wear them though (if you're an adult or teen. No child needs that).

[@aimee2053]

@@MsDudette21 love the profile picture

[@MsDudette21]

@@aimee2053 Thank you 😊 Millie is just too adorable❤

[@MxNEWCASTLE]

I love that she consoled her kid, then helped her build confidence. She understood that she was upset and was there for her, but she didn't let her kid doubt herself.

[@rainbowlady1532]

Ikr, that melted my heart! Most of the other mother's scold thier children then tear down thier self esteem which is disgraceful. But this mother and her two daughters are too pure for this world. Protect them at all costs

[@rachelj4886]

this mom is much more healthy with her child then the others

[@Ellie-iu3sg]

We finally found a child and mother who actually thinks normally

[@sunitha2743]

Extra healthy.. Look at her neck line...u can see nerves

[@sunitha2743]

N she's awesome

[@lili-ki1ik]

We finally found a child that’s not a brat and a mum that is nice and kind

[@hailees8464]

suneetha devadi

[@MariaAguilar-cu9zt]

“Who needs fake eyelashes?” “Not me” “That’s right” I can tell that girl is going to have so much confidence because of her mom.

[@Gracey222]

But in a good way 🥺💖

[@nightshadekelly]

Her mom is the best mom there

[@emmiheart3793]

@@nightshadekelly Yup

[@torey4322]

Yes! 💕 simply amazing

[@sadie.grayyy]

Yea, she’s a good padgent mom

[@munawunaaaaa]

That poor girl still tried to keep her smile up even when the judge gave her a mean look.

[@SevenTailedWolf72]

Moooji Sometimes I really dislike judges.

[@munawunaaaaa]

SevenTailedWolf72 ft. BLACK*ROCK Studios ikr. Like seriously they’re just kids

[@Beezlebub6913]

they where glaring at a young girl because you could see a hoop in her dress

[@munawunaaaaa]

haizac yeah I know but the girl thought the judge was looking all mean at her

[@ilciavargas7318]

The mother does look older than she probably is. Poor little girl she has a forced smile.

[@sph1226]

She’s so glad to have her miracle babies and it’s evident in how she speaks about them and treats them. I’m glad she was blessed with them and that she is grateful for them.

[@HaleyOxton]

“honey. you did incredible. bc the popper didn’t go off you did three more cartwheels, two more walkovers, and another split. that’s much more impressive than a popper.” 🥺 the sweetest mom.

[@dove8722]

Haley Oxton I know right 😫😫

[@1thingtosay1]

@@roseagt5902 it's clear the kid enjoys it and that they have a good time doing this together, and that the mom respects and loves the daughter...

[@limanibar5888]

Cezanne Silverton well she wants to make her child very comfortable and the child seems to like it

[@AvaJea22]

Why does my shirt smell like I have been cooking out

[@sarahrandolph7036]

Cezanne Silverton if you watched the show, this specific child actually loves parents and content muted to beg her mom to do them

[@mdk2808]

I feel like, this girl is going to grow up liking herself and not hating herself.

[@goodvibes6226]

Yeah!

[@kittybarker2329]

Yep!🥳

[@folacantube]

Honestly! Props to mum, you've done a good job

[@paradoxic7869]

She's gonna have god tier confidence. I even like how she call her daughter's "Frozen Chosen". You can tell they're loved.

[@addison7624]

@@paradoxic7869 But of course, she won’t be too cocky

[@optulent4041]

The mom is so right keeping her daughters appearance natural when she says 'Are judges really judging the fakeness or the little girl?' From 2:47 onwards

[@cynthiamartin3645]

I liked this mother a lot. she is keeping it toned down and isn't making it a traumatic event if the child doesnt win.

[@Heather_ash.03]

That mom needs an award for the most reasonable and best mom on this damn show. Good job mom for being so supportive of your child. :)

[@jesscateyesquad]

I agree with you 💖

[@bambi7563]

Heather_ash.03 why do y'all wanna give awards for everything. Like you literally wanna give her a damn award for being a reasonable mom, really? Nah stfu with that stupid bs

[@pneumaa]

Bambi well not a lot of pageant moms are like her that’s why we’re crediting her smh who peed in ur cereal

[@kiraholemon6802]

Bambi who hurt your feelings? Compared to other pageant moms she is the most level headed and reasonable especially considering she’s not making her daughter get spray tans and look like a 25 year old at age 9

[@trintrin3507]

Bambi it’s just a saying chill out lmao

[@cococaramel4176]

If all pageant moms were like this, I wouldn’t have a problem with pageantry

[@sosounheard]

have you actually ever met a pageant mom? or are you basing it off of the staged show?

[@ppsooyoung9720]

Soré Suni a lot of them are super competitive. To the point where the kid doesn’t even want to do it.

[@Copperflash]

Coco Caramel I used to to pageants when I was younger (I’ve since stopped, my last one was in 2016) and my mum was much like that. She never made me wear anything I didn’t want to wear, she let me pick my dress and she never let me wear things like fake nails or false eyelashes. She wasn’t competitive either. I won a few but the ones I didn’t win she always said the same thing “it doesn’t matter as long as you had fun” which I always did. Something I noticed, at least in the ones that I entered, was that the overly competitive people never seemed to win. The people with enthusiasm but not cockiness tended to do better. I’ve only ever witnessed a few times where this could not be said. Then again, I had never been in a glitz pageant because not only did I not want to, my mum wouldn’t let me enter those ones anyway.

[@gay_salmon6655]

Same

[@DreamOnAStarXx]

The problem is parents forcing their kids to do these things. You can tell this little girl actually enjoys doing pageants and has fun and so her mother encourages her and helps her out with them. In a lot of cases, the kids were pushed into pageantry because the PARENTS want to win money and gloat about their “beautiful” children winning beauty pageants. You can ALWAYS tell when it’s something the kids want vs something the parents want. I’ve seen the same sort of parents in dance, and those kids were always the most miserable. It’s truly sad. Kids should get to choose their hobbies, not be forced into doing something so that the parents can exploit their children or live their failed dreams out on them.

[@victoria-pappa]

“It’s like being an artist. But I’m terrible at art.” My whole life story

[@thetop6730]

1.4k likes, no comments, and super relatable!! This comment is underrated.

[@keira216]

Omg as soon as I read the comment that part came on lol xd

[@kelseybarton]

Art just takes practice! Everyone can be an artist with a little bit of perseverance! If you want to be an artist, you totally can be!

[@tabiBLAKEMORE]

This is the first mom I’ve seen on this show that I actually semi- respect. She’s a mom- not a bestie. It’s still super problematic to teach your kid that it’s ok to judge people based on looks and fashion choices, but this little girl is more well adjusted than 99% of the moms in this show.

[@cindyshan4021]

"I think of how many hungry little children I can feed with $1800" ALRIGHT, MIC DROPPED, DOWNRIGHT BEST MOM ON THE SHOW, LET'S WRAP IT UP BOIS

[@lisababy4lyfe]

Or think about that money that could be invested in stocks.

[@mowganashwey]

My mouth dropped, I've never heard something this awesome out of a pageant mom. Go girl!

[@searchingsoul1728]

@@lisababy4lyfe Selfish...

[@lisababy4lyfe]

@@searchingsoul1728 Huh? How is that selfish??

[@searchingsoul1728]

@@lisababy4lyfe Your comment is under people praising her for thinking of others and you are there talking about how to get rich for yourself....

[@ghadialshaye6001]

This is probably the only pageant mom that doesn’t pressure her child and actually supports her

[@angelhatesyou75217]

That's like saying every soccer mom is those overbearing angry p.o.s screaming on the sidelines 🙄

[@dokii4130]

Yes

[@finn6368]

watch kim of queens

[@youparejo]

@@angelhatesyou75217 no it s not. Pageant mom are way way worse

[@cocooavu2907]

so far this one is the best pagaent mom I've seen

[@simplyemma7131]

This mom is a good mom because she not one that yells at her when she does something wrong and she doesn’t give her tans she doesn’t spends millions of dollars on her dress

[@sbe3224]

Emma AnD I OoP millions lmao

[@angelwalden198]

Just because parents spend “millions” of dollars on there child doesn’t make them a bad parent at least they are not neglecting their child or abusing them and no pageants aren’t abuse they are more of a hobby some kids like doing pageants some parents force their child to do it but that doesn’t mean they are a bad parent

[@positivesunshine4085]

No one spends millions of dollars.. only a few k 🙄

[@Jujubee87]

I agree. I fell like alot of those kids are forced. This girl seems like she wants to do this. And I love this natural thing!!! I want to see the actual beauty of these children not how much makeup they can wear!

[@White-guy]

I love how they both have fun and she makes her confident instead of pointing out little things

[@kiraslator5101]

“She’s going to look the way she’s comfortable with” WOW

[@twigkin3056]

we stan her

[@Ladybloodtide]

Kira Slator I love your Pic

[@peacenlove3faith302]

Wthat I like is that mom proudly told her daughter that all the extra cartwheels which the girl came up with on the fly were so much better than a stupid popper, she is teaching this child that Natural is better. But letting her child do something she likes.

[@laratobya2541]

peacenlove3 faith that was one of my favorite moments, cause other pageant moms would try to not act annoyed at their child or would just straight tell them that what they did was not good enough

[@HarlieHarlot]

This is the first mom that I've seen on this show who doesnt live vicariously through her offspring. It truly is all for fun for the both. She seems to be a great mom. No pressure, just go out there and do your best.

[@SecondEvilEx]

I wanted her to feel happy

[@tokyobby1699]

“You did three more cartwheels two more walkovers and another split”💀💀 she’s a good mom❤️

[@Loola_A]

Finally a pageant mom that doesn’t make me hate their guts! I really like her, she’s nice and supportive and doesn’t treat her daughter like plastic

[@FollowerOfJesus99]

The noise that judge made because she didnt like a CHILD'S dress told me everything I needed to know about children's pageant judges, and it's awful.

[@thankyouforincorrectingme]

Came here to say something about this exact moment. .. what a wretched, immature, hateful excuse for a human.

[@emiliak8481]

I still hold a grudge towards the judges in that one pageant I did as a child lol I was also the modest, the most “normal” looking girl, but guess who won? The girl who had tons of make up and was dressed as if she was going to a strip club… so yea, proves your point

[@mayashemesh7370]

I don't understand what was wrong with the dress it looks fine

[@jaishriram2674]

@@mayashemesh7370 me2 The dress was absolutely beautiful like a princess and was unique too!

[@searchingsoul1728]

Exactly. I had to watch that over again I wasn't believing it the first time. The judges seemed jobless, uneducated women, who are so catty toward the kids.

[@hoemylawd9268]

She's actually the only girl I've seen that looks like the same person before and after the transformation. 😍

[@examichelle]

She looks effortlessly pretty

[@jadejelly7204]

i think she always wears makeup

[@gachasweets7547]

Ikr

[@emmarc1208]

YEAH THE USULLY LOOK LIKE MY BARBIE DOLLS I HAD WHEN I WAS A KID.

[@jessicadrozdzynski7063]

Kemdjcj

[@fatigued4646]

This is the most sane pageant mom and kid I've ever seen it's so refreshing

[@georgesbleps897]

Love your pfp and user, also ikr

[@carrotsticks8922]

HAMILTON!!!

[@lavender-ei6uk]

beautiful pfp

[@Thunderkkat]

HAMILTON

[@lavender-ei6uk]

@@Thunderkkat YASS BEST MUSICAL (plus heathers that's also a good musical)

[@demoonyo]

"My miracle child Alessondra is my very own happily ever after" The best thing a mom from this show ever said

[@youlittlestinker5503]

This is the first time I actually like one of the pageant moms

[@themagnoliaproject864]

But, I want to pinch that middle judges face back straight. I hate how she let's her judgement show on her face. 😡

[@hsnrb9959]

Can never like these weirdos, pimping out their kids for prizes and money

[@jackycook64]

@nolan dolan is my husband ;] I was thinking the same thing. It also looks like she is doing a great job raising her daughter

[@bladee7686]

But she wears padding and its honestly so huge

[@freddie.a6516]

Same

[@spiritedawayvalley]

The popper didn’t go off that means you did two more cartwheels, 3 splits! That’s way better than a popper! I love this woman!!!!!♥️👏

[@ag24543]

I like when she said how many people she could feed instead of buying expensive clothes

[@jiminslefttoenail]

Ikr! it made me soft

[@teruko7835]

Jimin’s Voice Is Higher Than My Grades sOfF

[@-Reagan]

Right, but it's not like she'd actually donate that money. Sorry, but that little quip was meant to pull a "feel" string in people - it was a cheap beauty-queen-pageant-explanation and it was snarky against the moms who do spend the money - all of her direct competitors. She said the girl was a mini-me and that she dressed her for pageants the way she wanted to dress - she admits she is living vicariously through her daughter. Just the fact that she had not one, but two children at an older age, (one would've been enough - but then to do it again, and be having a BABY at that age) - it's purely SELFISH. The child will not have her for as long as she needs her. She cannot foresee how long she will be well or even alive. It IS great she's not spending the money she cannot afford (or more importantly, that she's not stressing her daughter) but, her daughter is feeling the difference, and she is putting her daughter up to be literally judged without the right "equipment" for the challenge. This alone is causing the child stress. Be the adult. It's up to the mom to know it's an automatic fail in pageants when you go against the grain and the rules - spoken or not. It's up to the mom to know that brings criticism on the child where she doesn't need to be criticized - why even have her do Glitz pageants at all? It's up to the mom to protect the child and direct her towards activities that build her up, not where they learn their self-worth and value is based solely on how they're judged rather than being able to self-validate and draw from within. Just stick with natural pageants (if you absolutely MUST) or better yet, find a hobby that translates into something she can use later on in real life - like actual charity (what was she saying about feeding the children?? That might look great on a college resume, impart a lifelong sense of charity and make the kid feel great about herself, too! Why not do that?! My son wants to be a vet - in the meantime he volunteers at the animal shelter - he may change his mind about his goals, but he won't have invested years and years in winning titles that are basically meaningless, and he's giving something of himself and getting something back for his time that is in itself enriching him as a person...)

[@miayeeter2192]

I love the ARMY support I just when to the BTS concert on May 18th it was special because it was my first one

[@rosehasnobias7783]

@Mia Yeeter lucky~

[@carolsc3410]

This mother speaks to her daughter calmly. She explains to her not just railroading the little girl. This is appreciated. Good for the mother/daughter duo.

[@annamienam]

She’s not spoiled, she is very mature for her age. Especially for pageants.

[@Emily-pu4cs]

Mizz Murple Ageed

[@Jill.McGlothlin42]

Mizz Murple Like every other kid who does pageants. Don’t believe gat the fuck you see on tv. Every kid that does pageants are good kids. Smdh!!!! It kills me how many people think Toddlers and Tiaras is real.

[@Pu3aisya]

That is very much true

[@augustlane7823]

You call her mature I babysit kids and I'm only 11 years old I babysit a eight-year-old to two year olds and a five-year-old and you called that little bitch mature

[@canyounot9361]

@@augustlane7823 the fact that you called a toddler a bitch when your 11? ain't mature at all. many kids are forced to babysit. dipshit

[@legendrhi7706]

This is the only Todlers and Tiaras episode that made me smile. She wasn’t spoilt. The Mum wasn’t pushy and rude. They are like a normal family who likes to do pageants as a hobby and not for money like other contestants.

[@ihavenoideawhatimdoing4]

Yeah and the mother is not trying to force her daughter to get a plastic crown she's only doing the pageant for her daughter because she wants her to be happy the other mothers I cannot say the same

[@Myhappytati]

What episode?

[@rainbowisnotemo]

Agreeed

[@kneal9203]

There is a girl named Emerald and she had an episode when she was three (shes thirteen now) and her episode is reall enjoyable

[@aleena.092]

so true, she's a great mother and her daughter is naturally pretty and seems like a great kid

[@lailamohamed2335]

This is the only mom I even like in Toddlers and Tiares

[@bethzyrojas]

Laila El Sabea Tiaras*

[@Mavi-fg6qc]

This is the first mom that I actually like. She doesn't make her kid do anything, she is old enough in order for us to see that she actually wants to do this and it's not a mom making her 2 year old do something they don't want to. Plus he kid is well mannered, the mom is fun, etc. Congrats to them!

[@Fe-go2jw]

Three more cartwheels, two more walk-overs and another split *IS* much more fascinating than a popper!!

[@tanglefur4852]

the little girl: *shakes head no vicuously*

[@opalmarie8466]

It’s just so supportive and cute.

[@therealglowdice8264]

This is beautiful, this mom is beautiful. Her mom loves this, and so does her daughter. They just love doing this to bond.

[@ginadelsasso288]

I just love how she said what you did was way better than the popper...extra cartwheel and splits. What a great mom how she still gave her encouragement even though things didnt go as planned.

[@iween270]

"It's like being an artist" "And I'm terrible at art" *Mood*

[@skdnndksksoweodk6932]

Iween wowowowow you have a lot of likes but you got no comments

[@kaminaridenki2481]

@@lovelykirby I'm the opposite but I wish it was the other way I'm slowly getting better at art so yay

[@kristinhall8435]

What a wonderful mom. God bless her and her daughter. The world needs more moms like you!!

[@matthewmaddox2915]

no fake eyelashes, no tan, no cupcake dress. i smell a good pageant mom.

[@vianjelos]

Too bad the mom sucks at make up...even natrual makeup can look way better than that if applied better...and the dress looked like it was made for adults not kids...so it kind of looked like a prom dress with a shorter hem to fit a child. It wasnt good looking at all...I think even if it was a ballgown style dress it would have looked better if it was actually made for a child(the torso and bust area was very distracting because it didnt fit right in the front it looked very loose and baggy instead of form fitting. I think the mom has the right idea with her rules and not making her daughter fake but I think she would have done better with a bit more skill in makeup and sewing.

[@ameliamorano4039]

Compared to the others

[@lovelydolltime8006]

No pageant moms are actually good. They're exploiting their daughters on a stupid TV show for money.

[@tatirodriguez5447]

Lovely Doll Time I was never in pageants but doesn’t mean their all bad. You can’t just say that because all we’ve really seen is the drama that goes on in these videos. Just saying

[@benazirabdul.a6824]

Yeah

[@allisonb6878]

“You look like a robot, like all the other girls. Don’t look like that.” That line killed me 🤣🤣🤣

[@2122G]

Allison B same 😂

[@diyaparikh6440]

Same girl

[@charlesjoseph6250]

Same

[@avevee9708]

Wow....... a mother who actually cares about money and treating her child like a person with individuality... and she isn’t forcing her into doing anything to make herself look too grown up........ good mama!!

[@ally8939]

Didn't you say that for Jessi Vee's vid?

[@candicecart9786]

That’s probably bc she spent all her money on IVF- that’s expensive - especially 2 that are so far apart

[@miindlove9699]

Candice Cart she couldn’t have kids, so she had that process many women do. my aunt did, it’s amazing to be a mother. money doesn’t matter when you want to be a mother.

[@carlasmith1017]

Helena Maleki do you know what IVF means? Your either really young, or fairly old. If it’s the latter you must have been living under a rock, 😆. IVF stands for In Vitro Fertilization. In Vitro means that the females egg was fertilized outside of her body, like in a test tube or Petri dish. That’s why they use to call them test tube babies. If a women wants children but for many reasons can’t right then, she can have her eggs frozen so that when she is ready she still has viable eggs. The process requires the mother to take an injection everyday that helps her body mature more eggs. A women is born with a certain amount of eggs and when they are gone that’s it. When eggs are harvested from the mother or if her eggs are no good, a donors egg, and her husbands sperm (or a donors sperm) can be fertilized by a specialist. The doctor actually inserts the sperm into the eggs. They usually fertilize several eggs. At that point, it is just one single cell called a zygote. Then these zygotes are grown in a lab for a couple of days until the cells have split enough to be considered an embryo. The doctor then checks the embryos to make sure that they are viable and healthy. Then the doctor implants the embryo, usually more than one, into the women’s uterus. The rest of the embryos are frozen for use at a later time. So, if the mother wants more children she has that option to have more embryos implanted. If she decides not to have anymore children she can donate her fertilized eggs to other women or they can be destroyed. The latter is very controversial. So that’s what FROZEN means. I hope this answers any all questions phew 😅🤪.

[@charlottewharton1629]

Exactely

[@Exceltiaawesome]

This is the best mother daughter duo I’ve seen on this show hands down. They both deserve the world and I hope they look back on this and realise how much respect this one video earned them.

[@ReyBeltane]

It's so nice that the mum and the little girl both think dressing up is a fun, girly activity but not something to try and 'win at any price'. The mum's voice is also so nice and CALM!

[@sonissonixx]

This is the only girl I’ve seen that isn’t fake and is ACTUALLY having fun and I stan her mom

[@hottiegirl4814]

she doesn’t look like she’s actually having fun-

[@annaross3537]

@@hottiegirl4814 yeah she does

[@hottiegirl4814]

@@annaross3537 i mean yes but not at the end. i mean it’s nice for her mom not to be crazy but she set up her daughter to be embarrassed. if she wanted to look more natural and spend less she should’ve just taken alessandra to a natural instead of a glitz

[@tarynsmell4811]

this girl seems like she actually wants to do this and her mom just wants to support her

[@lindah6834]

2.5K likes but no comments? Guess I'll be the first one!!

[@EllaaRosee]

Linda H I’m the 2nd lol

[@annapujate6483]

@@EllaaRosee now the third! Lets keeps this chain going

[@pizza-pastawow6013]

@@annapujate6483 4th lol

[@illumis_lost_killua7375]

5th lol

[@brookejustesen8925]

This mom is such a breath of fresh air. Just a good person overall.