Bride Wants A Black Wedding Dress Despite Her Mum's Wishes | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta

[@djstuntfox]

Black wedding dresses are on trend. Also, Mom is clearly not over the fact her daughter is a lesbian, BUT she seems like the type that will come to grips with it.

[@inmyass6882]

Mom seems to have came to grips with it already but she still doesn't like it.

[@rachelcookie321]

Did she say she’s a lesbian? She might be bisexual or pansexual.

[@djstuntfox]

@@rachelcookie321 True. :)

[@MalignDreams]

I mean I wouldn't be okay with it either I would be really disappointed and hurt but she would still be my daughter and I would still love her and want her to be happy. I can make myself get over things even if sucks.

[@sumire2452]

@@MalignDreams hurt? hurt by what exactly.

[@joshuacorless1233]

That was really nice of the brides brother to support his sister over her choice of dress colour

[@lapetitemorte526]

“My loyalty is to my sister today” what a good brother.

[@ladennayoung2939]

Even though the mom didn't want the color of dress for her daughter. I appreciate the fact that she wasn't controlling, rude, or obnoxious about it. I have seen people be really mean towards the bride on the show before.

[@stac1941]

When my daughter grows up and gets married I am going to embrace everything SHE wants. Whatever her personality wants and suits... If she wants black we are going all out baby girl!!!!!!! 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

[@gingerhammond6446]

It's too bad more people don't think the way you do!

[@donnaokoniewski3761]

Mom has gone through her whole life with certain expectations about her daughter and she has had all of them dashed. Surprise! It happens. I don't think she's homophobic, but I think she is processing that this is her daughter's life, not hers. Being that her daughter and fiance' are paying for the dress, Mom really doesn't have a say. I am glad she came around though and got on board. It made her daughter happy. And that's what it's all about. I'm happy the Beautiful Bride got what she wanted and she will look stunning in her black gorgeous dress. Best Wishes to the Bride.

[@gwens5093]

It's not always about the money, some kids want or need parental approval.

[@donnaokoniewski3761]

@@gwens5093 That's may be true. However, if you're getting married, you should be an adult and not need anyone's "approval".

[@merlin3674]

You seem very wise, Donna❤

[@kiaju_nerd1018]

I’m 16 and I asked my mom the other day if I could have a black wedding dress when I get married someday and my dad told me no and my mom straight up yelled in my dads face saying it’s my day and I can wear whatever color dress I wanted

[@riley2294]

as she should

[@lizard3755]

Not quite the same, but when I was somewhere around 15 I got my hair cut SUPER short, like borderline buzzcut, because I wouldn't listen to my hairstylist and insisted she used a shorter guard length that she tried to talk me out of. I realized how bad it was and managed to preserve my bangs, but I was absolutely miserable and only had myself to blame. My father (who already didn't like me having short hair) asked me when I got home, "Are you lost, little boy?" My mother had already chewed him out for saying something rude when I first got my hair in a pixie cut, and this time both my mom and HIS mom chewed him out. After that point he learned to just not make any comments on my hair if he wanted to keep the peace. I'm still upset about it over a decade later tbh, but I was satisfied knowing my grandma had my back too.

[@VampFaye]

Black dresses are such a classic look. My daughter wore a gorgeous black wedding dress for her wedding. I wish more people would wear colors on their big day. The only reason white dresses came into popularity at all was thanks to Queen Victoria and Prince Albert. Victoria walked down the aisle in a white lace gown, which stunned and captivated her subjects. Prior to the royal wedding, people wore whatever color they wanted. Most people could not afford to have a dress that you only wore once, so they were designed to be worn over and over again. Today, people drop thousands to maintain the "tradition" and wear it only once. The white wedding dress is supposed to signify innocence and purity, so logic says a black dress is dirty or impure. The bottom line is wear whatever color you want. It's YOUR wedding!

[@dietotaku]

It's less about black being dirty/impure and more about it being tied to funerals, death & mourning. But I got married in October and I was gonna be damned if I didn't have SOME spooky colors so my white dress had a black trim that went all the way down the train, I carried a bouquet wrapped in black satin ribbon and the cake had black decorative swirls. Black can also be very classy and refined if done right.

[@eeveequartz921]

Fr tho colored dresses can be pretty too idk if I'm gonna wear a dress or a suit on my wedding day but if I wear a dress I want it to be lavender

[@figmo397]

You're absolutely spot on re: the history of the white wedding dress and colored wedding dresses. If you ever go to a "period" wedding ceremony, the bride NEVER wears white. If it's the 1700s, she'll wear something that's clearly bridal by today's standards in a pastel color. If she's in the Elizabethan era, she'll most likely wear green.

[@kitty62862]

I looked up this one’s wedding. This girl rocked that effing frock, baby. Absolutely crushed it.

[@andydufresne5297]

2015! They've been married about 7 years, now. And yes, the black dress she wore definitely seemed to suit her!

[@theeclecticanimist4415]

where would one find thier wedding? would love to see the whole thing :)

[@HeronCoyote1234]

$6000 budget and THOSE dresses are what they pull out??? They were ALL horrible.

[@dietotaku]

They were limited to what could be ordered in black, Bridal by Lori is not a huge shop like Kleinfeld.

[@sabrinya7700]

Fr

[@bebeerin]

they had some serious limitations! most wedding dresses can't be ordered in black!

[@thehungrygoldfish]

The color limits the options. The more specific you are, the fewer options you have. If you want a color other than white, you have like three options at most lol Blush might give you ten options lol

[@joannadechenne6368]

How CUTE that she asked if they could grab coffee!! LOVE that story!

[@suepall5425]

Lauries's comment to mom was wonderful! Thank you Laurie!

[@vampirequeen5867]

it’s the bride’s desicion not her mom not everyone else, but the bride, it’s her wedding, let her express herself specially on a very special day and event like a wedding

[@gwens5093]

Well the daughter asked do you expect her to lie? It's tough adjustment when your kids don't follow tradition.

[@cnote4971]

@@gwens5093 no just no its the brides choice period she just doesn’t want black she just wants her daughter to be something she not

[@TightyWhiteyTrash]

Her brother gets it. I love a guy that looks out for his sister’s every interest. He understands her very well and knows what she likes. Good guy 🤙🏼

[@rennigaderedd9483]

I wanted to wear a black wedding dress back in the 80s! LOL 😆

[@lisagoff2033]

Brother single? Lol

[@kimb868]

As a mom to three daughters your vision should be whatever makes her happy and fulfilled! It’s her life man not ours we had our go come on folks let your kids live!

[@irishrose7053]

I wish people would leave brides alone. It's NOT YOUR DAY. It's theirs. Let them wear whatever they want.

[@gwens5093]

"White wedding dresses weren't the standard in the West until the 1800s, when Queen Victoria sparked the enduring trend." (The white wedding dress - its history and meaning - CNN )

[@kathyclark2394]

Whatever the Bride wants. It is her day!

[@YoMateo.]

Whoever's reading this, i pray that whatever you're going through gets better and whatever you're struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day! Amen

[@justiceforall466]

I would love to see the final dress in black. Got to be beautiful.

[@mollymelena6104]

The mom is trying so hard. God bless her.

[@cyflym11]

Not saying she shouldn't have had the black if that was what she wanted, but I did like the champagne colour of the one she tried on for the fit. I think that's the sort of colour I would have liked if I'd had a proper wedding dress. It's the sort of tone that would go better with my skin colour than white. Wonder if my husband fancies a vow renewal LOL.

[@itmeeeez]

Go for it girl 😍🥰

[@karlrogers7317]

There is a video of the wedding on this channel - I was there - and Melody looked stunning! It was a very happy occasion to celebrate the two of them: Dawn and Melody!

[@nayahri]

This is, sadly, only one of TWO brides who have successfully purchased a black dress on SYTTD.

[@ykook7000]

The random woman tripping in the background 🤣

[@sandrasmith16]

Historically women were married in dresses of colour. There are cultures that wear white for death and funerals. White wedding dresses are a relatively new colour

[@TheeMizEbony]

i love these videos but im also glad that i know my mother will love whatever i choose but i also know that she will still have her opinions but. as long as im happy i know my mom is happy

[@Moviegirl0030]

Her brother is cute 😅

[@angelsmith2101]

If you can’t accept the brides pick then don’t be at her wedding, it is her day, not yours, and if she wants to wear black then let her wear it. You only have one wedding make it count

[@sgillespie1805]

Whos wedding is it, as mum seems to think it's hers

[@kurtjarabilo6536]

forget the dress. the brother is cute tho. hey stephen.😊

[@marylaczko6539]

She's already marrying a girl, so who cares about the colour of the dress????

[@qqp1045]

The bride's older brother is very handsome

[@riskayanuar5196]

GIVE US A NEW EPISODEEEE

[@GAPeach58]

Year later...same episode playing. Lol

[@mindybee96]

That second dress was nice, but honestly didn't give bridal vibes to me. Black bridal is definitely a thing and can look really stunning but that second wasn't it

[@Sobriebaby]

Why do they act so shocked as if they don’t sell black wedding dresses? Sis you don’t know the inventory?

[@amandabuller8627]

My dress was black and it was beautiful you go girl you will rock it

[@itmeeeez]

I remember last time this was uploaded people were absolutely horrible to the mom calling her homophobic and what not. When in fact, she's just the sweetest and so accepting. They are from another generation, let them be, jeez.

[@pamkay1756]

Exactly. Not everyone has to accept everyone's choices. The mom is there with her daughter. She's an active part of her life.

[@gwens5093]

People are so ridiculous, the mom never said one negative thing about the daughters same sex relationship . A white dress has been tradition for hundreds of years, so it is not unusual for people to need adjustment time.

[@justvibin7883]

Thank you for having intelligence

[@Selynn.]

She's being passive-aggressive, pushy and whiny. Definitely not sweet and most definitely not accepting. She clearly doesn't feel comfortable with her daughter's relationship and she's just overcompensating by being all bubbly. Just because she never said anything blatantly negative, doesn't mean her behavior isn't showing her true feelings. It's kinda worrying that people mistake her atrocious behavior for sweetness just because she puts on a smile and talks like a child.

[@HulklingsBoyfriend]

@@pamkay1756 sexual orientation is not a choice.

[@kellypaulson455]

if she's paying for it then mom should get over it it's her wedding 💑

[@Poisenivy5]

That mom is making me uncomfortable

[@miryamnal8093]

I was not a traditional bride in any sense. I went to a tailor, drew what I wanted, showed some pictures, picked up the material and voila. When someone wants a black wedding dress there is no point in going to a bridal boutique. I am Euroipan, maybe here things are different, but my mom never had a say in how should i look like. We are very close, we sit down i explained and that's was all

[@shastabrown8369]

I want a black dress so badly, but I would honestly settle for a dress with some color on it it doesn't have to be black

[@okie3924]

I think the Cinderella blue silver is perfect for a wedding dress. Or light pink.

[@serenety1]

I had a black wedding dress.

[@angelaavery4264]

When they want colored dresses, why don't they ever go to the bridesmaids floor.???

[@hemakshisaikiarecipies3734]

The mom looked like the daughter

[@gegeworldd3725]

It’s her wedding not her moms I don’t like when people try to control somebody else’s day

[@nancyzorbaugh510]

My oldest daughter when she got married wore a black dress but I didn't care as long as she was happy

[@GamerKru1996]

The bride should have the final say.

[@SugaRae]

The prettiest dresses are always in the back and no one ever pics those 🤍

[@muhamedxheladini6298]

When ur so early u dont know what to say: 👁👄👁

[@kwingle]

ughhh i love black wedding dressessss

[@hgcropp]

As a Conservative Christian I can understand where the mom is coming from like if I do have any girl I would ideally like for them to get married to a strong Christian man and they would wear a beautiful white dress. However I understand that my future children are their me and they end deciding to marry someone of the same gender in a non-traditional ceremony, I may not agree with it but I will respect their choice and love them no matter what.

[@MegaMama61]

It is possible to be gay and a committed christian.

[@ObamAmerican48]

The print on dress one 🤮

[@satiashaw1857]

I just don't get it. It's one thing to express an opinion. But when you have been told in very clear terms what the bride wants and doesn't want, that's when you let your opinion go. She should not have to tell her mother what she wants over and over and over and over again. The mother acts like the kind of woman who gets her way just by smiling and hanging on forever.

[@MLMLW]

I just cannot get behind black for a wedding gown. I wouldn't have told my daughters no if they had wanted a black gown but I wouldn't have liked it. They all wore ivory dresses anyway.

[@justvibin7883]

Poor mom

[@gilliantill1214]

Why bother with a white wedding dress when you're marrying a woman. Black will do.

[@antoniajane5442]

So many of these are repeats.

[@brendamcclintock7548]

Wow!

[@inmyass6882]

I don't like that first dress at all.

[@NYBroncos]

Brett you they are divorced

[@khushboosirova4273]

why was it printed

[@javaqueen1111]

No wonder Dale isn't with y'all. He's a great Christian man.

[@Ashley-yb9nj]

I don't like black bridal dress I want to see melody in a white bridal gown 😮🫢🙄🙂 Ashley says

[@ambermcivor1456]

Sorry but she just didn't suit the white dresses at all! She rocked the black.😍

[@taralynnb]

"found her prince charming" is so back handed. Like ew...

[@zilameneses3243]

Quero assistir dublado. Como faço?

[@deborahkizer4664]

Awsome mom . yay wish we could to see it. All finished that would of taken the cake . beautiful. 🙏

[@supercoolamari602]

Yo I watch this fucking 18 hours later omg😲

[@WhirlyPearly]

Oh Mom shut up, let her have what she wants 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@pendlelancashire]

*Disgustingly obnoxious and atrociously daunting.*

[@constantineangelgutierrez1851]

fab

[@softballm1991]

Are they Wendish's?

[@francescafurini7060]

Col primo sembra una poltrona

[@christinaminoguchi5236]

So funny because in old days before 1840, before queen victoria the wedding dresses were all black or dark. It wasn't until a member of royalty decided on white then all wedding dresses were white.

[@HarleyLilo1988]

I can't do white dresses. There so boring not very wow. I like to think outside the box.

[@suewiseley2724]

didn't like any of them. good yuck.

[@stephanieparker7543]

Gushing for goth.

[@BenDover-es6kk]

*L mom*

[@LoLo-654]

Lesbian and black dress , tell me about disappointed mother

[@LoLo-654]

@@SpockLover27 very much . I can deal with the color “ even if it’s hideous “ but not the other hideous thing

[@LoLo-654]

@@SpockLover27 yup normality is disgusting to you when you embrace animal behavior 😂

[@tomennis2814]

This people are sick🙊

[@cynthiajones4332]

Truly I say to you, whoever hears my word (Jesus) and believes him who sent me (God) has eternal life. He does not come into judgment, but has passed from death to life.John 5:24 Are people born gay? Do people choose to commit adultery/fornicate or are they born with a tendency to sin? Please think about it. Repent/believe or you will not inherit the kingdom of God. Out of love Jesus died for you.

[@PassportBrosBusinessClass]

Did anyone ask THE MAN what color HE WANTED? After all, marrying her is his choice.

[@sharonhill2602]

She’s gay that’s her brother

[@TracyH13]

🤦‍♀️

[@anitacarpenter5714]

Did you actually watch this? No you didn’t you silly fool. How about watch it???????

[@inmyass6882]

First of all they're a lesbian couple marrying.

[@JulietteVeronica1201]

She’s marrying a woman

[@supercoolamari602]

I feel really seXi

[@MalignDreams]

I mean I get it, I would want my daughter to marry a guy I would not be happy if she were a lesbian. And I would want her to have a white dress but if she was really in love with a different color dress then so be it. I would prefer her to be straight but I would love her anyway.

[@SweetN_Sinner]

Danngggg who’s her brother that’s what I wanna know