Dating - The good, the bad & the ugly | Episode 131

[@beatriceamundi4000]

I'm here to remind the babes who download to watch later...lets appreciate that we are able to do that but also as you download remember to like and on the process of download let them ads run so our girls continue to bring us all these rich episodes...Ameeeen sambarry?

[@princessly_precious]

Imagine because of watching tmi I feel so matured in my twenties. No way im people pleasing ...im extremely intentional about the dating. Its about my self worth on the line😑no wasting any bit of myself 💯😐😐

[@ashleynganga]

Righttttt

[@JaneWanjiru-u2r]

Me to gosh I feel like I know everything, 😂I love tmi😢

[@StellaNjiru-f4v]

Ikrrrrrr tell me about it. I feel so mature for my age and mind you I'm just 20

[@nalwovie954]

One thing about Murugi, “I feel like we should do an episode on….” is always at the tip of her tongue!😂 I love it!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@mitchellmaina83]

Shiv and shiku met in their 20s and it still worked , so did most of our parents. You can meet the love of your life at 21 . There's no age limit for finding a lifetime partner, it just takes a lot of work and understanding each other.

[@flonya1334]

I love your shows ladies! Good job. Being a single lady, never dated, very financially stable and own my own house in a gated community....I can't imagine sharing my beautiful space with a man, with all the inconveniences that would come with that.

[@edinahkendi9871]

gurlllll tapping into that financial stability

[@paulinekwamboka121]

This episode is eye opening. Take home message: 1.) Don't assume. Define who you are to each other early on in the relationship. 2.) Ask those difficult questions like are you going to marry each other. 3.) Date other people as you wait to find a suitable partner for you to marry . 4.)Meet family and friends of each other early 5.) If you removed money as a factor, would you date the person you are with now?

[@ichooseviolence2532]

If you remove number 5 many women will run away

[@Augenia]

There is something about Lydia's honesty ❤❤❤

[@ANM657]

Im I the only one who has noticed Lyds jeans have one thigh looking like the African continent? Anyway I digress, real conversation here. Dating in your 30s is definitely very different. Especially when one has done the internal work and understood themselves and what they want.

[@lornahbuffy2201]

Okay, u have prooved your point..you were right singing is better!! Lets do that. Let's go back to singing...we apologize

[@patriciatum1677]

Met my man on bumble, marrying him in a month 😌

[@edinahkendi9871]

gurlll congratulations....am on the app trying trying

[@lilianemwaura7218]

Ah😮 After I uninstall it jana😂😂

[@lilianemwaura7218]

Congratulations hun. All the best❤

[@sellahchabe1248]

That's nice congratulations

[@misvorey]

😂😂​@@lilianemwaura7218

[@muthonimwirikia]

Loving Lyd's blazer😍🔥🔥🔥

[@richardjoelweaver6949]

Murungi whoever does your make up does phenomenal job!

[@IanRitchie-wq3de]

And phenomenal is just the word😂😂

[@marythuo8404]

did @Lyd say she's dating 🎉🎉 yaaaaay.. congratulations big sis..

[@missinjairu1448]

I think Ivy's point was pretty much clear, most of us just got triggered 🤣🤣🤣.

[@petronillahmueni7577]

That woman is really triggering intellectually,very wise,she leaves me with panick attacks anytime I listen to her😂😂

[@missinjairu1448]

Foreal foreal 💯💯​@@petronillahmueni7577

[@beloncekamz2821]

Yaaay! It's Definitely TMIIIIIIII 💃🏿. Happy belated birthdays Queens 🎂🎂🎉🎉. Aki mapenzi wewe😅🤭.

[@maryirungu8521]

I really love this conversation cause i really need it as a single 27yr lady

[@MinPatience]

Dating in my 30s and YAS! No time to dwell on what’s not working 👐🏽

[@scovie6926]

Belated Happy Birthday, girls..and yes, it's definitely Tee-Mmm-Iii Let's keep it at singing, ladies ❤

[@edinahkendi9871]

am like lyd rightnow...more intentional..im on bumble and the experience is nice,,not yet gotten anyone compatible like that but am more vigilant and not just dating

[@herb_a_day]

About the cheating, it's rampant. I personally turn down more married men than single ones. And running into people's husband's on dating sites is what got me to leave dating sites 😂. I am not saying there are no good men, I am saying majority are vile and don't even think they are.

[@yourstrulyKe]

Y'all are preaching!!! These are the good old days❤🎉

[@maremboke]

Now I really miss the singing tmi 😂

[@alicewambui3420]

Me too😂

[@neemanduta104]

Me too 😂😂😂

[@rachaelwanjiru4207]

Same

[@lynnetirungu3021]

Me three😂

[@joynderitu34]

Me one hundred 😢

[@tendokaren4418]

Wonderful wonderful wonderful intro 🎉🎉love it love it .... we're back to it😊I won't stop reminding you guys 😭❤

[@mercythairu2943]

😊 I love how Lyd had grown

[@josiegacau]

met my fiancee on ok cupid cheers to finding our people!!!!

[@joycekimuhu8426]

Did you pay

[@noellaliz5911]

Just to add on, the ugly in dating, when money is involved. You've gotten to a point you are comfortable with one another and you lend him money out of goodwill then hapo kwa malipo!!!Yooh!sh*t becomes the ghetto 😢

[@lianawangari1586]

A man who loves you will never ask you for money hunnie... Run!

[@franciscaampratwum8397]

Naaaa...let's go back to singing 😂

[@stellamuthoni6291]

Ikr🥲

[@sherrynjoroge5467]

You should now start doing movies or documentaries. Its such a joy listening/watching you guys i need waaaaay mooooore tiiiiiimmmmmeeeeee lol

[@hakayi9130]

Lyd, your outfit is it hunny!🔥 Sometimes i worry am just too healed 😂😂😂 it will take a miracle🙏🏽😜

[@_mumbinjenga]

It's definitely TMIIIIIIIIIII❤🎉

[@sibagumede1469]

We can download now again🎉 am I not a happy subscriber, I've been missing episodes cause of work buuut now we back!!!

[@wanjiku805]

Not 62 tomorrow 😂. Lyd you have a way with words.

[@mercypeter402]

I'm at work but I can't miss watching your episodes among the first people😍

[@LivingWithFareed]

Funny thing if you wanna search it up there is a trend called gwababa which is the fear of approaching women so when you talked about are men still approaching women sometimes you don't to be put in a humbling experience

[@Sherri997]

I always resonate with Lydia's POV, especially on relationship matters. Every time she speaks, I'm like, yaass! Giirl same, that's something I would say /do.

[@melissamay6974]

True true, what you focus on grows... that's why I am always a fan of kina Wajesus and Dominion fam for being loud with their working marriages and relationships... they are fr standing in a gap, and despite any drama, they're being brave. Loved this episode❤

[@GirlThatVlogsKE]

Its Lydia's Hair For me 🤩🤩

[@joyceyugi9266]

Lyd you look amazing in this episode. Love the fit.❤

[@natashamuronji102]

Not lydia pushing it even further from 40 to 62 for Murugi😂😂😂😂

[@shelmithmuthoni3841]

I feel like the chances of a woman staying unmarried after they hit 30 are very high cos they are soo much aware

[@ichooseviolence2532]

It's not about them being aware.. it's about many men's preferences as they age. Her age mates and even older will always go for the younger babes

[@sheyogutu]

I have been sleeping on this channel😮 time to set camp ❤😂

[@floridahchepkirui-o5c]

In love with this already ya'll look stunning ❤

[@adventureswithphi405]

imagine saying the intro with you guys and there's no singing!!! please bring it back. Hii ya sahi haibambi!

[@olivianorah4742]

In my introspection about dating I was thinking of the same thing..... extending grace. Literally a few minutes ago 🤯

[@abbykykys4586]

Hapana hapana I shiver when you do the compromised TMI statement/song 😢 it's good to compromise on some things but somethings are just good. Plz go back to singing not singing feels boring like an intro to a boring lecture 😭😭😭😭

[@carolyne8813]

I met my fiance on tagged. It's been 10months n going strong ❤

[@mercythairu2943]

Is it just me or I feel like Murugi is always targeting Lydia for things that she thinks Lydia "should" have. Lyd is so matured and has grown and I love to see that about her😍

[@vanessalusi2590]

My biggest question has been ..What would you do if your boyfriend was asking another lady for a chance to date them and even named you a bestie?

[@LuxuryDazzleRings]

He is still looking,. Maybe also keep looking

[@sellahchabe1248]

I agree with Lydia 💯.Dating in your 30s is totally different from the 20s.What I know and what now at 32 is totally different from what I wanted when I was younger.And about the high level of prostitution on dating apps it's totally true aswell.Its so sad when all men see their on the sites is a booty call.I am a high value woman I have my boundaries and men get shocked when I tell them am not on the app for prostitution.And all yes its raining everywhere even here in Zambia the dating pool stinks.

[@faithmwanda9818]

I love you addressed the issue from last episode. And I get what Ivy was saying

[@veronicahwekesa4845]

Now am left singing alone

[@deemb5284]

I'm happy with the intro it's giving 35

[@suzannembithe9221]

I was used to 'its definitely tmiiii... ' I'll get used to though 😭😂😂

[@vivianrono6287]

This is really the best episode. I'm definitely making wiser dating decisions.❤❤

[@dewpew4714]

Yes I would still get married to my husband if he didn't have money. Because that is not what attracts me to him. I am attracted to his genius mind, maybe because I am a sapiosexual. Never met a man like him. Then couple it with he is kind, composed, honest, good in...🤭many years later, I still look back and smile that I landed him😍

[@BintiPritty]

Love this for you ❤😊

[@brighterdays1322]

That men are not capable part, weh. Felt it to the core.

[@perismkala4275]

Happy birthday to you my loves though it's late 💞💞💞 nawapenda sana

[@janiceaoko4586]

Why are we not singing "it's definitely tmiiiiii," 😢😢now there goes one of my underated pleasure of life 😂😂

[@alicewambui3420]

I'm heree🎉🎉 Wednesday made check☑️

[@maureenndinda3001]

Congratulations Lydia 😊

[@rizikiokumu]

People underate marriage. Its a lifetime commitment and it has little humans involved that need you more. I wish People do it by choice and not societal pressure.

[@thehkc.collection]

i can hear your whispers lydia☺

[@joycemburu8041]

Dating outside Kenya is worse especially in the Gulf nations. It's hard to know if the guy is truly interested in you or he's just interested in company (sex) and that has worsened my avoidant nature.

[@CarenWangare]

You are right

[@mutegikanana2085]

Weeh and the fact most are married back at home and cheating on their wives without even a hintof guilt. I couldn’t do it always wondering whether you are just a placeholder?!!

[@ichooseviolence2532]

Gulf also has the worst type of ladies to date. I tried dating two of them and they are the worst type of exes I ever got in my life

[@shanicemumbi6993]

Can we sing please 🥺😢😢 eeeey!

[@banterwithqueendess7376]

Lydd that wig hairstyle looks perfect on you.

[@Monicahkabaria]

Topic on how to get feminine/femininity energy back😅..am on my masculinity energies ever

[@deekmuninga]

Sasa now that you’ve removed the singing part, what I am I supposed to do with my life?🤔 Please bring it back abeg.😀 Much love from Uganda.🇺🇬

[@buyisilembatha3854]

Another beautiful episode...Related so much ❤

[@odufaikogho5674]

Love you ladies!!! ❤

[@rizikiokumu]

Yes Lydia the good, are few. That is for sure

[@rhodesmugo]

Happy 😊 birthday 🍰 hunnies ❤❤❤

[@TumpeineMapenai]

I love you guys so much 😫❤️

[@tmipodcastke]

🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@GirlThatVlogsKE]

We hate change😂😭😭 you've changed everythingg

[@SunshineVickie]

Why do I usually envision Eli as Lyd's match!? 😂😂😂 y'all tell me it's not just me please

[@ReneeKe-hx4ih]

Same😊I swear they can make a cute couple

[@SunshineVickie]

@@ReneeKe-hx4ih soo cute

[@mrs.naomimunga]

I met my husband on Bumble 🐝🥰

[@akiinefaexperiencinglife]

Happy new year ladies🎉

[@mwanjiku6744]

Me in the comments section…. Mtangaze msimamo in betweers, are we singing or doing the news stance 😂 or we can have half of both worlds😄

[@carrielmike]

Waaaa. .we stopped singing TMIiiiiiiiiiii😢

[@Theugandancook]

Lydia, that BLAZER, 🔥 🔥🔥

[@faithwambui2641]

It was an awesome episodes🥺❤

[@paxliviacherono7157]

We can call it a Wednesday

[@nisamusyoka9917]

Personally I miss the old old intro, the sass in its DEFinitely Tmi was it!😂

[@baddieszn5599]

Happy birthday guyss ❤😊

[@eshycmwangi]

Great 💎💎💎 on the GREEN Couch🌟⭐️🌟

[@ayikiriizemartha4640]

Can we bring back the singing?

[@andabwarosekiarie5477]

Lyd you look amazing 😍

[@juligamineofficial734]

Inlove with Lydia's dangaree

[@TheTanyaMo]

You sing, you are shamed. You don’t sing, you are shamed. Wah Hii Maisha lol

[@wheredowegowhenwesleep]

Exactly 😂 life is short they should just sing lol

[@yolz555]

How do you change your mind about those beliefs of men you have seen around you growing up .

[@princessly_precious]

The conversation about removing money from the equation 🥴🥴

[@royalusala8527]

pertinent indeed.. Ladies need to ask that question... And be willing to humbly listen to the answers

[@skebaso]

❤❤❤❤ love the TMI talks

[@marywanjiku1586]

I stream live to like and comment...then download for my data😂😅😪

[@winniewixakiror]

Aah dating in 30… talk about the struggle for of meeting people because of our schedules.. like after work all I can think about is getting home

[@andabwarosekiarie5477]

Murugi I love your top❤

[@mwangi_mweru_9599]

I need the song😢😢

[@sharonwanja7303]

Hi thanks for this episode,, How long should talking stage last?

[@winniewainaina3143]

Did the episode just cut off at the end? No good bye 🤨🤭

[@Lynneleslie]

Was wondering why too😅

[@petronillahmatheri3947]

😂😂😂I have repeated that laar part thinking I clicked the following video

[@Spinkly]

@@petronillahmatheri3947Giiirl 😂 if I hadn’t seen your comment 😅

[@eve5939]

Me i just want Lydias Therapist I know she has posted like 44 Therapists in her IG Stories but Lydia Please share the therapist you use and whose helped you Please dont Gate Keep 🙏 We all need help.

[@graceguya1682]

Interesting episode as usual. However the ending was abrupt, Lydia was cut off mid sentence and there was no montage after the episode. Error during editing in post production ? 🤔.

[@Everything_hair254]

I missed the part when you started dating