MICRO-CHEATING | Episode 133

[@kirimikajuju]

I'm so sorry Lydia and Murugi too for losing a loved one. The fact that you have continued to show up and give us engaging content ,at a time when it might feel easier to step away shows your commitment to your craft and audience. Please know that you have a supportive community of in-betweeners standing behind you, I offer my heartfelt condolences and unwavering appreciation for continuing to show up.❤❤❤

[@hildamaloya5214]

Your friendship guys is so beautiful I really like it it's my prayer that you guys must remain friends forever. I think the other example of micro cheating is saving your X's photos in your phone,like taking them from social media and be saving them in your phone so that you can keep seeing them

[@sellahchabe1248]

Lydias hair is giving ❤❤.You look good ladies .

[@millicentnaitore306]

what the name of the braid

[@gracemutinda3727]

@@millicentnaitore306 micro-nubian twist

[@peruthmwenkanya2508]

It's the ''are you drunk?'' for me.. Lydia can be really funny😂

[@angelayez9114]

Had to pause at 41:36 for a short story, a guy I was going on the date with for the first time came with his friend who was more funny, charming, and was attentive to me. Guys, I was confused!!😄😄😄 Let’s just say I chose not to go out again with the guy I had initially come to see.

[@leiladrammeh3991]

Yhooooo😂😂😂😂 you had to save yourself sis

[@maryboke8912]

🤣🤣🤣

[@TheRessyroberts]

😂😂

[@lilianliviah8341]

Sisterhood is proud of you😅

[@JaneWanjiku-l7f]

I'm gonna have to disagree, emotional cheating should not be excused, it's actually worse than physical cheating.

[@akiinefaexperiencinglife]

I agree,it shouldn't be excused(it'sjust (un)fortunate that someone can get away with it)..I do not think it is worse than physical cheating,it's a step towards the physical cheating if one is not consciously aware of it...and I would say that we should evaluate our emotions to learn more about ourselves and our behaviours,for our own well being and those closest to us.

[@oliviakadesa2754]

Llllllllllllllllllllolllllllllllllolllol9lllll😊llllllllllollol

[@sherismith8361]

I went through micro cheating but I was too lazy to break up. He was texting some girl he had met and he was venting to her about our relationship. (We were in college). I saw the messages aka shed some fake tears and we continued. We broke up the next year tukiwa long holiday. They're now married so ni Mimi I was standing in the way of true love 😅😅

[@brie2545]

Wueh😂😂😂! Girl how did you reach acceptance stage (like for real this is smne else's man) hugs though 😊

[@ImmaculateIsaboke]

🤣opps .

[@hossie101]

Ouch😳

[@joyceyugi9266]

I'm sorry for your loss Lyd. On other news, you both look so good. Also the amount of self - awareness and growth I've experienced ever since I began listening to this podcast is so profound. I'm so grateful ❤.

[@angelinematina7049]

Not lydia shouting Jezebel at murugi😂😂😂

[@nkathapamela5703]

😂😂😂this one got me as well 😅

[@royalusala8527]

Even this thing of He/She is not my type/standard is skewed sana... Everybody is better than you in something.. Everybody has something you don't have.. Its a large Ego statement!

[@sheeireri3716]

King betweener in the buildiiing 🔥🔥😊.

[@lindaawuor1446]

For sure

[@hellenirungu8542]

The type thing doesn't always refer to where one is in life or what they are good at it. It is just a preference thing. For instance, I don't like mouthy guys, and if I notice you talk too much, you def aren't my type.

[@royalusala8527]

@@hellenirungu8542 It's still the same.. My point is, that mouthy guy may have been better for you 8n the long run compared to the one u chose instead of him, coz of the mouthy thing.. He has very many other great qualities!

[@dorahmulinge3800]

Somebody tweet this❤❤❤. So true

[@NyandengAGarang]

Pole sana kwa msiba, Lydia KM.

[@Young_Techiez]

😂😂loved Lydia's point on 'things are easier said than done'

[@lizznjeri9231]

Lidya I am like you,I roll with the punches in almost all situations, until my daughter recently accused me of toxic positivity

[@wambuigorgeous]

Daughters keep us in check 😂 I was told I'm always on my phone and I insist she limits her screentime, I was told start with yourself 😂

[@bellaolum9768]

That.sounds like something my daughters would say 😂😂😂

[@esthermulu1229]

Lyd ,,your Hair is incredible babe

[@danielmiyaba8816]

I might not be the first here .. but atleast I'm here... Denims I love ❤❤❤❤❤. And the buns both the neat and messy ate ... I love you guys Kenya kingbetweener

[@mwendenyaga91]

Eishhhh 😅🤭🤭

[@annmumbi5693]

Clearly you are a catch dan🥰

[@joyceyugi9266]

Yaaaaaaaaaay kingbetweener

[@esthermulu1229]

However if its my man's friend who is funny,, there's always a limit😂😂" Lyd that limit laughter" 😂am down on the floor

[@margaretkanganga4882]

always here thanks for reading my comment Lyd😍

[@annmumbi5693]

I just learnt alot from this episode…and am better for my next man…thank you TMI🥰🥰🥰

[@Peacine]

22:28 😢 losing an Ex taught me everything about disenchanted grief So many questions in your head, basically grieving alone and longer

[@julietmwaniki8349]

Loved this episode so much! The phrase 'emotional crutch' is staying with me for a while! I'm wondering if you could do an episode on setting boundaries with friends and partners. As someone approaching my mid-twenties, I'd love to hear your perspective and experience!

[@faithnairuko7351]

Hey love There's an episode on boundaries.... It's called "Setting Boundaries and Sticking to them" ❤

[@faithwanjiru6927]

Loved this episode, Lyd's fire today 💯

[@marciajames9434]

Sorry Lydia for you and your family's loss; God's peace surround you all. One more thing, yet another episode where you (Lydia) was extremely funny/hilarious; thank you ladies.

[@annewacuka]

This was such a fun episode🤩. It's micro cheating if him and his female friend call each other babe, hun and darling on texts. PS: I was the female friend in this case 😭, and he did set a boundary so at least he's not a lizard😂

[@giftyalfa2460]

I found it soo difficult to move past that demonstrative laugh by Lyd😅😅😂

[@brie2545]

Ikr😂😂😂

[@Shanshan-fe6cw]

This was such a beautiful episode. Loved every minute of it babes❤!

[@naomiwaithera5820]

your history keeps score there's no running away from it...very thin line na intuition

[@DeDollyshow]

I live for the affirmation and love between Jo and Lyd is so beautiful to watch❤❤❤

[@esthermulu1229]

Big siz come this side,,It's wed and surprise 🎉🎉🎉 against Definitely TMI

[@MohandMpymWorld]

TMI❤ . Nipitieni leo guys

[@mercykiaritha350]

I needed a pick me up today so seeing TMI has posted is exactly what I needed today🎉

[@YouAreMyFavoritePodcast]

Murugi Munyi Murugi Munyi Murugi Munyi ! ❤🌹

[@faith.adeyaa]

Thankyou for reminding us about the healthy boundaries

[@andabwarosekiarie5477]

Girls...you sound like therapy to some of us.. please can you do an episode on detachment..where you've mentioned about exes..I think you should do an episode on how to detach from them too .we all know there is always one person in our lives who we are stuck with.. truth be said aloud

[@lilyankamau3111]

It's definitely TMI ❤️ 🎉🎉

[@tmipodcastke]

You know it 😍

[@bettiekym]

My condolences dear,may Guks rest well.

[@andabwarosekiarie5477]

Murugi you look wow 😍I love the blue and white dress code..Lyd ❤hugs

[@hinesightmind]

Sending money to female friends 😢 I've been telling you, sina pesa no Kinuthia No.

[@joycewamari1116]

It's the "aaaah Jezebel ndio huyu"😅😅😅 for me

[@joyesther5916]

Given a case you are dating a guy and some other guy approaches you and asks for your number,what do you do? Do you give them your number or your boyfriend's?

[@annmumbi5693]

Your number

[@juniorkibuthu6928]

You don't give out your no/his , respect your partner,, why are you giving out your no in the first place if you are in a relationship

[@risperbevalyn9670]

if you are not married ...yes

[@gracedaniel726]

I am more of a Lidya i guess, every time she said to Murugi are you drunk ?? I was like yeah Murugi are you???

[@glorykinyua1669]

Its definitely TMI...among the first ❤..my Wednesday are always lit 🔥🔥big sisters 💯

[@tmipodcastke]

As it should be 😍

[@Its_at.ieno12]

Tmi team...tuko kwa sanaa!!!😊❤

[@tmipodcastke]

🔐🫶🏽

[@yvonnemurugi6795]

Lydia pole even i got to know your grandpa is my neighbor cant believe you normally come to our neighbor hood .

[@lydiarichu8421]

You ladies are shouting😂😂am laughing ticking all the boxes tht my man did all that micro cheating😂..love u guys❤

[@faithnjoki1471]

"Are you drunk?" I'm still on the floor 😂😂😂😂😂

[@DeDollyshow]

It's definitely Tmiiii❤❤❤

[@rastagirl758]

My micro cheating behaviour is a man who sends a woman snaps on snapchat,it feels illegal to me and worse placing the messages to delete after view

[@bennykimanibk]

I really learn alot from you awesome people. Much appreciated.

[@bettykubai927]

Kucheka nayo nitacheka😂😂. If your friend is funny? I will laugh. I will not be denied laughter. Is it not the best medicine? 😅

[@nkathapamela5703]

I had so much fun watching this,,,😂😂😂you 2 are adorable 😍 mich love

[@norahkaranja4054]

Murugi what has bloating got to do with a ring??😂😂

[@hopewangari5970]

The double tap part lol!!!

[@JoanJepkemei-zm6jw]

Its Lyd hair ❤❤❤❤❤

[@Vlicky_05shotta]

I love these two, your content is amazing.Also can we talk about boundaries between friends who are dating.So my bf has male friends who happens to be dating a certain chic.My problem is this chic is very close to my guy.I once saw some pics she took in my bfs bedroom and was like😮😮😮

[@sarahmartha7224]

Bedroom!! Cheeei

[@joycemuthoni4011]

You look lovely Murugi😊

[@BrendanyamburaJosephinelenny]

Can we now sing please?😭😭😭 thank you😂

[@danielmiyaba8816]

I second this thought.... I will be seconds in to the podcast ( the intro bit) and then I'm singing the TMIIIII and my girlies are like pulling an Oprah kind of unison TMII... please sing in some episodes

[@estherdeborahnakitende1537]

Please sing in all episodes.🥺 I begun watching this podcast when they were singing so its all i know and sounds best.

[@magdalinekinyanjui404]

Love the tops ladies😊👌

[@jessenanette7958]

First.....love from Rwanda

[@tmipodcastke]

💓💓

[@yvonne355]

Murugiii your jeans ❤❤❤❤

[@patriciasharon3053]

Elderly sexuality matters!!🗣🗣😅😂

[@claranyaga8984]

beautiful set

[@valokumu3880]

Liking every photo in their feed pls🤦‍♀️front door is there 🚪

[@ImmaculateIsaboke]

the background is beautiful 💗💗💗

[@winniepere]

What's the name of the book Murugi was talking about?

[@terimyermuchemi4800]

Anxious People

[@amandawambui8063]

Am sorry Lydia for loosing your Granddad❤

[@annemwaura3910]

TMI🎉❤

[@Empress_Hellena]

These queens are Gorgeous!!❤❤❤

[@EuniterMumbua]

They are so self aware, this year I wanna focus on my self awareness journey, anyone to help me with tips on where to begin please?

[@giftyalfa2460]

Therapy please The sermon's been on for long💃🏽

[@letstalkkenya2]

Check the Stoic philosophy... really helped me

[@EuniterMumbua]

Thanks ​@@letstalkkenya2

[@nyamburakimani3726]

Does my ring hurt your finger by Charlie Pride

[@e.s.t.a.r]

Thank you lyd and murugi for this! As usual, very informative🎉. So sorry for you loss, lyd. May he rest well

[@JoshuaMusembi-i3s]

I can't take advice from media we are different

[@TashaNjagi]

TMI day 🎉🎉❤

[@tmipodcastke]

#tmiwednesday 🥳

[@shanicemumbi6993]

Wednesday dose😊😊😊

[@dorothyshee777]

Tmi ❤❤

[@mwendenyaga91]

Ehh woow!Fayaa fayaa

[@maman_moon]

A man sending money to almost all his exes and somes females friends. That’s my experience

[@jemimahwambui9473]

so relatable

[@danielmiyaba8816]

Sorry for your loss Lyd😢❤

[@tmipodcastke]

Thank you ❤️

[@faithchepngetich8033]

One of the guilty people who totally believed I have subscribed but hadn't😰 fixed it though.. Making it up by subscribing on my work account too🤓 Keep repeating the "subscribe" message to us, looks like the 99th time's the charm😩

[@msnique406]

Very interesting 👌 👍

[@GirlThatVlogsKE]

This is the 20th comment, i love being here

[@winnienjue-h7k]

Are you drunk!!!!😂😂

[@mercykitolo6871]

I am triggered😭😭😭

[@Verracheryl254]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@evelynmbithe]

Love how you've styled your hair Lyd. Currently twinning that style will definitely try. May your Guka's soul rest in peace. Thank you both for showing up more importantly, for showing up for each other. ❤️❤️❤️

[@rahabthuku9445]

Hi what's the name of the braid plz

[@lydiaawk]

Best thing about my Wednesday today🥺❤️

[@tmipodcastke]

Awww 🫶🏽