To All The Boys 3 is actually kinda good?

[@chunkyrat7819]

why is that in every bad Netflix movie everyone gets into a prestigious school with no effort

[@queenicedcoffee4217]

She got denied first lol

[@Clementine3107]

Actually TATB looks more realistic to me. I mean ,Lara Jean had straight A's , volunteered . It kinda makes sense.

[@forgetmaenott]

In the books they apply to UVA, William and Mary, and UNC, which is so much more realistic. I hate that they changed it just to make everything “grander” and “idealized” for the sake of some Netflix trope.

[@chunkyrat7819]

@@Clementine3107 yea but nowadays you need really strong extracurriculars and other stuff to get in, good grades have kinda become the baseline

[@Superstar5_]

If only...

[@cn1456]

Really happy she didn’t wait 15 minutes until the movie ended to tell him that she didn’t get into Stanford

[@catbug8092]

Me too honestly- I was kinda expecting that but at the same time I wasn’t - but ya know

[@meepmeep1601]

she finally learnt her lesson after 2 MOVIES

[@SouthsideRecordsUK]

I WAS THINKING THAT

[@milirodriguez8493]

Lol I thought the same thing. I thought the movie was almost over because usually when they show the main situation, it's usually towards the end

[@voldemortsnose7331]

*stanford*

[@ranbomittal7254]

Interesting fact: Stanford doesn’t have a fucking competitive lacrosse team and they definitely dont give scholarships for it

[@treasuremage7546]

Related fact: The only people that care about competitive lacrosse are the people that play competitive lacrosse.

[@humanashita1340]

Well in the books they actually think about going to UVA together not Stanford

[@stephen-john1677]

Fun fact: anything is possible with Netflix ask Adam Sandler

[@kdburner7356]

bullshit every college in america has a lacrosse team, it’s the worldwide douchebag sport it’s a part of your culture. own it

[@worldkat1393]

@@kdburner7356 Worldwide? Never heard of it. Still not sure after seeing these youtube video what it could even be.

[@justlive2809]

Peter's only good deed in my eyes is that he refusing to sleep with her after the prom because he understood that it was not for the right reasons

[@sofia_rms]

Yeahh

[@resqxe_1422]

But he always kept asking, which they initiated in the movies

[@antoniocarbajal6248]

Agreed, that and breaking up with her. The last one might’ve been the right action made by the wrong reasons, but still, good call.

[@WritingOwl]

What do you mean "not the right reasons"

[@LucyGhosts]

@@WritingOwl have u watched the movie? ... She only wanted that because she felt insecure and didn't want to "loose him" not because she actually wanted it

[@Kat-eo8by]

Why does it sound like Peter is constantly on the verge of losing his voice

[@fluffypocky]

Lmfaoooo

[@noonebossesthegarnet2890]

It’s called a vocal fry.

[@fluffypocky]

@@noonebossesthegarnet2890 more like 50

[@meliycon-roma4112]

im dying

[@MENACE-km6bd]

It doesn't matter what you've done, but what you do with what you've done...for others.

[@laurenh2674]

high school teachers: they won’t let this fly in college my professors: *cancels class because they are hungover*

[@seksikasrotta9930]

That's nice (I think)

[@trinaq]

Too true, we received a few horror stories from our teachers about how college is a harsher environment than high school, and how our professors won't chase us down for our assignments, yet they're not afraid to cancel lectures for the flimisest of reasons! 😂

[@ayoimstillalivecheck9904]

So basically I was in online class I started swearing at my classmates AND MY FUCKING MIC WAS ON I left the meeting and my dignity I know this has nothing to do with your comment but I just wanted to tell you

[@maryamtara2934]

It’s funny that in Egypt the college professors are INSANELY strict and literally if you just took a breath and they didn’t liked it you’re gonna fail... multiple years 🥲

[@tunafish5462]

that's good to hear since I heard that in the collage I am planning on going to, if you miss 2 lectures they will make you drop the course unless you are sick with a paper signed by your doctor.

[@josefadiuana7834]

From the producers of “I’m nOt LikE oThEr giRLs”, we now present to you: WE’RE NOT LIKE OTHER COUPLES

[@musselsproutss]

😂

[@paulinyaarts234]

😂😂

[@Hi-ky2wd]

😂😂😂

[@awesomeness3493]

😂😂😂😂

[@lee2791]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@kelsynicole9135]

Peter having a naked phone with no case is the most unrealistic portrayal of a teenager ever

[@corinna3272]

💀💀💀💀💀

[@mawley3266]

I have friends like that, it’s horrifying but very real

[@bzukuart3829]

nope i don't have a case

[@tunafish5462]

I don't have a case on tho. my phone looks better without it.

[@polen7455]

There are teens who still use their phones with broken lcd's. It's realistic enough.

What I find funny is that at the end she says they won’t break up because of the distance even tho they already broke up more than twice of lesser reasons than that.

[@septemily]

“BeCaUsE wE’rE lAuRA JeAN aNd PeTEr”

[@Ccsclosetz]

@@septemily lmao like okayyyy are yall superheroes or soemthing

[@LilysCorner143]

Honestly when they said that I was like “Oh so it’s definitely gonna happend”

[@liwzie]

I mean, maybe now she realizes not every little thing is a reason to break up? idk, haven't read the book nor watched the movies, I just like Alex.

[@Not_Always]

If Winnie Cooper and Kevin didn't make it, then these weirdos won't either.

[@blending_in]

Lara Jean : I'm gonna pursue my dream in a city I love Peter : and I took that personally

[@jasminejones5962]

DUDE FRRRR

[@tunafish5462]

It really didn't make any sense to me when I was watching like seriously wtf? Isn't he the sweet guy that everybody liked in school? Some people are saying "he was mad because his dad betrayed him and he felt like lara Jean was doing the same". At no point in the movie did they say or imply that, so I don't think it's that deep, I just think the writers wanted to create some conflict and "drama" to make the movie longer lol.

[@kennytwotimes5805]

honestly he made everything about him. like I understand they wanted to make their relationship with while being at the same college, but if she wants to do something that makes her happy, he should be 10000% supportive

[@danielle7975]

1k......

[@jasminev.1673]

no deadass😭 lara jean just wanted to go to college in ny and here peter comes in his feelings 😐😐like dude.

[@rachzainhass]

It was strange how her best friend Josh not only stopped existing in school he stopped living next door to her and she never mentioned him again

[@ayannajackson4260]

I think he was a year behind her sister so graduated after the last movie

[@rachzainhass]

@@ayannajackson4260 that doesn't explain why we didn't see him in the second movie which was still the same academic year. Besides he can't ever come home like Margot on the holidays.

[@wendybijellberg]

there was a controversy after the first movie came out about some racist tweets the actor had written, he apologized but probably was fired lol :/

[@gaberichards4927]

In the books his parents are fighting a lot of the time and they eventually get a divorce, so by mid book two his parents actually sell the house. I believe he also gets into college early if I remember, but his family no longer lives there after the second book ends. We find all of this out when Josh and Lara Jean try to be friend again after they had the whole love letter thing happened ( more stuff happened between them also) But they become pretty distance once he gets a girlfriend also in the book before he moves. I hope this helps!!

[@M.A.Y.Y]

Check the book .... its wayyyyyyy bettterrrrrrrrr and not so many loopholes

[@sophiagong8682]

I'm just surprised that Alex didn't mention how bad of an attitude Peter had about LJ going to NYU. He's like, "you didn't love me enough because you chose to go to NYU" (which is how it sounded like). She's not choosing distance, she's choosing her future. Her future doesn't revolve around you Peter. Also, isn't Berkeley a more reputable college than NYU?

[@emilycaine5990]

THAT'S WHAT BOTHERED MEEE like you'd want someone important to you to be happy right? and if she thinks they can do it why shouldn't he trust her? and idk about the difference in colleges because I'm not an american but as long LJ is happy ya feel

[@0104brit]

To be fair, they were talking for months about going to college together and then she changes her mind after one visit... If they never talked about planning their futures together I would be annoyed with Peter too. But LJ didn't communicate well at all during this film

[@emilycaine5990]

@@0104brit yeah lj's biggest flaw is that she isn't a good communicator :// it sucks too ngl

[@77Amnita]

@@0104brit For real! Their communication sucks. Realistically, they'll probably be broken up after a year of long distance.

[@caseyc3736]

Yeah but the underlying thing was Peter probs had abandonment issues from his Dad, and I think LJ moving away from him for college felt a lot like he was being left behind. This romcom actually showed some character development on both sides by the end - we stan

[@beyz170s5]

Peter's voice is creeping me out, he has been whispering for 3 movies

[@jazzypari]

Lol

[@tunafish5462]

That's what I thought but there was literally no one talking about it so I just thought my ears were fucked lol.

[@AsteriskBlight]

I just noticed he whispers this whole time 🤣

[@kayleighrayne]

hey hey hey hey hey

[@ellaenchanted8407]

He's trying to sound like Mark Ruffalo

[@katied6674]

"We won't be one of those people that break up because of college." Girl why do you think we're watching🧍🏻‍♀️

[@trinaq]

Yes, if the entire source of conflict is over college, then it's inevitable that you'll break up at SOME point, even if it's temporary!

[@raybrown9543]

At the end, i nearly threw up when she basically said, “We won’t break up, cuz we’re Peter and Lara Jean.” 🤮😂

[@bleepbloop269]

😂😂 love this comment

[@PrincesSakura]

@@raybrown9543 🤣🤣

[@Not_Always]

As much as the show later jumped the shark, I feel like "Felicity" was probably the most realistic in terms of chasing a boy to college and just how things turn out when you start filling out in your adult shoes. Those two would 100% not survive a long distance relationship and college. There is nothing wrong with the guy you date in high school not being the love of your life. You haven't done anything yet or met anyone outside of your small circle in high school.

[@courtneymichelle5746]

“But we’re not like those other couples” Didn’t you break up like 6 times??

[@jodie3950]

K.O 😂😂

[@delicemakungu4759]

Tell em again

[@madamfoster1078]

LITERALLY LIKE they think they’re going to get married when this is their like second breakup

[@delicemakungu4759]

@@madamfoster1078 Periodt

[@Helloknight]

They truly aren’t Like other couples.

[@chloesw8448]

The way Peter got into Standford but Lara didn’t makes zero sense like when did that man ever do any studying

[@lampsenpai4325]

Yeah, the way they changed all the colleges was so unnecessary. Stanford doesn’t even have a lacrosse team

[@kennedylareign]

athletes usually get in easier due to recruitment. stanford is insanely hard to get into even with perfect stats. it’s a subjective process they probably just didn’t have room for her :/

[@madeleinecruz4914]

He got a scholarship in lacrosse

[@emmypersonal4033]

Not to be too realistic but Lara is Asian and lot of colleges/universities turn down Asian students bc they have too many. They want other minority groups so they reach a certain level of diversity. Plus her bf is going for sports. So yeah it's dumb but realistic in a way

[@chloesw8448]

@@emmypersonal4033 well that sucks :(

[@chadpowell1832]

Girl - “I’m not like other girls” Other girls - “same”

[@joey1723]

Summed the whole thing up perfectly

[@graskok2863]

Shut up Chad

[@abigailsanderson2328]

Lol, what do I know? You're name is Chad 🤣

[@mateletanelu5270]

so the who is the other girls? are the other girls not like others and others aren't too? the who is who-?

[@aryakomal]

lolol

[@1omarella]

I found it so weird that they just forgot about John Ambrose. I know she didn’t choose him but he just vanished into oblivion??

[@zarasalman525]

same with Josh where even is he???

[@SooyeonIdle]

@@zarasalman525 Didn’t he go to a different school?

[@madinadautova3618]

Or that guy who showed up at the end of the second movie. Like they totally forgot about that plot

[@linneaollberg2799]

@@zarasalman525 I think that Josh is a year older than Lara Jean so I assume that he went off to college after the first movie

[@MC-eq7pi]

They mentioned it in the book. They still kept in contact and almost went to the same college. He also got a girlfriend. The grandma also died.

[@deargodwhatamidoing1122]

I really like how she choose HER choice. She didn’t just do what a boy wanted her to do cough the kissing booth cough. Edit: i would like to say that this was made before the movie came out.

[@noonebossesthegarnet2890]

How much you wanna bet Elle’s going to Harvard?

[@ariii.00735]

@@noonebossesthegarnet2890 10$🤝

[@vianeyverde]

@@noonebossesthegarnet2890 nah. I feel like she will end up going to Berkley since she can visit Noah, have a connection with her mom, stay friends with Noah's brother, and not have enough money to go into there. Theres going to be some sort of argument probably saying what she wants to do, and they'll let her go to the other college to grow more trust with Noah. Then Marco will be at Berkley (?) which will cause a lot of drama in her relationship. They also wouldnt let her into Harvard as well since someone will look back at her essay and realize how Sh!+ty that was.

[@noonebossesthegarnet2890]

@@vianeyverde Holy shit that would be so terrible lmaooo. I mean I’m not surprised if it went that route since Elle told Marco “YoU’rE nOt ThE oNe” for absolutely no reason.

[@vianeyverde]

@@noonebossesthegarnet2890 Do you think they'll keep or rip up the stupid rules?

[@ic236]

Peter-"you chose distance" is kind of manipulative

[@alm.2000]

Changing long plans in last minute and getting mad at the person for not being happy is what’s manipulative. He got a scholarship he cannot change schools just like that, she can, she did choose distance herself for no actual reason and he as a boyfriend in love +his father’s pre trauma has every reason the feel bad about it, he doesn’t want their relationship to end and in reality? It would in 99% of cases.

[@pix8403]

you can feel bad about a situation like that, you can be unhappy about it, but the minute you start throwing a fit and complaining that the person you love is trying to go to a school that would best suit them, “choosing distance” over you, you don’t genuinely love them. you should want what’s absolutely best for your person, whether that means 30 miles away or 30,000. and to add to it, the minute you start blaming distance for a failing relationship, when you’re not even away from each other yet, should mean the end of things. if you don’t full heartedly believe that the distance is worth it, (for someone’s future or happiness at a school) and you think they should throw their life away to follow you, or vise versa, that is the end of a good relationship. if you genuinely want that relationship to work, you will work for it and distance won’t matter because in the end, you’ll be back together, and living happily because you both had to opportunity to grow in the best situation possible for your separate personalities.

[@justoverit]

@@alm.2000 That is NOT manipulation omg. Its her choosing her future and college over being super close to her boyfriend.

[@elsixie]

@@alm.2000 i dont think u know what manipulation means

[@officialmai]

@@alm.2000 "Oh no, babe, I broke my leg! I'm so sorry, I can't go to our trip to Greece, take a friend in my place." "OH MY GOSH, HOW COULD YOU?!" "I didn't break it on purpose, stop being so angry. You can still go on the trip, I won't be mad, take a friend."

[@RinatP45]

One trilogy later: Alex still pronouncing it ‘Laura’ instead of ‘Lara’

[@MillieEyelash14]

F a c t s

[@VTpieface1029]

Bruh I was thinking that the whole timeeeeee

[@mimimabuza504]

This😂😂😂

[@chris0545]

I wanted to like this comment but sore the number of likes and couldn’t make myself do it

[@HaveaBiscuitt]

I keep hearing Lora Jane

[@elyannakwok13]

so lara jean doesn't know how to tell peter that she wasn't one of the 4% of people accepted into the hardest college to get into, and she's gonna lie about it....?

[@hopelovegood8131]

LMBOOO. You make it sound more stupid

[@phoebeberlet4633]

She doesn’t lie kinda

[@ChristyPlayz]

IKR LOL

[@zoeallen6734]

it was meant for someone else, she didnt mean too she withheld it

[@resqxe_1422]

Still lied

[@slendy3823]

1st movie: fake relationship 2nd movie: dating 3rd movie: different colleges

[@introvert_who1641]

1st movie was actually really good 👍 second one was eh..

[@simonerkk]

And what was the kissing booth like this is a masterpiece infront of that But the 2 and 3 one don't make sense.....

[@introvert_who1641]

@@simonerkk facts

[@hellothere7948]

Honestly I think she would break up with him in the 2nd movie since the whole 'peter waiting for jenna in the hot tab and not lara Jean' thing but apparently not. And they solved the whole thing so easily without even making a conversation.

[@clarapadilha9365]

@@hellothere7948 the book actually covers it waaaay better. The movie just plain forgot about it in 10 minutes

[@lp_grumpy]

Dylan is in Trouble: This movie is Terrible. Alex: This movie is actually kind of good. Me: *C o n f l i c t e d*

[@anasofia7890]

SAME AHAHAHGAHAHHHAHAH OMG I LOVE THIS COMMENT

[@avec.ariette]

Thoughts from someone who read the books then watched the movies: I liked TATB3, even if it’s not as good as the book (the books were great and focused a lot on the family grieving the death of the mother). I love the Asian and BIPOC representation in characters like Lara Jean and Lucas! :) the scenes in Seoul made me feel like this is the closest we can get to travelling 🤣 and the scenes in Korea overall play homage to their Korean heritage and their late mother so it was refreshing that Trina the stepmom was there and honoured that too. I find LJ’s character especially relatable as she is an introverted, shy, quirky teen that’s both smart without being a nerdy typecast. Her love for baking, books, good style and 80s movie - gives her personality. She’s also obviously gone through loss too so she has emotional wisdom. I think as a protagonist she’s got her own mind and it’s refreshing to see Asian representation/a character like LJ her play a lead. Trina the stepmom is also great and I like that she doesn’t play the stereotypical “evil” figure, but is really a great new mom figure to the girls especially after the loss. Love the female friendships and redemption of Gen. The sisterhood was heartwarming too. It’s refreshing how she doesn’t get into a university because I’m sure many students can understand rejection or when life doesn’t go according to plan. They did change the schools from the books. Netflix loves the Ivy Leagues. But I want to be clear that it’s different in the books. Also refreshing that LJ gravitates to a school that’s right for her, not out of proximity to a boy and isn’t even an Ivy League so people can stop being petty about that. As for the relationship, I get why people can be meh about it, because things weren’t always healthy (I’m a John Ambrose gal myself, but I get how LJ and Peter were written to be meant together). Was LJ and Peter’s relationship perfect? No. Was he kinda dumb/emotionally immature at one point? Oh for sure. But we have to remember this is fairly realistic... they’re young. 17 or 18 probably? they’re still figuring out what healthy relationships and communication looks like. Peter also felt threatened that LJ was going to be far away because of his own abandonment issues, that’s a valid (not an excuse but a valid backstory). LJ and Peter also broke up for very valid reasons in the previous two movies (would you stay with someone who you believed was cheating? I appreciate LJ’s self respect to leave). Peters apology and romantic gesture in the end was also super sweet, and in my eyes, redeeming. A lot of people were like why didn’t they have a conversation, but I’m sure they did. That’s why there was a montage of them hugging/dancing (where they probably exchanged words and then, as Alex would say, doing the devils tango (except in this case it’s a lot more wholesome/out of love). As someone who studied counselling and see couples and individuals in my practice, even adults have this problem (poor communication, lack of boundaries, childhood wounds that still affect their adult relationships) that I think LJ and Peter are fairly decent as fictional characters go. Flawed protagonists sure, but charming and relatable. Let’s not be so quick to judge. It’s realistic/hits home for a reason... I mean, a conflict-free couple isn’t really realistic. I think for a bunch of teens about to make a decision to go away for college is fairly realistic. To be fair, they did change a bit from the books where the book focussed on them actually doing the long distance so LDR couples can relate. And for those who haven’t read the books, I do recommend them. I read them myself years ago and even though I’m no longer a teen or considered an early young adult, I think it’s reminiscent of those adolescent days & it’s nice to support Asian American work right now. Han writes a rich world and there’s a lot more growth and dimension in the novels. Netflix doesn’t always get adaptions well (look what happened to the cartoon Winx and the live action mess that was Fate the Saga... what the heck is that if y’all change the characters) but they did alright with TATB1-3. I think because the author herself was very involved in the process of casting and writing and they wanted to respect the original work which is refreshingly good.

[@paaoogl7675]

@@avec.ariette you are the most relatable comment that I have seen in a long time

[@christinagregory2526]

@@avec.ariette who tf is Trina 😳😳

[@kendallcuddles]

Who?

[@kirsten5081]

the fact she got back together with him so fast and did the devil's tango AFTER HE BROKE UP WITH HER SJSHSJDJ LITERALLY ALL HE DID WAS WRITE A POEM AND BOOM STRAIGHT TO BED

[@Kirsten4260]

Hi we have the same name 🥺

[@bzmI3]

Yeah that part kinda ruined the moment for me

[@nutellala1255]

@@Kirsten4260 omg ours is also matching

[@GINSHOTGUN]

Lmaoooo, that was quicker than quick

[@MiniMeags]

If they had of been broken up longer than they were I would feel the same but tbh idek if it was 48 hours 😂

[@BrittanyH87]

I had to respect the fact that Kitty was, like, 13 with a boyfriend in Korea.

[@dxhyunjin]

I was more interested in that storyline honestly

[@kaidouhottopicgiftcard]

@@dxhyunjin Kitty literally carried these movies and I wish she would have more screen time.

[@suniidays]

@@kaidouhottopicgiftcard fr she did, like 3/4 into the movie, I was still waiting to find out what happened with the sister and her bf

[@violetcampbell9974]

kitty is so annoying

[@kannnnnnnnnnnnnnnn]

@@Ika0713 because in the book she was very babyish and annoying and that is the only thing that they kept the same from the books 😔

[@someone9687]

they really deleted Peter's personality in this movie he just reacts nothing more

[@Dayyyy474]

he's like "i'm insecure, have daddy issues and don't want us to break up over distance even tho we clearly broke up before due to stupid reasons" Now that i think about it, they broke up three times? If they had broken up in the first movie and th esecond then the final movie is like the third already lmao

[@tunafish5462]

Like Dylan is in trouble said in his video "You should have given all your budget to Noah cenentimeter to give a shit". beside having no personality he talks like a zombie for half the movie lol

[@someone9687]

@@tunafish5462 😐😐😂 well, maybe but he wasn't bad in the 1st movie and even the second, now he just has no personality or anything, he basically just exists in the movie to make LJ has someone or something, that's sad, and yeah he always talks like zombies especially this one

[@ramiyahlee6108]

@@tunafish5462 Noah centimeter 💀

[@shrutigupta186]

all the ladies love leo

[@brieee_b]

What happened to that other dude in the second movie, Lara Jean left him in the snow and he just evaporated out of existence

[@slyd33r41]

LMAO HAHAHAH YES

[@rosemarie516]

THEY DID THAT WITH JOSH TOO THEY JUST DISAPPEAR??

[@lypu8262]

Just Like the one in the First movie

[@itsisha9762]

He turned into a reindeer and left the scene.

[@catscatscats1]

@@itsisha9762 JAAHSJAJJA 😭😭

[@rosagudny3936]

“This being senior year, what is on everyone’s mind is upcoming student loans... and prom” haha true.

[@septemily]

I mean. I remember not many people in my class caring about the student loans. They just didn’t see the reality of it I guess. They saw a school, and the “college experience” and decided to apply without even considering tuition. What’s worse is they go without even knowing what they want to pursue. They literally just go throw tens of thousands of dollars out the window, find out they don’t like the “experience” or whatever random degree they chose, and drop out. (I know this doesn’t happen to everyone, but as someone who also doesnt know what they want to do and attends a cheaper, though really nice, community college, I find it insane).

[@Celalec]

@@septemily It baffles me how community college isnt promoted more as an option. You can do a lot of your prerequisites, explore different electives, learn your educational preferences, and figure out if you even like college. Blows my mind how people disregard it because *MuH PrEsTiGe*. The fact is most colleges have similar quality programs, only few are exceptional in certain areas. But what do I know, I just got a bachelor's from a decent state school.

[@septemily]

@@Celalec YES. EXACTLY. I literally tell everyone I meet that is considering going to college, but doesn’t know what they want to do, Im like “COMMUNITY COLLEGE IS PERFECT FOR YOU THEN.” It’s sad how much it’s not promoted as an option, even if the community college I go to (and work at) is advertised a ton. High schools are just like “here are colleges. Strive for the best ;) “ but there’s a stigma against community colleges for some reason, that they’re inferior. In Missouri, there’s this thing called MOTR classes, basically meaning if it’s listed as MOTR it can transfer to any college in Missouri. So taking English 101 at a community college for $300 is the same exact class (in the eyes of the state) as a University for thousands.

[@jcrlb215]

@@septemily it actually makes me sick knowing that people do exactly what you described. I personally know 5 people who went to my high school then the same university as me and all dropped out by the end of my freshman year. I chose the university route because I’ve known what field I would like to be in since my junior year of high school, and I was offered a great scholarship and tuition lock for 4 years with admission. My school is also far enough from my home town that I’m able to live in a completely different climate but it’s about 2 and a half hours from home. That being said, I’m about to graduate in a couple months and I still wish I completed all the credits I could at a community college first. My school is a state school and the cheapest in my state at that, but universities are ridiculously expensive as it is. Though now that I think about it I would’ve been pissed to only have one semester of the university experience due to the pandemic completely changing the second half of my junior year and now all of my senior year. So I guess it kind of worked out🤷‍♀️

[@jcrlb215]

@@Celalec lol my boyfriend took a couple classes over the summer a couple years ago at a community college, one he was retaking and the other he was just a little behind on credits. The one he was retaking was a chemistry, and three chemistry classes taken at our university later he still says it was the best chemistry class he’s taken. And he thought the campus was way nicer than ours. Community colleges definitely seem to be underrated

[@DWAkhaten]

"We're not like those other couples. We're Lara Jean and Peter" Well that doesn't sound conceited at all.

[@laynabugk1513]

I didn't like how they changed the colleges into typical, Ivy League, private schools. You don't have to have the same colleges in every high school movie, Netflix. There are literally colleges all over the country.

[@ellekhun5122]

Why are u blaming netflix?? Blame the author of the book 😂

[@isabelxu7429]

@@ellekhun5122 in the books lara jean actually was planning to go to william and mary and peter got into UVA

[@Tine-sy6lh]

@@ellekhun5122 Netflix changed the colleges to those typical ones. In the books it's different so they are not to blame.

[@BlueBlazeKing]

It’s because those colleges are marketing to make them more desirable, but usually only the bigger and more financial advance colleges can do these sort of things

[@sanctimonious3726]

@@Tine-sy6lh yeah and I think it also has to do with combining the plots points in the book because they did go to New York in the book so it just saved time in the movie

[@kierstenstutey4805]

i cant be the only one who thinks their relationship is kinda unhealthy... like they’re so overly attached and can’t go 5 minutes without each other

[@clairegrant1667]

I think that’s the point of the movie. They’re maturing and realizing that they can still be together even when 3000 miles apart.

[@darnellnoir]

thats literally how every teen couple are 💀

[@resqxe_1422]

Claire Grant but the ending was literally the same as the last one. They aren't learning about the distance, it's literally them having conflict and still going back

[@nicolea8205]

They’re literally teenagers.

[@resqxe_1422]

Nicole A don’t excuse it just bc of their age

[@crystalr6461]

Lol Noah's acting in this movie. He's so done and uniterested, like 0 fucks.

[@xeryn6020]

Lmao

[@jessn.3851]

Can you blame him? It was either part of a contract or for the money, not for career development.

[@cocojens5477]

he’s literally just playing himself lmao

[@Pipeblau]

Well at least he's consistent on that 😂

[@Hi-ky2wd]

Well I mean like... dude just didn’t care he was over it

[@thrillcollectors]

“But we’re not like those other couples” Ugh that’s the worst, cringiest line. Oh yeah all those other couples that love each other and do what they can to make things work that end up needing to spend some time apart just don’t have the love that you have. You guys are special! Nothing can get in the way of YOUR love. Not like those OTHER couples. They just don’t have what WE have. Please.

[@AshwathGokul]

Damn, you've gone through some shit huh?

[@noonebossesthegarnet2890]

Lol that line kind of reminded me of ‘Not like the other girls”, I would’ve switched it to ‘But we don’t believe that’ or ‘We don’t work like that’ or ‘We disagree’ y’k?

[@AGPostarStudios]

omg yes I visibly cringed

[@directiontonarnia]

Yesss !!!! Other couples don't centre their ENTIRE worlds on their partner. Of course you're not like other couples. If you were, you'd be with John Ambrose 🙄 other couples where boyfriends don't guilt trip you for wanting to go to a college you like for god's sake. Other couples who believe in growth and aren't about to pass out when you want to say something confrontational to their partners without losing sleep about breaking up. I'D RATHER BE OTHER COUPLES !!!! Edit. I'm simply so frustrated with their decisions that my comment doesn't even make sense, it is so grammatically wrong 🙄

[@teresasevy1563]

Pretty much every heartache came about because of people thinking they are the exception to the rule. 'He cheated on other girls but not me. She's mean to other people but won't be mean to me. Other people our age can't handle it but we can. Other couples can't do distance but we can.'

[@CullenClarke1]

At this point it’s not even kinda dumb. It’s really dumb

[@ilan2881]

:0

[@prowlwashere7232]

At this point, just watch the video

[@Like_a_flowing_wind]

I swear I was going to write this exact same comment. I don't even need to watch de video to know that. Or the movie. I did both.

[@trinaq]

Yes, true, but there's just such a sweet charm about it, and it's WAY better than "The Kissing Booth!"

[@CullenClarke1]

@@trinaq factual

[@MunchSis]

I just wanted to know if she ever got her favorite scrunchie back...

[@slyd33r41]

Omg💀✋🏻

[@renaissancenerd3801]

“Alright Laura Jean, I’m going to sleep. 9/11 was an inside job” Oh my god I’m crying

[@someone9687]

i don't get it

[@ccapodaca2799]

my favorite part lmaooo

[@mauramiamor]

Im saying this to my husband tonight before bed

[@rosamariachhdx8628]

Rick and morty’s reference

[@someone9687]

@@rosamariachhdx8628 oh thanks

[@trangng3384]

Girl's name: Lara Jean Auto translate: Lower gene i'm crying--

[@trangng3384]

@HEIRESS WILLIAMS lol😂

[@itsjaymone]

Why does everyone keep skipping over how messed up it is that Peter expects her to transfer for him, but he wouldn't do the same for her?

[@Not_Always]

Why would he transfer from a better school to a worse one

[@itsjaymone]

@@Not_Always You completely missed the point.

[@obiajulumgbechi]

In the books it was cause he family was like poor, and UVA/Stanford was the only place that offered him a full scholarship. In the books he also talks to his mom about transferring to UNC/NYU.

[@kashishsaxena222]

That won't be possible, he got a lacrosse scholarship not academics, so maybe transferring would be hard (maybe, no idea how American colleges work)

[@aimun5255]

For me it's how mad he got bc she chose a school for HERSELF instead of ya know centring her entire future around him like??? John Ambrose would never 👏🏼

[@hiilikefood3924]

“Don’t think about the future. Just enjoy Your hot boyfriend -Mom of the year

[@iblivs21]

i literally died when i heard her say that 😭

[@hiilikefood3924]

Lmao same

[@sandpapertea2846]

Kevin 11 is definitely a very important episode of the seires. I just wish Kevin made more appearances in the Original seires. I’m definitely glad he was a main in Alien Force and Ultimate Alien

[@blandpotato545]

The most unrealistic part of this is how Lara Jean uses the phone

[@gokul7922]

i might have herpes

[@Z0hR]

@@huhyep5604 look at the scene where she films the band in New York.....

[@gokul7922]

@anonymouse not as much one might think

[@cl1758]

I thought I was the only one LOL the way she handle the phone while recording I mean ya sure ok!

[@gracekim1998]

@@cl1758 oh

[@RetrievingBooks]

There’s nothing more obnoxious than rich kids in movies agonizing over a handful of the best schools in the world.

[@fulichak6499]

IKR

[@sketchjunior7072]

Ikr like they’re out here getting accepted to more than one college meanwhile I’m 20 and still haven’t picked a major

[@theshywolfie6655]

this.

[@erindoran1147]

every single netflix movie reeks of privilege when they talk abt college

[@mikasadeh4063]

*in the US

[@jbcatz5]

“But we’re not like other couples” is massively tempting fate.

[@Not_Always]

They are like every single couple. Even couples that are together for 30 years end up breaking up or long-term infidelities and everything else.

[@jbcatz5]

Not Always And these movies have not demonstrated why their relationship will go the distance long distance.

[@Not_Always]

@@jbcatz5 exactly

[@noonebossesthegarnet2890]

@@Not_Always Lmao cause the other couples also think the way LJ and Peter do

[@elizabuga4337]

My boyfriend followed me to college and now we’ve been together for five years and are getting married next summer. Sometimes it works if you’re willing to grow up together.

[@elizabuga4337]

@Leila Rose Aw thanks!

[@edithkwikiriza7661]

Awwww, congratulations

[@jayci1]

aw

[@pandajoyd4992]

That’s so awesome!! Congratulations for you both!! 🎉 🎈

[@kingmuizz708]

Congratulations!!!!

[@Gibgabgob]

I'm glad you acknowledged the fact that Noah is an off-brand Mark Ruffalo.

[@rachelmorgan7565]

WHAT LMAO it’s scarily accurate i hate it

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

@@rachelmorgan7565 lmfao he is though!

[@forgetmaenott]

I was literally thinking the same thing while watching this movie, and I’m glad I’m not the only one because it is ACCURATE

[@mikanchan322]

I cant believe I didnt realise it sooner

[@gracekim1998]

Definitely the hair🤣

[@nataliacruz6218]

I just hate the fact that they are selling the idea of you are gonna get married to the person you were dating in high school, like allow yourself to explore and have fun as a young adult

[@andi7150]

yes! exactly my thought!

[@TheOtherAnne]

Sheesh I should get a divorce then, cant have fun being married to my highschool sweetheart :P jk it is very rare to get married to the person you date in highschool.. but not impossible, just make your own choices and go to the school you like not the school your boyfriend likes

[@user-hs4ke6zm4d]

I mean it makes sense that they make the movie this way cause just about everybody thinks there gonna be together forever with their high school bf/gf

[@femmefatale4442]

Seriously, in real life it is really rare to be with your highschool sweetheart and be happily married. Most of these guys are just learning phases so you don't fuck up your other relationships down the line.

[@andreaf8404]

you will probably grow and learn so much more if you break up with that person that if you just stay together. it’s better in the long run because it makes you realize a lot of stuff and get to know yourself better.

[@MarianaRZMachado]

Josh disappearing solidifies the stereotype that girls drop their best friends when they get a boyfriend lmao

[@jenifergarcia327]

Which sucks bc i bet josh would’ve encouraged lara jean to go to her dream college

[@kp782]

@@jenifergarcia327 peter did so? Think this whole thing other way around. A guy would have lied like Lara jean and he would have been so toxic

[@uri4263]

As a former childhood friend who was dumped when she got herself a girlfriend, that's not a stereotype 🤷

[@MC-eq7pi]

HATE TO BE THAT PERSON BUT THE BOOK GOES OVER THIS ASPECT!!!!

[@SaturdayParker]

@@MC-eq7pi lowkey want to read it now still debating

[@rayduron6396]

"You only get one senior year, so enjoy it" -step mom of the year Me and everyone else from the class of 2021: 💃🤡💃🤡💃

[@TheGrandRevo]

*laughs in old*

[@saggivenus]

samesies 🙃

[@coolsomeash]

Tbh I don't even like high school as it is so her saying you only have one senior year enjoy. I already don't wanna go to school, when I hit senior year I'd be glad because I have a year until I get out of highschool

[@tabyw336]

How about a splash of reality: They break up after realizing that the relationship wouldn’t work since they’d be 300 miles away and focused on homework and their grades. Laura focuses on herself whilst doing somewhat ok on grades, THE END.

[@taiyabazaheer9492]

Long distance relationships do work 🤦🏻‍♀️ maybe not in the West as "physical" closeness is everything to them. However, these would likely break-up in real life as they've broken-up in the past on the stupidest of reasons.

[@Jomococo105]

@@taiyabazaheer9492 I agree about Lara Jean and Peter breaking up, but tf do you mean the “West” and about how physical closeness is everything? Plenty of relationships here in the “West” work out just fine long distance thank you very much. Relationships in the East however, well, they’re arranged so people don’t really have a choice do they now? And where are you from oh all knowing wise eastern one? Fucking Saudi Arabia?

[@zohashaikh3730]

@@Jomococo105 she probably mentioned west because that's how it's always shown in western movies. Movies are always different from reality and rarely do depict reality accurately and I'm sure she was also saying it in the context of movies no need to get emotional.

[@zohashaikh3730]

@@Jomococo105 also people in east and specifically in Saudi Arabia do have choice. And people don't always have arranged marriage and even in arranged marriage there is definitely choice for both parties. Arranged marriages are not how you think it is so stop blaming others for something movies don't accurately represent.

[@haxmeow5019]

@@Jomococo105 pretty sure she said that because in every western movie thats how they present couples and the love between them so its understandable why she would say that, also don’t make false assumptions if you don’t know anything, not every marriage in the east is arranged and we certainly do have choices and can do what we want without being forced into things. have a nice day!

[@kaban456]

I like how everyone just treats the second movie like a lucid dream

[@Bean2mf]

Ahahah such a fact

[@Bean2mf]

Cant remember a single thing that happned in that

[@gregholmes6083]

On everything. I have an IMDB list of favorite romances and the second movie is left out. Making the first to not have the trilogy added.

[@soundsoftheheart3164]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 true

[@riveroverland5902]

Not even the fans like it

[@MiaGraceee]

i feel like the scene of jump cuts where the girls were moving around the big letters in korea really solidified the movie feeling like a commercial

[@trinaq]

I agree, I wouldn't be surprised if the opening was secretly a product placement for Seoul, under the pretense of being a movie! 😂

[@lucvalor]

Not surprising...I think it was an ad regardless.

[@missbeliever2089]

@@trinaq and Nyu

[@amanix10]

I can't believe how fast you eased past the "Okay Lara-Jean, I'm going to sleep now... 911 was an inside job" like I still haven't recovered from that.

[@cherin]

what does this mean

[@lenisemicolon]

@@cherin It's a popular conspiracy theory that became a joke, "9/11 was an inside job"

[@sugaudacity]

why was Peter so obsessed with making Lana transfer to Stanford so they could be together ... has HE ever considered transferring to HER school

[@kissxadonis]

@@acottel2551 yeah and in the books he DOES consider ditching his scholarship for her so his mom tries to break them up

[@barakatoyesola6248]

Going to Stanford together was something that they both MUTUALLY wanted, until she changed her mind. Since he isn't a mind reader, he continued to offer the transfer as a solution to something that he thought was a problem at the moment, until she actually told him with her MOUTH that she was no longer interested in Stanford and wanted NYU instead. What you think about his reaction to NYU is up to you but you can't blame him for the Standford situation when it was something the both a priori wanted and agreed upon( He wasn't forcing her, Lara Jane's decisions are her responsibility not his).

[@diodaon4898]

He got a full lacrosse scholarship, he cant just transfer. Use some common sense.

[@Hi-ky2wd]

Technically he chose distance as well. He could have gone to a school that was closer to Lara Jean but he didn’t. He probably got accepted into other schools if he got into Stanford.

[@singing115]

@@Hi-ky2wd he got a acholarship. What part of the is so hard to understand?

[@blitzjacktreefiddy1757]

“You’ve got a hot boyfriend, go enjoy him!” That’s a big yikes

[@tunafish5462]

When I saw that scene I was like "Ew wtf lady?". Then she said something like "Don't enjoy him like that. Don't tell your dad I told you that" and it made me even more uncomfortable lol. I wouldn't want my step mom saying that about my boyfriend......

[@AnaLu07]

The best part is that he is not even hot

[@walklikearobot]

@SuperSydneyPerson 1 I thought Trina did say it in the books, that she and peter should be enjoying each other, but her dad whispers to her "why are you telling her to enjoy her hot boyfriend?"

[@schmantaloupeco.6620]

Just imagine if the genders were reversed

[@csakegyjedi]

@@schmantaloupeco.6620 Yawn, like in huge amount of romance movies where the boyfriend is borderline abusive, toxic aholes?

[@flutesavy123]

I'm sorry but Lara Jean not getting into Stanford but Peter getting in (even a sports scholarship) is the most unrealistic thing these movies have ever done lol. It would be better if she had gotten in but still decided to go NYU

[@flutesavy123]

@Osamudiamen Blessing lol what I meant is that Lara Jean would have been accepted too. Her getting denied is unrealistic

[@farhana9025]

Lara Jean getting in would've been unrealistic too. Straight A's don't get you into Stanford. In fact, most top unis need way more than that. Peter shouldn't have gotten in

[@flutesavy123]

@@farhana9025 well we see that Lara Jean also has extra curricular activities and is a really great writer so her essays were probably great! Sorry but she would have gotten in.

[@flutesavy123]

@Osamudiamen Blessing lol exactly! Lara Jean is super well rounded and has the grades. It's nonsense to think she would been flat out rejected. Maybe waitlisted but not rejected

[@16peanutsful]

@@flutesavy123 bro u know how selective Stanford is right

[@ty_rannosaurusxx1540]

I think the trope of being with your high school sweetheart/first boyfriend for the rest of your life needs to just stop. Girls need to be okay with thinking that its okay to not be with one person forever.

[@Blake9976]

Ma’am, please don’t take away my guilty pleasure😭

[@ty_rannosaurusxx1540]

@@Blake9976 listen...it used to be my guilty pleasure too until I realized how toxic it is. My years of depression can attest to that

[@sarahcharles5625]

I wanted Lara Jean to do like Margot did and what their mom said "Don't have a boyfriend when you go to college"

[@darnellnoir]

if you go into a relationship expecting it to not last then you're never gonna last

[@ty_rannosaurusxx1540]

@@darnellnoir or you could get stuck in a bad relationship at a young age and stunt yourself by not being able to grow by yourself. I have been in a relationship now for 11 years (started when I was 17) and because of this idea that I wanted to be with the same person forever, we have made mistakes, we have both been hurt, we made immature decisions, and at points we have felt like we missed out on opportunities. Of course we have worked through a lot of it, but not everyone can and it can do a lot of damage. Even for people who do make it through, like us, it can be damaging

[@renoirrr]

"then why arent you going to berkeley" THAT was when i finally went *screw you*

[@imemotionallystable7109]

i went screw you to peter in the first movie. precisely at 00:00

[@renoirrr]

@@lunarrosez4118 i was pointing out how peter is guilt tripping her into doing what he wants instead of her choice

[@dinosaysrawr]

She liked New York's stale urine smell better, I guess. Her loss--the Bay Area is awesome!

[@markharrelson9926]

Actually the part about her best friend for ever completely being gone after she finds a boyfriend is the realist part of this series

[@CatMoca]

One interesting thing about the movie compared to the books is that in the Book Lara Jean goes to a much less prestigious university (UNC Chapel Hill). And Peter Kavinsky goes to like their local state school. Which is... More realistic

[@LittleDogTobi]

I agree that it's much more realistic. Making a pact to go to Stanford like it's a given you'll get in is crazy. However UNC and UVA are both well-known schools and pretty selective, so they're not just any old state schools.

[@nguyenucnhan7935]

The book also made Peter much less of a douchebag. In the book, Peter's family was poor so he needed the scholarship to go to college. Plus, he did consider transfering to Lara's university and abandoned his scholarship but since his family could not afford it, his mom told Lara to break up with Peter so that he could get into college. In the film, Peter was just a douchebag that expected Lara to do anything for him lol.

[@Deeeaah]

@@nguyenucnhan7935 this. Ugh. After the first movie did alright in the adaptation, the other two are terrible. The second movie really made Peter look bad but LJ was the problem in book 2... and now there's this

[@valugarciar]

They said that the reason why they choose those universities instead of the ones in the book is because they are more recognizable

[@Deeeaah]

@@valugarciar still no excuse cause at least mentioning the canon ones would have given them recognition 😪

[@peishan555]

Am I the only one who bursted out laughing at the end of the movie? Like when LJ said "We're not like those other couples". I legitimately laughed like way too much

[@riveroverland5902]

Same, as much as I enjoy this trilogy, that was just comical

[@sandpapertea2846]

Kevin 11 is definitely a very important episode of the seires. I just wish Kevin made more appearances in the Original seires. I’m definitely glad he was a main in Alien Force and Ultimate Alien

[@someone-lk8qz]

I personally loved the first movie. It wasn't like the other typical Netflix romance movies and actually had a good message. Telling someone how you feel about them instead of keeping it to yourself. The last two movies were just meh

[@Priya-ds6yr]

Truue

[@ride9581]

Milking

[@ChristyPlayz]

The first one was great second was ight i guess id rather watch the second again than the third god the third one in my opp could have been jazzed up like the first 2

[@melizae2713]

I heard people commenting that it might have to do with the fact that the first movie was directed by a woman, and the other two by a man.

[@ChristyPlayz]

@@melizae2713 maybe but I love male directed movies so maybe these guys were just poo they missed out on things from the book aswell

[@ridhiimas]

this would've been such a good movie if the main issue was lara jean finding her roots, that is going back to korea and liking it there so she wants to stay and continue her education there, getting to know her heritage. And how that would play out in peter and lara jean's relationship since they are both like wolrds apart. Lara jean growing up and being more mature, getting to know korean culture with new possible friends and they both decides to go the separate ways and go on their own paths on a good note. staying in the same country is not really a significant issue and this trope has been used in so many movies lol

[@treasuremage7546]

Holy heck, yes. Her wanting to stay in Seoul is way more interesting and believable than her caring about a shit hole like New York.

[@riveroverland5902]

I would love that but I think that kind of story wouldn’t be really popular because Americans only care about their own country

[@boredbowie8281]

that's truly a brilliant idea and i honestly wish the story would continue like this

[@Hi-ky2wd]

It would have also been better if she didn’t only fall in love with NYU because of one random party and if Peter didn’t get into Stanford. If she did more then go to one party then maybe it would make more sense.

[@msolay1214]

Idk I found it comforting that she wasn’t as conflicted with her race/identity and was more conflicted with her college choice. I enjoyed the normalization of an Asian character that could’ve been played by a white lead role! But I definitely agree that more Seoul shots and more time there would’ve been cool. Letting the audience see more of her background would be so interesting.

[@TheAcornAvenger]

The worst part about this movie is the awful green filter they put over the whole thing

[@aisha6984]

OH MY GOD FINALLY SOMEONE MENTIONED THIS the filter is soooooo depressing and ugly as fuck

[@taco_5795]

Omg finally someone noticed this

[@crystalvamasu]

I kinda liked it. It was also in the first twilight movie

[@aisha6984]

@@crystalvamasu hardly noticed it in twilight because it wasn't as intense as this.

[@alishag1662]

I think that's one of the best things about this movie, lol.

[@ssebinnnyy]

The trilogy is over and Alex still didn't get that it's Lara not Laura.

[@talyabasaman]

Thank you!!! Freaking thank you 😭😭😭🤍

[@horrid_hani]

Even though they ACTUALLY addressed it loud nd clear when peter's dad showed up..it's not laUra, it's LARA!

[@trinaq]

John Ambrose deserved better, but at least he gets a new girlfriend in the book!

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

and knowing Lara Jean she'd probably be beside herself when she found out lol.

[@zarasalman525]

wait he did? please tell me more LMAO i was SO SAD after the 2nd movie he deserved infinitely better

[@kevinthepigeon1062]

they cut out the beach trip in the movie, but in the book all the seniors go on a beach trip and john ambrose makes a cameo with his new gf.

[@Sam-be8qy]

Also the fact that John ambrose chooses William and Mary bcz lara jean said she'd go there

[@zarasalman525]

@@Sam-be8qy that's so SWEET OMG ugh John ambrose deserved better

[@mayafarmer9547]

i'm honestly really glad that they let Lara Jean actually go to NYU and do what SHE wants to do and not have Peter guilt trip her into staying with him and going to Stanford/Berkley

[@andreebernieringenito5321]

Not it's not a guilt trip... I've been in Peter shoes more than once. First because I had a dad issue similar like him. Since childhood, even if our father figure didn't left US, it still feels like it. It's called feeling of abandonment and sometimes it only grows bigger in our heart. Secondly, my ex "choose distance" and it felt like he was leaving me like my father. Like Peter I was so sad and devastated. Then I accepeted the fact that my ex needed to be happy, that everything will be alright. But no, it wasn't because. In our head the person we're with is the most important thing and we would do f*cking anything for that person... but that person, isn't here with us. We "choose" that persone while that person "choose" distance. After a year I moved in with my ex far away from my family, my friends and that's when I realized I lost myself. So no it's not manipulative it's just a different way to see things, because we are hurt. Laura and Peter are sadly not meant to be toguether because they don't have to same ideology. She has everything (the college she choose and relationship)while he has...half of it (college but no relationship- not the one he wanted anyway). Unfortunately. I think they should brake up in order for Peter to be happy as well....

[@mayafarmer9547]

@@andreebernieringenito5321 thank you! that honestly helps me understand this a little better. but a little of what i meant was that i was glad they didn’t have Peter try to convince Lara Jean to stay when she directly told him what she wanted to do.

[@andreebernieringenito5321]

@@mayafarmer9547 You are absolutly right. Peter made the right choice letting Laura Jean go there is no doubt with that :)

[@blackandperfect7709]

So there was almost no problem, besides Peter being a horrible boyfriend, like always.

[@itzoreoyo9479]

Facts

[@yoshmarsh8412]

@@Sabrina-vc9yt read the books bro he was toxic

[@trinaq]

At least Peter was better than EITHER of the Flynn Brothers from the Kissing Booth! John Ambrose deserved better!

[@cleoblackbird2210]

Ikr he literally broke up with her in a heartbeat like bruh he gives up way to easily and this is literally the third breakup like bruh Lara needs to move on

[@yoshmarsh8412]

@@cleoblackbird2210 ong

[@iblivs21]

LJ getting afraid of telling Peter that she didn't got accepted to Stanford shows that she doesn't feel comfortable with him.. a big NO NO

[@alm.2000]

She felt comfortable enough practically cheating on him in the second movie though

[@fudgecake76]

No she was just scared of hurting someone she loves? It’s not that deep

[@jade1010]

Not exactly, I think because they were so hyped about getting into Stamford together she was afraid of telling him the truth. At least she didn't tell him towards the end of the movie I guess

[@afrowit8297]

How she feels about doing whatever isn't in Peter's control. Not even a little bit.

[@Lanioni]

Not at all, she was just scared of disappointment. It's her problem not his influence at all. They had planned so much and to tell the person you love that you're not going to be with them is a lot

[@StarDustwolf77]

Honestly, i wish they stayed broken up because she deserves better, she was trying to decide for herself and live her life but he was playing the guilt trip card.

[@J.R8765]

What's that other kids name again, he was the better choice like in After we collided.

[@rubyjade22]

@@J.R8765 John Ambrose

[@zoe8145]

FRRRRRRR peter literally made HER college decision about himself. like help me understand pls

[@StarDustwolf77]

@@J.R8765 yea, he actually had good chemistry with her

[@jenn305]

So we are not going to talk about just how many expectations that every movie gives you and how easy they make it seem

[@radhiadeedou8286]

Well if you watch a teen romcom and think that's how your life is gonna go it's on you

[@helinbingol]

Ladies and gentlemen this is the moment you've waited for

[@0woah806]

EXACTLY HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@tillie3545]

No kidding I was truly waiting for this video lol

[@LightningIsLit]

Yes it is lol

[@thealmightyloaf5380]

Yes

[@gonfreecss5260]

I want Alex Myers to do the greatest showman lol

[@morahernandez5841]

the breakup was so frustrating like peter literally got mad cus she chose what she liked and wanted. And Lara didn't get mad or said anything to him for being so selfish and not caring about what she likes???

[@stanbtsforaclearskin]

It wasn't about that but he having abandon issues with his father + Lara Lean changed all the plans after months without telling him + sorry but she cheating on him wasn't something that we should forget. I mean, she have every right to decide what university she wanted, but he also have the right to know that she changed his mind. Lara Jean listened him say how happy they would be, how excited he was, and then after months she told him that she would not do it. He felt betrayed and that the she would do the same thing that his father did to him. He made it clear that he wasn't comfortable with a long distance relationship, he had every right to break up with her if he wasn't happy. But he noticed that his personal issues were interfering in their relationship and apologized, then he become really supportive. But you have to remember that Lara Jean was the one with a bad communication, she waited a lot to told him something really important, that's why she didn't get mad. If she would have told him her decision (or not even her decision, just her doubts), they would have talked and he would have understood and supported her since beginning. So both were guilty, she for her bad communication and he for being kinda selfish and let his daddy issues affect the relationship.

[@darwinbowman8512]

@@stanbtsforaclearskin well said. Couldn't agree more. I think people really don't understand his side when analyzing the movie

[@starcie2.0]

This movie could’ve had more conflict. The entire “getting rejected and being upset then getting back together” could’ve been summed up in 30 minutes. I wanted to see LJ enjoy and deal with NYC life, yah know? Would’ve made for a more interesting plot

[@gaberichards4927]

It actually does have so much more conflict in the books!! I would highly recommend reading them, because Netflix decided not to follow majority of the storyline when it was easy to do...

[@riley-mb3tm]

Read the book

[@ellieluna9494]

Book be way better

[@rayanabarbosa5597]

exactly !!!!!

[@katythebeauty330]

I agree!! I feel like the movie should’ve had more things about her trip to NYC or maybe her connecting more with Gen. I feel like them trying to figure out her decision for choosing her college took up majority of the movie. That time could’ve been used for more parts.

[@pixelle2848]

Peter seemed so clingy in this movie Like heaven forbid that his girlfriend would go to a school where she is happy and away from him that would be equivalent to murder

[@bumblele2034]

Well he seems to suffer from serious abandonment issues because of his dad, but the movie didn't really execute it well.

[@pixelle2848]

@@bumblele2034 ikr but he was super annoying in this

[@bumblele2034]

@@pixelle2848 yeah agreed

[@kp782]

They had plans together and he was really supportive. Think the roles reserved. The guy would lie, try to sleep with you and then choose a School far away. And then people would be like damn he is toxic as hell.

[@bumblele2034]

@@kp782 If the roles were reversed I'd say the same thing. Peter was pretty clingy throughout the movie. Throwing a huge gesture over her getting into Stanford and then only supporting Berkeley because she can transfer afterwards. Like I said the reason he reacted so poorly to NYU was because of his own unresolved abandonment issues, but the movie just didn't execute it well at all.

[@haasher10]

Can we just talk about how this trilogy managed to give us our first Asian female lead for a stereotypical rom-com? Say what you will about the story and the accuracy for the adaption but we can’t deny that this really changed the game, I can’t wait to see more of Lana Condor and hopfully more movies like this. This trilogy is definitely better than most rom-coms imo

[@riveroverland5902]

Woah, I commented this on another video.. word for word

[@Stonytude]

@@riveroverland5902 So are we talking soulmates or plagiarism?

[@riveroverland5902]

@@Stonytude HAHAHA i like how you worded that, I would give them a penny of a doubt but I’m leaning towards plagiarism

[@crystalvamasu]

I agree I can’t wait to see more Asian representation

[@zharvey6521]

@@riveroverland5902 its not that serious

[@Chef.joyardee]

The freaking vacuuming over the kissing scenes always gets me 😂

[@Wxtst.3]

I just didn't appreciate how Peter treated LJ when she said she wanted to go to NYU. Like buddy, she was going to go to Berkley only to be closer to you and now that she wants to do something for herself, you don't like it? Idk I hated how much they romanctised their relationship, because the movie really did no justice to how their relationship was like in the books. Very disappointing.

[@paaoogl7675]

I thought that the worst of them is the 2nd movie, but my favorite book is 🥁🥁the second one

[@Wxtst.3]

@@paaoogl7675 Me too! They made Peter look like a douche. Idkkkk why do movies do thisssss 😫

[@kinsta2949]

If you think that way you probably can't put yourself in someone's else shoes and just think about everything from one perspective...

[@Wxtst.3]

@@kinsta2949 Nice one. Excusing the actions of when Peter treated LJ like crap when she wanted to go to NYU. I get his reasons, I don’t need to put myself ‘in his shoes’, I just disagree with his approach. You probably excuse how you act towards others without thinking.

[@epiphany5653]

@@Wxtst.3 Bro it’s literally a Netflix teen drama lmao u need to calm down

[@caro4697]

This is the only way I'll ever watch these kinds of movie

[@edidiongudoeyop5766]

Me too

[@comegetyourb]

Omg same

[@jelenalazarevic6897]

Amen

[@greatergamer4681]

same

[@00imz]

Nah fr tho I cant sit through this kind of cheesy shit lmao

[@DororoXPenana]

I kept cringing every damn time Peter just guilts her for not going with him. That just sounds soooo toxic like if you can't handle your partner going to another school. It's obvious Peter has trust issues and honestly for their type of relationship they probably wouldn't make it via long distance. It isn't for everyone.

[@suniidays]

Imo, they're both quite toxic to each other. They just don't work out in that sense

[@suniidays]

the second movie would prove my point on this lol. they were bad together, not the worst but bad. they'll probably break up after the last movie/book

[@alm.2000]

HOW ON EARTH IS HAVING FEELINGS BEING TOXIC?yall literally hate men I swear to God they can never do right to yall female chauvinists 🙄 Peter got a scholarship and cannot transfer, they had plans for a while which SHE changes last minute after LYING to him and also technically cheating him in the first movie (which makes HER the toxic one) he feels abandoned and betrayed rightfully because he is aware it’s not just “aNotHeR sChOoL” it’s literally across the country and will result in their breakup aka ruining all of their plans. The guy gets hurt because he has feelings like a human being and he LOVES her and somehow he is being toxic? You’re sick in the head and with these insane expectations where everything a man does is tOxIc you’ll die alone

[@suniidays]

@@alm.2000 they're both bad for each other is what I said if that means anything. she can't treat him as he deserves, he can't treat her like the picture perfect love interest should be in her head

[@suniidays]

@@alm.2000 but yea she cheated on him like 2x so I kinda get the point

[@_a.sweet.escape_]

A generic background? Nah, we’re gonna go for “Abs: the musical” as a background poster

[@knusprigeschuhsohle7939]

Peter is SO BAD why didnt she dump him last movie, john ambrose would never do this

[@kirbz1009]

John Ambrose probably would’ve went to NYU so there probably wouldn’t have been a problem. They’re both smart people

[@knusprigeschuhsohle7939]

@@kirbz1009 Yes, but even if not, John Ambrose would have been willed to find a compromise with her

[@dejajade6726]

Can we lowkey stop with the John Ambrose Would Never narrative? Like it's cool if you like him over Peter and wanted LJ to be with him but stop making him into the perfect love interest that would have no relationship problems with LJ. Like y'all complain about the unrealisticness of certain elements in the movie but when you have characters being human (i.e. selfish and flawed) you don't like it. People are complicated and they grow and change and so does their relationships, so I don't know why everyone's like John Ambrose would be so unselfishly compromising if he was with her instead.

[@kiera6646]

@@dejajade6726 He would be though? And that’s not being “perfect”, that’s just being a good partner.

[@dejajade6726]

@@kiera6646 That would be so unrealistic and an unhealthy standard to hold someone to but you do you I guess.

[@neivilde.1242]

he has been calling her LAURA JEAN this whole series and no one corrected him i swear to god

[@septemily]

What do you mean corrected? What is the right way?

[@neivilde.1242]

@@septemily it"s LARA jean not LAURA

[@septemily]

@@neivilde.1242 I see that now after reading the other comments lol. Didn’t even notice before.

[@R-E-Tudor]

Is it an American thing or something? Because Ethan Klein kept calling Lara Croft ‘Laura’ too on the last After Dark podcast 😂

[@shwetamishra4080]

No her actual name is Laura Jean but I don't know why people call her Lara Jean?

[@kelsey.is.offline]

anyone else notice how alex uses the same couple of names in his personal story rambles. like what did kelsey do to him???????

[@AshwathGokul]

Kelsey is his girlfriend's name

[@platyperri]

I was wondering why you were so concerned and then I saw your username/name 🤣🤣🤣

[@shirleytatha8189]

@Annika Hubbard Has*

[@dubiedupe2368]

I was wondering if Kelsey was his highschool sweetheart and maybe they got back together later in life? That's my theory 👀

[@graceful1537]

Anyone notice how he changed the title from “To All The Boys 3 is kinda dumb...” to “To All The Boys 3 is actually kinda good?”

[@jeneanw.9791]

Sure didd

[@qrooked4500]

But the third movie is so bad

[@nimmi7526]

Well he got a hate tweet in twitter and people started spamming in him comments, so I think he changed it, though this one is the worst of all three movies.

[@Sipu97]

@@nimmi7526 That's ridiculous on every party.

[@nimmi7526]

@@Sipu97 Yes it is. It makes no sense.

[@esmaraldabangsimony9484]

honestly, the second and third movie is just okay, but still WAY better than most other rom-com sequals.

[@jullovesmusic]

exactllyyy

[@ShannaRose]

agree !! as a whole all 3 are great

[@tunafish5462]

*_Cough_* *_cough_* the kissing booth *_cough_*

[@GODSLITTLEMEOWMEOW]

It's now where near hallmark low rom comz

[@ShannaRose]

@@tunafish5462 💀yes

[@giorgoskakotaritis7222]

Netflix is slowly turning into Disney with all these sequels

[@walklikearobot]

LOL i mean to be fair all three books had been written before they started working on the first movie

[@mcytfan1415]

@@walklikearobot yeah

[@fullmoon-ena]

hated how she had to have backup schools for peter lamesky but peter didn’t even do the same for lara jean. he was just like yup i’m going to stanford and ima force you to change your future plans all for me!!! and then made her feel guilty for “not choosing him” yet it’s not like he even tried to do the same for her

[@lillypotter7966]

He also got in on a sports scholarship to Stanford. Yeah he was wrong about her not choosing him, but it would be hard for him to go to another school.

[@fullmoon-ena]

@@lillypotter7966 that’s true! and i wasn’t saying he should choose her over a program/school that’s good for him and i’m happy she ends up going to nyu in the end too but i just felt it was upsetting that he was upset at her for wanting to choose a better program for her than to go to berkeley to be with him

[@IamtheGam3r34]

@@fullmoon-ena the way I saw it was that since his dad left him, he probably felt that she was all that he had left in his life, but yeah even if that’s the case doesn’t excuse his actions of being disappointed just because she chooses another school, like they need to realize they have their own lives and if they or whoever breaks up, that mess up their life for the other person.

[@fullmoon-ena]

@@IamtheGam3r34 ooo that’s a really good point! i kinda mentally blocked out the sad part because i kinda thought the scene was cringy but that probably really affected him a lot!

[@kavertia6261]

The “Welcome home” sign is the most realistic needless detail and I love it.

[@augustlyedits]

noah scented mayo’s acting in this movie was NOT it

[@Pandaluvsretrothings]

Scented Mayo I'm laughing Noah/Norman Centimeter, Cilantro, Centipede

[@dalaneymartinez5064]

😂😂 Noah Scented Mayo

[@hadiyahmahmood7989]

Noah scented Mayo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@dr.rashmichaudhary1716]

OMDHSHAJAJKAJDJJDJEKWKALA

[@nia-qf2mz]

PLS

[@alwaysprocrastinating355]

I feel like I’m gonna show my future kids this trilogy as a reason why they shouldn’t date in high school

[@mimiwey9014]

The actress of Lara Jean is gorgeous she looks like a doll

[@oopsy-daisy]

Yeah! She’s really pretty! 😍

[@hazelconchata7681]

She is sooo beautiful

[@sonnychavez6282]

The little sister was easily BOTH the best and the worst character throughout these movies lol

[@meganjones4301]

I love her. She's just soo............ You know?

[@sonnychavez6282]

@@meganjones4301 Yea yea of course. I don’t hate her it’s just there are moments in these movies where I am like wow why she gotta be like that lol

[@stateofmindphilosophyandps214]

She’s just a younger sibling, which makes her the best character because she acts like a real person towards their own siblings

[@coolsomeash]

Tbh in all these movies they show the siblings getting along when most siblings call names, shit talk and "fight"

[@scribblemonster370]

@@coolsomeash yea but I mean, we love each other too right. And really like why show all that extra stuff when it isn't about siblings 😂😂 we have Little Women for that 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[@MiaGraceee]

i felt like i had to wear a hazmat suit watching this film because of the toxic levels of AwesomenessTV being radiated

[@ilikecurry2345]

Ohhhh boyyyyyyy!

[@deadlykur0mi275]

Literally

[@tunafish5462]

I knew I recognised the logo of AwsomenessTv and it turns out they made the Lele pons and fousey movie ew smh.

[@MiaGraceee]

@@tunafish5462 Yeah I’m p sure the first movie had the actual awesomeness TV logo or something

[@zasherakhan6957]

Basically

[@itsmusicechoes]

Can we talk about how quick the dad got married though? Within a few weeks they organize this huge wedding with caterers and flowers and everything. That shotgun fairytale wedding was more unbelievable than Laura Jean and Peter staying together throughout college.

[@zendayasfruityfrenchfry1784]

Am I the only way who hates how Noah scented mayo sounds in these movies like what in the world is that vocal fry?

[@instantmiso9921]

PLEASE NOAH SCENTED MAYO IM DYING JDDJDJSJJA

[@alistairt7544]

It's like he's trying to tell you a secret in a hush hush voice every. single. time.

[@jlailaharris4909]

If I’m being honest I just came from Trin’s video and saw ur comment so I scrolled through this comment section to find ur comment some serious fan behavior 😫🤚

[@Pandaluvsretrothings]

Noah Centipede is another nickname for him

[@zendayasfruityfrenchfry1784]

@@jlailaharris4909 Hahahahaha. Hellloooo.

[@kiarazamora8365]

I still don't know why they changed the colleges, like keeping them the way they were from the books would've been fine. In the books they were going to go to UVA togther but lara jean didn't get accepted but she got accpeted to UNC Chapel Hill so Chris took her on a trip to go see the campus and that's when she decided she wanted to go to UNC Chapel Hill. And the distance between them was only like 3 or 4 hours in the book since they both lived in virgina and UNC Chapel Hill is right next to Virgina

[@Pandaluvsretrothings]

Because of the location of the film it was set in Oregon not in Virginia (the setting of the book)

[@Sophia-kv3ex]

it’s scary to see that Peter Kavinskys seen as good when he’s toxic and manipulative in saying she chose distance over him and how he expects her to follow him but not the other way round

[@alyseyer6366]

There was a whole side plot with his dad that opened his eyes and actually gave him some character development, so I really don't agree but to each their own I guess

[@katgreer6113]

Ikr

[@brieee_b]

It’s bc he felt like his Dad picked someone else over him too

[@nainarai8377]

He did come off as manipulative and toxic and I was pissed too. I guess it was probably because of abandonment issues with his father though. But he eventually realised his mistake, apologised to and encouraged her, didn't he?

[@jordynb8866]

He had abandonment issues I think. Probably from his relationship with his dad. That’s just my opinion though.

[@kieramae6999]

IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE

[@forgetmaenott]

SAME LOL

[@Nathank-xs3dm]

You know it

[@trinaq]

Me too, I'd better grab the popcorn for this one! 🍿

[@annamaureenbellizio8168]

69th like :D

[@sunnybunnywaanjai]

SAME

[@NoiseDay]

Kudos to Alex's cartoon mom for making every kiss scene bearable with her sick riffs on the vacuum.

[@evaa5094]

Book Peter=ideal boyfriend Movie Peter= “so hey don’t do anything for yourself and follow me around as I do something dumb with my life”

[@waltermh111]

Wait, going to a school to get a successful job that will provide for the family is dumb? But her "doing for herself" by literally doing something dumb with her life like getting a worthless degree and choosing a school over him because the school vibe is more important than the relationship? Wow... you are another example of why most relationships fail these days. Seems only the men are thinking about the relationship while its all about "me me me" for modern women.