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To Hell And Back Season 1 Episode 4

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Boldly Owamie

Boldly Owamie

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@elvisndlovu1232
@elvisndlovu1232 10 ай бұрын
A round of applause for Owamie please, she is doing the most 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@boldlyowamie
@boldlyowamie 10 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@sneguguwendysneguguwendykh4454
@sneguguwendysneguguwendykh4454 10 ай бұрын
​@@dikolizaskk5847at least she is trying🙃
@NomsaMayo
@NomsaMayo 10 ай бұрын
​@@dikolizaskk5847this comment is so untrue and unnecessary
@nonhlanhlapearl4700
@nonhlanhlapearl4700 10 ай бұрын
​@dikolizaskk5847 lol, I agree and I would like to add that only those who try hard reap greater rewards 🤷
@OwamieEntertainment
@OwamieEntertainment 10 ай бұрын
@@dikolizaskk5847 if you also tried hard your channel would grow mamma😊
@thandekileeunice
@thandekileeunice Ай бұрын
Thanks, Owamie, for bringing such stories even though I am so emotional about this story, and she is so beautiful and humble. I wish her a bright future ahead
@andisiwemcasa7360
@andisiwemcasa7360 10 ай бұрын
First things first, this lady is so breathtakingly beautiful🥺❤️ I’m sorry that you had to go through so much Sisi. What I have learnt from this story is that: - As African parents we can do better and change the narrative, as a parent it is your responsibility to educate your children especially a girl child about Sex Education, teach them that when you engage with a man you will fall pregnant and have a child, imagine this 14 year old at the time knew nothing about the dangers and consequences of sexual activities. - Children will mess up and make mistakes but as a parent you can’t do this to your child, throw them away and allow a man to abuse them like this all in the name of punishment💔 - There is a thin line between being evil and being a strict parent, what this lady’s father did was evil and very wrong😩 In summary “Childhood traumas and underlying issues” are serious bethuna, let us be kind to each other we really don’t know what people have been through😭😭 what a painful story, your life was ruined at a very young age but we thank God that he carried you through it all🙏❤️ Sending you so much love and light🫂❤️
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
😢 thank you sisi for your wise words. I wish I can share some of my vn between me and my X but I don't know how.
@andisiwemcasa7360
@andisiwemcasa7360 10 ай бұрын
@@werise1577🫂❤️
@Vhhandle
@Vhhandle 10 ай бұрын
You haven't gotta do too much talking take them to a clinic and get contraception, either the pill, implant, coil etc
@chulekazikalipa4147
@chulekazikalipa4147 10 ай бұрын
@@Vhhandle I know you probably mean well, but that does not help except 'keep the babies away'. What we should be encouraging is CONVERSATION. Talk to your child about these things and then both decide if contraception is something that she even wants to do, because that in itself(the pill) can have major effects on her in the long run. Some of which she could hate you for if you never spoke to her about it in the first place. Surely if you are willing to make her contracept, she is old enough for you guys to speak about sex. 14 and 15 year olds are old, you cannot take such decisions on their behalf unless you are THAT kind of parent.
@karenthemba7194
@karenthemba7194 10 ай бұрын
, good lp
@zindela210
@zindela210 10 ай бұрын
She makes me see how important for South Africans to be kind to all foreign nationals coming to find refuge in our country 🙏 Stronger Together ❤️
@gladysmkhize4085
@gladysmkhize4085 9 ай бұрын
We also have storeis like this in South Africa
@theeahlume1010
@theeahlume1010 9 ай бұрын
This is nothing new in the African continent.
@barbaramotsepe45
@barbaramotsepe45 9 ай бұрын
This episode has nothing to do with refuge, it's about GBV
@me-xx3uh
@me-xx3uh 6 ай бұрын
We have worse stories and we don't run to other countries
@KD-us9jm
@KD-us9jm 6 ай бұрын
@zindela210 Just ignore the negative and bitter responses to your comment. Your comment was not meant to trigger people but just to spread some kindness.
@Lanterns09
@Lanterns09 10 ай бұрын
The trauma that comes with having an overly strict parent where it even borders on abuse ... 💔 I wish Mandy nothing but the best from life... may she be elevated, may her blessings flow in abundance, may she be surrounded by peace, gentleness, genuine love and good people. Protect her Lord❤
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
Thank you Sisi. Your words are much appreciated 🙏
@nancygweja7607
@nancygweja7607 9 ай бұрын
Amen!!!
@LumkaJwara
@LumkaJwara 10 ай бұрын
The elders failed her. I hope she can heal from the trauma and have a good life and peaceful life
@neosjournal_
@neosjournal_ 10 ай бұрын
Honestly 😢 they had ONE job, which was to protect her and they didn’t even try
@matshepokhosa234
@matshepokhosa234 10 ай бұрын
I suggest a coach/sofa for a more intimacy as the podcast is an emotional session... I'm loving the growth
@Lungelo911
@Lungelo911 10 ай бұрын
True, this is too formal, a couch will be better.
@wendideliciousdivinethwala3191
@wendideliciousdivinethwala3191 10 ай бұрын
True hey , maybe a couch and also a glass of water or juice cause talking for some time sometimes your mouth becomes dry unless they do drink something but off camera 🙃😉
@henrietakamwambo3810
@henrietakamwambo3810 9 ай бұрын
The black camera lens next to Mandy is a cup, probably has something to drink.
@letushilaalina
@letushilaalina 10 ай бұрын
I hate abuse because it makes you think things are fine when they are not. She said she now has a relationship with her dad, my 2 cents is that; that’s not a relationship, dad is now just old, alone, and he has no one else!
@lucelletadiwanashemakubika7636
@lucelletadiwanashemakubika7636 10 ай бұрын
True. If he had a girlfriend/wife, he would probably not talk to his daughter.
@GodsFavourite2024
@GodsFavourite2024 10 ай бұрын
​@@lucelletadiwanashemakubika7636exactly
@maiyeukai9346
@maiyeukai9346 9 ай бұрын
But God says forgive to be forgiven
@letushilaalina
@letushilaalina 9 ай бұрын
@@maiyeukai9346 your view is correct as well, mine tends to differ, as forgiveness is for the wise and it does not always mean going back. Some situations require a lot of therapy, than returning back to the place of war. My 2 cents...
@zandilezabengunigumede3069
@zandilezabengunigumede3069 10 ай бұрын
The danger of telling daughters to stay in a toxic marriage 😢😢😢 am sending love to Mandy and her daughter, and prayers to her mom..
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
Cishe ngafa sisi. I wish I can share my conversation I had with my X after seeing this interview. 😢😢😢he is a monster
@zandilezabengunigumede3069
@zandilezabengunigumede3069 10 ай бұрын
Askies Love it is owk to speak your hear is therapeutic, sending love to you and hugs❤❤❤
@Nerwie
@Nerwie 10 ай бұрын
I hope she & her daughter are going to see someone, u can hear through her voice da pain...
@neosjournal_
@neosjournal_ 10 ай бұрын
Owamie, i love how you just allow the guest to speak and tell the story. You’re doing well mama❤ keep it up.
@leratosebola5974
@leratosebola5974 10 ай бұрын
I'm glad she was able to come out of it stronger rather than sitting and blaming her father and ex husband for making life miserable
@yoursTruly20711
@yoursTruly20711 10 ай бұрын
Ohh Queen this is commendable ❤. You've found your lane and you are doing the most sis❤ I'm so sorry to the lady, may God bless you both🤗.
@boldlyowamie
@boldlyowamie 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much❤️
@Sukoluhle88
@Sukoluhle88 10 ай бұрын
I remember my father as a very abusive man to both my mother and us, whenever I see or hear a man abusing a woman it triggers all the trauma back
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@ThobileMacaws
@ThobileMacaws 10 ай бұрын
❤❤
@ngubanentombikayise9488
@ngubanentombikayise9488 10 ай бұрын
Sorry but forgive him
@emeritatee1597
@emeritatee1597 10 ай бұрын
i get you i confronted my father about the abuse and it got worse
@elizabethletsoso2558
@elizabethletsoso2558 7 ай бұрын
I​@@emeritatee1597I'm sorry love please find help
@chloebadass9526
@chloebadass9526 10 ай бұрын
Soon Owamie will be on a Tv. This is her calling.
@janerosempeta5662
@janerosempeta5662 8 ай бұрын
My baby your story take me back the life my mother lived with my father i won't forget that 💔💔😭😭😭
@motshidisirafapha4253
@motshidisirafapha4253 10 ай бұрын
This women is so beautiful and forgiving 🥺♥️ Kudos to you Queen Nonja 👏🏽♥️
@darkhorse9277
@darkhorse9277 10 ай бұрын
Great job Owamie. Just a small one, please keep a box of tissues for your guests.
@obakengsetshedi2907
@obakengsetshedi2907 8 ай бұрын
And for us too. Ninjas cry too😢😢😢. This was too much for me.
@G.DD3SS
@G.DD3SS 10 ай бұрын
She's really been through the most. I hope her mother is okay where she is.
@blinkym21
@blinkym21 9 ай бұрын
Her Father indirectly gave this man permission to abuse his daughter. I hope she knows how beautiful she is and how much her life is worth. Her daughter should never be forced to relate to this man because toxic relationships generate cycles of trauma.
@neosjournal_
@neosjournal_ 10 ай бұрын
12:51 yoh. That lady had ONE job, to protect a girl child and she couldn’t do it
@theromadziba
@theromadziba 10 ай бұрын
First signs of trauma she remembers how young she was.... But age timelines confused me
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
😢❤❤I noticed that Sisi . I'm so sorry 🙏
@Ongezwa_Ntsepe
@Ongezwa_Ntsepe 10 ай бұрын
She got pregnant at 14, gave birth at 15. From the I just added the child's age
@lotus..4187
@lotus..4187 8 ай бұрын
Ýeah I think she is confused..when her daughter was 4 and he beat her she must have been 18
@user-ot9lz5uo2x
@user-ot9lz5uo2x 10 ай бұрын
Good work sis Owamie. We need stories like this so we know we are not alone in our hardships. Please provide structure to your interviews. Guide the stories using structured questions and timeline of events so the guests don't just narrate randomly. Take a few tips from Relebogiles's Unpacked series. You are going far.
@dianastjohn700
@dianastjohn700 10 ай бұрын
I would have loved a more indepth conclusion of her story. I really wanted to know where she is today and how she arrived at having her peace and joy. Structure would really have all our questions answered in future episodes.
@londiwecelimpilo4068
@londiwecelimpilo4068 10 ай бұрын
I cant believe this,this lady is so young,matured n strong.you are a hero.much respect for u .cant believe im crying rite now
@tshidimohale160
@tshidimohale160 10 ай бұрын
One thing about abusers they'll never say am sorry. Thank you for sharing her story.
@marthamungure1777
@marthamungure1777 9 ай бұрын
She was about 17 or 18 when she was beaten 'cause the baby was already 3yrs
@excuseme9458
@excuseme9458 10 ай бұрын
The story starts getting juicy once she starts talking about the cousin 😮
@elvisndlovu1232
@elvisndlovu1232 10 ай бұрын
Johhh in Zimbabwe you come back home late they will tell you to go back where you are coming from....even if you are under 18....the family toxicity is on another level
@boldlyowamie
@boldlyowamie 10 ай бұрын
😮😮😮😢
@Mr19720715
@Mr19720715 10 ай бұрын
In Zimbabwe you impregnate my daughter she is your wife it's fair and first things first don't do adult stuff when you are young fullstop
@Dinny_mok
@Dinny_mok 10 ай бұрын
Even in SA I remember my mom used to do the same thing. Toxicity is everywhere
@annamayyy9771
@annamayyy9771 10 ай бұрын
I remember I used to fear that because my father was very strict so I never played that game but I know alot of people that were sent back to their boyfriends and you end up not finishing school. I only know of 1 person where the parents didn't send her away and helped raise the child.
@carolchin2336
@carolchin2336 10 ай бұрын
My aunt used to come over to the house to cook for my uncle and one day she stayed over too late and when she got home they told her to go back where she came from, she came back and never returned home ever again- and they got married they were so young and we came from a family which didn’t have much there was 11 of us in the house. I can honestly say my uncle never loved her and still doesn’t but just because of that one mistake their future was decided for them.
@rebeccachaka8058
@rebeccachaka8058 10 ай бұрын
Mandy hun I'm so sorry for the hardships you endured. You're strong, gorgeous and capable momma. Keep going, you're doing great. Sending you and your baby all my love ❤😊
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ thank you sisi❤
@rexona1178
@rexona1178 7 ай бұрын
We have a lot of problems to deal with in sub Saharan Africa. These stories are similar to what i have watched across other cultures. Let us work hard to build our communities and protect innocent children like this. My heart bleeds hearing these stories. Love from Cameroon and UK.
@startingover7217
@startingover7217 10 ай бұрын
We do appreciate your story. We can't always avoid entering abusive relationships, but we can leave by empowering ourselves mentally, emotionally, and physically.
@marynamakhoma5477
@marynamakhoma5477 10 ай бұрын
Some died trying to leave. So avoid!
@elvisndlovu1232
@elvisndlovu1232 10 ай бұрын
This thing of forcing kids to marry because they have a boyfriend is still happening
@boldlyowamie
@boldlyowamie 10 ай бұрын
It’s bad 😢
@neosjournal_
@neosjournal_ 10 ай бұрын
In zim, you impregnate you marry
@elvisndlovu1232
@elvisndlovu1232 10 ай бұрын
@@neosjournal_ imagine ...even if the child is 14......it's really bad
@trudy-annsmall9600
@trudy-annsmall9600 10 ай бұрын
Its utter rubbish.....these parents are mentally unstable
@GodsFavourite2024
@GodsFavourite2024 10 ай бұрын
Owamie, I love how you listen to our constructive inputs. You surely are goals❤ You get better at this with each episode mama🎉❤
@othusitsepereko5896
@othusitsepereko5896 10 ай бұрын
This lady was just too patient. I would have gone away to find a mokhukhu just so i am independent of this guy. He was just too "dirty" and disgusting
@krisjoh1465
@krisjoh1465 10 ай бұрын
She has been independent al along.its just that she always thought what about my child..even people who have where to go find it difficult to leave their abusive partners
@nadiavutlhari1411
@nadiavutlhari1411 10 ай бұрын
The hardships she went through is painful and traumatizing
@nellyburu7322
@nellyburu7322 10 ай бұрын
Sorry for all that you you, your mom and daughter went through Mandy. I hope you guys heal, especially your daughter and break this generational curse of a daughter witnessing their mom being abused.❤❤❤
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
That's what I'm trying to do Sisi. My daughter means a lot to me
@manareseakamela713
@manareseakamela713 2 ай бұрын
Very touching story. In my case..my mom is making me her worst enemy.. she also influenced all my family.. relatives and my siblings to hate me... I'm alone.. doing my things...it doesn't doing me any good to beg such people to live in harmony with...
@elvisndlovu1232
@elvisndlovu1232 10 ай бұрын
5 star content as usual 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
@pumzandziweni8434
@pumzandziweni8434 10 ай бұрын
This reminds me,that my dad,when i was getting married,he said,i must never come back from marriage,after they spent sooo much money,meaning even if i can be abused,i must never come back😢😢😢
@elvisndlovu1232
@elvisndlovu1232 10 ай бұрын
The headboy/prefect of the ninjas just arrived, please sit back, relax and enjoy, by the way, make sure you have subscribed, like and shared
@boldlyowamie
@boldlyowamie 10 ай бұрын
You really are 😂😂😂
@thandothando2779
@thandothando2779 10 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 you are indeed the head boy
@carolchin2336
@carolchin2336 10 ай бұрын
It’s such a blessing to be born to parents who are prepared to give you the right guidance in life, it’s so important. I’m so sorry you went through all of this and I wish you all the healing in abundance
@christieultd
@christieultd 10 ай бұрын
Mandy, you are strong. You did well leaving that monster. May God bless you and your daughter. I pray all goes well with/for your mother and that you will be together again some day. Thank you for sharing your story
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏❤❤
@lucelletadiwanashemakubika7636
@lucelletadiwanashemakubika7636 10 ай бұрын
So sickening , the dad is so evil. She must stop talking to him, he dosent deserve her attention and love.
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
I'm trying my best to stay away from him but he keeps on calling me with different phone numbers😢
@Bahrain-kv7uk
@Bahrain-kv7uk 9 ай бұрын
@@werise1577saying what?😢 he was so evil towards you 🥹
@shaz1380
@shaz1380 10 ай бұрын
Sis bekezelad too much though, I pray she finds healing 🙏🙏🙏.. I think her mum also failed her
@prkhumzicles
@prkhumzicles 10 ай бұрын
The Zimbabwean Lady is so pretty, I really wish her well in Life , the number of I come to you as a woman she had to do!!! Ladies him cheating once is enough. Indoda ejola while nishadile never gets better. Leave that toxic situation before you leave in a coffin
@lazzympofu9979
@lazzympofu9979 9 ай бұрын
She never cheated she was rape by his boyfriend.
@Ongezwa_Ntsepe
@Ongezwa_Ntsepe 10 ай бұрын
I love how you let them tell their story and only ask questions for things that are not clear
@pheladinare2876
@pheladinare2876 10 ай бұрын
Queen ninja you really did this interview like a pro girl you gave your guest a platform to take us through their story without interfering and asking the relevant questions where need be💐💐💐💐❤❤
@nokwandaazania8851
@nokwandaazania8851 10 ай бұрын
I know I'm not the only one obsessing with this channel
@boldlyowamie
@boldlyowamie 10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@sinothando-lusandamadlala6064
@sinothando-lusandamadlala6064 10 ай бұрын
Proud of the both of you for discussing such sensitive topics with such poise... I pray that as parents we keep growing and learning to do better... we heal and are able to raise even more fruitful babies...
@Over50andMe
@Over50andMe 10 ай бұрын
You are a very brave woman to share your story. Most of us women have gone through the same predicament with no help. Our zim culture has a lot to change. Once you make a mistake you become a tool for abuse from all angles. This situation can be viewed as normal. Help is a difficult word.
@tinytomas3773
@tinytomas3773 9 ай бұрын
I'm from SA & have a child with a Zimbabwean but he passed on. Now his family wants my child...I will never understand the undermining they have towards me thinking they can love her better than I can...It's funny they want her irrespective of how thier son assured them how much of a great mom I am with or without him in the picture 😢.
@Thabie168
@Thabie168 10 ай бұрын
This story is not adding up, this lady was 14 when she,her mom and siblings were abused by the aunt, she got pregnant ran away from home lived her aunt(father’s sister) found out she’s pregnant got married. Gave birth then came to South Africa 2008 stayed here 2009 and 2010 ,2011 went home to start building then husband started cheating with his cousin and 2012 January when her husband started abusing her she was 15 😳 the years could be confusing her🤷🏽‍♀️ @Owami you are a great host by the way🙏
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
You are right about the age gap. I think I was nervous. But trust me I went through hell
@krisjoh1465
@krisjoh1465 10 ай бұрын
What matters is th story and when she got married off losing everything..we don't really care about when the dead beat husband started cheating ..the point is she was still young when all happened and good side she came out strong
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
@@krisjoh1465 thank you 🙏
@mbt9820mpp
@mbt9820mpp 10 ай бұрын
And you typed ALL THAT???? Lacking the empathy but having time to type the timelines😢😢😢😢😢
@andilengubane5178
@andilengubane5178 10 ай бұрын
@@werise1577❤
@samke1ndlovu
@samke1ndlovu 10 ай бұрын
Queen Ninja. Well done! Thank you for sharing these stories. May our generation change the narrative and do better towards our children ❤
@rose-maynyamombe1407
@rose-maynyamombe1407 10 ай бұрын
Owami... I have a story as well. But not in JHB/SA
@joinahmukanangana2993
@joinahmukanangana2993 8 ай бұрын
My sister ,you are the chosen one in the family to break this genertional curse in your family .
@highandmightyqueen79
@highandmightyqueen79 10 ай бұрын
This type of content is so unique owamie wow its only gonna be success from here onwards
@boldlyowamie
@boldlyowamie 10 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤❤❤
@patienceikombele9161
@patienceikombele9161 10 ай бұрын
Very good heart, Mandy, No wonder she's beautiful. She doesn't hold any grudges. As for her father, he doesn't lead by example. Stay beautiful and raise your child my dear.
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@Nunec
@Nunec 10 ай бұрын
I am Zimbabwean and I am in no way supporting abuse or child marriages. Most parents make their children marry whoever has made them pregnant and sometimes the marriages work out. The reason they do this they do not want to have unwed daughters making a habit of making more babies with various men as we see in some cases, maybe 3 daughters all with more than one child still in their parents' home. I am glad she did not make more children with him
@ZiphatheleSqungesihlsijadu3533
@ZiphatheleSqungesihlsijadu3533 10 ай бұрын
Thats True, even where im from in Kzn , thats how it was done in our young age, n she was inlove with her husband, its not like uthwaliwe
@patriciaulaya2427
@patriciaulaya2427 8 ай бұрын
God Bless my daughter. God saw you sorrows and has set you fee. The wrong shall face his on consequences.
@taimi.jasmin
@taimi.jasmin 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this Owamie!! I totally love that you give your guests the time and patience to express themselves without rushing and most importantly the empathy for them to develop the story. ❤❤❤ Love from London, UK 🇬🇧
@patriciawozhele4534
@patriciawozhele4534 10 ай бұрын
It's sad, sorry you had to pass through all that, but we thank God you came out strong. It's his loss. Gal you so pretty and gorgeous stay strong
@VeliswaMa
@VeliswaMa 9 ай бұрын
Wamhle umntwana wase Plumtree, model material! Inspiration from such a young lady. Kudos for all the strides that she's made.
@werise1577
@werise1577 9 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@itumelengjennifer7523
@itumelengjennifer7523 10 ай бұрын
That's why we always have to be kind to each other you don't know wht ppl are going through 😢
@nonhlanhlapearl4700
@nonhlanhlapearl4700 10 ай бұрын
Wow, I like the direction your podcast is going. Please if you can get your speakers to also feel comfortable expressing themselves in their languages would make their messages resonate even stronger, I know it maybe costly interms of getting a translator and edit in subtitles so for that, I don't mind I would join and pay a member fee for this channel.❤😊
@megaskharis605
@megaskharis605 10 ай бұрын
Usisi omuhle kangaka going through the most...Well done mummy when I see you I will give you a hug Sis. You deserve it maarn.
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
I need a strong cup of coffee 😂but thank you 🙏❤
@lululekalakala6512
@lululekalakala6512 10 ай бұрын
The love and empathy shown in these stories is beautiful, this space allows guests to be comfortable with being vulnerable and it really shows why we need to be determined to be kind to one another every single day ❤. Thank you❤
@ogonemongale7724
@ogonemongale7724 10 ай бұрын
Yoh..very heart breaking..im so glad that mama Vanessa is now okay and shes still fighting for her child..but i also think she shouldnt force her child to have a relationship with her dad..that guy can go to the nearest hell..hes going to traumatize mntwana
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
I'm not going to force her Sisi. I know how hurtful things are. I will definitely do my best to protect my daughter
@ogonemongale7724
@ogonemongale7724 10 ай бұрын
@@werise1577 wishing you all the best mama❤I know and trust that you will protect Vanessa..You've done a great job and please keep it up❤❤may God heal you and may he abundantly bless you ❤❤❤🌻
@paballomabusela808
@paballomabusela808 10 ай бұрын
The effort owamie has put in this show ❤🎉
@thandothando2779
@thandothando2779 10 ай бұрын
Mandy when he sees you glowing he will try coming back to disrupt your peace. Please even if buy you Mercedez do not take him back. Run and never look back. May you find healing and love sisi
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
I'm not going back there sisi. 😅ngihappy la ngikhona
@thandothando2779
@thandothando2779 10 ай бұрын
Abusers do not change!!!!!
@noziphokhumalo2963
@noziphokhumalo2963 10 ай бұрын
Tjo! This is beyond heartbreaking 💔 may everything be in your favor and that of your daughter.
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
Thank you sisi. I'm trying my best to protect my daughter 🙏
@mercygurure5238
@mercygurure5238 10 ай бұрын
You very right sisi parents destroy our lives because of their stupid strict especially Zimbabwean dads are the worst nxaaaaaa am very sorry sisi you know I cried so hard pls take care of your daughter❤
@MsNqo
@MsNqo 10 ай бұрын
Yhoo! Everyone that hates Owami nust be seething seeing these views. Wowza! Congratulations.
@perpetuawamaitha8194
@perpetuawamaitha8194 10 ай бұрын
That parents should go to jail
@darkhorse9277
@darkhorse9277 10 ай бұрын
Mandy ❤. You are such a beautiful and strong lady. You deserve so much more. When you spoke of lawyer friend I realised you might have missed opportunities coz of this experience. I wish you can go back to school coz you are still young. You can do this girl. All the best.
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
Thank you sisi❤❤
@giftsekele4383
@giftsekele4383 23 күн бұрын
She’s so beautiful man 😢😍🔥 I pray that she finds her peace & may God bless her with a loving partner.
@tsakamhlabane9269
@tsakamhlabane9269 10 ай бұрын
Wow, what a beautiful lady. Im glad you came out of this alive,I hope you find healing Mandy. Sending you all the love, light and peace that surpasses all human understandings. We love you Sis🤍 pls consider therapy for you and your beautiful daughter….❤️
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
Thank you sisi. I love you too ❤️
@elvisndlovu1232
@elvisndlovu1232 10 ай бұрын
I think this episode will hit 100k before friday
@boldlyowamie
@boldlyowamie 10 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏 Amen 🙏
@musasebata4501
@musasebata4501 9 ай бұрын
We honestly have to be better parents than our parents were. Some of these customs are soooo backdated and really won't work in today's world. The world has so many pressures now and life has become hard. Back then a girl child would be chucked to the boy's home no matter then age because people were self sufficient and life demanded very little and was simpler. As time goes, your daughter get pregnant look for a baby sitter and send her right back to schooled before she becomes abused by the guy responsible and experience what Mandy experienced. At the end of the day the girl child is the one who'll probably end up being the single parent looking after that child anyways. Better equipped than thrown to the wolves.
@mercyripunda7282
@mercyripunda7282 8 ай бұрын
She sounds hurt😢 remain strong my love we all have been there. 😊
@vickymolatelo6787
@vickymolatelo6787 10 ай бұрын
What a beautiful young woman ❤we are going through a lot ,Owamie keep doing a good job🙏
@Potato-lp5ij
@Potato-lp5ij 9 ай бұрын
THIS STORY WAS SO HEARTBREAKING! WISHING YOU SO MUCH LOVE AND LIGHT FOR YOUR JOURNEY GOING FORWARD FOR YOU HAVE GONE THROUGH MORE THAN ANYONE SHOULD IN A LIFETIME! MAY THE UNIVERSE SHELTER YOU FROM NOW!
@yomiolayinka8754
@yomiolayinka8754 9 ай бұрын
What a story. I feel for this young lady(my first daughter’s age). I pray that God Almighty with comfort you and bless you beyond your imagination.
@lonagwegwe
@lonagwegwe 9 ай бұрын
Beautiful lady, I respect her for being strong for her daughter even when she thought life was no longer worth living
@elvisndlovu1232
@elvisndlovu1232 10 ай бұрын
I thoroughly enjoyed this episode, I learnt a lot and it was really entertaining
@boldlyowamie
@boldlyowamie 10 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤❤❤
@audreywynter-lashley826
@audreywynter-lashley826 9 ай бұрын
No man is worth going to prison for. May God continue to heal and guide you Always 🙏🏾
@SammyBlosee
@SammyBlosee 10 ай бұрын
She is GORGEOUS😍, can she put him on child support?
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
😢😢
@sqrd3536
@sqrd3536 10 ай бұрын
Umuhle sisi.Definitely can relate. Some girls were raped impregnated and chased from home. Some commited suicide out of desperation.Our parents didn't know better, at all.
@patrikhumalo6737
@patrikhumalo6737 10 ай бұрын
Run for your life that is deep my sisters thank you ladies❤
@GiovanniDeluxxe
@GiovanniDeluxxe 10 ай бұрын
Nice setup. Didn’t know about this channel , don’t even know how I stumbled across it. Glad I did. Quite interesting
@boldlyowamie
@boldlyowamie 10 ай бұрын
❤❤
@tendai4043
@tendai4043 10 ай бұрын
Wooooow that’s exactly what the father of my children does aw my goodness I’m shocked!!! Even the dreaming😂😂 sometimes calling in the middle of the night stating bad dreams about the children and asking to come and ‘pray’ for them 😂😂 yet he won’t step up to his responsibilities. I remember asking myself where do all these dreams come from and even what’s the point of giving someone like this dreams about children he doesn’t take care of. Well done my dear I know what you’ve been the!! Keep focused God shall remain your strength ❤❤❤
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
Just delete him in your life sisi. God will definitely deal with him 😅
@pvm4759
@pvm4759 9 ай бұрын
It's God telling him to protect his kids and be a father not a stranger, but he is just an idiot who think it needs prayer. It needs him to act like a father .
@fionandlovu5104
@fionandlovu5104 10 ай бұрын
Beautiful attire Ninja, you are doing very well mugal ❤ Mandy she's pretty too but I wish she could have conducted her story in her language to express herself more and it is a very sad story indeed. She went through a lot at her early age. Keep it up Ninja we are behind you to support you mbokodo❤ I feel sorry for Mandy and be strong girl. We all learn through hard times all in the name of love dearest and you know what??? He is a loser ❤❤
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
Thank you sisi ❤
@itskwenaa
@itskwenaa 10 ай бұрын
Women go through a lot 😢
@Tonto773
@Tonto773 10 ай бұрын
I'm sorry for all the hardships you had to endure in your life my beautiful sister. Please know that God loves you , may He continue to strengthen you to raise your princess. Your past does not define you . I must say that you are more tolerant and more forgiving than i'l ever be because I don't think I would still be communicating with my father or my ex after what they did. If he doesn't want to be there for his daughter what's the point of keeping in touch with him? If he's working why have you not taken him to the maintenance court? May God continue to see you through.
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Sisi. God is faithful all the time.
@armandojohanna6000
@armandojohanna6000 10 ай бұрын
Some parents are too strict as if they were not young it seems they didn't learn anything from their own mistake s as a mother my self i refuse strict parenting method wishing you the best ❤️ 🇳🇦
@mankistoe
@mankistoe 10 ай бұрын
Heartbreaking story. You are beautiful Mandy. Wishing you nothing but the best in life. You deserve all the good things in life nana.
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
I receive 🙏thank you so much sisi❤
@thandekilendlovu532
@thandekilendlovu532 10 ай бұрын
Plumtree ,kutitshi ,hugs hugs girl hugs 🫂 hugs 🫂
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
❤❤
@trudy-annsmall9600
@trudy-annsmall9600 10 ай бұрын
Women need to know from early in a relationship that the red flags are real.....get out as the first drama starts its safer for everyone that way especially your children what they see or hear will only mess up their outlook/decisions in life in the future
@GeminiJune0608
@GeminiJune0608 10 ай бұрын
Ey maan...many red flags but she stayed🙆
@Patiencemog
@Patiencemog 10 ай бұрын
I wanna come to the podcast
@thandiedollar4789
@thandiedollar4789 10 ай бұрын
Sending love and healing to Mandy she’s beautiful she didn’t have to experience this pain
@werise1577
@werise1577 10 ай бұрын
I do blame myself sometimes
@krisjoh1465
@krisjoh1465 10 ай бұрын
​@@werise1577it happens to all but it aint your fault..be glad you came out strong and your daughter looks up on you as some inspiration.. she will take no nonsense
@user-vu6tf7sw7f
@user-vu6tf7sw7f 22 күн бұрын
Owamie I have been listening to your stories, You are a great person you really give your guest time to explore their stories, We thank you home gal for standing up and rebuilding the dignity of African womens out there,, we have past lives and hearing others sharing gives us strength and hope to look forward that one day, we will share our Hell and back, it really pains when you are being abandoned by your own family first and you try marriage and it comes the worst but because we have a purpose to live then we come to understand that indeed life is a journey, lot's of love to Ninjaas
@adelaidesisasenkosi6361
@adelaidesisasenkosi6361 10 ай бұрын
Owami please allow the guest speaker to use their native language and for your audience to understand the speaker’s use of language use subtitles. My suggestion for this, is that your guest speaker wasn’t confident in speaking in English
@Bbb-ml4gb
@Bbb-ml4gb 10 ай бұрын
What if she speaks Shona how will Owamie ask some questions? You all will make us approach Owamie you want Nasal English from us to 😂😢😂
@carolchin2336
@carolchin2336 10 ай бұрын
I think that’s a little difficult for Owami especially if she doesn’t understand the native language of the guest it could take time to interpret and get subtitles in such circumstances
@mmeme5861
@mmeme5861 9 ай бұрын
There is nothing wrong with her English....infact I think it's better than yours
@janicehoyte3969
@janicehoyte3969 9 ай бұрын
The lady should block him and move on with her life. Don't talk to him anymore. Get a back bone and learn from the experience
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