TOBE NWIGWE | UNDRESSING CRITICISM

[@theghd2020]

“How the hell is one offended when presented with someone’s genuine experience that don’t make or break you doing you” 🔥

[@danteproctor9151]

Mann, you said something there!!

[@okochaten]

It is beyond me.

[@GIGATT808]

Seems like they was ready to fight too in the comments ... Overconfident as possible.... That's how Hitler came up

[@courtneybraxton1537]

That’s the line right there!!!

[@valexum9149]

Because some people are mad weird. That's how.

[@gospelonmyfeet5382]

“I’d rather lose you Than lose you, confuse you, seduce you, Abuse you, or run through you…”🔥🔥🔥🌊

[@shephardfamily]

Real Message.

[@diannalovesfood]

Than use you*

[@brayndonhines90]

Solid relationship

[@KevOnStage]

My favorite rapper for a REASON!!!

[@Zelle-ts3nb]

Real talk Kev. Prayerfully people will stop projecting their past pain and triggers on other people that they don’t even know. Like Fat said “If you are in pain, talk with someone. You deserve to heal”. Let this couple live their best lives.

[@TiffTALKS22]

Much bigger than being a "rap" though. Hope you see the MESSAGE in it. Many people won't.

[@missestweet]

I can’t believe you condone his abuse and that’s why these kids think projecting their dysfunction on others is ok. You just validated him and his dysfunction just what he needed smh

[@BeautifulEarthJa]

thanks for introducing me Kev! 'Try Jesus' was my intro and I never went back!

[@2stonhoops]

without a doubt

[@JayTheShooter]

The most relevant, transparent, and inspiring Rapper of this era‼️

[@humblesoul2547]

FOR REAL

[@carlosjenkins68]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@HipHopSavesLivestv]

FACTS!

[@xxmaryjane7897]

💯

[@RDCworld1]

Music with a message always good for the soul !

[@PopularNobody]

The goats have spoken

[@ForHerCulturePodcast]

💯💯💯💯

[@matthewkimani5367]

My nigga RDC you love tobe too??!!?!? Okkkkkkayyyyy I see uuuuuu

[@MRNBA2K]

Calm down jamal 😂

[@superduperjoi6800]

Yess

[@lfunk1914]

This story highlights our own inabilities to be Courageous when it comes to the Pursuit of Lasting Relationships. We want Fairytales rooted in selfish unveilings for our own personal gains. REAL Relationships are Reflections of Personal Growth mixed with Sacrificial Giving of Love, Space and Authenticity. We Owe Each Other Truth. And We Won't Make it Without it. Well done Tobe and Fat!

[@MChris-ee8nd]

Wow. Perfectly said.

[@millianalove]

Y’all said what needed to be said. Life is a journey and it’s not supposed to look the same for everyone. Peace and longevity to you both.

[@russchelle96]

I wish everyone would understand what you just said.

[@millyuganda05]

This was so beautiful

[@veronicaj758]

@@russchelle96 only ppl with some sense will.

[@micheleinmiami1807]

I’m a Mental Health Therapist so thank you for not clapping back with negativity but encouraging such people to seek help!!!!!!!!! It is a process but once they take the first step, the healing process can be soooo beautiful and the transformation is unspeakable 🙏🏾

[@TheHappyHummy]

I love how instead of taking this opportunity to talk about haters like other rappers do, You address the roots of their pain and tell them That you understand and they can heal from it 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@BD401K]

Right! This is rarely seen and I'm so glad they are leading by example...in a HEALTHY way. This is what generations need to see. God Bless them and You for pointing this out.

[@dr.100purrscent5]

That's that DIVINE FEMININE & DIVINE MASCULINE showing up in DIVINE ORDER ✊🏾💗

[@im5810rep]

That's powerful ❤️❤️❤️

[@milliegoins]

That right there

[@Bridg3Tim3]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👀

[@N3pea]

Wow! This was the best "it's not me its you," I've ever heard. The fact that she doesn't even rap to make sure no one is distracted and receiving her message is so powerful to me. Not to mention she's leading people in a direction to seek help after revealing their truth. This is your reality/problem and this is what you can do to fix it. She hits you with the truth then nurtures you through it. Wow!

[@verlilliangithara2433]

With class too

[@shamicabrown3764]

thank you... she made me cry and i thought why?

[@rizwashington]

This whole track is ministry and Fat’s benediction was PURE LOVE! “You deserve to heal!” ❤️ God Bless This Family & ALL They Touch. In Jesus Name. Amen 🙏🏾

[@pastorbetinamoffitt8702]

I had been waiting all week for this

[@KevinJonessuprq87]

Straight ministry! 💜

[@tanisha.r.thomas]

Amen!!

[@QueenNRG]

AMEN 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@jadedmass]

I love the way this was addressed towards all the critics. People are always so quick to project their own hurt and disappointment onto others that they can't see the joy of others. I'm not a romantic person by any means but I am wise enough to know that anything worth having comes with time and hard work. They've worked hard for their love, children and success.

[@kheatherthompson]

I didn't realize so many people were upset. I heard her say: I stepped away and elevated myself. I heard him say: I had to deconstruct what I thought I wanted. I heard her say: Actions > Words. I heard him say: Stay close, they're not you. They both rejected each other at different points in their relationship. Did we only "hear" him because of his delivery? Their documentary blessed me. 🙌🏾 Thank You. 🙏🏾

[@ccebs8009]

Yes. This is so true

[@realestatemovietrailers5627]

I haven’t seen the documentary. Can you send the link? 🙏

[@newme1887]

I heard all those points you made and good insight that you caught that too. How they became a couple doesn't bothered me; a lot of ppl including myself didn't like the over talking, the dismissing her feeling while she was explaining, and the tone he was using explaining in the videos. Anywho, I like how you said "they both rejected each other at different points in their relationship."

[@mamabear3217]

Love this

[@olisakinokechukwu5700]

@@newme1887 Nog, what you dislike I the fact that Tobey is not a simp. Ya'll have this idea that the perfect guy is going to always need to put your feeling before the fact, when in actuality it doesn't work like that, especially with all this 'wokeness' floating around. Fat was trying to make him look nice and water it down but that would be fostering a female agenda. The guys need to know that it's ok to be crude - If you don't want her, be blunt about it, don't be nice, and pump her full with all that hope, cause that shit happens a lot.

[@asttt9]

These two are becoming, more than a definition of a "rapper". They are more than that, of course - but. The authenticity & consideration to everything they do. How its presented, everything, feels like distant but close family. Listening to their music is like picking up the phone, calling home or someone. This is it! Thank you for this 🙏🏾

[@beanieNX420]

I just need to take a moment to acknowledge the beauty and grace the women dancing show time and time again in every video. Their movements really add to the emotions being conveyed in a way that can easily be over looked because it flows so perfectly with the lyrical genius being served. As the piece comes together, each part played so expertly and wholly, Fat's words feel like God speaking direct to the sole.

[@RiffRaf_]

#blackangelscollective 💞

[@lakishaireland4542]

Listen. Each move is precise, connected and ministered to a different part of the spirit. I agree with you.

[@yejidemwongozi3777]

wow with the most inspiring clap back ever

[@sydneemays4412]

These folks sat on a park swing and ATE THE SONG UP!!!🍽🍽🍽🍽

[@kawiekumda2272]

It’s a shame when anyone takes their own expectations and attempt to place it on others….it just leads to disappointment. I listened to the story and I can’t fathom where anyone could have issues. God worked on each of you at different times and showed you both what needed to be seen to get to this moment. God is so good!! His ways supersedes anything and everything that we can even imagine or dream off. May you both continue to bring Him glory and honor!!! God bless!!!

[@Ladygots]

Where is their story? I would like to see it.

[@kawiekumda2272]

@@Ladygots it’s been so long I can’t remember lol. I’m sure if you just look up one or two of their interviews you’ll find it. They’re very upfront it feels like. It may be on their own channel ??? I honestly can’t remember lol sorry.

[@sheenab.2914]

The fact that they take their children everywhere is a win for me! I will always stan for this family. I struggle just taking my kids to the grocery store with me🥴😂 Love y’all, keep being true to who you are💕

[@chanelsings83]

For real! I thought that was impressive too! My husband and me have that same struggle 😂

[@tiyh3]

♥️♥️♥️

[@sheresejames-grow1779]

Love this comment!😂

[@sheenab.2914]

@@sheresejames-grow1779 💞

[@arielmermaid3482]

All I can say is WooooooooooW!!! There are so many things I like about this, but for starters, I love how they are standing on and protecting their raw truth! Truth is a dangerous thing to those who aren't used to it. May your truth and marriage be a light that shines, and the sword to cut thru the deepest of bull shit! This song was the sword! Trust and believe that there are more people that can relate than who cant, their just scared of the truth! We live in a generation where people dont believe you have to work for what you want, and sometimes that requires alot of patience Big ups to Fat for showing us what a REAL WOMAN looks like and big ups to Tobe for showing us what it looks like to protect what you love!

[@missmeyon]

This song is beautiful! Shout out to Fat for being the truth!!!

[@GoodxJ]

I can hear the Andre 3000 influence in the flow! Respect! 🎤🙏🏻👁 💎

[@PaulPayne837]

Hurt people hurt people! Don’t mind what people say keep inspiring a generation!!! Much love to you guys ❤️❤️❤️

[@whoneedslovewhenyouhaves..859]

It's not Inspiring to thirst after man that disrespects you and is repulsed by you. Nope

[@atomaticbillt3532]

Stop putting out lies, he's disrespectful to her, dosn't value her, and every chance he gets he tries to make sure everyone knows, he wasn't attracted to her, and he NEVER publicly expressed his deep love for her, RESPECTFULLY, even the marriage preposal made her look stupid. Smh

[@PaulPayne837]

@@atomaticbillt3532 We ain’t on the same page!

[@atomaticbillt3532]

@@PaulPayne837 The only Paige I'm on is actual love, this relationship is not love, it's stereotypical Blk struggle love and many bw don't want that. I respect that you want God in your lives but you and the husband are using God to mask his bad personality. There's no excuse.

[@aikoonehj8819]

Exactly what I said ♥️

[@keyalhaskeys]

I love them there love you can feel and no crazy in love they in love that heals liberates ❤️💯‼️

[@Oddsome]

Beautiful message, beautifully expressed, Tobe and Fat never disappoint.

[@calagabrowncalagabrown1611]

Feels like dance praise in church when I was younger this what the game the culture been missing

[@kenechukwuadinnuh5296]

I'm so proud that Tobechukwu is doing everything right to inspire us!

[@Tardy4Klass901]

Somehow I stumbled upon my new favorite artist…..I live him and his wife relationship…coming from a married man….u made me stronger today

[@GoodLifeDivaTV]

The compassion rather than the clap back speaks volumes. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@sunnylove3521]

I am 70 yrs young and has been a follower of these wondrous folk and their messages. Thank you for being Authentic and True..leave the naysayers alone and be about your business, because your business is great business. Love in the house❤💜

[@Zansheree]

Ppl are obsess with the “boy meets girl” concept and don’t understand that most beginning love stories are far from perfect. But the story itself is always being written. It never stops because love is not always a feeling. Love can be noun, verb, and adjective. We love you 💙

[@devriondexter9461]

Agreed they too busy coming up with catch phrases like "struggle love" Every relationship will come with struggles and scars but how do we come out on the other side is what matters

[@ellsworthconstructionllc]

Facts two total different visions, state of minds, world's always end up being the forever lasting love that gel perfectly together.

[@im1shak1biotches]

Movies.

[@atomaticbillt3532]

Ya with Blk people, other races don't move the same, that's why they're married more.

[@im1shak1biotches]

@@atomaticbillt3532 stop disparaging black folk with that yt narrative! Yes, We marry less, but our families stay together more than any other race, by a large margin (enough for no dispute)! This marriage narrative is just like the one claiming black boys don't have black fathers. Trash! There are many reasons Black folk have lower marriage rates, and all can trace back to yt folk's intending it to be that way and yet they have failed if you look for FACTS beyond the media's pedaling!

[@shanna3148]

This is the truest love.

[@PrincessBestSpeaks]

Very great and therapeutic way to respond. This is what love and hip hop sounds like to me. Continue on tour beautiful twisted journey of Black love and legacy and grow immensely. Abundant love & Light to you both!

[@PrincessBestSpeaks]

*your but TOUR too lol, bc I missed the last show in DC

[@Infinity_haircreation]

We Love yall

[@tamikaamos9606]

She knew what God told her and she trusted what she heard and not what she saw. She's a strong woman of God.

[@chrystalyoung7165]

Yes she did and she was the prize. I loved that she gave him time to grow mentally. I love them and their story.

[@tamikaamos9606]

@@chrystalyoung7165 I agree with everything you said❤❤

[@joyandpeacefullaughter5307]

Lol, which God? She wanted him lustfully

[@tamikaamos9606]

@@joyandpeacefullaughter5307 We're humans lol Wow okay.

[@mamabear3217]

Yes until it manifested! That's real faith.

[@nikianichol6673]

I love this. I am crying because this makes sense. Thank you for sharing your love story it shows real love can break thru xoxo to the both of you

[@bronzecigar]

I’m going to say it again here this was such an elegant approach. “You deserve to heal” what a beautiful gentle message. Bless y’all. ✨

[@TheTrill334]

I never understood the black women who criticized this couple. She's not weak , she showed strength in her decisions. Every relationship is gonna be uniquely different and no one has complete control. God introduces couples together no matter if the relationship is good or bad. A relationship is based on learning who you are with a perspective from your partner, trusting in a different perspective, taking advice and healing .

[@ovoirv86]

Ian going to lie, I found these two from ppl looking at their story from the outside...I was kinda upset but I needed to know more, found their KZbin page and mind was BLOWN. LOVE THEM AND THEIR MUSICAL STYLE...UNTOUCHABLE.

[@ebyslady]

And healing comes from God, invite the Holy Spirit , if you are in pains and wounded, he will just do that for you search for a clean heart

[@iamflygirl]

This why you continue to win! Most people would have clapped back with harsh words but this is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐

[@nikkielevated2481]

This has to be the most honest, vulnerable and transparent piece of art I've ever witnessed. You didn't need to share it, but you did so that others could open the door to their own healing experience. Amazing. Bless you and your family.

[@tricie79]

so what I heard is ... "I hope love finds you... cause you can't recognize what real looks like because you've been hurt." I see yall took the auntie Tab route. AND I AM HERE FOR IT!!!

[@JessicaDanRoss]

I caught that too! 💯

[@Zelle-ts3nb]

Speak! I did too.

[@krazyk4life]

Factssssssss!!!

[@candyjamaican]

Hahah but the fact still remains….he didn’t want her and she waited and waited until he settled.

[@oljerseysoul8724]

You KNOW das right !! Out here giving GRACE !! love it !!

[@HeatleyBros]

Ok just found this channel today, and whoa. Ok. Yeah I’m going to need all of this.

[@avisionoflove9678]

Y’all betta let these people KNOW and tell’em to pick up their FEELINGS like Jazmine said!!!!!😂😂🤣 Your journey ain’t theirs! Y’all had to go thru what Y’ALL had to go thru to get to where YOU are……TOGETHER!!! May God CONTINUE to bless and nourish your union!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@talanabethea9403]

Powerful and beautiful Thank you for sharing your story and allowing God to use you to propel us into growth

[@susanb4816]

I am an incredibly lonely old white canadian woman who focused all her love on her children such that now they are grown i only seem abke to love vicariously, through the love others find. Your story filled me and it never even occured to me it could hurt someone. To all those hurting, life is hard, joy is a pearl in the muck i pray you see the pearls xxoo

[@abellady]

Hi Susan! God bless you❤ I would love to be your pen pal. Please email me.

[@abellady]

Sorry, my name is Brandi.

[@susanb4816]

@@abellady tx, brandi:) i dont seem to know how to do that and i dont want to post my email here. Thank you for reaching out, though. Truly appreciate it:)

[@goddessessencetheeccentric1453]

Your comment touched my heart chakra deeply and makes me wanna cry.

[@Thehighpriestess108]

Susan your comment blessed me so much. “Joy is the pearl in the muck.” Amen I pray that your season of loneliness ends and you get to enjoy many, many more pearls! ♥️

[@lakeishaspikner1014]

Knowing is powerful!

[@LekeshaL]

You better make it plain! I LOVE IT ❤️ people request/demand a form of honesty and transparency they aren't ready for, but we all have different stories

[@dainaratanner]

My husband and I have a similar beginning too. I truly appreciate the genuineness!

[@treytanner1775]

Amen god is good all the time and all the time god is good

[@whitdevereaux]

I love this. Fat you're such a beautiful soul. Everyday I'm somewhere yelling "I'm still the young queen mother baby, what it do?!" 😅 May God continue to bless your union. Your story is yours and we are blessed all the more because of both of your willingness to share your truth.

[@chillsmith8377]

This woman is so powerful.

[@OfficialMNIB]

- Welcome back breaux - 💥

[@inesspanni]

#PureLove! Y'all for each other Y'all for us And us for Y'all! 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@irwn8328]

This was dope..... friendship with no strings attached and healing from rejection is real personal growth. Great message, it is needed during these times. God Bless!!!

[@CapnWilly]

Man. Tobe is the future of music. Caught my attention with the "no local joker" on The Box interview. Amazing artist.

[@hunniization]

This is how you set the story straight! Love you guys story and I will never understand why ppl are so pressed by others relationships! If you like it, I love it! What works for you should be no one else's business! You guys are beautiful and you have a beautiful family. Much love and respect!🙏🏾💗

[@christenford3864]

Other than this track, is there somewhere else to hear their love story? I'm genuinely curious to hear what triggered people!

[@hunniization]

@@christenford3864 What triggered ppl was their post 4 yrs ago on how they met.

[@atomaticbillt3532]

The only thing they set straight is that he's not sorry for how he treated and made her look like a fool on camera and that god accept him being that way because life is hard and crap. He's an arrogant jerk who will keep using God to mask his terrible personality. Smh

[@hunniization]

@@atomaticbillt3532 You can simply just not come to his page and kick rocks! Obviously you're not paying attention because if you WERE paying attention to their story, you would know they both rejected each other at different points in the relationship. Instead you chose to come here and judge what you didn't understand! It's simple. Just move on and don't return, then you won't be so pressed about it!✌🏾

[@natashanubia]

I have a similar story…. I didn’t want my current man for over 14 years, but he loved me anyway. He knew I wasn’t ready. When I was finally ready, he was still here with open arms… Everyone may not understand your story, but it’s YOUR story. It’s not theirs to understand. Props to you both. Thanks for representing REAL in a world filled with fake. ❤️

[@YOGIROBBIE]

When healing takes place true Transformation begins. I hope this song encourages everyone to continue looking inward for healing. Impactful music, Tobe!

[@covenantlifedoula]

Thank you both for making purpose popular Ase' 🙏

[@tinaamariee832]

Tobe know real fans knew this was an attention grab. We wasn’t leaving the tribe🤘🏽💙

[@artosbear]

The choreography in these videos really makes all the words go deeper, link up with the gaps and commonalities in different people's experiences, linking up, making wonderful connections. Just..so so lovely and good

[@HadyMambo]

I’m speechless and amazed by the story, production and all the feelings in this MASTERPIECE!

[@anitacoleman6873]

I’m not big on rap music but I love his music. He has meaning to his music. I’m a forever fan❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@nabriawillis1624]

Addressing those with a limited understanding with poetry 🔥🔥 y’all nurture the community

[@mmcreatord2y]

I love this family and the tribe around them ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ Keep Speaking Truth One Love

[@MsLaineyStarr]

Live your life because you can't live theirs or anyone else's. Love this!

[@veronicaj758]

Not every love story or relationship starts off perfectly or with a beautiful story. I don't know what reality ppl are living in. They both rejected each other are different points in their lives. Their friendship blossomed into something more. Which is a beautiful thing to me. You can tell they love each other very much and their family. Stop trying to tear a black family apart. Nobody's talking about his proposal and their beautiful wedding. But want to hold on to the backstory when they both rejected each other at some point. That's their story which turned into a beautiful ending.

[@sbritnney]

Something about giving a black woman space to flourish is the most beautiful thing a black men can give his wife ....take notes black men who want love 🎶🎶

[@kenan8479]

True! And this black woman in particular, actually fought, and keeps on fighting for her place and her man. Relationships only work when the people involved mutually fight for each other. People who want to build and stay together should take notes, not just men.

[@sbritnney]

@@kenan8479 duly noted😏💫

[@opeyemiadegoke361]

After he had his runnings up and down with who he thought he wanted but they didn't want him back he decided to settle for her and your take his BM deserve love but if the shoes were on the other feet the narrative will be oh he is a simp ,he settling for a devalued female right...it's the dillusion and hypocrisy for me .

[@sbritnney]

Reading and deep dive into other people's choice of there life is to far for me (I think they call that judging). Its wht they have for me "there bond" not the pass of what he did to her or what she accepted from him(I didn't get into their story) it's how bright their future is (they are on beyoncé playlist tf people comments going to do but give the more to profit off of ) n you are me don't kwn wht they were going through in the beginning instead of people deep diving in other peoples personal choices of life (judging others)how about creating your own story to fall in love with the beauty of them is that they have a bond and that can't nobody fuck wit. He give her space to flourish and she gives him space to thrive.Too many people but perfect expectations on these power couples thinking that they not human being. Carry on to your illusions of delusions 😎💫💯🧿☮️💎

[@kenan8479]

@@opeyemiadegoke361 Do you know these people personally? I failed to see how you can spew all that venom and not be in their surroundings. Or you might be projecting... Btw, settling is what grown people do, when they understand what being a couple means. There's absolutely nothing derogatory about settling down, when you finally let go of your delusions and fairytales, and embrace peace.

[@davidsayers7464]

Helping even the haters by standing united in your truth. ❤️+🔥

[@nappyconversation5372]

I love it 🔥 y’all took the real auntie Tabitha approach… but if y’all wanna put out the Samuel L approach I’m here for that too 👑. Much love and gratitude

[@lilnevin9214]

😂😂😂😂

[@courtneyharris457]

That's what I said.. Fat responded just like Tab #itsmybusiness #yourdeservetoheal

[@azaryahumalakhi431]

This is why I rock with Tobe and Fat. This is how the culture matures and elevate to the next level. Life is Hard but we have to learn how to deal with it but we don’t have to do it alone. Keep doing what The Creator has placed within you

[@WellAlriteDen]

Damn, Uncle Tobe! Music that's actually "healing"! The evolution of Hip Hop continues! Thank you!

[@fad3awayentertainment141]

Ayyy, this truth is how everyone is. They need to learn from you. Chase your dream if you truly want it!

[@Mel_o1234]

What a measured and graceful response 😊

[@davisfamily3253]

God all up and through this! We love y’all!

[@thekathouse9790]

And I still rock with y'all to the fullest. Y'all story actually gave me an eye opener because most people is so use to the male being in the position of being rejected or being told no or an "I don't like you". I actually like how the roles were reversed. Y'all are beautiful, stay elevating, & Yah got y'all to the fullest.

[@oryade2830]

That's why they are all so hurt. They were so furious. When I told my female neighbor that all it takes for me to know if i want to keep talking to a lady is 24hours to 1WEEK of physical conversation and immediately I figure it out, I will either discharge you or keep it going. At that moment, my neighbor was kinda lost in thought, and She indirectly ask me ''WHO DO I THINK I AM''? I said I am ME, and I don't have to be anyone before making a decision. I guess she thinks since I am a not-so-rich man, saying NO shouldn't be in my dictionary. A lotta women thinks life is all about them alone. All Is Well.

[@simplylavenia]

@@oryade2830 kudos to you sir, the mature women understand and appreciate that. Some may hurt at first but in the long run they will get through it and appreciate the fact that time was not wasted and honesty was shown/ given. Way more commendable in my book.

[@oryade2830]

@@simplylavenia Thanks for saying that. Blessings!

[@bridgetgeorge9607]

Well said

[@simplylavenia]

@@oryade2830 no problem thank you

[@sheresejames-grow1779]

Amen! The problem with the enemy is he always causes us to look back. Beginnings aren't always beautiful. But thanks to her persistence and belief of what God told her in her heart, look at what they've achieved now. Praise God! God takes the foolish things to confound the wise! No terrible label deals, no splitting up the family, and they EAT with real friends! 🙌🏾

[@rocbronson]

I rejected hip hop a bit. However, the two of you allowed me to love the music world again. Thanks for sharing your artistic craft with us.

[@kenamatchett]

Tobe I am with you. Y'all are both beautiful souls. People fear what they don't understand. Phat told her truth. Everyone will not relate. Keep doing y'all.

[@SharJones87]

I wasn't expecting a song, but what better way to address this situation? Beautiful!

[@richardsou]

Wait... Wait... this was more than just bars... this was a message needed for our generation of hurt men and women out there... Beautiful!!! I am full!!!

[@sariahbradey2093]

Hurt *people

[@MsOrganic1]

I absolutely love how they addressed and expressed those who were affected in their art! I love this couple I love their approach and gem-dropping skills. Fat is amazing! I love her! If some hurt people don't get it now it's ok. It's food for thought.

[@MChris-ee8nd]

Food for thought. I like that

[@victoriabrown514]

'Your journey, your life! To YAH be the Glory!

[@kesh4732]

I love this expression of how you addressed the criticism, so grown and inspirational. Those of you who look at situations and always try to create a negative outlook on one's journey or life experiences rewatch this video, don't just listen but hear the words so when you speak on the situation it is done from a place of understanding and to positively edify others, I pray the words of your mouth and the meditation of your heart be acceptable in the sight of The Lord our God in Jesus name. Peace and love always ❤🙏🏾

[@atomaticbillt3532]

No one had to create a negative outlook for them, the way he was treating her and talked about her was negative all in itself, so stop the lies, he was negative. And he's using God as a way to mask and not care how he acted towards her, he wants us to believe that relationships are hard, no not the way he went about it, hard relationships is when a husband loses his job, is when the couple try to keep the spark on, after many years of marriage, but this idiot here, made her look so bad even after they got married.

[@thetrendisdead1]

Thank you! This is exactly what I a feeling right now and I am glad to say that I feel all of this in a way that only causes me to reflect upon myself so that i may love the person I love with all of the completely right parts of me. That I can let her go if I need to so that she may be free because I don't want to ever push myself on her in a way that she is not ready for nor do I want to push myself on her or anyone period. I want love to be free and something that we choose because love chooses us. This track and these words are poetry and I feel better now knowing that others have felt the same even in whatever ways it may be different. I am not alone. So thank you!

[@desmondcaldwell]

You could have taken this in so many directions. Once again you went super high when others were trying to drag you down. God bless you and your beautiful family.

[@sobeitone3336]

I clicked on this unsure of what I was going to see or hear…..this is the realist message I’ve heard in a long time. So glad the KZbin algorithm sent me to something I can enjoy. Peace and blessings

[@jzloveinfinite]

"How the hell is one offended when presented someone's genuine experience?" THAT PART ☝🏽 Everybody say they want the truth, but get offended when presented with the truth! TF?!?!

[@TNDCBaby]

It's probably because some things are offensive whether it's truth or not. Not all truth is going to be embraced in a positive way.

[@ariann8429]

I believe this couple and their team and cmty are helping transform the culture of music w spiritual conviction, depth of understanding, loving compassion and creative excellence. I love the energy, vision and work!

[@sonyatheoneyouseek5040]

I love how you deliver stories by the way. Your love story is odd but it has turned out to be adorable.

[@afroendz]

This is music the world needs period

[@Trikeria]

Wow such grace and intentionality! Yall handled this beautifully. Love yall… keep shining ✨

[@tranquilshorestravelagency9641]

This guy is very unique, no words can express how he touches the core of people.. ✊🏿

[@karam8516]

The Power vested in this marriage is beyond beautiful!!! Show the ppl just how to rep the Family unit!!! ❤✊🏽🙌🏽 Mad love to Tobe 'n Fat. 👑

[@deniseboothgodchickunivers1385]

To be I LOVE YOUR MUSIC MAD ME 😢RELATE TO WELL GOD IS 🙏🏾 great song 🤴🏾✊🏿🤴🏾 loving your love 🤴🏿👸🏽✊🏿♥️

[@iyamme1260]

And this is why I’ll always stand beside y’all! Literally just helped me close a door❣️ i thought I loved y’all then but even more now! Happy 4 years ❣️❣️

[@ihekaji]

You deserve to heal. Wow God bless their union truly. That’s a covenant right there.

[@whitneyprimus9192]

This song reminds me of my own relationship. This helped me realize the angry projections my people put on us trying to separate us. And now I will confidently tell them “You can sit down with somebody and process what happened to you because you deserve to heal”.