The Cost And Struggle Of Child Care In The Uk/How To Balance Child Care And Work/ Uk Family Living

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Tochi Esther

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The Cost And Struggle Of Child Care In The Uk/How To Balance Child Care And Work/ Uk Family Living
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@adesolar.bankole8471
@adesolar.bankole8471 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing..I love that you were factual about it
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching
@makplaga
@makplaga 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video. Been looking for this information
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching
@elizabethonyekwue9368
@elizabethonyekwue9368 2 жыл бұрын
Welldone sis! The best part of this video for me is your baby's voice and his constantly pulling your hair😅. That simply shows how they invade our lives and take charge. Kudos for consistently dishing out content regardless!
@hylinemomanyichannel3097
@hylinemomanyichannel3097 2 жыл бұрын
Here to offer full support sister..thanks for sharing
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@abenafamily1747
@abenafamily1747 2 жыл бұрын
Great content nice presentation thanks sis
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Wealthy.Africans
@Wealthy.Africans 2 жыл бұрын
Good video, Thank you for sharing ❣❣🌷👌
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching
@adebayojuliet3284
@adebayojuliet3284 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the information
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome
@jilarevers5427
@jilarevers5427 2 жыл бұрын
Wow.... Hmmm... Thank you for sharing... Eye opener
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Yea, thank you for watching
@Ujulinnspace
@Ujulinnspace 2 жыл бұрын
Tochi dear❤️ you are so real! I enjoyed your video🥰
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Awww, thank you so much
@lindamichaelstv
@lindamichaelstv 2 жыл бұрын
Great video to watch , it’s really a sad reality, paying 30 pounds a week for crèche in the Uk ? That’s quite expensive, crèche is free in Ireland , the government takes care of it , if a family makes an application from welfare service. Yeah I’m only working because of choosing a night shift, if not we’ll get into trouble for child neglect. Night shift is my life saver. Coming from Chy Space, like your channel already, big fam 🥰
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Awww, thank you so much, I really appreciate
@livewithpakistanimomingerm6967
@livewithpakistanimomingerm6967 2 жыл бұрын
Great video, very nice. 🇩🇪🙏🌹👑👌💕❤
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@TessyinAustralia
@TessyinAustralia 2 жыл бұрын
Life is not easy generally everywhere. Just manage your income properly Thanks sis Tochi
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching
@ogomsseries
@ogomsseries 2 жыл бұрын
Life is not easy and motherhood is not easy too eziokwu'm. Now I say kudos to the teachers seriously they are trying.
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
At all o, but we gini, we mooovvvveeee
@sandraigwe2201
@sandraigwe2201 2 жыл бұрын
Nne you said it all, child care really isnt easy abroad unlike back home in Nigeria, and it affects the mom more than the dads, most times people back home think you dont want your child to attend school, but each country have rules attached to it and must be followed, any tin extra attracts extra pay. Weldone for dishing out the blunt truth👍
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much dear
@tastyfoodevents5322
@tastyfoodevents5322 2 жыл бұрын
It will be like you are working for the childminder, No one can take care of your child like you. Thanks for sharing sis
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly my dear
@ijeomamadu
@ijeomamadu 2 жыл бұрын
Sis, u nailed it on the head. Same thing we are suffering here. Child care is really expensive that some women chose to stay at home and take care of their kids rather than work and still give everything back to the government. Here, child care fee is pay as u earn.
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
It’s well with us sis
@ChySpace
@ChySpace 2 жыл бұрын
Obodo oyibo lifestyle no be here sis. I work around my husband's rota too. Someone must always be at home for the little ones indeed.
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
God will help us o
@Ujulinnspace
@Ujulinnspace 2 жыл бұрын
Women makes a whole lot of sacrifices daily! I can relate well dear❤️
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
God bless all women and mothers
@FaithOjone
@FaithOjone 2 жыл бұрын
You said it all, not easy at all, God will help us. I work weekends and one week day so hubby can work full time, it’s a serious struggle. Child care is not even so expensive around you guys, we pay 435£ per month for daycare 2days per week. We had to stop at a point.
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
£435 is much o, jeez 🙄. God will help us
@tastyfoodevents5322
@tastyfoodevents5322 2 жыл бұрын
This is really the reality on ground
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
True
@MelissaOti
@MelissaOti 2 жыл бұрын
Ah! Tell me about it, we pay a lot for my child to go to nursery because he needs it and we need it too. Our motivation is that he’s developing there and we would probably pay more if we were in Nigeria and want him to go to a very good school. It’s not easy jare
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Yea, it’s not easy but it’s worth it I guess
@adelakunoyekola1919
@adelakunoyekola1919 Жыл бұрын
@melissa Oti Madam na lie... its cheaper in nigeria. You pay achools per term in nigeria and that like 3months per term... calculate what they Re paying over there in a day.. 5 times a week 20 times a month and 3 months for each term. That's millions of naira. Now tell me where on the average your 1 to 3 years old child will pay millions for just a term in nigeria. Except you get some cash to waste 🗑 you enrol a child in that age bracket and pay millions per term.
@yourtastelifestyle1827
@yourtastelifestyle1827 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing is cheap in UK to be honest, but it seems childcare is on top of the top list. It is well!
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
It is well o. God is helping us
@BibicheL
@BibicheL 2 жыл бұрын
Child care is so expensive in the US 🇺🇸 and the price for part time does not make sense for us so we did full time till they now started school . Another great video 🥰❤️
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Guess child care is one of the greatest challenges of living abroad
@mercynogheghase8065
@mercynogheghase8065 2 жыл бұрын
Here in Italy is the same thing, not easy.
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Abroad life is not easy at all o
@Ujulinnspace
@Ujulinnspace 2 жыл бұрын
And people use to think there is a tree that produces money overseas! It ain’t easy anywhere
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
At all o
@veeunique
@veeunique 2 жыл бұрын
That is what people back home don't understand, the feel people over here manual fall from above for them ,is not easy here,is so difficult but Hod is our strength.
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
God is our strength my dear, it is well with us
@oluodu9357
@oluodu9357 2 жыл бұрын
Well done Tochi👍🏾. You are really doing an impressive job. Please what age can a child be left at home in the UK. Kind regards
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks dear, Any child below 16 should not be left alone at home overnight. Any age from 12 you can leave them for a few hours if you need to pick something up briefly but not for too long.
@oluodu9357
@oluodu9357 2 жыл бұрын
@@TochiEsther OK, thank you for the clarity 🤗
@priscillangozi9313
@priscillangozi9313 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this wonderful piece. Please Tochi if you are planning to relocate to the UK, can you get your parent say your mum or your sister to take care of your kids. Thanks
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Yea, they can visit for just 6months
@priscillangozi9313
@priscillangozi9313 2 жыл бұрын
@@TochiEsther thank you so much. Please can you throw more light on dependent Visa and who's eligible for that
@ChidinmaChikeJames
@ChidinmaChikeJames 2 жыл бұрын
Na wa oh 😄 it's better to just stay home and take care of your kids yourself.
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
True but working is important too o
@Dumulmeorimedi
@Dumulmeorimedi 2 жыл бұрын
I like your new friend video. 새로운 친구 영상이 좋아요.👍👍😚🇰🇷😘🥰
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@enoedoho08-lp4iz
@enoedoho08-lp4iz 8 ай бұрын
Thanks dear What if I bring someone from Nigeria to help out preferably the person staying with my kids now to always stay with them
@bibisvlog9609
@bibisvlog9609 2 жыл бұрын
Just thinking of relocating to uk for masters but your videos are scaring me 😂😂... Nigeria is not any better 😪
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😊 I’ve made a lot of videos about the positive sides of living in the Uk, you can check them out. You don’t have to be scared, Uk is still better, you just have to plan and be strategic.
@Sawilda03
@Sawilda03 2 жыл бұрын
I have been looking for a video like this.as a single mom of 3 coming for MSc next year,the last is 7,first is 11.pls what's ur advice for me...
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Kindly send a dm on Instagram, let’s chat. My handle is in the description area
@NinaAnthonyVlogs
@NinaAnthonyVlogs 2 жыл бұрын
I'm currently struggling with childcare cost 😭 started working recently.
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
The struggle is real dear, but you will be fine 💪
@atigolotosan9776
@atigolotosan9776 2 жыл бұрын
Will it make sense if one partner is working day shift and the other partner takes care of the child while working night shift and vice versa
@ngeeomadarlyn602
@ngeeomadarlyn602 2 жыл бұрын
Also you can claim 85% back that’s for registered child minder.
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, that’s quite nice
@SupportiveJoy
@SupportiveJoy 2 жыл бұрын
If both parents work then they qualify for 30hrs free a week.
@mandyfrizz
@mandyfrizz 2 жыл бұрын
Na wah oo , child minder 😌 just hearing this for the first time. I guess every country has its own struggle. Something that you will just put your baby in a day care and spend small money here in naija
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
My dear, it’s well o
@rashidayusuf4892
@rashidayusuf4892 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u sis, is it true that primary and secondary schools are free in UK???
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Yes please
@Rayo10115
@Rayo10115 2 жыл бұрын
well-done ma.... Pls what skill (hand work based ) can one learn before relocating to the UK as a mum .... thanks
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Braiding hair and making wigs if you ask me
@Rayo10115
@Rayo10115 2 жыл бұрын
@@TochiEsther thanks so much for your prompt response ma..... how do one go about getting customers
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
@@Rayo10115 you just have to keep telling people around you about your business
@Rayo10115
@Rayo10115 2 жыл бұрын
just followed on Instagram.... kindly assept my request
@Rayo10115
@Rayo10115 2 жыл бұрын
thank you 💓💓💓
@christainachukwunuyeremu4887
@christainachukwunuyeremu4887 2 жыл бұрын
But tochi, can someone come over with a nanny to uk
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Yes but you have to prove that you can pay the Nanny well
@Milvision8448
@Milvision8448 2 жыл бұрын
Nice video, am planning to come to UK for MSc with my daughter of 10yrs, how will i manage her working and schooling my husband will be visiting not staying because he is working in Nigeria. Advise pls.
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Kindly send a dm on Instagram let’s chat
@goddeychristopher9945
@goddeychristopher9945 2 жыл бұрын
Waz ur Instagram name
@rhodasam6094
@rhodasam6094 Жыл бұрын
Hello dear, how did you do it? Could you go with your daughter?
@jonicanzedinma1578
@jonicanzedinma1578 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this video is so applicable to me. I'm coming with 13yr old, 9yrs old and 5yrs old, any advice please?
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
The 5yr old would go into year 1 the 9yr old should be yr 4 or thereabouts. Your 13yr old is definitely high school. You'd be fine, wishing all the best
@jonicanzedinma1578
@jonicanzedinma1578 2 жыл бұрын
@@TochiEsther thank you very much
@cynnybear1935
@cynnybear1935 2 жыл бұрын
My kids are the similar age, coming this end of year, then getting my kids after.... My last born is 5yrs... Your videos are helpful
@yumyumfoodsindiaspora
@yumyumfoodsindiaspora 2 жыл бұрын
What if the child is 2+ how do i handle him. Is it the same rate
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
I already answered all your questions in this video…
@ngeeomadarlyn602
@ngeeomadarlyn602 2 жыл бұрын
Per hour? Mine is per day . About £60 .
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Almost the same thing though
@olaidetimothy7336
@olaidetimothy7336 2 жыл бұрын
How much is tax and caouncil tax??
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
I’m going to answer all your questions in my next video ok. Anticipate
@oshogweofeblessing4715
@oshogweofeblessing4715 11 ай бұрын
Please at what age should you stop taking the child to child care
@faithjanira579
@faithjanira579 2 жыл бұрын
How can i reach you privately?
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Please send a DM on Instagram. My handle is in the description area
@jessyluv34
@jessyluv34 2 жыл бұрын
Please Tochi how can one get child care jobs in uk
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Guess you have to apply for it
@jessyluv34
@jessyluv34 2 жыл бұрын
@@TochiEsther please 🙏 how can I apply for it from Nigeria
@akporugocordellia5917
@akporugocordellia5917 2 жыл бұрын
I don't feel a woman has to be a stay at home mum.its partnership and it can be rotated. The way people complain about Uk seems like is nothing is working there. And I know that's not true. Life is all about planning
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty sure I gave a proper context if anyone watched the video to the very end and of course seen my previous videos 😊. Thanks for watching.
@yourtastelifestyle1827
@yourtastelifestyle1827 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing is cheap in UK to be honest, but it seems childcare is on top of the top list. It is well! don’t worry, time shall come when you will work without restrictions. Mara will be the childminding Bobo by then😀
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Yes o, I can’t wait
@yumyumfoodsindiaspora
@yumyumfoodsindiaspora 2 жыл бұрын
How many hours free is for age 4 and above
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
The answer is in the video
@yumyumfoodsindiaspora
@yumyumfoodsindiaspora 2 жыл бұрын
@@TochiEsther it's not there. You only said under 3 is preschool and you pay 30 pounds weekly. While 3 and above is free school but you did not specify. Is it free from 8:45 to 2:45
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
@@yumyumfoodsindiaspora free hours in school from 4 years. 8:45-3:00pm daily
@oluwayemisiakinleye5918
@oluwayemisiakinleye5918 2 жыл бұрын
Why are you so negative? So there's nothing good bringing up kids in the uk ?. If its so hard then go back to nija !!.
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Alright dear I'd think about your suggestion. Cheers 👍
@balkismotunrayo760
@balkismotunrayo760 2 жыл бұрын
She only been raw just for you to prepare your mind down for whatever comes your way... Mehn !! It's not easy over here(uk)
@opeyemio705
@opeyemio705 2 жыл бұрын
She is saying the reality. It is just to prepare people's mind especially those with young kids(below 3). Every country has its pros and cons.
@kitchenwithmuskan7931
@kitchenwithmuskan7931 2 жыл бұрын
Mashallah good 👍 video dear friend Stay contacted full watch please ap mere ghar bi Aya
@TochiEsther
@TochiEsther 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching
@chloeonukogu5642
@chloeonukogu5642 Жыл бұрын
This was really educative ♥️ Please ma, I have some questions. Can I please send you a dm on IG?
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