Her father is not the voice of reason. He is complicit. He is depraved and partly why she is an entitled murderer today.
@Mamadukee120 күн бұрын
Well said !!!!!!!🙏🇬🇧
@ChineduOpara20 күн бұрын
Correct!
@dylanfinley1335 Жыл бұрын
"Jamie was unharmed". It's just brutal when a drunk driver seems to always survive these horrific accidents that kill others.
@CallMeSkinny Жыл бұрын
It’s because their body does not react fast enough to flinch to brace for impact due to being so drunk, therefore their body is limp and has better chance of less bones breaking and puncturing viral organs. It’s so unfortunate but happens most of the time.
@dustinp1164 Жыл бұрын
Not only survive, but survived unscathed. Then given lenient consequences.
@stoopidpants Жыл бұрын
Because they're drunk and tend to be relaxed.
@dominicdangelo4801 Жыл бұрын
Pro tip: Just go with the flow next time ur in an accudent
@geoculus5606 Жыл бұрын
@@dominicdangelo4801 I'll work on that. lol
@elisamartinez38818 ай бұрын
Her parents raised her to be that way , she sounds like no one has ever told her no or taught her how to be humble or responsible
@QuadriviumNumbers6 ай бұрын
All females use the parents trope to divert everybody from the actual reason....feminism!
@cheriem4324 ай бұрын
I agree, but some people, like Chump, are born narcissists. My mother was one, as is my older brother.
@adotintheshark484819 күн бұрын
Actually, they never taught her empathy or that there are consequences for actions.
@jacquetracy31948 ай бұрын
It shows how desensitized people have become by the death of another human being !!! This is so heart breaking! !!! 😢.
@kellyowen49 Жыл бұрын
Driving drunk isn't a accident.
@cookie_dough_hangover Жыл бұрын
Amen! 👏👏👏
@ronald3836 Жыл бұрын
This is the point.
@Painintostrength Жыл бұрын
It’s definitely a choice!
@jamesquinn5281 Жыл бұрын
If you do it enough you get good at it. For 27 years I've driven drunk when it's the most convenient option (maybe twice a month on average). I've even been pulled over drunk (also high on weed and xanax) for things not related to driving. I was able to act normal and have never had a DUI or have been in an accident. I think this is more of a driving ability issue. Lol
@kellyowen49 Жыл бұрын
@@jamesquinn5281 something to be proud of....*** smh
@theclockworkpineapple Жыл бұрын
If you can kill a bride in her wedding dress and not want to just hide under a rock for the rest of your life, you're a terrible human.
@zzzenchantedxx Жыл бұрын
AGREED
@SMinor-wn3mp Жыл бұрын
AGREED
@casedistorted Жыл бұрын
AGREED.
@charliekelly735 Жыл бұрын
To be fair, she does seem to have some shame and remorse, but not enough.
@velveetaslingshot Жыл бұрын
You are a demon if you could do that...
@autumn3752 Жыл бұрын
I remember being hit by a drunk driver back in 2008 (totaled my car and I’ve had a lifetime of pain) I overheard the guy that hit me talking to his girlfriend on the phone and he was telling her that his life was over. This guy was at the police station and I was there also. He didn’t realize I was standing right there. I overheard him on the phone saying that I was ‘just some Mexican lady’ I was a young girl actually. This story just brought back memories of such a horrible time for me and no remorse from that guy. Just basically nothing was there.
@TheKEDW Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry that happened to you.
@memail-fn6yb Жыл бұрын
I am sorry for everything you've suffered. It's a shock when you realize that there's people among us who just don't care. That's the hardest thing to understand and forgive. Just remember, there are many who do care. Humanity still has hope. Take care!
@christinsongbird Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry, you matter in this world. ❤
@Ast151 Жыл бұрын
what a narcissistic a-hole! So sorry it happened to you. 💖💖
@KimmySemak Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry that happened to you. That’s awful 😢
@crystalmoss3049 Жыл бұрын
Dad: “things just happen that way and nothing can be done about it” No wonder she is the way she is. Nobody in her life taught her about choices and consequences.
@jtixtlan Жыл бұрын
That was the most telling line in the whole report. It is a commitment to rejection of accountability. It is exactly why she contends that the thing she did is a thing that happened to her.
@ashiecloud10 ай бұрын
Sounds like he never taught her a lesson or gave any punishment. It's like she's never faced any consequences
@adotintheshark48489 ай бұрын
her parents brought her up that way.
@sherberts7 ай бұрын
If they didn't want her to be mad at them, of course they would say that. They didn't say she was in the right.
@adotintheshark48487 ай бұрын
she never once brings up "how are the victim's family, I'm truly sorry for what I've done to them, etc. etc". Not a word of concern for no one but Jamie.
@cdelane3335 Жыл бұрын
She is as bad as the woman who hit and killed the 2 people walking and saying they hit her car. Then ask the cop if she was gonna be able to go to school the next day. She had no care for them either.
@daniellavaladez7820 Жыл бұрын
He also made a video on that girl recently too. The lack of empathy or sympathy those two had for the people they killed is just sickening.
@mamacito1795 Жыл бұрын
Makes you wonder what kind of unfeeling monsters they are because I don't believe alcohol makes you completely uncaring about taking people's lives. That girl who killed 2 people..... just disgusting
@MakerInMotion Жыл бұрын
I also expect this girl will get a light sentence like that one did.
@Robin-xt7yo Жыл бұрын
Both are horrible, selfish narcissists. Wish both would be locked away a long, long time.
@steve10 Жыл бұрын
I honestly think I'm seeing this lack of empathy and spoiled childish behaviour more and more as this new generation become young adults. There is something about the Internet generation that don't seem to have any common sense and a total lack of empathy to others. I'm 50 and grew up learning to share , learning hard work and knowing how to live in a civilised society, im not saying all of this generation are horrible selfish brats it just seems some kids don't seem to have any kind of reality to which they live their lives. It's great having the Internet, social media , all the trappings of modern life , but I'd still rather have grown up in the 70s and 80s and have the common sense to know what reality really is.
@mattb6646 Жыл бұрын
It turns out being a wreckless carefree self centered person actually does make you a bad person.
@evaadams8298 Жыл бұрын
Perfect comment. What a vile person 🤮
@JudgeJulieLit Жыл бұрын
* reckless (reckonless); wreckful, causing wrack and ruin.
@alexismerrilldragonqueen Жыл бұрын
It's all fun and games until someone gets hurt.
@Mutantcy1992 Жыл бұрын
"I'm just a free spirit (with a trail of destruction behind me)"
@barbieblue3336 Жыл бұрын
Reckless
@MyKike1974 Жыл бұрын
Her mother also struck a fireman in 2013 and killed him with no charges. This somehow gives light on Jamie's erratic behaviour post incident, in her mind she thinks she can get away with murder as well.
@pinkfreud62 Жыл бұрын
Needs life. So sick of people getting away with murder and having drugs &/or alcohol as an excuse for a slap on the wrist.
@MouseRata Жыл бұрын
WTF!😳
@Uzodesign Жыл бұрын
Provide the evidence.
@solidstream13 Жыл бұрын
Oh wow
@mbnich0269 Жыл бұрын
😮
@Mouse_Metal Жыл бұрын
She only feels sorry for herself, not for the woman she killed. Typical narc.
@Aaron-MackHartford Жыл бұрын
A selfish narcissistic person. She only care about herself.
@MeredithGX7 ай бұрын
Yes. I was surprised Dr. Grande didn’t mention her traits (e.g., believing she was going to be a “genius” in addition to her egregiously inappropriate victim-mentality) of being a grandiose narcissist. She’s exemplified textbook narcissism in several ways, IMO.
@adotintheshark48487 ай бұрын
not a word of concern for the victim's husband and family. They don't even exist in her world.
@elaineelias25887 ай бұрын
Is it true that she is going to skate? Just the thought makes me sick
@alwaysyouramanda7 ай бұрын
Drinking and driving sounds just like my little sister. She was like that as a kid even- forget the alcohol. I remember asking my mom for years why it was she didn’t have a conscience when I did at her age.
@helvetecaLLC Жыл бұрын
“She was still wearing her wedding dress when she died” that hit me really, really hard 😢
@pomo1697 Жыл бұрын
Someday if I meet that man who lost his bride I would take him to a strip club
@RR.LL.3B Жыл бұрын
@@pomo1697 what ?
@pomo1697 Жыл бұрын
@@RR.LL.3B I would take Eric to a strip club
@MissCracker Жыл бұрын
@@pomo1697 you’re weird. But like in a bad way 😂
@pomo1697 Жыл бұрын
@@MissCracker but I'm not a bad person
@bexanne99 Жыл бұрын
I saw an interview with the brides husband, he is absolutely broken. This is so heartbreaking. The fact that she shows absolutely no remorse and is only concerned with herself tells me everything I need to know about her. Drunk driving needs a lot harsher punishments. My heat goes out to her husband and family.
@tammiemartinez6485 Жыл бұрын
It pisses me off that it's considered manslaughter (at least in my state) vs what it actually is which imo, it's FIRST degree murder. People are well aware when they consume alcohol that it's going to affect ALL of their abilities. The second they take that first sip/gulp is the second they knew what their beverage of choice was going to do to them. If the laws were changed and people were now aware that driving drunk would lead to a 1st degree murder charge and sentence I'd bet they'd think twice about getting behind the wheel. Taking someones life only to recieved a few yrs isn't justice. Allowing citizens to have 3+ DUI's on their rap sheet is 2+ DUI's too many. It's time for a change...
@m.m.583 Жыл бұрын
Jamie is nothing but a narcissist it’s all about her and bring a victim 🥴🥴
@wendyc1902 Жыл бұрын
Did all of them get injured? I'm sure all of them had to have been hurt pretty bad.
@applepie9576 Жыл бұрын
This is beyond sad and heartbreaking. My fear is that the sentence she will eventually get won't fit the crime. Her father has probably bailed her out of everything she has ever done. Ummm, she is a terrible person, imo. She's also delusional.
@kadeelacayo4806 Жыл бұрын
@@tammiemartinez6485 it is manslaughter. It isn’t first degree murder . She didn’t mean to do it .yes she was drunk . It was not something she planned to do. It couldn’t be first . Even second degree isn’t right . Most accidents with fatalities are manslaughter’s
@DarkForcesStudio Жыл бұрын
"...Still wearing her wedding dress". That hit hard. RIP Samantha. Thoughts are with you, your husband, your friends and family. x
@TravelinRosy2025 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@kyers9817 Жыл бұрын
Utterly heartbreaking
@boss_niko Жыл бұрын
This is the epitome of modern wahmen. You got what you deserve. I think she did it purposely because she was not getting married and cant see other people getting married and living a happy life. Many modern fatherless wahmen do the same
@jesspie Жыл бұрын
That broke me. She didn't even get to experience marriage. Tragic and heartbreaking.
@buschovski1 Жыл бұрын
Its unbelieveable really. Poor thing
@Fire-Rabbit879 ай бұрын
She's out on bond now and planning her own big wedding 🤦♀️ Zero accountability, zero remorse. She belongs in prison for the rest of her life. The fact that her own mother did the EXACT SAME THING and her dad is telling her "Bad things happen to good people" is so telling of how she ended up this way. What a disgusting, disgraceful family.
@jinxed_jinxed_34439 ай бұрын
Do you know when the trial will be?
@UncleKennysPlace7 ай бұрын
Oh, please. She should go to prison, for sure. But learn the meaning of the word "intent". Did Alec Baldwin _intend_ to kill his cinematographer?
@Broken_robot19867 ай бұрын
It's good that the recordings of her calls exist so at least the jury will have a fair idea of the type of person she is.
@sherberts7 ай бұрын
He didn't say bad things happen to good people. He just says bad things happen to people.
@MH-hy2ot7 ай бұрын
White woman privilege
@lefish5277 Жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine being the emergency responder tending to a woman in her wedding gown on the side of the road. How traumatizing for everyone involved. I cannot imagine how the husband must feel
@nicoleangel4383 Жыл бұрын
I know...and I agree. 😢.. That would be a horrific sight to see. Kudos to our emergency workers for what all they have to do. You know it has to affect them greatly. It takes an extremely strong, and courageous person to do that line of work. But, even for the strongest people, it's still very traumatizing for them.
@Roaming_Realms2B Жыл бұрын
That was my first thought......seeing the bride not moving😢
@Ally-StaffyLover Жыл бұрын
@@afridgetoofar1818 Please at least listen to the story & do your research. How hurtful your comments can be. Unbelievable
@veronicasettee6052 Жыл бұрын
That must have been awful
@F4FRoOGLE Жыл бұрын
This is why EMTs have some of the highest levels of depression, anxiety and suicide
@MM-gd1dw Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Dr. Grande. I was absolutely stunned that she framed the death as "I can't believe this happened to ME."
@mamacito1795 Жыл бұрын
No self awareness. To really ask why it would happen when you got in a car drunk and drove twice the speed. Far too many people like this in the world sadly
@vysheslavuzumati1269 Жыл бұрын
She’s probably never been held accountable for anything in her life until now. My aunt is kind of like this, my grandmother has done everything for her and wonders why she is utterly incapable of taking responsibility for anything.
@Wazupiseeyou Жыл бұрын
As if was just her bad luck.
@joannajamerson35 Жыл бұрын
#bpd
@ann-mariepaliukenas19 Жыл бұрын
Was she a “christian”?
@ninaninapasadena5687 Жыл бұрын
My grandfather and best friend were both hit and their lives ended from a drunk driver. I also know 3 people who are paralyzed after being hit by drunk drivers. I have ZERO sympathy for people who drive drunk. With there being UBER, Lyft, taxis and public transportation, there is NO EXCUSE for drunk driving.
@HeatherHolt Жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh… I’m so sorry for your loss. I agree with you wholeheartedly. People who drink and drive are the WORST kind of people. It’s completely unacceptable.
@je10022 Жыл бұрын
My daughter's dad was also paralyzed after being hit by a drunk driver (woman) while he was riding his bicycle.
@michaelrobertson1736 Жыл бұрын
Agreed. Isn’t it a sick world we live in, where killers like Jamie are released 1. could care less about their victims and 2. are free to live out their lives with minimal punishment and restitution
@lesleyboulant4053 Жыл бұрын
With uber and left, there is no excuse whatsoever
@ChrisAndCats Жыл бұрын
The only time I would have sympathy for a driver is if someone had a soft drink spiked, in a similar way to when a perpetrator spikes it with date r*p* drugs where you are unaware of what's going on. Otherwise I think there should be zero tolerance to drink-driving. A zero or extremely low limit, where if you've had any alcohol, you don't drive.
@CeeBee781 Жыл бұрын
“Bringing New Jersey to anywhere should be its own charge…” LOL I’m not often that tickled by Dr. Grande’s humor but that KILLED me!!!! Seriously I’m dead
@cheriem4324 ай бұрын
He shows 'humor'? I must have missed it.
@AlpineSprinkles3 күн бұрын
He hates Jersey as much as me.
@ediephillipsthemobtownhust8596 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I did a year in jail because I got 3 dui’s in 13 months. I deserved every bit of my punishment,and I never hurt anyone thank god. I learned my lesson and realized how absolutely dangerous and selfish it really is. I don’t drink anymore, and it isn’t something I miss at all.
@TajFun. Жыл бұрын
What is 3 dui?
@mmnde12 Жыл бұрын
@@TajFun.dui = driving under influence
@shep928 Жыл бұрын
1 year wasn't enough, but I'm glad you got your life turned around
@oxydoxxo Жыл бұрын
Apparently it was enough shiela. You're just sad and mad from watching a tragic story
@pixiegrey6464 Жыл бұрын
Glad you made the best of your punishment and got the help you needed. Thanks for sharing ❤
@teddymarian9416 Жыл бұрын
her dad saying “we dont care,we dont care what happened,we only care about you” had my jaw on the floor.Her jailhouse recordings make me physically ill,but it’s entirely clear where she gets it from.
@ronald3836 Жыл бұрын
Well, the damage has already been done. Her dad cannot undo it, and telling his daughter that she is a miserable human being is not going to be of much help. (But should she ever get out of jail, it would be good if the people around her start holding her responsible for the things she does.)
@princessofarchetypes3870 Жыл бұрын
Yep. Her self entitled and dangerous behaviors were given to her by her parents!!!
@salishseas Жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing. Her parents didn’t even counsel her to really think about what she did and how it effected others. They are as bad as her.
@evaadams8298 Жыл бұрын
@@ronald3836 sorry I disagree. Seems to me that they forgive her for what she did. Nah she needs some discipline and her parents to give her a conscience!
@ronald3836 Жыл бұрын
@@evaadams8298 but why now when she is at the absolute low point of her life? She needs punishment by the state and she will get punished by the state. Why shouldn't her parents, as the only persons she now has left in the world, not stand her by at this time? Everybody else obviously has turned their back to her, and for good reasons. Later there will be time enough for tough talks.
@always_b_natural703 Жыл бұрын
Her father isn't calling a spade a spade. He's softening everything for her. This brings me to an understanding of Komoroski's lack of accountability and narcissistic tendencies.
@princessofarchetypes3870 Жыл бұрын
Obviously, he sucks as a parent.
@amberlytheharpyqueen Жыл бұрын
Yep, mommy and daddy made and raised their little princess to be that way.
@williamlouie569 Жыл бұрын
Her parents should be partly responsible for her behavior. They have spoiled her most of her life, resulting her prison.
@littlesongbird1 Жыл бұрын
@@williamlouie569 I remember a case in Long Island NY in about 2005-2006 where a drunk driver killed a flower girl due to a drunk driving car accident. He was driving a pick up truck that his parents had bought him so he would be okay if he had a car crash (I believe had lost his license due to dui). HIs mother had the audacity to make a comment to the mother of the flower girl along the lines of something like, "Please don't let the judge give my son a life sentence you know what is like to lose a child." And the mom of the flower girl said something like, "Your son is still alive, I will never hold my littler girl again because of choices your son made!" The parents of these drivers who enable their behavior should be sent to jail.
@baileymoran8585 Жыл бұрын
Yeah he seems like he’s trying to sound stern because he knows they let her get away with too much. He even hired attorneys for her. My parents would have disowned me if I accidentally killed someone. They told me in high school that if o ever got arrested I was on my own unless I could prove it was a false arrest. Hell, they didn’t even defend me if I got caught skipping class. My dad told the principal ‘don’t worry. She’s in trouble here, too.’ People who act like this either have no family, or their families do things like hire top attorneys and keep them in the family.
@deannarounds3295 Жыл бұрын
I watched this on another channel and heard her Dad telling her it was not her fault that it was an accident. If you are 3 times over the legal limit and you drove THAT is not an accident.
@enjoystraveling7 ай бұрын
She was also driving over 40 miles above the speed limit
@eliloumas7 ай бұрын
@@enjoystraveling EXACTLY! One is bad, but BOTH is worse. She killed someone. She should be in jail, or better yet, REHAB!
@alwaysyouramanda7 ай бұрын
I wonder who was paying for that car. Annoying..
@armchaircouch7 ай бұрын
my mom would've killed me herself!! What a disgusting 'dad'
@main23337 ай бұрын
In my youth. I drank drunk after a terrible divorce. My car flipped. Later I read A young girl just a mile down died two weeks before. Her car flipped on her! She was coming home late from college. It’s a wavy road with a long tunnel. She was Not drinking. To this day I’m happy that my car did not kill anyone. A voice told me it will be ok. Just relax. Everything went in slow motion. Even tho I was going 100 miles! All of the anger and tears got in the way. Please don’t drink and drive! Hard to do when intoxicated tho. It’s like your sense is out the window!
@RyanSmith6644 Жыл бұрын
Imagine gathering for a beautiful family wedding and the very next day having to go to a funeral of the very same bride. It’s horrible and evil
@adricocos Жыл бұрын
Omg😢😢😢
@allseeingotto291210 ай бұрын
I doubt the funeral was next day , probably weeks later .
@Hekeepblessingme7 ай бұрын
@@devanwiechthe victim blaming is actually pathetic and disgusting. They were operating the cart LEGALLY. The DRUNK IDIOT DRIVER was BREAKING THE LAW.
@quicktastic Жыл бұрын
Melissa Marvin got 80 years in prison for a dui wreck killing 4 young people in '99. She, at least, showed remorse (after sobering up) when realizing what she had done. This Komoroski girl is really something else. I get her being a jerk while still bombed out of her mind, but to sober up and still be unable to grasp what she has done or care about it in the least is horrendous.
@patriciahayes2664 Жыл бұрын
This is what happens when children are raised in a cossetted, privileged environment. No sense of responsibility and every sense of entitlement.
@tomato.sandwich Жыл бұрын
She’s disgusting
@HeatherHolt Жыл бұрын
@@patriciahayes2664 very true
@kateashby3066 Жыл бұрын
@@patriciahayes2664yup, spoiled rotten 😖
@kimberlybrown5348 Жыл бұрын
@@patriciahayes2664 the young adult generation today is FULL of people like this
@chnalvr Жыл бұрын
This poor husband, wife and their families. Everyone there suffered a tragic loss that cannot ever be repaired.
@boss_niko Жыл бұрын
This is the epitome of modern wahmen. You got what you deserve. I think she did it purposely because she was not getting married and cant see other people getting married and living a happy life. Many modern fatherless wahmen do the same
@drghostduck Жыл бұрын
@@boss_niko I can't believe you're making this a gender thing, especially when most drunk drivers are men
@magallanesagustin4952 Жыл бұрын
@@boss_niko ok incel.
@boss_niko Жыл бұрын
@@magallanesagustin4952 ok fatherless
@llolla110 Жыл бұрын
@@boss_niko you Andrew Tate fans are mentally disabled.
@dystopiaincognito Жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande, please never lose your sense of humour. These cases are brutal and often absurd, and your jokes and sarcasm make it educational and amazingly funny at the same time. Perfection! ❤
@richardpatrick2852 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree! Loved the NJ commentary 😊
@laurierawdon1144 Жыл бұрын
His deadpan delivery is epic! 😂
@Germania72 Жыл бұрын
"I can't believe this is my life and my whole life is going to be over." , "I just can't believe this happened to me." This is a very infuriating character. She goes through life believing that things only happen to her without any decision-making or personal responsibility. Not even one thought about the innocents she harmed.
@salishseas Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Things to happen to her. She does things that have bad consequences.
@beazerthesneeze Жыл бұрын
Very true!
@JSkyGemini Жыл бұрын
She's a spoiled brat. People need to stop raising spoiled brats.
@shereens1463 Жыл бұрын
She is a self serving narcissist who only cares about how this affected her! What about the poor woman who lost her life on her wedding day? What about her groom, mother, father and family who were so happy on the day of the wedding and who hours later had to mourn her death??? No, she must go to jail for many years and go and learn the word empathy!!!
@MakeMeLo Жыл бұрын
@@shereens1463 Learning what the word empathy means isn't going to help. She wasn't taught empathy by her parents. It's not a natural phenomena, it's early learned behavior that if not instilled by a certain age, is nearly impossible to develop in adulthood.
@momjeans9238 Жыл бұрын
I can't imagine what the coroner felt among the rest of them. Caring for a dead woman still in her bridal gown, gut wrenching.
@dr.princess832 Жыл бұрын
Iit made me think about the coroner cutting a white dress covered in blood with scissors and then how it should've been - a loving husband taking it off on their first night. I can't believe this really happened
@mamouilletten1562 Жыл бұрын
@@dr.princess832 This is a horrible tragedy. I can't fathom the husband's suffering 😥
@Jo1066milton Жыл бұрын
@@dr.princess832 We once had the vicar still in his robes arrive at our hospital mortuary after he fell down dead in the middle of the wedding ceremony. That was very sad for him, his family and the wedding couple, but this death is the worst kind of tragedy imaginable. Bad enough to be killed by a drunk driver at any time, let alone on your wedding night, but this particular driver is an abysmal excuse for a human.
@dr.princess832 Жыл бұрын
@@Jo1066milton oh God, this is awful 😰
@scraidywolf7081 Жыл бұрын
Totally!
@djholliday5132 Жыл бұрын
Jamie is a perfect example of what happens when you don't discipline children or raise them with accountability.
@nnnik3595 Жыл бұрын
Or what happens when you are so harsh to your children that they completely reject everything you taught them - we don't know.
@djholliday5132 Жыл бұрын
@nnnik Listening to what has been said in phone calls and what has happened in this case, after this entitled, selfish, brat of a woman got drunk & killed a young bride & injured 3 others...yeah, we know. Hearing her interactions with her parents as an adult gives a clear view into how she was raised.
@nnnik3595 Жыл бұрын
@@djholliday5132 listened further along and in this case they probably never gave her accountability. On the other hand I have a friend whose parents were always strict and harsh to unreasonable levels. He now sells drugs on the street
@Dynoids Жыл бұрын
Okay seriously though Ive seen countless shit about how to parent or not how to parent. Find what works, dont be a pushover. You can read plenty of books that tell you to be srtrict or be handa off or whatever. Theres absolutely no way to know which is best Find a balance thats all, too much or too little to extremes can cause bad behavior
@djholliday5132 Жыл бұрын
@Dynoids I'm a parent of 3. My oldest is almost 19. I have never read a book related to parenting. I tell my kids I love them daily & have been affectionate with them since birth. I GIVE respect & EXPECT respect. I apologize to teach them we all make mistakes. I took what I learned from my own parents & grandparents. I kept the good and didn't memick what I didn't like. Aiming to raise kids who are good people, consider the feelings of others, accept responsibility & consequences, not to lie, steal, hit & be mean & nasty, and basically raising them not to be azzholes is the goal. Parents no longer teach empathy or discipline. That's why humanity & society has eroded into the insanity we see now.
@JayBigDadyCy Жыл бұрын
As a sober alcoholic pf 17 years I can tell you that one of the hardest things to do is convince another alcoholic that THEY are the problem NOT the alcohol.
@AlexisTwoLastNames7 ай бұрын
that’s for alcoholics who refuse to take accountability. i’m sure it’s a problem in other parts of their life too. i’m an alcoholic but i know it’s my behavior and choices that lead me to issues, not the inanimate bottle of liquid on the counter.
@adotintheshark48487 ай бұрын
that's one of the things AA drums into you too.
@SavingSoulsMinistries6 ай бұрын
i was only drinking for like 8 months but it quickly got out of hand. my dads a lifer and still drinking 10 beers a day, i promise i would never be like him.. then i got a job at a liquor store getting everything at whole sale prices.. i can see how one would slip into the hole. one thing i never did was do or justify drunk driving in any capacity. absolutely ridiculous
@dexked6 ай бұрын
Just like you started drinking when in that environment you would start driving drunk after a while of being drunk all the time. We’re talking about alcoholics lots of us drink before we brush our teeth. 6 years clean from booze in August. The root of the problem is us but I would never say and I have never heard anyone say the alcohols not the problem. It’s not the cause of the problem it’s a symptom but it is most definitely a problem haha
@johanpeterson9671 Жыл бұрын
Dr Grande. The hardest working man on KZbin
@Kino_Chroma Жыл бұрын
His channel's combination of high quality and high quantity is a rare thing
@MypronounIsKing Жыл бұрын
@@Kino_Chroma honestly the truth!!! I think this every day. I hope this guy never stops posting
@meeganyoung8058 Жыл бұрын
He sure does get the videos out everyday and quickly. I enjoy listening sometimes he really helps me get a different view on things. Usually it’s a better take on what was going on way better than I had on my own. Lol
@Lotsa-Luv Жыл бұрын
The most stable man in my life on KZbin
@salvatornado Жыл бұрын
Simon Whistler
@Renegad3rogu3 Жыл бұрын
Omg... this is so horrible. I just can't imagine seeing your daughter, sister, friend etc absolutely glowing with life and being told a few hours later she was dead. This is absolutely heart breaking. And the fact she takes zero responsibility or accountability for her actions and seems completely disconnected from the horrendous thing she did... those new jersey attorneys need to tell her parents to stop visiting her lol
@djg5950 Жыл бұрын
No concern for the woman she killed and what the husband, of only a few hours, and families are going through. Don't think anyone is going to view her as less than a selfish, irresponsible, horrible person even after she does her time. 10 years for killing someone else isn't enough time, regardless of the time tacked onto that for the other crimes.
@veganandlovingit Жыл бұрын
It must be a frigging nightmare for the family.
@boss_niko Жыл бұрын
This is the epitome of modern wahmen. You got what you deserve. I think she did it purposely because she was not getting married and cant see other people getting married and living a happy life. Many modern fatherless wahmen do the same
@Bri-nc8yp Жыл бұрын
@@boss_niko are you on drugs? You need to get out of your manophere echo chamber bubble and step back into reality. You sound dumb you said fatherless women and this woman has a father visiting her and getting her an attorney. You don’t listen do you? Everything with the manosphere has to revolve around a woman getting married. You people obsess over marriage and weaponizing marriage against women. If a woman doesn’t get married she’s useless if she does marry and walks away from a toxic marriage she’s useless. It’s laughable.
@deathweaselx86 Жыл бұрын
She should get life w/o parole. I’m not convinced she won’t do this again
@ljaderomero Жыл бұрын
My cousin was killed by a drunk driver the day after her 24th birthday. She was in her own front yard and was pregnant with her second child at the time. This topic is incredibly serious. I really appreciate when you talk about drunk driving cases. To add some details: my cousin’s 2 year old daughter was also hit by this driver and she luckily recovered physically. My cousin’s husband found his wife and child in the road and had to witness his wife die. The driver initially got out of his car to see what he hit, then got back in his car and fled the scene. He was later found hiding in a shed. This man later showed remorse, but remorse cannot undo a death. He took 2 lives and destroyed his own future. I recently had a friend of my husband’s admit to us that he had driven around while drinking an entire 12 pack of beer in an afternoon. I didn’t even know what to say.
@HeatherHolt Жыл бұрын
Pregnant and killed by some idiot drinking and driving that hurts my heart to hear. I am sorry for your loss. Losses. And if anyone tells me they drink and drive at this point in my life I won’t be friends with them anymore. I am embarrassed I used to drive after drinking one or two drinks with dinner or Sunday during football games - young and stupid and glad I didn’t hurt or kill anyone. I don’t drink anymore and it’s crazy to see how socially accepted and expected it is, and we wonder why these things keep happening. Look at any beer commercial and it’s pretty much glorified and made trendy especially to the younger generation.
@boss_niko Жыл бұрын
This is the epitome of modern wahmen. You got what you deserve. I think she did it purposely because she was not getting married and cant see other people getting married and living a happy life. Many modern fatherless wahmen do the same
@mkuti-childress3625 Жыл бұрын
Wahmen?
@haim1217 Жыл бұрын
That is absolutely heartbreaking and devastating. I'm so sorry for your loss.
@carlmorgan8452 Жыл бұрын
And people want to coddle the addict with harm reduction what a joke. Ex-addict myself ❤
@JocieFire Жыл бұрын
"Bringing New Jersey to anywhere...is a crime against humanity." said deadpan, that was hilarious.
@AngiO-f1s7 ай бұрын
I wholeheartedly agree and I'm from NJ lol
@NoNonsense3167 ай бұрын
💯👍👍
@richardbalducci44907 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣‼️🍸
@AE-yt4lx7 ай бұрын
So wrong.
@YourLordAnon7 ай бұрын
"Reckless propagation of New Jersey" is a charge that just hits different
@IratePuffin Жыл бұрын
She’s completely self-absorbed and delusional. Her parents really screwed up. Parents, your job is not to protect your child’s feelings to the point that they grow up thinking their feelings matter more than everything else. You have to say no. It’s important. You also have to hold them accountable for things they do wrong. If you don’t, this is what you end up with.
@RichObiQuan Жыл бұрын
Facts
@Soloman_1800 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯
@g3n0sc1d3 Жыл бұрын
at what point does a grown ass adults feelings/actions become their own. my parents do not influence my actions. if i kill someone it is my choice. i just dont understand this observaton.
@Nessal83 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like every gen z.
@youraveragemexorican Жыл бұрын
@@Nessal83wdym 💀 Go touch some grass, buddy.
@SweetUniverse Жыл бұрын
My mother was the same - a narcissist who always believed she was a victim. She had 4 DWIs, none of which were her fault (according to her).
@Novastar.SaberCombat Жыл бұрын
Narcissists have bred quite a bit over the past 6-12 decades. The wealthy families tend to do the most societal damage. But since they're rich, there isn't anything that can't be nullified by coin, connections, clout, crews, computer code, communities, and opportunities. People like Bezoz, Zuck, Chump, Theranos chick, Amber Heard, Wil Smith, etc. all get free passes! 💪😎✌️
@tunasandwich8049 Жыл бұрын
4???? Whatever happened to 3 strikes, you're out system?
@colico14 Жыл бұрын
They sound like a family of unaccountable, narcissistic drunks.
@TracyD2 Жыл бұрын
@@tunasandwich8049I knew people who had more than that and still out to drink some more.
@georgemacdonell2341 Жыл бұрын
Drunks drink until death.
@karenc7194 Жыл бұрын
This is what happens when parents raise and encourage a spoiled, entitled child who only cares about herself and her image. It’s clear she’s never been held accountable for her actions. She is still whining like a child even though she’s an adult. It’s all about her. Congratulations, parents. You raised a disgusting human being.
@MrJimmyTide Жыл бұрын
Right, but the older generation always blames the children. And yes, I get that they need to get their shit together as adults and undo what was done to them, but if the parents enable it for so long, how exactly do they pull that off?
@steffaniepetroni1766 Жыл бұрын
OR this is what happens when parents do not provide love, affection, and guidance.
@karenc7194 Жыл бұрын
@@steffaniepetroni1766 nah. This is pure spoiled, entitled behavior.
@rluciano287 Жыл бұрын
Guidance and consequences are what's missing. As a young parent myself it disgusts me when other parents baby their children forever. We're supposed to raise them to grow up, not to become adult babies.
@goldilocks3593 Жыл бұрын
That whole parental dynamic sounds very enabling for sure. The father doesn’t take the situation seriously either. Yes, she is awful but it sounds like she comes by it VERY honestly. Her parents are out to lunch too.
@Robin.Hollinger853 ай бұрын
She should serve way more than 22 years. She destroyed at least TWO lives that day. Her poor husband, I can't imagine how it would feel to have your future with your wife ripped away like that.
@tamarrapetrie9345 Жыл бұрын
She sounds like a horrible person. I was hit by a drunk driver with my young son in the car and it changed my life forever in very negative ways. Thank you Dr Grande for not having sympathy for the perpetrator and for really explaining how devastating this truly is for the victim and her family💔
@DogeFather-elon Жыл бұрын
I’m really sorry to hear about the traumatic experience you went through with your young son
@carriemindplsable Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry that you and your child went through that. I hope you can find some way towards healing.
@purpleslurple5149 Жыл бұрын
I had a friend killed by a drunk driver 25 years ago and it changed my life. It also, of course, changed the lives of his wife and children. The effects of a shocking tragedy like this truly can't be quantified. My heart is broken for the loved ones of this bride and groom. What an awful tragedy.
@Elhastezy888 Жыл бұрын
Very very sorry 💔 my sincere condolences
@Theoreticallyyou1234 Жыл бұрын
That’s what happens when a hardcore drug like alcohol is seen as okay and a casual thing when it’s no harsher than heavy opiates like oxycontin
@pricklycatsss Жыл бұрын
@@Theoreticallyyou1234Even opioids you won't die from the withdrawal, and they typically don't cause brain damage like alcohol does. I actually cannot think of a more damaging drug than alcohol.
@yourboymalikcoleman8731 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry for your loss
@abigailramirez1614 Жыл бұрын
My brother went through a loss like this, and stopped drinking. Losing someone from DUI can really change a person.
@ExtraPencil2 Жыл бұрын
Her narcissism is sickening. To imagine the bride's family celebrating one minute and grieving a horrific, avoidable loss the next. As you pointed out, Jamie's complete lack of empathy is revolting. (Minor note: I lived in New Jersey for years; people there are as good as anywhere else.) But your insightful video was heartbreakingly on point. I hope the groom and his bride's family can find peace. While Jamie stays in prison.
@koolkattysun195310 ай бұрын
I love the little bits of humor you add into the stories makes me laugh😊
@Amila-ym7ny Жыл бұрын
When her dad said they’re doing everything they can I jokingly thought “lemme guess it’s not enough for her” and when SHE ACTUALLY SAID THAT 😧
@macwacha8415 Жыл бұрын
The parents should’ve told her blatantly that she’s a drunk driver. She’s worried about her life being over, yet the bride she killed didn’t get to live her whole like as a wife & a mother, if she planned on having kids. It’s a terrible tragedy.
@iammedusa2600 Жыл бұрын
Her mother killed a firefighter 10 years ago driving drunk. Doubtful they'll reprimand her at all.
@user-kb8qw7dy4t Жыл бұрын
As an alcoholic, I can assure you it would not have helped and, in fact, only made things worse. I mean, calling someone a "drunk driver" would naturally make anyone defensive, and besides, she already knows she has a problem and is doing everything she can to try (however unsuccessfully) to hide it and live in denial. Unfortunately, she has to hit rock bottom before she decides it's finally time to take control of her life. And "Why me?" are the words of someone who obviously doesn't feel like she's in control.
@It-is-me...Melsie Жыл бұрын
@@iammedusa2600 Stop lying. Her mother wasn't drunk when that accident happened. Lying doesn't help anyone, unless your intention is to get the pitchfork bearers even more rarked up. I have no idea what sort of people her parents were - possibly enablers since the daughter is such a brat - but that does not make them liable for what she has done, and does not make a terrible but all too common accident from years prior anything more than that.
@iammedusa2600 Жыл бұрын
@@It-is-me...Melsie lying? LMAO ok. Get off your holier-than-thou horse. MAYBE it was an honest mistake. Ever think of that? Of course not, because YOU have to jump to conclusions and go on a tirade and not give anyone the benefit of the doubt. Says a ton about your character. Bless your heart.
@It-is-me...Melsie Жыл бұрын
@@iammedusa2600 You talk about me jumping to conclusions but your apparent "honest mistake" was quite the accusation.
@tunasandwich8049 Жыл бұрын
That phone call should be enough to keep her in jail for life. She's literally a danger to society
@lady.leo12 Жыл бұрын
Kids like Jamie and her parents are the reason I left teaching. The level of enabling and excuses parents like these make for their child's behavior nowadays is absolutely criminal. I finally got sick of dealing with stupid parents like them and their child. I hope Jamie goes to jail for a long time.
@AlexisTwoLastNames7 ай бұрын
i can’t imagine being a teacher.
@ryanaul7 ай бұрын
Children have free will and their personalities/ behaviors are influenced by many factors like genetics, environment, peer groups and over all temperament. Not just how the parents raised them. Blaming her parents also diminishes Jamie's accountability, provides an excuse which may enable these behaviors to continue.
@jeffk4647 ай бұрын
As a teacher you have the chance to influence these kids, maybe help them out.
@Pushing_Pixels7 ай бұрын
@@jeffk464 Teachers don't have nearly enough time with a student to be a major influence, unless an individual student is particularly receptive. If parents let their kids run wild, there's not much a teacher can do about it, especially when the parents undermine any attempts to challenge bad behaviour.
@lady.leo127 ай бұрын
@@jeffk464 there's an ongoing case of a woman named Laura Owens and Clayton Echard you should look into. She claims she's pregnant with Clayton's twins after performing oral sex on him. Her equally delusional parents support and back her ridiculous allegations. THAT, Mr. @jeffk464, is the kind of shit teachers have to deal with on a daily basis. Some of these kids have a huge sense of entitlement and zero accountability for their actions that no amount of influence would help them out. Teachers are required to teach, parents should be required to raise responsible, well balanced, and productive members of society. That is currently not happening.
@yarnpower Жыл бұрын
Her dad is definitely part of the problem to not be angry at her for drunk driving.
@ronald3836 Жыл бұрын
Would it have helped to be angry?
@rickbrenner6079 Жыл бұрын
Dad is clearly an enabler for “his baby girl” who apparently, “can do no wrong.” He’s doing what he’s always done, ever since his daughter was born: never letting her take responsibility for her actions or face the full consequences that come with those actions.
@ronald3836 Жыл бұрын
@@rickbrenner6079 how do you know this? Self reflection?
@clarkmay4819 Жыл бұрын
@@ronald3836 Yes it would. She should know that this type of behavior is unacceptable and that people are angry with her because of it. They're doing a horrible job as parents by hiring lawyers for her. Good parents let their kids learn from mistakes, instead they're trying help her get off easy.
@ronald3836 Жыл бұрын
@@clarkmay4819 So kick her when she is down! That'll teach her! Way to go.
@tomato.sandwich Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for covering this, I’m from here, my parents live on folly beach, the whole community is a wreck over this. The whole island is 25 mph and even going 30 feels fast, I can’t imagine going 65 + like the killer was. (Yes she’s a killer) and to hit and kill someone on the happiest night of their lives at that😭 the brides family and the groom has been in all of our thoughts and prayers. I hope she gets life in prison for this.
@Jennifermcintyre Жыл бұрын
I’m hoping so… her damn enabler father will try and get her a fraction of the sentence she deserves.
@PetiteLapinChouette Жыл бұрын
I’m local too and I was baffled to read she was going 65, I can’t even imagine. Really hoping she gets the harshest sentencing possible, I can’t believe she’s acting as if SHE is the victim 😣
@helenf.7221 Жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine her husband going home to an empty house 😢 it breaks my heart
@kanases Жыл бұрын
Killer is right cause driving drunk is like carrying around a loaded gun, the car is a weapon!!
@tomato.sandwich Жыл бұрын
@@helenf.7221 an absolute nightmare 💔
@jackiegrice714 Жыл бұрын
This case was a nightmare from start to finish. It’s amazing that Jamie seems to have no actual guilt for killing an innocent woman in her wedding dress. These events are a startling reminder that we need to hold the ones we love close and never take them for granted, because we never know what might happen. Thanks Dr. Grande.
@lisamac8503 Жыл бұрын
These events are a startling reminders of how a drug damages and kills Its time we stop looking at alcohol as ::fun: Its a drug and one that many are addicted to That boozing it up is cool (her pictures kind of sum that all up) Its disgusting She is and was disgusting and her Dad appeared to be a huge part of her problem - Perhaps if we actually punished people who drink and drive and killed someone just maybe there would be less of it going on ...maybe?
@everydaywithsandra Жыл бұрын
You are awesome thank you
@meredith2803 Жыл бұрын
This is one of the saddest stories I’ve ever heard. Can’t imagine how hard it is for her family and her poor husband. Let’s hope they throw the book at her, Samantha should have been enjoying one of the happiest days of her life instead she lost her whole future because of someone else’s selfish actions. RIP Samantha and deepest condolences to your poor family 😢
@TonyTony__ Жыл бұрын
I'm not sure if M. Grande is like this in real life, or if it's a youtube persona, but looking him throwing shade left and right and craking jokes while maintaining his signature serious and monotone demeanor just get me every time. Keep up the good work Todd, we love it !
@a.walters123 Жыл бұрын
My god, this just shatters my soul. I can’t imagine that husband’s broken heart. That sweet bride was still in her wedding dress when she died.
@marleeblair9875 Жыл бұрын
I grew up with Aric, the groom. He’s an amazing guy and my heart is broken for him
@systemofcolorfulpills Жыл бұрын
Tell him that we all praying for him.
@devilsoffspring5519 Жыл бұрын
Oh man, my condolences. I hope you find who did it and blind the drunk driver for life. Of course, the law will be all bent out of shape over their "human rights"...
@missyskye_sea_land9424 Жыл бұрын
This story is about to make me throw up, thinking about how many lives she destroyed💔
@BK-2003 Жыл бұрын
Including her own! Even when she gets out of jail no one’s gonna wanna hire her, date her, be her friend, etc. Even still, at least she gets to see another day, unlike her victim. 💔
@christophergargaro95923 күн бұрын
The picture Dr. Todd puts up at 0:43 explains a lot because if you look at her social media, virtually every post involved a picture of her with alcohol, talking about alcohol or referencing alcohol.
@slimjames1917 Жыл бұрын
I’m sure her parents are proud of the clearly fine human they raised. This is the second case in weeks in which the intoxicated driver claims they are the victim and it’s truly disgusting
@oregonsnob31 Жыл бұрын
This type of content is a sobering reminder how quickly things can spiral out of control when alcohol is involved.
@Sh1roNekoshi Жыл бұрын
And this is why i won't ever touch drugs or alcohol 😢 I don't want to hurt anyone if i appear to be an idiot while under the influence.
@kateashby3066 Жыл бұрын
Not alcohol, a spoiled brat that doesn’t abide by any rules.
@BeruCampos Жыл бұрын
@@Sh1roNekoshi alcohol is a drug btw
@Sh1roNekoshi Жыл бұрын
@@BeruCampos sure whatever
@KathySong1 Жыл бұрын
‘Sobering’ being the operative word here
@jenniferchristie972123 күн бұрын
An excellent summary of Jamie’s personality and appalling lack of responsibility. Thank you.
@jackfitzsimons2569 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr. Grande for standing up against the proliferation of New Jersey.
@garymalone5472 ай бұрын
Still embarassed I used to enjoy Jersey Shore.
@SilverstreamPJ28 Жыл бұрын
"I can't believe my life is going to be over" yeah, that tends to happen when you make someone else's life be over
@lizzyliz9915 Жыл бұрын
This is such a sad story!!! That girl should be feeling tremendous grief instead of feeling sorry for herself!!
@TNT011gaming Жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine the pain and suffering Eric went through. Imagine having your bride killed by a drunk driver the night of your marriage. Mere hours afterward
@SaintSeja Жыл бұрын
I committed the same crime when I was 22. I was just incredibly lucky that nothing happened. Someone (maybe the bartender) called the police because they knew I was drunk off my ass and would be driving home. So it was easy for them to take me out of circulation. I am sooo grateful to the person who reported me to LE. I am still ashamed to this day when I think about it. I probably could not have lived with myself having killed someone through my criminal behavior. I had to surrender my driver's license for 6 months and pass a psychological test to get it back. Today I'm over 40 and I would try to stop anyone who wanted to drive drunk. An alcohol measurement method should be developed that is linked to starting a vehicle so that the engine only starts when the driver is sober. Of course, even such a device could be fooled, but it would still be an additional hurdle. I encourage everyone to call the police if they witness someone getting behind the wheel drunk. And now to the person we are talking about here. Her attitude leaves me speechless. What a despicable behavior! Someone should urgently make her realize that she is a murderer. It is an unbelievable tragedy and I am very sorry for all the relatives and friends of Samantha. I wish them all a lot of strength. This wound will never heal.
@lccsd2392 Жыл бұрын
such a device is attached to driver's vehicle as part of punishment/rehab, here in Australia.
@Lucinda_Jackson Жыл бұрын
@@lccsd2392 In the US, too, but only after a number of infractions.
@trawlins396 Жыл бұрын
So if NOTHING HAPPENED you actually DIDNT commit the same crime. This girl is being charged vehicular homicide. You weren't. Not the same.
@trawlins396 Жыл бұрын
And the device you described has been in use for YEARS. Called Alcohol Ignition Interlock.
@miovicdina7706 Жыл бұрын
Excellent idea! Industrial engineers and industrial designers, take notes!!! A passed 0.0 alcohol in bloodstream test in order to start a car!! Yes, YES, YES!!! 👏👏
@carolkegel7599 Жыл бұрын
" This seems like a good idea for a plea deal. Jamie gets released when she's considered a genius, making her punishment a life sentence" I love that line... and the way he delivers it so seriously!!!! This guy really does have some of the best one liners on the internet!
@adotintheshark48489 ай бұрын
I can bet the Doctor will not get Christmas cards from Jamie.
@Lisa597 ай бұрын
Yes, and he's so deadpan!
@ABSOLUTELY_LM Жыл бұрын
Todays current culture promotes pure narcissism, selfishness, and a need for instant gratification. Sickening. I really hope she gets prison.
@AJ-rf4yr Жыл бұрын
Sadly, it’s why all the bullies and criminals become popular at school
@haydenw.9809 Жыл бұрын
All of these are tenants of Satanism. Our society is one big satanic ritual.
@GrizrazRex Жыл бұрын
She will. The testimony of the bereaved husband will bring that courtroom down. Everyone will be in tears. It will be up to the judge to have the stiffest of backbones, and not buy her crocodile tears. GIVE HER THE MAX.
@billytessio6326 Жыл бұрын
We've acculturated the worst aspects of female nature.
@Theegoaat Жыл бұрын
@@GrizrazRex I've seen these judges now a days hand down 5-10 years max for stuff like this smh!
@TheSergio1021 Жыл бұрын
Pure narcissism... She killed a bride in her wedding dress, and not once even acknowledges that fact
@zenawarrior7442 Жыл бұрын
Was just thinking of this case. She makes me ill w/her comments. Dad seems part of the problem, catering to a narcissist. Excellent analysis, inflections, quips. Thanks Dr G😊💙💙
@cottontails9003 Жыл бұрын
Hello to my two beautiful American sisters. Matilda second names are in honour of my beautiful sisters. Banjo is after my favourite Australian poet AB "Banjo *Patterson. I will keep you both updated. Please keep me informed. We are trying to get the twins too 36weeks in last two weeks in July. I miss you both heaps. . Sending love and lots of hugs to you both and your families 😜😚❤❤💙💙💙💙💔💖🎊🎊✉✉🌷🌷🍀🍀🍀
@GMDAzure Жыл бұрын
Exactly. If he can hire those NJ attorneys, then it would be reasonable to assume that she has lived a life of wealth and privilege, a life she received rather than worked for. Her parents come off as so tone deaf in the recordings.
@zenawarrior7442 Жыл бұрын
@@cottontails9003 Hello beautiful friend😊We are so honored to have our names with the precious babies 🤱 💜We love & miss you heaps too, & are sending much love, good wishes, hugs, for the next 2 months to get to end of July ❤🤍💙🙌🙋♀️💐🌎🌗✨️🇺🇲 🇦🇺 💚💚🧡🧡💌💌💛💛And yes please keep us updated!💋💟xoxo
@zenawarrior7442 Жыл бұрын
@@GMDAzure Glad you thought same. I've fought all battles alone, no rich daddy, or anyone, saving me. Great points😊
@prettypimpette Жыл бұрын
@@cottontails9003 huh
@aisharicci6400 Жыл бұрын
Her family has highly contributed to her self centeredness. I really hope she goes in for a long long time. She hasn't even once mentioned how guilty she feel for killing someone!
@merrymeditation Жыл бұрын
There was a brief window of awareness where she told the cops/guards that she didn't deserve to eat or drink. I think she's still delusional and it's understandable. Alcoholism is a terrible illness :(
@colico14 Жыл бұрын
She is truly an awful human being.
@michellewall6748 Жыл бұрын
It’s a very American trait…..entitlement…
@MariaLopez-hc2nm Жыл бұрын
@@michellewall6748No. Most of the youth these days All over the globe are like This. Parents are helpless and sometimes emotional ally blackmailed. The kids have been brainwashed at school, by their piers, also the media advertising all kind of unnecessary nonsense/must have stuff/ not to mention the LGBT agenda. Just a few points to add to their entitlement attitude. It's difficult.
@maryanne7161 Жыл бұрын
@@MariaLopez-hc2nmSociety especially western society which includes the parents is to blame. Parents also need to be on the same page. In my asian muslim semi devout household, i the mother am the bad cop/villain.
@T.McGarry7 ай бұрын
"Say an apology" - that sums up the mindset of this sociopath.
@princessinaworldofevil Жыл бұрын
Its completely surreal, It's like a scene out of a horror movie I can't imagine being at the scene with his beautiful wife in her wedding dress dead. The family must be devastated . The husband in a shroud of grief ,unconsollable. My prayers are with them.
@tinareaume7484 Жыл бұрын
Not to mention the trauma of that. He will never get over it or forget it happened. This little narcissist ruined the lives of both families and a multitude of friends. She is sickening!
@tinareaume7484 Жыл бұрын
Not to mention the trauma of that. He will never get over it or forget it happened. This little narcissist ruined the lives of both families and a multitude of friends. She is sickening!
@katej2538 Жыл бұрын
Her parents enabled her awful behavior and still want her to get best defense. Hope she gets the longest possible sentence. She killed a beautiful woman 😢 not to mention caused extreme pain and loss to her husband and entire family.
@kyloren1014 Жыл бұрын
@@KatherineLaura6564 yes if my kid killed someone through their own fault then they deserve it…nobody forced her to drink and drive and she has a history of alcohol abuse and it was not an accident
@sisterhoney61 Жыл бұрын
I'd hate to be her defense attorney, because she has no defense. She was driving way over the speed limit, she was DUI, and she killed someone and badly injured other people. Cut and dried, sister. You're gonna stay where you belong.
@sisterhoney61 Жыл бұрын
@@KatherineLaura6564 Of course, they don't want her to go to jail. But she killed someone. The defense attorney isn't going to much help. She's facing up to 25 years here.
@sisterhoney61 Жыл бұрын
@@KatherineLaura6564 Just replying to your reply to Kylo Ren.
@rockfordfiles5451 Жыл бұрын
Right…. Not het fault… she’s a girl and girls deserve special privileges. Mostly the father fault right?
@lindsaypeterson6004 Жыл бұрын
We shared the same wedding date and I just can’t imagine it ending that way. Those poor family and friends. Her lack of remorse is sickening. Thank you for your spot on analysis
@TheRoom2Breathe Жыл бұрын
Make your anniversaries great ❤ Every Year!!
@trawlins396 Жыл бұрын
Why does everyone use the word "imagine"???
@TheRoom2Breathe Жыл бұрын
@@trawlins396 Imagine if they didn't
@trawlins396 Жыл бұрын
@@TheRoom2Breathe every other comment is "I can't imagine" blah blah blah.
@trawlins396 Жыл бұрын
@@TheRoom2Breathe 🤣🤣🤣
@ND-or5so Жыл бұрын
Another good video Dr. Grande. Thank you.
@rebekahdavis5935 Жыл бұрын
Wow, she is VERY childish and spoiled. Disturbing lack of empathy as well. At first I thought it almost sounded like the parents were glad she was in jail but then it seemed like they are her enablers that have most likely really spoiled her to not have to deal with her reactions. How very sad SO sad for the guy that lost his beautiful bride. My heart breaks for them. This girl deserves a LONG sentence.
@ninaninapasadena5687 Жыл бұрын
Doc I’ve been a subscriber for several years now and you never fail to deliver insightful, educational and thought provoking analysis of current events. Your dry humor always hits the mark while maintaining respect and dignity for the victims in the situation. In short, Thank you for your continued hard work and dedication to your channel. I’m sure you’ll be in the 3 million sun count by this time next year!
@omegaentertainment1 Жыл бұрын
The things she's saying while she's actually sobered up sound like things a drunk person would say not yet realizing the severity of the situation. The fact that she hadn't processed the fact that she killed someone speaks volumes about her as a person. I DJ weddings for a living and I couldn't imagine doing a sparkler sendoff for the couple and them being slammed into by a drunk driver moments later.
@Kangaroojack1986 Жыл бұрын
She needs at least 20 years in prison. She has no redeeming qualities to offer
@HarupertBeagleton-dz5gw Жыл бұрын
You're too kind. Organ harvest to get back as much as possible that she took from this world. Could save some poor kid's mom who needs an organ. I'd swap her for a few decent people.
@e2U5 ай бұрын
I was a bouncer at a busy dance club and bar. We never let anyone drunk leave: NEVER! We called them a taxi, sat them in the back room, or called a friend or family member to get them. The bars are 100% responsible, as no Drunk Person can determine if they are DRUNK.
@tommccormick9290 Жыл бұрын
I did many stupid things in my youth but the things she did and later her reactions to what she did are mindboggling.
@ronald3836 Жыл бұрын
Did you ever drive under the influence? If you did, then this could have happened to you. (I'm not saying you did!) I understand Jamie's "why me" as "of all the many many thousands of irresponsible people who happily drive while being intoxicated, why did it have to be me that ended up killing a person"?
@MolyBDenum-lh3wy Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a spoiled brat! Saw an interview of the husband recently and it’s heartbreaking 💔 I hope she gets locked up for a long time because she will definitely do something reckless again.
@mamacito1795 Жыл бұрын
Never wanted to "shake" some sense into a person as much as this and the other drunk driving murderer. Vile obnoxious little princesses. I hope they both get equally vile bunk mates who make their whole stay in jail a misery because they certainly won't do as much time as they should for extinguishing peoples lives and walking away with barely a scratch
@patriciahayes2664 Жыл бұрын
I agree. If Samantha's husband dies, self-absorbed little Jamie will be on her way to prison for the rest of her life.
@glow1815 Жыл бұрын
I hope she gets to eat warm meatballs in prison until she's 65. I'm being nice for saying 65 year old. She's disgust me. That's what happened when you rise your children with money and not with brain. Throw away the key.
@livvyb3583 Жыл бұрын
The poor man could barely get a sentence out without crying. The heartbreak so evident on his face! I can’t even come close to imagining what he is going through or her poor parents!
@henry0461 Жыл бұрын
" Jaimie would be released when she becomes a genius" This would be a life sentence... Lol DR G. is hilarious!!!
@davinasquirrel76727 ай бұрын
I wish the becoming a genius part was a real sentence. You can imagine the annual parole hearing "nope, still as dumb as a bag of rocks"
@denisebierd520323 күн бұрын
This man explains the story so well!
@AleckaRogers-fi2ey Жыл бұрын
This saddened me Sam was so happy she looked so beautiful she didn't want the night to end just for that pos to take it all away no fairytale no children all gone ...
@TravelinRosy2025 Жыл бұрын
Ik 😢 poor widowed hubby
@bianca4829 Жыл бұрын
I heard about this story and was so angry when the girl who hit the bride clearly only cared about herself. It’s evident that she takes no responsibility for anything she does. She literally killed a person, and left three with severe injuries that will negatively impact them for the rest of their lives. I hope she ends up in prison for the rest of her life.There’s enough selfish people out there.
@infinitejest441 Жыл бұрын
Narcs raise little narcs.
@Mommy2Two8 Жыл бұрын
My best friend died due to a speeding driver. He wasn't drunk, just chronically late for work and on his last warning. One rainy morning he was late again and speeding. He lost control of his car and killed my 23 year old friend. He got of scott free. Not even a warning or probation period. Just, thank you, you may go. Cases like this make my blood boil!
@lauraelliott6909 Жыл бұрын
He should have been charged with reckless homicide or vehicular manslaughter. So sorry for the loss of your friend. 😢
@Mommy2Two8 Жыл бұрын
@@lauraelliott6909 Thank you. We were just as surprised about the outcome. The whole justice system is a joke
@travelnomad2128 Жыл бұрын
If you killed someone because of speeding or dui, there should be an automatic prison time. The courts care more for the perpetrators than the victims & their families. I hate this.
@lilithowl Жыл бұрын
Oh no, I m sorry. That's outrageous!
@SatireNGigglesАй бұрын
Your dry humor and your famous delivery is amazing
@falseking989 Жыл бұрын
She clearly has some narcissist traits like being incapable of feeling empathy. But I think if there was someone in her life holding her accountable for her actions then she wouldn’t have gotten so out of control.
@wendyc1902 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely...look she's already had work on her face at such a young age
@ColleenKavanaugh Жыл бұрын
@@wendyc1902 uhh, what does cosmetic work have to do with someone being a bad person?
@RationalGaze216 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, this reminds me of that term 'affluenza,' where a kid is shielded from the consequences of their actions for so long that eventually they get out of control and don't really even understand that their actions have consequences, for them or for other people they impact.
@RationalGaze216 Жыл бұрын
@@wendyc1902 Was that in the video? Did I miss that?
@trawlins396 Жыл бұрын
@@RationalGaze216 the "affluenza teen" was only one case.
@AmyLou402 Жыл бұрын
She’s like the couple killed by that laughing woman. Sick! Here in my town, we now have same situation. 18 yr old high on mushrooms, booze and weed slammed into a building going 80-90. She had just ransacked a church! Killed her passenger (bf) and his best friend. She just had a zoom bond hearing and rolled her eyes at the judge and slammed her hands on the table. Another uncivilized entitled monster. Alcohol doesn’t change you it magnifies the real you!!
@yarnpower Жыл бұрын
Exactly! Alcohol just makes it easier for others to see if someone has anger issues or is a selfish brat.
@MrJimmyTide Жыл бұрын
The ironic part is the older generation talks about how spoiled the youth is. Who raised them? Read the NYP articles about her and it sounds like her father is a coddling bitch. He's got to AT LEAST be a Gen-X'er.
@AmyLou4027 ай бұрын
@@KennyCronin-wq8xq She sure as hell did!
@artemis199 Жыл бұрын
I am ashamed to say I had a DUI crash over 20 years ago. I had a .30 BAC level and it was believed I passed out at the wheel. Thankfully I only hurt a telephone pole and tree. My skin crawled for years after that wreck bc the thought that I could've hurt someone ate me alive. I couldn't sleep without sleeping pills. I was required to complete rehab. I have not made that mistake ever again. I couldn't imagine thinking of only myself and the consequences if I'd hurt someone in my condition.
@hsimpson7267 Жыл бұрын
A little thought before from these people would be nice. Never will understand how stupid most people are.
@Ewela-et3uo Жыл бұрын
Forgive yourself.
@rosa10410 ай бұрын
Maybe you would if you were facing decades in prison - give her a break, she is obviously terrified and immature!!!
@Whyistomatoafruit8 ай бұрын
@@rosa104I ain’t giving her no kind of break. She’s got a history of drinking excessively and making terrible decisions. She deserves to rot in jail for many years. She became this way because she was given too many breaks in life.
@adotintheshark48487 ай бұрын
@@rosa104 that's no excuse for Jamie. I hope she gets at least 20 years.
@denisebradfield7305Ай бұрын
My sister was killed by a drunk driver who fled the scene. He got two years in prison. Two years is not enough to pay for erasing an innocent person from their life.
@Danxethenightaway Жыл бұрын
That broad is DISGUSTING. You KILLED A HUMAN BEING ON WHAT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE THE BEST DAY OF HER LIFE. The conversation she was having in jail tells me everything the jury needs to know about her. Lock her up , and throw away the keys
@lornadouglas98932 ай бұрын
Absolutely! 💯%
@jayrandall9075 Жыл бұрын
I’ve just found out that Jamie’s mother struck and killed a firefighter who was standing next to his fire truck in 2013. It was deemed a tragic accident and no charges filed. Perhaps Jamie thinks her case will be treated the same way. 😡
@kyloren1014 Жыл бұрын
Wtf how do you kill a firefighter standing next to his truck…how horrible and no wonder Jamie is a horrible person
@travelnomad2128 Жыл бұрын
Family of killers. They are a menace to society!
@mariarey7534 Жыл бұрын
What a horrible family!😡
@Diitzybimbo Жыл бұрын
That’s so tragic 😢
@WhateverLibra Жыл бұрын
What??? I can’t believe he didn’t bring this up in the video. Crazy connection
@PuddingMcMuffin Жыл бұрын
I'm astounded by how much she's made it clear that she only cares about how people perceive her. It doesn't seem like there's any thoughts towards what the loved ones of Samantha are going through right now. And her talking about making an apology was so heartless. She's not sorry for killing someone, she just wants to say that she is in the hopes that people "won't be hard on her". What a vile woman.
@JSkyGemini Жыл бұрын
Like every criminal, she's sorry only because she has to face consequences.
@AtlisDe Жыл бұрын
She's not getting that people are going to view her much worse now because of all her unfiltered thoughts and trying to escape responsibility. Having people's anger is obviously not fun, but she should know that it's understandable in this case. She just needs to face it now.
@DoingStuffWithDiana Жыл бұрын
Dr Todd’s roasts burn harder cause he’s so chill while he says them 😂
@thestraydog Жыл бұрын
This is absolutely heartwrenching... When my now ex-wife and I got married, it was one of the greatest days I had had so far, I can't imagine that day turning into the worst of my life... That wretched woman deserves everything she gets and more
@2000disneyland Жыл бұрын
I have a relative like Jamie, who never takes responsibility for the damages she causes while drunk. Basically, she’s a blackout drunk and has no memory of her horrible behavior, and doesn’t want to know.
@haydenw.9809 Жыл бұрын
People love using alcohol as an excuse to act wild.
@borncritical4801 Жыл бұрын
Off her
@nrgbunni. Жыл бұрын
I live in a rooming house and there's a lady here right now like that she drinks excessively and mixes the alcohol with prescription pills methadone and heroin does some crazy abusive shit and then when she wakes up the next day she's forgotten everything. If we're lucky someone will tell her what she did and she says a half hearted apology and thinks everything will go back to normal and that we won't be upset with her anymore but alot of the time she doesn't even apologise. 2 days ago she was screaming all day and night abusing people and even assaulted a 52 year old lady drawing blood then she called the cops crying saying she was the victim and the 52 year old attacked her and she wanted to press charges. Luckily we have cctv and there were witnesses otherwise the older lady she attacked would have gotten arrested/charged.
@CityBohoGirl Жыл бұрын
I have a very close friend exactly like that. It’s impossibly sad to watch her continue to exist in a blacked-out state and the atrocious, irresponsible and incredibly dangerous things she continues to do. They don’t pay attention to you, talk in loops, and literally have zero recollection of anything they do. Even sexually. It’s terrifying, really.
@nrgbunni. Жыл бұрын
@@user-AAAA978 she's been shown cctv and audio recordings of some of the things she does and it doesn't make her embarrassed it just makes her very angry.
@rejaneoliveira5019 Жыл бұрын
This is one of the saddest, most infuriating cases I have heard in a long time. I am baffled by her entitlement. I truly hope she gets sentenced and spend time behind bars. Thank you for the analysis, Dr. Grande.❤
@Kangaroojack1986 Жыл бұрын
She needs at least 20 years
@kjh6903 Жыл бұрын
She needs to stay in jail until that bride walks out of her grave !
@Kangaroojack1986 Жыл бұрын
@@kjh6903 her attitude would justify that.
@Clint522797 ай бұрын
Update: On March 1st, 2024, she was released on $150K bond. No trial date had been set at the tine of her release.
@srsusansummers30703 ай бұрын
Good grief
@jakemiller441124 күн бұрын
And he’s has been sentenced to 25 years now
@mimedeiros26 Жыл бұрын
I feel very sad for the husband who lost his wife. Just married and widowed too soon.For the bride's family and friends. This is a horrific tragedy. Prayers for them 🙏🙏🙏😭😭😭
@ALT-vz3jn Жыл бұрын
@juanocampo2262no he was injured. The bride was the only one killed.
@michellestephens4010 Жыл бұрын
Hearing her mother killed a fire fighter almost made me fall of my chair ! The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. Not once did she say how sorry she was , or that one of her victims was still in her wedding dress !! I hope she never gets the chance to ruin another family’s life. My prayers & love go to all of the families that are ruined from her selfish actions. Her parents should have needed to be educated before they had children.