Toddler Discipline

[@IsaReyes-nn9sw]

“Sorry Huddy” “It’s okay” Those 2 sentences took me out. They are so precious

[@medb8882]

So cute, me and my second eldest brother used to fight all the time. It got to the point where I figured out if I ran into my room and put a shoe against the door, the rubber would stop him from barging in 😂😂 good memories tho, we talk about them all the time. Once he hit me with a sliotar and I put a plaster on the bruise, which made him mad for some reason lmao

[@MargueriteFairProductions]

That's a good mom.

[@fifihull4587]

The two phrases melted my heart.what beautiful little humans they are.well done mimma❤❤❤❤

[@aneshawarren7216]

Sentences 💀 but anyway it’s still super adorbs

[@wendysaville8423]

Me too.

[@samuelpotter6919]

Awesome work, i am hopeful this next generation will be kind and understand boundaries

[@sylvia7958]

Unterstand boundaries by broadcasting children, crying children to millions of strangers on the Internet?

[@samuelpotter6919]

Looks like you watched none of the short. Kids who are disciplined through conversation as opposed yelling and physical altercatios will learn boundaries through verbalizing their needs. Do you do that? ​@@sylvia7958

[@dirkdiggler8427]

@@sylvia7958 yes. It’s 2024. It’s a very common income. It’s so important new moms or even older moms, see other moms discipline methods. You don’t have to share a thing hahahahhaa let them make the $$$$ 🥰

[@kyranx602]

NICE FUCKING JOKE BUD

[@samuelpotter6919]

@@kyranx602 who even are you

[@yollyjacobofficial9729]

I love the way mum said "don't push people down. It's general, not only the focus on his brother. Well done mother! I hope they grow up with a good heart❤❤

[@JeramiahFontenot]

I was crying for her because that’s what I did to my baby cousin

[@K.-qc9st]

Raising three little kids and having patience and handling it the way she did shows how good of a parent she is. Amazing mom

[@GrannySweets]

But how is she during the 23 hours and 59 minutes she's Not on camera? Watch the movie, The Truman Show, then decide how children fare being raised with a camera and audience.

[@storyofmylife5979]

@@GrannySweetsain’t no way you’re comparing a movie about a man being trapped on a studio set to a real life few second KZbin short. Y’all will say anything to support a narrative.

[@adararelgnel2695]

It's one tiny clip that she decided was good enough to be online. I wouldn't make judgments about her parenting, good or bad, based on a 1 minute clip.

[@ms.brittany1391]

She has 7 kids

[@RitahName]

I love it when she said, " don't push people that way, instead of ' don't push your brother that way" . In this case, its not only his brother but anyone else. Waw may God bless you 🙏

[@eternallife9786]

​@@seanhughes6697they're probably a little assholes then

[@Sungirl88]

I hope to be a wise mother one day too this is a great example thank you

[@nulifersen7034]

Genau so 👌❤️‍🔥🤝❤️‍🔥🤲🤲🤲

[@nulifersen7034]

👌❤️‍🔥🫂❤️‍🔥🤲🤲🤲

[@eyelavadershine]

❤❤❤❤best mother must be hard 3 brothers. Take good care of yourself mom too❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ashleyg8671]

See when I think of gentle parenting THIS is what I’m talking about. Still very firm, but soft and understanding. Job well done, ma.

[@GoldenLight22]

yes this is what gentle parenting really is, different than no parenting which is what people think gentle parenting is. It just means no screaming or hitting, but talking firmly and kindly

[@TuscaGabriela]

😊😊

[@Getclappedboyeeee]

@@GoldenLight22 so what are you gonna do when your 5 year old kid smacks you in the face when you don’t get them the toy they want. Are you gonna tell them to go on a timeout for 5 min? 🤣

[@annaglass9943]

@@GoldenLight22w

[@eileen3046]

​@@GoldenLight22THIS EXACTLY! You couldn't have explained it better

[@plantmillionsofteees5676]

What a sweet Mother, and beautiful children! May God bless your home & your family ✝️🙏

[@jerrykimmons7399]

Thank you for sharing this!!!! I love that you offer a choice afterward. I always offered choices to my son, so he felt as if he were in control of his world and had some autonomy. "Would you like to put your shoes on NOW or IN THE CAR?" He was GOING TO PUT THEM ON, but control over WHEN was no big deal for ME!!! But BIG for him!!!

[@sloanefrances1189]

Thank you for exploiting your children, not sharing is more like it.

[@zuzanaxyz8866]

This way you teach your kid that he always only has two choices. A or B and that’s it. He is not taught to think in broader terms and possibilities. I know we were told to do this (I know I was), so that the child feels AS IF s/he is in control, but it’s not very usefull for the future, when we should be able to think without these linits. I am not criticizing you 🌸, I was doing this with my two older kids from time to time as well, but I won’t with my youngest one, it’s teaching them to think restrictively without even knowing.

[@shaikhauae-ln1cc]

The way the baby hugged his brother warmed my heart ❤️

[@goodguyaus]

I pretend he's leaning in to whisper, "I'm gonna git you later"

[@blaackberry]

So cute! He wanted to get in on the action 😂

[@DazylinLambert-bo8gq]

Me to ❤❤❤

[@hopeomoregie3416]

Me too so cute!!❤❤❤

[@hananatiyah1268]

@@DazylinLambert-bo8gq❤❤❤❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💟💗😢

[@ranns2805]

This is how I raised my sons. Growing up they have always just had a nice, easy going, respectful, let’s talk it out, kinda personality! Good job, mom.

[@nataliegillmore7436]

She's doing a 1derful mom.

[@user-ll1nc2ru4t]

And good job to you too what a wonderful gift to give the world

[@maryam.asadi97]

Good job to you mama

[@darayy6352]

GOOD JOB TO YOU

[@braelynnmarie8590]

Just because you were abused doesn't mean other kids deserve to be abused too Derek.​@@ponz-

[@daisyborder1199]

This type of parenting would have greatly changed my life . Every parent should watch this a hundred times over.

[@face2lune]

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[@coolben854]

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[@AllisonSherman657]

I keep wondering how people earn money in financial markets, i tried trading on my own made a huge loss and now I'm scared of investing more…

[@face2lune]

@@AllisonSherman657 Understanding your financial needs and making effective decisions is very essential. If I could advise you, you should seek the help of a financial advisor. For the record, working with one has been the best for my finances.

[@AllisonSherman657]

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[@face2lune]

@@AllisonSherman657 I get guidance from *Susan Tori Davis* Most likely, the internet should have her basic info..

[@karendionne2228]

I also appreciated the Mothers tone of voice. It let the child know that this was serious and Mom's not joking around. Great lesson in how to administer proper discipline with hugs all around afterwards.👍🙌

[@juliasnow-xz4kt]

I agree with everything you said, I really do. Now what happens when the child does the same thing a bunch more times and in the same day. That's the reality.

[@battyboifided6629]

Facts ​@@juliasnow-xz4kt

[@TheEijkmanProject]

@@juliasnow-xz4kt It's obvious the kid is aware it isn't right, he is being taught totally decent manners by a mother with a kind and honest heart and a great set of brains. The little tantrum is ignored, not criticized, as a child that age can hardly control his emotions when felt overcome by them, but mom handles everything with respect to herself and every child around her, appreciating good traits, making them aware of bad traits. Only a mother with respect and kindness in her heart and mind would do this. One without would not do any effort to raise the kid as she should, but would fall prey to any mannerisms badly taught to her in her youth.

[@juliasnow-xz4kt]

@@TheEijkmanProject Are you speaking from theory or experience? How many kids have you raised, just curious? There's a reason you see frazzled Moms, Moms who raise their voice or Moms who ignore their screaming child in a store. None of that is good, obviously. I was lucky in that of my four kids only one of them would do things on the sly when I wasn't looking. The others would respond to discipline much like these cute kids, but I also adopted my sister's kids when she died and I also did daycare and there are kids who don't learn lessons the first time, or the second, or the third. They have a stubborn streak or get moody, are young and don't want to share. It's reality. That's all I'm saying. I thought I was such a good Mom because I genuinely didn't have a hard time with my own kids, but when I tried to apply the same rational, talking it out and explaining like this Mom did I didn't have quite the same results and was often left frazzled at the end of a long day of fits and tantrums. (both my sisters kids are ADHD). I stopped judging Moms like I used to after that. Do what works. Every child is different. Start with what the Mom in the video did, but don't be surprised if it doesn't work and you have to move to time outs, taking things away etc...

[@ruckyg3177]

Maybe he accidently pushed in enthusiasm and I would say sonething like be careful, no pushing. But making it a huge issue creates a rejection for him. He is the bad guy and sent to his room. I think it could be handles lighter while still explaining him to be gentle with his brother.

[@swansonchoo]

I love that her emphasis was not punishment, but learning, change, and reconciliation. I love that she didn’t lose her temper and speak out of anger, but spoke firmly, calmly, and lovingly. That’s great parenting.

[@gomezaddams6470]

This comment deserves far more attention and likes❤ The only thing I can see that should be different is a little bit of explanation about feelings. Explaining empathy is really important

[@lhmccool67]

I agree! Her voice was clear and firm, as well as calm and even toned. There was no attempt to shame or I still fear. She also maintained that with Hudson and didn't switch to an overly coddling tone, which can be confusing for children and potentially create a friction between siblings. Great job mama!

[@spittinfireALLNEW]

Wait, this is great but, every kid is not as gentle some kids need a lil more aggression.

[@sybilsadie620]

This is how Supernanny do it Love to watch her videos

[@spittinfireALLNEW]

@1nf3ctedd Not all the time, some times kids develop their own personality and it could be more aggressive then another. This is why parents of many tell you all their kids have different personalities. Even if the parenting style is soft and gentle.

[@harumih.3727]

She is a great mother! "Review and reflect on the behavior" - this is a discipline that many people lack, instead, refusing to admit a mistake, refusing to improve. Human life is a journey of learning, and without review and reflection, you can never learn from "experiences"

[@debracox1049]

This brought me to tears!!! She is a good mother. Letting him decide what he wants to do. These kids will grow up knowing... They were loved!!!

[@edmenfranky9893]

This is what REAL gentle parenting looks like. Setting clear boundaries with your children and still maintaining an atmosphere of unconditional love.

[@kainejoyes2981]

No such thing as 'unconditional love'

[@bryanblandon]

@@kainejoyes2981everyone has their own standards, don’t ask others to abide by yours

[@RuthEsther-nn6qe]

We use the Bible method!

[@chimpouh9402]

Yes there is unconditional love. Actually all love is unconditional. When something it is conditional, it is not love

[@RevealedFilms]

Yea then 5 years later we hear she’s been arrested for abuse of those same children. I don’t trust any KZbin channel that profits from their kids anymore.

[@mariahooper6664]

She has such a calm voice. Very patient. Teaching her children at the same time. Beautiful

[@Venus_baby_18]

I like how it's was calm and assertive but she didn't talk to them like babies. She talk to them like human who are going to be adults one day and need to know now how it ought to be

[@sweng0717]

@@Venus_baby_18 yes and she also wasn’t shouting or raising her voice She simply had a calm and firm tone of voice when addressing them

[@ceeejay9112]

perfect tone, when disciplining and when validating etc also

[@Venus_baby_18]

@ceeejay9112 yesss , goes ti show u can teach kids and discipline them without making them feel like shut abt themselves because really what does that even do. Accept your mistake apologize and move one good mama. No need to go on an on an on this will prevent alot in the future :)

[@Ahbhswrzq9221]

I actually felt the tone to be harsh more than assertive and you can tell the child was scared and felt shamed. I believe the tone should be much lighter.

[@WaldoCarmen]

Incredibly simple. Infinitely important.

[@Cooks-rw9lf]

It makes me so happy to see these siblings could hug each other after a fight, me and my sister and all the other siblings I know can't hug each other. You can see that they love and care for each other so much the way they say sorry and hug. I wish I could do that. A beautiful and great mom with sweet children!❤😢😊

[@diederikjanvantiggelen1075]

'Now give me a hug' is so important. The little child now knows his mother only rejects his behaviour he showed, but not the child as a person. Socialy smart mother.

[@shssddg88]

Was searching for this comment! It's really important. In this way, the child will not be embittered against everyone. Children's psyches are very vulnerable. Therefore, it is necessary to make it clear to the older child that he is also loved, despite his mistakes.

[@babyrne78]

And the "good boy" comment.

[@stevostevo5773]

Hugs are for celebrating after you score a goal and/or girls

[@Nikos169]

Yes never label a child as ‘naughty’ . Focus on reprimanding his/her behaviour .. *Emphasise that it’s the behaviour you don’t like not your child.

[@Nikos169]

Telling your 2yr old 'Give a hug’ is fine. Asking 3-5 yr old ‘What can you do to make your brother feel better?’ is appropriate also. *Encourage your child (3yrs +) to think of a solution themselves

[@vhaydenu]

"sorry huddy." the CUTEST ever!!❤ thx for the likes!!

[@user-mn2ii9vd6w]

Ikr ❤

[@Justicia007]

MELTED

[@margaretgrabill9842]

God bless this beautiful mom for doing the very best for her children 🙏 ❤lovely little family - blessings to all of you❤❤

[@abadahoussem4866]

Supermom❤

[@CameronTucker06]

Ain't it!

[@esthersiima1351]

The run after saying sorry,made him feel a free soul 😍😍😍😍

[@SWIFTIE432]

This is probably the best parenting I’ve seen in a while….. like now every parent just lets them get a away with this kind of behavior and her kids when they grow up will be good and respectful as to all the other kids that do bad things and there parents let them get away with it will grow up to be bratty and if we had more parents like her the world a better place❤❤❤

[@AmosMantyla]

That's the kind of parenting that eliminates narcissism. Good job.

[@gabbysegura7453]

She is a amazing mom to show her kids responsibility

[@debussy842]

@@gabbysegura7453 She's a highly irresponsible mother. I am a single male, 39, with no kids. The reason I am boldly prefacing with that is because what I am about to say is blatantly obvious to all human beings 30 years and over: It is highly inappropriate to film, and broadcast your children like this, in general, but especially for cash. Also, they are so used to being constantly filmed they are not even looking at whoever if filming them. This broadcasting would have been unthinkable 15 years ago but the new generation can not longer distinguish trash. To her defenders, that a mother needs to make a living, how do you think mothers made a living prior to tictok 5 years ago??? The answer: a real job, not posting their children on the internet.

[@ludwigwittgenstein1280]

No it DOESN’T! That’s a physical condition!

[@peepeepoopoo8498]

@@debussy842i totally agree but it’s also showing examples for a good cause it’d be nice if her kids didn’t have to be involved though to get the point across

[@tub-tube7686]

​@@debussy842 you are so right. I am male, 37, father of one Kid. Never ever would I film such a highly emotional situation and load it up. Also this is not how to eliminate narcism. This is narcism at its best. Selling the emotions of your kids on the Internet.

[@CanadaMotors-xk8ym]

This mother is amazing. She knows how to raise children. She communicated with her children. Disciplined, comforted and reassured that she loves them.

[@ekinie3854]

knows how to raise them except for the fact their lives are documented for millions to see...

[@susanbarker2525]

Not my experience of life with kids!!!!

[@susanbarker2525]

Not my experience of life with kids!

[@burntieburntwell7111]

I want you to imagine that other person standing in the room with the camera right on top of those kids and in their faces. And then tell me how the HELL this is “amazing”

[@troythemighty3683]

Almost like she’s done this before. I wonder if those are her first kids she’s killing it as a mom

[@HorrorStoriesFromThe40s]

Now that I’m older I see how important it is to be stern, gentle and loving while parenting. Excellent job Mama Bear 👏🏽❤️

[@BlastOutWEST]

I miss those days so much! My 3 boys are all grown now. How precious 💞

[@annefricker8474]

Firm, fair and reasonable. This is how discipline should be.

[@michaelheery6303]

the Americans in will buy GUNS.

[@conny-zk7et]

but not on camera in social media!!!

[@BryanMetcalf-ld7cb]

​@@conny-zk7etthere are parents who need to see this. Why is it wrong to post this?

[@kermitthefrog5446]

@@BryanMetcalf-ld7cb no, there aren’t. they need to read a book if they can’t grasp such a simple concept.

[@XX-pe4sj]

@@kermitthefrog5446damn you s0und m!serable

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Notice how the youngest boy was comforting his brother when he was crying. That is how you know they are being raised in a discipline yet loving household.❤❤❤

[@Paige-jy6jk]

Beautifully handled being direct firm calm and respectful. This is what I wish people realized was gentle parenting..it’s not permissive. 👏🏻👏🏻

[@nicholeellington4855]

And I like that she said don’t push “people” down. That it’s to learn respect for people and not just family. Nice!

[@cecynay7369]

Man, the self control and sacrifice it takes to be a good parent.. it's so touching. Thank you for your service to this world and your sweet kiddos ❤️

[@livjowen]

Thank you for your kind words and your support ❤️

[@tracygarrison892]

I love how you kids are so kind and respectful. I'm so happy for you because you have kind and respectful kids. I'm going too have a kid I am 8 weeks pregnant I hope my kids are just like yours. I found out my baby's ginger its going to be a baby girl. Ween I was a little kid I wanted to have kind and respectful and honest kids so I hope she is just like that. You kid are also honest. And you are sooo pretty are you are a great person and mother. And also ween I was younger I always wanted to have a baby girl but I am haveing a baby girl I would be also fine with a baby boy but I always wanted a baby girl I am coming a mother I don't have any kids yet but I just wanted to till you that and I subscribe your channel. 😊

[@kaylamccorkell8453]

I'm crying and that is sad bc now he thinks he isn't allowed to play with his brother bc his mum disciplined him

[@afifanec]

​@@kaylamccorkell8453 What? Where did you get that from?

[@85Wright]

​@@kaylamccorkell8453lmao did your brain fart or are you a troll?

[@freetocomment1946]

The way he ran back to his room the second time shows how he was happy and confident that he is loved

[@bianka5824]

saying, 'Don't' to a child gives way for an unhealthy child. you are defying their natural instinct to survive (learn). thx

[@bb7961]

No, it made him feel like he doesn’t deserve love and playtime for a small Mistake. Children don’t know what’s boundary and space

[@SKY031]

no, it shows that being sent to a place with toys isn't punishment, and the kid learned nothing.

[@zoiefinnian3540]

This was plenty for this small child to think about what he had done and apologize for it. That’s all he needs at this age. Parental guidance with love.

[@peaceofmindofpeace1650]

​​@@bb7961 I agree.I feel pain as he runs to his room to sit on his bed. Maybe he accidently pushed in enthusiasm and I would say sonething like be careful, no pushing. But making it a huge issue creates a rejection for him. He is the bad guy and sent to his room. I think it could be handles lighter while still explaining him to be gentle with his brother.

[@anonsmith3459]

PERFECT EXECUTION MOM GREAT EXPLANATIONS/ INSTRUCTIONS. AND YES, "SORRY HUDDY" HUG TOOK ME OUT TOO LOL- SO ADORABLE HOW THE BABY TRIED TO CONSOLE HUDDY TOO 🥰. I LOVED EVERY MOMENT OF THIS. THOSE BOYS ARE SO LUCKY TO HAVE A MOM LIKE YOU & I'M SURE YOU FEEL LUCKY TO HAVE THOSE BEAUTIFUL BOYS. BLESSINGS TO YOUR FAMILY ❤

[@MrJoe6177]

I can’t help myself when I heard him saying “Sorry Huddy”. The way the brothers hugged and reconciled, I would never know how that feels but it’s beautiful, truly.

[@VidaGrijalva]

She is a good mother and sets a good example for those of us who have children, teaching them values and respect in time.

[@nataliaiwaniak8682]

Cute❤❤❤

[@lidip8700]

This is what a strong foundation looks like. I bet she'll not need to discipline them much as they grow older because she did so well as they were younger. And don't you think they'll want to be just like mommy, someday! Some cultures the parents just scream & are out of control. So sad.

[@RichAsher]

Not really isolation is not good for kids

[@blueRosesforme]

She did a great job! Explained without shouting or getting upset. Teaching respect and being kind is so much better. Gentleness is not taught, it is a blessing! I wish more mothers could see this and teach their toddlers kindness and to be caring!

[@toodleloo2253]

And it's so cute how siblings can Forgive each other so quickly!!..Boys need very firm, but kind, boundaries, & she did it SO well for them!!- Kudos!!- :)

[@sandramartino3243]

Then giving him a choice....loved that.

[@T.R.6105]

More Mothers and Fathers...

[@JWK123]

This is wonderful parenting in my opinion. Family is very important. Life is precious and vulnerable. These boys are learnong compassion, love and respect. Love it

[@danielaskew-hargreaves8665]

Amazing work, and incredible patience. The children are understanding how to treat people, empathy, reflection and love love the use of choices as well 10/10

[@smitanikam5648]

So perfectly handled. No shouting on the lil boy , yet your message was very clear to them.

[@AG-yc7vt]

Once they go to school and outside influences start shaping their life, we’ll see if “no yelling” works. Because the bully at school who was constantly yelled at and that is the only way for them to actually change their behavior won’t care what Little Timmy says in a calm demeanor. So Timmy will have to figure out a way to stop the bully in another way that isn’t “having a civil conversation”. And Timmy will learn yelling. Greatest parent in the world, but you can’t keep your kid in a protective bubble 24/7. (Technically you could keep your kid in a protective bubble 24/7. But would you be the greatest parent in the world anymore? Releasing them at 18 or 25 or 30 into the real world after being sheltered and shielded for decades. )

[@AandM8]

@@AG-yc7vtare you suggesting we teach our kids to be the bully because they may get bullied?

[@AG-yc7vt]

@@AandM8 I’m saying no matter how well you parent. Outside influences will throw a monkey wrench into your plans.

[@eileen21]

Her tone of voice used for disciplining was perfect. Way more effective than yelling and screaming.

[@AnnaLee33]

yelling and screaming should't even be an option.

[@markmitchell4400]

I don't know about that, but she did do a GREAT job!!!

[@chokingonflowers]

@@markmitchell4400why would you want to yell and scream and be aggressive towards your children

[@bernardapeguero4442]

This video made me almost cry. ❤ You have very wholsome sons.

[@rexywebster9808]

That's good discipline 👍 That's important in our children's lives today

[@sanjuanwin]

I'm OLD and LOVE THIS! She does it all perfectly: Accountability, modest transfer of displeasure, specific about misconduct, age appropriate consequence, relationship restoration, status quo. GOOD GOOD!!!

[@trrulieeeee]

my concern is that she never asked him why he pushed his brother. it’s possible that he was responding to something inappropriately. he could be getting the message that other people can do bad things to him, and he can’t do anything about it. if that’s the case, he also hasn’t learned an appropriate way to respond when his brother treats him badly. he also may have hugged his mom for the purpose of regaining favor, when hugs should be reserved for authentic love. that’s why i never demand a hug, i only ever ask. she also told him to apologize instead of asking if he wants to apologize, which is bypassing his own moral compass and forcing him to abide by hers instead of his own. if he didn’t want to apologize, she could have explained to him why she would apologize if she were in his shoes, or she can explain how he and his brother will feel if he doesn’t apologize so he can have a better understanding of how to apply the skill in the future. there’s nothing inherently wrong about what happened here, especially when you’re busy, but there are many opportunities for teaching and connection that were missed here.

[@tikkun888]

@@trrulieeeee Вы абсолютно правы! У Вас абсолютно ЗДРАВЫЙ взгляд на ситуацию! Спасибо Вам за мудрость и привет Вам из России! 🙌😊

[@breeze_japanese]

There's no universal textbook. Case by case. Family by family. Individual by individual. What works for her, might not work for others. Also, this is a montage. We don't see what happened between cuts.

[@dreamchaser7177]

​@@trrulieeeeeI used this method with my kids and they are all adults now. They are emotionally stable and know how to treat people as well as how they expect to be treated by others. I guarantee that this mom addresses both sides before making a final judgement.

[@Phogramo]

@@dreamchaser7177no you didn’t, if they’re all adults then you’re a liar. Look at how confused this kid is when they have a camera recording the situation. They did this for views and it’s disgusting.

[@nscales20]

When he said "sorry Huddy" my heart melted. so cute and sweet.

[@patmanpatmanson]

And this is the reason why you guys, women, do that. I think you have the best intentions but you do it because you want to feel something and not because you want to teach the best lecture to them. I think stuff like the woman does in the video makes them weak as a man. I mean what has the other one done? He pushed him down is what she said? I tell you to shame a boy because of being a little bit aggressive makes them weak and is the best way to make them that they never can get beautiful women and make a family. It just makes toxic shame in them.

[@amsjason-mu7tt]

Mother's like that true makes the world a better place..thank you so much... ❤

[@satya_kartik8795]

You are not only growing up a good children, but a good gentlemen. Great Mother,Respects madam😊

[@magorzatamargaret294]

No, she is growing CASTRATED GUYS, who in the future will not know how to act like the real men. NO BALLS, CRYING LIKE BABIES when they are adults. She is deeply indoctrinated by this stupid propaganda which is running around nowadays and which is PLANNED...

[@ChristineCurtis-gc6dd]

Thats called being a mom 👏🙏🏼

[@normacollins3844]

AMEN!!! I didn’t know people these days knew how to do that!! If more parents did these things, teaching their kids right from wrong, there would be more adults that knew how to act and that would teach their children the same!! That way when the children were taken out, like to eat, they wouldn’t act like heathens!

[@karencarter9681]

It takes parents taking the time to explain and showing Love.

[@IMRANKHAN-cy3ez]

Beautiful, Mother is always the best teacher

[@shannonsheehy2438]

I really appreciate that you didn’t tell any of the kids to “Stop crying.”

[@levity90]

This was the perfect combination of sternness and compassion. A lot of parents are way too soft today but she was very clear to him with her tone, choice of words, and eye contact that what he did was unacceptable. She made him understand that there are consequences for bad behavior when she sent him away and allowed him to reflect on his behavior. Then she reassured him that she still loves him and that he can make it up to his brother by apologizing and setting things right.

[@Tesitankgurl]

Either too soft or don't care enough. Alot of the bad kids in our area. Have parents who don't give a shit about the kids. 😢

[@terrihall4638]

I must of watched this 6 times, alot of young parents today could learn so much from this.

[@pratimepersaud2402]

Such a kind mom disciplining kids good ,om ❤

[@davidirvingcpa]

Parenting - real parenting. The most important and rewarding job in the world. Patience, kindness, firmness and wisdom, paying close attention to the child. If I could have anything I want, I would want this for every single precious child on the planet at all times.

[@sarahgoff4795]

Oh she did a perfect! Appropriate amount of time in timeout, repetition of the reason why in terms a child can understand. Love it!

[@sorenludwig3978]

thats totally bs. You cant handle a child like a small adult.

[@darylmorrison6598]

Try that with a kid with ADHD or ODD. Good luck!

[@AG-yc7vt]

@@darylmorrison6598exactly what I was gonna say. That word shizz don’t work with ADHD. They need to be affected by the repercussions. It’s technically a mental illness even though they aren’t acting out 24/7 like some of the more extreme illnesses.

[@miguelkaka1889]

Nah she didn’t kid is gunna be soft as can be when he’s older he started crying more when his mom sent the other kid away your suppose to make your kids tough not little girls crying just cause a feather hit their shoulder

[@valerieickstadt4044]

​@@sorenludwig3978yes you can, what I wouldn't do is make them say sorry, saying sorry means nothing if you don't mean it. But the rest, especially because if the age, is amazing. When this happens with an older kid you can encourage them to think about other solutions in time out and talk with them about it afterwards, but i think that kid is too young for that.

[@audrey8335]

See this is gentle parenting. Talking and explaining, showing love and then allowing them to rejoin the fun. No yelling screaming or anything unnecessary just babies learning to respect boundaries and be respectful to one another ❤

[@belgicavasquez1831]

As a mom, you deserve a medal .Good mom ❤❤❤❤

[@irenemoore444]

UR A GOOD MOM I CAN SEE IT IN UR EYE'S . BOY'S ARE BLESSED WITH A BEAUTIFUL MOTHER. 🌹🙏💙🙏🌹

[@heskehypnotherapy6369]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@jasmineburgess9029]

Hudson saying “you’re ok” was just so precious. Huddy loves his big bro no matter what? This is amazing parenting and the children are just so sweet. Good job mom and dad!

[@aniza0624]

This is how I teach the kids i am looking after when i am still a nanny to them.. i want them to love and respect each other so i did🥰😍 they grownup well and good🙏🏻🙏🏻🥰

[@linnatan8241]

Awesome.i have 3 kids.i hope they can always to put in their heart to say"don,t push people down"

[@Nabisoul28]

It's the best example of loving-kindness and patience. And making the time teach in such a way that their children are not damaged by it. I saw the video and I started crying. It's so wonderful to see someone actually take the time. To love on their kids

[@rain3743]

Exactly. I never had to strike my children. Little ones can understand consequences and time outs and then corrective experiences. Really sweet little brothers. Boys can get super aggressive and it’s sweet to see a Mama take time to patiently teach her children how to be better humans.

[@soniamartin4914]

I wish I had their upbringing. What a wonderful mother. Those children will grow up to be productive, kind and happy adults!

[@3pleSss]

Give me a break. All she did is sent a kid to his room while blasting him in front of everyone for show and likes at his expense. Yea grate mother she is. SMH

[@kasey3210]

@@3pleSssthat’s not why she posted it she posted it to show the effects of proper parenting

[@svetlanamihajlovic7464]

Molim prevod komentara na srpskom..hvala

[@chrissylucas237]

@@3pleSss You obviously don't have children or shouldn't have a child be in your care! This was amazing from a mom of 3 to achieve such respectable results means so much in the moment not for the camera ...you jackass!

[@chrissylucas237]

hope your sterile lol

[@lyndatrones1787]

You're a beautiful brilliant mommy God bless you

[@berkyvalerio4095]

You're a great mom. Discipline while explaining teaches them consequences & right from wrong. Love this! ❤❤❤

[@deborahs2322]

We need more moms like this to eradicate the bullying at schools, social media, and otherwise

[@SJ-ce6rn]

Agree, Moms need to be home to teach right and wrong, with love, understanding and patience.

[@cristinauto]

Moms who make their kids act for likes? 🤦‍♀️what 4 yo says reflect on my behavior? Y’all are lost

[@GivusADurryGronk]

@@cristinautoNobody ever said that he said that. Maybe you should avoid having an opinion until you can at least understand what you are watching 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@cristinauto]

@@GivusADurryGronk 🙄 what kind of mom stops in the middle of disciplining her kids to turn on the camera first? Just stop

[@GivusADurryGronk]

@@cristinauto Lmao could you shift the goalposts any harder?

[@markcarr992]

A rare example of a positive short video. Well done to you the creator 👏 ❤

[@nwamakaezeano4410]

I hope to remember this when faced with the same situation. I pray that I would be emotionally intelligent enough to do the right thing. I hope that I won't be carried away by my own pains and inflict and affect them with negativity. Amen 🙏 This is beautiful to watch but I really pray that I remember ❤

[@ah.7298]

Wonderfully done. Such a great example for someone like me, who hopes to one day be a mother

[@philipplangenbach5534]

I'm a Father of a 6 years old, this made me cry. Good Job. Really good job.

[@akhyasahay310]

I love how people these days are seeing parenting as a important thing. Much love to everyone who is working on themselves to make the next generation better.❤

[@kelliintexas3575]

Yeah, but CLEARLY they are NOT PRACTICING IT. We would not be coming apart at the seams as a country.

[@annataymond9529]

@@kelliintexas3575bro did you not watch the video

[@Evelyn6110]

I’m not crying you are 😢 this is so sweet 🥹

[@paulinaoppongkesewah7384]

I salute you mum👏👏👏👏. Teach a child the way he should go, and when he grows, he'll not depart from it.❤❤❤

[@ZukisaDawnMxathule-ds5ms]

Ncoooo how he said "it's ok" melted my heart. ❤

[@heatherblackburn9537]

😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 I am why did you push him off it's okay he's crying because you that's me what did you do that your mom is the best

[@rebeccalaird353]

Handled perfectly, a great mama x

[@chadmoore1599]

SSO

[@rubygray7749]

He did not show the least smidgen of remorse. He would not look her in the eyes. He knows from prior experience that his misbehaviour is easily dealt with by 5 minutes of sitting in his own room, which is no punishment at all.

[@Kurtmind]

This is powerful parenting right here. Imagine how the world would be if all children had this kind of parents. Wow! ❤

[@kennethyoung6014]

@@millieyinaski8495agreed cause it doesn’t work for everybody

[@antoniogalluccio4213]

Kids can be very happy to play in front of camera and watch themselves again. Let everyone live their own life. Fpr this stupid privacy reason one day in the UK they will arrest you if you take a picture of a kid that's not yours! Not everyone does things for bad reasons

Ffs, it's common sense. THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE NORMAL, not some outlier

[@stevostevo5773]

It would be more flowers and same gender lovers

[@Infamous_B_C]

Taken over by the neighboring country.

[@From_around_the_way]

You’re an outstanding mother💕my girls are 20 and 24. I know a great mother when I see one🫶🏽keep up the great work boo🤍

[@rushatarwarabridsobol9601]

The mother teaches her son very great way how to be nice to others ❤

[@jennifercigainero3739]

Yesssssss Momma!!!!! And that’s how we raise productive citizens, honorable adults, and just overall wonderful people!

[@darrylmatthews5184]

You can’t be serious!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@michaelirvin4555]

You mean getting your husband setting up a phone and taking a video and then you post it. That’s how you raise kids lol

[@IMPORTGUY15]

LMFAO seriously

[@mirzetklinac794]

That's how you raise a simp not a man

[@Lakingsfan140]

@@michaelirvin4555I can tell you have never had good parents.

[@user-uj8xy5my6s]

this wont heal the pain in my heart when i was being abused for tiny things and mistakes , but it is healing my heart that moms are being so supportive and loving to their kids..

[@leedoesntreallyknow]

what an incredible mom and adorable kids ❤️ they're gonna be amazing people later, that's for sure!

[@newsomesunlight7050]

Precious mom, teaching how to play correctly & be respecting others! God bless your family & your husband!

[@lah_bang2179]

This kind of woman deserves to become a mother of dozens! Thank you for helping making the new generation better ❤

[@johnnydarnell4830]

😂😂

[@irfanalim1561]

Ur the calmest mom I ever have seen

[@uzairafridi5589]

When the younger one said it's okay, it just melted my heart. He is such an angel ❤️😘

[@theresakerr7206]

That was so excellent. You covered everything perfectly. You explained things beautifully and gently, you were down at their eye level, you sent him to his room for an age appropriate amount of time as a reasonable punishment, you had positive, loving reinforcement, you had him explain to you the reason for the punishment to ensure his understanding, you had him apologise to and hug his brother, and you gave him the choice to continue playing on his own or come out & play. Everyone was happy, no hard feelings by anyone, including your viewers. I highly commend you and your life-teaching methods. You're outstanding. I can't think of how you could have done better. You're raising some wonderful kids who will go on to bring your teachings to their children, friends and/or coworkers to help bring about a beautiful future. Thank you.

[@teknci9925]

I remember the days when dogs were trained.

[@jessyejames7905]

Best way to teach your child. Let them tell you what they did wrong. Then you know they have learned. I do the same thing. Love it. Your a great mom and your kids are amazing. ❤

[@tur74d56]

True but kids do lie a lot

[@megv7481]

​@@tur74d56 this is different, the situation happened in front of the parent so they know that their mom knows and they cannot lie. why would they? also this gives them a chance to explain if something else was bothering them like "he pushed me first!' or "I didn't push, he tripped!" clears up the situation. always give kids a chance to talk

[@ders972]

​@@megv7481the punishment was reflecting and reviewing.... She almost had it.... Everything she did was great except there were no actual consequences. It'll be a rude awakening in society for him when there are still consequences after reflection and apologizing

[@ders972]

​@@megv7481normally I would never tell someone how to treat their own children but she is posting this like a smug tutorial. She needs humility.

[@pamblackley2771]

I raised two boys and I enjoyed them so much. Always discipline and love.❤️ never anger

[@jenguerinnn]

Well done! There's a difference between letting kids run wild and teaching them nicely - without yelling - how to be responsible

[@annamarielewis1853]

Love the caring way she disciplines!! So important and her kids will be happy people!!

[@carolinewilson8048]

Yes.

[@lidip8700]

Momma's physical touch affirms her words. She gets on their level, is looking at them directly, in full control & speaks clearly & non-emotional, so the boys understand. THESE PARENTS ARE RAISING LEADERS.

[@Gordon59]

Great mum ❤

[@georgiacavanagh3934]

I feel so proud of myself!! Iv found myself using thses techniques and i naturally treat my dayghter this way now alot more than i used too. Videos lile this used to make me feel like a bad mum because i found it quite mind blowing and hard to have this attitude when i feel so overwhelmed and would tend to raise my voice or ramle about her choices, but it does gets easier mummies and it does work to have this attitude with your babies of all ages❤❤❤

[@csaltz59]

More Parents need to be like this, INSTEAD of yelling and screaming at their children !!

[@jessicareyes5266]

Yes. We do.

[@YesThings]

only on camera 😂

[@keishavaughn7546]

@@YesThingsyep

[@Empress422]

Why does your comment seem like you're yelling at others with the explanation points??

[@autumnhomer9786]

🎀Some people have not been taught another way. Don’t be judgmental.🎀

[@miriferbuendia4630]

More moms like you. Better citizens we will have and better society too. God blessings the good parents!

[@eugenevisser2187]

🙏🏿🫶🏿💯💯💯💯💯

[@rajeshdadhe6246]

Ohhh I love your parenting God bless you and your family ❤

[@user-qh3xq2dc5f]

💖I love this. The constructive criticism and calm reprimand is a refreshing change from what alot of other types of parents do. No yelling. No threats or acts of violence to intimidate a child into correcting negative behavior. It all starts at an early age, and constancy is key. Good job, mom!🥳😇

[@imonlydancingsal1509]

A breath of fresh air to see how compassionate discipline is a win win all round. Without resorting to the scary, impatient, aggression I see in so many parents. We need a licence to drive a car, but NO licence to be a parent. But this is the most important role in the world. People need to be taught, shown, and to have standards, if there is to be hope for the future.

[@pamelameadows9717]

I love the way the baby brother came up and hugged the middle child to comfort him.