Tony Tells Carmela That Bobby Was Killed - The Sopranos HD

Tony Tells Carmela That Bobby Was Killed, The Sopranos HD

[@Thor_Odinson]

"Sil is in the hospital" "what is it?" "It's a big building with patients, but that's not important right now'

[@stephentierney696]

Thats so good

[@jessallen7756]

And dont call me Shirley

[@Jargolf86]

R.I.P Leslie Nielsen... the greatest.

[@holidayeveryday550]

Nice

[@acz51088]

@@holidayeveryday550 yes yes I remember I had lasagna

[@theprofessional155]

Why is the mafia after Tony ? He told meadow he wasn’t involved with them .

[@simonandsimbagaming]

He's in waste management, they just assumed he was mobbed up.

[@me6271]

They're just playing. There is no mafia

[@NickWonderworker]

SPOILERS: we find out later that he was lying when he said that.

[@mickymac6571]

😎😆

[@punani_slayer4209]

no such thing as the mafia. Those are all paid actors for Chris's new movie

[@kevinfleming7038]

Wow. Shocking that someone would want to kill Tony. Carmella must have had no idea this could happen to a waste management employee.

[@LILCHEESE99]

Adolf chan im... gonna slap you

[@JamesJohnson-nm5pu]

Lmao

[@ggff3761]

Kevin Fleming I’m in waste management, everyone automatically assumes your mobbed up, ITS A HURTFUL STEREOTYPE!!

[@patrikpatriksson]

Gg Ff Its offensive and least of all I want you to perpetuate it.

[@dsgb1981]

Mob wives know, they always know

[@Nonaggress]

It makes sense Rosalie is so casual about the prospect of a mob war. The worst has already happened to her. She has nothing left to dread. She has nothing left to lose.

[@NotClayMerritt]

Precisely. She can go on living without a care in the world. Even if Tony dies, she knows Carmella will still be there. The worst has already happened to her. She lives the rest of her life as if she were oblivious to the world.

[@furbabydaddy5604]

And she was on lots of medication by then.

[@opusepynomus9995]

Rosalie still has a daughter I think.she only appeared at Jackie Jr funeral

[@Nonaggress]

@chantu mantu the cost of that mindset is also quietly losing the will to live.

[@paulcanis6297]

most excellent

[@chrisbeddows7099]

When at war everyone must wear black leather jackets...that's the rules

[@BreakingBadFan2008]

My favorite comment

[@juandotcom2]

🤣🤣🤣

[@f.boogaloospook2318]

Now i know why claude from gta 3 have that kind of outfit

[@chrisbeddows7099]

@die hard hahaha

[@meschachhorne7407]

The Jacket!!

[@mightymacdiesal12]

Rosalie was a straight soldier. She knew the deal without being told. Meanwhile Carm is panting and hysterical.

[@KCgrunge]

good catch

[@johnnyoldenjr.]

Carmella was always dramatic about every situation

[@DCFelix67]

She had a right to be dramatic about this one.

[@brutal_chud]

Like her daughter who was the only child of any mobster to independently realize and ask her father directly about it? Maybe you'd be better off in the comments under a Grey's Anatomy video or something, Justin

[@guusjeachterbuurt7592]

rosalie aprile is the original mob wife no one got shit on here i love her

[@davidu9904]

Deleted scene analysis from 2 years ago on r/thesopranos: "The first time I watched this scene, I mostly got the surface level stuff - the dynamic between Tony and Carm. Tony explains to Carm that the family will have to 'lam it for a while, since NY is systematically eliminating high-ranking members of the NJ crew. She can't run away from this, or deny it, or push it to the back of her mind. The risks of her husband's occupation are now in full force. She knows people will die. I started thinking, why is Rosalie even in this scene? What's the point of her being here when Tony and Carmela are having this convo? Then I noticed how the camera cut back to Rosalie during T + C's conversation, and what she's doing when the camera cuts to her. As Tony is giving Carmela the details of the situation, Ro' is sitting down, smiling, and going through old photographs. Not a care in the world. I think the reason Rosalie is here during this conversation is to contrast Carmela's current predicament with Rosalie's situation. Carmela is scared. She has to leave her home and go into hiding. But Rosalie is all smiles, reminiscing. She doesn't have a mobster husband anymore, or a wannabe-gangster son, or a mobster boyfriend. They're all gone. There's no risk to her anymore. She's already lost everything, so she doesn't have to worry about going into hiding, or concealing stolen cash, or the eventual phone call that her husband was arrested/killed. She has already suffered through the scenario that all mob wives fear the most. The only way for Carmela (or someone in Carmela's position) to achieve happiness and eliminate the fears from happening...is for them to actually happen. It's only once you've lost everything that you have nothing more to lose, that your anxieties are eliminated and you can enjoy the small pleasures that you are left with. That's what Rosalie represents in this scene."

[@Stonewall2]

Spot-fucking-on. Thanks for this

[@Lesha126r]

Very observant. The sacred AND the propane

[@tripslft]

Very insightful. Well said!

[@marlborordeci]

@@Lesha126r im ded

[@dukes1993724]

The show writers were brilliant. Great pickup on whoever pointed this out.

[@CaptBrightside89]

"He's gonna leave the house". The delivery of that line is GOLD

[@markoman5267]

That's a scene I would have liked to have watched.

[@Saucedo1828]

@@markoman5267 that is a scene lol he basically throws AJ around the room to get him to pack

[@Saucedo1828]

@@markoman5267 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qXLXoqmYZ5V8h5I

[@markoman5267]

@@Saucedo1828 Yet one more reason to watch it again.

[@joejohn.]

and AJ's foot catches an xbox cable or something, and everything comes crashing out of his closet lol

[@sabresthoughts5407]

Rose was the better mob boss wife.

[@bornfromforeign]

If she was better mob biss wife why her kids killed

[@Bonks55]

@@bornfromforeign lmao huh?

[@thevampirecielphantomhive2342]

Rose? I think you mean Rosa (Rosalie Aprile)

[@unclepalo]

Thebadest because Jackie jr. was a fuckin idiot

[@Kayer713]

@@bornfromforeign wife not mom lol. And this was after her husband died so they fell apart

[@koseisan]

"Bobby's dead" "The guy who beat you up?"

[@Jsimms1324]

“Aww sunnuvabitch!”

[@flightofthebumblebee9529]

Actually Bobby kicked Tony's ass. Clearly.

[@MichaelGiordano777]

"Under the Boardwalk"

[@AndyCigars]

If Tony hadn’t stubbed his toe on that shinebox, Bobby would have been the one on his back.

[@deathrager2404]

@@AndyCigars all i know is tony never had the makings of a varsity athlete.

[@madpop17]

The fat dude driving - loyal to the end

[@Blackkey034]

madpop17 he was the dude who capped tony with a basopka

[@AQUAPHREESH193]

Dark-Key whats a basopka lol

[@MosMoney187]

MatchesMalone yo did u mean Bazooka? 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bearpayton34]

madpop17 how did the driver die?

[@ironhillstraining3572]

Looks like that one cenobite in hellraiser with the glasses

[@ARTIST.EVEREST]

Why did they cut out the part when AJ comes down the stairs on a piece of plywood?

[@jessestinson3560]

He broke his tail bone so I was very confused to

[@thomasobrien4667]

Cos the plywood was a more interesting character than aj

[@Blondie727]

🤣Tony dragging him out of bed was funny enough. At first, I thought it was a bit harsh however Tony needed AJ to “man up” & help Carmella. It was no time for a pity party. “Owww!!! My tailbone!” 😂

[@didimean]

That plywood was a great character - wish they did more with it

[@jasonkoch3182]

Phil didn’t do 20 years so AJ could leave the house on a piece of plywood.

[@RonMotta1972]

I love Rosalie in this scene. "Is there anything I can do...or maybe I should just leave?" You can take the wife out of the mob but you can't take the mob out of the wife.

[@brennanc4321]

I think it's because she had nothing to loose in it no worry about having a phone call telling her Jackie Sr is dead.

[@umkemesic]

Tony nodding his head was funny.

[@red2977]

@@umkemesic yea I laughed because he was nodding soo emphatically

[@MB-fo2sk]

​@@brennanc4321Nor her Jackie Jr. for that matter!

[@alexgruzglin4239]

and she left the series, too. TBH I always waited for her arc, either something good or something bad should've happened to her. She still felt significant, after her travel with Carmella in France, romance with the young guy, her refusal to talk about her losses... Instead she just....left the series.

[@seekeroftruth101]

I'm absolutely blown away by James Gandolfini's acting. He's so dam convincing. Edie Falco is tremendous too but James takes the cake in this scene.

[@tarikrouwassi1852]

He's so good that he almost convince me to leave my house for a more secure place :) What a great actor!!! R.I.P

[@seekeroftruth101]

@@ikilledthemoon Wow, how original and so incredibly funny you are.

[@kH1laDi]

Phenomenal actor.

[@jlongobardy1612]

Their fight in the pool house at the end of season 4 is the first time I've been taken aback-- floored, even--by the acting on a television show. Both are impressive in these particular roles.

[@TobaccoRoadAI]

He is so missed great actor

[@imonit1177]

We lost James Gandolfini way to soon. Truly a gifted actor. His range was incredible. A lot of the time it was like he wasn't acting at all. It's like he was living it for real. The degree to which he could transition emotions from moment to moment in a single take is something you can't teach. You kind of just have to be born with a feel for it.

[@Vasily_dont_be_silly]

Also the way he transformed through the seasons... In season 1 he was a loveable goof. In season 6 he was a selfish prick who only cared about himself and sacrificed anyone else. Even his appearance showed that, the look, the demeanor. There was no warmth left in his eyes even. Brilliant

[@Rockhound6165]

His breathing alone should have gotten an Emmy nomination.

[@acerothstein4755]

Oh please, way too much credit. He was a heroin addict and loser in real life.

[@imonit1177]

@@acerothstein4755 Personal problems or not he was an elite actor

[@drewatson6816]

@@acerothstein4755 ohhhhhh!

[@nickp9910]

To those who think Carmela was the innocent wife, listen to what Tony said. "They don't touch the families, you know that." She was the best of them, and although she didn't know about the gory details, she was no innocent lamb. Heck, even the kids knew.

[@jonnybirchyboy1560]

Don’t give me that babe in the woods routine Karen

[@danielueblacker9118]

maybe her Priest of Flurio should have came back to help her.....

[@desireandfire]

The point of the series was that none of the characters are good. Many are bad but many are also morally grey

[@BoqPrecision]

All you need to do, is look back at the lack of concern at the news of Bobby's death.

[@trippiechris1852]

So? Am i suppose to atone for what my dad or spouse did? Fuck no. Knowing your family is involved in something doesnt make you guilty. The dumbest shit ive heard all day

[@_titan83]

"maybe on a piece of plywood but hes gonna leave" I found that line to be so hilarious

[@GothGfGG]

I scrolled looking for someone to mention it, such a good line and phenomenal delivery

[@joem8751]

"Bobby's shot, Sil's in the hospital." "what happened?" "A couple of three things."

[@jjjilani9634]

Could be several things. You seem like having trouble understanding English. Listen carefully

[@imcallingjapan2178]

@@jjjilani9634 "Sahk our kahks?"

[@jjjilani9634]

@@imcallingjapan2178 take English lessons. Then watch what he said, he said "could be several things " but you heard different. Japanese don't understand English but why watch something you don't understand? Watch Japanese TV drama instead.

[@imcallingjapan2178]

@@jjjilani9634 Lol, stop embarrassing yourself, kid.

[@peterdarker1]

@@jjjilani9634 You sound reallllllllly clueless right now

[@tomservo5347]

I noticed the picture of Rosalie and Carmela with the cut outs of them in royal garb-nice touch by the producer showing their wealth and 'royalty' status is really nothing but an illusion that can end in a flash-just like the picture captures. The forced smiles and the whole acting bit of them trying to be 'normal' wealthy wives when they really know the filth and dirt that enables all of it.

[@justintime5378]

James Robert that was deep very good

[@danielueblacker9118]

life is such, young then too soon old.

[@nickwood8762]

Nice catch!

[@vj9988]

Very observant, Tom. The sacred and the propane.

[@tomservo5347]

@@vj9988 Malapropisms galore.

[@rafaelmolinari]

Season six was dark...

[@chrisd2051]

Rafael C i know and I love how the series went from bright and light hearted to dark and scary/depressing.

[@jerry85g7]

The total opposite of season 1

[@jerry85g7]

@CHUCHITO624 _ Pauly gave NY the ok on Tony

[@mrsanatra1]

@@jerry85g7 How do you know that?

[@jerry85g7]

@@mrsanatra1 Look at the last episode

[@AlexForzano]

Carmela worried about AJ leaving the house, as if he had a choice lmao

[@christiancoates6505]

Forzano Productions He's gonna leave the house.

[@devinlabuda5713]

Even if we gotta stuff him in his own shine box he's gonna leave the house. (I've become one of those guys... Damn....)

[@tomblah]

Devin Labuda it takes a varsity athlete to avoid becoming one of those guys...

[@SiccDeville]

i would have cleared out and not told AJ.

[@littlea5111]

The way tony smiles in anger talking about beating the shit out of aj until he can't move anymore and putting him on a piece of plywood and taking him out of the house

[@mohannadshadid205]

To me, the most confusing character in the show is Carmella. I can never figure where she stands, her husband is a psychotic murderer yet the biggest issue she has with him is that he constantly cheats on her.

[@jge9394]

As long as that money keeps rolling in

[@guusjeachterbuurt7592]

shes a gold digger alright but at the end shes ride or die

[@oldenvye6432]

Matters of the heart trump all.

[@Kagemusha08]

He's a killer but she wants him to be HER killer, not some other skank's. I imagine that this is pretty common thinking among the wives of crime figures or political tyrants.

[@mohannadshadid205]

Wonderfully put.

[@Scottdrruryiphone]

A gifted director. Tony gives the grim news to Carmela. The scene pans to Mrs. Aprile looking at a goofy vacation photo. Reinforces the state of bliss from which Carmela just emerged. This show is quality on 50 levels.

[@Fivestarman87]

Great point. Rosalie doesn’t have to worry about such things anymore - Being a mob wife comes with perks, like lavish vacations. It also comes with the real possibility that at any moment you have to drop everything a run to a safe house. Carmela has her world swing from carefree to crashing down in an instant. For Rosalie, the worst has already happened, and she is free to continue happily reminiscing about her vacation.

[@Lazyguy22]

Also, the picture is of Carmela as Marie Antoinette, the mega-wealthy wife of a "boss" who was murdered.

[@Scottdrruryiphone]

I did not know that. @@Lazyguy22

[@bryancurry5472]

"Bobby's dead... shot Sils in the hoshpital" "What happened??" "I don't know could be sheveral thingsh"

[@toptenguy1]

Probably a couple of black guys.

[@danielueblacker9118]

If Jackie Jr's Fatha was alive this would not have happened.

[@Mr.Gervasi]

You good troll, like me

[@TheFiresloth]

Clearly, Bobby shot through himself to hit Silvio, with his mass diminishing the shock.

[@Benizzle08]

Could also be a couple or tree things...

[@matt96920]

I love how Tony nods to "or maybe I should just leave?"

[@chrisw8741]

Matt M I never noticed that.

[@mikewellwood1412]

Ever the gentleman.

[@johnnyoldenjr.]

Carmela is so dramatic like she doesnt know that tony is a mob boss

[@johnnyoldenjr.]

Jared Ellis how many funerals did carmela go too. She was always worried the whole series. Now that its happening she's acts like she doesnt know who tony is hes a mob boss.

[@feeltheillinois]

but that's exactly why she's so worried. because she knows precisely who he is and what could happen. she's been watching her potential future in the deaths of everyone around her for years. she should be afraid

[@johnnyoldenjr.]

feeltheillinois she's been afraid the whole series

[@rubamann]

But that's how these mafia broads are like. They know what their men do for living, how "they kill each other" as they put but at the same time they think that life will not knock on their doors at some point. Look at those broads who sued Sammy the bull Gravano for killing their fathers who were in the mafia as well. They live under denial hole.

[@shregory36]

Kommandant Franz hi furio

[@matty86]

Does anyone else feel that the Soprano residence was its own character on the show? Always stood out, even though it never had lines.

[@Sernival]

It was memorable

[@illiterateno2]

I wish they would have done more with it.

[@JR-wd7pw]

Not as good as Uncle Philly's talking house though!

[@hutch1197]

Same with Satriale's, Melfi's office and the Bada Bing. All of those settings were characters, in my opinion.

[@darnellmajor9016]

Many films and shows are strategically structured that way because it builds on the viewer's emotion while driving it at the same time. In other words, if you felt grounded watching the Sopranos from beginning to end then that's why. Atmosphere is used to communicate with the viewer without talking down to them.

[@Johnnywiseify]

I love how quick Tony's facial expression changes when he says "on a piece of plywood, but he's gonna leave the house"

[@hals9631]

I’ll give Tony one thing, he’s a survivalist. He survived a lot of people. Only Paulie is left ahead of him.

[@korawitbuttramee618]

Paulie might be a tone-deaf, selfish idiot, but you gotta give it to him, his instincts are vey sharp when it comes to saving his own skin.

[@bigdoinks69]

Patsy one of my favorite characters is still ahead of him.

[@krokodil7057]

It's pretty easy to outlive your friends if you kill a good majority of them

[@me6271]

He survived because he's the protagonist, in real life he would've been whacked by the black guys or in one of the car accidents

[@thouzer47.58]

Paulie and Patsy are the ones who had him whacked. At least Paulie did. Look it up. There's crazy evidence. Especially since Tony finds out no one gives a fuck in slow mo. New York was willing to put Paulie in charge to take out Tony.

[@alexjames4770]

“Families don’t get touched, you know that” *Flashes back to when Junior and Tony happily reminisced on the couch about DiMaggio beating the wife of Lenny to death with a baseball bat Bc her husband sold drugs*

[@evam7431]

I love the photo of Carmela as Marie Antoinette. This show is really good at including details like that without it feeling pretentious or on-the-nose

[@ngmmngw9027]

Keep reaching

[@takerdust]

"let them eat Gabagool"

[@tockita]

I loved that reference! It says so much with in just one second!

[@purehyperbole5727]

"She should know by now," - Tony showing so much care for his sister!

[@dustonlindeman5245]

Edie Falco's ability to play such a self-righteous character. Proves her amazing talent.

[@chirsmatthew5633]

This episode and the last episode managed to show how terrible a war in the mob really is. People get killed in minutes and began to disappear. Not only that but the FBI wasn't that far from Tony's head neither. The ending of this episode it truly scary than any horror movie could ever hope for. Tony sits in the dark with his gun in hand waiting to walk through and kill him.

[@Fade9d9]

"He's gonna leave the house" is delivered perfectly

[@rubberchix]

this was the scene that really made me feel the whole empire was crumbling past any point of recovery

[@paulcarlsen5787]

0:49 is so chilling to me. By the end of the scene we know she is able to hear the full conversation so this cut to her smiling is just showing she’s so numb to news like this after all she’s been through.. makes you wonder how much shit went down when Jackie was acting boss

[@StepUpMedia039]

Rosalie was a good person and a good friend. She never for one second enjoyed the fact or rubbed it in. Carmella was her dear friend even if she had to put her in her place during their vacation. She overcame the death of her husband and the horrible death or her 22 year old son. She came back strong and happy and endured it all and now was genuinely sorry for Carmella and Tony and wanted to be there for them. She kept it brief and honest. Rosalie was a real one.

[@KRS2000]

With the loss of her husband and son, I wonder what she was thinking when her brother-in-law Ritchie simply disappeared.

[@KingTriton1837]

Bobby was one of my favorite characters. He really had a good heart, despite being in organized crime. He cared for people and it showed.

[@scyorkshire2496]

Never understood how he even got made without ever killing someone or "making his bones" as they say.

[@bob494949]

Yeah, except for being an mobster and an accessory to murder, he was a great guy!

[@KingTriton1837]

@@bob494949 a mobster? Accessory to murder?! Noooooo! Ya don't say!!! I thought this was a show about loan sharks and strippers! 🙄 fortunately, the writers clearly knew how to make the characters multi-dimensional.

[@danielueblacker9118]

not after he capped that kid, he was a killer like the rest. Janice was the only one with guts to end Violence against women when she did the job Tony should have done before. Then how romantic where did you bury him, Tony said on a hill with lots of grass....

[@sheilaburns8977]

@@danielueblacker9118 You have to love Janice; she was definitely her mother's daughter. PEACE.

[@KillFace4President]

Tony sounded more and more like Peter Griffin as the seasons went by

[@TheRosyCodex]

Gee Carm, it's just like that time I met Gary Cooper in Albuquerque

[@lordfatcock]

Hey carm.... ... Direhea Nyehehehehehehehhhh

[@admiralsemmes6939]

Throw in heavy breathing

[@ecb1979]

I can no longer unhear this.

[@robertusthemac]

POW! Right in the kisser!

[@q1w2e3r4t5y6i8]

You'd think Carmela would be more devastated when hearing about Bobby's death.

[@O.G.H.]

abdulmohsen almilli She cares more about her own ass. Fucking scifusa

[@stueybabcock198]

She was as much of a sociopath as Tony.

[@allgoldproductions]

I'd say she was appropriately shocked/upset at the news. What's she supposed to do, roll around on the floor in a heap of tears? Not like it was her brother or something. For all we know she might have thought he was a sucker for marrying Janice and figures he's better off.

[@billymarino4452]

@@allgoldproductions Not to mention that it's not like she has time to mourn Bobby right at that moment, even if she wanted to. She knows Tony's got a target on his back and that's priority number one.

[@ironyuppie2089]

Carmella wasn’t all that close with Bobby, or even Janice for that matter. She pretty much just tolerated them because Janice was Tony’s sister, but never went out of her way to visit them or get too close.

[@philipdraper7284]

The Sopranos is SO layered. Am I overanalyzing the photos of Carmela as a French Revolution era queen/monarch in that scene? Symbolism for a life of decadence as mob wife folding up in the finale?

[@hutch1197]

Not at all. Every single detail on this show had a purpose.

[@JWhy851]

You all reach too much lol

[@knightsonofjack]

@@JWhy851 so you think it was just included for no reason

[@JWhy851]

@@knightsonofjack shut up

[@carlrosa1130]

This is actually a classic form of communication during an emergency. One person (either male or female) focuses...and the other person becomes 'The Riddler' - question after question without taking action. One person focuses, one person folds.

[@persona-non-grata]

This happened at Christmas once when my mom passed out and did a header off the floor. My sister was medical power of attorney and she was there with us. My dad and I sprung into action and stabilized her neck. I checked and made sure she was alert and oriented X 4 (not an EMT but have some knowledge). I spent 10p to 4a driving to and from hospitals on Christmas. Meanwhile, my sister had a panic attack and shuttered herself in her room; and made her husband carpool with me to and from the different hospitals. My mom removed her as medical power of attorney the next month...

[@EarthboundinAdrock]

Edie Falco is a great actress. Went from happy and laughing to worries and scared. She turned that on like a switch.

[@deathrager2404]

worry about that income that golddiggin hooah

[@danielueblacker9118]

Talented for sure.

[@InfamyTrip]

@Jabs Jabs Yeah, Melfi is a lot more of a femme fatale, cold, professional and tempting. Carmela on many occasions was the heart of the show. Edie Falco was superb casting.

[@mathhomework4209]

@@InfamyTrip Who did Melfi kill now?

[@nocoastljared598]

One of the best ever

[@vandibox]

"Where should I go? Where are you gonna go?" "The house you just bought, fifty grand out the bird feeder remember?"

[@flightofthebumblebee9529]

40 grand in da shtock market. Id ask for my piece but wait, der's nuthin.

[@thor697]

And don't deny it!

[@stevenhancock2822]

She acts like butta wouldn't melt in her shinebox.

[@keiko909]

@@stevenhancock2822 your entitled to shit!

[@jordanreid9654]

Tony's nodding at the end is HILARIOUS!!!

[@brionbraziel7968]

Absolutely...

[@just_ethanj02]

"He's gonna leave the house" LMAO

[@katana2k]

I just noticed the dynamic between Tony and Carmella, how Tony's not really understanding Carm. Their communication is askew. It starts when she figures out that Tony is the target. "You mean they're after you!" she says, and he says "you and the kids go, I'll be somewhere else". She was afraid for Tony, but Tony treats her as though she's afraid for herself. He assures her that she won't be in the line of fire. She panics and says "Oh my God!" and he says "Families don't get touched. You know that!" and she gives him a look. She's realizing that he doesn't understand why she's upset. She asks about the details. "Where am I gonna go? Where are you gonna go?!". He tells her where she's going but not where he's going. This annoys her, because her real concern is for his safety. He figures that she is annoyed by the inconvenience, and becomes angry, and suggests she go to a hotel if she doesn't want to go to the other house. This shows the fundamental flaw in their relationship. There is evidence to suggest that Carmella believes in, and feels, genuine, romantic love for Tony (and other characters), but Tony, doesn't understand it or believe in it. He characterizes Carmella's attachment to him as something else. Something that's purely self-serving. She's there for the big house, the clothes, and the life of leisure and luxury, he tells himself. He attributes all of her motivations to material ends. He demonizes her to justify the way he treats her, and she lives in denial because leaving him with just the kids is too hard.

[@randallmadison9910]

Truth in your analysis. But, Carmella did like the lifestyle provided through Tony's blood money. A psychiatrist told her the same early in the show. Just before Tony arrived, she and Rose were reminiscing over their trip to Paris. She was proud of Meadow attending prep schools and going to Columbia. But, that doesn't mean she didn't have some love for Tony other than materialism, but materialism was a big factor in her staying in the marriage.

[@byrongammonbyrongammon9937]

Bobby Bacala’s kids lost both parents. Very tough. Gandolfini owned this role. It seems like he was ‘behaving’ when playing Tony Soprano and he was acting when being interviewed as James Gandolfini.

[@joesomenumbers]

I like how in other fiction hitmen are like, physical supermen but in the Sopranos they're all like 500 lbs

[@charliemancuso6980]

If this was real life, Tony’s driver would’ve been backed in to the driveway, eyes on the front. Still the best show ever though.

[@PeterNibbs]

True

[@persongrope]

theres these things called mirrors yannoo... and wouldnt that make him more visible while sitting in the car?

[@ricosuave8123]

True dat.

[@rogergarrison4271]

@@persongrope he's gotta wide open view. I'd take that advantage over having to take glances in a mirror any day.

[@persongrope]

@@rogergarrison4271 Well enjoy getting blasted as soon as the house is in view, theres total visibility of the driver/passenger through the front windshield. Where as you cant see jack sht through the back from the outside.

[@Twi66e]

I love the big twist in the last season when we find out Tony is in the mafia. Genius writing 👌

[@TrevyTrev-andTheFunkyPets]

You just spoiled the whole show for me, Guess I’ll watch Breaking Bad again.

[@polohenry4666]

​@whitebread940 yea, luckily he's just a school teacher. Should be easy watching

[@ericconnor8419]

That is not true, just because he was in waste management you assume he was mobbed up. It's offensive, he is a legitimate businessman.

[@davidwilliam9681]

Actually I wouldn't trust Phil to respect the rule about going after families. If Phil had the opportunity to hurt one of Tony's kids, I don't think he'd lose much sleep over it. He'd find a way to justify it in his mind. I remember when Phil threatened Christopher's mother.

[@danielueblacker9118]

20 years in the can and used only 1 toilet paper sheet.... a Man's man.

[@Mariote777]

Chrissy's mom had real nice legs... 😈

[@MyNamesSloanMalone]

@@danielueblacker9118 grilled cheese on the radiatuh

[@ronoccc]

Great upload! Been looking for this clip, amazing scene and acting as usual from this pair.

[@ronoccc]

The war was supposed to be over. Remember he had that sitdown with New York in that warehouse with Butchie. He gave him the okay to kill Phil and after that they were supposed to have moved on.

[@thatlsk]

Bill Patrick Jones who said he was killed?

[@TonySopranoBoss]

Thanks

[@FSKgolaso]

Tony shaking and nodding his head at the end is hilarious

[@tacticalcrusader3709]

And appropriate. This was life and death shit.

[@rms1493]

"Families don't get touched, you know that!" Carmella's shocked expression says what we the audience are thinking: "Bobby IS family!" Tony loved him like a brother-in-law.

[@z.hunter3825]

Carmella was one of the best female actress I ever saw.

[@TheBoomhahaha]

You should watch Nurse Jackie. She's incredible in that

[@lukess.s]

As opposed to male actresses

[@danielueblacker9118]

@@lukess.s God Bless you but it's not worth it... the Holy Trinity = A good actor+ director+ good writers.

[@Mariote777]

@@lukess.s Very good. A true purist. Congrats mate.

[@nathanielhellerstein5871]

You mean Edie Falco was a great actress. But I admit that Carmella, the character, was also an actress.

[@GenosGlory]

Loving your recent videos pal. Big fan of the Sopranos. Glad someone bringing clips back. Miss Gandolfini

[@AlexCastro1]

noob move for tony to drive around in the same car his opps know he drives. should've drove something more lowkey

[@stephenclarke2206]

Family get togethers must have been pretty brutal with people disappearing every few months

[@zinozee8929]

0:51 the picture of Ro looking over at Carmela with an almost snigger. As if to say haha it’s your turn now to have your world turned upside down.

[@wolfstealth782]

But imo i think Rosalie would still be there for Carmela and i never wanted to come right out and say it so blatantly bc I do become ❤ broken...Tony almost sounds naive (?idk lol ) when looking desperately at Carmela saying " they don't come after families" . And Carmela, to me right after he says that, her reaction is like, she's not si sure. When Adriana's mother pops off to Carm @ the outdoor evening festival, i totally believe that Carmela's reaction is naive. lol rhymes a little. Anyway i love The Sopranos thx 4 listening to my take on all this 😆

[@brainrot4919]

@@wolfstealth782 Adriana was an FBI informant thought.

[@Frosty98206]

@@brainrot4919 Ad Mother was still Sore irregardless she Blamed Ton & Chris(Anyone Remotely Close to them), cause before that Ad came to live with her than Makes up with Chris than afterwords nothing Ad Mother wasn't stupid she a mother knows their child & could come to her own Conclusion as to what Happened.

[@SawBlood45]

Thanks, you're probably the first to upload this scene. I wonder what would the situation have been like if Christopher and Ralphie were still around and in Tony's corner. He burned so many bridges and just got careless towards the end. Jersey crew should have gone defcon 2 when Harris warned Tony at the pork store.

[@dukes1993724]

Yes but those 2 were so reckless they are a big part of the reason they fired long ago.

[@Scratchingforcash]

Tony: Bobby’s shot he’s dead Carmella: What!! What happened? Me: He just told you, he’s shot and dead

[@Rocket-hp8ts]

The way Tony nods when Rosalie says “I’ll just leave”😭

[@thmaginnis1]

Good scene. Carmela actually handles it pretty well. Very pragmatic considering the sudden violent reality.

[@AQUAPHREESH193]

Frank Grimes lolol everybody else thinks she’s extra dramatic here for some reason lol

[@AQUAPHREESH193]

dyy Fethiiyhn 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@hippiecheezburger5457]

Frank Grimes Carmela is only upset because her worst fears are finally taking shape

[@Calikola]

Frank Grimes agreed. Considering that in the span of about ten seconds she learns her brother-in-law is dead, her best friend’s husband is gravely injured, mob enemies are coming for her husband, and she has to leave her house immediately, she handles it pretty damn well. She even considers Janice while all of this is going on.

[@MrZangetsu468]

dyy Fethiiyhn #stickyitalianfingaz

[@chloeobrien1378]

Carmella started off the series telling Tony he was going to Hell. By the time the series came to a close she really loved him. She accepted him. What he did. Who he was. In a lot of ways she was the most loyal to him.

[@stevesmith7843]

didn't stop him from going to hell though

[@osuman11]

Shit started get real at this very moment

[@highjinxwillie62]

I never watched the sopranos. They have every season at the library. I got to stop watching these little snippets and get all the seasons and have a sopranos fest

[@guusjeachterbuurt7592]

wtf is wrong with you if you didnt see the sopranos you not allowed to be called a man

[@wjatube]

highjinxwillie62 damn, I'd say you've learned pretty well.

[@39Hundred]

highjinxwillie62 The Show is so damn good and addictive. It gets better with age.

[@Cazz8203]

I remember my first time....I watched twice in a row and developed a jersey accent

[@securitytechnician]

Warning: You won’t just watch all the seasons once.

[@ChosenOne1991]

This is truly a HIGH STRUNG ANXIETY FUELED LIFE STYLE.

[@treasurethetime2463]

Every guy who has been in a long relationship can relate to Tony's "it doesn't matter." I felt that.

[@yashamaga13]

"What do you feel like eating tonight?" will usually end up in the same reaction from the man too.

[@deepatel123]

She calmed down as soon as she heard 'hotel'

[@Mariote777]

Hotel = Room service

[@christianburk4133]

I love how tony says “ families don’t get touched you know that “. And after she looks at his face she says “ ok” knowing how serious the situation is.

[@freestang6662]

Yeah, would've been a real shame if AJ got caught in the crossfire 🙄

[@KleWdSide]

Great acting by Gandolfini & Falco here.

[@cenkkmusic]

Let’s give it up: We all still think that they are really married to each other. Acting at it’s best.

[@wolfstealth782]

RIP Jimmy as they all called him. I read an article years back he shared that he lioved Edie Falco & i swear @ that time that ppl who were actors, as much as thespians get ragged on sumtimes lol, i knew for certain that folks like that are so special, really! Lol

[@maryhough8041]

You guys are forgetting that she just went through hell with Tony after he was shot. I don’t think she thought tony being hunted was shocking, it’s just one thing after another, the walls are closing in. Carmella isn’t innocent of course, but she got her act together, and I bet you’d be under a lot of stress knowing you have to drop everything and go off the grid. She was just told her brother in law was dead, one of her best friends husband is in the hospital on his death bed, they’re after her husband, and she has to abandon ship. Quite honestly she’s being relatively calm.

[@Myfavoritecuties]

Bobby and Silvio were two examples of anyone getting whacked without getting out of line

[@one_eyeddd473]

This shit was so heavy when it happened

[@matheusbueno320]

this ep gives more goosebumps than the last one. Bobby's death, Silvio's shooting, Tony's family runaway.. I remember when I watched the first time.. wow

[@heroedeleyenda05]

Tony: Bobby is dead, sil is in the hospital Carmella: whatever happened there?

[@LucasStoten1]

Edie Falco's reactions in this scene are so phenomenally well calibrated. When she first finds out/realises the main details of the situation (Bobby's death, that they are after Tony) there is such horror in her eyes, she seems on the brink of an outburst. Then, she quickly gets herself under control, the horror is still there, but you realise that she had been preparing for this moment psychologically for years. She understands the situation and her terror is controlled only by the need to act.

[@Ror0009]

She didn’t really react to Bobby’s death though

[@magiccookies420]

Imagine if Christopher was still around for this war. He hated Phil so much I bet he would’ve been the one to pull the trigger

[@daviddedominici1705]

We're anonymous

[@motnurky7055]

I'm surprised it wasn't Benny after the beating Phil threw him

[@Grimreepa220]

@@motnurky7055 Benny was the getaway driver at least.

[@_zigger_]

Phil knew his face, and Benny's. It had to be a nobody, like Walden

[@wrathofthewitchqueen]

I bet it’d be a fuckin honor

[@DucksAndDucks]

The shot of Carmela and Rosalie in the cut-out photo op spot, with the gray hair--eerie look into their futures as two old widows only having each other

[@MarioCavett]

When Bobby got hit I can remember screaming at the TV I knew it was war time... Bobby was the safest guy never did anything...Tony should have listened to his uncle.

[@user-cd7kb7nx4v]

" On a piece of plywood if necessary, but hes gonna leave the house " Dying 🤣😂

[@icewise3991]

Crazy thing is despite what he said on the boat with Tony, Bobby definitely heard it when IT happened

[@senorsunset]

It was nice that Carmella thought about his sister.

[@mikedawolf95]

I love how Tony has a sawn off double barrel shotgun in his center console

[@jlongobardy1612]

You don't? Must be a California resident, I'm figuring.

[@dannyflynn9206]

I love how tony discusses AJ

[@rubikovakocka1693]

0:51 wives of dead bosses

[@robertpreston2220]

Only one was a wife to a dead boss

[@logger22]

@@robertpreston2220now they both are

[@robertpreston2220]

@@logger22 Bobby died yes

[@logger22]

@@robertpreston2220 you getting cute with me?

[@robertpreston2220]

@@logger22 You need mental help

[@CynicalMusic]

When Tony breaks out the gun bobby gifted to him to go to war after really is great irony in writing it’s small moments like that

[@Gankin_Grocieres]

I'm actually mad bobby got his house painted, he was one of the best characters in the whole show!

[@CaptainPancakes]

His model trains got painted.

[@J3MOdh3NOWX3S]

Somebody watched the irishman and thinks their using hip terminology.

[@dmagyo6631]

The similarities between this show and breaking bad become more and more noticeable every time I watch a scene from it

[@eddietat95]

Rosalie's seen this shit before. Didn't even had to ask.

[@ghosters1072]

You can always tell when someone is tied to mafia activity by how their tires squeal everywhere and by how the wind rushes past their car no matter how slowly they're driving.

[@patgogan7324]

The last few episodes were some of the bleakest things I've seen on tv

[@patgogan7324]

@Srdjan Glusac grim, depressing

[@walterlv01]

"One thing you can never say, is that you haven't been told"

[@sheilaburns8977]

Never understood how Carmela always acted like she didn't know what was going on. Maybe not the details, but she had to know her husband was the mob boss. Come On. PEACE to ALL.

[@keldonmcfarland2969]

I like Uncle Junior's response: "Ambassador Hotel." His admiration for President Kennedy was one of the last things he could remember.

[@DixiePokerAce]

Say what you want about Tony Soprano but he genuinely cared about his family. The guy was a selfish sociopath and a criminal but he legitimately loved his family. By this time, I really believe Tony felt a lot of guilt for what he had put them through.

[@JC42023]

Carmela reacting to Chris's death: Shock and devastation all at once Carmela reacting to Bobby's death: more on par with her discovery of Chris and Adrianna's "break up"

[@ureallysuckglobes]

Well, Chris is her cousin and Bobby’s just some calzone with legs who got duped into marrying Janice.