Does he deserve another chance? | Talks with Tony

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[@officialwatchamber]

“Your intuition is not gonna lie to you… unless you snorting powder..” -TG LMAOOO 😳😅😂 and said it with a straight face hahahaha He tells no lies!!

[@anointedstilettos]

I hollered when he said that 😂😂😂

[@lilliepad2535]

I am a 59 year old female. Age don't matter!!! The game is still real out here. If he's a grown boy in his thirties, (without new knowledge), he's a grown boy in his fifties. I would definitely go with my instinct.

[@sweetolives2467]

👊🏽

[@marhki]

💯 age ain’t nothing but a number!

[@honeywest39j95]

Amen

[@sunshine-wb7gr]

I was dating a 70 yrs old I don't think he understand what is love , Ihe 20 yrs older than me He kind to everybody except me

[@GiovonniTaylor]

“A positive, he’s breathing, he’s single.” 😂😂😂

[@officialwatchamber]

Like why?!? 🥲🤣😂

[@gigibrown_wright]

Listen!!! I cackled!!! 🤣🤣

[@lydiarobinson4738]

😂😂😂

[@patticasey1092]

2 pros…he’s breathing & single..long pause…that’s about it. I’m dying Love his candidness

[@DeniseM4698]

Tony is so consistent with the videos!!! Just finished the one from earlier today… I’m not sure why folks are in their feelings 🙃 I’m 23 and I’m living my best life … SINGLE. Tony is a real one fr! God bless you & your family!

[@DeniseM4698]

@@thekimberlynproject thank you Ms. Kim !!!

[@itsmekiaratee]

Look at youuuuuu, lol. 23 and happy! That’s beautiful to hear because most young ladies I know your age are depressed because of “love”, which is really just obsession. God bless you! Keep adding to your own happiness, that’s the best place to be 🙌🏾💕

[@DeniseM4698]

@@itsmekiaratee yasss! I notice a lot of women seek out for love in my age group. Honestly i could care less about having a man. I don’t want nobody up under me. Let alone i don’t even have time for a man. My career is my focus.. no kids or nothing. Just living and having fun !!!!

[@rosemarie5489]

Beginning of the 20s is the age when most of the women commit the biggest errors in their lives and usually, the period when they gather a lot of trauma because of relationships. Be glad to come across Tony at this age. I am 27 and I came across him also when I was 24 ... Be blessed and may the best happen!

[@officialwatchamber]

Big facts!!!

[@janiceparkerson4727]

Run sis and don't look back 🙏.

[@tekishatjones]

“Your intuition ain’t gonna lie to you unless you’re snorting powda” 😂😂😂. Hilarious and with a straight face.

[@venaamoris5019]

I used to talk to this guy years ago. We were young and he wanted his option so I cut all ties because he wasn’t ready for me. He recently followed me on social media and then unfollowed me 3 days later. I was disappointed because I thought he wanted to talk for following me… I want to reach out and ask him why he did that. But I didn’t. It’s probably best that I completely move on.

[@tinicoleofficial]

Yep. Just move on👏🏾❤️

[@yipeedo372]

Definitely don't ask him why, his ego will be blown up knowing you even cared to notice. If anything you just not saying anything will make him wonder why he hasn't got a message from you. Lol if you do message him he'll ignore you because he knows he still has you

[@fah232]

Take that as a blessing...

[@LadyAngela678]

That was Gods protection. If I was you I would block him to keep him from trying to come in and out your life.

[@venaamoris5019]

Thanks everyone for replying. This is definitely God’s answer by keeping him away. His silence is his message. I will block him to prevent this from happening again

[@socialperson3683]

Ditto! She's just not feeling it. She's caught him in lies. Move on, Mam!

[@reinaquisha9418]

I love this space! It's not for everybody but we're here for it Toh-nay! Thank you greatly💯🙌🏾👊🏾💫

[@janieh3950]

Amen

[@qscott888]

🙌🏽

[@Leelang931]

I don’t understand how anyone would get offended by hearing the TRUTH!!! If you the hit dog that hollered lick your wounds and do better going forward. Now when that man in the dark blatantly disrespect women nobody gets upset about that. The world loves what’s wrong and hates what’s right. 🤦🏾‍♀️ We gotta do better men and women 💗💗

[@fah232]

Oh!! They do...

[@turner2952]

I can do bad all by myself. I don't need any help! Mr. Tony, you are awesome. Always bringing the real TRUTH to protect the women out there from these predatory men that have bad intentions. Thank you for helping us to know what to look for so that we can protect ourselves. God bless you, your family and your ministry. Keep preaching the TRUTH!

[@kemiLuv]

Am not saying tony is the only relationship coach on KZbin but I rather listen to Tony than anyone else because I know he's telling the truth without knowing him and I love that. Thank you Tony.

[@cw8365]

One thing we ladies Must do is stop avoiding intuition and 🔥🔥🔥 red 🚩🚩🚩🚩’s due to the desire to have a relationship. Keeping working on yourself and get out an about to be visible to meet men and your time will come. The worst thing is to experience “sprinkles” of happiness in a chaotic relationship. I’ve been here, it’s Not worth rushing. Know your Worth and Value. We, both men and women deserve be in healthy and happy relationships when you are healthy and mean well towards yourself and others. We must stop avoiding 🚩🚩🚩for a temporary relationship experience.

[@jusjeany]

so true... you see any red flags then you already know you're gonna be hurting down the road...denial is a dysfunctional mechanism...truth is a God sent light exposing the darkness....run ladies

[@dublingirl1691]

💯👏🏼👏🏼👍🏼

[@UNIQUELYSPOTLESSLLC]

I absolutely love the book A woman's Influence!! First of its kind unity at its finest 👌🏾 I can't stop reading it . I appreciate you all for taking time out of your lives To share your life. GOD be the Glory 🙏🏾

[@CoachAmeliaAdair]

I’m still watching the ads and I already know the answer is no. Choose you!

[@crystaldemarr]

"What in the worllll?!!" 😂 Tony, I literally be geeking listening to you! Lol

[@beefaye6861]

"Ursula Gaskins"....hmmmm I CAN'T 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@a1xluv]

Well, let them be in their feelings! Truth either hurts you, or improves you! You’ll be moved by it, or sorrowed by it! Either way, the truth must be spoken, and the truth must go forth!

[@fah232]

Absolutely

[@Shayvideos1]

1st I'd liketo say..thank you Tony for being honest on how you acknowledged how you don't have much knowledge on the 50 year old..2nd..women need to date a man for a year before committing..most get so attached within 3-6 months and then he switches up but now you're stuck and hurt because you invested your heart way too soon. Give a man some real time to show you who they are..some can hide for years but NOT MOST.

[@lyfesaquarium]

I like how Tony is honest and says I don't know how I am going to feel as a man decades later. You the real MVP and a true leader Tony. Bless up

[@ginad8238]

07:58 “I had to do it..had to do it..you had me So SCRESSED”🤣🤣🤣

[@Jubilee_BX]

Hilarious!!!

[@lindalovehearts]

U know what?😩😅😂😂😂 just get into acting. That snort scene was hilarious 😅😂😂😂🤣

[@MsCharizma00]

Oh lord😂😂🤣😂🤣 I am hollering because Tony said he would've had to come back with something exclusive! That took me out. I needed that laugh!

[@anthonynosike]

Are you a coach?

[@anointedstilettos]

That made me laugh too 😂😂

[@MsCharizma00]

@@anthonynosike No sir

[@anthonynosike]

@@MsCharizma00 oh then how do you get the image next to your name?

[@Maggs3]

@@anthonynosike she's a supporter of the channel aka The Blessed Tribe

[@thebreakuprecoverychannel1779]

This is why I have started my channel. Because we need more truth being told! Not to many coaches are actually helping. 🙏

[@geedee38]

A lie is a lie is a lie! He has a everyday battle. How is he dealing now? Also you’re not feeling it. He is seeking familiar shelter. Just remain friends. 🙏🏽

[@katepierre952]

Trust your intuition !!

[@jacquelinef7174]

She needs to go on about her business. This man already telling lies and he lives in a different state. That's already drama from the start!

[@misskaykayRSA]

I loveeeeeeee talks with Tony…. They make my day 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Chelle1Love_]

Tony, you are real in spirit and in truth. I laughed at that snorting power 😂 that's real talk. We must tap into our intuition and discernment.

[@clarkclarke]

Tony to be honest I don't understand how folk say they listen to you yet allow themselves to be in the situations they find themselves. I am not here to be critical to women .. as I am a woman myself .. I try hard to understand .. can we listen AND take action?? Story #1 The question wasn't asked before she opened the door to let him back in ....but she asked the question after .... She knows not to entertain that man ... (to me) Thank you Tony🙏🏾

[@gdust6579]

we are bleeding hearts who give it away to selfish jerks...i just found tonys yt but i still want to be with a broke jerk who didnt barely care said hed rather be alone then ghosted me. he offered me a life with him in a small town then took every thing he offered me back. i been watching tonys vids after this. i still miss this person 😭 he didnt have any interest in any women...but he was suicidal..now hes off some where thinking of suicide...

[@pamsimmons6428]

Men in their late 50’s looking for a woman to take care of them health wise

[@TheNandM]

Tony, had to drop a comment today. Stopped by to check out this video and see you are still keeping it all the way real! 💯 I really appreciate the way you deliver insight in such a relatable way. YOU ARE THE BROTHER I NEVER HAD. God Bless you!💜

[@christineporter9914]

You right Bro Tony your intuition ain't going to lie, but you so funny saying unless you snorting powder lol 🤣🤣🤣

[@officialwatchamber]

I was screaming!!!!

[@christineporter9914]

@@officialwatchamber Bro Tony you just got to love him he's just too funny, while bringing us so much wisdom everyday.

[@myeshabragg7648]

You are appreciated. Thank you!

[@ulricka2131]

LETTER #1:Nope, that is a liability you don't want to add to your life. Move on auntie. Better is ahead➡️ LETTER #3 This sister just want to be spoiled with expensive romance. Maybe she was used and hurt before.

[@silentdreams2415]

Be blessed Sir!

[@bigsisterology]

The guy she used to date in college and high school is a NOOOOOOO for me b/c from my own experience when you take back someone who you’re familiar with, your subconscious mind may reverse back into a toxic trait that you may not aware of that you’re doing at the time but because it’s something that you seen before you may react the same way as you did when you dated him in the past. Also he looks at you as a comfort zone and where there’s no boundaries or structure he needs to follow because he’ll know how to get away with it. NO NO NO NO DONT DO IT

[@MyMichellle]

We appreciate the love and honesty, Tony! ♥️

[@roseinaconcreteworld3244]

"Unless you snortin powder"... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 man gone somewhere

[@officialwatchamber]

I hollered!!!

[@roseinaconcreteworld3244]

@@officialwatchamber 😂😂

[@misskaykayRSA]

2nd letter reminded me of the whole theory behind “Pretty women and princess treatment”

[@tinajones8050]

I'm singing: he'll naw, to the naw, naw, naw 🎶🎵🎶

[@prettytaurus3671]

😂😂

[@beefaye6861]

Dead. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@christineporter9914]

Lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mitz1919]

Yay ! This was the topic i have been going back and looking up ur videos on.

[@lavitawilliams9246]

But you, in my opinion are a Real Coach and evrytime you speak from Experience its On Point{even for women like me thats 0ver 55}that illustrates that You hear from God and know Exactly what Path to put us on when the 55 & up men try and sell imitation,plastic,junior high school dreams,You help us more than you know to not get caught up and to" gown bout our Business!" Cause God's got someone better if we would just ignore the grown boys.

[@necolemiller2796]

Tony so right

[@iishalanae]

Lol lord not the pro be he breathin 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@beefaye6861]

Lol....grl Tony crazy 😂😂😂...its slim pickens out here

[@pamelaward2264]

Thanks 🙏🏽 for the truth it’s tight but it’s right !

[@andreahughes464]

That book was the truth 🙌🏾🙌🏾💯💪🏽

[@kaysgraphicalexpressions219]

Always anticipating some gem dropping.

[@megabooplantz]

If you ain't snorting powder, your intuition not lying to you!

[@natashaj9366]

Be blessed Bless Tribe!

[@Ebizzill]

picking from the filth ... how tragic. Big auntie, you deserve better.

[@Jubilee_BX]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 You could be an Actor...the relapse part had me rolling. Great Advice, like always.

[@ladyshakari]

If she caught him in lies already and she sees red flags already its time to walk away and leave him behind. Older women that have a lot have to be careful. Guys my age run at me all the time looking at everything ex hubby gave me in the divorce. They see the house cars and money and they looking for help not a wife. Ive had guys half my age try the same, i don't look my age and they think im much younger then i really am so i get it.

[@DebtDemolisherTV]

Evening Class in session 🙏

[@qscott888]

🙌🏽

[@DebtDemolisherTV]

@@qscott888 Let’s gooo!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@anointedstilettos]

I really felt that part about being able to show love is a gift because people who do it need it. I was in a relationship with a guy who always said he knew I loved him by my actions, yet complained that I didn't show him "enough". He was always asking for more, but not reciprocating what he was asking for. This sounds like that is this woman's issue. He probably dodged a bullet with her leaving him if she is never satisfied with his efforts.

[@lb1234ify]

Be Blessed

[@LadyAngela678]

Everytime they say the letter aint that long … 👶🏾..👧🏾..👩🏾..👵🏾..💀

[@cuniqueness]

🤔 People need to keep in mind that these emails only can get a generalized answer. The first one was tricky & don’t blame you for letting that pass. I’m for sure she appreciated it.🙏🏽

[@KandeeKane85]

Whennnn I tell you Tony need to soo stand-up!! I cried at Ursula!!😅😂

[@silentdreams2415]

I'm ready for class!

[@Realness4sho]

Right On! 🔥🔥🔥

[@NR-os2cw]

Seems like a no sis especially if you not really feeling it. And it’s only been a year since your last relationship. Sounds like you need more time for you. Don’t get caught up. Stay blessed.

[@kristinasamuels4565]

Love you, Tony! God Bless You, Your Queen and Your Family🙏❤️

[@patricemurray6412]

Tony is so funny with names 🤣 Marsha is not an old name, but the rest were. I know a few ppl with that name. But I have to realize you are so young. Really great topics covered in this video. That last girl is self absorbed.

[@natashablessed410]

Marsha is definitely an old name 😂😂I have an aunt names Marsha

[@patricemurray6412]

@@natashablessed410 🤣🤣🤣 maybe because my cousin name was Marsha, I didn't think much of it.🤔🤷🏾‍♀️

[@dorothysambucci9468]

my experience with the older fellas! there a hot mess! but i’m sure all of them are not! i just joined gym and couple guys come up to me hey how are you doing! i say hello i’m dorothy shake then hand! few time they say i know you from somewhere have we met before? i look at them i say no i don’t think so! so then they say you stay around here ect! so i’m thinking this is a pick up line! i haven’t dated in so many years so not sure! i answer some questions smile thank them and go on about my business! i definitely need to work on talking to them! sometimes i’m silly start giggling when they say something silly! but i have to say a lot of the younger guys are so respectful! you know 30s 40s! so nice! i’m newly single again so it’s all new again! but i’m out there and trying! so hope that helps someone! thanks tony! 😇😇😇👍👍👍

[@sschoenleber925]

Ur balanced approach in this video really breaks it down so well excellent video wow

[@destiny4me576]

😂 you ain’t gonna make mistake of not having anniversary gift 🎁 😂 such a wise husband 😂

[@dublingirl1691]

I’m ready to hear this TWT! 🙏🏼😁

[@anthonynosike]

Are you a coach?

[@ericalashan1923]

I was a cheerleader in H. S. and their was a cheerleader from the opposing team named Louise. We knew bc we all had our names on the back of our sweaters. We laughed the whole game. Yeah it was immature but we had a good time that nite. Shout out to all the Louise's😊

[@dublingirl1691]

Just saw Tony’s video pop up! 😁

[@TheAmberla07]

Not the mop!!🤣🤣

[@vanessachambers697]

Be Blessed 😊

[@ysmithriley]

Sis, you're seeing him and NOT FEELING HIM! You caught him in a lie(s). What more do you need?

[@LesA_09]

Now that’s exactly what it is, I am your Mom’s age Tony, these dudes live playin Woman, for years, Now they looking for someone stable Kick Rocks Nope!!

[@ShesGottaFastCar]

"That's my name!!" 😂😂

[@victoriakatrice1927]

On the good side he breathing 🤣🤣🤣

[@iamTiffanyEmpowermentPodcast]

Tony said sometimes our mama’s play too much lol ….rotfl I promise you I thank God all the time for a simple name because you can’t go wrong with it lol

[@wellnesswithfrugalmama]

Ohhh this was good...real talk Love it 💙

[@DsCompilations]

Lmao 😂🤣 my mom's BFFs' son's are named Berthony & Wesner 🇭🇹

[@lyfesaquarium]

Tony so fukkin funny lol lollol lol, I love getting a lesson while laughing lollol

[@GoddessorDoormat]

Ursula 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@HTyler-ci6yp]

Breathing, single, need a stable and fresh start is ok, bur former drug use issues, living in different states. Is he clean and in a drug program?🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩Sis., walk safely- just group date publicly.

[@AtlantaAngel84]

The friend being named Bertony 😂😂

[@Raedae88]

Bertha & Betsy 😂😂😂😂😂

[@christinewarren8134]

My mom was gonna name me Ursula too !!

[@yom8058]

Can you do video on purity culture?

[@angierivera6681]

Bertha is my mother’s name 😭😂😂

[@sweetulip2004]

A woman's intuition is NOT the strongest thing on earth. That would be the Holy Spirit, and every woman is not carrying the Holy Spirit. Sorry guys, that statement kinda irked me.

[@simplyameeraj]

Not she trying to give a drug addict another chance 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@LadyAngela678]

Right. 🤯

[@mentalhealingwithelaine]

This is disgusting. He is no longer on drugs. And people can change and never go back. Labeling people and discarding them in entirety is sick.

[@transformationstudio6158]

Ursula?!!! 😭

[@pamsimmons6428]

Gone bout yo business sustah

[@ShesGottaFastCar]

let him wait sis!

[@ZzDippedInButter]

Ursula😂?? nah baby you need a nickname or go by your middle name if thats not too wild

[@denisemyers733]

Nope 👎 I don’t think it’s in her best interest to go another round. to much time has past and she Noe’s. Don’t do it auntie.

[@reina6542]

Ayy that hat 🔥btw

[@qscott888]

Checking in for the real.

[@susannahkathleendouglas1452]

Aunty Go on bout your business... Your intuition is already speaking to you. The lies girl. You only deserve truth my darling.

[@WhichTheChickenOrTheEgg]

😂😂😂@ the long cons vs short pros , not he breathing 😂

[@carlabanks8128]

Dang only 2 pros?

[@sischaadashah856]

Discovery Cove would be a great anniversary date swim with dolphins