If a man acts like he doesn’t care in a relationship, its because...HE DOESN’T CARE!
@denisemyers7333 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@nacoyarussell1853 жыл бұрын
The truth hurts!!!
@merlinsvdd3 жыл бұрын
Ya, he can't admit it but he blames you for only see him as an associate. Sigh..He dogged me out.
@Isa-Amor3 жыл бұрын
I asked a dude why he acts like that and he said because he didnt. Facts
@s.r.1253 жыл бұрын
Facts 🎯🎯🎯
@missmaria64233 жыл бұрын
Communication is only difficult for someone who doesn't want you,that's that!
@roowens87993 жыл бұрын
If you communicated to someone that something is important to you and that person minimizes it and refuse to consider adjusting...maybe it is time for you to take a step back.
@user-zx5xw4yw2e3 жыл бұрын
All the way back.. Like, lose them completely, as there isn't any respect.
@mymakersdaughter60413 жыл бұрын
All the way back with blocking him from calling you, emailing you and contacting you via social media. It’s not that serious!
@olanikeshamonda733 жыл бұрын
been time
@_zina90543 жыл бұрын
I needed this thank you
@sunvavachi3 жыл бұрын
This is happening to me atm
@SpiralsKinksNCoils3 жыл бұрын
"He like you, but he don't love you... you cool, but your not his wife." Well said!!
@josiegarrett83883 жыл бұрын
What if Im married and he doesn't have much communication? Would rather play with the dog then pay any attention to me.
@SpiralsKinksNCoils3 жыл бұрын
@@josiegarrett8388 wow! I'm so sorry that's happening to you! I personally and not a relationship expert and I'm sure that question is for Tony. Hopefully he does another live soon and you can get this question answered. I'm curious why that would be. 🤔
@mymakersdaughter60413 жыл бұрын
@@josiegarrett8388 😢
@elenap22153 жыл бұрын
@@josiegarrett8388 I don't know the full context of it, but maybe try to communicate to him how is you feeling. He might dealing with some other issues that he doesn't want you to worry about so he keeping his distant... you know your husband better than I do. But if his action to you changed all of a sudden and became distant and rather would play with the dog than spending time with you.. you have to think why this is happening? he might be interested on someone else ... So sorry to hear this ! I hope that that's not the case
@itsliveagain25243 жыл бұрын
@@josiegarrett8388 I know someone like that and they ended up getting divorced. He said he admitted he was not a good husband and that he would ignore his wife. And just so you know , the problem is with him so there will always be problems in any relationship he attempts.
@kena94253 жыл бұрын
If a man wants you, you can feel it. His actions will tell you, as well as his words. “Point, blank, PERIYAHD”
@nursegaines35192 жыл бұрын
"PERIYAHD!"
@CoachLove3 жыл бұрын
If he ain't excited to be with and see you, acting like you're just cool, remove yourself.
@olanikeshamonda733 жыл бұрын
amen
@jewelsafire68443 жыл бұрын
It's absolutely disgusting to give of our precious time & affections, only to get back crumbs. Them crumbs are for the birds & so is he.✂✌🏽
@jewelsafire68443 жыл бұрын
@Joyful n Blessed Right, it's like begging him to be with you. Smh
@nikkyshamz26963 жыл бұрын
thankfully we have the choice to either accept or reject crumbs, we are not helpless.
@stargoldqueen58943 жыл бұрын
"When a man about you, it will make you feel good."
@lindalovehearts3 жыл бұрын
💯
@missmaria64233 жыл бұрын
Period!!
@shan41453 жыл бұрын
So true!
@lindalovehearts3 жыл бұрын
@@missmaria6423 💯💜💙
@LittleMissSunshine7212 жыл бұрын
This. 💯💯💯
@2cuteemari3 жыл бұрын
If a guy isn’t showing strong effort to communicate and connect with me, I cut them off right then and there. If he doesn’t have a strong interest I’m not waiting around.
@daniellegause65213 жыл бұрын
Me too!!
@itsyourgirltee37543 жыл бұрын
I literally just lose his number. Did that on Sunday. I dont have the time.
@ascelinek3 жыл бұрын
Same!!
@irlandaise56313 жыл бұрын
same ..but I have had men showing an effort asking me out..and then we dont connect..he d talk about different subjects and he wouldnt be interested in listening to my goals etc..they ll make a quick comment and get back to what they were talking about..I have refused such men in the end..
@BashaerB-h2c10 ай бұрын
Emotionally unavailable men/men are hell.
@introvertedbeauty003 жыл бұрын
If you find yourself practically having to beg someone for the bare minimum, he/she ain't the one. Save yourself some heartache and pain and disappear.
@ingridrevolorio18002 жыл бұрын
😩
@JourneywithFely573 жыл бұрын
Actions speak louder than words every time.
@merlinsvdd3 жыл бұрын
True. My mistake for ignoring that in the past.
@mymakersdaughter60413 жыл бұрын
@@merlinsvdd When you know better, you do better! You have the info for the next time!
@micheleprice97713 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
@bariannmartin87283 жыл бұрын
I was tought that as a kid.
@loveneverends96053 жыл бұрын
THAT PART!
@Dr.Elaine13 жыл бұрын
“You too grown to raise a man.” TG
@thesimoneshowlove3 жыл бұрын
When a man says “it’s always something”, that means he could be continuously getting more and more annoyed with the woman, probably, like Tony said, because he doesn’t really want her. Then when he’s ready to leave, he could pick a random reason to leave, and she’s left surprised. When a man is acting like that, he could be hoping for the woman he really wants to act right, and more annoyed with the woman he’s currently with because she’s doing everything he wants the woman he really wants, to do, so he’s frustrated.
@nmiburo3 жыл бұрын
This 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@caramelfox48073 жыл бұрын
This is perfectly stated!
@lebeautyprenuer36793 жыл бұрын
Interesting concept
@tashaequeen89353 жыл бұрын
Wow well said
@reinaquisha94183 жыл бұрын
He's trying to train you sis. Y'all stay blessed out here🤍
@CaramelCuban3 жыл бұрын
I’m not yo puppy , boy bye 👋🏽
@kareeshasimonebenjamin57063 жыл бұрын
An inconsistent action is a consistent answer. Red flags are real please bare that in mind ask God for the spirit of discernment
@AmericanDreamer Жыл бұрын
Very well said, it is 100% true,
@sherylleelee3 жыл бұрын
Girl...just say "Bye Boy!" This boy is not husband material or stepfather material. Roll on boy!!!
@yvonnehutson66763 жыл бұрын
Lol amen👋
@sherryfews41323 жыл бұрын
🗣️
@denisemyers7333 жыл бұрын
To the point. You’re always on time. When a man likes you. All you gotta do is turn around he’s there. NO EXCUSES GIVEN.
@ForeverPisces8433 жыл бұрын
I had communication issues too. So I cut the line 🤷. It hurts and sometimes I want to text him but than I remember to love me more.
@sassysweet93553 жыл бұрын
Broke up with my ex last year, due to this same exact thing! I have grown and healed a lot, within this whole year. I was unhealed, immature, chaotic and masculine, for the longest time. Now that I am healed, calm, mature, whole, secure and more sophisticated....I attract much better quality men. One who is currently courting me, actually wants me to marry him in the future. All glory to God, for gradual growth and progress! Love your channel Tony! Keep up the great work! God Bless! 😇🙏🏻❤️
@nicoleb90473 жыл бұрын
I realized that I was much more masculine in my last relationship where he was horrible at communicating too! I turned into the man role always trying to fix everything and drive everywhere (he always complained about driving). Now that its over and I’m healing, I have felt myself slide back into a more feminine and relaxed place on my day to day and whenever I talk to guys.
@sassysweet93553 жыл бұрын
@@nicoleb9047 Oh wow! No way, same here! Glad that my fellow queens can relate! And yes! After years into the relationship, he changed as a person and or his true self came through. He bacame stingy, low effort and low communication....Even stopped being romantic, generous or go on dates anymore. He wanted me to be bob the builder and raise him and it was draining. I fell for his representative, that he showed me at the beginning. In the end we weren't right for one another and both came into the relationship younger, broken and immature. The soul tie needed to be broken. It made me lose my identity and femininity also.....Along with toxic friends, that needed to be cut off at the time too. I am glad that I am in a happier and more stable place in my life now. Having higher standards, self worth and not settling for less! God bless you Queen! 🥰😇😉💖👑
@yvonnehutson66763 жыл бұрын
Such a testimony congratulations❤🤗💐
@sassysweet93553 жыл бұрын
@@yvonnehutson6676 Thanks so much! 🥰🙌🏻
@nicoleb90473 жыл бұрын
@@sassysweet9355 thank you Queen! God bless you too!!! I continue to relate to your story! Mine because stingy as well. Praise God for showing us their true colors before marriage, so that we may be on our way keeping our standards high.
@sheilazimmerman39053 жыл бұрын
When a man is into you and he likes you....he is going to consider you above all else, followed with respect for you. (He sees you as wife material) Blessings to you Tony and your Family🌸
@theresemeggitt84553 жыл бұрын
“When love isn’t being served, you must leave the table”. Nina Simone-
@breewelch59823 жыл бұрын
Sound like this brotha need to heal & sis need to put on her track shoes. Don't show him a lick more of energy or signs of being upset. Upset for what? Sis you the prize! His loss...
@mymakersdaughter60413 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@relisbetrel3 жыл бұрын
Facts 💖
@arielhenry11893 жыл бұрын
Amen
@curiositykillsthe25973 жыл бұрын
He’s not trying to love her, he’s trying to train her.
@aprylclark37963 жыл бұрын
I’m so tired of a woman having to be so perfect for a man, can a man be put in the position to want to present theirselves to have the perfect woman! When will the tables turn
@s.r.1253 жыл бұрын
"Listen to what he is not saying" TG🎯🎯
@StephsLifeKc3 жыл бұрын
I blocked my ex today it was hard but I did it!! Everything you said is 100% facts... thank you Tony
@ladyomusuku64183 жыл бұрын
Chicana....be strong...hang in there....dont give in.
@cherh3 жыл бұрын
Please don't compare TG to any of these "coaches". Tony ACTIONS speak for him. Gone bout'cha business lol
@Amorantasia13 жыл бұрын
💯
@cherh3 жыл бұрын
@@Amorantasia1 💯
@mercedeslong41783 жыл бұрын
💯
@Dimples34343 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾facts
@cherh3 жыл бұрын
@@mercedeslong4178 💯
@CoachLove3 жыл бұрын
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched-they must be felt with the heart. Helen Keller
@fabulousmdb79273 жыл бұрын
15:12 - Sheri Gaskins got ALL THE GAME! Anytime Tony mentions how she responds to him, my ears are perked! My future husband ain't gonna know what to do. I'm soaking in all the knowledge. LOL!
@mymakersdaughter60413 жыл бұрын
Sheri is the 💣! Well played!!!!
@aneshrathomas3 жыл бұрын
“You the Queen a man suppose to be chasing you “🎯👌🏾
@bmorgan14053 жыл бұрын
Run forrest run. You are not "that" important to him. If he has issues and wants to be in a relationship he needs to work on himself first.
@ulricka21313 жыл бұрын
3:57 in. Sister do not waste your time. You are not his priority. Remember: we are the prize. Not the opposite. Please 🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️
@supersizedbeauty68243 жыл бұрын
"look like you smoke you a lil weed"-TG😩🤣🤣🤦🏾♀️
@mymakersdaughter60413 жыл бұрын
He ain’t right😂🤣🤣
@toneyfox63283 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@cocoj22523 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@ashleyrolle22143 жыл бұрын
I was like what?!😂😂🥴
@desireeferguson76933 жыл бұрын
I died when he said that
@4naymsakeRW3 жыл бұрын
He said men who sit in the dark and curse out women..I caught that one lolol
@toneyfox63283 жыл бұрын
Sis yessss
@afrozeahmed65153 жыл бұрын
Sounds fishy sister!This man doesnt like you-you are a hold me down woman.I got a feeling he is seeing someone on that side,he is a grown boy,you need to walk away.He doesnt come on his own to visit you/he comes late in the day-he takes u to granted!/and he has the cheek to say u complaining.This type of man will make u feel like crap for asking for basics!He is not for you-leave now while its early.Cry as much as u need too.
@jaszlikescookies953 жыл бұрын
Needed this comment. It’s hard dealing with a heartbreak from a narcissistic grown boy but leaving is the best decision I’ve made!
@afrozeahmed65153 жыл бұрын
I didnt listen to the whole video-just heard the letter and knew imediately that that man is wasting her time-he is just stringing her along.He also doesn't like being checked when you correct him.I hope u didnt sleep with that man!This is why the jewels stay locked until we get married.Why?Atleast I know God blessed that marriage whatever the outcome YOU DONT KNOW A MAN OUT OF 12MONTHS!TG
@terrybuckley28503 жыл бұрын
@@jaszlikescookies95 ...been there, done that! It is so beautiful 🤩 to be FREE of the BS! Loving yourself and respecting yourself and your well being is much better! 🙏🏾
@saphireflowers33823 жыл бұрын
I agree EXCEPT I SAY "You get 24 hours to cry, then dry your tears and keep it pushing". Do not sit around crying over that human.
@oohno10002 жыл бұрын
He was watching the game it’s time management and it’s foot ball 🏈 he Just need to get to u in a timely manner
@gigi-y5q3 жыл бұрын
Tony can you do a video on how men “read” women.
@mymakersdaughter60413 жыл бұрын
I would like that too! He touched on it a little bit in this video, but I would like more detailed info. I will have my binder ready to go!
@kilimanjaro55373 жыл бұрын
@@mymakersdaughter6041 right.
@starznmyeyez89063 жыл бұрын
She thinks that man was looking forward to spending time with her and her son. He's not completely sure about her and now she wants to push her child on him. He's not the one for a number of reasons.
@patriciawilliams55193 жыл бұрын
Keep the child out for awhile; or totally out!
@oliviaperez55723 жыл бұрын
“When a man gets hurt, he starts listening to men sittin in the dark with stuff spinning around” thank 👏 you 👏 tony👏. I can’t stand that man, he is influencing men to be worse. It’s very sad. I love how you and RC Blake’s indirectly address “that man’s” beliefs because you have women out here buying into it.
@jessiemarierandle7760 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@lifecoachkris14863 жыл бұрын
Non negotiables and setting clear boundaries should be talked about in the very beginning of the relationship. Stating what is ok and what is not ok comes with skills and clear communication. Know your worth and values, and don’t be afraid to communicate that in the very start of your relationship💕
@mizzannabella3 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree with this! I haven’t necessarily set these boundaries and non negotiable beforehand and that’s partly why things didn’t work out. Moving forward, I will do this
@iamcoachcourtney-letstalka49063 жыл бұрын
Like Tony said, believe your heart and go on bout your business!! Women, we are in the winning position. When a man is truly into you, he'll want to be around you all of the time.
@Rambolopezzz3 жыл бұрын
Tony! I just wanted to tell you THANK YOU! You helped me out of a bad situation and pulled me out of the dark getting over a loser. Thank you for letting the lord work through you. I’ve been working on myself and making sure to stand in love vs falling in love. That was a huge lesson learned from you. Thank you for your wisdom and knowledge and humour. I’ve grown (been actually putting in the work- mentally, spiritually & physically) and now I’m ready & capable of loving myself first and to walk into a relationship with my eyes opened and the lesson of standing in love. Thank you!
@lekeshial4183 жыл бұрын
She said he told her, he had to hang up to go fold towels.. Oh dear! ( was I hearing things? Lol) 🚩🚩🚩
@luxeeventsbymerandallc24273 жыл бұрын
My kids dad used to tell me his fingers hurt and were tired from messaging me
@lekeshial4183 жыл бұрын
@@luxeeventsbymerandallc2427 the foolery🥴..I guess a phone call was out the question too.
@fantasyford17783 жыл бұрын
I dealt w/some like this but he always blamed poor communication or anything I addressed on his father passing away! He says his fathers death really messed him up. I walked away after 3 months out of fear that he’ll have me strung out in a corner crying somewhere lol - I’m laughing but I’m so serious. I just pray for him.
@yvonnehutson66763 жыл бұрын
🙏u walked away
@ClaraCouturexo3 жыл бұрын
Hold on let me connect this to my speaker while I’m on the treadmill!
@ClaraCouturexo3 жыл бұрын
BRAIN BRAND BODY! Okay!
@titisweets3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so for educating the people on the difference between 360 and 180!!! I get so annoyed every time someone says that 🙄
@nellelove48993 жыл бұрын
This sounds familiar except I don’t have a child. I hope she just blocks him and leaves because it won’t change.
@nicoleb90473 жыл бұрын
Mine didn’t change after 8 years. I have blocked and moved on and now he has emailed me saying he’s reading books on communication. I’m not going back.
@yvonnehutson66763 жыл бұрын
🙏💯
@solopa38083 жыл бұрын
Exhausting isn't it... and yes it does change, it just gets worse 🤦
@OsutaCaroline8 ай бұрын
@@nicoleb9047 reading books on communication 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@artsynik38643 жыл бұрын
“start listening to men who sit in the dark.. with stuff spinnin round & cuss women out who call in” HA!!!! I HOLLERED😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@agadonk3 жыл бұрын
He SaYs he doesn't communicate because he doesn't want to get hurt. Now he need to get left!
@klickingkayasmr75853 жыл бұрын
Ohh I hate when guys do reverse psychology on you..... what they actually mean “I’m about to hurt you.”
@misst723 жыл бұрын
I'm single and taking notes!!!! This is good stuff
@kaylashay97243 жыл бұрын
Believe your heart...best quote
@akaiya083 жыл бұрын
He broke all that down from a photo!!! Wow 😳
@klickingkayasmr75853 жыл бұрын
Yup, we women don’t realize but the way we choose to look allows a man to judge us, thus he treats us accordingly --good or bad. That’s why it’s important how we present and carry ourselves.
@joi57873 жыл бұрын
“Gone Bout Yo Business Sis!” in the words of Tony G.
@CarmenLifeCoach3 жыл бұрын
All i needed to hear was that he told her he shows her he doesn't care because when he did, it didn't work out. Never deal with anyone who doesn't treat you based on who YOU ARE and instead puts you through stuff just because of their past, those are excuses. More than that, all his actions showed lack of respect, care and love, don't trip on what his lips are saying and choose yourself by giving your time and feelings to someone who values you and shows it every single time.
@nelidayoungblood8153 жыл бұрын
Your description of her picture made me chuckle 😄
@pamelathomas50193 жыл бұрын
Lord thank you for the truth of it all! Point blank PERIODT! He like you, but he don't love you. He don't see you as his wife dear heart..TG.. well said Big Bro
@BeBeautifullyYou3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, she needs to gone bout her business. He’s squandering the little time they have to spend together for nothing. He’s not that interested in you anymore. I had the same situation last summer. We spent his two days off when we first started dating because he worked nights and I worked days. After a few months, he was MIA, not answering calls until too late to see each other, thought he was going to have me in limbo until he was available (lies). I had to face the fact that he shifted and it was time for me to go because a grown man will let you know how he truly feels. Won’t be no guessing. Good thing for me is I kept my cookie to myself so it was easy for me to get my purse and gone bout my business.
@yvonnehutson66763 жыл бұрын
Breadcrumbing
@BeBeautifullyYou3 жыл бұрын
@@yvonnehutson6676 exactly.
@brielleharmony75683 жыл бұрын
Omg same exactly thing I never gave up my cookies Either if I did I would have been pissed
@007stinkey3 жыл бұрын
It can be communication problems *sometimes* but I have come to the conclusion that it's basically you are dealing with a liar. What happens when dealing with a liar is that issues keep going in a circle, one person trying to hide the truth,*them* The other person *you* trying to get the truth. And the circle just continues, cause you will never get the truth.
@nacoyarussell1853 жыл бұрын
The way Tony handled those scissors 😂😂😂
@Casaunlynn3 жыл бұрын
Ok, I thought the same, let us know that you take fencing.
@sherryfews41323 жыл бұрын
Like in the movie "JD's Revenge" lol
@MrsLC-tp8oj3 жыл бұрын
The man gonna start listening to men that sit in the dark with stuff spinning and curse women out that call. 😂😂 Tony Gaskins thank you for your info it’s not always what we want to hear but it’s needed info and, it comes respectful and from God speaking thru you Thank you.
@Cpre11113 жыл бұрын
I needed this video. I've been dealing with this now from a guy in the talking phase for 2 weeks. We talk fine but his communication is inconsistent & he's told me he'll talk to me when he's good & ready (he's so busy 😂). Plus it's distance. Plus he's condescending at times. Smh. I'm done.
@kiwthebeauty3 жыл бұрын
Girl you done done. He long distance too so easy to say bye bye
@yvonnehutson66763 жыл бұрын
Boy 👋
@lovejones693 жыл бұрын
RUN 🏃♂️
@dashafenty99693 жыл бұрын
"Listen to what he's not saying " TG !!! Damn that part hit different ...
@LittleMissSunshine7212 жыл бұрын
“Believe your heart & go on ‘bout ya business.” 💯💯💯
@toriyt27143 жыл бұрын
Yea sis this started out not on the best foot. What you’re laying the foundation of is a 50/50 type relationship. If you’re okay with that then fine but it’ll really be like 60/40 which you’re already starting to feel it. In the future let the guy do more or invest just a little more than you. Even if y’all are a hour a part he should drive to where you are and y’all go out to a mutual place and then he goes back home. Don’t make it easy or try to meet a man in the middle in courting until he a has proven without a doubt he is fully invested.
@myishaj74363 жыл бұрын
She not even apart of his world literally. And she begging to get in.. So sad, her son seeing her chase this man weekly.
@s.r.1253 жыл бұрын
Chile! Go bout your business 🤦🏽♀️ he doesn't want her. Let him go, the man who is for you will communicate with you. Been there done that.
@Godislove8183 жыл бұрын
Actions speaks louder than words., apply this to these men nowadays.
@dn-cp6sh3 жыл бұрын
One of my favourites..when Tony does the chair spin around
@SixFootofFitness3 жыл бұрын
TG , when you said he hurt so he’s going to start “listening to men who sit in the dark with stuff spinning around cussing women out who call in” 💀💀😭😭😩😩 I hollered! You be getting those low key jabs in..omg😜😜
@SixFootofFitness3 жыл бұрын
@Coach GloriAnn 😭😭
@coily843 жыл бұрын
I had to pause the video to scream and holler 😆😆😆😆
@quietstorm10503 жыл бұрын
😆😆😆😆😅😅😅
@Candace07303 жыл бұрын
I hollerrrrred at this part!!! 😆😆not in the dark with stuff spinning lol
@kilimanjaro55373 жыл бұрын
That took me out 😂😂😂. The more you think about it that is embarrassing 😂😂😂🤦🏾♀️.
@ashleygoodrich32943 жыл бұрын
Yes that 12 month cut Off Timing is The TRUTH👊🏽💯
@melb33353 жыл бұрын
I could be wrong but I think only myself and another young lady in the comment section picked up on who exactly Tony was referring too and it wasn't DJ. If you even begun to listen and understand Tony you would know that he does not judge nor talk down upon anyone. Because his purpose in doing what he does is for us women to wake up and smell the coffee ☕ and get a man that we deserve in life. Woman need professorial Therapists and Life coaches NOT "Image Consultants". Asking you to rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 10 and you can't use 7. BOOM!!! Stay safe and be blessed everyone..
@Amorantasia13 жыл бұрын
@Coach GloriAnn it was actually both of them, but Tony said that he doesn’t like when we reference it in the comments bc he doesn’t want online beef which I understand. He def made two references and he was spot on! These clowns aren’t even legit and one isn’t even married but gives relationship advice smh
@melb33353 жыл бұрын
@Coach GloriAnn Like Tony says, point, blank, periodt. You know we all have a testimony but listening to Tony has given me some great insight on dating and relationships. Hope you and your loved ones are blessed hun. Take care.
@Carolina480 Жыл бұрын
Communication shouldn’t be difficult it’s the person yu are with makes so difficult it’s their ego it’s their pride their machista their selfish ways yu can’t be or continue with someone yu can’t communicate like mature people
@Eterna_Vida3 жыл бұрын
This was an awesome video.. Tony really wrapped it all up about how a man who is not really into a woman behaves..
@tiffanys.42503 жыл бұрын
This!! Sometimes it's not always about domestic violence or cheating. So glad you talked about this.
@ms3rings3 жыл бұрын
Thnx Toni how she appears sounds like me and my experience with Grown boys. Wow. 😳
@yvonnehutson66763 жыл бұрын
Lol gbuniversity🤗👍🙏💯
@christina334 Жыл бұрын
God bless you, I have been beating myself up over the last month over a long distance relationship. Bad communicator man and you just put it all perfect in my brain. Setting me up to chase and me falling for it and me feeling bad about it. Jesus Christ save us
@ladyomusuku64183 жыл бұрын
Tony Tony Tony....... Man oh Man. You done knocked it out the universe with this one#!!!. You are on the money and you are worth the money!!!! Ladies take heed on the lesson for today because Toni is not telling you any lies. I have listened to so many of your lessons and 95% agree with the advice that you have shared with this one right here I am with you 100%. And I know that we should always realize that a man's past can be the reason why he acts the way he does but that doesn't make him ready to heal just because he meets you.... he still may not be ready and you could still be wasting your time which is where this lady is at. "He likes you but he don't love you....you cool but you AIN'T his wife." Yep and at that point he got other men in his ear that are alone and in a miserable relationship....IF they EVEN have a relationship that he is listening to! It's like you always say when a man wants you he will show you and you will know.
@shaunabee3 жыл бұрын
Good evening Tony and Blessed Tribe 🙋🏾♀️
@bosslady8743 жыл бұрын
You can say that again and again I do not have to raise no man!! Gotta go grown boy!! 💯
@1MISSLISSA3 жыл бұрын
Tony you are the best out here!!!! Blessings to you and your family!!!
@stephaniejackson94123 жыл бұрын
Hello Mr. Gaskins! I have been listening to you for quite a while. You have been so helpful. God truly uses you in a MIGHTY way!!!
@tiffanyanderson81713 жыл бұрын
I loved the Hellen Keller comparison.
@moffahbrigitte33693 жыл бұрын
15:18 - "When I tell you, this woman is a master at not caring." 💀💀🤣🤣🤣
@chanelhinds38583 жыл бұрын
Yo tony always have me cracking up 😂 “do something strange for no piece of change” “you ain’t got no nanny cam” like I really enjoy these videos cause I get taught game and get to laugh about it too 🙏🏾 blessings
@pat4eva093 жыл бұрын
I know Tony is going to stay real and truthful with us. The fake shall be, will be, have been exposed. Bless you Tony and your family.
@4naymsakeRW3 жыл бұрын
Yes, please. Tony seems to be one of the last genuine black male youtubers. 💯
@merlinsvdd3 жыл бұрын
Bless him.
@pat4eva093 жыл бұрын
@@4naymsakeRW Not just KZbinr...Tony is genuine in all aspects of his life. KZbin is just a small percentage of his life.
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad3 жыл бұрын
I love my shirt finally wore it this past Saturday can't wait to wear it where it can be seen 😃
@pat4eva093 жыл бұрын
The way Tony read her picture....Lawd. It's too early in the morn-ting for me to be laughing this crazy😂😂
@sherryparker94833 жыл бұрын
This lady ALREADY KNOWS she sounds like she just wants your confirmation Tony...dump him ma'am, he ain't putting forth the effort
@StingM3Naptural3 жыл бұрын
She does, unfortunately its the father wound😓 every woman needs a positive male role model who wants the best for her and can see the bs right away and tell her NO. Tony is that for so many women ❤️
@Honeyginger3973 жыл бұрын
Mines too I'm so ready to give up on this relationship
@lovejones693 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾
@fredapope583 жыл бұрын
This was a blessing to me, answered ALL my questions on my situation!!!! Dated this guy for 10 months and ALL the signs of a “grown boy”are definitely there....😔
@RUNWAYBEAUTY3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like she’s doing ALL of the talking, explaining and compromising. I hope she’s moved on by now.
@saphireflowers33823 жыл бұрын
Listen to what your heart is telling you!
@missinfinite53603 жыл бұрын
This was a good video. I like the advice to listen to what a guy ISN’T saying.
@Honeysucklebrown13 жыл бұрын
Once Again, GBY~ Tony G “12 Months IS THE CUTOFF”!! More negative than positive.. Give walking papers.. Say BYE!! 👋🏾
@cindeed44223 жыл бұрын
Tony I wish you could do a “whatever happened too” type thing for these questions. It would be interesting to check back in with the letter writers and see what really happened in some of these situations after your advice. Just a suggestion for your app. Thank you.
@ClaraCouturexo3 жыл бұрын
😭😭🤣🤣🤣 When Tony tap the book on Sheri! 🤣😭😭 The neck! “Actors in this skit!” What a way to end the night!
@mymakersdaughter60413 жыл бұрын
I screamed😂😂🤣🤣! I so wish Sheri had time to share her nuggets of wisdom! Sis got it going on👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@neya2923 жыл бұрын
I was rolling!!! And yes, I would love to hear from her but that is exactly Tony's point. Lol
@mymakersdaughter60413 жыл бұрын
He actually said I’m getting too active in this skit😂🤣!
@steph_steph8763 жыл бұрын
Wow...the Helen Keller illustration was EVERYTHING!!! That is a perfect example of how important it is to acknowledge how your heart feels. Thank you Tony for another one!
@christina334 Жыл бұрын
You saying I'll get there when I get there. I'll respond when I respond. Oh my god that hit me to the core and here I am feeling guilty about not liking being treated like this
@snbryso3 жыл бұрын
I really need your help Mr. Gaskins. Thanks for the videos.
@ejnkl3 жыл бұрын
I am all ears! My guy is terrible at communicating! Omg!!!
@merlinsvdd3 жыл бұрын
You speak truth, Tony, actions speak louder than words.