His communication is terrible! | Talks with Tony

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Tony Gaskins

Tony Gaskins

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@KrystleLaughter
@KrystleLaughter 3 жыл бұрын
If a man acts like he doesn’t care in a relationship, its because...HE DOESN’T CARE!
@denisemyers733
@denisemyers733 3 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@nacoyarussell185
@nacoyarussell185 3 жыл бұрын
The truth hurts!!!
@merlinsvdd
@merlinsvdd 3 жыл бұрын
Ya, he can't admit it but he blames you for only see him as an associate. Sigh..He dogged me out.
@Isa-Amor
@Isa-Amor 3 жыл бұрын
I asked a dude why he acts like that and he said because he didnt. Facts
@s.r.125
@s.r.125 3 жыл бұрын
Facts 🎯🎯🎯
@missmaria6423
@missmaria6423 3 жыл бұрын
Communication is only difficult for someone who doesn't want you,that's that!
@roowens8799
@roowens8799 3 жыл бұрын
If you communicated to someone that something is important to you and that person minimizes it and refuse to consider adjusting...maybe it is time for you to take a step back.
@user-zx5xw4yw2e
@user-zx5xw4yw2e 3 жыл бұрын
All the way back.. Like, lose them completely, as there isn't any respect.
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
All the way back with blocking him from calling you, emailing you and contacting you via social media. It’s not that serious!
@olanikeshamonda73
@olanikeshamonda73 3 жыл бұрын
been time
@_zina9054
@_zina9054 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this thank you
@sunvavachi
@sunvavachi 3 жыл бұрын
This is happening to me atm
@SpiralsKinksNCoils
@SpiralsKinksNCoils 3 жыл бұрын
"He like you, but he don't love you... you cool, but your not his wife." Well said!!
@josiegarrett8388
@josiegarrett8388 3 жыл бұрын
What if Im married and he doesn't have much communication? Would rather play with the dog then pay any attention to me.
@SpiralsKinksNCoils
@SpiralsKinksNCoils 3 жыл бұрын
@@josiegarrett8388 wow! I'm so sorry that's happening to you! I personally and not a relationship expert and I'm sure that question is for Tony. Hopefully he does another live soon and you can get this question answered. I'm curious why that would be. 🤔
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
@@josiegarrett8388 😢
@elenap2215
@elenap2215 3 жыл бұрын
@@josiegarrett8388 I don't know the full context of it, but maybe try to communicate to him how is you feeling. He might dealing with some other issues that he doesn't want you to worry about so he keeping his distant... you know your husband better than I do. But if his action to you changed all of a sudden and became distant and rather would play with the dog than spending time with you.. you have to think why this is happening? he might be interested on someone else ... So sorry to hear this ! I hope that that's not the case
@itsliveagain2524
@itsliveagain2524 3 жыл бұрын
@@josiegarrett8388 I know someone like that and they ended up getting divorced. He said he admitted he was not a good husband and that he would ignore his wife. And just so you know , the problem is with him so there will always be problems in any relationship he attempts.
@kena9425
@kena9425 3 жыл бұрын
If a man wants you, you can feel it. His actions will tell you, as well as his words. “Point, blank, PERIYAHD”
@nursegaines3519
@nursegaines3519 2 жыл бұрын
"PERIYAHD!"
@CoachLove
@CoachLove 3 жыл бұрын
If he ain't excited to be with and see you, acting like you're just cool, remove yourself.
@olanikeshamonda73
@olanikeshamonda73 3 жыл бұрын
amen
@jewelsafire6844
@jewelsafire6844 3 жыл бұрын
It's absolutely disgusting to give of our precious time & affections, only to get back crumbs. Them crumbs are for the birds & so is he.✂✌🏽
@jewelsafire6844
@jewelsafire6844 3 жыл бұрын
@Joyful n Blessed Right, it's like begging him to be with you. Smh
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 3 жыл бұрын
thankfully we have the choice to either accept or reject crumbs, we are not helpless.
@stargoldqueen5894
@stargoldqueen5894 3 жыл бұрын
"When a man about you, it will make you feel good."
@lindalovehearts
@lindalovehearts 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@missmaria6423
@missmaria6423 3 жыл бұрын
Period!!
@shan4145
@shan4145 3 жыл бұрын
So true!
@lindalovehearts
@lindalovehearts 3 жыл бұрын
@@missmaria6423 💯💜💙
@LittleMissSunshine721
@LittleMissSunshine721 2 жыл бұрын
This. 💯💯💯
@2cuteemari
@2cuteemari 3 жыл бұрын
If a guy isn’t showing strong effort to communicate and connect with me, I cut them off right then and there. If he doesn’t have a strong interest I’m not waiting around.
@daniellegause6521
@daniellegause6521 3 жыл бұрын
Me too!!
@itsyourgirltee3754
@itsyourgirltee3754 3 жыл бұрын
I literally just lose his number. Did that on Sunday. I dont have the time.
@ascelinek
@ascelinek 3 жыл бұрын
Same!!
@irlandaise5631
@irlandaise5631 3 жыл бұрын
same ..but I have had men showing an effort asking me out..and then we dont connect..he d talk about different subjects and he wouldnt be interested in listening to my goals etc..they ll make a quick comment and get back to what they were talking about..I have refused such men in the end..
@BashaerB-h2c
@BashaerB-h2c 10 ай бұрын
Emotionally unavailable men/men are hell.
@introvertedbeauty00
@introvertedbeauty00 3 жыл бұрын
If you find yourself practically having to beg someone for the bare minimum, he/she ain't the one. Save yourself some heartache and pain and disappear.
@ingridrevolorio1800
@ingridrevolorio1800 2 жыл бұрын
😩
@JourneywithFely57
@JourneywithFely57 3 жыл бұрын
Actions speak louder than words every time.
@merlinsvdd
@merlinsvdd 3 жыл бұрын
True. My mistake for ignoring that in the past.
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
@@merlinsvdd When you know better, you do better! You have the info for the next time!
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
@bariannmartin8728
@bariannmartin8728 3 жыл бұрын
I was tought that as a kid.
@loveneverends9605
@loveneverends9605 3 жыл бұрын
THAT PART!
@Dr.Elaine1
@Dr.Elaine1 3 жыл бұрын
“You too grown to raise a man.” TG
@thesimoneshowlove
@thesimoneshowlove 3 жыл бұрын
When a man says “it’s always something”, that means he could be continuously getting more and more annoyed with the woman, probably, like Tony said, because he doesn’t really want her. Then when he’s ready to leave, he could pick a random reason to leave, and she’s left surprised. When a man is acting like that, he could be hoping for the woman he really wants to act right, and more annoyed with the woman he’s currently with because she’s doing everything he wants the woman he really wants, to do, so he’s frustrated.
@nmiburo
@nmiburo 3 жыл бұрын
This 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@caramelfox4807
@caramelfox4807 3 жыл бұрын
This is perfectly stated!
@lebeautyprenuer3679
@lebeautyprenuer3679 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting concept
@tashaequeen8935
@tashaequeen8935 3 жыл бұрын
Wow well said
@reinaquisha9418
@reinaquisha9418 3 жыл бұрын
He's trying to train you sis. Y'all stay blessed out here🤍
@CaramelCuban
@CaramelCuban 3 жыл бұрын
I’m not yo puppy , boy bye 👋🏽
@kareeshasimonebenjamin5706
@kareeshasimonebenjamin5706 3 жыл бұрын
An inconsistent action is a consistent answer. Red flags are real please bare that in mind ask God for the spirit of discernment
@AmericanDreamer
@AmericanDreamer Жыл бұрын
Very well said, it is 100% true,
@sherylleelee
@sherylleelee 3 жыл бұрын
Girl...just say "Bye Boy!" This boy is not husband material or stepfather material. Roll on boy!!!
@yvonnehutson6676
@yvonnehutson6676 3 жыл бұрын
Lol amen👋
@sherryfews4132
@sherryfews4132 3 жыл бұрын
🗣️
@denisemyers733
@denisemyers733 3 жыл бұрын
To the point. You’re always on time. When a man likes you. All you gotta do is turn around he’s there. NO EXCUSES GIVEN.
@ForeverPisces843
@ForeverPisces843 3 жыл бұрын
I had communication issues too. So I cut the line 🤷. It hurts and sometimes I want to text him but than I remember to love me more.
@sassysweet9355
@sassysweet9355 3 жыл бұрын
Broke up with my ex last year, due to this same exact thing! I have grown and healed a lot, within this whole year. I was unhealed, immature, chaotic and masculine, for the longest time. Now that I am healed, calm, mature, whole, secure and more sophisticated....I attract much better quality men. One who is currently courting me, actually wants me to marry him in the future. All glory to God, for gradual growth and progress! Love your channel Tony! Keep up the great work! God Bless! 😇🙏🏻❤️
@nicoleb9047
@nicoleb9047 3 жыл бұрын
I realized that I was much more masculine in my last relationship where he was horrible at communicating too! I turned into the man role always trying to fix everything and drive everywhere (he always complained about driving). Now that its over and I’m healing, I have felt myself slide back into a more feminine and relaxed place on my day to day and whenever I talk to guys.
@sassysweet9355
@sassysweet9355 3 жыл бұрын
@@nicoleb9047 Oh wow! No way, same here! Glad that my fellow queens can relate! And yes! After years into the relationship, he changed as a person and or his true self came through. He bacame stingy, low effort and low communication....Even stopped being romantic, generous or go on dates anymore. He wanted me to be bob the builder and raise him and it was draining. I fell for his representative, that he showed me at the beginning. In the end we weren't right for one another and both came into the relationship younger, broken and immature. The soul tie needed to be broken. It made me lose my identity and femininity also.....Along with toxic friends, that needed to be cut off at the time too. I am glad that I am in a happier and more stable place in my life now. Having higher standards, self worth and not settling for less! God bless you Queen! 🥰😇😉💖👑
@yvonnehutson6676
@yvonnehutson6676 3 жыл бұрын
Such a testimony congratulations❤🤗💐
@sassysweet9355
@sassysweet9355 3 жыл бұрын
@@yvonnehutson6676 Thanks so much! 🥰🙌🏻
@nicoleb9047
@nicoleb9047 3 жыл бұрын
@@sassysweet9355 thank you Queen! God bless you too!!! I continue to relate to your story! Mine because stingy as well. Praise God for showing us their true colors before marriage, so that we may be on our way keeping our standards high.
@sheilazimmerman3905
@sheilazimmerman3905 3 жыл бұрын
When a man is into you and he likes you....he is going to consider you above all else, followed with respect for you. (He sees you as wife material) Blessings to you Tony and your Family🌸
@theresemeggitt8455
@theresemeggitt8455 3 жыл бұрын
“When love isn’t being served, you must leave the table”. Nina Simone-
@breewelch5982
@breewelch5982 3 жыл бұрын
Sound like this brotha need to heal & sis need to put on her track shoes. Don't show him a lick more of energy or signs of being upset. Upset for what? Sis you the prize! His loss...
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@relisbetrel
@relisbetrel 3 жыл бұрын
Facts 💖
@arielhenry1189
@arielhenry1189 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@curiositykillsthe2597
@curiositykillsthe2597 3 жыл бұрын
He’s not trying to love her, he’s trying to train her.
@aprylclark3796
@aprylclark3796 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so tired of a woman having to be so perfect for a man, can a man be put in the position to want to present theirselves to have the perfect woman! When will the tables turn
@s.r.125
@s.r.125 3 жыл бұрын
"Listen to what he is not saying" TG🎯🎯
@StephsLifeKc
@StephsLifeKc 3 жыл бұрын
I blocked my ex today it was hard but I did it!! Everything you said is 100% facts... thank you Tony
@ladyomusuku6418
@ladyomusuku6418 3 жыл бұрын
Chicana....be strong...hang in there....dont give in.
@cherh
@cherh 3 жыл бұрын
Please don't compare TG to any of these "coaches". Tony ACTIONS speak for him. Gone bout'cha business lol
@Amorantasia1
@Amorantasia1 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@cherh
@cherh 3 жыл бұрын
@@Amorantasia1 💯
@mercedeslong4178
@mercedeslong4178 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@Dimples3434
@Dimples3434 3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾facts
@cherh
@cherh 3 жыл бұрын
@@mercedeslong4178 💯
@CoachLove
@CoachLove 3 жыл бұрын
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched-they must be felt with the heart. Helen Keller
@fabulousmdb7927
@fabulousmdb7927 3 жыл бұрын
15:12 - Sheri Gaskins got ALL THE GAME! Anytime Tony mentions how she responds to him, my ears are perked! My future husband ain't gonna know what to do. I'm soaking in all the knowledge. LOL!
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
Sheri is the 💣! Well played!!!!
@aneshrathomas
@aneshrathomas 3 жыл бұрын
“You the Queen a man suppose to be chasing you “🎯👌🏾
@bmorgan1405
@bmorgan1405 3 жыл бұрын
Run forrest run. You are not "that" important to him. If he has issues and wants to be in a relationship he needs to work on himself first.
@ulricka2131
@ulricka2131 3 жыл бұрын
3:57 in. Sister do not waste your time. You are not his priority. Remember: we are the prize. Not the opposite. Please 🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️
@supersizedbeauty6824
@supersizedbeauty6824 3 жыл бұрын
"look like you smoke you a lil weed"-TG😩🤣🤣🤦🏾‍♀️
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
He ain’t right😂🤣🤣
@toneyfox6328
@toneyfox6328 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@cocoj2252
@cocoj2252 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@ashleyrolle2214
@ashleyrolle2214 3 жыл бұрын
I was like what?!😂😂🥴
@desireeferguson7693
@desireeferguson7693 3 жыл бұрын
I died when he said that
@4naymsakeRW
@4naymsakeRW 3 жыл бұрын
He said men who sit in the dark and curse out women..I caught that one lolol
@toneyfox6328
@toneyfox6328 3 жыл бұрын
Sis yessss
@afrozeahmed6515
@afrozeahmed6515 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds fishy sister!This man doesnt like you-you are a hold me down woman.I got a feeling he is seeing someone on that side,he is a grown boy,you need to walk away.He doesnt come on his own to visit you/he comes late in the day-he takes u to granted!/and he has the cheek to say u complaining.This type of man will make u feel like crap for asking for basics!He is not for you-leave now while its early.Cry as much as u need too.
@jaszlikescookies95
@jaszlikescookies95 3 жыл бұрын
Needed this comment. It’s hard dealing with a heartbreak from a narcissistic grown boy but leaving is the best decision I’ve made!
@afrozeahmed6515
@afrozeahmed6515 3 жыл бұрын
I didnt listen to the whole video-just heard the letter and knew imediately that that man is wasting her time-he is just stringing her along.He also doesn't like being checked when you correct him.I hope u didnt sleep with that man!This is why the jewels stay locked until we get married.Why?Atleast I know God blessed that marriage whatever the outcome YOU DONT KNOW A MAN OUT OF 12MONTHS!TG
@terrybuckley2850
@terrybuckley2850 3 жыл бұрын
@@jaszlikescookies95 ...been there, done that! It is so beautiful 🤩 to be FREE of the BS! Loving yourself and respecting yourself and your well being is much better! 🙏🏾
@saphireflowers3382
@saphireflowers3382 3 жыл бұрын
I agree EXCEPT I SAY "You get 24 hours to cry, then dry your tears and keep it pushing". Do not sit around crying over that human.
@oohno1000
@oohno1000 2 жыл бұрын
He was watching the game it’s time management and it’s foot ball 🏈 he Just need to get to u in a timely manner
@gigi-y5q
@gigi-y5q 3 жыл бұрын
Tony can you do a video on how men “read” women.
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
I would like that too! He touched on it a little bit in this video, but I would like more detailed info. I will have my binder ready to go!
@kilimanjaro5537
@kilimanjaro5537 3 жыл бұрын
@@mymakersdaughter6041 right.
@starznmyeyez8906
@starznmyeyez8906 3 жыл бұрын
She thinks that man was looking forward to spending time with her and her son. He's not completely sure about her and now she wants to push her child on him. He's not the one for a number of reasons.
@patriciawilliams5519
@patriciawilliams5519 3 жыл бұрын
Keep the child out for awhile; or totally out!
@oliviaperez5572
@oliviaperez5572 3 жыл бұрын
“When a man gets hurt, he starts listening to men sittin in the dark with stuff spinning around” thank 👏 you 👏 tony👏. I can’t stand that man, he is influencing men to be worse. It’s very sad. I love how you and RC Blake’s indirectly address “that man’s” beliefs because you have women out here buying into it.
@jessiemarierandle7760
@jessiemarierandle7760 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@lifecoachkris1486
@lifecoachkris1486 3 жыл бұрын
Non negotiables and setting clear boundaries should be talked about in the very beginning of the relationship. Stating what is ok and what is not ok comes with skills and clear communication. Know your worth and values, and don’t be afraid to communicate that in the very start of your relationship💕
@mizzannabella
@mizzannabella 3 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree with this! I haven’t necessarily set these boundaries and non negotiable beforehand and that’s partly why things didn’t work out. Moving forward, I will do this
@iamcoachcourtney-letstalka4906
@iamcoachcourtney-letstalka4906 3 жыл бұрын
Like Tony said, believe your heart and go on bout your business!! Women, we are in the winning position. When a man is truly into you, he'll want to be around you all of the time.
@Rambolopezzz
@Rambolopezzz 3 жыл бұрын
Tony! I just wanted to tell you THANK YOU! You helped me out of a bad situation and pulled me out of the dark getting over a loser. Thank you for letting the lord work through you. I’ve been working on myself and making sure to stand in love vs falling in love. That was a huge lesson learned from you. Thank you for your wisdom and knowledge and humour. I’ve grown (been actually putting in the work- mentally, spiritually & physically) and now I’m ready & capable of loving myself first and to walk into a relationship with my eyes opened and the lesson of standing in love. Thank you!
@lekeshial418
@lekeshial418 3 жыл бұрын
She said he told her, he had to hang up to go fold towels.. Oh dear! ( was I hearing things? Lol) 🚩🚩🚩
@luxeeventsbymerandallc2427
@luxeeventsbymerandallc2427 3 жыл бұрын
My kids dad used to tell me his fingers hurt and were tired from messaging me
@lekeshial418
@lekeshial418 3 жыл бұрын
@@luxeeventsbymerandallc2427 the foolery🥴..I guess a phone call was out the question too.
@fantasyford1778
@fantasyford1778 3 жыл бұрын
I dealt w/some like this but he always blamed poor communication or anything I addressed on his father passing away! He says his fathers death really messed him up. I walked away after 3 months out of fear that he’ll have me strung out in a corner crying somewhere lol - I’m laughing but I’m so serious. I just pray for him.
@yvonnehutson6676
@yvonnehutson6676 3 жыл бұрын
🙏u walked away
@ClaraCouturexo
@ClaraCouturexo 3 жыл бұрын
Hold on let me connect this to my speaker while I’m on the treadmill!
@ClaraCouturexo
@ClaraCouturexo 3 жыл бұрын
BRAIN BRAND BODY! Okay!
@titisweets
@titisweets 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so for educating the people on the difference between 360 and 180!!! I get so annoyed every time someone says that 🙄
@nellelove4899
@nellelove4899 3 жыл бұрын
This sounds familiar except I don’t have a child. I hope she just blocks him and leaves because it won’t change.
@nicoleb9047
@nicoleb9047 3 жыл бұрын
Mine didn’t change after 8 years. I have blocked and moved on and now he has emailed me saying he’s reading books on communication. I’m not going back.
@yvonnehutson6676
@yvonnehutson6676 3 жыл бұрын
🙏💯
@solopa3808
@solopa3808 3 жыл бұрын
Exhausting isn't it... and yes it does change, it just gets worse 🤦
@OsutaCaroline
@OsutaCaroline 8 ай бұрын
@@nicoleb9047 reading books on communication 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@artsynik3864
@artsynik3864 3 жыл бұрын
“start listening to men who sit in the dark.. with stuff spinnin round & cuss women out who call in” HA!!!! I HOLLERED😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@agadonk
@agadonk 3 жыл бұрын
He SaYs he doesn't communicate because he doesn't want to get hurt. Now he need to get left!
@klickingkayasmr7585
@klickingkayasmr7585 3 жыл бұрын
Ohh I hate when guys do reverse psychology on you..... what they actually mean “I’m about to hurt you.”
@misst72
@misst72 3 жыл бұрын
I'm single and taking notes!!!! This is good stuff
@kaylashay9724
@kaylashay9724 3 жыл бұрын
Believe your heart...best quote
@akaiya08
@akaiya08 3 жыл бұрын
He broke all that down from a photo!!! Wow 😳
@klickingkayasmr7585
@klickingkayasmr7585 3 жыл бұрын
Yup, we women don’t realize but the way we choose to look allows a man to judge us, thus he treats us accordingly --good or bad. That’s why it’s important how we present and carry ourselves.
@joi5787
@joi5787 3 жыл бұрын
“Gone Bout Yo Business Sis!” in the words of Tony G.
@CarmenLifeCoach
@CarmenLifeCoach 3 жыл бұрын
All i needed to hear was that he told her he shows her he doesn't care because when he did, it didn't work out. Never deal with anyone who doesn't treat you based on who YOU ARE and instead puts you through stuff just because of their past, those are excuses. More than that, all his actions showed lack of respect, care and love, don't trip on what his lips are saying and choose yourself by giving your time and feelings to someone who values you and shows it every single time.
@nelidayoungblood815
@nelidayoungblood815 3 жыл бұрын
Your description of her picture made me chuckle 😄
@pamelathomas5019
@pamelathomas5019 3 жыл бұрын
Lord thank you for the truth of it all! Point blank PERIODT! He like you, but he don't love you. He don't see you as his wife dear heart..TG.. well said Big Bro
@BeBeautifullyYou
@BeBeautifullyYou 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, she needs to gone bout her business. He’s squandering the little time they have to spend together for nothing. He’s not that interested in you anymore. I had the same situation last summer. We spent his two days off when we first started dating because he worked nights and I worked days. After a few months, he was MIA, not answering calls until too late to see each other, thought he was going to have me in limbo until he was available (lies). I had to face the fact that he shifted and it was time for me to go because a grown man will let you know how he truly feels. Won’t be no guessing. Good thing for me is I kept my cookie to myself so it was easy for me to get my purse and gone bout my business.
@yvonnehutson6676
@yvonnehutson6676 3 жыл бұрын
Breadcrumbing
@BeBeautifullyYou
@BeBeautifullyYou 3 жыл бұрын
@@yvonnehutson6676 exactly.
@brielleharmony7568
@brielleharmony7568 3 жыл бұрын
Omg same exactly thing I never gave up my cookies Either if I did I would have been pissed
@007stinkey
@007stinkey 3 жыл бұрын
It can be communication problems *sometimes* but I have come to the conclusion that it's basically you are dealing with a liar. What happens when dealing with a liar is that issues keep going in a circle, one person trying to hide the truth,*them* The other person *you* trying to get the truth. And the circle just continues, cause you will never get the truth.
@nacoyarussell185
@nacoyarussell185 3 жыл бұрын
The way Tony handled those scissors 😂😂😂
@Casaunlynn
@Casaunlynn 3 жыл бұрын
Ok, I thought the same, let us know that you take fencing.
@sherryfews4132
@sherryfews4132 3 жыл бұрын
Like in the movie "JD's Revenge" lol
@MrsLC-tp8oj
@MrsLC-tp8oj 3 жыл бұрын
The man gonna start listening to men that sit in the dark with stuff spinning and curse women out that call. 😂😂 Tony Gaskins thank you for your info it’s not always what we want to hear but it’s needed info and, it comes respectful and from God speaking thru you Thank you.
@Cpre1111
@Cpre1111 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this video. I've been dealing with this now from a guy in the talking phase for 2 weeks. We talk fine but his communication is inconsistent & he's told me he'll talk to me when he's good & ready (he's so busy 😂). Plus it's distance. Plus he's condescending at times. Smh. I'm done.
@kiwthebeauty
@kiwthebeauty 3 жыл бұрын
Girl you done done. He long distance too so easy to say bye bye
@yvonnehutson6676
@yvonnehutson6676 3 жыл бұрын
Boy 👋
@lovejones69
@lovejones69 3 жыл бұрын
RUN 🏃‍♂️
@dashafenty9969
@dashafenty9969 3 жыл бұрын
"Listen to what he's not saying " TG !!! Damn that part hit different ...
@LittleMissSunshine721
@LittleMissSunshine721 2 жыл бұрын
“Believe your heart & go on ‘bout ya business.” 💯💯💯
@toriyt2714
@toriyt2714 3 жыл бұрын
Yea sis this started out not on the best foot. What you’re laying the foundation of is a 50/50 type relationship. If you’re okay with that then fine but it’ll really be like 60/40 which you’re already starting to feel it. In the future let the guy do more or invest just a little more than you. Even if y’all are a hour a part he should drive to where you are and y’all go out to a mutual place and then he goes back home. Don’t make it easy or try to meet a man in the middle in courting until he a has proven without a doubt he is fully invested.
@myishaj7436
@myishaj7436 3 жыл бұрын
She not even apart of his world literally. And she begging to get in.. So sad, her son seeing her chase this man weekly.
@s.r.125
@s.r.125 3 жыл бұрын
Chile! Go bout your business 🤦🏽‍♀️ he doesn't want her. Let him go, the man who is for you will communicate with you. Been there done that.
@Godislove818
@Godislove818 3 жыл бұрын
Actions speaks louder than words., apply this to these men nowadays.
@dn-cp6sh
@dn-cp6sh 3 жыл бұрын
One of my favourites..when Tony does the chair spin around
@SixFootofFitness
@SixFootofFitness 3 жыл бұрын
TG , when you said he hurt so he’s going to start “listening to men who sit in the dark with stuff spinning around cussing women out who call in” 💀💀😭😭😩😩 I hollered! You be getting those low key jabs in..omg😜😜
@SixFootofFitness
@SixFootofFitness 3 жыл бұрын
@Coach GloriAnn 😭😭
@coily84
@coily84 3 жыл бұрын
I had to pause the video to scream and holler 😆😆😆😆
@quietstorm1050
@quietstorm1050 3 жыл бұрын
😆😆😆😆😅😅😅
@Candace0730
@Candace0730 3 жыл бұрын
I hollerrrrred at this part!!! 😆😆not in the dark with stuff spinning lol
@kilimanjaro5537
@kilimanjaro5537 3 жыл бұрын
That took me out 😂😂😂. The more you think about it that is embarrassing 😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️.
@ashleygoodrich3294
@ashleygoodrich3294 3 жыл бұрын
Yes that 12 month cut Off Timing is The TRUTH👊🏽💯
@melb3335
@melb3335 3 жыл бұрын
I could be wrong but I think only myself and another young lady in the comment section picked up on who exactly Tony was referring too and it wasn't DJ. If you even begun to listen and understand Tony you would know that he does not judge nor talk down upon anyone. Because his purpose in doing what he does is for us women to wake up and smell the coffee ☕ and get a man that we deserve in life. Woman need professorial Therapists and Life coaches NOT "Image Consultants". Asking you to rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 10 and you can't use 7. BOOM!!! Stay safe and be blessed everyone..
@Amorantasia1
@Amorantasia1 3 жыл бұрын
@Coach GloriAnn it was actually both of them, but Tony said that he doesn’t like when we reference it in the comments bc he doesn’t want online beef which I understand. He def made two references and he was spot on! These clowns aren’t even legit and one isn’t even married but gives relationship advice smh
@melb3335
@melb3335 3 жыл бұрын
@Coach GloriAnn Like Tony says, point, blank, periodt. You know we all have a testimony but listening to Tony has given me some great insight on dating and relationships. Hope you and your loved ones are blessed hun. Take care.
@Carolina480
@Carolina480 Жыл бұрын
Communication shouldn’t be difficult it’s the person yu are with makes so difficult it’s their ego it’s their pride their machista their selfish ways yu can’t be or continue with someone yu can’t communicate like mature people
@Eterna_Vida
@Eterna_Vida 3 жыл бұрын
This was an awesome video.. Tony really wrapped it all up about how a man who is not really into a woman behaves..
@tiffanys.4250
@tiffanys.4250 3 жыл бұрын
This!! Sometimes it's not always about domestic violence or cheating. So glad you talked about this.
@ms3rings
@ms3rings 3 жыл бұрын
Thnx Toni how she appears sounds like me and my experience with Grown boys. Wow. 😳
@yvonnehutson6676
@yvonnehutson6676 3 жыл бұрын
Lol gbuniversity🤗👍🙏💯
@christina334
@christina334 Жыл бұрын
God bless you, I have been beating myself up over the last month over a long distance relationship. Bad communicator man and you just put it all perfect in my brain. Setting me up to chase and me falling for it and me feeling bad about it. Jesus Christ save us
@ladyomusuku6418
@ladyomusuku6418 3 жыл бұрын
Tony Tony Tony....... Man oh Man. You done knocked it out the universe with this one#!!!. You are on the money and you are worth the money!!!! Ladies take heed on the lesson for today because Toni is not telling you any lies. I have listened to so many of your lessons and 95% agree with the advice that you have shared with this one right here I am with you 100%. And I know that we should always realize that a man's past can be the reason why he acts the way he does but that doesn't make him ready to heal just because he meets you.... he still may not be ready and you could still be wasting your time which is where this lady is at. "He likes you but he don't love you....you cool but you AIN'T his wife." Yep and at that point he got other men in his ear that are alone and in a miserable relationship....IF they EVEN have a relationship that he is listening to! It's like you always say when a man wants you he will show you and you will know.
@shaunabee
@shaunabee 3 жыл бұрын
Good evening Tony and Blessed Tribe 🙋🏾‍♀️
@bosslady874
@bosslady874 3 жыл бұрын
You can say that again and again I do not have to raise no man!! Gotta go grown boy!! 💯
@1MISSLISSA
@1MISSLISSA 3 жыл бұрын
Tony you are the best out here!!!! Blessings to you and your family!!!
@stephaniejackson9412
@stephaniejackson9412 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Mr. Gaskins! I have been listening to you for quite a while. You have been so helpful. God truly uses you in a MIGHTY way!!!
@tiffanyanderson8171
@tiffanyanderson8171 3 жыл бұрын
I loved the Hellen Keller comparison.
@moffahbrigitte3369
@moffahbrigitte3369 3 жыл бұрын
15:18 - "When I tell you, this woman is a master at not caring." 💀💀🤣🤣🤣
@chanelhinds3858
@chanelhinds3858 3 жыл бұрын
Yo tony always have me cracking up 😂 “do something strange for no piece of change” “you ain’t got no nanny cam” like I really enjoy these videos cause I get taught game and get to laugh about it too 🙏🏾 blessings
@pat4eva09
@pat4eva09 3 жыл бұрын
I know Tony is going to stay real and truthful with us. The fake shall be, will be, have been exposed. Bless you Tony and your family.
@4naymsakeRW
@4naymsakeRW 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, please. Tony seems to be one of the last genuine black male youtubers. 💯
@merlinsvdd
@merlinsvdd 3 жыл бұрын
Bless him.
@pat4eva09
@pat4eva09 3 жыл бұрын
@@4naymsakeRW Not just KZbinr...Tony is genuine in all aspects of his life. KZbin is just a small percentage of his life.
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad 3 жыл бұрын
I love my shirt finally wore it this past Saturday can't wait to wear it where it can be seen 😃
@pat4eva09
@pat4eva09 3 жыл бұрын
The way Tony read her picture....Lawd. It's too early in the morn-ting for me to be laughing this crazy😂😂
@sherryparker9483
@sherryparker9483 3 жыл бұрын
This lady ALREADY KNOWS she sounds like she just wants your confirmation Tony...dump him ma'am, he ain't putting forth the effort
@StingM3Naptural
@StingM3Naptural 3 жыл бұрын
She does, unfortunately its the father wound😓 every woman needs a positive male role model who wants the best for her and can see the bs right away and tell her NO. Tony is that for so many women ❤️
@Honeyginger397
@Honeyginger397 3 жыл бұрын
Mines too I'm so ready to give up on this relationship
@lovejones69
@lovejones69 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾
@fredapope58
@fredapope58 3 жыл бұрын
This was a blessing to me, answered ALL my questions on my situation!!!! Dated this guy for 10 months and ALL the signs of a “grown boy”are definitely there....😔
@RUNWAYBEAUTY
@RUNWAYBEAUTY 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like she’s doing ALL of the talking, explaining and compromising. I hope she’s moved on by now.
@saphireflowers3382
@saphireflowers3382 3 жыл бұрын
Listen to what your heart is telling you!
@missinfinite5360
@missinfinite5360 3 жыл бұрын
This was a good video. I like the advice to listen to what a guy ISN’T saying.
@Honeysucklebrown1
@Honeysucklebrown1 3 жыл бұрын
Once Again, GBY~ Tony G “12 Months IS THE CUTOFF”!! More negative than positive.. Give walking papers.. Say BYE!! 👋🏾
@cindeed4422
@cindeed4422 3 жыл бұрын
Tony I wish you could do a “whatever happened too” type thing for these questions. It would be interesting to check back in with the letter writers and see what really happened in some of these situations after your advice. Just a suggestion for your app. Thank you.
@ClaraCouturexo
@ClaraCouturexo 3 жыл бұрын
😭😭🤣🤣🤣 When Tony tap the book on Sheri! 🤣😭😭 The neck! “Actors in this skit!” What a way to end the night!
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
I screamed😂😂🤣🤣! I so wish Sheri had time to share her nuggets of wisdom! Sis got it going on👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@neya292
@neya292 3 жыл бұрын
I was rolling!!! And yes, I would love to hear from her but that is exactly Tony's point. Lol
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
He actually said I’m getting too active in this skit😂🤣!
@steph_steph876
@steph_steph876 3 жыл бұрын
Wow...the Helen Keller illustration was EVERYTHING!!! That is a perfect example of how important it is to acknowledge how your heart feels. Thank you Tony for another one!
@christina334
@christina334 Жыл бұрын
You saying I'll get there when I get there. I'll respond when I respond. Oh my god that hit me to the core and here I am feeling guilty about not liking being treated like this
@snbryso
@snbryso 3 жыл бұрын
I really need your help Mr. Gaskins. Thanks for the videos.
@ejnkl
@ejnkl 3 жыл бұрын
I am all ears! My guy is terrible at communicating! Omg!!!
@merlinsvdd
@merlinsvdd 3 жыл бұрын
You speak truth, Tony, actions speak louder than words.
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