When To Give A Relationship A Title.

[@AbianahTheGemini]

We all play the fool sometimes. But when you know better you do better. God bless you sister.

[@nicolec.5938]

Please believe it’s a many of men that even will go so far to put a ring on it . And still don’t have intentions of marriage. I say wait til the marriage certificate signed before giving up the cookie ! Gods way is best 🙌🏼

[@sophiamitchell907]

@ Really. My Dad told ne as a young girl that a man will wait 20yrs if he has to, to get what he wants.

[@Dd-po2ij]

Truth. I still have the ring no man 3yrs ago

@@Dd-po2ij many little boys, tryna waste women time real knuckleheads ❤

[@yeahthatsme921]

😂😂😂

[@shutit4024]

Diddy 😂😂

[@jennymoll442]

Those are the type of men who will knock you up and leave.

[@anointed1302]

Sex before marriage is DANGEROUS!!! Stop 🛑 allowing the enemy fool you...wisdom from a #RealChik247

[@topazgraham2643]

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[@MJ-vt4nb]

He was gaslighting her and making her feel guilty for no reason.

[@karenmcgee1869]

I agree!

[@anointedstilettos]

He's running game on her and she's allowing it because she like him. He probably really doesn't even care for her, she's just the one who came running back. Sex is blinding, that's why it should be saved until marriage. Now that she gave it up without a title, if she tries to stop he's going to drop her like a hot potato. If she stays with him, she will have to accept their relationship the way she allowed it start. Run the other way young lady.

[@JR-xp1iz]

I knew 2 virgins who married in the 80's. They had one child and parted after roughly 3 years partly because he was curious about other cookies.

[@beefaye6861]

@@JR-xp1iz See....it happens either way.

[@shutit4024]

@@beefaye6861 damn nobody safe 😩 this also happened to somebody in my family they got married but divorce 10 months afterwards but already had a kid by then

[@beefaye6861]

@@shutit4024 IKR...

[@wbabe2012]

That test drive was the perfect analogy.

[@msrenata80]

Wow, this one was deep! I pray the young lady did what she had to do, to better herself and moved on! He’s not ready, and if you see this young lady, you are going to make it, you are a Queen, pick up your crown and wear it upright! God bless you dear!👑👑

[@flowerpink33]

He’s sounds like a HOT 🥵 mess. Run 🏃🏾‍♀️ girl Run 🏃🏾‍♀️. He’s manipulating her with his sob violin 🎻 stories.

[@DrBlessed1111]

Women end up being a pin cushion. When she gives her essence before establishing a foundation. A relationship involves both individuals. Therefore, both parties need to speak up early during the introductory stage. Desperate women succumb to lust, thinking they'll get him to commit through the V-Jay-Jay! Then, claim to be afraid to set standards, out of fear of chasing a man away. One can not chase a man away if there's a divine connection.

[@giftednanointedcrafts6650]

Go ahead on Ms. Dr. Phil trying to be a Life Coach and problem solver without getting paid for it! i cutt those kind of men off quickly before they even get started with that wanting u to feel sympathy for them trick. I don't let it go that far to sleeping with them two or three times then finding out we have no status or he has created a status with someone else. Ask lots of questions before hand not after a guy has hit that. Thats how we as women end up getting played big time! Peace to all 🤔🤔🙄🙄✌✌✌✌💖💖💖💖

[@Synquette]

Wow wow wow! From the 100 meter analogy to the number 11 to the test drive analogy!!! This one was on point as usual definitely dropped so many jewels, missed you when you were on a little hiatus. Glad you’re back, Thanks TG!

[@mariejilberia5908]

If she has to ask what are they were, then there's nothing between them! Guys know what they like and will make it official ASAP unless he's not interested in you

[@DrBlessed1111]

True, I don't understand why women are afraid to speak up from the beginning. One can not lose, what she has not gained.

[@claudettenahjela2569]

What happened to traditional dating, courtship and marriage. Our parents were really lucky not to be born in this drama generation, now we got to Play Station 1-10 inorder to get married to the winner.

[@tlashai9902]

I know men hate you for telling on them.

[@denisejones8393]

Tony, each message you deliver is god sent. Thank you, brother for what you do. God bless you and your family!!💖💖

[@truarnett5519]

Just say Blah, Blah, Blah to that brother! 🙄🙄🙄 You deserve better Sister!

[@dadecountess305]

That boy is wasting her time

[@lorarooks5515]

...they don’t even have a policy, but they’re about to have one..”. Love it.

[@LALA-gj8zw]

This message is so on point 💯

[@mercedeslong4178]

LA LA yes girl. The hard truth for a lot of us

[@LALA-gj8zw]

@@mercedeslong4178 yesss!! 🎯

[@ebonyessence2838]

He is the cookie monster!!! Smh!! 11 wow!!!!

[@mahletalem]

You truly are a brother from another mother. Thank God for you and thank you!

[@DP-yb7px]

Lol....I will keep that in mind. I like how you used the test drive situation at the dealership. It was so funny how you said it. Sir, you putting too many miles on our car. We have a policy......We can't even sale it because it has 9,0000 miles. Lol...But that it is so true. I have been educating myself with various perspectives of a man. And, I've never been naive but boy am I learning a lot. Due to the information that's available to me, I have totally matured over the past several years. Thanks Tony

[@khadijahnyabinghi]

You speak so much truth.

[@TrustJesusfolks]

Great wisdom he's sharing 😊

[@bananababy7850]

Love the car analogy! Thank you xox

[@venesiabrown414]

Be blessed Tony

[@elizabethschilling7178]

Truly my brother from another mother. Be blessed

[@simonewoodberry5053]

Well Said Tony!!!

[@godisamazing6448]

You on point!

[@LisaUnstoppable1]

Massive - THANK YOU!!!! 🙏

[@silvermont331]

Nothing is in there hun .. run away suppose to be future relationships even a bride 👰 run and more run. Love yourself first . Gym / different studies / hang out in social circle .. make yourself look amazing 😉 cheers

[@anointed1302]

She needs to stop 🛑 having sex with him if she doesn’t want to get hurt. Allow the guy to set the tone for relationship status. #RealChik247

[@cuttinup97]

Can they still have a successful relationship?

[@cuttinup97]

Can she still have a successful relationship?

[@mercedeslong4178]

cuttinup97 I don’t think so. Like tony was saying, if the man was truly interested from the jump he wouldn’t have let her get away 3 years ago

[@Beautifullyuglii]

Omg truth be told if we don't fornicate and fall into the "devils den" then we won't fall victim to these love issues. It' so dope I'm dying right now lol. We got all types of jezebels...its crazy Its all part of the unseen spiritual warfare we all go through. Im glad to have found this channel. lol Solvency is a great journey for sure but its definitely needed after listening to this and realizing Most of us women are out here fu$3king for Feelings, emotions, aggravation and relationship problems. If we realize that we can't keep depriving ourselves as women But men be out here scared to commit so its def a catch 22, but it will def save ya soul. Kat Williams :Man down lmaooo. But some men are crazy and will go as far as to marry you and or engage you how do you get around that ? your married and now shit got crazy . Life's crazy. 2020 is the time for solvency. lol We are creating a Policy LoL...

[@thompsonerica09able]

Tony hilarious! Lol

[@Lilsuniverse]

LOL to every Christian in training ( my fav part)

[@davidcollins5932]

I want to put a ring on it

[@charlenenelson894]

👍 Be Blessed 👏👏👏

[@queenidiaedewor5359]

My brother from another mother 👍

[@SimplyKrissyG]

Word✊

[@silvermont331]

Tony you are the best man on here ❤️👍👰

[@lornahuett6451]

Real talk right there

[@vanessachambers697]

Be Blessed 😊

[@Mrs.T305]

How do you know when to have sex with a man? Some of them will LIE and give women a title which may only be temporary until he gets what he wants. We cant take them at their word because they lie. Even if their actions initially show that they want a relationship, they could be faking...again, only until they get what they want.

[@gino6658]

negrita305 Marriage...

[@gino6658]

negrita305 have a fuck buddy on the side while you’re in the “Talking Stage” with dudes if you really feel like you need some. And then in a Relationship, wait til marriage. He’s not going to Fake Marriage, he’ll just leave you if he feels you’re not worth marrying just to have sex if the sex is all he really wants from you

[@MariaPerez-qx1lp]

She needs to seek the Lord, obviously she's confused. So is he.

[@pamelabrown8467]

Real talk “”common since””👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

[@Dd-po2ij]

Iam a woman but this is why men do women the way they do cause they let them now I had to learn this myself. The hard way. Never again 3yrs no man I don't even know a man. Bless everyone.

[@flowergirl302harris3]

Teach Tony Gaskins

[@Dd-po2ij]

Not me no sex that is like putting A gun to my own head. No way. It's just not worth it for some one to use me. Never ever again. These men are a trip god help them.

[@BklynBabe]

Don't ask a man shit. Tell him what you want, and if he does or doesn't, he can make a decision.

[@MsJoyce31202]

My title: Friendships. Friendships only.

[@CandyLaLa25]

I am in a situationship been that way for 3 years or so. I started to feel as if i was giving him wife benefits. I did ask 'what are we'...he said 'he is not ready for a relationship' but he realized he love me or really like me at times as he would say. He is one to not express himself really. Smh. We have been thru so much; a lot. I have a feeling he lost respect or trust or love for me because I started to listen to outsiders on what they had to say about him. My gut is telling me he is seeing someone else. Can I or we cut off the sex to see what will happen and can things be worked out to being together forever??

[@lashondarochell7584]

Sis speaking from experience that I have gone through the "situationship" isn't going to turn into a relationship trust me, I went through that and Praise God that soultie is finally destroyed! Don't make excuses for him if he wanted to be in a relationship with you, you two would be in one. When a man says "I am not ready for a relationship" believe him. sexing him want make him love you, he will just continue to use you sexually until the woman he truly wants come along. I want say it will be easy to let go of him, but you must do it , you are worth a man truly loving you, and proud to be with you, Ask GOD to break that soultie, because it's truly that, Do what I did block his calls, no contact what so ever, You can do this take it from someone who is now on the other side, my self worth is intact now, I am single but at true peace waiting on who GOD has for me Blessings to you!

[@CandyLaLa25]

@@lashondarochell7584 omg I teared up reading your comments. Sighs. It's like I know what I should do but keep resisting it or as u said 'giving him excuses'. I have tried the block no contact etc it worked but then things went back cus maybe he saw I became weak or was not serious anymore Idk. It's just so embarrassing and I feel stupid now. I did tell myself I will go back being celibate and wait on God to work his miracles. The guys that love me I do not love and that is sad of me. Thanks for your advice and blessings. Blessings upon u too.

[@lashondarochell7584]

@@CandyLaLa25 Sis you can do it!! Trust GOD!!! You must be diligent in not reaching out to him by any means necessary!! Believe me he is waiting on a weak point demonstrated by you, Flee fornication as The Word of GOD says!! I am believing that God gives you the strength to do it!!!

[@CandyLaLa25]

@@lashondarochell7584 oh I def believe in my God and trust him and I do try to put faith in him. I am a spiritual person go Church every weekend and throq my tithes and offerings. Thank you.

Girrrrl!! In my opinion, you always have the choice. You allowed him to get away all this time. You still hold the power. Do what you said and see bcz, you will surely know ❤

[@Melli510]

I had asked what are we. Didn't get no answer

[@Shineldove]

Armelle Desi wow. That’s your answer then, nothing. But rejection is always Gods redirection 💛

[@Tina-zb7pf]

Holy moly

[@Sugarput1]

😇😇😇🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻👍

[@Abena_Goddess87]

update?

[@queenofhearts1138]

Respectfully Tony, please just give a synopsis of the letter. It's too long and you lose the listener. Just give the gist of the question in the letter geez... And no I don't have a short attention span.

[@Thr33Thr33Thr33]

Smart men don't get married.