WE DON'T TALK ABOUT THESE THINGS ENOUGH | FLAGS IN DATING, RELATIONSHIPS, MARRIAGE

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Tosin Alabi

Күн бұрын

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@adegbolaoluwawamiri3027 5 ай бұрын

Nice video. It’s the shoes on the background for me😅 I love my gender. We love better things😊

@taiwoolugbile 5 ай бұрын

I would add financial understanding and compatibility. Where one person is more responsible with money and the other is not, and not willing to learn.

@reginaaba4512 5 ай бұрын

You see this thing with sound mindedness eer, it is safe to say it’s a major deal breaker when considering marriage with someone. You can meet people who want you to always say yes to their requests and your refusal unleashes the worst reactions from them. Some can abuse you and expect you to see them as jokes. Some will also never make up for their faults and always pose as the victims in situations. They never prioritise your feelings about their actions. See, no matter how handsome or beautiful they are, DO NOT STAY! They clearly need HELP! And that’s God’s work and the willingness of these persons to acknowledge they need help and receive it.

@Knynn 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video tosin, So apt, family enmeshment is so dangerous, if you are not careful at the surface, you might mistake it for “ohh they are close in their family, he/she has family values or “awwn they are family oriented pple” May God give us discerning eyes.

@theunashamed2772 5 ай бұрын

Hi Tosin, thanks for sharing, everything you have mentioned are deep stuff, it takes a critical thinker and an open-minded person to digest each of these points. I can relate because have been with people with all of these issues, My old self would have never considered this as a big deal but coming out from a bad and dark situation I now better never to ignore this, they make up human reasoning and behaviors.

@OMWING. 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this. A lot of people are not very aware of this in a relationship. The mental unhealthiness is real. I encountered such a relationship, I had to exit finally. It was a Bipolar pattern in the family etc

@ChinomnsoP 5 ай бұрын

Tosin, this video is gold. Every point you shared is spot on and important to observe in a relationship. Also, I believe that self awareness is another factor that we need to talk about and observe in relationships. A lack of self awareness on the part of any party in a relationship can be a burden that plays out in so many ways especially with conflict resolution.

@theladyheritage 5 ай бұрын

💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽 Listening to you is always refreshing… {Let me listen to the video now}.

@Miss_Yusuf 5 ай бұрын

Miss my OG KZbinr. Lovely to see you 💕

@gloria08322 3 ай бұрын

This was such an amazing video! Thank you Tosin ❤❤

@KCEjelonuonline 5 ай бұрын

Tosin...forever doing the Lord's work 👏👏👏

@zeea6507 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for uploading such thoughtful deep video. Dating nowadays self awareness and been discerning is so important. A lot of so called Christians are still chasing sex before marriage. May God perfect all that concerns me regarding relationship marriage Amen.