Toxic Friend Check... - REACTION

[@CharlotteDobre]

Tell me about your toxic friend experiences!

[@furat._.631]

got a lot of those lmao

[@mistyduncan8029]

Didn't stay friends long enough to know. Picked up on the negativity and got out.

[@angelface925]

My best friends wife ran off with my wife.

[@ayeda69]

I want to know where you got your necklace - it's beautiful!

[@NoOne-qw8ud]

I've also had a few toxic friends during my life that just literally stabbed me in the back, well lets just say as I get older I just got sick of all the drama and bs, that's why I chose not to have any "close" friends and I LOVE IT!!!😁

[@thetardyowlvg9155]

I'd like to gently point out that aggressive, accusatory tones can instantly make someone anxious even if they've done nothing wrong. If someone has past experience with emotionally abusive people, it only gets worse exponentially. It can paint a picture of guilt even if there is none.

[@rodluv21]

that's what i was thinking. she was getting grilled hard. she should be mre annoyed her friend drug it out so long not telling her what she "did"...

[@weirdokate8840]

jesus christ, this^^^^ exactly

[@debbylou5729]

It only happens if you value their opinion. Bring yourself back to who is judging and ask yourself what their motivations are

[@livcaitbff]

True and no one likes being accused of some random thing they didn’t do

[@carmen.g440]

Straight up!!! 💯💯

[@danes6978]

“Why be afraid if you did nothing?” Great question. Anyone with anxiety and especially if it also with ptsd will understand that the amount of anxiety that can occur in your head even if you know you did nothing can be insane. Also I love your videos and I missed a few so going back to watch. ❤️

[@kisa229]

I'ts amazing how much people can imagine in their minds without you doing anything. I once compained to a "friend" that I sleep until 11 and struggle getting out of bed (which was a symptom of depression and also I was unemployed) and she felt I was being provocative and trying to trigger her on purpose because she had to get up early for her well-paying job. There's a lot of projection whehever people accuse you of something

[@shiramarie6770]

I really just feel both of these........ And people just think your lazy or making excuses because they somehow think that people having difficulties functioning is just obviously visible.

[@dannydannydannyboy4086]

for real. i got anxious once that a security officer was very close behind me and my dad said i shouldnt be nervous unless i "have something to be nervous about". sir i was 12 and have crippling anxiety and traumas with men..

[@shiramarie6770]

@@dannydannydannyboy4086 I have a bias there so I get that. At a young age I was assaulted by a man in a uniform and between this and the fact that I'm mentally disabled I react to all men in uniform in a more scared and jumpy way which I have been told is "suspicious and makes me look guilty".

[@shiramarie6770]

I feel both glad and bad that I am not alone in this

[@floatingeyeballs44]

That one friend in the middle just sipping her Starbucks and watching the drama go down between her two friends... her face made that video so fun to watch. Love her.

[@stoneoffarel]

I went to check if anyone else noticed that!! HAA oh shit :D

[@puredemon5926]

That would be me lmao.

[@LA_HA]

I saw that. She's the down low demon in the group. Had people like her in the friend group who would cause drama and chaos, skillfully unraveling all the ties that bind with a "Who me?" cow-eyed look on her face. Just look closely at the entire exchange. There are a couple times when she's looking into the camera, eyes staring, no smile, nothing. It maybe fun to watch. I guarantee, though, these Category 5 human hurricanes aren't fun to have in the friend group causing damage in the name of honesty. They cover their own tracks while outing everyone else's mistakes and secrets in the worst ways. Trust. You want None of that

[@firelady118]

Not necessarily, just because she was honest to one friend because the other one is lying doesn't mean she automatically likes to stir up shit all the time. I've had those fake drama type of people in my life before but there are still good people out there too, my best friends boyfriend had the stupidest audacity to tell me (he knew I was his girlfriends Best friend when he confided in me btw) that he was cheating on my best friend so of course I told her exactly what he told me, because she didn't deserve to be treated that way, no one does, especially by a supposed "friend". We're still best friends to this day, over 25 year's. I would definitely want my best friends to tell me if one of my other so called "friends" was secretly hanging out with my SO without either of them telling her, that's more than just suspicious behavior & she had a right to know. She probably had that friend with her to question the other one so that she'd have backup, not everyone is great with confrontation. Js & honestly if you have issues with people being honest than maybe you have some issues with honesty in general 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@tepmurt9981]

Thank you for this comment. I was looking for it, lol.

[@moonyfruit]

There's nothing wrong with a straight girl telling another girl they're pretty. I had a girl say that to me in high school. I'm almost 32 now, and it's still a nice memory that comes up every so often. 🥰

[@lisamelroy2855]

I'm a big fan of paying compliments to random people. Everybody needs a little boost from time to time!

[@ItsNaeBihhh.Daaah6]

Do women now not tell you that today ? Because baabbyy you are gorgeous ❤. We have to keep eachother up at all cost !!

[@EmpressGoldilocked]

Same

[@panchagomezm.3982]

Same! I used to do the same thing, but justo like it happened to Charlotte it happened to me too, now I do much less

[@stacy.lapine27]

Amen! I tell pet women all the time that they’re Pretty our beautiful. Why is this a thing? I’ll never understand people who are constantly looking for a negative! 😢

[@KR-dr5jw]

I’m so glad I realized as I got older that less is more. I’d rather have a couple genuine non toxic friends, than loads of these types of people around. 🙄

[@LyraPyxisVT]

Same but through my whole life I had alot of friends only 2 toxic out of them all

[@stephaniehicks3262]

Ive only had a handle full a friends but they was all toxic backstabbing home wreckers so

[@MamaPinks]

If a friend sees that you are happy, feeling pretty, and looking like they're feeling it, KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT. 👄

[@HebrewsEleven1]

Same!

[@NeedsMoreTriangle]

Agreed! And honestly when you only have a few friends, it's easier to maintain those friendships for years and have a closer connection.

[@ghostboy0012]

Toxic friend: "Remember that one time? That was great." Me: "No, i don't remember. I wasn't there." Toxic friend: "What? what are you saying of course you were there." Me: "No I wasn't." Toxic friend: "Well. Why weren't you?" Me: "Because you didn't invite me." Toxic friend: "No we definitely invited you." Me: "No you definitely didn't." Toxic friend: "Mmm. We definitely did." She also tried to steal a couple of limited run books my (dead) mother bought me after I let her borrow them with a "no these are mine actually, i didn't borrow them from you" (books that were only available for one summer in a shop in a town she's never been to). Last time I saw her I just slipped them into my bag when I was alone in her room, and never spoke to her again after that day.

[@debbie9754]

Ohh good for you on the books part. Toxic people are the worst.

[@Monicalia]

Damn I'm so glad you got these books back. What a terrible friend, good you cut her off.

[@omegasage777]

I'm glad you got those books back!

[@akabaneaki]

I'm SO GLAD you got them back!

[@ghostboy0012]

@@Monicalia Me too. That was around 8 years ago and I still treasure those books.

[@NativeNYerChicHK]

Loved that fake one, watching a show without her bestie, the ULTIMATE betrayal 😂🤣😂♥️

[@imaperson5268]

@@agnez112 no

[@candicemonique5927]

I got my hair and nails done with my mom and sister. My Squad was mad as hell I usually do it with them. 🤭😊

[@NativeNYerChicHK]

@@candicemonique5927 Funny, I moved from my hometown (NYC) but still go back in to get my hair done at the place I’ve going to for 15 years, won’t let anyone else touch my hair but my girl. Well, if I don’t call my bestie when I make the trip in she will give me holy hell for having come in to the city without calling her and meeting up, it’s like a cardinal sin 😂🤣😂

[@crystalrusmisel1832]

I had a situation where this chic pretended to be my best friend bought my unborn baby clothes would engage me in conversations to get info out of me and even held my baby in the hospital the day he was born before I held him just to find out that she was sleeping with my husband and the real kicker is A. I babysit her kids on 4 occasions she was out sleeping with him and B. Her husband knew about the affair the entire time so did multiple people but he didn’t want me to know till after I had the baby due to me being on bed rest for a high risk pregnancy. Baby was 2 weeks old when he came to my front door with evidence from a private investigator. Pics video audio the whole shabang. This evil woman even had the nerve to give my baby his first bath while I was out of the room just so she could say she did it. Evil doesn’t even begin to describe this chic. I’ve commented my experience on several of these videos and as hard as it may be for anyone to believe this stuff really happened to me. I wasn’t in a good place in my life and was in a very toxic relationship that lasted 25years. Because I didn’t realized that I deserved and could do better I dealt with a lot he dished out to me. Thankfully I’m in a better place now and just look back on all this as events in my life that I survived that made me a stronger person I am today.😉 I had to hit rock bottom to see it but I’m a survivor.

[@selma8337]

wow that is disturbing honestly. i hope you and your baby are thriving now🧸💓

[@lisamelroy2855]

I'm so happy that you made it out the other side! When your kids are older, I bet they'll tell you all the time about how cool you are for being such a strong woman! ❤️

[@dinkymak]

Man, that woman is a nightmare. Blast her on twitter and tik tok. Watch the meltdown with a marshmallow, don’t forgot to blast your husband too.

[@Ryb771]

You are strong , & that is pure evil. What’s even worse than her is your husband allowing her to be around . Yes affairs are wrong , but the fact she was around your child , one of the first to hold it during its first hours in this world is infuriating. You are better than me and stronger than me because I’d be in prison for TWO COUNTS . Her & him, I applaud you for coping and being the mother that child needs. ❤

[@emilyi771]

Holding your baby before you is crazy

[@jessicajnsm]

The ones that get yelled at for smiling in photos blow my mind even MORE because it's the toxic friend that ASKED them to be in the photo in the first place????? If you're that insecure, just take a photo by yourself...damn

[@TriniRedRuby]

Toxic friend story: My ex best friend called my boyfriend to ask him for the number for his ex wife’s business place so she could host a function there when he responded with “why would you want to host a function at my ex-wife’s business place when I’m dating your best friend?” she told him : honestly, she doesn’t, she just wanted an excuse to call him to let him know that he is turning me into a horrible person (because he had been supporting me after I had three surgeries on my spine and he advised me to not go back out to work too quickly and he would pay the bills) so she thought that was not only inappropriate but that he was turning me into a lazy slob because all I was doing was lying in bed all day......🤣 now keep in mind again, I had just had surgeries multiple....on my spine!!! so I was lying down because I was told by the neurosurgeons that I had no choice but to do so.... yeah that happened😂

[@clwbchbabycakes]

Jealousy is such an ugly shade of green. Glad you had a good man when you needed him most. 💜

[@a.s4587]

I hope your not friends anymore, that is jealousy at its finest.

[@p.awolford687]

Omgosh that person is not only toxic but jealous AF of you

[@janejones7638]

Let's pretend she isn't jealous. She doesn't want you to appropriately heal from your surgeries, That's just sick. She may have been upset that you weren't able to spend time with her. Therefore, you're a lazy slob. I had a friend that had a really toxic response to my illnesses. She spread rumors that I was a hypochrondriac. Despite knowing that I was approved for short-term disability from work. When I came back to work, people treated me differently. I ended up taking more time off work than I was actually working. I eventually lost my job because of this. My MD suggested that I apply for disability pay from the government. I was approved. I wanted to tell off all of the people who said my illnesses (I have a few) weren't real.

[@sofiolaverry]

Omg!! I hope you are feeling well❤️

[@p.awolford687]

I once had a former “friend” who would purposely try to take unflattering photos of me. This same friend turned out to be using me as a “token” friend to help shield her racism. I Ended the “friendship” when I discovered this. How I discovered this was talking to her best friend & her about this amazing Asian town near Atlanta that made me feel less homesick because of all the other Asians & Asian places that reminded me of home etc. to which she said “IDK about you but I would feel so uncomfortable in a place like that! I prefer to be around my own people! If there aren’t a lot of white people then it’s usually not a good sign”… her BFF looked shocked and embarrassed & tried to smooth things over by saying “I’m personally from Florida and it’s a melting pot. I prefer to be around a diverse group of people”. Upon hearing her BFF she got very upset & starting going off about how she’s allowed to have an opinion & prefer her “own” people over others & how she finds it offensive that I felt comfortable & “at home” in a place that clearly wasn’t predominantly “white” 😳🤯… yeah…. So glad I ended that friendship.

[@nherty6172]

Let me get this right, she is offended that you an Asian is comfortable in an Asian space that isn't whitewashed? Bish took "preference" to a whole new level.

[@TP-bw5jx]

@@nherty6172 lol ye, even her "opinion" came off hypocritical

[@Birdbike719]

Wow! Its always disturbing to find out people you know have those deep prejudices. And also satisfying to see them squirm when they are exposed. I'm so sorry you had that experience though. People keep themselves from so much growth and joy when they lock themselves away from people who different than them.

[@darthkittenn]

I’m glad for you too…what a b*tch

[@SheanaOBrien1985]

I can't believe people like that actually exist. Gross.

[@mrsivins072410]

I was friends with a person who constantly told me I was her best friend, told me she loved me, brought me to her family functions, and even had me as her birth partner (I cut her child’s umbilical cord). She video called me every day that we didn’t actually spend time together and I sympathized while she vented about problems at work, roommates, her struggle to buy a house (she didn’t qualify for a mortgage that would pay for anything close to what she wanted and her mom ended up buying her one), her ongoing custody battle, her car, her family, her other friends, the different guys she dated, and everything else under the sun. Over time I started to struggle with my physical and mental health but she didn’t want to hear about it. She’d just tell me I needed a new job or I needed to have a drink. She finally ended up blowing up at me one day, telling me that I was annoying, that nobody wanted me around anymore, and that every time we were at a gathering she’d talk crap about me with everyone else after I left. We didn’t talk for nearly 2 months until she contacted me one day to announce she was getting married (she hadn’t been dating anyone when we’d last spoken) and asked me to be a bridesmaid. I realized at that point the friendship had become toxic, so I told her no and wished her luck. I didn’t speak to her again. I ended up discovering shortly after that I have several chronic medical conditions that had gone untreated (most likely for several years) and started treatment. I’m doing exponentially better physically and mentally, and I’m finally thriving rather than barely surviving. I hope that she’s also happy and that her current friendships are making a positive impact on her. I know I was also toxic and I can’t blame everything on her, but I still have no desire to resume our former level of friendship.

[@jacquidanke1263]

GOOD FOR YOU! I HATE BEING DISMISSED WHEN YOU ARE REALLY SICK-ESPECIALLY BY A SO-CALLED FRIEND! SELFISH PEOPLE DON'T HAVE A CAPACITY TO ACTUALLY BE A FRIEND OR REALLY CARE FOR OTHERS. I DON'T THINK SO ANYWAY. HOPE AND PRAY YOU KEEP DOING BETTER AND BETTER WITH EACH DAY! GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS!

[@mrsivins072410]

@@jacquidanke1263 thank you! I’m doing amazingly well! I actually resumed a friendship with that woman after about a year of not speaking when she reached out to me on my birthday. It’s definitely not the same as it was before though, which is perfect. We don’t speak daily and only really get together when she hosts an event so I’m able to maintain plenty of distance and avoid the toxicity from before. My mental and physical health are great and my doctor is thrilled with how well I’ve kept my conditions under control. I spend each day focusing on the positive and doing things that make me happy. Hope you’re thriving as well!

[@k8tastrophe]

It doesnt sound like you were toxic at all. It sounds like you're a very compassionate person, and because of that you honestly believed that not putting your own welfare first was the right thing to do. I'm glad that you've since been able to identify, treat and manage your health issues. I have some chronic physical and mental health stuff and I know, for me, it was a tremendous relief when somebody pointed out to me that I didn't have to care for everyone else just because they needed help. People always act like it's the epitome of selfishness when we put our own needs first, but the only person who's guaranteed to be around to do that all our lives is ourselves. I wish you the best and hope you find people who are worthy of your kindness and who will love you like you deserve, friend 💜

[@kellicvred]

We welcome you in my lady friend group, where we have a blast, all get to vent, feel the love, empathize, follow up on struggles, listen to each other, and boost each other up!

[@justinemot2282]

what a healthy post from a human being with such high reflexion and self-reflection levels. All the best for you on your journey!

[@krypro3962]

I once had this "friend" that I thought would always have my back. I went through something traumatic (my best friend took his own life and I found him, unfortunately too late) and my "friend" was there for me every step of the way. Until they weren't because it no longer benefitted them (they weren't the center of attention anymore for helping me). They would overreact to any little thing that happened, like it was the end of the world. My "friend" was flipping out about something and it had been about a month since the incident. They shouted "Oh my God, this is ridiculous. I just want to hang myself." You can guess by that statement how my best friend took his life. I tried to pretend I didn't hear it because I knew it was a trigger for me and probably just an accident, until they looked me right in the eye and said it AGAIN. I excused myself from the situation so I wouldn't make a scene because I felt a panic attack coming on. This "friend" is a loud person by nature. They see me excusing myself and say "WHERE ARE YOU GOING? WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU?" I just kept going. They proceeded to follow me and asked again what my "problem was". I said, "well, it caught me off guard when you said what you did and I started to have flashbacks of what I saw that day. So I had to go". My "friend" then proceeded to tell me how I was being overly dramatic and needed to "grow up and get over myself". This was the same "friend" that texted me at 1am, while I was at work (I finished at 110am) to tell me that they're stranded in another city that was about 1.5 to 2 hours away. I went and got them after work, brought them home, and didn't ask for anything in return (I never do) to only find out later that they CHOSE to stay where they were for a booty call and really weren't stranded at all. They just didn't want to stay there afterwards. I WAS DONE! #ghostedher

[@MoonLilly35145]

Good for you! Those kinds of people don't deserve you! I'm sorry about your bsf and I hope your doing better now 💜

[@krypro3962]

@@MoonLilly35145 Thank you and I’m doing much better now 💖

[@nanda_]

I've been through something similar and I completely understand the pain. Sadness, shock, frustration and anger are not only natural, they're -> THE ONLY

[@jacquidanke1263]

SO SORRY FOR YOUR TRAUMA. GLAD YOU SHOOK THOSE AHOLES!

[@lexxitrexxi]

I'm so sorry that happened to you and I'm sorry for your loss. F that frenemy fr.

[@Mouses_Crochet_Corner]

My favorite was a “friend” of mine who liked to insult me under the guise of joking. The last thing she said to me before I walked away and never talked to her again was, “What’s it like being the least attractive person in the hot tub?” Hell no, you’re unbelievable and I don’t need someone like you in my life.

[@salvaann1402]

Girl! Only jealous people talk like that. She probably was.

[@e.k_liadon]

I would’ve immediately said “I don’t know, what’s it like, girl? Fill me in on the deets.” Jokes aside I’m glad you left that bullshit.

[@Leeny53369]

Good on you for getting rid of her 👌🏻👌🏻

[@mysticmom616]

Wow!!

[@katewamuyu2465]

Those are the worst! Especially before you get to know your self-worth and learn how to self-validate, they can really tear you down. Good riddance to toxic frenemies🎉

[@GamerNerdess]

Whenever some friend says you look ugly and says the guy you like agrees with them, the guy you like is ugly, or anything toxic like that, it means they want the guy you are interested in and trying to take you out of the game so they can move on in.

[@agnez112]

AISURU.TOKYO/AGNEZ/?[Making-love]💞 (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*。18 years and over🍎🍑 KZbin: This is fine Someone: Says "heck" KZbin: Be gone #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾

[@seppyq3672]

I legit did that to a girl in the 2nd grade.

[@Mari_sUniverse]

I love how the Asian friend in 11:00 just looks like she is about to hear the juiciest story of all time meanwhile she kind of knew about the whole thing. And when she's brought up, she finds every excuse to slither back into the side-lines and watch as chaos ensues 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@shazz286]

When she said how could I not tell her I clapped!! She's a good friend. She let her know the truth and stayed silent as she handled it😂😂

[@monicaclasener]

Friends are there to lift you up, not put you down. Never let someone eat away at your confidence because they think they're better.

[@absurdious]

OT: I read "Friends" and "Monica" and read your comment imagining Courtney Cox's voice 😁

[@monicaclasener]

@@absurdious Totally get it, I had friends written in capitals first so it also sprang to my mind.

[@kissit012]

Sometimes they do it because they think you’re better and they feel insecure. Projection is a bitch

[@mellvee]

I was SO lucky. I had a string of horrible, toxic "best friends" throughout school, but I went through a horrible marriage at 19 and dumped all of that dead weight when I dumped him. I met my husband when I was 23, and got married again. We've now been married 23 years, have raised our 18 and 21 sons together, and the friends that I've made since then are the ones that continue to stick with me even now. If your friends are happy when you're marrying an obviously terrible person, or they run away when you enter into a happy marriage, they're not friends. They want you to be unhappy because it makes them feel better about their own bad choices and decisions. They should be cut off immediately.

[@sweett5896]

Similar experience. Got in a toxic relationship & when I dumped him I dumped most of my toxic friends. A little later the rest of the "friends" got cut out!

[@Chelle8847]

Off topic, but you're so pretty!!

[@show_me_your_kitties]

The post sounds like yall had 18 and 21 sons 🤣

[@aanchall5148]

Is it normal in your country to get married this soon ? Genuinely asking.

[@TheticDarkZelda]

My toxic friend story was I used to be a “hoe” in high school but I finally got into a serious relationship and was trying to turn my life around and my best friend kept tell my BF (now husband) to leave me and stuff. He knew about me and was willing to make it work. Now I’m happily married for 6 years with 2 kids.

[@kaylaprice370]

I bet your ex "friend" hates that you got your happily ever after.. I'm happy for you. Screw her lol

[@cardinalgin]

Don't call yourself that word : be kind to yourself about your past and see that you simply were a troubled teen who went through confusing emotions upon which you acted the way you thought was ok for you at the time. You overcame this, which shows great courage and took good care of yourself since you created a loving family along with an intelligent man.

[@jacquidanke1263]

GREAT FOR YOU! LIVE LIFE AND ENJOY EVERYTHING YOU DO! YOU ARE LOVED! LUCKY YOU!

[@dawnreed1631]

⁠@@cardinalgin Nooo! Sweetie, please don’t call your younger self names like that. I really don’t know the full story, but you do…most girls who have a lot of boyfriends are usually trying to fill a void they have in their lives and a lot of those voids have to do with a father or father figure or an insecurity! Sadly, especially as teens, we allow people in our lives, who know all our secrets and those insecurities, and if they happen to be toxic ( as it appears this “friend” was), they feed into those instead of uplifting us ! The past is exactly that…it’s behind you! What matters is your happiness in the present and future! It sounds like you’re a beautiful soul who is surrounded by love, light and happiness 💜 I wish you nothing but best…but I also, metaphorically, want you to give your inner child and your teenage self a hug…let “them” know you love them too and recognize you’re only human😘

[@faunaunforgiven]

My toxic friend got mad at me whenever anything good happened. She would literally yell at me everytime I gave her good news.

[@theirmanager5204]

I would like to say this stuff ends when we become adults. It doesn’t, it’s just different. My coworkers, who are my friends, tell me I don’t need to do my hair so nice for work. I’m putting too much effort in and I’ll probably burn myself out so I’m told. My healthy lunch is offensive and ‘You’re not eating enough calories, seriously have a cookie’. My giant water bottle makes me look stupid and I’m drinking too much water somehow. ‘I know you think that’s good for you, but you’re definitely over hydrating’. Im wearing too much makeup. That one doesn’t make sense since I wear moisturizer and mascara for work. It’s all very passive, and I can totally handle it and stuff, it’s just…old. Oh ya, and I got into step aerobics when the gyms shut down and apparently I’m destroying my joints. I just…I’m a water drinking, hair doing, salad eating, aerobics loving train wreck apparently 🤷‍♀️

[@valerieking5265]

@ Their Manager, It is so obvious that all of your coworkers are jealous about every single thing about you. Good for you for recognizing their stupid little games. It sounds exhausting working with them.

[@middleeasternforhire8985]

I'm starting to guess they have blue or pink hairs

[@theirmanager5204]

@@valerieking5265 bahaha it’s so hard to imagine that an adult woman is jealous of another adult woman. But maybe you’re right, and maybe they don’t even realize? But ya, I’ve got big shoulders, so I can handle it 💃

[@tl9611]

You sound healthy, keep doing you boo!

[@ohnoudidnt125]

How horrible you are for drinking water, eating salads and wearing mascara!! LOL! What a bunch of idiots. I hope they hire some nicer people soon.

[@xonicole9232]

"We were just talking. It wasn't even like that." after she felt the need to lie about where she was. Whoo. Brings back a memory for me when I was in high school. It really be your "best friends" sometimes🙃

[@agnez112]

AISURU.TOKYO/AGNEZ/?[Making-love]💞 (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*。18 years and over🍎🍑 KZbin: This is fine Someone: Says "heck" KZbin: Be gone #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾

[@Birdbike719]

That whole thing was just messy. Her talking to the boyfriend and it being put on blast.

[@kaedeshirakawa1979]

I love how the girl in the middle was like "oh shit, here it comes!!"

[@nicaconti6175]

Yeah, didn't feel sorry in the least for that girl being put on the spot. She downright deserved that one. Shady AF!!

[@ramsfan515]

Of course she over looked the fact that the "boyfriend" was a willing participant in it as well

[@Cantetinza17]

I'm so happy that social media wasn't around when I was in HS. I get so much anxiety seeing the BS that happens. When "friends" say you're not that pretty, they actually think you are and they are threatened by you.

[@rebeccaleanne9218]

From the time when I was like 7 to 14, all my friends ended up being toxic and manipulative. The prime time when I was friends with this super toxic girl was when I was 10 to 13. I had multiple emotionally traumatizing experiences and that came to the point where I would cry to my mom every single day for about two years. It's totally not something a child should have to go through, but it overall helped me to pick my friends wisely when I was older and overall I'm now a much better person with a ton of friendship experience. The friends I have now are much better people and I think I got super lucky with the friends I have now. :)

[@wyldkat2448]

I cut all the toxic "friends" out of my life not too long after high school. One keeps trying to find me, but my true friends tell her they don't have my info. I love all of them!!

[@evciq_s]

One mean girl tried to convience everyone in our class, that I'm gay too 😂 Among other things. But honestly - it didn't register with me, that she was trying to bully me. I was so oblivous, that at the time I just thought "Huh, what a weird thing to say" or "Huh, what a weird sense of humor", then went on with whatever I was doing 😂 Maybe it never registered with me, because it was just her - whenever she would say something about me, our classmates would just fall silent and wouldn't comment in any way. They were waiting for my reaction - and I would just look at her, like she hit her head or something, a little taken aback (some of the things she said were truly horrible and I wondered why she would say that about anyone) and after a bit of awkward silence I would be like "Okaaay... So anyway...". I realised years later, what she was doing and I kinda felt a little bit bad for her 😂 She was trying so hard to strike a nerve - and I honestly never even realised, what she was doing 😂 I accidentaly handled it very well 😂

[@alwayspanicinthecomments371]

I know what you mean! I was the same in high school. Looking back, I was bullied from time to time by some girls but it never even registered in my brain that was what was happening lol. I just shrugged and walked off or something similar every time. It helps that I was a bit of a loner besides occasional hang outs.

[@leila13dnd]

Ok but like, that hits so close to home because when I was younger things like this always went over my head too. 😂 I was so busy with myself I didn't even notice shit. 😂

[@shloka3915]

"I accidentaly handled it very well", now THAT's a feeling 😂 loved it

[@cheshirenevande4701]

The slow stare and blink as you try to understand why someone is saying something works WONDERS. No, I'm not mad, I'm just confused.

[@e.k_liadon]

"If a person is all over someone you Like, they are not a friend." --Charlotte Dobre Facts! 100% I take sick satisfaction in knowing that the guy I liked who was using me is married to the "friend" whose been sleeping around with him behind my back. Both of whom lied to me about the whole thing. So now they can have each other! Use and abuse each other all day long! They're perfect for each other really.

[@Leeny53369]

I wish I would have known all of this as a teen 🥲

[@fenn__fenn]

is your pfp Thancred lol

[@lilscenechick1995]

I'm sorry they did that to you! That's awful. But you're better off without them.

[@Dixxi91]

I don't agree with this, because it needs context. And there's a context where two friends have a crush on the same person, and I truly believe that "calling dibs" is toxic. In this case the two friends should agree that the person they like gets to chose whom they like back. And that's that. It's just a crush, you can't force love anyways. If my friend calls dibs and then they get rejected (nicely) should I not get a chance then? Maybe they turned down my friend (nicely) because they were into me.

[@niriida1]

It is horrible really. But they may be happy together or like any other couple. Thinking that they use each other or making each other miserable can be a dillusion of yours because that's what you wish in order to mitigate your hurt feelings and feel that there's justice. What I think is thst you need to accept that this may not be the case, it was a horrible experience for you that you turn away from your thoughts and live your life.

[@lissajeppesen3854]

Ok, so back in 2011 I got really sick, and my 3 best friend (the only ones I was even socializing with at the time), started phasing me out of their lives. Even though it hurt cos I had done do much for them during our friendship, I could to a certain extent understand it cos I wasn't the most fun to be around at the time. However, 1 hurt more than the others, and not because we were closer, but cos I had done so much for her in 3-4 years we had been friends. 1. If our little group would go browsing stores after school (we were in our late teens btw), I would carry her heavy shit around, otherwise she couldn't come,. 2. If we went to McDonald's I'd pay for her cos she didn't have a lot of money (neither did I, but she had less). 3. When she moved into student housing she was a little afraid to be there alone, so I stayed with her for a week. I cleaned a bit while there cos I wasn't working or studying at the time. I of course pitched in on groceries and helped cook dinner. The day I decided to leave was because she felt it was my job to do the dishes one day she had "cooked" dinner alone. 4. On a hot summer day I once helped her and her stepdad move a shitload of hay barrels to the barn attic, for FREE (unless you count water and soda), cos I would never charge my friends in any way for helping them out. We were of course wearing pants and long sleeved shirts to "protect" us from the hay and dust, which felt SO awesome when you're doing manual labor in a hot attic. So yeah, extra upset with her, but they all made me not want to have friends again. Ps. Sorry for the novel 😆

[@ananket.3518]

Friendship like any relation should have give and take ....

[@lissajeppesen3854]

@@ananket.3518 True😊

[@SusieQ3]

"He goes for skinnier, less annoying girls. Not that you're not skinny..." *but you're annoying* THEN WHY ARE YOU HERE?

[@Think-see]

The friend probably thinks she's annoying because she's in the way of stealing her boyfriend.

[@RealBradMiller]

Probably because she likes him.

[@TheLucindabelle]

He obviously goes for her type as they're dating. That 'friend' is so jealous!

[@tag475]

Don't take the friend's advice. Ask your boyfriend instead.

[@Leanne_w]

@@tag475 advice*

[@jennamarie2481]

There was a rumor that I was gay in middle school and I actually really appreciated it bc it pushed me to think about if I was or not and why that would be derogatory if it was true. I think it made me a better person haha

[@nellaraf1619]

The “why are you trying so hard?” really rubs me the wrong way

[@loveletterhive]

Yes. Especially since it seems like girls look this way every day, i.e. put on makeup and do their hair.

[@Ariana-dw6xw]

This toxic friend I had in high school who bullied me for years got mad at me for having a prom date and I could not find someone for her, like it was my responsibility to find her a date. That’s literally just scratching the surface of what she did to me. I am happy to be done with her and knowing that she failed in college.

[@natalieschiller4785]

I’m SO glad as I got older that I removed ALL the toxic “friends” from my life. Even my “best friend” of 25 years!!! Not sorry, not one bit. People who are good deserve good people in their lives.

[@suzy8track]

I had a toxic friend from college try to be my friend on Facebook....I ignored it. I don't need that negativity in my life. I also found out that this same friend had divorced her husband and he revealed to a mutual friend of ours that she was incredibly jealous of all of her friends and would say mean things about us to him and this was many years later!

[@Purple-sx8us]

OMG ! SAME ! ♥️

[@Leeny53369]

Ooof same!!!! I’m 29 now and life has never been this good before. But sometimes the kindness of my friends still catches me off-guard because I’ve always been treated so poorly by my friends….

[@rosanhuisman6753]

@@MoeMoon is this a joke or do you actually know her😂

[@Gofftits69]

@@Leeny53369 I relate to this so so much! It's so alien to me to have genuinely lovely people around me.

[@thejenmath]

I didn’t realize until I was in my twenties and had some distance that my best friend from middle school and into high school was super toxic. He was brutally honest and would do anything to keep my self-esteem at an ultimate low - I remember him yelling at me in the hall one time when I was talking about my crush that I needed to stop going after guys I like because they’d never like me back and it was pathetic that I kept trying. That’s a comment I’ve never forgotten and it still sinks my confidence whenever I remember it.

[@sofkanazuke5575]

He was probably in love with you.

[@katodd2925]

@@sofkanazuke5575 He was an a-hole. Stop telling girls that boys who are mean to them, love them. That's insanely toxic itself.

[@Birdbike719]

The nice thing about being older is having moved past so many of these shallow and exhausting "friendships". Thank God I'm not 18 anymore. Or 16. Its hard to tell.

[@caitlinfunk339]

Amen to that!

[@violetashes6681]

I didn't realize this until well into my twenties that one of my best friends in high school was pretty toxic. It's one of those cases when you look back on your life and reality suddenly hits you with an "oh shit" moment. Two moments especially stood out to me. The first one being around the summer before our freshman year began (we had known each other since middle school). My mom had dropped us off at the mall to go swimsuit shopping since we outgrew our old ones. I like, and still do, wear one piece bathing suits while my friend preferred two piece suits. As soon as my friend found out I wanted to get a one piece bathing suit, she began making fun of me. She told me that I need to wear a two piece because we are going into high school and are too old for a one piece suit. Telling me that only kids wear one piece suits. She actually told me that I need to start growing up and act like an adult woman and wear a two piece. I did just that, I picked out a two piece bathing suit that I was not at all comfortable with wearing. I wore that suit for years. I'm not proud to say that every time I went out in public with it, I was sucking in my gut to try and appear thinner than I actually was. That's how insecure I felt wearing that two piece. It wasn't until I moved states away and went shopping for a new bathing suit did I get a one piece that I still have and feel much more comfortable wearing. This is the topic that, when recanting to my sister, made me realize that my "best friend" was actually pretty toxic. The second one is the classic she began to date my ex freshman year two or three days after I dumped him. She would constantly compare her relationship with him to how it was with mine. Often telling me how she was a much better girlfriend to him than I ever was. She later broke things off with him when she found out he hadn't gotten over me. They had only dated for 2 weeks versus 3 months with me. Looking back on it, I feel like she did this to just try and show me up maybe? There's even more examples than this but these two stood out the most. Oh and don't get me started on the gaslighting. There was a lot of that too. To think I might have still been friends with her if I hadn't moved states away. It's been seven years and we have no contact with each other and hopefully it stays that way.

[@Caelifer]

Geez that was a lot to unpack, glad you left her and got away from that because I'm sure you didn't deserve that, and on another note, rock that one piece!! I also find two pieces extremely uncomfortable so I'm glad you were able to go and treat yourself to a much better swimsuit haha and no need to make yourself appear skinnier or smaller than you actually are, I'm certain that you're beautiful inside and out

[@TemperenceTheGinger]

The water batter throwing “friend” brings back memories. I had a “friend” in high school who would secretly hook up with any guy that remotely acted interested in me. I wasn’t sleeping with people, certainly didn’t date much, but she would bee line anybody. I think she ended up doing me a few favors in the end out of her own insecurities anyway. It was very bizarre. She would do that “why are you wearing that? You know “so and so” will be there and I like him.” As if I would’ve gone near someone if she liked them…that’s why it never made sense: if you don’t think like that it doesn’t make sense to you.

[@erin4338]

I had one like that too.

[@howdelydoo]

I totally had one too! She was my very first friend in a new school. Every dude I told her I liked, I'd hear she made out with him at a party, or she'd flirt with them blatantly in front of me...so glad she's gone

[@Tara-Lynn1524]

I had that same “friend” grrrrrrr

[@7thlittleleopard7]

Likely the reason she would say the whole "You know x will be there and I like him" thing is because she was expecting you to act like she did and try to take the guy she liked. Because that's how she acted, she assumed everyone would act like that too.

[@HayleysComet3]

@@7thlittleleopard7 That’s true. Projection is common.

[@davidroddick91]

Sounds like some of these "friends" are trying to convince these people to break up with their boyfriends so they can move in.

[@roll3886]

For sure

[@amraevers2797]

All of them!

[@lilybelle568]

That's exactly what they are doing

[@k3th.b.w122]

Women don’t have friends just competition

[@supadupasumi]

the face expression of the third girl in the back gave me LIFE lmaooo 11:00 the pure shock that her friend just dropped the "why were you at my bf's house"

[@Ladysueiroh48]

Brooooo the third girls face is hilarious

[@ontxtteredwxngs]

my favorite part

[@Ztomboygirl11]

I have a few stories: My college roommate was toxic. Many reason why she was toxic but I’ll tell you one: she got mad at me one time for “making too much noise.” I tripped 😐 I tripped on a chair and accidentally hit my ice cream bowl on the counter. She didn’t speak to me for a few days and wouldn’t even TELL ME at first (which she was famous for), I had to confront her cause I knew something was wrong. The night I moved my stuff out though, I took everything outta the fridge we shared (it was actually my fridge that I rented, she didn’t have one) that was mine, closed both doors, and unplugged the fridge. I let her shit ROT 🤣🤣

[@donitawhite8111]

This is why Charlotte is one of my favs... because she is comfortable enough to tell another girl she's pretty and then when the mean girls say she's gay because of it she says "What's wrong with being gay?" even though she's not. Love this! 🥰

[@bigbearkat2010]

Had a friendship that had been going downhill for a couple years but the last straw came during 10th grade when both of us applied for an officer spot in marching band. Whereas I spent weeks training for my audition he seemed to be under the impression that the spot would just be handed to him because he had seniority and his brothers were also big deals in marching band. I got the spot to his apparant astonishment because he then went on to tell anyone that would listen that he got robbed and then vowed to do everything he could to undermine me. Luckily that last part ended up being a moot point because he moved a couple months later. He reached out to me on FB a few years later to try to get my help in picking a major, which was really hard because according to him there was just too many things he was good at. Ended that conversation as politely and quickly as I could and haven't spoken to him since.

[@heatherboz]

With friends like this who needs enemies Edit: I thank God I grew up without social media

[@lauragigglez3018]

It doesn't necessarily get better, you just become better at picking the non toxic ones. Unfortunately I wasn't so good recently. I'm 34 and just got rid of a toxic friend. Any time I needed a shoulder to cry on or to vent she would find a way to bring the conversation back to her. She would never ask how I was or show any concern for me. One day i just mentioned that a Facebook group rule we were admins of needed to be changed and she flew off the handle and called me toxic and all sorts of things. We have a mutual friend and she asked her if she was going to apologize to me and she said "is she done posting dumb stuff?" I told my mutual friend to let her know no apology was needed cuz I wouldn't be accepting any fake apology she had for me. The mutual friend was trying to be both of our friends and she was kind of blind to her antics. She finally got rid of the toxic friend as well

[@dinkymak]

Have this friend, still a friend but she’s not very good at listening, I told her I have a colleague Whose sleeping n playing games at n I have to help him etc. she straight out told me she hate talking bout office. I would say she’s not the type of friend whom I need a shoulder to cry on. But she just demote herself to a lower level of friendship

[@Doktur.Lubicz]

Oh yes I ve been there… if I had my own needs I will be “egocentric” 🙃

[@Neonnia9]

Honestly, when her friends were talking about her being "on his back," I was like maybe they want to save her some embarrassment. Then she followed up with "we're dating." I was dead! Why are they even telling her anything?!?! What?!

[@VodkaMutini413]

It had a she might be into him and wants to break them up and get with him kinda vibe to it

[@gracedrose2629]

I love that the girl in the middle at 11:24 is just sipping her coffee and watching this unfold 😂

[@lamppuu1]

Im so ashamed to admit that i've been the toxic friend. I learned from it and would NEVER do such a stupid thing anymore. Luckily my friend accepted my apologies and we've been friends for 20 years and we're very close 🥰

[@shloka3915]

Don't be ashamed. Toxic people will NEVER admit they're toxic. If you're able to do so, then you're ok now. You look like a good person. I'm glad for you that your friend accepted your apologies, it really must have taken some strengh from both of you. I apologies also myself for all the english mystakes, I'm French and english is difficult for me 😅

[@maryrinehart2346]

I’ve had friends ghost me and refuse to tell me why. And a couple who just wanted an audience or someone to vent to about all the drama and angst in their lives but would never even ask me how I was. It’s not easy to feel like there’s something wrong with you or you did something wrong that no one will tell you what or why. Really hits your self esteem but counseling and moving on to new places, activities and people helps. I’ve gotten much better at recognizing the “takers” and toxic people who will literally suck the energy from you and give nothing back to you. So maybe I don’t and never will have a huge circle of friends but the ones I have are good, caring people & funny, too.

[@emilyspector2728]

LOLOL I love the girl in the middle who is literally sipping the tea as the drama unfolds between the other girls….lolololol. That would totally be me.

[@frederickpetersjane]

SAME, just looking between them like oh shiiitttt

[@hellaSwankkyToo]

"honesty w|o compassion is cruelty." there are several variations of that quote + they all basically say the same thing: "honesty w|o kindness//emathy//compassion//caring about the other person's feelings, makes the 'honest' friend the asshole."

[@emmagbates]

I completely agree, I think that’s key. It might be what makes toxic friends and such difficult to identify sometimes. Because we’re all humans and we all make mistakes, but some people have an agenda

[@wendybaxter8456]

I grew up next door to my “best friend” since we were born. I always thought we were like sisters and she had my back. However, the older I got the more I realized she never had my best interest at heart. Anytime something happened to me she would laugh, when I got clean from drugs she didn’t respect my sobriety and encouraged me to relapse, and would only call me to hear about drama in my life. She was my maid of honor in my wedding but is in NONE of the bachelorette photos because, even though she planned it, she wanted to hang out with her new boyfriend instead. Oh, and she encouraged me to have an affair. When her life took a bad turn I spent time, money, and effort trying to help but was eventually told it was my fault and she made her family believe so as well so she could be a victim. Wasn’t even invited to her wedding. I was sad at first and thought I would miss her, but I was wrong because who misses a cancer as toxic and destructive as that? Drop those “friends”.

[@Just1Nora]

Wow...I'd say I'm sorry, but it sounds like you're way better without her! Good for you!

[@fablesofkitkat]

Here's my former "best friend": we bonded over shared interests in highschool, whenever someone wanted to be friends with me, she would go all 'you're changing, i don't even recognize you anymore' and then if i kept talking to that friend, she'd stop talking to me. I made efforts to hangout with them but she was like "is it me or her?" Dumbass me didn't know any better. Fast forward, we ended up in different classes and she started branching out, i was happy for her. Except she still wanted to monopolize me. And then she would rant to me about her new friends, how she didn't like them coz they're toxic so I was like then "stop being friends with them" She told me it's not that simple. And then she started an imaginary beef between me and them. Ngl. She had me. Fast forward, she complained how she feels humiliated whenever she hung out with them coz her budget's limited when they go out shopping. I lent her money. Over and over again. I fell for it. She hasn't paid me back. Lost contact with her when I told her I wouldn't lend her money anymore coz college makes my finances tight. Last yr, her so called "toxic" friends reached out to me, asking about her. Ended up talking for hours about the imaginary beef and we realized she played us. We were like "holy shit, if it wasn't for her, we could've been friends in hs" . We're friends now and we seldom talk about her, she's not worth the thought, I realize that friendship shouldn't be measured with time. And the length of the friendship shouldn't excuse their bad behaviors

[@wendybaxter8456]

@@Just1Nora thank you! I appreciate that as I haven’t told this information much and could always use the encouragement ❤️

[@michellem1329]

Thank you, for reminding me that I don’t want to go back in time. My mother use to tell me that my bf in hs was jealous but I never believed her. Looking back now, it was so obvious. So, glad we didn’t have social media. Word gets around fast for these poor girls and their haters.

[@bowie.90]

I've lived through two very toxic friendships, and the best advice I can give is when people make a show of ending your "friendship," let them. Don't reel them back in, even to defend yourself. It's not every day the trash takes itself out.

[@Mr.Iknowitall]

For anyone out there in high school struggling… Please save yourself a ton of unnecessary stress and worry and please remember that once you leave high school you will literally never see 99% of these people again for the rest of your life. When you are in high school it’s your whole world but the second it’s over, it’s over. It becomes a distant memory… Don’t waste your time with toxic friends, you know in your heart who is a good friend and who is not… The ones that aren’t- cut your losses now and don’t waste your time. Have two good friends? That’s all you need. Have one good friend? That’s all you need. You just need a few people who love you and genuinely want the best for you and fuck the rest. Also the bitchy popular girls & boys who partied or didn’t care about school? You have seen the best of them. They peak in high school. It’s all downhill from here.

[@duckeh1952]

I came across my graduation group pic (non-US, we were 19 when graduated and I am turning 37)... There was 45 of us and only remember like 1/3 of their first names. Even those years had less drama than previous school (ages 13-16) it was still awful. It's funny if they recognize me and I am like oh hello (am I suppose to know this person?)

[@maliciouskitten21]

Very wise words! (Lmao about the popular kids peaking in high school, it’s so true!) I wish I had listened to my mom when she said the same things to me back in the day, but what teenager ever thinks their parents know what they’re talking about? 🙄 It would have saved me a lot of trouble. I can count on one hand how many friends have stuck around over the years, and they really are good people.

[@50sRockChick]

Ok the 3 girls filming about going to the boyfriends house. Don’t just blame her. Yes she’s a shitty friend, but he’s to blame there as well, especially as he didn’t say anything either.

[@Fe-go2jw]

True. And I also think it's kind of toxic and childish to film the confrontation.

[@sarahprince2412]

I agree that it’s shitty IF they are hooking up and hiding it from her BUT at the same time I think it’s messed up that your friends can’t talk to the boyfriend/girlfriend or be friends with them and hang out with them without you being with them and then you assume they are doing something wrong or trying to hook up. To me that says YOU don’t trust your friend or your boyfriend/girlfriend. It’s childish and says more about that person being super insecure. Your friends and boyfriend/girlfriend can hang out and be friends with whoever they want and that INCLUDES each other. That doesn’t mean they are hooking up or anything. You don’t own them. They are their own person and have a right to hang out with each other if they wanted to. Now once again if they are hanging out with each other just to cheat that’s another story but if they are just friends then stop bitching if they are hanging out without you. Stop being so fucking insecure and childish. Just saying. If people come at me for my opinion then you are proving my point.

[@cocolime6496]

honestly i think the toxic one was the one filming

[@hyperionparthalan]

I just love watching the middle friend cause she had 0 idea what was coming and her reaction is damn. Free TV.

[@kylie7780]

Honestly I felt sorry for the 3rd girl just trying to have her Starbucks. She seemed to be the only non-toxic one (in this scenario)

[@linaware8635]

I was a closeted lesbian until the end of my senior year of high school, so I never had any relationships to have drama over. And after my freshman year of high school I focused mainly on school and work so I didn’t really have any consistent friends to be toxic to me. Yay for loneliness I guess?

[@darkseanymph7411]

In highschool, my clique stopped hanging around with me. I asked them why and they told me that I was just too "bubbly". Later on, I found out that our "queen bee" was pissed because her crush had a crush on me. Queen bees. Don't you just love them?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@agnez112]

AISURU.TOKYO/AGNEZ/?[Making-love]💞 (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*。18 years and over🍎🍑 KZbin: This is fine Someone: Says "heck" KZbin: Be gone #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾

[@nesvrstana1950]

Same happend to me. My clique stopped hanging out with me and never knew why...

[@CherryBlossomGirl206]

I once had a toxic “pickmegirl” friend (before pickmegirls were even really a thing). She was constantly seeking male attention for her self validation, would constantly act like she was just good at everything, would act like ALL the boys were staring at her and falling in love with her (even when they weren’t), would always try to prove she was better than everyone else while simultaneously playing the victim in every situation… it was awful, took me two years to finally dump her as a friend. So narcissistic and bossy

[@CherryBlossomGirl206]

@@moniquedamphousse9682 aww man, you have my condolences. I, at least, could dump my friend, you’re stuck having her as your sister…

[@Inez.deLuna]

I had a friend just like that too. She thought every boy liked her. And would flirt with everyone even the guys I liked. Every time we all went out she’d never pay for anything cause she was “saving her money” but the next day she would be posting that she’s at the mall holding bags of clothes and buying so many shoes. She would always put me down anyway she can. She would also try to make everything about her. She stopped talking to me and only talked to me when she needed me to do her homework. We were in this group of friends and she would hang out with everyone else in the group but me. My dad caught covid a few months back and was in horrible condition for three weeks in the hospital and she didn’t care to ask how he was doing at all. And my dad always picked her up for us to hang. She lived far too. So for her not to ask how he’s doing really irked me. Every time she would FaceTime me she would not listen to anything I was saying at all and she would just cut me off or talk over me. She would roast my boyfriend and call him ugly when she can’t get one on her own. I used to work at a restaurant as a waitress and she would talk down about it. Yet made me pay for everything??? One time we all went out to eat and I wore a skirt and she was asking me why I was wearing it and that I looked weird. She has a new best friend now and constantly posts her about how they’re the best. When I do see her she addresses her as ‘best friend’ which after a while felt like she was trying to make me jealous. I’ve just been keeping my distance and keeping it a secret from the group since the rest of them are genuinely sweet and ignore her/ stick up for me when she says outbursts towards me. But please help me find out if she really is toxic or if I’m overreacting but it’s really getting to me :\

[@CherryBlossomGirl206]

@@Inez.deLuna There’s no question about it, she is TOXIC. Get away from her ASAP, you don’t need that awful energy in your life

[@Inez.deLuna]

@@CherryBlossomGirl206thank youuu I’ll try my best to

[@Inez.deLuna]

@@usrower75 awww thank you so much. I wish you well also 🥺

[@Paps4444]

I wish that everyone is strong enough to get out of those friendships 😐🙁

[@Supersoccerchic]

It's not hard, believe me. You just have to say, I'm sorry but I can't be friends with someone like you. That's it. You don't even have to explain yourself either if they ask why. They can't understand why because their minds don't work like that.

[@Paps4444]

@@Supersoccerchic Well I had a hard time to leave toxic relatiomship so cannot imagine to leave toxix friendship. Don't know when other people "pronounce" that someone is their friend, but ususally it takes time so it might be hard for someone to leave after such a long time

[@chaosgirl8552]

Had a "friend" like this who was dieting and working out and I was happy for her. I'm overweight, but I'm in recovery because I had an eating disorder and I suffer from depression too so my appetite can fluctuate, I haven't had a good relationship with food for years. Once she started losing weight, I was really happy for her because she felt more confident but then she started to point out flaws in me. Like she'd see me drinking soda and say "oh you shouldn't drink that, it has lots of calories in it" or "have you considered doing some excercise, your stomach has been looking a little bigger lately and it's hard to lose belly fat" And she'd also say I should care more for my acne (which I've tried but I have super sensitive skin) and each time she'd find something negative to say about my appearance. Eventually, I just distanced myself from her and eventually stopped talking to her altogether.

[@katewamuyu2465]

I'm so sorry you had to go through this. It's so heartbreakingly relatable. When they start comparing themselves to you to themselves and to others, it's just so soul crushing. I hope you're doing better now and with better friends❤

[@brittanymalcolm6428]

I had this one “friend” that whenever we’d do an exam and anyone in our group got a higher grade than her, she’d throw a fit and not talk to the person and instruct the others to also not talk to the person. 🙂I was that friend that they’d always end up not speaking to until it was convenient for them. Anyways I love you Charlotte❤️❤️❤️🥔🥔 Did you ever got to buy your dad the boat?

[@nishitadutta633]

My so called friends only contacted me when they needed class notes....

[@alicat_247]

So this "friend" is shaming others for getting higher grades than her. Why is that such a big deal? The only grades she should be concerned about is her own. If she wants higher grades, she should study more. That's the most efficient way to do it!

[@agnez112]

AISURU.TOKYO/AGNEZ/?[Making-love]💞 (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*。18 years and over🍎🍑 KZbin: This is fine Someone: Says "heck" KZbin: Be gone #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾

[@milicacar1217]

I am so glad I listened to my mom when it comes to this. I was really, really freaking close to these few people and I felt like I was drowning in negativity, it brought me to the point where I was just so exhausted, until I realised my mom was right. My friends were too negative, and no matter the solution, they were always the victims and everything was against them. The moment I stopped talking to them as much and distancing myself I noticed how much healthier I got, both mentally and physically

[@shawnycoffman]

I had a best friend who kicked me out of her house and ended the friendship because I was divorcing my alcoholic/drug addict abusive husband. She said I was leaving him in his hour of need and that made me an asshole. When she ordered me to go back to him and withdraw my divorce petition and I refused, she threw me out. One good thing, though, is as I was leaving I passed her mom who hugged me goodbye as she always did and I started bawling. "What's wrong, mija?" "I've been dismissed," I told her. As the door closed I could hear her yelling at ex-friend along the lines of "what the hell did you do?! What's wrong with you?!" (Anyone with a little feisty Hispanic mama knows where that went) BTW, she'd divorced an emotionally abusive asshole husband not two years prior. With my full support and assistance. I miss her mama more than her. It's times like this I'm glad I don't have friends anymore. lol Edit: a word

[@martaflorcremades282]

Oh, your friend got the chancla. The provably also got shout at for a while, then 2 weeks no contact with her mok and the mom told her something like "You should haven't teated her like that, she was the only one that couñd put up with your shit and god bless her cause she can do what I can't" but in spanish so it hurted more.

[@deanbarnette1602]

I definitely don't miss my teenage years, trying to date girls because that was what was expected of me all while knowing that deep down inside that I was gay but fighting it at the same time & then having my so called classmates berate me because I was quiet & not how they thought I should be, but thankfully by the time I turned 21 & started exploring my real feelings I discovered after coming out that my self esteem grew over 300% & the women that I once was interested in that had turned me down were now interested in me but now I could turn them down because I was now only interested in men & my life has been better ever since! 💯

[@wimpywolf3789]

I feel lucky that I've never had anything toxic... cause books were my friends yay!

[@greenchutney7521]

That depends on what you read and what you absorb. Some of these plot lines and characters can be toxic too, expecially if you idolize them.

[@SetsunaMeiou-SailorPluto]

The panic on that girls face who was stuck between her two friends screaming at each other is me every time I have to interact with another human being.

[@МашаПанова-в4в]

Right? She also looked so scared when the one who was at the boyfriend’s house went like: “You told her?!”

[@karaamundson3964]

yes. big feels to you.

[@deedeeisabelsdottir]

She was like "Im just trying to enjoy this slushie..now its awkward" 😂

[@SetsunaMeiou-SailorPluto]

@@deedeeisabelsdottir I have never seen someone look so uncomfortable and try to act like they're invisible lol she didn't know where to look or what to do or say and when the one girl whipped on her she's like how you gonna be mad at me tho

[@kellywohlgemut4797]

I told a friend that my Dad was having open heart surgery (I have a very close relationship with my parents) and she dismissively compared it to very minor day surgery and then changed the topic back to her self-created petty drama. That was the final straw before I pulled back from that friendship.

[@Liv_G]

After a really bad relationship and break up that ended with him leading me on and then telling me he could "never see himself marrying me" My bestfriend at the time would text him constantly to "check" on him to see how he was doing after the break up... After all of the tears and mental crisis I went through and was currently going through. She claimed that he was her friend too so she was obligated to make sure he was okay. In hindsight I always was uncomfortable by how comfortable she would get with him. Put her feet up on him, Sit practically on his lap at times, flirt with him but then saying thats "just her personality" We are no longer friends and I met my husband right after my breakup with my ex and her 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@zeethefuture8262]

Men: *physically hurt each other, have a beer later in the same day* Women: *emotionally dissect you until you have trauma for the rest of your life*

[@mustkilln00bs]

AINT THIS THE DAMN TRUTH

[@PainX187]

not gonna lie as a man a rather intimidating watch i would rather take my beating and lose a fight then i would deal with this and hey beer who does not love beer

[@thedeepfriar745]

Because once you get that initial emotion/ aggression out of your system. Your head kind of clears and what you were feeling doesn’t matter anymore.

[@ironwolf56]

I was gonna comment on how all these toxic friends videos always seem to be girls but didn't want to get ripped apart in comments.

[@PainX187]

@@ironwolf56 easier for people to rip you apart when you are not speaking truth on this topic not so much girls do get mean especialy to each other

[@destiny__cheng]

the girls who were mad that their friends always looked good and smiled in pictures, they’re the reason why that dude ain’t ever seen two pretty best friends.

[@amberk7579]

11:16 😅🤣😂🤣😅"I had to tell her, that's a big thing!!" That's a friend

[@tarashort9702]

I had such a toxic friend as an adult. We were roommates and she wanted me to help her with her kids. Which was actually me doing everything for them, feeding, dressing, homework, hair, bath time, put to sleep etc. If that wasn't bad enough, and oh was it bad, those kids were unruly af, she got mad at me for spending almost two weeks at my mom's house AFTER MY DAD DIED AT HOME and I was there when it happened. Helping my mom. Six days after his death my toxic friend literally told me to get over it and that I needed to come home because she needed help with her kids.

[@NOMAAM1970]

When your girlfriend tells you not to date a dude, it's usually because she wants him.

[@CharlotteDobre]

Big facts

[@NOMAAM1970]

@@JessicaMiller-pc4dj ya. But in my experience it's always been the other way around. And when you yell your best friend her guy is cheating they usually turn on you. I've been through it all when I was a teen. Even in my early 20's.

[@tiffakang4525]

🙄 The Internet: We women need to stick together... Women: if your friend warns you about a guy, she definitely wants him. 🤮

[@dishamhatre01]

@@tiffakang4525 ok no, the thing is we’ll trust a girl when she tells us a guy isn’t right for us as long as she isn’t backhandedly trying to talk shit about us…stop being a pick me😀

[@rheannagold6620]

@@JessicaMiller-pc4dj there's a time and place for everything, so I agree with you. Every time I have personally told a friend not to date someone dude was always a MEGA CREEP. But when my friends told me not to she turned around and f*ked them right after convincing me to break up with them. All 5 of them. I have no idea why I stayed her friend for over 7 years 🤮

[@monimoo88]

“You might be able to get another guy, just not him, ya know your boyfriend? Yeah no you can’t have him, way out of your league.” LOL also there’s a story on Reddit right now where a girl just found out her boyfriend has been sleeping with her SISTER! She came to Reddit to ask advice on how to approach the situation where the boyfriend and sister were acting a lot closer than she would like, including her hanging out with him all day while the girl was at work and sharing secrets with the sister he didn’t tell her, including relationship problems the two were having. The sister even told her the boyfriend was too good for her and deserved someone way better. She came home on her birthday early and found them having sex in her apartment.

[@goodbyefreeworld3771]

Sadly I think this happens more often then we realize.

[@alesiafitzpatrick8244]

Ooooh no

[@jnb756]

Sisters are always an easy target for a dude that has no issues with crossing the family line like that - it's pretty sad

[@IrieRogue]

Dude. Wow.

[@poopyrose8180]

I have no idea how family can do that to each other. I adore my older sister and we always protect each other

[@mwatson4970]

In summary, she lied abt her beliefs, gaslight me into believing i was the toxic one, and ultimately got me to give all control in the relationship to her while still only perceiving anything I did as negative and forcing me to "explain" myself for everything. I stayed for a while in the end just for her little girl whom I loved, but eventually my peace was more important. Thanks for providing a space for support, Charlotte!

[@umacrawford9662]

The fact that the girl said that the other girl was too pretty and then said she was trying to hard but then said that her friend didn't even look that good is crazy. And then kicking her out bc she smiled like that's some crazy jealousy. I mean I'm glad she kicked her out bc then she realized that wasn't her friend. Love your vids btwww

[@xLithiumx]

I'm so glad that I've never experienced a toxic friendship/relationship. All these controversies seem really exhausting. I was bullied in school, but at least I knew that my friends were real friends.

[@danielamendez8853]

One of my best friends told me that I wasn’t invited to her kid’s birthday party because I didn’t have kids and therefore had nothing to contribute to her precious kid.

[@artwithasparkle1691]

that was NOT ur best friend then that's just horrible. Kid or not I'm sure u contribute a lot to the world.

[@audreyd859]

I had a friend who told me I flirted too much and it was only bc I was friendly to everyone. I was so glad when we stopped hanging out. I could never relax bc I was afraid I'd upset her.

[@drummergirl4239]

Toxic friend story: About 3-1/2 years i met, online, this really sweet girl with a mild case of cerebral palsy. We were both in the same fandom and both had a crippling fear of rejection due to friends constantly leaving us for no reason, so naturally we immediately clung to each other like glue even though we lived across the country from each other. Her disability prevented her from being independent and she basically sat on her phone all day, most days, with nothing to do and no one to talk to, jumping from friend to friend since she graduated high school, which was about a decade prior so she was pretty lonely and bc i was taking a gap year between HS and college at the time, so i was more than happy to keep her company. We talked constantly everyday. In Messages, in DMs, in the fandom chat, everywhere. Although, i never knew why ppl left me, it wasn’t long before i found out why ppl left her. During my gap year everything was fine and dandy unless i entered adhd hyper-focus doing something and before i knew it 8 hours had passed lol. She would get annoyed or even angry if didn’t reply fast enough or went long periods without talking to her. Bc i related, i made an effort to remind her i wasn’t going anywhere. But that didn’t work. I explained that i didn’t want to be on my phone 24/7 and had other things liked doing. Her CP affected her speech so she was very camera shy and it was months before she could muster up the courage to FaceTime me. But even those were few and far between so i just told her that i would be doing something else for a while and would get back to her whenever, which was often but i still always offered the option of FT me while i was working on something but she had the audacity to get mad at me for not talking to her even tho i gave her 90% of my time like God forbid i have time to myself. It got worse when i started college later that year. I could no longer sit on my phone with her all day. It all went downhill from there. I would always tell her that i was busy with school and i couldn’t talk but to her that was precisely the problem. “You’re always busy ugh”. But that wasn’t enough. So again, bc i could relate to her anxiety, i tried to make time everyday to talk to her. But even that wasn’t enough. During my second year of college where i was majoring in music, my grades began to suffer bc i was talking go her so much. I had finished my core courses and was taking major related courses like music theory which were pretty intense. I had also made new friends that i often did homework with. She couldnt fathom that i could talk and spend time with ppl i see almost everyday in person and not someone who lives 1500 miles away. It was like walking on eggshells. I finally got tired of being required to talk to her 24/7 and told her to just deal with it and that I would text her when it was convenient for me. I hoped that even though i would be gone a lot, if i still talked to her whenever i could, that would help ease her anxiety. But nope. That still wasn’t enough. Nothing was enough. It was all or nothing with her. She often started nasty text message fights about how i never talked to her anymore, gaslighting me and cursing me out. Despite me always explaining myself, she refused to believe me and thought i was always lying to her. These fights were followed by a sincere apology stating how she was wrong 24 hrs later and a promise to never do it again, only to do it again a month or 2 later. She then began taking her anger out on the ppl in the fandom chat that made it difficult to cut ties with her, which also consisted almost completely of other fans that she had beef with so that didn’t help either. I forget what the straw that broke the camel’s back was but she got triggered by every little thing. And after months of that, i had had enough. Everyone in the chat had had enough. I messaged her privately basically saying you’re done, we’re done, we are longer friends, we’re all sick of your toxicity, goodbye. And she then proceeded go send a screenshot of the message to the chat screaming about much of a and i quote “disgusting person” i was lol. When admin came back she was removed from the chat and we both blocked each other. It could not have ended worse off. I allowed this behavior for nearly 2 years due to her special circumstances. I wanted to give her every chance possible. I had no idea how overbearing i was until i had it done to me 10-fold. I wasn’t perfect either. I was always tried to correct my toxic traits even if she wouldn’t. This friendship taught me why ppl have boundaries and i have gotten much better with trusting ppl. Idk how she is doing now but until she learns the difference between boundaries and rejection, nothing will change. I hope she does. She would be an amazing friend if it wasn’t for that.

[@TheSweettashamarie]

I had this girl in high school who wanted to only be my friend because she was dating my older brother. The day that he broke up with her, she completely turned on me. It was horrible and I couldn't understand why I was the one getting verbally abused. She tried to spread lies about me around school and tried to turn a lot of people against me. All it took was one word to my older brother and it stopped.

[@Vee-Shan-CC]

Ex friend was a coworker and dating another coworker/my roommate. Well my 'friend' and roomy broke up and she went completely off the wall. Started stalking him, showing up at our apartment building, getting mad at other women we worked with (he could be flirting), finding excuses to come visit me, etc. I told her that her coming over is not allowed anymore due to her obsession and she seemed to take it well, a little to well. One of our other coworkers was having a birthday soon and the 'friend' decided to throw a party for him. It went from at her place to "You think we could throw it at your apartment instead?". I knew what she was planning but it turned out so much worse. She started flirting with the birthday boy for the week leading up to his party. Made a bunch of promises to him that sounded like he was going to get 'lucky' and such. Party comes around and we're all drinking and having a good time. My roommate complains about having a severe migraine and he leaves to sleep it off. 30 minutes later my 'friend' disappears. The bathroom is passed my roomy's door, so we didn't think much of it till a couple minutes turned to 15, 20, 30, 45, an hour and then she finally shows up again. She kept disappearing into my roomy's room off and on for the rest of the night. The party ended and the birthday boy had been promised a ride home by 'friend' and some vague promises of them spending the rest of the night together. So he was excited to leave but she made excuses about helping me clean the mess left by the party and then WENT INTO MY ROOMY'S BEDROOM. Oh man, the look of devastation on the birthday boy's face was heartbreaking. She never left the roomy's room, didn't help clean and started spreading rumours about the birthday boy and my roommate all the next week. Things like birthday boy had been pressuring her for naughtys and how my roomy had invited her into his room. When I spoke to my roommate about her being in his room he didn't even know she was in there till he woke up to her in his bed. I spoke to the birthday boy and found out that she had been flirting with him the whole week till the party. I even have a picture of her throwing herself at him while we were hanging out the weekend before. From that point on I was done with her. I threw another small drinking party for the birthday boy to make up for the disaster of his original party. I told my roommate that she isn't allowed over anymore, even if he decided to start dating her again. For the next several weeks she kept trying to pressure me into agreeing that what she did was right. I told her no every time and she'd throw a fit about how being her friend obligated me to agreeing with her no matter what. Well, we aren't friend anymore. She did more things leading up to this but this was what broke me. Screw you Liz

[@strawberryseeds]

Whenever people treat you this way it’s most likely jealousy and never listen to their negative and move on to positive people.

[@KieliShane]

I had my friend get together with my ex a week after he dumped me. She didn't see what she did wrong but her friend that disliked me and that I disliked back was the one on my side saying it was wrong. No surprise I'm no longer friends with her.

[@saram0472]

Toxic friend story: I had a "friend" who would date every guy I liked. Any guy I thought was cute she would instantly go after them. But the one guy I went after actually liked me and ignored her, she instantly called me a bad friend and would say 'oh don't fall in love so fast' or 'uh oh Sara is boy crazy'... when she was the one who was engaged like 3 times in high school and was the 'pick me' girl. Like she would always say 'oh I'm one of the guys'.

[@vi709]

Ikr 😂I had a friend same as yours I cut all contacts from her and even called her names and said hella bad stuff to her yet she tried to call me months later day before yesterday to wish me happy birthday. That too at midnight telling my bff to give her my number to wish me. 😂😂

[@amandanunyabusiness5027]

Been there, those friends that try to "Claim" every single guy you show interest in even if they themselves are in a relationship.. They're just jealous of you.. Trust me.

[@theniemcmeanie]

My dogs love it when Charlotte says "Hey Everybody " they love the sound of her voice

[@ontxtteredwxngs]

they are everybody🥰

[@esterpereiradealmeidasanto725]

I had this boyfriend and when he told me that he was in love with me I was thrilled! I told my "best friend" and she said something like "he doesn't love you, why are you so happy about a lie?". Latter I found out that SHE hited on him, saying that she was prettier and had "more to offer".

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

Wow.

[@vi709]

Oh god such pathetic friend.

[@Kruhee]

As a teen I had anger issues I channeled into working out, and happened to be friends with a very popular and nice girl. We supported each other and still do and would never have dreamed of acting so shitty as in these videos. She helped me to become a more social person and I helped her to get into working out and fitness. It wasn't until I was in my 20's that I experienced a truly toxic friend but after 5 years she and I split because I couldn't meet her unrealistic expectations (I had become a placeholder for the perfect husband she was holding out for.) After we broke off our friendship I realized that while I mourned the person I once thought she was and the friendship itself, I wasn't sad that it had ended and all I felt was the weight lifted off my shoulders. She still badmouths me and nitpicks me to mutual friends. But I am content in knowing that actions speak louder than words and if I continue to be the person I am with friends who love me for me, then it doesn't and won't matter what she says.

[@EvilStrikesTrueCrimeChannel]

An old friend I grew up with for 16 years who then moved to Spain because she was troubled phoned me a while ago (we are 33 now) she wanted to tell me that when we were 8 and my dog had pups and one of them died...it was because she shook her to death 😳 she said she needed to tell me to move on in her life. I am still gutted that she could have done that she knew that was my favourite pup and that is probs why she did it.

[@patdryden3045]

Hope shes now a exfriend. Anyone who could deliberately kill an animal is scum .

[@Gravelgratious]

Thats the kind of shit where I tell a person to never show their face to me again. And to stay out of my life forever. Fuck controlling toxic people, they deserve to be alone.

[@CamilaSantos-cj1ut]

wtf

[@urielgrey]

Oh I'm so sorry and it's good she moved away. That is mentally ill. It's good she grew up but it's still mentally ill to tell you and hurt you again this many years later. It's good you are separated from her because she is imo still dangerous

[@lyndsycarson8302]

Did you check to see if she is a serial killer in spain ?! dam!

[@catherinenatt1774]

I had one demand I choose between her and another friend because they didn’t get along, the other friend in the situation told me she understood if I choose One over her….. safe to say I chose the friend who wasn’t starting shit. Cut all contact with One and her group of people and the drama in my life went from all the time to almost never, I haven’t looked back and I will never regret my decision

[@XxlonerxinxlovexX]

I'm still kinda getting over cutting ties with my ex-best friend of 20ish years. It wasn't so much that she was toxic, but our friendship became toxic. It got to the point that she would only call me to complain, usually about her awful af boyfriend who she refused to leave. It got so bad that I just dreaded talking to her. Then she seemed somewhat ... appalled (?) when I got engaged. Promised to come to the engagement party, but then didn't because the emotionally abusive boyfriend was more important. And that was my out. I miss her sometimes, but I don't miss the constant stress!

[@GallifreyGirl]

As you say, she is in an abusive relationship. It's likely that she doesn't feel able to leave him. Domestic abuse often includes gaslighting; the abused person feels worthless, is separated from their friendship groups - their abusive partner becomes their 'saviour'. Please, reach out. ASK her if she's scared. She may need help.

[@XxlonerxinxlovexX]

@@GallifreyGirl I asked her many times, and she'd just say she doesn't want to be single. That was it. I tried for over ten years, there's only so much you can do when someone refuses to be helped.

[@GallifreyGirl]

@@XxlonerxinxlovexX then you've done what you can. I hope she finds happiness. Oh! And congrats on your own engagement :D

[@SunshyneA]

@@XxlonerxinxlovexX that's a trauma response, that fear of loneliness is more than likely fueled by an unresolved abandonment issues

[@laurawhite7825]

Whole group of toxic friends in college- the thing that made me ditch them was how they treated my other friend. She found out later in life that she is on the autism spectrum, but at the time people just saw her as a little sheltered and taking longer to understand things (to the 'friends,' she was "clueless and slow.") The 'friends' asked me not to invite her to an upcoming party, and maybe try to avoid her at lunch. This is like high school bullying 101, how immature and rude!

[@jolina942]

I wrote a song about toxic friendships and the feelings you go through when you get let down by a close friend. it’s called friend and my name is Jolina if you want to hear it on Spotify (or wherever you listen to music). maybe you will relate to the lyrics, and I hope it helps you heal the way it helped me.

[@kiwiskillerlooks2130]

I use to have this friend, we'll call her "N". N was well off because of Daddy, he paid for her house, car, school and anything else she wanted. I don't really know how we became friends but somehow I became her "bestie". We went everywhere together and I always felt out of place (seriously I'm a punker and we went to Louis Vuitton in Yorkdale for her to return something and security followed me around lmao) but I still tried to pay my own way for things and she was fun to hang out with. Eventually though, I met my now husband. He helped me get on my feet after leaving my daughter's father, loved my daughter like his own and helped me get enrolled in school. Because I was a mom living alone and waiting for OSAP I had to be on welfare for a month or two, which kept me on a super tight budget. N kept calling about going shopping or going to dinner and I would occasionally but its not much fun watching someone buy all this expensive stuff, flaunt it infront of me and basically be like "sorry you're poor". So one day she calls and wants me to go shopping again, I say I can't that day and I'm hanging out with my new boyfriend. She LOSES IT and starts screaming at me about how she hates him and he's done literally nothing for me (see above he had) and that I would have more money if I didn't drink and smoke weed all the time (again welfare budget and supporting a little girl). I stopped talking to her after that and my life has been so much better. Lesson learned, don't be the "poor friend" to a spoiled rich girl.

[@ariannadorsey6214]

Toxic friend story: So, there was this girl in my fifth grade who always tried to get me in trouble, and always tried to get herself out of it. Whenever I did something she didn't like, she'd go out of her way to make it known. I noticed this behavior, but stayed her friend because I didn't really have many friends, and I was seen as the "annoying" kid (tends to be a habit for kids with ADHD, sadly :( ). I didn't find myself as annoying, I was just energetic (not in the wild way), but always talked about Sonic because, well- that's all I knew. Oh, and just a random note, my principal did notice something was off before I accepted it. She noticed this was my second time being in her office by the same kid, but I never got in trouble before for anything, so she advised it'd probably be best for me to stop being her friend, because I was a sweet kid hanging around the wrong person. But anyways, this one day is when I knew that something was really up. I guess I was waiting for my bus or something, because I was just on the computer playing games with those large, chunky headphones on. Usually, when I play games, I listen to music as well- today, I decided not to. Out of the corner of my eye, I see her walk over to our teacher, and she kinda starts out normal until she says "Hey- do you think she can hear me?" My teacher answers "Well- she's probably listening to music. Why?" She kinda glances towards me, which I don't turn my head and move my eyes away, then she continues, saying, "Well. . .I was wondering, what grade did she get for her project?" My teacher pauses for a moment before saying that I got a 95 (mind you, we just completed doing presentations that day), and she got a 90. She then goes and asks, "How come her grade is higher than mine?" My teacher is confused by this, and she goes, "Well, she did really well on her presentation. She was engaging the class (which was her recommendation to us) and I thought it was pretty interesting." My 'friend' sounds annoyed, and she adds, "But her project was over a stupid KZbinr (I really liked Pewdiepie as a kid), and mine was over a model, someone that actually does something in the world. So how is that fair?" My teacher wasn't having any of her crap, and she noted, "It's just five points. It's not much of a difference. And again, I think she did really good." At this point, she realizes she's not getting anywhere, and if I remember correctly, just stormed out. I don't remember much of what happened afterwards, but- I believe I discussed with her about what her problem was, and she suggested that she's probably just jealous, which would make a lot more sense. Bonus: She also got me in trouble once because of "racism". Mind you, I'm a mixed child, but for this bonus, we were calling each other's moms animals as a joke. We went through like, a lot of them before I eventually said "your mom is a gorilla". Then she looked at me and said "That's racist" and immediately went to tell the PE teacher. I was so confused, because again, I'm mixed, and that would mean I'm calling myself half gorilla, and my Dad a gorilla. If anything, she was the racist one in assuming that. 😂 But anyways, that's all for me.

[@eowyn8340]

I realized my friend “Heather” was truly toxic when she ignored my texts that I was at the hospital for my extremely sick grandmother. Our other friend who was part of the chat messaged me as soon as she got off her plane, so it was definitely Heather ignoring me. Then my grandmother died (this was all unexpected) and Heather just happened to get engaged at the same time. She completely ignored my posts and texts and was all wrapped up in her engagement. She was totally shocked when she saw me a week later (I had been a pall bearer at my grandmother’s funeral) and I wasn’t jumping up and down with excitement for her. She was so in her own world and I just wanted to slap her. I was very close to my grandmother and was devastated by her passing. But noooo, Heather couldn’t be taken out of her ‘happy moment’ so send me so much as a condolences. *This was only 1 1/2 years ago by the way. We’re all in our 30s. 🙄

[@Lagallyasquatter]

Well, the best way to be snapped out of it, is to be slapped in the face. She totally deserves it, and should be ashamed of herself. If she were truly a friend she would have not even been close to shocked when you weren’t jumping for joy. So glad you got out of that. I’m so sorry for your loss, its so awsome that you had a loving relationship with your grandmother.

[@radioactive_sunflowerz2450]

As someone who lost a very beloved grandmother I'm so sorry your friend wasn't sympathetic. I was wrecked, but managed to write and say her eulogy. It took me a long time for the grief to lessen since she was my best friend, the best grandma you could ask for. She didn't have a lot of money but she made you feel like you could tell her anything and she wouldn't judge you no matter what. Hope you feel better and have better friends or got closer with the friends who were there for you ❤️

[@oliviatankinganimation7732]

I love the girl that told the story about the hoodie. I’d listen to her tell stories all day.

[@nathanhaimson]

I didn't have many friends growing up, so when I moved back to California from Mississippi, I was SO happy I was connecting with people my age a lot more. I was (and still am) so excited to have friends, I always pour a lot of effort into our connection because it's something I've always wanted. Though, that has put me in situations in high school and college where people will just use me for validation and kindness, instead of actually mutually contributing to the friendship. It was tough cause I was so thrilled to have friends, but some of them turned out to not be genuine at all and were just taking advantage of me. Even now as an adult, it still happens and it makes me more weary of trusting people. ;_;

[@dorianalexander2730]

Same

[@alexandrialang5631]

I had this one “friend” that lost a child and I was there for her all the way. A few years later I lost my father and I got depressed, this girl literally would tell me to talk to her about it and then when I would try to she would ALWAYS turn the conversation back to how she felt about her son and how that’s a much deeper hurt then losing a parent. After that I realized she wasn’t even a real friend, she would call me out when she had beef with other girls. Needless to say we are no longer friends and I just know she sits back talking about me to her husband about how I was so afraid of her lmbo I never tried to fight her because I like to fight and I knew she couldn’t handle me so being the adult I fully blocked the entire friend group and went out to make new friends. Drama free every since that day lol

[@e.k_liadon]

There’s always something so satisfying about dumping toxicity from your life and finding real friends along the way. 🍵

[@alexandrialang5631]

@@e.k_liadon very well said lol

[@AmanKumarVlogs]

Charlotte is such a great motivation for me on my own KZbin journey, I am glad I was motivated by this women.

[@agnez112]

AISURU.TOKYO/AGNEZ/?[Making-love]💞 (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*。18 years and over🍎🍑 KZbin: This is fine Someone: Says "heck" KZbin: Be gone #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾