Toxic Frienships or Ambivalent Buddies... What's Worse? || With Dushy & Jayson

[@fatmaayan5104]

Hi IRIP, please stop capping the episodes to one hour!..we don’t mind long episodes we actually prefer longer

[@wanjikuwanyoike987]

Yaaaaaaaaaasssssss

[@esthermwangi7911]

Exactly!

[@MichelleNjeri-sv8tl]

Yesssssssssssss

[@ivywakio]

Riiiight?

[@kathambiEK]

Was about to say the same thing 😊❤

[@MaryanneENjeri]

When Dushy talked about not being a rehab for badly behaved people, I felt it to my spinal column!

[@EssNjeri]

Please and thank you

[@cynthiagitonga8239]

Call that INJECTIVE 😫

[@Kanana-t9z]

This convo resonated with me all the way.Thanks guys.Keep it up

[@juotton]

I am loving this episodes with Jay and Dushy

[@Bellaparrott]

To all my conservative Kenyans; we love Jason and so should you!😘😚🫶🏿♥️

[@vibesandtumbocuts]

This was such a wonderful conversation. Thank you! With regards to being a question mark on someone’s list, I heard something that was rather discombobulating but it landed after a while. They said ‘ People are allowed to reject what you are offering’. After I sat with this I realized that it’s also okay for me to say no to what someone is offering.

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

Exactly

[@sandrakinta1285]

Dushy came through again with the apology languages, look at me spending the entire weekend finding out what mine is. Another dope episode with the best friends, I love them, love from the 256.

[@JessN254]

This is super great! Yup definitely researching on Apology languages

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

You are a good student

[@sandrakinta1285]

Learning from the best👌

[@georgeoduor8940]

Dushy and Jason need to be rotational guests, I didn't even realize the time had ended. Wonderful conversation.

[@katherinewachira7794]

That Jason look ATE

[@VictoriaJosephs]

His looks always eat

[@wairimumeemoh8365]

Just incorporate Dushy and Kajay permanently!

[@Nduvawinnie]

Ikr

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

cc management 😂

[@ParentingKultur]

I resonate with Sharon in that the ambivalent relationships are more toxic merely because you are not aware.

[@Antoinette-v1k]

I am relating I promise

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

Thats a good one 😂

[@ShaniceMuthoni-kq8wr]

Right!

[@dianakawira0]

Me to hun😊

[@tfa4782]

Make it a segment where you read the subscribers' comments

[@Antoinette-v1k]

@@tfa4782 I support this definitely.tgey react to them as well

[@Ckago7]

This is so related, I promise. Dushy is my internet best friend. Her opinions are relatable. 🤗

[@fatmaayan5104]

Jules your gym is showing! 😊🎉..your arms look super toned ❤

[@cynetykwamboka1333]

So excited to be watching Jason , finally found him on TikTok after hearing him somewhere but didn't get the name 😊you guys are amazing Ps : You can't really trust an ambivalent friend . He / she can call you out on something but he/ she should definitely be in your corner . Love your podcast and I hope you guys win Pulse award😊❤❤❤

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

Thank you. Please continue voting for us

[@Han-wt4vg]

I 100% agree with Dushy, respect is everything

[@mercyjaneorangi9437]

The set is in such a beautiful room! Ok, now lemme go watch :)

[@dianadee3604]

This conversation was really interesting. I like how honest y'all are. And real connections as I grow older, friends! Peeps out here area lot and not healed and not aware and are pretending and are you name it! Thanks for having this conversation....I am making a list as type this of those who I am an ambivalent friend to....oh and damn! 😮okay bye😅

[@angelicrue9238]

One of my favourite episodes so far..such a rich conversation . Thank you guys!

[@azhilo7695]

"Somebody can only love you,as much as they love themselves "

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

💯

[@carolinenjoroge1195]

I told someone you can't love me because you don't even love yourself

[@gwanjiru7596]

Thankyou!! This has given me so much clarity!!!

[@brendaomondi92]

This is my Therapy sesh.. anytime am here .. I am changed.. my mindset changes n widens.. Azin been Blind Then Now I see.. Thanks IRP gang.. please continue . Your helping so much of us heal.. indirectly.. Kwanza this episode hit home.. eee

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

Thank you for your feedback

[@shamijoanna]

i am just in my 20s and I relate, I am not sure how to feel about thatttt!!! Jules is BEAUTIFUL BTW!!!! Shazzoooooo very cutesyyyy veryyyy demureeee!!! Dushy?? ahhh Dushy? soooo smartttt and very elegant!! Jayson? being intentional is the keyyyyy!!!! 😍😍

[@shamijoanna]

LOVE FROM RWANDAAAAA🥰

[@maggiematthew23]

I've learnt something.I love Dushy's friendship with Jay🥰🥰.Big up Jules 🔥🔥.Shaz is wise.

[@Furaha-kg3yj]

I love how y’all have embraced African hairstyles 😩😍 Like you look so beautiful 🤩 Dushy didn’t come to play! I’m not a rehab for bad behavior.

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

Girl is dropping gems

[@nutrihealth6770]

i enjoyed this conversation and just realized that i have had ambivalent relationships only, all my life and its sad. like what was that 😆😆😆😆.... now im very much my own friend fr

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

Its time to review

[@gracejohnson3048]

This Duo is sooo good.❤❤❤ please bring them more often. Also Dushy you are so so beautiful and well spoken.. you have a very healed approach to many things that I enjoyed listening to. Jason, absolutely amazing. Great outfit choice and literally the sweetest. You and Dushy compliment each other so well. Hope to see the two of you more often here ❤❤

[@m.miresh1384]

I like how you did your hair, Jules, it's so beautiful. Sharon, I love that dress!

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

Thank you

[@monicahkibethi1800]

I'm new here and am loving you for sure. Jules i used to watch you on over 25 and now am here. I can relate

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

Welcome here

[@ivywainaina759]

Such grownup conversations ❤

[@Gods_Lastborn]

I am addicted to this channel. I followed Jules and I love it here

[@dashb9053]

I love y'all but you've spent half the episode not on the topic at hand, so my suggestion is do you mind making episodes longer?so as to make up for the intro time, most times i find the topic rushed at the end because time got away. The points are pointing but time cruch is real😢

[@BeatriceNjogu-ju7oq]

this episode has taught to reflect inward as much as am quick to call out. mmeshout like literally, bt it was very enlightning and alot to consider certainly. love y'all.

[@Blackm17k]

The four of you together❤❤❤ 10/10

[@chatimuphiri]

I have related! So much! I promise! Thank you for this conversation, loved it❤

[@Barbzthegreat]

I liked the episode. It’s funny coz my mums apology language is food!!! Yaani us guys will argue, doors will be banged. I will be there fuming and breathing fire and then my mum will show up to my room two hours later offering a sweet banana. Calm like nothing happened. And then life goes on. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@barbaranjeri9142]

Dushy should be in all episodes 😊🎉🎉😂😂

[@kray1367]

Hello. Please arrange the podcast in segments if the key is to have an hour of content. The beginning was very long and off topic. Still enjoyed it but I feel like more could have been covered if it was planned

[@Missdeetrader]

Listened to this episode while making some pankcakes for myself and journaling because I had a very sour mood. Safe to say I feel so soothed after and ready to face my shit head on. Also, do you guys think its okay to not have friends? I mean its nice to just have peace and quiet on your own instead of all this ambivalent and toxic shenanigans?😅 Amazing episode as usss can't wait for the next!

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

We love to here it. About friends, can you live alone really?

[@Glaswgows_Stylist]

My online friends!! It truly is related !! ❤

[@Liz_wilsons983]

You guys are a vibe!❤❤❤

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

Thank you

[@dr.ohuruc.1511]

Had to bring out my notebook asap cz gems were dropped here Anything with gaitho 😊Am in 😍 🥰

[@sofie9608]

Jay ...I love u so glad they have u here 😊😊

[@beloncekamz2821]

Wueh! Such a wholesome discussion👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥. Fave guests Dushy x Jason❤. Leo nimesoma📝 Apology Languages to Ambivalent Friendships. I feel thomed😁.

[@nzule]

I think I've been ambivalent with a certain kacrew from school for years now. I get exhausted just thinking of get togethers and I feel so drained afterwards. We've outgrown each other. Ambivalent relationships. I needed that label.

[@jentamwake752]

Mimi nimevote, je wewe?

[@leejohnny2156]

Dushy once again looking good .

[@milliahmuchoki8588]

Am guilty for not following you and the way I love Jules 🥺❤️❤️❤️

[@jonathanndungu9904]

Charles Murito, Dez and Magunga...where are they!? Petition to bring them back with Dushy/Jay.

[@joanolisa1]

I am loving this!!! ❤❤❤

[@turkishdramaseries800]

We arranged for a girls trip where we were to travel with our significant others.Two of my friends are SDAs so they decided on that Saturday they will be going to church and catch up with us in the afternoon,i felt they were inconsiderate considering we were to travel at night so that we could have the weekend for bonding....I immediately cancelled the trip and planned mine with my person to visit the same place since I had already prepared for a staycation...is this an ambivalent friendship?

[@francie2752]

Your episodes are always educative, i like it here❤. Has anyone experienced ambivalence with family🤔cus wueh.. Also iRip for the podcast influencer of the year🥳

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

Yaaaaas!

[@leejohnny2156]

Friendship sucks especially when a real friend their is growth not in a bad way but do you find you can't share with your friends as much when they move in or they get married they move countries they switch schools universities your friend in high school is not the same friend in uni you can't chitchat anymore then switch careers they change social cycles it hurts most when your friends are thriving and your not that's because in every growth their is different social cycles that's because in every growth bud their is a switch in social cycles so friendship sucks I think it's the thrive to maintain it particularly for example a good friend switches and lives in a different continent their is a switch to the thinking how you think is not how they think. How you relate to o different things way of life is different career growth etc hence very draining today cultivate it .Friendship can be draining if your in no position to cultivate it hence frustrating.Either way beautiful friendship is always friendship that beautiful person will always lit your room when the connection happens it is on again.

[@leejohnny2156]

When they move on sorry.

[@leejohnny2156]

Very draining to cultivate friendship

[@raelngome7717]

Brooo punctuation marks! Please!

[@mitchellmaina83]

27:23 I think ambivalent relationships can occur seasonally. Sometimes people don't add that much value in certain seasons but they will in the future. Anyway, let me keep listening

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

I agree. They could be going through something

[@victoriabanchiri6033]

More of this .I love the pack .

[@sofie9608]

Dushy has become a member ❤❤

[@slenderrev2829]

Relating from 🇿🇦

[@MwendeSchwinn]

You guys me i don't have that maturity when it comes to my sister; if she hates someone, I hate that someone twice as much haha.

[@shonamoraa]

I already love the episode

[@joannyaguthii.]

This was too goood!

[@muthoninjauyah3968]

Its the very same thing in my opinion. Those that show you love in your face, but put knives in your back are on a very high level of devil's apprentice in your life. You know them through instinct. There is something that never sits right about them, from the very start of the friendship. I have learnt not to let experience show me what instinct was warning me about from the start. You may not even live to tell the tale💯. #SHANQUELLAROBINSON #SELENAPEREZ

[@Namarome.]

Proceeds to cut off literally everyone after this episode😂😂mna shooooutt

[@victoriagakii1448]

love the episodes.lovely conversations..We need it to be slightly longer though..we can feel the rush..give us 1.5 hrs instead of just 1 hr if its possible please.Otherwise,great job!

[@BHS_Africa_Pod]

Hapo 23:23 when Dushy says she can carry beef for friends, sign me up! You cannot treat my friend vibaya and still have access to me. If my friend has friend goggles that prevent her from seeing that she is being treated vibaya, I do not! Do not bring the idiot around me, make time to hang out with them, separately! PS- my THING is that sitaki kuzoea kuona my friends being treated like sh*t just in case I subconsciously* think that that's okay! IMAGINE NOMARLIZING NONSENSE!! Some of these things are contagious and sitaki kuzishika! LOL, Pole I am completely in my feelings on this! Imagine treating your friends kama mayai halafu some imbecile THINKS they can mistreat them???? AHHH, WE RIDE AT DAWN! CLIP CLOP CLIP CLOP!!

[@WendyMarie-f6s]

Guys add extra 15-20mins for the what caught your attention segment

[@dotibernis]

4 ply tissue....that means your bum is living the soft life 😂😂... Good for you. I'll be aiming higher for my bum 🤭

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

😂😂

[@MukamiNjeru66]

I love the content❤❤❤

[@Gods_Lastborn]

Guys please subscribe. Don't just watch this amazing content without hitting the subscribe button which is freeeeeee

[@mukwamatabaimasiku3686]

Sharon said she is an extrovert.All the qualities I see on her are that of an introvert.

[@mitchellmaina83]

Have you met her?

[@nancyuhuru5627]

Tuko inside!

[@anitanaj5306]

Dushy is me😂

[@phoenix23rio]

What I've learnt about ambivalence, life requires us as humans to be either white or black in every decision we make NEVER in the Grey area.

[@dianageno2485]

This episode has had me woke 😮😮😮

[@annesantinah2364]

very relatable

[@azhilo7695]

Yoooh ,i have been an ambivalent friend all this time yawa😂😂😂😂ouch

[@ItsRelatedIPromise]

Time for change and effort 😂

[@VictoriaJosephs]

In need of Jayson's handle

[@elsiegach4672]

Dushy ako na nywele smart

[@jeanmyk]

I like Dushy’s approach- I’d rather someone tells me the truth and I left dealing with the feelings that come out of being told the truth than having wishy-washy half truths. Being open and truthful especially with someone you consider a friend is a show of great respect.

[@roseb.5367]

Apology language...

[@tankisosedutla9311]

Every time i see dushy, feels like im listening to Mantsoe Pout ( a broadcaster in SA ) they look alike 😂

[@mahalirampeta8082]

Riiiiight? They almost have the same mannerisms too 😅😅

[@tankisosedutla9311]

@mahalirampeta8082 even the laugh ..in-between giggles 😃

[@briemariah3415]

❤❤❤

[@Mibzel]

❤💌

[@HonestDre]

Pepe Julian Onzema😂

[@dusabemaimuna3477]

110% with Dushy🫶🏾👏🏾

[@esthernyokabi3225]

My struggle is making friends because I'm so guarded 🥹.. Alafu jules is hoooot 🔥🔥 All related l promise 😢😢😢

[@anniendambuki7300]

Me n u same WhatsApp group 😢