Train The Mind To Respond, Not React: Part 3: BK Shivani at Vancouver, Canada (English)

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Believing that our responses are dependent on other people and situations, we live like victims, explains BK Shivani. Our thoughts and feelings are our personal responsibility. But we react out of habitual ways of thinking, speaking and behaving, created over years or lifetimes. A little practice helps us pause, see our options, evaluate them and choose a response.
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I lost my mom when I was 17 and now I am 34 I think I got my Mom back. You are my Mom. Love you.

[@jyotibhagat3460]

Same hear..

[@rinkimeena3689]

Now a days, my mom is with me but shes suffering from heart desires which is not yet completed. So I am planning once I get salary, I will complete her wishes so that she die peacefully. My dad is with me in this.

[@rinkimeena3689]

God, please give me power and good future so that I can complete my her and my small small wishes. Which we long for. Amen

[@juilishinde6483]

God bless you!!!

[@arnoldhoward2076]

Rajesh, that is the nicest, most touching comment I've ever seen on KZbin.

[@proloyroymunna6873]

All who are watching this let's take a challenge we will do everything that she said and gonna see what's the result after 2 months okay.

[@jarlathphillips1984]

I will take this challenge, good idea. Love and peace to you and all.

[@augsuperva55]

ok

[@hermiadermentia4301]

Tis Entire video feels like one of the most important🌌♥️🙏I take your challenge

[@dibyaranjansahu1832]

Result is best Luv you mere Baba Thanks you So much 💖🙏💓💞💞💞🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@rameshram-gc4sm]

👍

[@joyotchattopadhyay6257]

Never ever expect anything from anyone in life is the only mantra to be happy and peaceful in life.

[@anshi2012]

True but it is easier said than done

[@joyotchattopadhyay6257]

@@anshi2012 i agreed but we hv to try and that is the only option left for happiness. Don't you think that madam. We need to practice it.

[@kidscreativecorner1200]

It's difficult not to have expectations from your close ones

[@joyotchattopadhyay6257]

@@kidscreativecorner1200 Agreed but you know the great saying " no body hurts me except my own expectations " . So it is better not to keep any expectations on any one. Love each other but don't make a bond of love.

[@satyasatya6694]

Super duper response

[@IrfanAli-gg3od]

Being a muslim i totally agree with you dear Sister shivani. All humans are one all universe is one. Peace respect and love for all. Stay peaceful . 💞🌷💐❤

[@tejum367]

No need to announce ur religion here all are same...

[@superbreastman]

If you announce your religion before your comment means you maybe feel different from others and that you eventually keep distance from other souls that are not muslims? Do you really think you are so different? Only because of your religion? Isn't it so? Think about it.

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Lllllllll

[@rohinikulkarni3870]

Stop giving kurbani on Bakri ed

[@nobita5307]

@@rohinikulkarni3870 😈😈

[@somyajain3431]

I am a peaceful being. I am a happy being I am a Love full being I am a divine being I am a powerful being.

[@worldofcharisma3723]

Your vdos r very useful Shivani ma'am

[@saisrishasabbavarapu4647]

Madam what you said is really inspirational

[@Kerrviii]

Yes

[@swatikshirsagar1559]

Really you are the peace of mind dear shivani di❤🥰🤭🤴

[@amsavani3071]

Aa

[@syedjafferimam5789]

A moment of respect for BK Shivani Didi for not putting this channel on monetization. She is a global asset. 🙏🙏👌

[@dibya8319]

But i got advertisement

[@eliriathecadaver6819]

3 ads no monetization? You were kidding right?

[@contactjoy4140]

Receiving money for teaching is not a bad or wicked thing.

[@zafratm9242]

am i the only Muslim who is listening her feeling so good inspiration

[@rahamathunnisa1517]

Not.. Of course

[@foodiesview1883]

No

[@Sakshi-wj5go]

no dear Zafrat a lot of indian muslims are there going out of box, listening such peaceful discourses... improving their life, & relationships.

[@arfanasheikh9044]

I also love to listen to her .it's above and beyond of religion ..that's how we all should be behaving to be powerful

[@thecasper6674]

No your not

[@hiteshagarwal5199]

KeyPoints:- 1. Understand people, Try to find out the reason why people are doing or saying like that. 2. Don't blindly follow the people's suggestions. Take the final decision from your knowledge. Build your knowledge such that it can make great decisions. 3. Use the power of words. Your mind thinks according to the words you use. One negative thought leads to another negative thought. One Positive thought leads to another positive thought. it's a chain reaction. 4. Set your priority. If your priority is your inner peace then you won't lose it.

[@soveeka]

I always feel so good to listen her so heavenly so true.. om shanti 🙏🏻

[@adityadhiman791]

Hot lagg rahi tou mujhe

[@RadheyRadhey108]

So true !!!

[@joyotchattopadhyay6257]

You are right.

[@channusasalwadmath1320]

​@@adityadhiman791b. H n BN mkj iiyuijujibyuh7yjyjbujjiyjbknik8jjunijj ljoj nyyiikubyiuboujnjnbyvmhjuvjubgjvngljbyjohyijyihvjyhyijbyj.jmkNamo Venkatesh

[@karishmashaikh77]

Sister u changed my life god bless u

[@joyotchattopadhyay6257]

All the best

[@taljsingh]

The way she explains is so simplistic but so powerful at the same time. It really hits home. Gems 💎 😍

[@whiteblue8458]

Wise people make complex things simple and stupid people make simple things complex

[@srinivasulukalva1970]

@@whiteblue8458. B. Vc

[@fatemehstewart2469]

I can’t find a word to express myself about her( she is all that MashaAllah

[@ajeshavirah1013]

Galatians 5:22-23 "But the fruits of the Holy Spirit is LOVE, JOY, PEACE, LongSuffering, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness, Self-Control. Against such there is NO LAW." Mathew: 7:20 "Therefore by their FRUITS you will KNOW THEM."

[@shantasingh3831]

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[@Anupamaabi]

Thanks for bringing up the right verses for this content brother . All that this sister tells is so good to hear but very very difficult to actually put it into practice . But thank Lord , Christ has left Holy Spirit for us who is helping us to bring forth His fruits in our lives and reflect Christ .

[@marywiggins2000]

@@Anupamaabi "Very difficult to actually put into practice"! When we "RESPOND", pause Holy Spirit gets to come up in us through us and answer for us. When we "REACT", we allow our head, our five physical sense to take control, to take the lead, and take on the identity of words, circumstances, situations. The two trees are there, the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, and the tree of life. Which ever tree you chose to eat from, you take on the identity of it, and it becomes your reality.

[@cynthiakirti4963]

Mam after listening to u I have changed a lot.there is a glow on my face without make up.the thought u created hume faristha banna hai search nahi karna hai. Thanks a million mam

[@joyotchattopadhyay6257]

You are very right. We have to be more humble and generous.

[@itsmevela]

Pranaams to Bharath for sending us divine souls to guide and bless us age after age🙏. Love from Australia ❤️

[@poojabs433]

My current addiction : Her preaching Sucha great changeover in me....I keep chanting and repeating her mantras for life!!!! Saw the dislikes and was about to write "why would anyone dislike this video" then my best friend (myself) said "it's ok it's their choice to dislike...stop getting irritated" Well that's the positivity this woman has rooted in my life 😘

[@Eil510]

Meditation means I become my best friend ! Xo

[@superbreastman]

So true!

[@saxenakhanna]

I didn't see my mother I lost her when I was just 2years old, but now I got my mom back in the form of shivani mam

[@avinash4579]

Your voice is really having spiritual vocal chords !! Appreciate your knowledge and thanks for your guidance Mam 🙏

[@revathyhariharan2179]

Madam you are great. I feel if I had sister like you at home to clear n keep my mind calm like you.

[@queen1324]

Thank you sr Shivani..I had been struggling for the past 3 years .You have answered all my doubts in few minutes. Love and respect..

[@UnlockingBrilliance]

Our mindset is the bundle of thoughts and these thoughts programme us where we consistently making opinions and belief systems. And our mind is itself lock and key of our problems we just need to make it systematic 🌻

[@Raaj913]

And how we make it....

[@abramgrey2237]

Her voice is so soothing.😊OM SHANTI!

[@nationalist6545]

Om shanti didi I believe u r Shiv vani that is why u r shivani

[@sittowardi6781]

I am too weak to practice this beautiful teaching. My emotions rule me

[@saberabraxton813]

You are definitely much stronger and wiser now.I'm sure you are enlightened.Great advice we must put into practice

[@DevRaj-mj1rg]

listen daily slowly change

[@chakradharhadke4063]

SILENCE IS A GOOD RESPONSE TO MAKE THE OPPONENT POWERLESSNESS WITHOUT YOUR REACTION. : BUDDHA.

[@beatriceawuor3077]

Beautiful

[@prathnakhanal6084]

Positive vibes

[@koshagandhi3269]

So true n simple to believe

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[@meenkumar19]

I listen you when i depressed when i can't sleep because you're my so source of happ happiness🙋🙏🙏🙏 from Nepal

[@dulandesilva2001]

She teaches you how not to be depressed .Do try

[@passionate_singer1512]

Many places while listening her I moved my hand to like this video n found already done This counselling needs 100 likes by every audience

[@lightandmight1817]

Om Shanti! Act but don't react is the principle of the present Confluence Age!

[@tarass8737]

Nobody and nothing should have the power to make you react. If you respond how you should, the one that walks out will also walk right back in, or any desirable situation will fix itself. Give everyone and eveything the space to be fixed.

[@ashishtiwari2741]

Actually I'm addicted to her...so simple way to understood hard to harder thing..

[@winnersneverquits2570]

Good things addiction creates good results. ✌

[@nandhininandhini5362]

மனதினை பக்குவப்படுத்தும் அற்புத வார்த்தைகளை தந்தது உங்களது இந்த தெய்வீகமான சொற்பொழிவு ஓம் சாந்தி 🙏

[@kenhoover1639]

Thank you so much for this! These ideas are going to phenomenally change my life.I am going to listen to this over and over until these principles become a part of me.

[@susanwale8887]

Love you Sister Shivani, I never knew she was coming to Vancouver last year, thank you so much for publishing.🙏🏻❤️

[@shreyashambhawi930]

Susan are u Canadian? I m from India

[@zafarahmad341]

Wonderful lady,, love you from deeper from my heart

[@christinafotaki9303]

om shanti! so useful videos in English thank you!

[@Step2learn]

Hi Chris

[@krishnaraval1167]

U r a true angle

[@joyotchattopadhyay6257]

All the best

[@nagarajukasthuri1563]

Observation Vs Judgment: As you judge situation, person, and environment, you are probably react. Whereas if you observe the thoughts which go into mind, you will respond not react.= choosing of thoughts. Thank you madam 🙏🙏🙏

[@arpigracetarkhanian9684]

Sister you are the vitamin for the soul🙏❤️🙏 blessings 🙏🌞

[@shivanigarg9674]

Can't thank you enough sister!!! Found all the answers in just a few minutes. You saved my life 🙏🙏🙏

[@joyotchattopadhyay6257]

Wish you all the best

[@bir749]

The last example is just outstanding maaaaaaa. What a thought 🙏🙏🙏🙏 Om Shanti 🙏🙏

[@ratnveer]

1)Somebody walked out of my class, should I get down. 2) people will not be in my way. No one respect, no one cares with me with me. Power is not controlling people, power is the way how I respond to others actions 3) how I respond repeatedly makes my sanskar 4) can I choose a right response even with out attaching with situation. 5) do I have choice of my response, yes meditation says you are your good friend. Create a beautiful relationship with you. 6) each soul is knowledgeable soul, use the knowledge 7) she behaves in that way, I created irritation. Is it possible not to create irritation, why should I not create irritation because I need peace. 8) every thought = energy Every word = energy 9) busy vs easy I don't have time to die, I don't have time to meditation. 10) delete some words from your vocabulary I'm choosing a low energy vibration 11) every time its a choice to relax, respond. 12) vibrate at higher frequency even I'm at lowest situation. But vibrate at lowest frequency even at highest situation. I have every thing in life but not happy why? Being happy is not dependent on everything being perfect but feeling happy depends on how I have been responding 13) every negative word linked with other negative word. 14)take care of soulful thoughtful meditation but keep attention on regular activities

[@sadiaarman363]

Busy and easy is just a vibration. Its not about how much iam working...Being happy is not dependent on everything being perfect. Being happy is dependent on how I respond to every scene of my life...Priority in life...This glass is full...I am a powerful being, I am a peaceful being, I am a happy being.

[@kakolichetia8696]

I am so addicted to your speech thank you madam for enlighting my soul. 🙏

[@chakradharhadke4063]

10% WHAT HAPPEN TO US. 90% REACTION. YOUR BEHAVIOR DEPENDS UPON YOUR REACTION. THE REACTION DEPENDS UPON PERSON TO PERSON. THAT'S A TRUE BEHAVIOR OF AN INDIVIDUAL.

[@castrobal]

Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." - Viktor Frankl

[@arlenenua4362]

Thank you Baba Shiva Father God to send Bk Shivani. She brings heaven to earth, since there is enough toil on this earth, but i'm learning not to say im busy. I'm saying i'm easy, & it lifts up me in my depression. Praise to our dear Father God. Thank you Bk Shivani. Blessings

[@ISEEKSPACE]

I love how she continues to ask. It demands you to answer. I'll be watching and I'll answer to the screen. That and she's lovely to listen to. So intellegent, intuitive and honest. I found her yesterday and I cannot stop listening. Thank you! 🙏🏻

[@lyricalworld4404]

I have learnt a lot from you sister shivani..... Stay blessed

[@realtalk675]

Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge !

[@chandrakalam8053]

I think the one should be blessed to listen to her speech, for sure the person who listens will become asset to the society. Thank u so much Shivani didi 🙏🙏🙏

[@cdreams25]

I am deleting the need to be loved by others. From today, I will love myself and treat my soul with the same kindness I treat others.

[@arnoldhoward2076]

BK, you are a gifted teacher. Thank you for taking the time to produce these messages.

[@mitalipal8622]

👍👍👍. Not an easy topic but very interestingly represented by BK Sibaniji.

[@ajjugalpadmaja241]

I feel calm, relaxed & gives me immense strength.

[@abhilashadeshpande7996]

I have no word.. just tears in my eyes.. Thank you.. My mind is saying to me please start living from this moment.. leave whatever happened till this moment..❤️

[@chandrikasubramaniam4184]

Very nice and great to hear as the person WHO SAYS IT LIVES IT.. Pranams to the Almighty for gifting us with one of His loveliest angels

[@josethomas9885]

Reality something different

[@GaneshVenkat2810]

""Even if one person endorses my pain , I don feel the need to change "" - exact and correct root cause of sending reaction instead of response which is wrong

[@pankhuridutta8090]

Thank you so much! Eternal gratitude!!

[@jaydeva7406]

I feel like god gave u a manual of living a life in the form of ur words to guide humans in the right way ... Thank u sister....

[@obroarif7444]

I will always be grateful to you bcz u helped to heal my emotional wounds after my breakup...

[@priyaneelam9551]

I always use obviously and normally....yeah I always react after anything being in my life. sometimes even I feel why I react that much frankly I feel like I'm the idiot. This is my first session which I watch completely. Thanks for guiding me. I'll definitely understand the difference between react and respond. Good morning 😊

[@prativatripathy9974]

But I can't 😐😐😐😐.... But I want to know... Plz help me my friend... @Priya Neelam

[@saranyaravichandran6581]

I really needed to hear this.... Thanks to the almighty

[@vivalaina1]

Thank you for translating the truth to us!

[@ayazmuhammad571]

There's something divine right here.u know what the listener is thinking right now and in each video i get an inspiration,a motivation and a new perspective. Stay blessed sister!!

[@eessa1727]

She is amazing, loving her discourses

[@deebapillai7124]

Your teaching is really a blessing for me & your communication is so calm n peaceful to listen. Thanks you 🙂

[@dhanishettikrishnaveni6720]

I am powerful being Iam good human being Iam peaceful human being Iam happy human being

[@yamininunna7851]

Thank u soo much for the video mam....om santhi and be happy always baba and all the beautiful souls in this entire universe....

[@intelligentchannel3385]

U r such a wonderful creation. Luv u de way u r sharing such a great knowledge.

[@shraddhagangawane6737]

Simply wonderful. Thank u so much sister.🙏 Om shanti .

[@KletoReese]

She is absolutely spot on! This is brilliant!!

[@michellesawyer6697]

Perfect timing for me to see this video. Holiday season is so overwhelming for so many reasons. Thank you. I really needed to learn this❤

[@sreeyeshrajan7931]

My day started by hearing her speech...💐

[@susheelchadha322]

My life has changed after listening to sister Shivani My interpersonal relationship are better I was having too many problems including family 🙏🏻🙏🏻 I thank her and baba and brahma Kumar organisation And of course sister Shivani

[@vaishvitalan5061]

Thanks Shivani di for being there for everyone. You have given so much strength to my thoughts.

[@h2hsuresh]

Excellent talk Sister ❤ From this second my life's priority is inner peace, Happiness and Bliss all through my life. Thanks a bunch Sister 😊 Very sweet of U ❤👍

[@sagarkonnur2861]

I Have Changed A Lot In My Life Bcz Of You Didi .. Thank You Very Muchhhhh Love You Didi .. Om Shanti .. ..

[@sergiovalenti7255]

The water in the glass analogy at the end summed it all up for me. Love her method of teaching. 🙏

[@vikramsabapathy9098]

Such a powerful message. Thank you sister.

[@followyourrainbowdebarati9708]

Om Santi 🙏🙏🙏 Sivani Didi and have a wonderful day 💐💐🌹🌹🌹🥀🥀💖💖 love you Didi 🙏🙏

[@bhoomikasaraswat2670]

🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@syriaramenchinese9593]

Thank you. Thank you! I really can't express on how much you are motivating me right now. I feel blessed listening to you .

[@lifeisfun2837]

So realistic n realaxin to hear,it calm down ones thought n the way i behave..thank you

[@chandchopra9700]

Thanks shivani ji. Best of luck. Be happy be smile be healthy. I agree with you. So thanks for right advice. This is good information. Life is a long journey. But this is beautiful journey because my positive direction have an good effect on my mind. So my state of mind is healthy. I am the master of my mind. So my life is easy because I am a lucky soul. I am very thankful to god. Thanks baba. Om shanti Om

[@chahathasija4414]

I felt so good after watching and listening to this♥️

[@sushmabhalla243]

Jai shiv shivani di very impressive words thanku somuch ❤👌

[@gautamdange8668]

Loved the advice of not using the word ‘busy’ and it’s impact on energy. Thank you very much.

[@lobsangdekey465]

Thank you Sister Shivani Ji🙏 Your teachings are making me happy and calm always.😊

[@riafloragustin138]

Very real explanations about real things in life. You are amazing.

[@andreawindrim8235]

Fabulous advice. She is wonderful. Thank you so much.

[@divyas318]

maam, I've been binge watching your videos and getting so much clarity n peace in mind, thank you 💐

[@alokitabhalerao8415]

Thank you Sister Shivani. Each word coming from you is changing me in a beautiful way. I thank the Almighty for sending you in my life. God bless

[@neethuameen9575]

Om Shanti.. Glad we have somebody like you on this Planet earth Didi. Om Shanti

[@kiranjyothika1268]

Ur every word heart touching thankyou sis🙏

[@priyancka6]

Love listening to you ! Thank you 🙏🏼 much gratitude !

[@nidhikaushik2478]

Thank you very much for tought me we are not dependent on situations

[@meghabormudai8342]

Loved it. Makes you feel sorted if one can accept and implement these practices and live that way. Amazing. Thank you.

[@d_evil1310]

Really...each n every words so meaningful... it's looks we go through in our life... thanks sister for guiding me....om Shanti...

[@veerannaronad3006]

most inspirational she closed my all negative thoughts .thank you .om shanti

[@chdnac5603]

Yes , I will learn to respond and not to reach to situations. Thank you 🙏 SHIVANI DIDI.

[@neerjadoc5221]

Really really nice to hear such wonderful thoughts I will follow n I will succeed to win my negative emotions..Om Shanti

[@deviselva6179]

Sister speech is so consoling my mind is really awesome and she is a Angel for everyone !

[@Candilicious983]

I love this. I appreciate and thank you for sharing this. ❤️

[@mohitemanoj1207]

You are helping always, this session also helped me, God Bless You