Trans Guy Reacts to Transphobic Tik Toks

I am trans, this is transphobic TikTok, comment below what you think and if there's anything else you'd like to see from me!
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[@terrymelody9340]

Today one of my friends said that Trans men are Women after I said they were men, he then explained that he was just a bit confused and he thought Trans men were MTF, then my other friend turns to me and goes. “He a little confused but he got the spirit” I love them, best friend I could ask for

[@seashell8400]

Lolll I thought that too at first, then I started watching this channel and was like ??? OHHHHH 😂

[@anna_banana414]

my grandmother used to watch this show called something like “i am jaz” about a trans girl and i used to be really confused and mix that up also, i mean, then again i was like 11, but yeah, it took me a bit to figure out that mtf is trans women and ftm is trans man and not the other way around lol

[@LMvonLebkuchen]

My mum used to get confused. The easiest way to remember is that a person who says "I am a man" is not going to use a label with WOMAN in it, and vice versa.

[@Envision_]

Well, transmen are females so he is right.

[@anna_banana414]

@@Envision_ no, i think you’re mistaken, trans men are men :)

[@Emsicle3D]

Last tik tok girl: "I dont care if your transgender" Also that girl: "I will attack you if your appearance doesn't line up with your gender"

[@serena8942]

Yeah... and imagine if this really were to happen and it was actually a trans guy, like would she be just cool with seeing someone who looks like what she thinks dudes look like in the women’s restroom but since he’s afab she wouldn’t care then..?

[@k.s.k.7721]

Was she wearing a MAGA hat? If so, it explains a lot.

[@moiaussi7722]

@@k.s.k.7721 TIL MAGA means make America great again, I was so confused I thought it was a cult or something idk

[@pokemonfanj]

@@moiaussi7722 it might be one

[@KingOfGaymes]

@@moiaussi7722 it’s basically a cult tbh

[@thegachabix6857]

Okay. Let’s get this straight. On the Julia Hartley-Brewer one that hurt. When I came out as trans to my mom the first thing she said was ‘do you know any boys that have periods?!’ Like bro. That doesn’t matter!!!!

[@xngf5h3r88]

Kinda related to the girl who said there are only two genders, my friend who I’ve known since 4th grade, called me and came out to me as non-binary today. I’m extremely happy that they felt like they could trust me and say that and I support them no matter what. Their parents didn’t support them and also said that there are only two genders, if their parents don’t support them then I will. So after they came out to me, I came out to them (that I’m sapphic, that I’m asexual, my pronouns). They made some pride flag bracelets too and showed me (gay, trans, nb, ace, Les, etc.). Don’t know why I said this, just thought I might say something.

[@AshleySmith-hh7ng]

Asexual means you dont feel attracted to anyone, so how are you still attracted to women??

[@zypper7213]

Plot twist: the "I'll never be attracted to people who use pronouns" tiktok wasn't a transphobic implication, they were just coming out as ace/aro! /j

[@Wertyvid]

God damn it we both made the same comment sorry

[@zypper7213]

@@Wertyvid that's fine, nothin you need to apologize for :>

[@professionalvictimandcerti8828]

They would most likely be aro, because ace people can still feel attraction. Also is your profile pic from Pokemon? Because feel like I've seen it from the show ^-^

[@Envision_]

And I block dudes on grindr with pronouns in their bios

[@zypper7213]

@@Envision_ and you watch trans content to reply to comments with shitty transphobic rhetoric

[@enbious9955]

That last one just openly saying she's going to assault random people if she doesn't like how they look. Great. And yet it's the people she's planning to assault she'll claim are the predators.

[@kryptik.6422]

I'm both mad at that and how amazing your username is

[@anxiousscribe]

Oh hey, picrew icons! 💛💜

[@NatsumiTakanawa]

Then she’ll end up getting arrested and claim her “rights are being taken away”.

[@LMvonLebkuchen]

Maybe we'll get an update later about her assaulting some cis woman had short hair and broad shoulders. Other members of the Bathroom Police have. "Trans people reenforce gender sterotypes" but but also "woman who aren't dainty and feminine to me are sus" 🤔

[@girlwiththeblackhoodie1535]

My sister whos a cis women was mistaken as a guy at the bathroom since she’s more masculine. Karen’s are the problem not trans ppl.

[@williehallett7704]

I love how the makers of that first one automatically assume they would win in a field of women. Not to mention the three sports they "compete" in are three sports that have athletes with legs you would not want to get a kick in the pants from.

[@user-432svtbz]

bro.. you're too nice and respectful... these people are hell

[@jujugatolliat9644]

She’s insane

[@Animelover660-fq2wi]

​@@jujugatolliat9644"she"? Who you talking about?

[@rogermrogerm]

@@jujugatolliat9644if you look at that dude and think “that’s a she”, you’re brain dead.

[@Thecollectorpoggers]

@@Animelover660-fq2wi i think juju is talking about the last girl who said she wasent into people with pronouns thats the only insane person i see

[@Molly-vo2nx]

When that girl said, “I won’t find people who use pronouns.” I screamed- sis we all use pronouns! I was dying and crying from the stupidity! Edit: I see people confused by what I meant. Pronouns don’t just consist of she, her, him, he, they, them it also consist of I, we, me. What I meant was everyone uses pronouns just not sex related ones if that makes any sense.

[@gavin9037]

Hey, y’know sam? Yeah, [INSERT PRONOUN] did something terrible...

[@starnorthstarnorth]

Even ppl with neopronouns, still use I and you and such. It's pronouns. Didn't we learn this.. in.. ya know.. 1rst grade

[@Molly-vo2nx]

@@starnorthstarnorth exactly

[@rudy7205]

They’re coming out 🤩 no/pronouns are neopronouns ☺️☺️ So are nor/mal /j

[@NR-jr4sf]

They meant people who put them in their bio and introduce themselves with pronouns I think, it’s not a standard thing to do yet

[@wilbur5701]

My English teacher: "None of you know what pronouns are." Me and the one other non-binary kid: "rEallY??"

[@sorryihaverehearsal5764]

If none of the students in an English class know what pronouns are, I think that might be the English teachers problem 😬

[@planetboy3985]

In my English class, when we were learning about pro nouns. My teacher made them so gender roles and used "there are only three types of pronouns Feminine ones, masculine ones, and the others when talking about large amounts of people)" I be over here as Demi Boy, who's hella uncomfortable.

[@gordonramsayslambsauce]

@@planetboy3985 Please that's not even correct on their part because of pronouns like "I" and "you"

[@lilyhammett4955]

@@gordonramsayslambsauce that’s true but I don’t think that’s the point they are trying to make

[@gordonramsayslambsauce]

@@lilyhammett4955 Either way, it's incorrect on the teacher's part. There aren't just feminine and masculine pronouns, it's part of the English language. Unlike a lot of other languages, English doesn't make everything gendered, which offers a good opportunity for anyone not on the gender binary. Even if there were only 2 genders, "they" has never been strictly plural or singular, it can be either depending on context. I'm sure you already know this, I just wanted to explain lmao

[@isaiahmorrison3753]

them: "So were you born a girl or boy?" Me, an intellectual: "I was born a baby."

[@grell5108]

Me: "I was born a dragon"

[@landon9554]

me: “i was born?”

[@cynicalbutterscotch6581]

@@landon9554 I was spawned

[@cinnamonroll5865]

I was-

[@rashidahmeddxb2599]

You don't sound intelligent at all you sound like the opposite

[@AshHatesKetchup]

i dated a transphobic guy once (im ftm btw) who was very much like that last girl, where he would be "respectful" most of the time, but still obviously think of me as a girl. he just liked how my body looked, and he admitted that a lot near the end of our relationship. needless to say, i dont talk to him anymore

[@soulson2289]

Im 100% sure the first dude wouldn't even win in a middle school competition lmfao

[@starthederpyoctoling]

Yeah... Transphobic people have no clue and refuse to see the truth and he would 100% lose in elementary school competition because how low he thinks but anyways on a more better note all of us are splatoon fans in some way veemo! Derp

[@sally675]

Did he even get to Middle school tho??

[@GoroAkechi_Real]

I don’t think transphobes have anything beyond a middle school education. Also since Splatoon was brought into this, since 4/8 seem to be able to switch between boy and girl would that make them genderfluid?

[@blinkingwhiteguy2244]

@@GoroAkechi_Real true, they’re a always saying “BaSiC BiOlOgY pEoPlE!!1!

[@Kai-iy3kk]

Me being a 5'2 weakling: "Yeah I could beat his ass"

[@vampiregarfield8949]

Not that skinny, average boy thinking he could beat any of those extremely athletic women at ANYTHING

[@rhino8817]

its kinda insulting that the crux of the argument is that "men are better than women at sports."

[@shrisiva4016]

@@rhino8817 I mean generally that's true? Otherwise sports wouldn't be gender segregated otherwise female athletes wouldn't be able to compete.

[@maximusdork3336]

@@shrisiva4016 Coed sports are a thing. 'Men are better at sports' is not true, coming from someone who does a coed sport.

[@MellowJelly]

They're trying to suggest an untrained skinny boy could be an Olympic female simply because he's male which is hilarious and ignorant

[@russianacorns8080]

@@MellowJelly holy shit do you people know what a joke is? He’s not fucking serious.

[@baileydasis5624]

As someone who was born intersex(testes and underdeveloped uterus but no vaginal canal) the period stuff is even more confusing as despite being intersex I was amab and had srs(they called it genital reconstruction fix a birth defect) preformed on me as an infant(though they left the uterus) and didn't find out that I was intersex till I was 16 and at 17 found out that I'd been having irregular periods(severe cramps, mood swings, etc. just no bleeding) since I was 13; and on top of all that I'm a trans girl who will be starting hrt soon and from the few other cases similar to mine I've been able to find when I do my periods will become even more intense(and they already suck) as well as becoming regular and less sporadic. So yeah.. people who have periods is a LOT more inclusive and accurate

[@space_break4888]

I find it funny that no transphobes have replied to this comment. Just the other ones.

[@Sarisjackoviak1815]

Doctor:chose male You:the opposite actually

[@khboychuk4980]

@space_break4888 The definition of menstruation is the shedding of the uterus lining. If she can’t bleed then the lining of her uterus is not shedding, and she cannot be having an actual period. Just an opposing opinion cause you said this comment lacked one

[@Sarisjackoviak1815]

@@khboychuk4980 "underdeveloped uterus" did you read?

[@khboychuk4980]

@@Sarisjackoviak1815 well exactly, she cannot have an “underdeveloped period”, so she isn’t having a period at all. The “people with periods” thing wouldn’t even apply to her

[@atf4435]

If you can’t define what a women you have no place giving out your opinion on the subject.

[@BossX2243]

Based ATF

[@xenodragonlord6007]

Fun fact: one time a female swimmer was practicing for the Olympics with the male swimmers and they got upset cause she was really fast.

[@shrisiva4016]

It's because long distance swimming is the event where women can compete closest with men and even beat them due to thier body shape

[@jessung2460]

@@shrisiva4016 💀☠️

[@donkeytime4263]

Lol something that never happened

[@shrisiva4016]

@@jessung2460 It's true..? Look up the guardian article on women's long distance swimmers. They can regularly beat men.

[@xenodragonlord6007]

@@donkeytime4263 I mean you could look it up but ok.

[@miablack3348]

I saw a video of a guy being like haha if a trans person told me to act my age I’d tell them to act their gender. And I was just sat there like but they are acting their gender that’s what makes them transgender

[@marlenesailly2050]

"they are acting their gender that’s what makes them transgender" That's a very good phrasing, I love what you wrote. However, I think the transphobe guy isn't wrong comparing age identification to gender idetification, because age is also a social thing, obviously transgender people suffer a lot more discrimination and it's not ok to respond to hate by hate, but don't you think his argument was valid?

[@miablack3348]

@@marlenesailly2050 I mean yes you could argue you don't have to act your age however even if you refuse to acknowledge it you're still gonna get old so it's not entirely valid. The same way if youre raised in a homophobe or transphobe household you may not acknowledge your sexual orientation or gender identity but it's still gonna be there

[@wzdavaitsya]

I'm confused, how can someone act their gender?

[@jackoffjohn3050]

Im transphobic 🚫🧢

[@smoceany9478]

why

[@_Code_3]

Based

[@jononpaper]

Based

[@foxy6981]

6:21 let's not forget Intersex which is the third sex that exists because of chromosomes. If people wanna be transphobic they should at least get some points of it right XD

[@graysalem]

Why does TikTok like to fetishize nonbinary people as "Girl Lite" or "uwu cute froggy babys"?

[@scooter6606]

Fr like cease

[@cordeliajackson8615]

And I really hate it because I _do_ really like frogs. The WHOLE point of being non-binary was to _escape_ the box, not to be put on a another.

[@serenity5702]

Idk which sucks because I love mossy forest T^T.

[@haveagoodmourning]

Ewwww that's so gross what. I'm so glad I'm not there getting called "girl lite",, even though I technically am as a demigirl (might be agender tho?? idk im very confused and indecisive)

[@thatoneperson7.0]

@@haveagoodmourning does demi girl mean you dont fully identify with being female? Because I've been trying to explain that I'm not nonbinary but not female and I was wondering if demigirl could be used to describe it.

[@aHamBroth]

“How can you be a man with a uterus” pretty easily actually. Like I’m pretty sure even an itty bitty amount of cis men have a uterus just thanks to birth abnormalities. I know for sure there have been men born with an ovary, but not totally sure about the uterus.

[@bellarosethorne]

as far as a uterus specifically, i'm not sure that's as likely as the ovaries instead of testes - and that's just because of how that region forms. it's a pretty major difference comparatively, like, different tube remaining, plus changes in how the tube grows afterwards. The chances are much higher to find cis men that are chromasomally XX. Technical questions aside, I agree with the pretty easily tbh, just purely because trans men don't choose to be men, they just are men that were born with a uterus. Usually. as you say, birth abnormalities are a thing.

[@Venus.Y]

They not called men called intersex

[@bellarosethorne]

@@Venus.Y They're whatever they say they are. and some of them would have been identifying as men long before their diagnosis.

[@subratanandy2142]

Yes , there are. It's called Persistent Mullerian duct Syndrome. They usually look , act and identify as a man till they find out.

[@bellarosethorne]

@@subratanandy2142 Oh sweet!

[@_exolite]

The person who stood their ground on that show where she refuted men having periods had my instant respect. Standing up to a trans phone like that is super brave.

[@CrappyMusicYT]

Ah yes, the transphone

[@_exolite]

@@CrappyMusicYT BRUH 😭

[@mothwizard3095]

“Things I find unattractive: if you use pronouns” bro there are TWO PRONOUNS IN THAT SENTENCE ALONE

[@Shoulderpads-mcgee]

These cis dudes acting like they could beat women in sports.

[@mammoneymelon]

yeah like ?? these guys aren't trained athletes lmao

[@Shoulderpads-mcgee]

@@mammoneymelon just sick of the assumption that men are inherently better at sports than women. Even if a cis male athlete slapped on a wig and tried to pretend to be a trans woman bc he’s so bad at sports, he’s probably still going to be crushed by female athletes.

[@isabelcast7792]

@@Shoulderpads-mcgee fr they really think any cis man could just jump into female mma and beat a professional fighter like Amanda Nunes

[@mushroom_man_]

@@mammoneymelon I’m sorry to raise my typing volume-ish thing but aRE YOU A FANDER TOO???

[@TheAlmightyJello]

Lmao Im 100% those athletes would crush these guys and drink their tears to stay hydrated. They have no clue how much time and effort they put into doing what they do.

[@mymoonies]

the one about trans women allowed in women’s sports, it’s bold of him to assume he’s better than women at these sports edit: i’m in my famous arc edit: how y’all gonna be transphobic on a trans persons youtube get a hobby like touch some grass taking a walk is free :) edit: STOP INTERACTING MY PARENTS ARE TRANSPHOBIC AHHHH

[@-LeMar-]

Ikr?

[@haveagoodmourning]

Yea seriously, he's just some random dude and the women playing sports most likely have athletic training

[@givemeyourbonesplease1114]

Yeah this dude really is the kind of person to say he's better than actual athletes just because they're afab

[@fructifer4502]

Jessie Gender just put out a really great video about trans athletes!

[@C455C0R3]

As a cis male, I would probably be last place in any women’s sport

[@definitelynotashark1799]

"There are two sexes and they're decided by your ...genetics" Tell me you didn't pay attention to high school science class without saying you didn't pay attention in high school science class

[@khonshugodofthenightsky2159]

If you don't think that's true, then you're either missing a brain, or just stupid. Sex, (and gender, because they're the same) are decided by your chromosomes. Which are part of genetics. What you are born as, is what you are.

[@ryancritchlow7131]

There are only 2 go back to school

[@therealthomyorkeplush]

@@ryancritchlow7131 hehe there's actually 3 sexes but infinite genders

[@asher1013]

Well at my high school biology class there wasn’t ANY transgender representation. My schools and most other high schools out there don’t recognize that gender and sex are different unfortunately. Usually they only teach you the bare bone basics of biology in high school curriculum. Usually it isn’t actually recognized until we actually go on to advanced biology in college or in psychology and sociology classes.

[@asher1013]

This is why so many people are so uneducated about the differences between sex and gender and don’t understand trans people. Which needs to change.

[@RottenPickle]

Guess you can't handle the truth.

[@lemonweirdo]

i love how the jamie plushie is just chilling in the background lmao

[@stalinsfangirl]

Yes😂

[@veeniila]

The shelf is his home /j

[@dawnbeckett9179]

He got inspiration from OT lol

[@demonbab_y]

Fr I was mostly looking at him rather than actual Jamie (I do love Jamie but plushie Jamie was just very distracting in a cute way)

[@gabrieleyre4983]

Just vibing and ignoring the transphobic garbage

[@this_channel_is_discontinued]

They really woke up and went: "Hold on I'm gonna go harass a minority online"

[@rtay_]

Transphobes, unlike everyone else, wake up and choose to be hateful when they gain nothing from it. it's the grossest shit I've seen-

[@ivythefool]

Hi frenzy, hope youŕe having a good day/night.

[@Envision_]

A very loud minority which constantly bullies itself into people's lives and is perceived as very aggressive and intrusive to the point that people (like me) who were proud members of the LGBTQIA community are turning their backs on it. Ask yourself why?

[@this_channel_is_discontinued]

@@Envision_ give example

[@River_Katerina]

Frenzymee, It a appears a transphobe has responded to your comment. Don't fret and don't worry about replying to them. Ignore and carry on with your day if you come across it.

[@ratcooney7138]

I asked Siri “how many genders are there” and she proved the transphobes wrong.

[@thesetwofloofs5397]

I asked her this and the second result was “68” so Siri has spoken

[@FunAngelo2005]

@@thesetwofloofs5397 add one more gender

[@Aysha42069]

Siri isnt fucking god? Go read the bible or the quran you May find the true answer

[@AshleySmith-hh7ng]

Wake up, there are only two genders.

[@AniBuggy]

​@@FunAngelo2005multigender

[@HungerGamesFan88]

"people with periods" is more precise - an 80-year-old grandmother isn't going to be having a period, and neither is a baby girl - _and_ (to me specifically, at least, ymmv) it doesn't feel quite as much as if it's singling out women and girls in particular for whatever reason

[@haveagoodmourning]

"If you use pronouns I won't find you attractive" -ace/aros

[@gillianisntcool]

I had the same thought omg

[@haveagoodmourning]

@@gillianisntcool great minds think alike haha

[@exceptionallyriso]

Noice

[@Anna-Michelle744]

@Ignatious Are you cake? 🎂

[@haveagoodmourning]

@Ignatious nah, you'd still use pronouns when referring to other people and that's just Unacceptable

[@Matty442]

The Julia Hartley brewer thing really pissed me off actually bc she just interrupts the person speaking when they try and talk about their point and doesnt let them get a word in

[@Liloldliz]

BUT HOW CAN THEY. HOW. HOW SHUT UP IM BUSY SHOUTING. HOW THO

[@Listen2WhatISay]

the person being interviewed handled it super well though and stayed so calm and polite the whole time so props to them cause i wouldn’t have been able to do that

[@TheaterCryptid]

@@Listen2WhatISay I know right ! I was so admiring that fact, how can you stay so calm !

[@veraeroes]

Right! She was speaking with so much anger too, the person on the phone was so polite and literally just trying to explain that trans men are men lmao

[@Shantari]

There aren't even only two grammatical genders. Swedish, for example, used to have four genders; masculine, feminine, reale and neutrum. Which we later simplified to utrum and neutrum. Transphobes and homophobes really upset that people do things that doesn't even affect them.

[@foreignenemy8255]

Pov:No father figure

[@nancysradio]

Unoriginal "insult"☠️

[@donnieraczynski572]

@@nancysradio still better than being trans lmao at least we dont believe in sense like “oo i can change gender!!!”

[@alyssayutzler1527]

Pov: No originality

[@nancysradio]

@@donnieraczynski572 if someone being trans hurts you so much,kayyayself

[@confusedtea7]

My friend is like "there are only two genders. You can be trans, and change to the opposite gender, but you can't not have a gender " and then I try to explain to her all the different gender identities and terms that non-binary covers she has the _audacity_ to get mad at me for 'acting like she's dumb and doesn't know anything'. It makes me kinda sad, because otherwise she's really accepting and I don't under stand how she can accept other LGBTQ+ people and still say that kind of stuff

[@jenniferhollingsworth1275]

Good on you for trying even though it can be exhausting!

[@confusedtea7]

@@haveagoodmourning lmao

[@shilohstuart3841]

It can take time for people to wrap their heads around a new concept. Especially something as complex and nuanced as having a non-binary gender identity in a traditionally binary society. Hopefully your friend comes around. Good on you for introducing the concept to them :)

[@poke-talia268]

There was someone on anther site asking about gender neutral terms that could use instead of "guy, gal, or cool dude" so as a nonbinary person, I offered some. Then another person came and said those words didn't exist "on purpose" because they'd be "creating anther gender" for non binary people and "all nonbinary people are agender" And I got anger Because NO-

[@brackencloud]

I have a Pan NB friend who tried to tell me Asexual/Aromantic doesn't belong in LGBT+ It is so frustrating when people are accepting of some parts, but not others, when the whole point is acceptance.

[@vixblanco9853]

RIGHT WHEN THE TRANSPHOBE SAID “there’s only 2 genders” I HAD JUST ASKED SIRI A QUESTION AND SHE SAID “I’m not sure about that” JFJRHVHDJDJF

[@minyoonji2229]

LMAOOI

[@notfamedtvpersonalitydrphil]

Siri says trans rights lmao

[@sakiyoshida1788]

wait but what are the other genders?????

[@pilaracevedo2078]

@@sakiyoshida1788 non binary, agender, bigemder, gemder fluid are just a few

[@hyunjinshairband766]

Lol😂

[@VioletNKisHere]

Lol I got an ad for the daily wire when watching this. Great video, Jamie.

[@heathermcfarland6317]

Although I’m a cis woman, I had to have a full hysterectomy when I was only 19. So I don’t have periods or a uterus. But that does not mean I’m not a woman.

[@ponfi0275]

transphobes never think of this lmao

[@thomasjohnson4987]

@@ponfi0275 women have periods, just like humans have 10 fingers. there are exceptions but they were still SUPPOSED to be that way therefor a "correct" woman of the right age will have periods and a "correct" human will have ten fingers

[@gunpowderketamine]

@@ponfi0275 correction: transphobes never think, because they don't have the mental capacity to

[@bird4816]

Excluding malformities and disease every adult woman has periods. You were a female when you were born. You had your uterus removed but your DNA is still the same as the day your mother's egg met your father's sperm.

[@iamyou7631]

You got your chromosomes though

[@sharks2571]

The woman against saying people who have periods is so weird because even she had to put qualifiers on it. She said people who have periods are women are girls (except prepubecent and postmenopausal women's). She can even recognise that women and girls isn't a specific description of people who have periods.... Why not also include trans men, non binary and intersex people when talking about periods to be accurate (jk I know why, because transphobia)

[@derekhasabrain]

Its honestly hilarious how she even had to say "men who don't have uteruses" like okay obviously ANYONE who doesn't have a uterus is not likely to have a period, male or female. But MEN can have uteruses and so can WOMEN. and not even all people with uteruses have periods thats just so hilarious to watch

[@MileS5262]

I read this before I got to that part so I thought u were talking about Britain’s best loved witch- JK Rowling

[@ely_wannadie]

She literally said “how can men have uteruses if they weren’t born women?” ... they were, that’s what trans means...

[@slimetank394]

You heard the lady: women and girls are not people. People don't have period, which separates women from the concept. Say goodbye to human rights i guess

[@suzannax]

There are so many AFAB cis people who don't have periods and some who are born without a uterus that even in her own world view she's still wrong.

[@autumnnal]

Here’s some wholesome content for your day: My friend came out to me as nonbinary and asexual, so I decided to draw them a little flag because I have a mini lesbian flag on my laptop. I drew them the nonbinary and ace flag and made a tiny envelope and sealed it with tape. On Monday, I gave it to them and they really liked it! They texted me saying “I’m gonna hang these up on my wall, thank you!” I’m a cis female but you nonbinary/trans people are so valid and you deserve respect and love ♥︎

[@autumnnal]

Just to be clear, this took place about a month ago by the way, I forgot to specify that

[@olliehug1132]

Aww! That's so sweet! That's the kind of stuff that makes me feel so valid an happy, keep it up! ☺️

[@haveagoodmourning]

thats so cute 💕 we stan an ally 🏳️‍🌈

[@stars_3.]

Heyy! I’ve seen you before!

[@maddghost9650]

You're a wonderful person, I love you

[@officialtickler]

i swear every trans dude looks exactly the same

[@sbirkkk]

Are you seeking out videos made by trans people to be transphobic or something also no not every trans guy looks the same despite what you might think

[@officialtickler]

@@sbirkkk yes they do shut up

[@sbirkkk]

@@officialtickler that's just not true and you know it. unless you're stupid

[@Zachyshows]

Black trans men exist

[@generalgrievous9652]

Yeah they kinda do

[@lott4959]

I love the comment section on your videos, its such a safe space

[@kazwright1233]

“When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression.” ― Franklin Leonard

[@russianacorns8080]

I don’t think you know how ironic this is.

[@kazwright1233]

@@russianacorns8080 The only privilege I have left is "white". I sacrificed my male privilege to be myself. The only irony in my life is now that I carry a purse, it is much easier to conceal carry the weapon I need to feel remotely safe in public.

[@solaris4022]

@@kazwright1233 I know this has nothing to do with the previous conversation but, if you're trans which I assume you to be, congratulations for coming out and being brave! You're truly inspirational and while I may not be trans I too hope I can show the kinda bravery were I can be honest with others!

[@kazwright1233]

@@solaris4022 aww. That's sweet :) Thank you. I remembered I was trans at 51 in 2018. It was a shock, but it also explained a lifetime of rage. Finding the reason for it, and addressing it, added decades to my life. You know, if society didn't make it so dangerous to be known as trans, we wouldn't have to be brave.

[@wormonstring5381]

@@russianacorns8080 You read it backwards, unless of course you think getting harassed for literally being alive and being yourself is equality.

[@violetbitch9492]

Bruh all these people saying "if to me you look like a guy im gonna keep calling you he/him" bruh would you be ok with me saying "to me you look ugly so I'll keep calling you that"? Or if I said "you look like my aunt Jessie so I'll call you Jessie " you wouldn't try to correct me with your real name? Bruhh

[@asuka_the_void_witch]

they should also google image search "lesbian stud" and "lesbian butch" and educate themselves a bit LMAO some of those girls look manlier than me and i'm AMAB pre-HRT

[@BitterJoyXx]

Exactly, istg

[@tylerknight9830]

how is that any different from how people identify/identified and treat black people.

[@pilaracevedo2078]

@@asuka_the_void_witch As a masculine lesbian, this was my first thought. She would call me a MAN, and wouldn't hear me say I'm a cis woman

[@asuka_the_void_witch]

@@pilaracevedo2078 yuuuuup 🤣

[@brandonperrin9152]

I love ur voice sm 😭I've never seen ur chanel before but I love this vid

[@_Code_3]

Basically just 10 minutes of some femboy coping

[@itsethanbradberry]

You're a bad person

[@cavos1616]

Yep

[@bird4816]

Don't call her a femboy, I find that offensive. Femboys are cute, feminine boys. Not boyish girls.

[@_Code_3]

@@bird4816 did I ask

[@bird4816]

@@_Code_3 You should have. Get your terms right, then weaponize them.

[@ricen1442]

“if you use pronouns I won’t find you attractive” what a rather sly way to say you’re aro/ace 😏

[@plantparent6469]

yeah haha :D also remember to stay hydrated ❤🏳️‍🌈🌿✨

[@plantparent6469]

@internet gremlin aw i love you too you sweet human bean 🌿

[@ristyfristy7474]

@@plantparent6469 thanks for reminding me I will now grab some water 😌

[@plantparent6469]

@@ristyfristy7474 great 🌊🌿

[@xiphactinusaudax1045]

@@boopdeda haha, what a coincidence. I actually figured out like a day or a few hours later or something and forgot which video it was to edit it again. also guess what, I'm aro/ace myself.

[@anjahoger-busch8579]

"Don't say people with periods. It's woman and girls." Do you think woman and girls are not people?

[@sophieceleste4771]

:0.....

[@Envision_]

Do you think that looking like a lobotomy patient is funny?

[@WinterPains]

@@Envision_ We'll have to ask an expert. So, how does it feel to resemble a lobotomy patient?

[@omnical6135]

@@Envision_ clearly you do

[@hoboerenisbestwifuinaot4927]

Dang 😭

[@lys1065]

I was harassed a lot today by a transphobe on tumblr and I really need a laugh here

[@deondria97]

You’re not seeing yourself for who you are by pretending to be something else.

[@ratking3367]

Transphobes be like: "If i see a person who looks like a man in woman's bathroom, he gets pepper sprayed". Me a cis-woman, who looks like a "boy": "pwease dont".

[@iz_bizz2010]

Tomboys: *dying*

[@rae5888]

LITERALLY ME OMG

[@bipolar_skittle]

Me to lol

[@demonwithmustasche3426]

Lmao this is so true. I got my hair cut really short and a few ladies mistook me for a boy. When they talked to me with male pronouns I started at them in a blank expression for a minute to then proceed to talk. And when they noticed that I have a pretty much female voice they started apologizing so bad, it was hilarious 😂

[@sofiaskeppstedt8897]

We read this paper for school called “what it means to be gendered me” by Betsy Lucal. Which is about her experience being perceived as a man although she identify as a women. It’s really interesting.

[@Prickly_Cactus_1993]

Hope you all are enjoying your week, remember you are all valid and lovely people.

[@nicothenecromancer]

Nice to see you😊

[@autumnnal]

Thank you!

[@momamiandkiddokelsi9027]

Your comment is pure love and your picture is my flags! You are one of my favourite people from now on! Don't forget that you are valid too!

[@dorarandom7870]

You're one of my favourite cacti.❤

[@Noname-bh6de]

Yes everyone here you are all V A L I D

[@moistwrmonastring1017]

Still can’t get over how lovely you are lmao 😭 you’re just one of the nicest people I’ve seen online, even your voice is just so laced in kindness, I really do love you

[@ajmusiq1]

Brett Cooper is really nice too. Have you watched her?

[@JC-de1ik]

The way you are, and you calm demeanor and analyzing attitude rather than shouting back, brings more respect to the trans community

[@ruehall5489]

‘I don’t find people who use pronouns attractive’,,, weird way of coming out as aro/ace but u do u

[@cryyuni]

Omg 😂

[@Nevlocc]

what is aro/ace

[@riley3401]

@@Nevlocc aromantic and asexual

[@nataliadams4361]

Lmao as someone who is aro/ace I 100000 percent approve this joke

[@eily2038]

@@Nevlocc you don't feel romantic (aromantic) or sexual (asexual) attraction

[@NekoPrincessTina]

The one about pepper spraying people that she suspects are trans that are in the bathroom is terrifying. Imagine trying to go to the bathroom and some psychotic lady runs at you with pepper spray. I don't think that I would have to go to the bathroom anymore at that point

[@cjboyo]

That’s like my greatest fear

[@oaverage_bird]

Jokes on you, I always bring a taser

[@NekoPrincessTina]

@@cjboyo I mean, I always was scared of getting confronted whilst trying to pee, but I wasn't worried about getting full on assaulted until I watched this video. Oml

[@schnizzyfizz7832]

She is most likely going to end up pepper spraying a random butch looking cis woman.

[@cjboyo]

@@NekoPrincessTina I’m a trans guy who uses the women’s restroom because I don’t pass, but occasionally I pass to someone and I’m terrified I’m going to get attacked by someone who thinks I’m a trans woman now

[@kaz_exe]

Like how this guy is so chill but still roasting the hell out of these people

[@mohan7448]

Male definition: Male (symbol: ♂) is the sex of an organism that produces the gamete (sex cell) known as sperm, which fuses with the larger female gamete,[1][2][3] or ovum, in the process of fertilization. Female definition: An organism's sex is female (symbol: ♀) if it produces the ovum (egg cell), the type of gamete (sex cell) that fuses with the male gamete (sperm cell) during sexual reproduction.[2][3][4] Definition of "Period": Menstruation (also known as a period, among other colloquial terms) is the regular discharge of blood and mucosal tissue from the inner lining of the uterus through the vagina Can someone tell me how males have periods?

[@andrewssilva3634]

this "man" is saying that he had period before, but "he" before was a woman so still not a man that have periods

[@mohan7448]

@@andrewssilva3634 Exactly. Can someone please how a 'period' is possible without female genitals?

[@cat3052]

@@mohan7448 not

[@darling_im_dead7837]

being a guy is not the same as identifying as one, trans people can't change their sex, but if they wan't to be referred as another gender, i don't see a problem in that

[@fidei829]

@@darling_im_dead7837I am trans historic. I identify as an emperor from the 13th century. Call me „majesty“.

[@dr.funnybones]

transphobes: *exist* people who have basic decency: "pathetic."

[@JhoJhoScalesandVs]

why did i read pathetic in friezas voice

[@operaghostkay]

People with common sense*

[@River_Katerina]

@@operaghostkay that too

[@mauricethegecko9700]

Any one who has a brain*

[@ThroughTheThornvine]

People who are a positive influence on society*

[@fallenstarctat]

TikTok is a safe space for me and also a reason i need a safe space at the same time

[@lavendergrrl_.]

Exactly

[@AvitheTiger]

SAAAAAME

[@thisisauniquename]

Saaammmee

[@Envision_]

You need a safespace? Get off the internet. Honestly, the internet is a fucked up place.

[@River_Katerina]

Renny Phoenix, It a appears a transphobe has responded to your comment. Don't fret and don't worry about replying to them. Ignore and carry on with your day if you come across it.

[@ELP1125]

If you can’t define what a man or woman is, how can you call yourself one? That’s the confusing part

[@khonshugodofthenightsky2159]

A woman is an adult human female. A man is an adult human male. That's it. It's decided by your biology. Your chromosomes, not whatever your wacked mind makes up. You can say you are a woman. That doesn't mean you are one. I can say my car is green. That doesn't mean it is. You can say that you are a man. That doesn't mean you are one. I can say the sky is pink. That doesn't mean it is. Biology decides what you are. Not you

[@geomochi4904]

​@@khonshugodofthenightsky2159dam bro being transphobic on a trans channel

[@khonshugodofthenightsky2159]

@@geomochi4904 The truth is not transphobic. And also, prove me wrong

[@matthewbarry1746]

​@@khonshugodofthenightsky2159 Trying to teach these idiots simple logic is probably a lost cause.

[@khonshugodofthenightsky2159]

@@matthewbarry1746 Honestly. The factual information that would prove them wrong just goes in one ear and out the other.

[@lazerhound5811]

3:07 Me: *a trans male literally on his period* Also me: 👁👄👁

[@lazerhound5811]

@Liverpool Tag what ever you say buddy, just cuz you're unhappy with yourself doesn't mean you need to go and invalidate others, I know who and what I am. So thanks for that.

[@lazerhound5811]

@Liverpool Tag lol useless words coming from a random ass person who doesn't even know me are rather painless

[@LTD538]

@@lazerhound5811 if u have a period you arent a man.. thats literally a solely female thing to have a period lmfao

[@jononpaper]

You're a woman

[@samkelly4132]

Gender and transphobia aside, “People who have periods” is just wayyy easier to say than “women and girls between the ages of roughly 12 and 55, unless there’s some reason they can’t” Like that’s what she wanted to be said, it’s exclusionary, medically inaccurate, transphobic, and convoluted, “people/those who have periods” is just easier to say

[@denaroth7296]

And you're still not inclusive: I had my first period at 8 years old hahaha (I laught to not cry).

[@ihateeveryone.k7830]

Tru, people will say "women with periods" but not all women have periods even if they aren't trans like children and people that have gone through menopause.

[@Matty442]

@@denaroth7296 oh my god I'm sorry you have had to deal with periods from so young 😳

[@samkelly4132]

@@denaroth7296 exactly! I got mine at 9 (it was hellish and I hid it until I was 11 cause I was embarrassed about getting it so young)

[@tomsm06]

Yeah 🙄

[@BrainRotFever]

That girl who says sex and gender are the same thing... I don't remember having gender with her mom last night.

[@athyzkyh]

AHAHAHAH

[@acid_sp1der]

That girl reading this:👁👄👁

[@haikyuumyserotoninbooster7658]

OH MY 😭😂😂😂😂😂

[@iamindeedweird5298]

THATS A GOOD ONE DUDE LMFAOO

[@min_nad]

HAHAHAJSIDHAJSJ ICONIC

[@BeeKisses]

You're fast becoming one of my fave KZbinrs

[@marshallleevalentine]

An interesting note, estrogen does cause period-like symptoms in trans women/trans femmes. Although it obviously doesn’t come with bleeding, it does come with cramps, bloating, fatigue, occasional headaches, and other period symptoms. This doesn’t happen to all trans women/trans femmes but it does still happen.

[@avettcore]

“You choose to be trans” Omg yea I totally just woke up one day and was like, hmmm, let’s be a minority that just a few decades ago was killed for just being trans and walking down the street! Let’s struggle with my parents not calling me my correct pronouns and deadnaming me! Bruh transphobes have the stupidest reasons lmaooo edit: to the transphobes in the reply section of these comments, let me just say this: you are just proving this comment's point. stay mad lol

[@kyoza5069]

Yeah fr. Of course I chose to have family literally tell me they'd never talk to me again if I went through with transitioning! Of course I chose to have a massive identity crisis and mental health issues. (though some of them were around way before that lol) I totally decided "yeah, I'm just gonna sit here and go through traumatic experiences"

[@MusicalFreak812]

my mom thinks this way... I literally came out as non-binary in december and she thinks I just woke up a morning and thought to myself "oh yeah time to be non-binary" I've been feeling this way for a whole year-

[@exzuri8585]

u guys make up things so we made super straights rise up we must overpower these lyers

[@avettcore]

@exzuri our identities are not made up. Only superstraight is. Please exit the internet, or we will be forced to escort you out while singing “Born This Way” by Lady Gaga. Thank you! 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈❤️

[@grell5108]

Exactly! I have a similar issue, only not with gender. My parents refuse to acknowledge the fact that I'm mentally ill, saying that teenagers can't be depressed, teenagers can't have psychotic episodes and that I'm doing it for attention! After 2 YEARS of begging they finally sent me to a psychologist, I'm guessing that I'll have to do another year of begging before they send me to a psychiatrist that the psychologist recommended so that I can finally get the medication I need. But they also refuse to acknowledge the fact that some of my friends are gay/lesbian/bi saying that it's just a phase😔😡

[@Rockhoppr3]

*Transphobe:* "I will only refer to *you* by name and never by pronoun." *Me:* "You just used the pronoun 'you.' And I'm pretty sure you also used the pronouns 'he', 'they', and 'them' in your little rant, too."

[@vietkitti]

Don't forget "I."

[@Akyure]

Ok maybe I’m just dumb af but “you” is a pronoun?

[@hazelcallahanlover]

It is (just letting you know)🌸🥰

[@Akyure]

@@hazelcallahanlover Ok thank you Todoroki from My Hero Academia the popular anime made in 2016 with the fandom we don’t talk about for answering my question

[@vietkitti]

@@Akyure thats why they bolded it...

[@TiredChaos]

My response to the “what do you mean ‘people with periods?’ lady” is ‘Do you not think women are people?’

[@satan_from_hell]

Props to that girl who was standing her ground when that woman on the show was yelling at her. I just love how casually she was just like “I think that’s transphobic but anyway” like, yes girl! You be open minded even to people who give you crap for it!

[@aldenheterodyne2833]

I'm gonna go off on a tangent for a minute: I'm a trans guy, but let's assume for the sake of argument that the transphobe have is correct: I'm a woman because I was born with a uterus. Thing is, I don't have periods naturally (PCOS) so I have to take hormones to have a period so I don't get cancer. I also never grew any secondary sex characteristics that we deem typical of the gender binary (no breasts or adams apple) because of my pcos. So why do transphobes think I'm a woman? I would have to (and have) taken hormones to induce some basic functions of puberty. Why is it okay (in their minds) for me to take estrogen/progesterone/whatever-the-fuck-is-in-BC pills but it's somehow not okay for me to be taking testosterone? Estrogen reduces the chances of me dying of uterine cancer, testosterone reduces the chances of me dying from suicide. I'm likely infertile either way (not that it matters because I don't want to have kids) so what's the difference? Why do I have to take the hormone that transphobes tell me to take? They don't get to make medical decisions for me, and it's not like people pull down each other's pants before using s/he on people. It. Does. Not. Affect. You. You're afraid of being "tricked into being gay"? Cool beans, 1) that's not how sexuality works and 2) trans people don't want to date you anyway. Fuck off. Edit: some folks in the comments think that I'm taking both T and hormonal BC. I've never taken T. My PCOS gave me high testosterone levels which gave me a naturally "abnormal" puberty. When I get to a place where I can transition without risk of becoming homeless, I will consider taking T. Thank you for your concern over how painful PCOS can be- I got an extremely gentle case. I don't menstruate naturally, I never grew breasts, and it's incredibly difficult to lose weight, but it doesn't cause me painful cysts or anything. The lack of menstruation concerned my doctor and gyno and they told me that I have to menstruate or I'm at high risk of uterine cancer. Menstruation sucks, but cancer sucks worse, so I got a nexplanon and then a hormonal IUD. I'm a big boy, I can suck it up and menstruate to prevent cancer. That said, mother nature is a cruel bitch, subjecting children to that miserable ride. I prefer it the way I had it: no real puberty till after you're an adult.

[@Envision_]

The fundamental difference between gay rights and trans rights is that gays aren't bullying themselves into people's spaces making demands, labelling people (cis?) and forcing people to believe in stuff that doesn't align with their observable reality. I have some radfem friends who don't have a problem at all observing someone's preferred pronouns, they just don't want self ID'ed males with full set of male genitals around girls and women in sex segregated spaces. And if they say so, why should that be even up for debate? Why do trans people want to transplain men and women what those words mean? Why do transctivists pretend to speak on behalf of LGBT people? I am LGBT and they don't speak for me.

[@River_Katerina]

Alden Heterodyne, It a appears a transphobe has responded to your comment. Don't fret and don't worry about replying to them. Ignore and carry on with your day if you come across it.

[@mr2gamerguys]

@@Envision_ wtf do you think the t stands for lmao

[@parkchimmin7913]

@@Envision_ **hates Trans people** “I am LGB𝗧” uhhhhhh

[@evilrats4president]

@@Envision_ imagine the T in LGBT standing for trans lmfao

[@princemaggie5684]

My (now ex) boyfriend was massively transphobic and as soon as I found out my respect for him went 📉. As well as me being bi and so he kept asking the usual rather bi-phobic questions that made me super uncomfortable and I'm so glad we broke up, my anxiety has massively decreased since 🤷‍♀️

[@alexandravfn3488]

I'm happy that you found peace

[@princemaggie5684]

Thank you so much, that's so kind of you x I'm concentrating on learning more about who I am and so anyone who cant accept that doesnt have a place in my life ❤

[@karolinkiehl4097]

Good thing you dropped him 💅 he doesn't deserve you 😌

[@kendram1798]

your intro is so funny to me because my school mascot is a spud😭

[@baileydasis5624]

As someone who was born intersex the period stuff is even more confusing as despite being intersex I was amab and had srs preformed on me as an infant and didn't find out that I was intersex till I was 16 and at 17 found out that I'd been having irregular periods(severe cramps, mood swings, etc. just no bleeding) since I was 13; and on top of all that I'm a trans girl who will be starting hrt soon and from the few other cases similar to mine I've been able to find when I do my periods will become even more intense(and they already suck) as well as becoming regular and less sporadic. So yay!

[@yvettevaldez8002]

jammi, i did a presentation in front of my class about why schools should have a pride day and i used your video on the vegan teacher as a source of evidence and a lot of kids agreed with your point i got a 100 on the project

[@lottekomkommer]

Congrats!

[@ShiningStar396]

Congrats!

[@amatanata]

You ever get that pride day?

[@denaroth7296]

You did something amazing!

[@serena8942]

Ooooooh that’s amazing 😦 I would love to do that but I’m homeschooled by an extremely queerphobic mother...

[@ezrah.2650]

I said "people who have uteruses" once and my mom lost it. Gee, thanks mom.

[@cooletajones4209]

My mom is fine, but my dad and grandma are sheesh so im gonna do stuff like this to get on their nerves. Thanks for the idea and sorry about your mom they seem rude.

[@weasel7491]

It really strikes me how gender neutral language just flips people's shit. I'm bi, and so I told my mom "my future partner and I will decide if or when we want kids, but I think we'll adopt" when I was 16. She snaps. "Husband. You mean, husband." Keep in mind I was 16, single and answering her hypothetical about "I can get rid of these old toys and baby blankets because I won't need them again."

[@ezrah.2650]

@@weasel7491 My mom is okay with me being pan, and to a certain extent okay with me being non binary. This was several months ago and she actually realized that maybe she shouldn't shit on her child for trying to "ruin her femininity" when really I'm just trying to include everyone. Besides, my grandma doesn't even have a uterus. I think maybe my mom might have discussed this with her (my grandma's an old time feminist)

[@jennahyser7245]

@@ezrah.2650 your grandma doesn’t have a uterus?

[@ezrah.2650]

@@jennahyser7245 She got a hysterectomy in the 90s. Endometriosis sucks.

[@_mo.editzz]

4:05 OMGGG!! I just watched you the first time and I didn’t know you were trans❤❤❤❤❤

[@vanilla6326]

The first one just had me like *are you sure about that* go on little cis boy, wear that wig and compete in the olympics, I dare you

[@hazelnut2457]

transphobes: trans people are snowflakes also transphobes: HOW DARE YOU SAY "PEOPLE WHO HAVE PERIODS"

[@karenduncan9070]

you guys cry when someone calls you the wrong pronouns

[@hazelnut2457]

@@karenduncan9070 please you guys cry when people get their basic human rights

[@porkraccoon]

@@karenduncan9070 lol ur name is karen

[@space_break4888]

@@karenduncan9070 no I dont cry, I politely correct by saying " they"

[@olithey-them1141]

"I'm gonna get canceled for this..." sweetie, you need to be important to be canceled

[@sophieceleste4771]

Facts

[@Xman34washere]

oof

[@justapoet.]

Damn-

[@sekarayumutiarayunus6785]

👁👄👁

[@bluelight8025]

🔥👀

[@FATI_SZN]

If not supporting this nonsense is transphobic then I'll proudly be that

[@chillout8320]

Based

[@FATI_SZN]

@@chillout8320 W

[@Erinba]

I just think that these people are so filled with hate - they can’t understand anyone else’s views or reasons for wanting to live their authentic self - it’s all just internal hate with themselves with no where to go - it’s so sad- it’s 2023 can’t we all just accept and love one another!

[@Erinba]

@@SheaN10266 like I said - full of hate

[@Cupcake_Royale]

@@ErinbaIt's not hate it's facts

[@ManfredPichler]

@@Cupcake_Royale You might want to look up what the word "fact" means ... because you are using it wrong.

[@jordddennn3375]

@@ManfredPichler there’s 2 genders

[@sethakins4147]

@@Cupcake_Royale It *is* hate, you're shooting down people's beliefs because of your hatred. If somebody hated Christians and said "there is no god" any time somebody mentioned God, you would absolutely see it as hate. Stop pretending like you aren't hating on people who are just trying to exist.

[@everestfoxaj3989]

"I dont use pronouns" IS SO FUNNY- LIKE- Congrats on coming out-

[@georgievandersteen2232]

Lol like congrats I’ll be sure to use your new pronouns, / .

[@user-sg1lk6cb9k]

it's not funny dude they literally just forgot about their 4th grade English class bc they're that dumb and can't understand basic English. Also I is literally a pronoun bro-

[@R41nb0ww]

If they don’t use pronouns i’d probably just call them by their name lol

[@R41nb0ww]

FUCK I THINK THEY MEAN THEY DONT USE THE PRONOUNS FOR GENDER LMAOOOO

[@pinksucccubus]

Why are there stupid people in these replies

[@frickinfrick8488]

“I do not care if people are transgender” always precedes statements that imply quite the opposite

[@Dumb951]

For the woman that was saying “do men have periods?” Yes, they do. everybody has a hormonal cycle.

[@justscrolling1323]

Oh ffs

[@Dumb951]

@@justscrolling1323 what?

[@hollyjewels787]

Kinda strange hearing a person stating they are being reduced to about your parts ..is bad Yet that very part was so important to you to you want to change it and you want the world to know you do not identify with your organ.

[@zsh3084]

Fun fact: in Farsi/Persian, there is no gender grammatically. There are only names for genders but no pronouns or verb endings or whatsoever indicating a specific gender. So basically, no one can insult someone else. As a linguist and as a person who loves everyone and cares for everyone, I really appreciate that.

[@Daisy-nd7iw]

There are no pronouns?

[@goatcat2737]

@@Daisy-nd7iw No gendered pronouns, if I understand correctly

[@zsh3084]

Daisy yes there is only one neutral pronoun. No gender specific :) for example if you read a sentence out of context without any given name only using pronouns, you won’t know the gender of the person which the sentence is talking about.

[@awkwardukulele6077]

@@zsh3084 so like the only have the equivalents of “I, you, they, we” etc.? No “she, he” and the rest? Awesome! 😎

[@zsh3084]

Awkward Ukulele there is only one for she/he (read it like the “u” in “Uber” lol written: او)and one for it (inanimate objects). Basically when you want to refer to someone, you don’t refer to any gender, just a living human. So even if people want, they can’t insult someone by misusing a pronoun 😂which I think is pretty cool!

[@katrinahayes2624]

When I'm confused about someone's gender I just call them "they" and "their" "Oh look at their shirt, it looks so good on them!" "They're in their room, down to the left." It's just my way of being respectful until I'm informed by their pronouns

[@sydssolanumsamsys]

i hate it when people say "his/her" etc like, bitch, english has WORDS for that

[@TheaterCryptid]

And that’s so good of you ! It’s so a good way not to invalidate someone's feeling or judging by look

[@hoboerenisbestwifuinaot4927]

I do the same! :)

[@Ocelot_Growl]

Yeah

[@SeeMeRowan]

As someone who is trans, I applaud you for this. I do the same.

[@Xratcho]

Your voice is actually really calming

[@user-sk3ow4mn2v]

The letters K,L,I,Y,U,O,R,S,E,FL on my keyboard when i see people like you. That burn you feel? It is shame.

[@dustee3598]

@@user-sk3ow4mn2v cringe

[@BIO-PUNK]

@@user-sk3ow4mn2v all they did was say that his voice was calming. no need to be rude.

[@lonelyrain5480]

@@user-sk3ow4mn2vdude that’s going to far

[@Hyenaaman]

"There are only 2 genders im sorryy" "I aint never seeing two pretty best friends" "Oh wait,you *dont* have any friends!Im sorryy"

[@wtfjackaboy]

Plot twist: the girl who said she wasn’t attracted to people who use pronouns was just coming out as asexual and/or aromantic and we support that 🖤🤍💜 💚🤍🖤

[@Sasukeuchiha54041]

No

[@thatonepersonwhoeatscheese7348]

@@Sasukeuchiha54041 its a joke

[@Envision_]

I don't think so. I regularly block dudes on grindr with pronouns in their bios

[@samuraix558]

Amen. I too, am not attracted to people who use pronouns.

[@River_Katerina]

Twenty Øne Cheers for Sweet Revenge, It a appears a transphobe has responded to your comment. Don't fret and don't worry about replying to them. Ignore and carry on with your day if you come across it P.S. I love the username!

[@ShadowAnimeation]

On the topic of "only women" having periods... uhm, even if she doesn't want to believe trans guys are men, she's still wrong. Cause a cis-men can have a period. Though rare there are several known cases of cis-men having Endometriosis. You can't have endometriosis if the endometrial tissue isn't active. Those poor guys, do indeed menstruate each month; and whether she likes it or not, this does indeed count as a man having a period.

[@dianeb-r8512]

"Do you know a man who has periods ?" Sex development divergences : "Allow us to introduce ourselves"

[@Envision_]

When someone goes to the doctor with mild migraine and gets a lobotomy

[@River_Katerina]

CrypticBlueHue, It a appears a transphobe has responded to your comment. Don't fret and don't worry about replying to them. Ignore and carry on with your day if you come across it.

[@nesser52]

And then they get even madder and say "iT's abNoRmAl yOu sHoulHn'T hAvE rIghTs" to me smh

[@thesquishiest9575]

@@nesser52 It’s abnormal to care about someone’s genitals so much.

[@alexm6653]

okay, when I was younger, I had no idea of transgender and all that, so I did thought that men didn't get periods... but that's only because of the fact that i had no idea of LGBTQIA+ being a thing

[@madelinewhite1749]

Not long after I came out as nonbinary/gender nonconforming (it was quite recent and I’m almost 23) my nanna referred to me as her ‘grandchild’ instead of ‘granddaughter’ and even though I know she didn’t do it on purpose it made me feel so nice, and I realised that even though I still use she/her with they/them pronouns, gender neutral words are so much more comfortable for me and I was so grateful, even though it might be a minuscule thing for some people and she wouldn’t have thought twice about it, that really made my heart happy 🥺

[@ebonypepper8345]

“did you know that there is only two-“ me: panik “-days left” me: kalm

[@tlachap0ud]

That was my first thought lmaoo

[@acid_sp1der]

@@tlachap0ud same

[@yahirmoreno3140]

Calm*

[@bradentheman1373]

@@tlachap0ud SAME- I GOT SO SCARED

[@plantparent6469]

@@yahirmoreno3140 no that's a meme. “panik” instead of “panic”, “kalm” instead of “calm” :)

[@WitchEnbyWitch]

People who say "I don't use pronouns" need to legally be sent back to primary school to re-learn their English.

[@user-om2dg5dl9p]

the fact that those people who say that don't even realize there is a literal pronoun in that sentence.

[@Ocelot_Growl]

Yeah I literally learned that in 6th grade

[@_ldwk]

People who doesn't use pronouns be like: " is a person" " a "

[@user-om2dg5dl9p]

@@_ldwk i think I'm is a conjunction with a pronoun, therefore it's a pronoun

[@tylerknight9830]

likewise to people who don't understand the definition of the word woman

[@kirin1230]

Listening to Julia Hartley-Brewer made me loose so many brain cells it hurts

[@thefoodieknight-roblox9449]

You know that lady who was on the show and speaking into the microphone could've just said, cis men don't have periods. That's a true statement. Period.