trans & identity

[@asdasd-dm1hd]

i see medic gameplay, i know fruitiness is present

[@cactea3904]

Virtually everything in the world being classified as either masculine or feminine is really a tragedy for humans. But one thing that might be even worse is how restrictive people are about those classifications, you're expected to only partake in things has the same label as you, no matter how basic those things are. And sometimes straying from your perceived label even once can lead to insane consequences in certain places. I really hope that in a few decades we'll be past this, but realistically it'll take much, much longer to actually change this. Lovely video of course, sorry if this is unreadable I'm tired as shit.

[@Flipdagoose]

It is understandable to be frustrated, scared, angry, sad even. And yes, in some way, it might be tragic, but i would consider that the world you live in, the world that is beautifully imperfect in every factor, exists only because of weird, stupid concepts like this. We should of course strive to reduce their harm, but in the end, we can live with them, we *have* been living with them for centuries, and in a way, it is the pain of something like this, the pressure, the fear, the sadness, that makes it worth breaking those boundaries, going past what has been laid out for you and living how you want to. Sorry for the ramble, just wanted to share my thoughts. Also, something to comment, it is not as bad as it might seem. I get the headspace you were writing this in, so i want to tell you that for most of the time it ends well, most of the time people force themselves to understand, to accept, and to love, because its want they what to do. Nobody wants to be hateful, some people just don't know how to be anything else.

[@NickNitro]

I enjoyed your perspective, there are some parts that need attending as it feels very dissonant in it's cohesion & perspective in the determinism + identity. but we work it out as we get older. we all have to tackle the mysteries & purpose, ultimately it doesn't matter whether we're here, nor there. whether we think there's meaning or not. all we need is simply ✨Love, Peace & Double Cheeseburgers. ✨bbyyyyy

[@StaresAtYouInContempt]

This is my first time ever seeing your channel. Coming from a trans NB person. I just hate the idea that 50% of the worlds population needs to adhere to a SINGLE idea of what a person should be. I believe that to be the height of arrogance and stupidity. I am neither masculine nor feminine. Those are two very undefined words that are completely subjective. (Leave it up to Americans to force people into one of two categories to define themselves as... cough cough left or right, male or female, black or white, pass or fail, absolute truth or absolute lies.)

[@MilMI-24]

Well, certain things are just like that, things like facts/truths are not relative, the truth is what it is, no matter how many people think it is a lie, a helium atom is a helium atom, no matter how many people say it is a carbon atom.

[@iamonthenet]

I feel like one of the worst things that have happened for Identity is the idea that interests or style or even behaviour are gender coded. It's only served to confuse people a lot, it makes me really sad. I'm trans but I don't let that dictate what I like or wear or anything else, what it was was really just how I wanted my body to physically develop more than anything and that's kind of it. Glad to see people have a lot more nuanced take on Identity and gender and expectations and sharing it. Thanks for the video!

[@OmeletteGirl]

inb4 enbycoping repper accusation and transfobic allegation but honestly though the fact that context you exist in can change perception is interesting, not something I considered before but I guess it makes it so that someone raised in one context could not be considered trans then move and all of a sudden be trans. Also I like the idea that anonymity allows for more pure expression, although the context of that anonymity likely affects that expression. Also, glad you were open and honest and I apologize if my tttt comments were annoying. Your perspective on gender is interesting, would you ever consider taking E for some of its effects or no?

[@spicymayo2]

i wish i expanded a bit more on the idea of pure identity existing online, but obviously it's not always the case since we are still effected by social and psychological factors. to clarify a bit of it, identity existing purely from someones idea free from any kind of pre-established labels is something that can only exist online. this doesn't mean it will always be the case, but the internet, or anonymity i believe to be the only place where that pure form of identity can exist. so using the trans example, people will perceive you first by their senses before they perceive what would be considered someones "pure identity" which exists independent of the body. because what we percieve via our senses comes first, that goes to alter our perception of someone else's "pure identity". Hence why she felt as if she didn't fit in with cis woman. she viewed herself as a woman. they viewed her as a trans woman say that same person existed only in an online space. nobody would be able to use their senses to measure someones appearance and/or voice which leaves them no choice but to use creativity to fill in the blanks. for example, because of how I behave in text/voice, the online spaces i tend to hang around in, and the interests I have that I choose to share; without any of my physical qualities being present people either automatically assume that i am either a white man, or a pre-transitioning white woman. obviously i am neither of the two, but my identity existing as it is online leaves nobody any choice but to fill in those blanks, and that is what they tend to choose. maybe i should make a video on this........... also to answer your question, as of right now i don't have any intention to go on any kind of HRT. i have considered the possiblity of going on T when i'm in my older years but that's decades to come lol so it's not something i think about. overall i'm pretty comfortable being percieved as whatever people want to perceive me as, whether it's something positive or negative. edit: dont worry i don't find those comments annoying. anything that inspires me to get autistic about philosophical topics i consider a good thing, and that goes for anyone else that might feel guilty or whatever.

[@xdnt4671]

I love this speech

[@Time_pug]

As a trans person, I agree with there being way more options when it comes to female clothing. Male clothing has like 0 variety or options :(

[@Time_pug]

WTF YOU'RE HALF FILIPINO!??!!? ME TOO!! I'm half filipino and half swede, super weird mix

[@asdasd-dm1hd]

you talk very well for a non scripted video u are a good speaker even if it was just rambling everything u said had meaning wery mnoce

[@pinknet9811]

For me im still questioning my identity. I'm a cis girl, but sometimes i think that i might be a transman due to me always like masculine things and relating to men more, but also i don't actually want to transition. Im ok with just wearing masculine clothes. But other times I do like femenine things and clothes, I just hate it when it forced upon me everyday. Idk. I don't think about it a lot so just I slap the genderfluid label onto myself and call it a day. Maybe one day I'll figure it out but for now im pretty cool with the way i am now.

[@daukwin]

I think as long as you remain comfortable who you are, why care if your physical identity reflects your interests or not? No need to apply labels for the sake of others. Respect and love yourself!

[@whywhysson]

To quote the ancient mantra of the wise monks of The Fourth Channel: "I wish to be the little girl"

[@OllieMartin04]

I relate to what you say at 2:08. There's nothing wrong with just being a somewhat gender non-conforming cisgender man, but are you sure you wouldn't consider yourself agender?

[@thesandwich7151]

it is what it is brothur i got a question tho

[@PDMM-mr2hd]

max stirner much?

[@Afuro-Ougi2]

So do you fw Umineko?

[@jimbenny4600]

They didn't say they were insane

[@turdbergler657]

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