TRANS TIKTOK STRIKES AGAIN | NOAHFINNCE

[@foxxy9036]

The "born in the wrong body" really fits with me for some reason. I am a triplet of 2 girls and a boy (i am one of the girls for now). I am trans and have always wanted to be a boy and my brother (for now) is also trans and has always wanted to be a girl, so I think that our souls where just swapped around somehow.

[@electronics-girl]

Aww, that is sweet! (Although frustrating, I'm sure.) I'm an only child, so I don't know who I got swapped with. I think just myself on an alternate timeline.

[@neptunesdemise]

me and my girlfriend have the same scenario! i’m transmasc and she’s transfem lmao

[@flammia]

@@electronics-girl kjsdkjds that's literally me. Like - I just imagine myself in an alternate universe being a happy jolly cis girl

[@zulficker_real]

@@neptunesdemise that's so cute omg 😭😭

[@Honky_Nut]

Honestly that makes a lot of sense in my brain

[@Felix_Buffay]

I painted my nails today. As a transmasculine person it took me a while, but I'm finally starting to get rid of gender norms! 🏳️‍⚧️

[@liamregjun]

Proud of you! Painted nails look amazing :)

[@dinosaurs_rule]

I'm proud of you :)

[@adrisomething9614]

I’m a trans guy and i’ve got a similar thing but im painting my nails pink for my schools barbie day so i think im doing okay. Congrats on ur journey!

[@piney_45]

IM LITERALLY PAINTING MY NAILS AS I WATCH THIS LMAOO (im also transmasc)

[@Checker_The_Bard]

So proud of you dude! I painted mine a few weeks ago for the first time since I came out as trans

[@The_S0nneteer]

As a trans dude myself. My biggest frustration is when someone accidentally misgenders me and apologizes. I basically just wave them off like "yeah its fine, i dont mind" and they take that as permission to continuously misgender me. All im doing is saying the slip-up is okay, not telling them that they can use whatever pronouns they want for me. ✋️😑

[@Sprinkles-is-confused]

que internal screaming

[@The_S0nneteer]

@@Sprinkles-is-confused Exactly. ✋️😭

[@middlenerd178]

Lol, my friends started using gender neutral pronouns and a shortened version of my dead name before I came out to anyone, I was just wasn’t hiding my gender expression. My mom didn’t believe me when I came out to her as trans, meanwhile my friends were just like “oh thank god we don’t have to pretend not to know anymore”

[@shaunclarke04]

honestly a mood.

[@IKnowEverythingButMyIdentity]

I think the term for this is you had a glass closet I did too, I cut my hair short, my favourite song was I kissed a girl and I had a really obvious crush on a girl, so when I came out, my mum said, "Ok good, I didn't want to ask before you were ready!" Lol

[@SceneKingXD]

Lmao I love ur friends for that 😂

[@leviisaac9506]

MOOD

[@oliver434healy]

Hey, I’m in the same situation with the mom not believing you’re trans thing. Any advice?

[@_Chelli_]

As a trans person, I don’t personally feel like I was born in the wrong body, and I don’t have an issue with anyone who feels that way. It does get to be a bit of an issue when people say that feeling like you were born in the wrong body idea is the *only* way to be trans, which is annoying gatekeeping garbage. Thankfully that’s only a very small minority of people who think like that.

[@anonymousarmadillo9800]

Exactly. The shift in thinking shouldn't be "no one feels like they're born in the wrong body", but just recognizing that some trans people feel that way while others don't, that the trans experience is complex and individual, and that no trans person's experience is any more or less valid than anyone else's.

[@spencer7151]

Hey, this is really in no way transphobic or anything like that, I just havent heard about that before and if you dont mind, I would like to ask a question. Trans is that you feel a different gender then what was assigned to you at birth isn't it? But if you dont feel the disconnection to your current self or body how do you know you are trans and not just not fitting the "gendernorms"? I am not saying that your experience isnt valid but I am just genuinely curious. 😅 Hope you have a great day and sorry if my English isn't the best, its not my first language...

[@jackriver8385]

​@@spencer7151a lot of us try to exist outside gender norms, and still don't feel fully comfortable. I tried being a masculine woman but it just didn't work to address the discomfort I was feeling. I'm currently a somewhat feminine trans man, and much happier than I've ever been.

[@spencer7151]

​​@@jackriver8385first of all I am very happy for you, that you found yourself! And secondly, so there is a sort of discomfort with your current body (before transitioning) but why don't you say then that you were born in the wrong body? Again just curious!

[@jackriver8385]

@@spencer7151 you can be uncomfortable with some aspects of your body without the entire body being wrong. It's my body so it can't be wrong, imo. I just had to change some things to be more comfortable (Sidenote I'm almost a year on T and 5 months post top surgery)

[@zero7769]

i’m cis and i may not be on trans TikTok but i’m on trans KZbin lol. here to support y’all and here because i’m bisexual haha

[@macav1ty]

we appreciate your support, love the bi-s

[@maddykrantz]

LOL same but i'm also on trans tik tok. cis Bi power!

[@IsabelleAAAAHH]

OH MY GOD WE’RE THE SAME BASICALLY ((even though i’ve also sort of ended up on conservative transphobe yt and my feed is a little contradicting 😭😭😭😭😭))

[@gummitheguppy5901]

@@IsabelleAAAAHH girl why are you on conservative transphobe youtube😭 😭 😭

[@IsabelleAAAAHH]

@@gummitheguppy5901 they just appeared and now they won’t leave 😭😭😭😭

[@bobthekiwi6872]

HI OK I'VE GOT A TAKE ON THE "BORN IN THE WRONG BODY" THING I always support how someone else describes their own gender dysphoria or their own personal struggles, also personally I just feel like I had the wrong bits. I love my body, I love my shape/size/face/hair/etc, but I hate the parts that make me fem like boobs, vagina, and higher pitched voice (I'm trans FTM). Being friends with a ton of gamers made me describe it as I made my character at the beginning of the game, picked the hair, skin tone, shape, size, etc, then just accidentally clicked "female" instead of "male". It's not that it's the wrong body, it's still my body, it's just the wrong bits. BTW I'm almost 2 years on T and the happiest I've ever been :D

[@roundhouse2616]

duuude i feel this so hard. hope i can get on t soon too 🤞

[@pajmxueb8559]

I've never seen it from the angle your describing. Its very intresting. I've always kinda felt that I had my soul inside which was correct and kinda was my "body", and then there was the outer casing which is my actual physical body. I'm not sure if thats the "born int he wrong body" idea Congrats for the 2 years on T!!!! I hope you join you on that path one day

[@Artomaton64]

That's exactly how I would describe it! Nicely worded.

[@Someone-jo8xd]

this is so real honestly

[@Spook-y]

Literally how I feel, took the words right out of my mouth. 😄

[@DemonPup13]

I feel like “born in the wrong body” is a nice easy way to explain it to cis people who don’t understand. Sometimes I feel like that, often times I feel like my body just grow into the wrong one but started out as the right one and if it had not changed and I had puberty blockers it would still be the right one

[@WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening]

9:44 I hate that so much. Especially when the women in my family continually talking about how jealous they are of my body all the time, knowing how uncomfortable that makes me. Then they have the audacity to say they’re not transphobic. (This is not the only reason I say they are transphobic, it’s just one of the things they do)

[@Diseased_rat103]

I don't personally think I was born into the wrong body, but I understand that some people do feel that way It's a bit silly for people to think that something is untrue just because they haven't experienced it

[@andrewhaywood3853]

Yep. It feels to me that people who don’t believe trans is a thing treat us like looking at a person in a wheelchair and telling them to get up and walk due to not being able to imagine not being able to walk🤦🏼‍♂️

[@alexelion7084]

I think a lot of trans people who don’t literally feel like they are born in the wrong body think this phrase was only used as an easy way to explain being trans to cis people because it’s easy to understand, but doesn’t exactly capture the true experience, while in reality it just doesn’t capture their experience. When you are only surrounded by people who tell you this because they believe it themselves, it makes sense that you would believe it too. Most people that repeat this narrative (at least the ones that I have come across) would definitely listen to trans people who do feel like they are born in the wrong body and take them seriously, though I can imagine that there are people who wouldn’t, there are lots of stupid people around

[@ultimate_yippee]

i don’t feel like i was born in the wrong body, i just feel like i got a few things that were meant for someone else.

[@Gobberfisch]

@@ultimate_yippee now this is actually a better way of looking at myself

[@oddsocks3723]

Bingo, bullseye, right on the money. I wish i could just project this comment into some people's brains to maybe give them a nice dose of the facts you are spitting right now.

[@Vxry.Bxrry_Bxnnie._]

Alternative title: Noah saying things then realizing they came out wrong and struggling to re-explain himself *We love you, Noah.*

[@laultimarebanada]

ADHD hitting hard

[@Vxry.Bxrry_Bxnnie._]

@@laultimarebanada felt that fr lol

[@TheVirginGary]

@@laultimarebanada Danger: atheism leads to being like the girl in this video, and it's a stepping stone to eternity in the hot place. You've just been warned by the Virgin Gary.

[@TheVirginGary]

@@laultimarebanada It's not required of you to believe in Jesus for you to end up spending eternity in the hot place. It's only necessary to believe in Jesus to not end up there. He said it himself.

[@laultimarebanada]

@@TheVirginGary um I'm gona ssume you're being sarcastic? What does that even mean lol

[@yourfriendlyneighborhoodbi6207]

My first gender affirming haircut was something I gave to myself in a bathroom. Shaved sides but long top and back. I don't even know what I was going for tbh. Edit: I don't do the born in the wrong body thing for myself because I've always felt like my body was on the masculine side, just needed some adjustments. If you were born in the wrong body, however, you absolutely have the right to self describe that way.

[@theultimatenerd9825]

I wasn’t born in the wrong body, but a few things did get mixed up

[@liam_er]

i definitely still feel like i was born in the wrong body- idk why people are saying no one feels like that… i’m legit just not in the body i want to be in or i was supposed to be in i don’t want this lol

[@alexelion7084]

I thought no one or only few people felt like this because I was told so and it made sense to me (as in: not literally the wrong body but some things are wrong about it) but now I know better. Guess part of why I believed that too is because I have a weird/unusual relationship with my body myself and it feels like a big part of me not feeling like my body/appearance is not quite right, doesn’t actually (only) have to do with me being trans/nonbinary

[@sand_eater101]

No yeah I was too. I can’t wrap my head around the fact that I will never have a penis or a completely flat chest unless I get a surgery that could cause serious complications. I don’t actually want to speak because of my voice dysphoria, but my oral grades have always been bad and my teachers are worried. I’ve previously thought it was social anxiety caused by bullying from my previous school, and it may have been that at some point, but now it’s just my autism planning what I wanna say and my voice dysphoria.

[@alatsus]

fr i genuinely feel like there was a mistake and i'm just wrong. even as a little kid i would look at myself in the mirror and go 'that's not me, whoever that is isn't me.' i just feel wrong

[@liam_er]

@@Nat_778 yeah i just got that from the video but yeah i’ve heard many ppl say that nobody feels like they are actually in the wrong body that they are just uncomfortable, but no i am just not supposed to own a body that looks like this it’s not mine it’s some random girl’s lol

[@prageruwu69]

ikr!

[@mylesm.5147]

I remember first thinking i could be trans, top surgery had come up in conversation (i already knew i was part of the lgbt community just not trans yet so i knew pleanty about trans people and top surgery already) and thinking "damn, what i would give-". the egg broke in public.

[@GorillazGang23]

Everyone Noah says "HELLO UNDERACHIEVERS!!!" I honestly can't help but smile lol

[@andrewhaywood3853]

Me too, and I’m nearly 50!

[@tyetinbear5880]

BE YOU BE HAPPY. Also, I love how his dad is just like "YOU are a BULL DOG!" 😂😂😂

[@ikaurika]

I am a cis, bisexual. My friend group consists of about 4 trans boys, a non binary, a few queer cis girls, a gay guy, and 3 or 4 cishets. Myself and two of the others had been diagnosed with severe depression on top of other mental illnesses. KZbinrs such as yourself have helped us all feel better. We send each other different KZbinrs to watch and its made us all happier. Thank you for helping us and being a go to watch when us little Queer kids a are going through tough times

[@Alliien34]

i don't feel like i was born in the wrong body, but i know that some trans people do and that's fine. what's annoying is when people use that to define trans people, and say "trans people are people who were born in the wrong body" as a general thing. it can be useful sometimes to explain it to certain people and it's fine if people feel that way personally about their own transness but i don't want trans people's bodies to be seen as wrong as a general rule.

[@dinosaurs_rule]

Sorry to get all sappy but that inspirational talk at the end of the video about the future getting better was actually just what I needed today. Thanks Noah 💗💗💗

[@DemiSuaton]

Dinosaurs are in fact cool btw

[@erdbar718]

sameee... like I am the angry adult trans enby (and will fight for every other trans person and especially trans youth) but at the same time sometimes I just feel so small and defeated and I also need others to be angry and protective for me sometimes tbh

[@dinosaurs_rule]

@@DemiSuaton I very much agree :)

[@roundhouse2616]

@@DemiSuaton omg you said the thing

[@WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening]

4:39 Yeah, this is me. I pass most of the time, if I don’t speak, everyone knows me as a guy, even when I wore a very tight fitting uniform with a skirt (because my parents didn’t let me get the guy’s uniform), I was still told I looked like a drag queen by people who didn’t know me (I live in an area where people aren’t exactly transphobic, just very unaware of what to say or how to word things). Then there was my mom, talking to everyone about me as her daughter and using my deadname, I’m pretty sure half of the people there know by now what’s going on, but plenty are unsure what to call me or how to refer to me because they see a guy and hear his mom calling him “she”.

[@Stargrlllll]

This^^ oh my god the amount of times I've been told I "look like a drag queen" or "look like a trans woman" because I'm afab with a masculine facw and like to dress up 🙃

[@Bloody_Corpses]

I'm very envious I have very feminine features that I despise

[@liam_er]

may the ✊🏻✨ never go away

[@dibblesasher0918]

YAAAAZZZ

[@liam_er]

@AlexUTTP876 i didn’t even use any pronouns buddy 💀 u trippin ballz

[@Lee.M.D]

Alex being goofy rn 💀

[@sallymon3752]

​@AlexUTTP876 transphobe so scared of pronouns they start seein it everywhere 💀💀

[@sand_eater101]

@AlexUTTP876You transphobed so hard you forgot to spot the pronoun you wanted to replace first💀💀

[@joshuaweismantel1160]

before I was on t I felt like I was born in the wrong body, not because i couldn't ever be happy in my body but because I needed significant changes to my body in order to feel happy in it

[@lindsayestrella9959]

ALWAYS A GOOD DAY WHEN NOAH UPLOADS

[@666tiger7]

​@AlexUTTP876get in the bin

[@NOAH-PHOENIX]

This is so true I just have to watch over his videos again for entertainment like I have with this one

[@Mercuryy55]

4:30 Yup. Going through it right now Noah 12:12 It’s a journey that’s for sure 14:48 Yes, No, Idk 15:21 11/10 is accurate ✊✨

[@melia9019]

11:20 with they/them I only use it when I don’t know what gender they identify with but I don’t have the confidence to be like “hey what are your pronouns?” With people I don’t know lol.

[@ScytrusScythe_]

Noah i just want to, ya know, just hug you. You are such a positive force for trans youth nowadays. Thank you, genuinely.

[@aaronschibli1199]

I started feeling wrong in my body once puberty came around. Before that i didnt care at all

[@Laurap01]

It’s normal to feel uncomfortable during puberty.

[@benjaming9912]

i find it so fascinating how different everyone's trans experiences are. like for example i didnt even have to "come out" in a big way as ive always looked/behaved like a boy and always insisted on being called by boy names and pronouns literally as soon as i could talk. so the only time i had to come out was legally i guess to change my name etc and obv to therapists/doctors to get t and surgeries. was lucky to grow up in such an open minded, accepting and supportive environment! i dont even know how i wouldve managed otherwise

[@ashylum639]

I use the “born in the wrong body” thing to tell people how I felt because before surgery and T I WAS NOT comfortable in the slightest and saying “ye i’m in the wrong body” helped and ye it’s been a couple years but I still say that because it makes it easier for people to understand especially when explaining the biology behind it

[@CoraFrances]

I just wanted to let you know that your channel brings me joy. 😊 I'm 46 and just recently came out as bisexual ( it wasn't safe to do so when I was still in contact with my family). Subscribed! Thank you!

[@iatetoasters5590]

Noah as a transmasc who is sick right now this was very relatable

[@zaza_339]

Yooo I’m a transmasc whose sick rn too

[@fandomlover73]

Fellow Transmasc who is sick rn :)

[@fandom_weeb3068]

As someone who is going trough the shit stuff with not being able to come out as trans cause of transphobic parents i feel the 11/10 is really accurate! The thing with the voice is also so true. I often sing much when im alone so that my throat hurts and my voice sounds deeper xD

[@xliploverx]

I only recently came out to those that matter to me as non binary. I got my hair cut short and the stylist insisted on leaving the points at the sideburn area so I “still look feminine” and I told her I don’t want it to look feminine and she asked very condescendingly “why. Are you gay?” I didn’t say a single word for the rest of the haircut and broke down crying as soon as I walked out the door. She still left the points and didn’t even get my hair short enough. Also as for misgendering (I use they/them pronouns) it doesn’t bother me much when someone uses the wrong pronouns. What DOES bother me is when I accidentally misgender myself. When you’ve called yourself something for 30 years it can be so hard and weird trying to break that habit.

[@SuperKiao]

Doesn’t exist

[@williammiller6330]

really sorry that happened. stylists can be so entitled, like god.

[@nancydrewnerd]

Ok but the haircut thing 😂 One day several years before I figured my stuff out a guy said something about how every trans guy gets that first really bad pixie cut and I got offended which made me question EVERYTHING. That guy single handedly and unwittingly caused both my gender and sexuality crisis lol

[@urpurpleghost]

i think once i hit puberty i was hit with the “born in the wrong body” feeling, but it didnt really happen before that because i never had any outward issues until my body decided to mature. now after hrt, top surgery, and a full hysterectomy, i feel completely at ease and at home in my body and identity

[@Bloody_Corpses]

I relate but before puberty I thought I would grow a penis so that was disappointing 😅 but after Phalloplasty I feel more comfortable with my body besides my face or voice I don't believe it changed much at all and that's fantastic I'm happy you are comfortable In your body entirely 🤗

[@froggysock]

That last one made me happy. I’m 12 and non binary, and am constantly seeing idiots on the internet invalidate me and others, and much worse stuff like the actual horrific stuff like healthcare. I kinda want puberty blockers but there banned. I’m scared to mention being trans to any adult at this point.

[@Honky_Nut]

I will get better, don’t worry❤

[@Spotless_World]

My first gender affirming haircut was a buzz cut and I CRIED because I felt so good : my hair was the longer it has ever been and my best friend buzzed it all off, he's the one who helped me the most through my transitionn💚 and I felt so freeeeeee. It looked DOPE on me as well 💁

[@crownisclown]

11:39 WHAT THE FUCK??? THAT LITERALLY ME??? THATS MY VIDEO??? I JUMPED OUT OF MY SEAT 😭😭

[@bleh3.2]

13:16 The last time I got sick my friend told me I sounded like a sickly Victorian boy begging to see the sunlight one last time...gender affirmed! 14:07 for me I wasn't born in the wrong body, the issue was that I went my entire childhood thinking I would never have tiddies despite every woman in my life having them and my mom literally taking me to the bra section at some store so I never actually thought about how I felt, even now when I'm getting dressed or just not binding and I see the tots I'm just confused because in my mind I don't have any, the wrong body bit happens when I realize that yeah I do actually hence the dysphoria. But every experience is different

[@Mark-bl8zd]

Fantastic video as always! Also yes I absolutelly feel like I was born in the wrong body all the time so idk,I think its very accurate to say that

[@ShadowAnimeation]

The first time I attempted to get a "guy" haircut, I wasn't out and was too scared to ask the stylist to do a guy haircut. So I picked out the most butch/tomboy haircut I could find in the women's hairstyle book and was like "I want this one." LOL It wasn't until this last spring that I actually got a haircut that made me feel affirmed and comfortable though. I came out to my parents last year and this spring when I wanted a haircut, my mom actually did it. And she was like "So you want me to cut it like a boys right?" And then proceeded to give me my first official guy haircut, which was a cool moment :3

[@lemntrees]

i think not enough people point out that using they/them pronouns on someone who you know doesnt use they/them pronouns is in fact misgendering and im glad you mentioned that

[@WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening]

Noah saying things and immediately regretting it and trying to explain himself afterwards in the first few minutes 😂

[@lonelyking8453]

13:40 i absolutely hate when i get sick because even though im biologically a female and ive never been on t i have a rather deep voice and when i get sick it forces my voice to go higher and it makes me sound more like a girl.

[@OhFrogTV]

When I was growing up (5-9), I knew I was a boy, but I didn't necessarily think I was born in the wrong body just because nothing had really developed yet and the most dysphoria I got was from being treated as a girl because I knew I wasn't one I just didn't know how to describe it when I was that young. But now, I feel more body related dysphoria because of puberty and it is really tough and I do understand the concept of being born in the wrong body.

[@elijahmight]

After having a really bad dysphoria day when my autism:adhd has also been bad recently this video made me remember my community, made me feel every good emotion under the sun and was exactly what I needed. Thank you Noah 👍

[@iLettercast]

Hi! Transmasc here. The wrong body vibes were 100% for me until I'd been on T and had top surgery, but now it only sometimes rears its ugly head. I think dysphoria can take a few different forms, and for people like Noah and myself, it's got a lot to do with body, but for others it's mostly social. So the people who say "it makes me comfortable and happy/no one actually feels like they're in the wrong body" probably only/primarily experience the social aspect of the dysphoria which has a lot more to do with how one is addressed and perceived by others, vs how one feels in their own body regardless of if they're being perceived. My dysphoria is probably like 90% body and 10% social, where it didn't matter if I'm being perceived or not, the chest, voice, and menstrual cycle played a huge factor in my mental and emotional wellbeing. Before I had the effects of T and top surgery, social interactions that alluded to those incorrect aspects of my body (she/her, deadname, doctor appointments, etc) would send me spiraling. Now that I've been on T for about four years and I've had top surgery and a total hysto, I am less likely to feel dysphoric both on my own -and- around others, even if someone misgenders me. And I'm a small and somewhat effeminate person, so I only pass about 80% of the time, and pretty much everyone I meet seems to clock me as some brand of trans or gay but I'm not bothered by it.

[@noratsuki42]

13:22 I'm not trans (I am genderfluid, but people just know me as a girl, even if I have told them I am genderfluid), but I do like having a more "masculine" voice when I get sick. This is unrelated, but I also like being kinda flat because that also makes me feel more masculine. Also, I feel happy when people refer to me as male online through use of he/him pronouns and words that would typically be in reference to men. okay writing this down instead of just having it in my head is making me question some things

[@Perr1n]

4:07 similarity? Thats literally a picture of you Noah

[@astroscribble]

14:28 talking from my experience, the frase "born in the wrong body" kinda perfectly describes how i feel on a daily basis. I have a panic attack every time I feel pain during periods, not for the pain itself, but because it makes me physically feel the presence of those organs that "shouldn't even be there"

[@Pseudopup]

When I was younger I def felt like I was born in the wrong body. As I've grown up, underwent HRT & booking top surgery, I've come to realise that my body isn't female because I'm not, so it's not the 'wrong body', just a wrong version of it.

[@familyphillips9721]

the end of that video was apreseated so much my dysphora is horrific right now and just thank you so much

[@jamesdenny3035]

Good luck soldier

[@Rockstar3nergy]

13:30 that’s why I’ve loved this weekend, bc we’ve had our homecoming football game (American) and our homecoming dance and I’ve screamed my heart out, I might have a few more months until T steps up to change my voice but man does screaming make me feel manly

[@clarebeforebreakfast5044]

4:26 lmao my dad is so bad at names that he just goes by ontological categories so when I was an only child I was “kid” and now I have a brother, so I’m “daughter” and he’s “son” and they used to only have one dog at a time, which he would call “dog” but now there’re two, so there’s “boy dog” and “girl dog” 😂

[@Artforest606]

literally all of your music is so amazing and I love it so so much!!! And I love watching your yt videos

[@Cyanidegreen-cx2jf]

5:06 Ikr dude ik someone his name is Jacob and everyone calls him that and it's even changed in the school and his parents call him his dead name still 😢

[@mrfunkysoup8377]

You’ve helped me come to terms with my feelings and I love your music so much!!!! I’m going to come out as trans man one day hopefully and thanks for getting to where I am now :) also I do feel like I was born in the wrong body because every day I look at myself and cry a little so yeah that’s still a thing in the trans community for me at least

[@TumblingCastle]

~hugs~ Good luck!

[@Shining_star201]

It took me so long to realize I’m non binary and have they them pronouns but when I started telling friends it made me feel so much better

[@Phoenix_Wright2]

I certainly feel like I was born in the wrong body. I don’t really understand how someone who is trans doesn’t feel that way, but everyone is different so they can do and feel as they wish. And as a “trans youth”, i’ve personally lost everything due to the fact that I am trans. My mother is constantly saying how i’m “mutilating my body” and “delusional” and “misinformed” every single goddamn weekend. It’s always “you’ll never be a real boy” and never just “i’ll love you no matter what”. Honestly I don’t even care anymore, it’s just a shame. She took away all of my friends who validated my identity and now ridicules me for being alone when she caused it. She talks shit about me when I have done nothing wrong to gain pity points from her friends. But again, I am used to this. It feels normal now. I have never been one to express many emotions which is precisely why she feels the need to invalidate me. Then of course you have idiotic politicians who want people like me dead. I’m just tired, just as I have always been.

[@Bloody_Corpses]

Best of luck stay strong 🤗

[@equestrathena]

my parents knowing im trans and just blatantly ignoring that fact, calling me she/her and my deadname while everyone else in my life calls me Kai and he/him is insane. i didnt realize how crazy it was until u said it

[@Serena_in_the_City]

when I was young I was more just jealous that girls could wear dresses and have long hair but by the time I was in my pre-teens I definitely thought I was in the wrong body. Is this something a lot of people experienced? It is right?

[@olly121]

Id love to come see the show but sadly im unable 😭. But yourmusic is amazing and your videos have been such a huge comfort for me for years now. Keep up the good content!

[@FrozEnbyWolf150]

I don't feel like I was born in the wrong body, and I'm saying this as a trans person with a diagnosis of gender dysphoria, body image issues, and a history of self-neglect. In spite of these issues, this is my body, and the way it interacts with my mind is precisely what makes me trans. It's mine to change however I see fit, and to express how I feel on the inside. I personally consider the "wrong body" explanation to be oversimplified. It can be an expedient way to communicate my experiences to someone unfamiliar with trans people, but it leaves out a lot of important nuance.

[@HazelGamezAlot]

15:07, I felt so appreciated for the first time in awhile! I am non-binary (Or demi-girl, still figuring it out) and 11 years old as of now. So thankful to grow up in this generation where more and more people are supportive of trans youth and can help guide us through the rough patches. So far, I havent met to many transphobic people (knock on wood) :)

[@dwentlandt1022]

I am 50 and yes even today I feel like I was borne in the wrong body. Felt like this at 4 and still so.

[@OllieTheMoop]

I always heard such bad things about first trans haircuts and i was so scared going for mine but when i got it and learnt to style it i absolutely love my hair now

[@LeoOliver-s5m]

I feel like I was born with certain attributes of my body being wrong, but not necessarily in the wrong body as a whole. My body is still my body and I wouldn't wish to be born in a random man's body instead, but I wish my body had naturally developed as male instead of me having to undergo HRT treatment for it.

[@emmett_the_5th]

13:05 If anyone is curious Leviticus37: 4 doesn't exists as there are only 27 chapters of Leviticus, but maybe there's 10 hidden chapters of Leviticus that's been lost to history and maybe Leviticus37:4 does say "Change your goddamn pronouns"

[@galacticbreadboi9796]

i'm doing my first t shot today!!!!! (just wanted to share im really excited)

[@Ellaaa_235]

hope it goes well my guy! :]

[@galacticbreadboi9796]

@@Ellaaa_235 ty! it went well :)

[@YuTopian]

About the wrong body debate; When I came out (4 years ago now) I described myself as 'in the wrong body' and my brother, who is cis but dealing with a chronic illness, said: 'me too'. I am very privileged to be ablebodied and (mostly) healthy. All the experiences and struggles that I had to go through being trans honestly just made me a better person if anything. So now I don't think I was born in the wrong body anymore, but I understand and sympathize with people who still relate to this statement. I hope it gets easier for you, and if it doesn't, I hope that you can find ways to live your best life regardless.

[@Natalia-px7pe]

10:07 I exploded

[@RoxiefireYT]

14:57 I specifically describe the feeling as being born in the wrong body especially to explain it to people who don't understand such as cis online friends

[@robinsiegel]

Hi im a 15 year old trans boy and i feel like i was definitely born in the wrong body. The word "wrong" is accurate to describe the whole experience of being in a female body, and a boy.

[@feelmacrackingam1ng531]

I really do feel bad for you and all the people in the comments.

[@robinsiegel]

@@feelmacrackingam1ng531 you should but is this a transphobic comment?

[@feelmacrackingam1ng531]

If it is why would you care. It’s Literally a phobia. Are u gonna be mad at my for having a phobia of spiders?

[@UserIpad]

I remember the first noahfinnce video i watched 😂 i was confused until i heard him complain he still got awful periods and i started crying laughing and I fell off my bed😂😂😂 i immediately followed 😂

[@A_Guy_Named_Jeronimo]

My first trans guy haircut was a karen cut from my mum, that got me bullied Then I got it cut at a hairdresser/barber (unisex), it cost me £25, it got me gendered correctly sonetimes, but it looked awful Then I got a crew cut, and my mum never let me go to the barbers alone again (my dad is always there now). She didnt like my crew cut. She said it looked like I was getting over chemotherapy-

[@Gremlin_Boi_]

15:00 i would describe how i feel about it rn as born in the wrong body but everyone i believe have different experiences

[@quentinstayskull2464]

I'm an american and one time I told my brother his gf had gone to the toilet. He was like "OMG that's so gross don't say that!" so that's why we don't say that lol 😅

[@waytoobiased]

euphemisms pog

[@A_Guy_Named_Jeronimo]

As a trans man, i can say that i often describe myself as feeling like i was born in the wrong body. Because it does actually feel like that

[@Xx_notbluejay_xX]

my first trans haircut made me look like an emo karen 😭😭😭

[@Lorenzoig]

7:11 The term "restroom" is primarily used in North America, particularly in the United States. It's a euphemistic term for what is commonly known as a "bathroom" or "toilet" in other parts of the world. The term "restroom" likely originated from the idea that it's a place where people can take a break, rest, or have some privacy. It's a more polite or discreet way to refer to a facility where people can use the toilet or wash up without explicitly mentioning those functions. Different regions and cultures may have their own preferred terms for the same facilities.

[@ThatFlamingFroggo]

I be a 32 yr old trans-guy, recovering from a recent top surgery, yes. And now more than ever, I can say....this body I got ain't so bad. ( Even though it feels like I tangled with a grizzly) For a while, I felt as if the body I had didn't feel mine, or right, for my guy/mascness, but. Likely a mix of how society views masc folks, vs folks with breasts and how that oozed into my own perception. Though, it mostly had to do with my chest. It's still wierd to look down, and see them gone, but it's a good weird. Farewell chesticles, I knew thee for two decades, and while you weren't so bad, it is your time to be gone. I feel like when Dysphoria hits less, and Euphoria is at its height, the idea that the body one has isn't the right one, diminishes.

[@ticcytac]

I’ve been listening to all of your music on repeat 🔁 you’ve help me come to terms with my identity you are my fav KZbin channel and music artist

[@theplot1816]

I definitely frequently feel like I was born in the wrong body and for me it’s probably more prevalent cause I havn’t been able to transition at all but I definitely feel that way

[@KB_Espy2009]

12:04 I had that haircut when I was in my mid- to late-teens back in the 80s. 😅 Before the ‘90s skate punks made it popular. 😂

[@Sleepghost681]

14:51 absolutely! 100% I’ve used that so much to explain being transgender

[@finnisqueer]

10:02 C'mon lads, I'm sure if we put up enough missing posters we'll find Noah's ass!

[@divingboardz]

My first gender affirming haircut was cutting my own hair a little too short bc i was way too scared to go to a hair stylist

[@300DBenz]

9:32 As a cis/bi guy....who is also an 🍑 man, I admit I find it to be a positive attribute!

[@alexdavies8393]

I wasn't born in the wrong body, I wasn't born wrong, I'm just a bit different. That's how I see myself but idc how other trans peeps wanna describe themselves or their experience. There isnt one trans experience, everyone and every journey is different.

[@willowwinkle]

i grew up squarely in the "born in the wrong body" daytime talk show era. Describing it that way made sense to a lot of people because it's easy and quickly illustrates how the body and mind can be in two different forms... that said, I'm kinda glad it's dying out. "Wrong" is a heavy word. Some females are born with bodies that are more male and vice versa and they can change their bodies to match how they feel. Nothing "Wrong" about that.

[@fandomlover73]

The new music video slaps :)

[@nixypixie666]

11:46 My first trans haircut was the undershaved side-swept thin greasy looking "guys I promise I'm cis, I'm just gay" haircut

[@Magnet_exe]

I'm in love with the ✨✊✨ forever

[@Valentino28]

As a Demi boy who is just getting comfortable with myself Noah is literally my comfort person

[@jojo9977]

Dude is a walking greenscreen. Making the full transgender to translucent journey.

[@sierraparsons9114]

​@AlexUTTP876he

[@sageshamsey]

the way when you said "what are the rules" i instantly thought of that clip from IASIP... and then you played it

[@WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening]

2:14 I actually started watching your videos as a “cis girl”, and I kind of got really obsessed with trans content in general. Yeah, I’m a trans guy now. Hi.

[@hello_im_nothing]

Same. Started as a bi girl. Now I’m a bi guy.

[@MilesSulli]

Same started as a cis lesbian, now I'm a trans guy

[@rhymerlegend2717]

@@hello_im_nothingyou’re still a bi girl

[@LunarEcho-rt9jm]

I used to think that i was “born in the wrong body” but honestly that was a pretty dangerous mindset considering the fact that i’m non binary and the body that i would have considered the “right body” doesn’t really exist. I definitely wouldn’t say that anymore but i don’t get upset if anyone describes their experience like that because it can feel like that sometimes. (I also understand why lots of people want to move away from that explanation - i describe it more like when i was born people had the wrong expectations for me)

[@liamregjun]

i have a question for people on Testosterone: so I spoke to my therapist abt starting T and she said if im 110% sure, then we can talk abt starting it in half a year (our next appointment). We talked about the effects it will have and what will happen, etc. And she talked about hair loss and fast hair growth. And I'm really uncomfortable with hair in general (that's not on my head-) and insecure abt losing it, like my hair is everything to me-. Can you start with small doses, that will change your voice and face features ? Or does even a smaller dose (if that's a thing) cause hair growth/loss ?

[@xaviernash2894]

So, male pattern baldness usually occurs after a looong time on T, most cis men dont start going bald until (at the earliest) their mid 20s. As for going on T you likely wont see hair loss until the 5+ year mark. As for bodily hair growth, youll notice some patches of thick hair probably after around a year, but this will spread very very slowly aswell. If you wanted to 'pass' you could go on T for a year and then come off it, changes like a deep voice and thickening of the cartilidge in your nose, are permanent. These are just some averages based on what ive seen and my own experience as a trans man so it could be different for you. Have a look at the men in your own family and see how long after puberty they noticed they were going bald. Ive been on T 5 years and have a full head of hair still, as for the body hair i keep it trimmed 😂.

[@WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening]

14:19 I describe it more like my body, but with significant changes made to it to the point where it is no longer my body. Kind of like plastic surgery gone wrong, but it was puberty 🫤