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[@agu5t7]

I don't think the transphobes will ever be okay tbh💀

[@RobyntheRobin]

I agree, thansphobes will never be ok. Also idk why but I always find that skull emoji really funny when I see it.

[@spoonikle]

I agree. Not possible to deny a humans right to exist and be “okay” at the same time.

[@ramenbomberdeluxe4958]

Honestly, im also sensing some sexism in there too. People go on and on about how "wahmen weak, cant defeat men in sports, manly manz and muh bio advantagez", completely going against any common sense and ACTUAL science. Hey transphobes, and sexists while we're at it, have you stopped to consider that A: Bio males arent these monolithic olympian athletic Gods that will always outclass women regardless of training on either or both parties part? B: Women are able to be pretty damn competent and strong without being trans or on steroids? God, I'm so sick of this sports debate.

[@koa3244]

Fr 💀

[@end3r_phant0m]

Exactly how are Transphobes ok

[@basketchaos]

“Be transphobic. It’s a fetish.” had me thinking they meant transphobia is a fetish 😭😂

[@somebodyspetbug]

Not me thinking the same thing lmaoo✋😭

[@wind6339]

I thought so too lol

[@justjade256]

SAME

[@thatdumbass9856]

​@@somebodyspetbug same lol

[@sub_rapier]

well considering with the first post being about a transphobe looking for literal po*n of trans women they might are lol

[@enbyarchmage]

As a History undergrad, i can say that the "dig your bones" is even more pointless than it sounds. First, if the existence of trans people is well-known 1000+ years from now, archeologists will bring up the possibility that someone may be trans (or at least gnc) if the "male skeleton" is found alongside feminine things, for instance. Also, If there is still documentation on that person's life, and historians manage to track it and translate it, scholars would learn that she's trans. So yeah, the transphobes will not be right even in a thousand years.

[@ShizzyMcCreepii]

+ the fact that we tell skeletons apart via bone density. on testosterone your bone density increases. on estrogyn for a prolonged time, or just not going through male puberty decreases bone density. they wouldn’t even know the person was trans.

[@FennekinBraixen]

@@ShizzyMcCreepii Now I'm curious tho. Like, as far as I know you have to take testosterone/estrogyn for years and I kinda always thought you would have to take it for the rest of your life. And if that is so, wouldnt that mean the density would go back to it's original state if someone didnt take harmones for a while? Or does that simply not happen after you die? Or maybe I'm completly wrong to begin with but now I'm really curious /gen

[@Meeko4eve39]

Plus, if I'm not mistaken because we don't bury our dead the way that people did thousand years ago our dead bodies don't decompose the same way anymore. So you need to factor that in. And also... Cremation is a thing??? So there goes your skeleton-based argument... Literally burst into flames^^

[@juniperfox1064]

@@FennekinBraixen Generally when people die it wouldnt make a difference. idk how the changes happen if you stop HRT while you are alive, but if you had those changes and were still on hormones when you die…i dont think your hormones would be doing anything cause youre dead. like your body isnt generating anything new youre just decomposing.

[@ShizzyMcCreepii]

@@FennekinBraixen well, when you die everything in your body freezes. So no, nothing happens after you pass. As for your first question, most binary trans people take hormones for the rest of their life, however not always. Bone density is semi permanent. Once you gain, it won’t necessarily decrease to original size. However, it does definitely decrease with estrogyn, which induces a female puberty. After awhile, your ‘puberty’ will finish and if you stop taking estrogyn and then take, say, T in stornger doses again (since trans people use larger doses to make up for lack), you will once again inscrease. It’s about your body thinking its in puberty. its the same way the other way around, howver most trans people also block their opposite hormone. It hasn’t really been studied all that much, since trans people often dont have that much visibility. from what i’ve read its also far more prominent in trans mascs and less so trans femmes though, like a said, a decrease has been found. its just not as jurastic as the inscrease in density.

[@basementdwellercosplay]

As someone going into historical studies and anthropology, the studies where you dig up remains to study a culture, I really don't care if future anthropologist looks at my skeleton and says yeah that's a lady. Okay, I'm dead, most I could do is haunt them. But likely the future historians could easily look into my life and see I was trans... so

[@hi.im.sophie]

agreed also good luck in your studies!

[@existenze69]

I don’t care -I’m being cremated 🔥…lol Also, yes, good look with your studies!! 🤚🏻

[@enbyarchmage]

I commented a very similar thing on this same video a while ago, but you were able to express that idea better then me. It's only fair to press F and pay respects. F

[@existenze69]

@@enbyarchmage Thank you. To be fair, I’m certain many, many people thought about it before we did ☺️ I mean, with billions of people about to die in the coming years -what insane archeologist would be crazy enough to start digging up graves??? Noah is right, transphobes are truly bat***t crazy.

[@j0nni235]

@Fucking grass Literally doing both of y'all's studies. Majoring in anthropology, minoring in linguistics lol. I friggin love linguistics but the only university in my state has it only as a minor, so I'm majoring in anthro to compliment it. Also currently doing a semester-long project in my anthropology class about trans healthcare in my university.

[@Aspensauce64]

The only “super straight” guy i know has been single their entire life. Your honour, I rest my case

[@keyboarddancers7751]

Nobody wants to have kids anymore!

[@sub_rapier]

Who would have thought that making your entire identity about hating people isnt attractive ??? /s

[@cuddlesthefoxdeer]

this reminds me (it's a liiiittle bit off topic but it's still about ''super straights'') a little while ago i thought about the way one of my friends rejected me. after a while i figured out he was a ''super straight''. because i remember him saying ''i don't really like... you know... i just like GIRLS who were, well... GIRLS since they were born'' i remember my guy saying he doesn't want to have kids so infertility shouldn't be the issue. and you can still have nearly identical genitilia with surgery so there'd be not a single reason despite not wanting to ''deal with'' a trans partner to keep things short: finding out when somebody is ''super straight'' is a really shitty experience that i do not wish on anybody, anyone can be a ''super straight'' even those you hold close to you and you thought you could always count on.

[@iandaughdrill5889]

I have a friend who used to say he was super straight, until I told him that it was just made up to hurt trans people. He's pretty neutral on the issue, and I told him it's fine to not want to date trans people, especially since he wants kids. He stopped saying he was super straight because he doesn't want to hurt people.

[@Kays_Cottagee]

my aunt said it best "if a trans woman is in a bathroom with a little girl the worse they are gonna do is help with the kids makup"

[@Avsaaa]

That’s sweet😊

[@gone_mad-tryagainlater]

I think (as a trans woman) the worst thing a trans woman could do in a bathroom with a little girl is do a murder, because remember: anyone could be a murderer

[@cvntyspicedlatte]

Omg I love that 🥺

[@vioandshadowanddamienwytte]

I love that smmm 🥺

[@Machinte]

If having blue hair makes you trans, then Hatsune Miku is a trans girl. I love this headcannon.

[@qwertys7gp]

MY THOUGHTS!!! Maybe Mikuo could be but idk

[@jemmadobbygriffin3127]

not exactly a related topic but why do we call our private parts private and then dress according to them? like if they are truly private then someone not knowing what you have in your pants regardless of gender should be the ultimate goal right? to keep our privates private? just something my ADHD brain has latched itself onto 😅

[@growingsucks456]

I’m a fan of everything u just said👏🏻

[@pescadobaby]

i like where your head's at

[@handlecannotbeblank]

Ultimate gender stealth

[@Amberxxbbunni]

Maybe bc people are allowed to see yours, but probably have bc of the we dress

[@aceofspades3257]

I- Oh god, now my ADHD brain has latched on to it, WHAT HAVE YOU DONE

[@matheohno]

I’m trans, a trans man, my dad supports my transition but is transphobic against Trans Women 🤦‍♂️🙄, because he thinks they are predators. My brother also only supports Trans Men, and only supports my transition because he wants to take my testosterone 🤦‍♂️, and my Mom is fully supporting me, but she knows some people that transitioned mtf and then regretted it so she is scared I will regret my transition she also thinks I’m autistic which I probably am but I’m still Trans so I won’t regret it cause I know I’m a boy since I’m 4 years old

[@rhymerlegend2717]

You’re still a girl. Be careful

[@renatayuuki5705]

You're lucky they support you

[@matheohno]

@@renatayuuki5705 yeah I am, but my brother doesn’t respect me and only supports me because he wants to take my Testo. And my parents also have difficulties using my pronouns etc,and they know for over 2 years now. But what I am happy about is my grandparents they are even more supporting and they also try to use my pronouns not like my parents and brother, so i know I’m lucky but there are still problems, like my brother being homophobic and even tho it doesn’t affect me it’s still triggering me

[@lyannaschwimmer869]

@@matheohno are you four years old? Sorry it said at the end of the paragraph that you were four, just wanted to clarify

[@matheohno]

@@lyannaschwimmer869 no I’m 17, I’ve just known since I’m 4 that I’m a boy

[@audreyelizabeth2370]

Regrettably the blue hair and pronouns meme that has been going around has turned into a vocal stim for me. I just keep going around saying "damn babe you got blue hair and pronouns?"

[@mikuenjoyerXD]

I feel like i found my people lol, my adhd makes me have silly vocal stims too XD

[@pokemonfanthings4444]

@@mikuenjoyerXD SAME

[@Doveghost]

Technically, all people with blue hair do have pronouns

[@warriorsproductions8304]

@@Doveghost True because everyone has/uses pronouns, it's just funny because usually the ones who say they don't use pronouns don't understand in the slightest that pronouns aren't some trans people thing

[@notfamedtvpersonalitydrphil]

BRO SAME ITS ONE OF MY TICS KSKAIOWOQKWKQOAPAKAO

[@Courtmaster121]

I had something similar happen on one of my videos on tiktok. I am a cisgender woman who has short hair and is into men's fashion and people have commented "I bet you wanna be called they/them too" and stupid crap like that and it's just so sad. When I was little I was just referred to as a tomboy but now I get people all of the time asking or stating that I "must be trans" or nonbinary. Why can't I just be a woman who loves men's fashion?

[@meepmoopiethe3rd]

From an archaeological perspective (as someone with an archaeology degree): There are SO MANY fucking cases across the world of someone whose skeleton (which, I might add, doesn't always clearly show sex) are buried in way or with grave goods that contradict their apparent gender. Like, a ton. I believe there was a viking burial that was reassessed recently where the person in it has always been assumed to be a man because of the way this person was buried, but after some DNA testing it was proven the person was biologically female. The conclusion, then, is this person either lived as a man for trans reasons or whatever other reason one might live as a different gender. So no, anthropologists in the future will likely NOT see the remains of a trans person and misgender them by accident. There's a good chance, by then, we'll be able to ID stuff like that better and be able to say something more like, "Chromosomally they were male, but based on literally everything else they were female." Besides all that, literally who cares? If I'm dead, who's it hurt if someone assumes I'm a woman by my bones?

[@GCVolt]

Honestly as a trans person I care more about the history of trans people not being erased than what gender people think I am by my bones one day. If they ever even find my bones.

[@meepmoopiethe3rd]

@@GCVolt I know what you're saying here, but "if they ever find my bones" sounds so ominous 🤣

[@bentelaursen297]

Egypt had female pharos. Now some are trying to identify Hatshepsut as trans. She wasn't.

[@kaylawilliam7893]

I think another thing with this is people often put our current gender roles onto dead people. For example, there was a viking burial recently found with a skeleton of a person with female DNA but they were buried to warrior grave goods. We shouldn't assume that they're Trans. I mean, maybe they are, we don't really know since I don't believe we know their name or anything like that. Especially because in that older culture women fought in battles. Granted, not as much as men but it wasn't as if it was a unusual thing by any means.

[@wacawaka1802]

You realize that’s the point right? I don’t think anyone you using the style of butiel. That’s an argument your side made up to make the other side look stupid. The whole point of this analogy is that you aren’t around to tell them your gender.

[@starlightlion8603]

The funniest thing about the skeleton nonsense is that skeletons are identified as 'male' or 'female' (or otherwise) mainly by the method and/or paraphernalia around the body, not the weird pelvis thing

[@thewitchstarot6975]

@@abcxyz2927 actually it's anatomy

[@idasvenning3892]

@@abcxyz2927 Op: "we don't usually use the pelvis to determine sex" You: "you know you'd die without your pelvis???" Bro what kinda point do you think you're making 🤡

[@idasvenning3892]

@@abcxyz2927 that makes two of us! Have fun!

[@susanleslie6178]

@@thewitchstarot6975 Not completely, or you wouldn't have archeologists labeling some skeletons as gender unknown.

[@thewitchstarot6975]

@@susanleslie6178 ... That's the whole point. Archeologists get many skeleton's sexes wrong.

[@makenzileg]

She wants to see what people are doing in the bathroom without their consent to prove that those people are spying on others in bathrooms without their consent? Sounds pretty illegal imo

[@Ribbityoutube]

I came out to my friend as non-binary, she always says to me now “hey GIRL” just to make me uncomfortable. Should I stop being friends with her? I don’t know.

[@juliagrossman6996]

If she never did it before then yes. I say hey girl to everyone regardless unless they tell me it makes them feel uncomfortable, but if she just now started doing it that’s toxic af

[@Gabs_oce]

Oh damn, I have some advice. I would talk to her about it like "Hey, you have to stop calling me girl, I am NOT a girl and I need you to respect it." And if she doesn't, honestly, you're way better without her.

[@eurosoul5593]

Calmly tell her how it makes you feel & ask her politely to stop, it’s okay if you get emotional but just be honest w her & if she disregards your feelings afterwards then thats not a very nice friend

[@nicknelson9477]

I think you should talk to her and say to her like i know you probably dont realise but it hurts me when you say hye girl, Because i dont think shes doing it on purpose and also you cant stop being friends with her over a mistake, But if shes doing it on purpose then yes maybe, but talk you her

[@Copernicus-f1t]

yea you should, if they cannot be respectful you can do better

[@Nat.Des.]

When I was 11 I came out to my mom as trans masc and she/my school signed me up for some kind of medical thing, I always called him 'my trans doc' because he talked to me about options I could get for early trans medical care and omw to all of the appointments my mom would look me in the eyes, in the wait room, and would ALWAYS tell me "you're a girl, you're my daughter, I'm doing this so that the court won't take you away" Moved away a year later, never been happier. Turns out, she was abusive and the school board/court/doctors didn't believe the mental abuse I and my sister went through :)

[@RianLyons]

The whole “They’re gonna dig you up in 1000 years and blah blah blah” thing always gets me. They’re basing this on the pelvis bone alone. As far as I’ve ever learned it’s the only bone in the human body that’s distinctly different between males and females. What about intersex people? A person could have the sex organs of one sex and the pelvis of another. In 1000 years all of the sex organs will have long ago decomposed but the pelvis will remain. Unless the body ends up somehow mummified there’s no way to know what sex a person is by their skeleton alone. Not to mention sex =/= gender so regardless of what pelvis you have there’s no telling what gender you lived as. There HAVE been skeletons uncovered which had the pelvis of a particular sex while having been buried with items associated with a gender that does not match their sex. These bodies are identified as transgender.

[@lollypopfiend]

Honestly, as someone studying archaeology, the pelvis rarely even survives to be studied, haha. In one site I helped at, the wooden coffins had collapsed under the weight of dirt and most of the remains were pretty much pulverised

[@RianLyons]

@stopIgbtpleas Here’s the attention you are so desperately seeking because mommy and daddy never loved you since you’ve wet the bed starting at age 2 and as recently as last night. Burn the flag. I mean it, burn a million flags. They’re made of fabric. The flags themselves mean nothing. You’re burning nothing. The pride and dignity that those flags represent can never be burned, can never be destroyed. All of the evil people through history who have tried to obliterate us from the planet have failed. Even Hitler (who subjected queer people to all of the same tortures and inhumanities that he put the Jewish peoples through) failed, as well. Your little homophobic temper tantrums, like yourself, are meaningless and no one cares. Mommy and daddy won’t love you any more than they presently do (or, more accurately DON’T) because you’re a bigot. Congratulations, you’ve made a massive clown out of yourself for absolutely nothing.

[@teaartist6455]

There are differences in other bones as well (specific angles, mostly) but the kicker is that there's significant overlap between "male" and "female" skeletons so a pretty big percentage of skeletons (I seem to recall around 20-30% but that may be wrong) can't be clearly sexed. Further, even if archeologists decide that it's likely a male/female skeleton...they're still occasionally wrong. Also, a lot of the time skeletons are not sexed based on their bones (specifically because that's tricky business), but based on the things they've been buried with (leading to things like the now-identified-as-afab viking warrior being assumed to be male for a long time).

[@coralovesnature]

This is not related to the video, but I recently played Noah’s music for my 64 year old dad and he loved it. My dad is not formally diagnosed with ADHD, but him & my whole family are pretty certain he has it. I did not give him any background info on Noah before playing the songs, and when I played Underachiever, he said that he could really relate to it as someone who didn’t do well in school and struggles to focus. I then told him how Noah has ADHD and he thought that was pretty cool. He also said Noah “sounds like a really normal guy who is standing up for people who are a little different.” My dad doesn’t normally get so into musicians I play for him compared to how interested he seemed in Noah and his message, so I just wanted to share. It made me happy!

[@taiyouscandalous1175]

Nice!

[@yourgay1822]

Cool dad approvel here good sir

[@_kismet_]

Holy crap I love the humor combined with the editing, lmao.

[@kayladraper8073]

I’m a cis woman but I love watching these videos to educate myself about the trans experience. It never fails to baffle me why so many people hyperfocus on trans people’s bathroom usage. These people need a hobby. Someone’s gotta pee. Leave them alone. Quite frankly I think it’s way more predatory and “scary” to be so focused on what toilet someone is using.

[@annika6592]

same!

[@bone-thief]

Hey! I'm a trans man like Noah, if you have any questions and want to chat feel free to ask away. Btw my youtube is super messed up right now so if you comment please like this comment so it pops up and I can reply, tags for some reason don't notify me but likes do, Idk why or how to fix it

[@monicadaniels784]

Thank you!

[@monarch_0v2]

We need more people like you

[@ng38477]

You're a handmaiden waiving away the concerns of other women in order gain male validation. Truly pathetic.

[@secondhand_reject14]

Damn. Don't we just love transphobes. Also. Everytime I see Arielle Scarcella brought up, I'm so ashamed I used to follow her. I'm a lesbian, more masculine, short hair. And i have had blue hair lol. And guess what. I'm not trans! Just because you present yourself a certain way, doesn't mean anything! These people are so fucked up its kinda funny. SMH.

[@docopoper]

7:54 This response had me laughing because I read it as transphobia being a fetish.

[@the-entity]

me too💀

[@FrozEnbyWolf150]

That's actually closer to the truth too, because a lot of transphobes fetishize trans people. That's how you end up with chasers.

[@ladyscribbles6134]

Wait that’s not what it was saying? Wow, I can’t read at all lmao

[@almightykellus2585]

Because it was censored in the thumbnail, I initially read it as "Be transphobic. It's a fish." and was thoroughly confused.

[@ladyscribbles6134]

@@almightykellus2585 😂

[@kallycat7481]

"Having blue hair doesn't make him trans " Me who's trans and just dyed my hair blue:✨💅I'm slaying enough to piss people off

[@Thecuxspm]

About the skeleton one: Archeologists usually look at the stuff the body was burried with to see if the person was male or female. So, if a trans woman is descoverd by an archeologist the archiologist will say she is woman. The bone argument is therefore wrong and stupid.

[@mammoneymelon]

yeah,, also do they think EVERYONE gets buried?? like,, cremations are really common lol

[@paadoxal]

yeah also cremations and so many people now have headstones

[@wacawaka1802]

Until they test and then they will change it. :T so no, this point is stupid

[@properantagonist]

@@wacawaka1802 in the words of miniminuteman, context really matters in archeology. Scientists will look at the entire context of the person's burial, any additional information we might have about their life and death, etc. Even if we are able to tell the sex of the remains, the most important part is going to be the context. And there are many many cases in which apparent male/female remains are found in the context that suggests the opposite gender.

[@wacawaka1802]

@@properantagonist how? The separation happened not that long ago so unless we are digging up murders i don’t see how we would say that. Also with trans people the difference is the brain. Which has long since rotted away

[@WhatsInANameArts]

3:20 fun fact, the only legit thing that can even distinguish in a skeleton between biological men and biological women is the angle of your pelvis. another fun fact, the standards for determining a skeleton's sex is based on the population's average which means that most people's skeleton's don't fall in line with the standards for either categories. another fun fact, archeologists don't use skeleton measurements to determine the skeleton's gender unless there are no personal belongings buried with the body and also that many archeologists recognize that there are more genders than male and female and that some people are trans.

[@sanriol0ver223]

My biology teacher supports trans students and asked us all our pronouns on the first day of school. She’s been in biology probably longer than most turfs have been over 18.

[@keyboarddancers7751]

Check your spelling. People are not patches of grass!🤣

[@losteden6390]

Then your teacher is part of the problem

[@quisait5794]

@@losteden6390 Acceptance and respect is an issue, you’ve heard it here first

[@lMlNY0URWALL]

Yasss they slay

[@fa1ryf0x3s]

Give me your biology teacher.

[@ahyesbsoisosman2919]

The transphobes were never okay. Also I'm so excited for the new song

[@wacawaka1802]

Transphobia is just the new heiratic

[@montee3766]

I can't belive you would say that about people with phobias. I suppose you think people with arachnophobia are downright hilarious.

[@Doleryn]

Oh my Gods ! The toilets one is hilarious. So, I'm AFAB Non-Binary Woman (I still identify as a Woman to some extent) and so, I still use the Women's bathroom. I was on Twitter (Always this place) talking about how Public Women's Bathroom are filthy af and other Women ("Real Women" 🤣) were trying to correct me, being like "You're not talking about Women's bathroom, it's not possible, they can't be dirty, because Women are perfect, Men are the disgusting ones" and there was this one person that was asking me which bathroom I was using and stuff and thought that I was using both, switching back and forth depending on how I was feeling that day or something like that, it was hilarious. From the moment you have pronouns in your bio or your name, they always assume that you're born Male and the way they say that Trans people transition because of misogyny, I can say that those people who are obsessed with Trans people saying how they are all Male Predators, are just misandrists, at this point.

[@FrozEnbyWolf150]

It's also a textbook case of DARVO, given that trans women are disproportionately more likely to be assaulted when using public bathrooms. Meaning it's actually the transphobes who are creeping on people in restrooms, and reacting violently whenever they see someone they think doesn't belong. Very often transphobes will mistake cis people for being trans, and do the same to them.

[@Itri_Vega]

I'm a trans man. I used the women's bathroom until I got a binder and knew I would start testosterone because I had safety concerns regarding the cis men on the men's toilet. Now I mainly use the unisex toilet at work and the men's toilet anywhere else because I am a man and increasingly look and sound like one, and know I would make women far more uncomfortable than a trans woman ever possibly could.

[@Milk-hj5ke]

Ive started using "Of course YOU have hair and pronouns" to transphobes and i love it

[@montee3766]

what does that even mean?

[@ashbox7544]

I had a really good conversation the other day with a senior in my drama class about queer things and straight things, this whole conversation stared because as we were funneling into the auditorium there was this very nice she/they asking everyone their names and pronouns and the senior was asking about they/them pronouns. He came to sit next to me after that and asked if I had any preferred pronouns I told him I do (they/he but primarily they/them), then for the next 15-20ish minutes we were laughing at transphobes and homophobes as well as "super straights". This was honestly one of my favorite experiences explaining pride and other queer things to a cis-het man

[@muunwulf4706]

I actually encountered a super straight in the wild recently, and the thing that they opened with (after declaring their super straightness) was, and I quote: we know that there are not multiple genders. Multiple, as defined by the Merriam Webster Dictionary: consisting of, including, or involving more than one

[@FennekinBraixen]

At first I wanted to say "I'm sorry that happened" and to debunk their statement but now I'm just astouned at the sheer stupidity of super straigts/transphobes

[@BooklikesBFDI]

I remember when I was little(like 1st or 2nd grade) my mom said "Some woman are born in men's body's and some men are born in woman's body's." and I just said "Okay!" I left to go play with my toys or smthn. Learned transphobia.

[@ecosysteem]

tw// transphobia (specifically towards nonbinary people) recently someone asked what gender my friend was "just because im concerned" after telling him i was going to meet a friend and when i said they were nonbinary he pushed me to explain what it meant and proceeded to say he was just trying to understand and kept asking whether they were a boy or a girl and what genitals they had and i just kept repeating that they were neither and that their genitals were none of his business, a lady joined in to question me and a dude was just looking at me and it really felt like an attack.. needless to say i didnt come out as nonbinary to these people x

[@LeoTheVampire]

I'm so sorry this happened to you :/ especially non-binary people can have it hard because people are so used to the binary system, which is awful. When I came out as genderfluid (I'm an afab transmasc, actually) my family also didn't understand, and it was wildly unnoticed by my friends. Even though I'm not fluid I now understand how people feel in situations like that. I hope you have a good day! You deserve it.

[@ecosysteem]

@@LeoTheVampirethanks!! i avoided that person afterwards and had a real good time!!

[@manifestationsofasort]

Transphobes will really be like "being in a bathroom with a trans person makes me uncomfortable :(" and then proceed to interrogate trans people about their (or someone else's) genitals 💀

[@lucad9667]

@@LeoTheVampire Maybe we are so used to the binary system because...there is only the the binary system and non-binary is a fake thing to seek attention? Ever thought about that that?

[@LeoTheVampire]

@@lucad9667 you have the gay picrew profile pic but behave like a transphobe? are you like 12? What in nature is binary? There is rarely any binary system in nature. Not to mention that non-binary people have existed for centuries in history. In hawaiian culture, in african and black-american culture (also called 2-spirit). You can very easily find evidence for non-binary people existing.

[@beatrizafonsecacarvalho7943]

im majoring in biology and im nonbinary 😎 deal w it transphobes

[@ladivaeu7795]

Wonderful, then you will learn what is a male and what is female body parts.

[@beatrizafonsecacarvalho7943]

@@ladivaeu7795 yeah! and im learning too that our bodies are very complex and that a body part is not going to determine gender, and sonetimes, even sex, once we have a bunch of different hormones and intersex people exist! anyway, you should know... gender and biological sex are not the same thing. and honestly whats the point of being rude with the trans comunity for free?

[@namelesswolf2625]

ayy same here. ironically the biggest issue producing transphobes out there is lack of education, misinformation, or sometimes straight up science denial.

[@NathanIsTired]

I am a medicine student and ftm! So, same!

[@montee3766]

If you're in an American college then they'll just reinforce your beliefs and won't teach you shit. Let's hope you at least learn something true.

[@ecosysteem]

i panic every time i have to pick a toilet and people out here trying to make it seem like im going into the women's toilet to make them uncomfortable....

[@luca_diaz]

I love your pfp

[@ecosysteem]

@@luca_diaz hhehe thanks

[@luca_diaz]

@@ecosysteem :)

[@DarkArtifice23]

having blue hair isn't what makes me trans it just means I have cooler hair than you

[@denisehansberry7793]

I mean, it’s really easy to be cooler than transphobes

[@cloudysheep5844]

Me: *tries to explain to my parents I'm trans* My parents: "YOU DON'T HAVE TO FOLLOW EVERY TREND YOU KNOW, STOP LOOKING FOR ATTENTION, YOU'RE JUST CONFUSED."

[@scxxt3r_]

I don’t understand parents who believe their child is “following a trend” when they come out as trans

[@jbird4478]

@@scxxt3r_ Because many kids are so it is a logical concern to have as a parent.

[@cloudysheep5844]

@@scxxt3r_ Yeah, ikr, like WHY just WHY

[@cloudysheep5844]

@Fucking grass Happy for you!

[@scxxt3r_]

@@cloudysheep5844 FR LIKE what is their thought process?

[@BL00DY_IC3CR3AM1]

I'm a trans guy and I made a bracelet for the trans flag and my parents haven't noticed. It's been like 5 months lol

[@lucyxg22]

I’m so excited to for La La La to come out omg it sounds so good, honestly can’t wait to see you on Tuesday :)) thanks for making awesome videos and songs Noah 🫶

[@minabrunkhorst9954]

I really hate the argument "1000 years ppl are going to misgender you." In a 1000 years either we'll probably have cooler tech or we will be dead

[@mfbfreak]

'Sir, do you have any undeclared trans-identified offspring with you' is something only a TSA Security officer would say :D

[@viviannn2307]

Found your channel about a year ago, thought you were cool, forgot about it, came back a few weeks ago and have been binging your amazing content ❤️ also I thought I was trans, I’ve seen myself as a guy sun consciously ever since I was little, but watching your videos helped me realize I’m actually genserfluid, Ty

[@lhproductions61]

My nephew just came out as trans and woah the transphobia from people in his own family. Father refuses to use his new pronouns. Awful awful this kid has never been anything close to feminine and for his dad to be like that is sickening. Being part of changing his room at his moms watching how happy he getting new clothes and bedroom stuff. Like you said idk how you can watch someone be happy like that and deny it.

[@shylee_the_emo]

Right before this video I got an ad that said “Alejo was gay. He was found dead in Argentina. Stabbed 42 times” and the worst part was it was unskippable

[@Ijackofftoerectmonkeys]

I saw something similar that's kinda weird lol

[@JustThatOne__Person__]

I don’t think the transphobes are ever okay

[@wacawaka1802]

Transphobe is basically just your version of hieratic.

[@blakksy]

@@wacawaka1802 how about stop commenting EVERYWHERE for attention, go get some bitches

[@NathanIsTired]

@stopIgbtpleas Ok bruv, burn it, but be careful, you might burn yourself

[@ari81420]

my best friend just came out as trans today and i’m so happy for him 🖤

[@kymaniplayz104]

Alright that's it, I'm calling transphobes by the wrong Pronouns.

[@sp00k1tty]

its more common to see queer youth because theres more information/language available to help them explain their experiences. not bc its trendy. smfh

[@Mental_Memer]

A thousand years after a trans woman dies they wont be like omg this is a man they will be like FUCK YEAH A SKELETON I love this job

[@sketchiscribblr8285]

im just gonna say, you dont even have to be a trans woman for some jackass to look at your bones and decide 'yeah this is a man'. its believed that they found Amelia Earheart's bones like 80 years ago on the island of Nikumaroro. they dismissed it at first as being a man's bones but by actually examining photographs of her and the bones and what have you, they have concluded now that those bones were female and theres a very high possibility that it was her. what I've never understood about that argument, tho, why should I care? if theyre far enough in the future that digging my dead ass up is archeology and not straight up graverobbing, one- Im dead what do I care? two- all theyre gonna find of me is a headstone next to my dad. I'm gonna be cremated and have a tree planted on my ashes somewhere.

[@punkithecat]

I also plan to have my ashes buried and become a tree and just have a stone or something. Actually I love the idea of having those kinds of cementaries in the future, just a bunch of trees with names.

[@sketchiscribblr8285]

@@punkithecat the only issue I really see with the idea is that sometimes trees just dont make it. They arent the best grave markers, but it would be cool to see

[@ryla8195]

I don’t even need to watch the video. The transphobic are NOT ok.

[@kaylasolomon9578]

actually, blue hair DOES make you trans! i dyed my hair blue and a few months later, the gender crisis began👍/j

[@Bree_999]

I hate the " 'trans' predator in the bathroom" saying transphobes use. Sad to say but if someone wants to hurt someone, they will do it regardless of what gender, sexuality, etc they are.

[@rhymerlegend2717]

Disregarding women and their feelings because of some confused men

[@coena9377]

So I know the phrase “Be transphobic. It’s a fetish.” is implying that being trans is a fetish but I thought for a sec it was implying that they were transphobic because being transphobic was a fetish of theirs and I was like… look I’m gonna kink shame you for this one champ.

[@DeathIsEasy2]

I am 28 and remember watching Arielles content when i was a teen. I dont remember her being so transphobic but now that i see her i cant help but feel ashamed i ever liked her. I am genderfluid and i am a lesbian. By now, I am so used to old lesbos with bad haircuts have shitty takes about my sexuality and gender, its basically the norm. "Lesbian" spaces are so rare because terfs are also the new norm. Its all so sad.

[@fostersfaunaandflora]

I feel the exact same as a 27 year old agender lesbian.

[@dollsie_lemon]

Bro I keep getting a transphobic ad before your vids, AND ONLY YOUR VIDS-

[@Ijackofftoerectmonkeys]

Like what are they saying

[@BJCMXY]

This is why my subscribed list has been adding people like Noah lately. They have an awesome sense of humor and the delightful personality that makes things better. As for that sibling thing... I'd be fine if my sister was happy as it would mean she wouldn't call me up as an unlicensed therapist for whatever she's gotten herself into because she's impulsive. Luckily, growing up with our mother taught me to set boundaries, on what I can do for others.

[@Fleur_3032]

So excited for La La La to come out!! it sounds so good from the clip we got to hear!!!

[@user-bt9wj1fb5k]

I have blue hair and my trans friends call me blue hair with pronouns and we confuse all the straights

[@riotix1196]

trans women are women trans women are not cis women how do people not get this fr

[@jay_vali]

I had a former friend once say to me: "Why do you care about how mtf trans people are treated. Just be happy that you as an ftm are accepted in society." I didn't k ow what to say because firdt of all transphobia is wrong so I'll always speak up about it, no matter if it's against me or other people and she really thinks being fetishized by many cis straight women is "being accepted in society"? Both ways are disgusting. And it's false that ftm don't get any hate anyways either.

[@marzbar479]

hey Noah, i would like to say thank you so much for making videos. i just found out that one of my kittens passed away and was finding it very difficult to deal with and laughing at transphobes was somehow exactly what i needed to keep my mind off of it and the way you react to them always makes me smile :)

[@VDotBlank]

My question is why would they be digging up my skeleton 🤨

[@aliengamer6668]

My question is why would I even care. I'm a skeleton

[@VDotBlank]

@@aliengamer6668 exactly

[@Snekysnitch]

FR

[@juniperfox1064]

people really dont get how uncomfortable it is for YOU as a gnc looking person to have people react to you in the bathroom. what bathroom do nonbinary people use? if the only options are multiperson mens and womens rooms, its a lose lose for me! i’m risking confrontation either way.

[@teeth7155]

I might be going on hormone blockers! :) I know this doesn’t have to do with the video but I’m really excited about it! Edit: I got hormone blockers!! The procedure was great and the hormone blockers are going to be really important to my transition. :)

[@teeth7155]

@@howdyyall4335 yeah! I’m really excited. Expect for blood work, that sucks

[@somebodyspetbug]

That's great! Good luck 🤗🤗

[@somebodyspetbug]

@Stop Igbt ?

[@teeth7155]

@Stop Igbt so great news, your entire channel is graphic violence and hate speech. Which is against KZbin guideline. So you will be banned.

[@luthientinuviel3883]

Of course Hatsune Miku has blue hair and pronouns 😂

[@Crystre]

About the “super straight comic” I’m pretty sure it was actually a comic about being trans comic that they recolored. They’ve done it quite a bit.

[@pmbluemoon]

More please! These are great, it's astounding how far people go just to try to prove their point and mess up completely by not even getting terminology right!

[@FrozEnbyWolf150]

I prefer to call her Arielle Varicella, because just when you think she's gone for good, she comes back years later like a bad case of shingles.

[@medotexe12]

the editing is class

[@cerberaodollam]

GNC girl here. I'm pretty aware of those physical differences. In fact, I wish there was a cure for femaleness. Being strong and not bleeding for no reason are positive things, no matter how you look at it.

[@Teckno72]

I think phobes just need to get a good hobby and leave other people alone.

[@Teckno72]

I do know that’s not going to happen, but we can all dream, right?

[@teeth7155]

Yeah. Instead of bullying trans people, just knit bro. :/

[@andrea446]

@@teeth7155 exactly

[@Teckno72]

With freedom of religion, they are supposed to be tolerant, if not loving. Maybe they should grow up.

[@tiredbaymaxripoff2818]

My girlfriend is mtf, and she actually has some bone structure problems! Half of her ribcage is male structure while the other half has the bone structure of a female. Gave her a little bit of a euphoria moment.

[@embersolace8356]

also on the bathrooms thing I am saying this as a nonbinary person who people call she her a lot (despite binder and body hair and a naturally traditional masculine body) I have panic attacks going to the bathroom. I do NOT want to make someone uncomfortable hell i don't even want to GO into public bathrooms

[@iheartalastor__]

I dont even need to watch the whole vid, the transphobes are def not okay💀💀

[@RetroVRR]

You’re my fav KZbinr rn.

[@josephcassar1340]

Today’s video was great, Noah 😊 I was both laughing and shaking my head at what the transphobes were saying. In answering your question, I don’t think they’ll ever be okay.

[@PEAK__]

ppl need to understand that, YES, there's a difference between trans women and cis women (same with trans men and cis men) but there's NO difference between trans women and WOMEN (or trans men and MEN)

[@losteden6390]

There's a massive difference ... people don't need to understand your bs ...

[@TM-yq4wk]

I'm a cis-man who puts he/him pronouns in his bio... For me it's just my way to support my trans* friend in everyday life. I once spoke with a good friend of mine who said, that it would really help them if they wouldn't be automatically outed to everyone by putting pronouns in their bio. So I an a lot of my cis friends decided to put our pronouns in our bio so we would normalize it a bit in our social cloud. Since then I've heard positive reactions but also negative ones from other trans*peoples. I'm not quite sure what to do. 😅 But on the other hand I think that it shouldn't be a problem to anyone if someone else (wether they are trans* or cis or neither) puts their pronouns in their bio. 😅 Am I wrong about this? And if so: why?

[@loner844]

the one you thought was satire originally was a pro-trans comic, I heard. but then the super straights got their grubby hands on it and ruined it.

[@ava23832]

hey noah im really excited for lalala!

[@CorrineCraig]

Nooo, I thought you meant "is being transphobic okay" as in is it acceptable I was like NOOOOO

[@margravesharky1520]

Good video thank you for brightening my day. Nice to have a laugh at these people. I hope the future where trans people are accepted and not a big deal comes true.

[@kouda_ha]

*years after a trans person gets cremated* Transphobic archaeologists: "This is a... err... this was... fuck..." (*whispers to transphobic archaeologist friend* "do we know if this was trans person or cis? and what did they identify as? Trans...woman? Ok, got it. Thanks!") *clears throat* "This is obviously a male baggie of bone powder! Very easy to tell! The shading of the dust it's... you can't pull the wool over my eyes! Everybody care about this baggie of obvious male bone powder! I'm proving a super important and interesting point! Doing GODS work, they might say! Why aren't you interested in this? I specifically become an archaeologist to do this! You're welcome!"

[@epikrawrie]

as a trans male, some kids at my school tried to touch my chest, and I kicked them and they are like "well we had to make sure ur a guy!!" I'm actually scared

[@These_shades_got_me_going]

Run… 👶👧🧒🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️🏃 RUN BEFORE THEY GET YOU!

[@beoe]

If you want to be a guy your gonna get treated like one

[@orianletruand]

you make me laugh after my high-in-transphobia day, thanks noah

[@NoahQuinn06]

AHHHH I LOVE YOU NOAH!!!

[@heyitsmakayla111]

it's really interesting how they think making another word to describe a human being that doesn't identify with the body they were born in is an issue yet someone had to make up the words man and woman. they are literally just words they don't actually mean anything we just use them to specifically describe a person, you can't get mad and say that being trans is made up when gender is literally a made up thing itself someone had to make words to explain if someone is a "man" or "women" those 2 words are made up just like every other word in the world all it does is help people describe things. it's not that deep like come on why do these people care so much what someone else identifies as it literally doesn't effect anything 😭😭 your genitals don't describe your gender they're literally just body parts that's it🤷

[@jbird4478]

We used those words to describe biological males and females. That's what it means and there is a LOT more to that than just genitals.

[@stacythememelord]

11:08 I like how the superstraight flag is the same colors as phub lol

[@Snekysnitch]

HAHAH

[@amehayami934]

I'm Asian in my culture we get cremated. No one is going to find my bones. 😈 but most likely they'll find my pictures and be like "yep that's a girl!"

[@existenze69]

Whenever I see/hear Arielle Scarcella I make myself vomit… blue hair? WTF! Coming from a lesbian sporting a 1979ish hairdo -I wouldn’t give that ‘woman’ much attention. Besides, blue hair looks supercute on so many people m/f/enby ❤❤

[@a_phoe.nix_]

I just came back from your concert best thing everrrrrr 🖤🖤🖤

[@Window._.]

Samee it was insane, loved it so much

[@itzblakey_]

if anyone ever comes at me with the “skeleton” argument, i literally just say back “i’m dead”. also if i’m buried in a cemetery why tf would you be digging up my corpse? like why would they need to do that 😂😂😂

[@shin_zouu]

I love the “Seek help”

[@WhichDoctor1]

The thing about skeletons is that any trans person who starts hormones in their late teens early twenties is going to have a skeleton that is extremely hard to distinguish from the average of their chosen gender. Because the skeleton keeps developing hormone specific traits into the mid 20s. The things usually used to determine the sex of a skeleton are brow ridges, with of pelvis and shoulders, thickness and density of long bones, hight. And as it is now some skeleton’s cannot conclusively sexed this way because natural human variation means some cis people have a mixture of those traits. So anyone who started hormonal transition early are likely to have highly ambiguous skeletons. if they were lucky enough to get on puberty blockers first there skeletons will likely be indistinguishable from their chosen sex.

[@makenzileg]

3:20 Bold of them to assume the world will still exist in 1000 years

[@Angryand5ft4]

Me: Mum, I think I'm trans My mum, who works with multiple queer and trans/nb people: Okay, do you want to talk about it? Do you wat me to call you _? Me: I-Yeah, thanks I love my mum :))

[@Echofan0808]

Hand her over, she is now my mom

[@Angryand5ft4]

@@Echofan0808 I-what- * last name vanishes * what the fuck?

[@Echofan0808]

@@Angryand5ft4 haha!!! I now have the power of a supportive parent Finally After so many years

[@Angryand5ft4]

@@Echofan0808 Oh nooo :( I hope it gets better BUT ALSO NOOOO, MY MUUUMM

[@Echofan0808]

@@Angryand5ft4 HEHEHE TAKE THAT

[@riotthetin]

I was coming to KZbin just now praying hopiing that Noah would have a new video right now let’s go 🖤

[@luca_diaz]

Hey Noah, just got back from your concert. Loved it, it was mine and my friend's first concert and we got dragged into the mosh pit. It was so fun and I got a few videos :)

[@Ruisbbg]

I'm the best friend!!

[@Nate-wc5ps]

Hey i was at that concert too :)

[@Window._.]

I went tonight too it was insane, it was so good wasn’t it

[@luca_diaz]

@@Window._. Definitely :D

[@eckoschreiber]

Love your vids, informative and entertaining!;o) And thought, that the whole "1000 yrs later being read wrong" reflects rather bad on the reader not the "object"... Like, look at these adoring roommates hugging for eternity. Recommend "Book of Queer", great series!