Transform Your English Speaking Skills: 3 Proven Strategies for Confidence

[@vildhallon4709]

Thank you for this video I'm realizing I've been stuck in a bad loop. I dislike speaking English since I'm insecure therefor I don't do it but then I end up forgetting how to pronounce words and I get even more nervous and want to speak even less. I think it's time to say no. No more of this unhelpful negative cykle. It's OK to feel nervous. It's OK to make mistakes. It's ok to not be great at everything all of the time. Life is so much more than about being perfect.

[@TheEnglishCoach]

Yesssss AMEN It’s ok 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I was in the same loop, and you basically have to say ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. I refuse to be like this anymore!!

[@danielresendi5315]

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[@sonialuciamotapinheiromarq7698]

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[@ramooyeido1772]

@@TheEnglishCoach Wow, you are too beautiful!! whomever see you shall believe that God is real and whenever I see you I am always in a dream and when we wake up we all will realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real. I dont know how can atheists believe that such a very sexy very attractive beauty queen like you came from monkeys hahaha 😄 There was a teacher whom didn't believe in the existence of God, He said to his students do you see God?, the students replied no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God, then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys do you see the teachers brain?, then the students replied no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said then the teacher is crazy he got no brain :0) ​one God for all of us, all the universe shows unity with diversity, there are different things different creatures and different materials but are all made of particles and atoms ​Even if we will assume that there will not be an atom left of you/us after death, you still have proven as a created being that there is a Creator,you proved the existence of God even if you do not believe in God. ​God initiated everything, and he redo too, and it is evident. ​this life is temporary while the next is forever eternal either in paradise or burning in Hell fire good qualities are beneficial, and bad qualities are harmful Be good dont be bad and refrain from sins and obey God and worship him alone in the way he wants to be worshiped and you will be saved from Hell fire and will enter paradise and be happy forever ​Whoever does an atom’s weight of good will see it, and whoever does an atom’s weight of evil will see it, ​or may not see it if God pardons him/her and has mercy on him/her that's if he/she try's to fix what he/she has spoiled, in the right time, When you give charity God protects you and blesses you with more good things in life or the hereafter. A teaching from the prophet Mohammed may peace and blessings of God be upon his pure great soul and upon his great honorable progeny. When you be bad to others you will hurt your own self too, likewise when you don't do what you should in the right time. Having faith in God makes you stronger and makes you have hope even when things become very difficult for you and even when you are weak. Also: ​Drinking alcoholic beverages damages the liver and the mind. Adultery is not good, because it is not true love it is neglect to the lady and to the fetus, and brings sexual diseases, ​while marriage on the other hand, ok there is sex in marriage too and thats not a bad thing, its actually good, &is for the continuation of human race, & even for the here after its good for you because if you get children the good deeds of your children are counted as good deeds for both them and you, so they are a continuation of your own good deeds after you die and cant do good deeds any more, they are a continuation of you, & sex is to enjoy too, there is sex in marriage but marriage unlike adulatory it has love in it, it is a relationship in which the woman and the fetus are cared for, & even if they don't want to continue in a long lasting relationship they would at least be agreeing regarding the baby that the baby should be cared for, especially the guy he is responsible for the child to provide for him/her and to make sure the child becomes a good human being. ​Sodomy-same sex marriage-its bad and not part of normal human nature and life &it brings many sexual diseases. Eating pork can bring cholesterol &some parasitic worms. ​Not cheating, gaining trust by being a trust worthy honest person, & having good behavior, can help bring more money to you, and is good for you in the next life too. These are some of the teachings of the prophet Mohammed Prophet Mohammed may peace and blessing be upon him and upon his successor imam Ali and his God fearing God loving progeny taught every good, & taught people to respect & love & care for each other, & for the female, & elder, & children, & to protect the innocent person regardless of what he/she believed in, ​(If one of the polytheists seeks protection from you, then grant him protection) Holly Quran, & taught to either forgive the one who wronged you, or be just & fair when retaliating, or to shock the person and enslave his/her heart by being generous &kind. & taught to not waste money and resources and not to harm the environment, and to try to have a good hygiene and to try to look good and to try to smell good and to take good care of your own self, and to enjoy what God didn't forbid, so to be grateful to God, and protect your self and others from harm, and to defend the religion the final religion which God will accept and will accept no other than it anymore. & regarding the topic: ​Who to follow after the prophet!?, who are the extension of him and his light, well, try to find out by your self, however, in summery, to give you a hint: Even if you may think that all the companions of the Messenger were always good and all of them are like mountains, despite everything that happened between them!!! ​the Prophet said: “My family-daughter Fatima the lady of light the lady of heaven and Imam Ali and their great offspring's and special perfect chosen descendants-are like the ark-/ship-of Noah, whomever embarked on it survived, and whomever did not drowned and perished-/died-. ​&We know that the son of Noah did not embark on the ark/ship of salvation, rather he climbed a mountain and drowned due to the very high tides and because he didn't follow God command. Don't be like him ​spread the light teach what's good &right its best for you and for all and better than letting the wrong things from wrong teachings or bad desires and ill mind happen, prevention is better than cure ,

[@cricketbawa1385]

​@@TheEnglishCoachma'am how I contact you regarding learning English

[@백인줄어든다]

I am studying listening skill today also. To be honesty, I don't think I have a wrong mindset. Actually I am full of confidence in english already even though my current level is only b1~b2. And I think skill and experience are connected to practice. So I think all I need to do is to keep practicing! (Speaking of my mindset, I am one hundred percent sure that I can improve my english when I keep studying and I never care about me speaking something wrong. Because I am not a native and just english learner ^^;;)

[@AjiSutarmaji]

Mindset, Skills, and experience are true important elements to be confident.

[@alex.oliveiraOZ]

I need to dedicate myself more to speaking and understanding English.

[@patriceniot1508]

Lack of confidence is an awful disability, when I have to write something in english most of the time the right word comes in my mind but I often check it out in a dictionary and I know why : I am afraid to be ridiculous. It’s stupid but …. I will try to change. Thank’s to Stefanie for helping.

[@TheEnglishCoach]

For writing, you can also check your work with different online tools like grammarly, Google docs, chatGTP etc :)

[@RahulKumar-pj7ch]

There is no secret of any kind of success you need to do hardwork with consistency then you will achieve anything whatever you want in your life believe in yourself and stay focus on your goals and you need to try spend time those people who are smarter than you then you would learn something different and amazing apart from that never ever waste your precious time god bless us

[@DanielSANCHEZ-fb9uu]

i worked in ameri can restaurant and i was so quite at all and then start getting mad about it and them start realized that i have to go home early because of that,but right now with your lesson babe i start talking more than i use to it thank you sweety

[@TheEnglishCoach]

I know the feeling… but getting mad is necessary, so you can finally say ENOUGH IS ENOUGH and realize you have the power to CHOOSE to be different and change your reality 💪🏼

[@mohamedtraore1669]

Good to see you back 😊 I missed your content a lot

[@houaria28lakhdari6]

Lack of confidence is a real problem without trusting ourselves we won't go anywhere so we have to be confident even if our english is not too good but we must improve our skills

[@monicaovelar2645]

I have been watching your videos for almost 2 months and this is just something that i want to say thank you so much, i really enjoy your videos, the way that you talk is amazing, i can understand you soo well 🥺

[@TheEnglishCoach]

Thank YOU for sharing this amazing feedback ♥️ it means a lot to me!

[@utamaputri4941]

Thank you for your explanation.

[@vxytor]

i really love your voice and microphone, me trying to channel that was a thing that helped me

[@djkorpora]

I believe you explain very well the different ways to become fluent in English and that has to be appreciated, at least from me greetings from Portugal

[@x_math]

I feel confident and I am happy just if am listening to your beautiful voice.❤

[@mohammedamer2871]

Really the 3 thing which you have explained clearly about confidence,skills,and experiences this three strategies is really very much important.

[@valeeyituchinov9336]

Hi there. I'm definitely agree with you. Because I have lack of confidence in English and when I speak in English I forget some simple words and phrases. Thanks you for sharing your ideas!

[@HAVE-r5f]

Hey, glad to see you my best online teacher

[@aysenuryazc4199]

Have you ever thought of publishing a podcast? it would be so good to practice long listening, you speak very fluently and clearly. Thanks for the videos.

[@24Alezander]

She speaks very fluently and clearly maybe because she´s American 😐

[@aysenuryazc4199]

@@24Alezander Yes, this is a reason. But ı don't think every native speaker speak fluent and clearly.

[@marcello7781]

You're teaching skills are amazing. You inspired me to become an English teacher 😊

[@omarperezprada]

I really learn every day about you, and I am glad to know you, so thanks so much. Gracias totales.

[@said_said]

I love you hannel and the simple and clear way yoi speak, however I don't underand other americain whe they speak, I think because you delebratly speak slowly to make it easy for us and maybe because you use a simple vocabulary as well in order to keep it amso simple.

[@TheEnglishCoach]

I made made videos on this topic :)

[@jainivermoreno106]

GREETINGS FROM (MEDELLIN - COLOMBIA), I LOVE YOUR CLASSES AND ABOVE ALL YOUR ACCENT.

[@mahmoudmousanejad2773]

Dear teacher thank you 🌷

[@maseeranoor4872]

Hey myself maseera noor and I'm from India 🇮🇳 your video is very nice and I love your way of explanation 😊 I'm also a student who afraid of speaking English infront of other people 😅 when i think now i have to improve my English after that i feel I'm so poor in this language and in that time my confident go down completely 😅

[@nasreenalhanani1510]

I signed up for the 30 day challenge and will see the result that was guaranteed by you, and how it will be different. I will do my best, good luck to me. Thanks for your help and support. ❤️ I feel I'll be a success story. ☺️👍

[@ferobserver9768]

I agree with your saying. Go for it and and practice speaking in English every day …. The magic change will be growing up in the people who are struggling to learn in this Language.

[@Oneminutelong]

I have really learned a lot from you... I appreciate it.

[@MilitanAlex]

Самая красивая и четкая речь на английском I’ve ever heard 😍✨

[@sadbra7595]

Hola profesora, guapísima profesora, te quiero mucho, saludos desde Marruecos

[@discoveringmisterylegends2455]

Thank you Stefhany I'm one of your student greeting from Panama

[@on-sunny-day]

I'm one of the people who highly appreciate your channel.

[@motivermma]

Hello Great Teacher 🙋🏻‍♂️🙂✨

[@pinkumia1831]

Madam, I have been seeing your every single video, I'm from India.

[@mohammedamer2871]

The first thing which i have done after watching your video i do subscribe because i don't want to miss any video,i love your teacing skills ,flency you have everything as english coach.

[@on-sunny-day]

This is excluding those who aren't bothered by mediocre musical performances in public. For most people, if they were to perform an instrument in front of others, they wouldn't want to do so until their performance reaches a level of beauty worthy of being heard by others. In that sense, the beauty of pronunciation or the sound emitted from one's mouth takes precedence, regardless of whether it matches that of a native speaker or displays the individual's unique tone. Ensuring that the act of speaking in public resembles a beautiful performance on a musical instrument, worthy of being listened to by others, becomes the top priority for the speaker in presenting themselves confidently. This applies even when speaking to others in your videos; you must have the same level of beauty in your spoken word, akin to playing a musical instrument, in order to feel inclined to broadcast your content. If you're unable to deliver the kind of performance described as 'a beauty worthy of being heard by others,' even in your native language, it's likely you wouldn't feel confident showcasing your speaking performance in public.

[@ahmadramadan1199]

You are the best 💚 greetings from Egypt

[@clevertype990]

Yeah I'm gonna transform my confidence ✌️❤️

[@saidfarid6382]

Hi dear professor Thank you so much for your help and advice. I really appreciate your job. I wish you peace and happiness under the sky of prosperity All the best. Take care and have a good time. Your follower from Algeria.

[@antonyantony7939]

Good help for others. God bless you and your family.

[@burhanmhamad]

Even this video isn't for me, but I can't ignore your amazing videos, I have to watch all of them

[@TheEnglishCoach]

That's awesome that you don't struggle with confidence!! What's your secret? haha

[@gidalvopinheiro-ho5qb]

Speak english with you prof yes.

[@abbysands9510]

Hi, great to see you again. You look great.

[@abdullahnasser4121]

best of all time, true love from Egypt ❤

[@tsaiyuhsin9750]

I was learned lots of information from your video. I think all of skills you teach us is very useful-accurate in learning English. I will keep focus in your media in the future.

[@abdellatifelkassimi2007]

Thank you my teacher for your efforts 👌

[@sagarsapkota913]

Hi teacher I wil be this fluent this fluent And i will say she was my good teacher

[@norbusherpa3737]

Thanks lots

[@miltonmachage2462]

I thank u from TANZANIA country cz you help me so much to make my confidence

[@mitreka88]

I'm back to listen your high speed speaking.. that's make me happy coz I understand about 95% words.. but I still strugle with my speaking. Thanks senorita 🇮🇩

[@houaria28lakhdari6]

I think People Who have much enough confidence have the highest chances to be good speakers at the future even if their english is not too good

[@alexpitbull6232]

Thanks Stephanie for your videos!

[@gopalsinghchauhan8439]

Hi. ma'am I'm from India,but i like your teaching way

[@gradient6654]

Thank you coach for your valuable lessons 😊.. I much feel better.

[@nicorec885]

Gracias Stephy a vos y Renzo por la ayuda que me dan para aprender. P.D: ¿Soy el único desubicado que escribe en castellano? 😅

[@hamzafilali6530]

Welcome back. I am a follower from Morocco. I enjoy your videos and benefit from them. I have a problem with the English language. I understand texts and read anything in English and understand, but when someone speaks to me quickly, I do not understand.

[@sunitarakeshsharma7928]

Please keep uploading such wonderful videos..... Can u make a video on passive voice in daily conversation

[@TheEnglishCoach]

Let's make a list of all the DAMAGING thoughts we tell ourselves (or believe) that STOP US from speaking up and feeling confident... When I was learning Spanish, I dealt with a LOT of damaging negative beliefs that gave me speaking anxiety on a daily basis. One of the things I would do was... if I didn't know how to say something EXACTLY like a native speaker, I just wouldn't speak. I missed out on so many conversations because of this... and worst of all, I just didn't feel GOOD when I spoke Spanish. I was always afraid of making mistakes: grammar mistakes, pronunciation mistakes, syntax mistakes, etc. Ugh... what an awful way to live and learn a language!! It actually took me YEARS of working on my mindset to overcome this. Unfortunately, I wasn't like my student Long who transformed his confidence overnight. For me it was a lot harder...

[@CataCoach]

Perfectionism stopped me from learning English as soon as I arrived in the USA. I was conscious of mistakes when speaking and writing. I became shy, and I felt stupid around native speakers. Three months later, after my arrival, I shook my head and promised myself to do everything possible to be good at English. After all, I went to the USA to learn English and experience living overseas. I started answering phone calls, talking more to my American host family (I have so many misunderstanding stories, but it was the way to learn a new language) and talking in English with my Latina friends. As a result, we started to meet more non-Spanish speakers and encouraged each other to keep speaking in English no matter the situation. 14 years later, I still make mistakes. However, I noticed I make them in English and Spanish. Perfection does not exist. I understood that 'good enough' is not a mediocre trait.

[@laliths636]

Thank you ma'am!

[@on-sunny-day]

Native speakers of any language tend to think that pronunciation doesn’t matter much as long as it sounds good enough when they hear a foreigner speaking their language, and they might even say so to the speaker. However, speaking another language in front of native speakers is akin to performing alongside a professional trumpet player in public, showcasing your trumpet skills seriously. Just like you’d choose to play an easier piece beautifully rather than clumsily performing a difficult one if you had the opportunity to perform with a professional on TV, when people are learning languages like English, they appreciate the beauty of the language as if it were finely played music, even if they’re not at native level. So, when it comes to speaking in public, they don’t want to showcase anything until they can perform at a level they feel comfortable sharing with others. Language is like playing music with an instrument. Therefore, as a teacher, it’s crucial to help students confidently and joyfully ‘play’ English from their mouths by first focusing on mastering simple ‘pieces,’ even if they’re just simple sentences. Once they’ve achieved that, gradually increasing the difficulty of the ‘pieces’ they ‘play’ will be the way to go. If you don’t feel confident enough to perform your instrument like a musician in a state where you feel it’s okay for others to listen, nobody wants to play their instrument in front of a professional or an audience, right? So, it’s crucial to start with simple pieces of music, ensuring that the performer can reach a level of play they find beautiful above all else. Since speaking a language in public is akin to performing an instrument in public, it’s paramount for the performer to play it beautifully and make it pleasing to listen to. Essentially, articulating the language beautifully from the mouth comes as the foremost priority for the speaker, including even when speaking your own language.”

[@romanwilder6570]

When you speak, you tickle my ears.💖

[@zariachan23]

Thanks you so much lovely teacher🥰 I'm from Myanmar 🇲🇲 I'm waiting your videos.I really appreciate your videos and teaching.

[@nouralyahiaoui205]

Amazing. You made feel better and encouraging me to speak up. But sometimes there are some words can't translate them to English while you're telling a story, especially if you want to tell a funny thing. You end up looking like silly person. Thank you dear. I love your way of teaching 🙏

[@TheEnglishCoach]

Don’t worry about what people might think if you forget a word. Just keep telling your story with a smile and ENJOY the moment 💪🏼

[@dracula687]

Thanks you Ma'am

[@osonhodeleon]

Thank you very much for this useful video.

[@ezequielmontenegrodelgado6441]

Teacher, you're a very good teacher,so, I would like you to give me English classes. Please!

[@houaria28lakhdari6]

Think you for your advices i think we must have the confidence and trust to ourselves as a learner i try always to improve my skills my goal for this year is to be à fluent english speaker No matter how much time i'll take but i believe in myself

[@maratd1781]

Привет! Вы все красивее с годами становитесь. Рад, что стали матерью. Счастья и здоровья вам , детишкам и вашим любимым и близким! Привет из России!

[@xuejunchen2955]

Thank you so much.

[@yagoubnafea4354]

Appreciate dear teacher

[@Binhnguyen-po8dd]

Cảm ơn Chị rất nhiều thank you so much

[@anr539]

Ten minutes very intensive! But thank you. I will listen again and again! Bye from Italy!

[@SangNhat-mq1uu]

Thank you.

[@amirleader8616]

Actually , let me to talk you that you speak very simple and clair . For me, I like it so much . So thank you so much . By the way , There are many teachers on KZbin , but they aren't enought clair (I hope you can understand my english ) . See you soon my teacher or my friend . . I will see all your video .

[@aarifdamous3007]

I have just watched the video and it's awesome

[@frankelyize]

Thank you 🙌🏻

[@stephensiam6617]

For me english is one of the most difficult language in the world. But still I find it one of the most powerful language in the world. To be honest I have been learning english from a very long time but still I can't speak English properly till now

[@gidalvopinheiro-ho5qb]

Amo suas aulas prof ❤❤❤

[@joaopauloalmeida5259]

Hi teacher! You're amazing. I don't understand well yet, i guess that I'm A2 or B1. This challenge would be for me?

[@970726]

These 💐 are for you!

[@atillaarac8183]

I've been following you for a long time and nothing had changed on your face hahahahh. I guess you're happy. Have a wonderful life :)

[@Thestylestudiobykb]

Great insight!

[@gidalvopinheiro-ho5qb]

Very thank you prof ❤❤❤too good prof ❤❤❤❤❤

[@GonzaloHansen]

Thank you english coatch

[@Gabreel_alves]

Uhu! até que enfim!

[@GuitarLiving]

Sthepany thanks for shared this, thanks

[@vesterin8073]

just found out that your English is much easier to listen and understand than typical native speaker. seems its because you are using simple words and expression with great pronounciation. with US accent. sometimes i have some issues listening english though...

[@luisbarraza6931]

There are English ......yes. Date ,.......si pronunciará más lento y más maestra de escuela ... Sería genial y habría más estudiantes. Greetings from Lima-Peru 🇵🇪

[@lucifer3662]

I like your accent

[@karanyepa4602]

I am new to listening this video for the first time from North India on fourth of February two thousand twenty three at six ten pi am.

[@sumayamohomed744]

Thnk u soo much ur realy motivates me I started learning english 2 uyears ago and still learn so I used to being shy cous I was though that my accent was not perfect and until I realized that its only my negative mindset so I started to change my habit and now i can communicate the strangers better with out hesitate and m feeling good nd Im gonna thank my self I did great job😍😉

[@juanbernardotorresmoreno1294]

I feel great to listen to you again and thank you very much for your important advice that is always to learn something new and gain more confidence, less shy and confident when I need to say or speak, but I recognize my insecurity to speak, to read in general I need to improve. my English is URGENT, I feel desperate! Cos I can't advance!

[@ll-tt9vl]

I like your positive attitude suggestion. Tell myself good comments. Also, I will improve my English skills continuously, especially speaking skills. I will increase my experience through using English. Thanks for your suggestions.

[@ram31299]

Very interesting thank you

[@gersonpereira2012]

Thanks

[@renanmarques3196]

Really Really Great video! Really thank you!!! I just prefer the old mic xD but everything is fine! I love your videos cuz they are so direct, practical and with wisdom. The best one english Channel that I know! Thank You

[@renanmarques3196]

@Dr. Christopher Johnson nice and an honor to meet you! Im from Brazil, São Paulo 🙂

[@MZ-vi6lr]

Thank you, I have been wanting to learn English for a long time, but I can't speak even for a minute, of course my learning is good, but my speaking is not. Please guide me, what should I do? Thank you very much. I have been watching KZbin for years, but I did not succeed in learning the language. I learned my mother tongue without grammar and learning words. Why can't I learn English? It seems that everyone wants to show themselves, but no one wants to say what their language learning plan really was, how much they tried during the day, there are millions of videos about language learning, but who could really learn by watching these videos? Why is that key point not mentioned, if you have a learning plan or if there are any resources or if you have a suggestion for learning English, I am impatiently waiting for you to tell me what to do.🌹🌹

[@32anchalprajapati21]

Thank you 😊 teacher for your efforts it was very excellent the way you told us👏

[@AnshulKumar-gi8ok]

Indians are everywhere, yeah?

[@AnshulKumar-gi8ok]

Which state are you from?

[@KouacouDagouMichel]

Hi, I like your speaking and I do want to achieve you level. I'm from Ivory Coast in West Africa

[@Budi-ux1kv]

Thank you for this video I'm from Indonesia I often Saw your video but don't speak too fast because I'M beggainer.

[@ahmedaltshna213]

Nice teacher