Transform yourself into a MONSTER | Jordan Peterson

This video talks bout how to transform yourself into a monster. In the video, a harmless man is ridiculed since a harmless man is not a virtuous man. What the speaker urges the viewer to do is to become dangerous but have that under voluntary control. Jordan Peterson says that "you should be a monster" Why? Because id you are harmless, you can't do anything. If you are harmless you will match to the death camp just because you've been ordered to. In this case, a harmless man is compared to a rabbit who can't do anything except get eaten. There is more to it in the video.
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[@Grom76300]

"be dangerous but tame. Being harmless is just miserable." Stuck with me

[@jacobrobinson787]

This is all well and good, but you have to know your limits before trying something new something unknown. These days, people aren't really in a position to do that safely. But the best thing I've found is that you find your reason, whatever it may be, that reason to keep going. It took a long time to find mine and it's been Hell, but I firmly believe now more than ever that all this strife will pay off. Conditioning, you can think of it. Because you work yourself now, bits at a time, and when you're older like say 30 or 40 you'll be mentally, physically and most importantly spiritually prepared.

[@thechaz83]

Jacob I have a question, I’m dead serious about it too. I admire your thinking. See, at heart I’ve always been a family man. Obviously I need to attract a woman I’m drawn to first. I was always joked in school. Never had friends: basically everything was hell. Now I’m angry at myself, the cards life gave me, violently angry towards the people who joked me, the women who hurt me. I’ve been to therapy. I just don’t see an end in sight, no redemption. Can you provide helpful hints? If I drop all the negativity, if I controlled my own world along with some of the outcomes I’d say “I’m a fucking marvelous man who has what it takes”.

[@jackmukendi3121]

​@@thechaz83 Man I definitely get what you've been through and if I can bring a bit of advice to you then I shall, first, I don't know if you have but, take say 30 minutes / 1 hour to retrospect on your life so far, like seriously just sit down, empty room and go " What's wrong ", talk to yourself but at the same time let go of your emotions, no more negativity nor positivity just come up with what's wrong and most importantly don't overthink and jot every wrong thing you come up with. you probably know better than me but I wanna make sure , once that's done. Time for answers, one at a time think about the solutions you could bring to each and every problem and try to stick to them even the slightest or most unimportant things, fix it. I believe it Was JP that once said " how can one expect to go fix the world if their own bedroom isn't cleaned up " something along these lines so yeah you will get out of it man

[@thechaz83]

Thank you for taking time to reply. This sounds like great advice. I’ll give it a go :)

[@carlosbukros9620]

@@jacobrobinson787 at least you try the unknown because when you die thats it

[@justbeit6030]

"The fear we feel is the power we hold in"

[@MissShailina]

, ❤️

[@gokulkrishnan4721]

🔥

[@otisoppenheimer1849]

Oh

[@medicinemuzik9509]

"Like me or hate me - both are in my favour, If you like me - I am in your heart, If you hate me, I am in your mind" - Swami Vivekananda

[@johnparris2353]

Hate won't get u anywhere he'll talk under water dismissed

[@EF-bk4vf]

​@@johnparris2353and still hate is a part of me. Denying it will get you nowhere.

[@paulmg6031]

“He can talk to snakes man”

[@hungryhunter7158]

I feel like this is the kinda thing a stoner says to a homeless person about a zookeeper

[@krushnamane7707]

Its simple 'his Harry potter man'

[@Mustafa-jc8ud]

Still smarter then you

[@abdulrhmanmohammed8987]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@GhostWriter_369]

@@krushnamane7707 😎

[@juliea.7292]

I remember my Aunt telling me that when you have children, they will give you the courage and strength you NEVER believed you had. This happened to me; I have always been a rather non combative person most of my childhood and adult life, more afraid of trying new things in life and taught that being competitive is NOT a " lady like " trait. After having my first child, I learned quickly that I needed to be fearless at times to advocate for my son ,who was diagnosed with autism at the age of 2 . This was back in 1995 when knowledge of autism was not nearly known and getting a diagnosis at this time was comparable to me climbing Mt. Everest.The doctors that did know a bit about autism told me very grim statistics and finding resources was a constant battle. I was told I will be my son's biggest advocate, this " forced" me to take on traits I never knew I had in me and traits that I believed to be negative in nature. Going to thousands of I.E.P. 's and sitting in front of school administrators at that time was daunting, but looking back now, I recognize how much positive growth I learned from all this " fighting" for my son. When the doctors told me my son will most likely never speak or even walk, I have a beautiful 26 yr old boy that with many many hours and special education programs through out his life , he speaks beautifully and HE has taught ME more than I think I could ever teach him. The " Monster" Mommy came out in me when I refused to listen to some of these ignorant " educators" and doctors that basically told me to give up on thinking my son will ever progress in much of anything. Just 20 plus yrs prior to my son's diagnosis, autism was thought to be the fault of the mother. They even called them , " refrigerator mothers" , because they were thought to be cold and inattentive of their offspring. And many of these children were deemed retarded and sent to " homes" with little to no intervention . Thankfully , knowledge and programs for autism in the educational and medical field has progressed quite a bit, we now have much better support and public awareness on autism as well.

[@_Faithfulfitlife]

Godbless you for sharing your story and testimony ! You are a beautiful amazing monster mom! 💪 I hope this post inspires others to stand up and not back down ! I believe in Jesus Christ ! Together with him NO battle is too great! ❤

[@joltjolt5060]

And yet, no mom is told about the autistic fits, to swaddle them and love them through it, to not punish the fits, get on the ball, woman.

[@maxmatsuk215]

N ll p

[@maxmatsuk215]

lol

[@marsarcena2306]

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[@dionst.michael1482]

"You should be an absolute monster. And then learn to control it." I love that notion!

[@ARMOCROW_]

Brilliant

[@LeadershipVirtue]

better controling it than allowing it to grow inside and control you

[@Grom76300]

I prefer when in another lecture he refers to it as "your shadow" and to be ready to act like a monster, but always choose the better option if available.

[@Demon34N]

"Being brave doesn't mean you go looking for trouble." -Mufasa -The Lion King

[@debrabrown9120]

Hi - I am working on that in more of a graceful way but make no mistake

[@gamewithoutname3975]

Without breaking rules, there is no conflict. Without conflict,there is no progress.

[@el_chico1313]

its not about breaking rules, its about not following directives that do not take into account your own considerations

[@MosesiA]

This statement can easily be misunderstood without context. Sigma males knows this.

[@sugarfish223]

@@el_chico1313 Most rules and directives do not take into account your own considerations.

[@qasimmir7117]

‘Say my name!’ ‘Heisenberg.’ ‘You’re goddamn right!’

[@rickythebeast5094]

Hes actually a great teacher. What joy to live under the same era as these people that can shake or get you to snap right out of unlogical thinkin under these devided times.

[@susanwjoh0re735]

first of all, it's illogical not unlogical. Second and last, he can be very illogical. he believes in a spookie dokie in the sky(god) and his mindset is still stuck in the 1980s. Hell he even tells young men to get married today with the crazy court laws we have today and his daugther... well.......h0e h0e h0e and it aint even christmas yet.

[@rickythebeast5094]

@@susanwjoh0re735 am glad that you understood what i meant. And thx for the grama course🤗

[@clutchfilms24fps]

beautifully said my friend!

[@rickythebeast5094]

@@clutchfilms24fps thanks m8🤗

[@clutchfilms24fps]

@@susanwjoh0re735 Why do you feel the need to dig up JPs personal ''unlogical beliefs'' and family affairs ?, a little much no? Specially when it has absolutely no fucking baring to 99 percent of the material he focuses on , i don't give a shit if he believes in azathoth ,that's his personal biz, what are you looking for anyway?...... the perfect messiah?, there is famous buddhas quote somewhere that goes something like....''don't be knocking the ''teachings'' just cuz you got a problem with the teacher '' . ''rub some of that mahakalah in the face of mediocre thinking and being''

[@hayton3]

We need way more Jordan Petersons and far less politicians

[@mixazizu]

who is then supposed to rule the world?

[@gigadonis8684]

For literally my near entire 17 years of my life I locked myself out from the outside world. When people bullied me I went home and cried like a defenseless rabbit. I never wanted to "hurt peoples feelings", even if they hurt mine. But I finally realised after all this time that it's okay to be harmful to the right people. People are cruel, they can be horrible to you. But if you never respond you will be weak and depressed. I go outside on my won every day now. I've stopped being afraid of those who bully me because I know how to defend for myself. My mother says "Don't be violent to anyone unless they are violent to you", but one day, I feel maybe this rule will be broken. Someone will be extremely horrible to me. The outside world is cold, bitter and terrifying. But it's my goal to own the outside. I go where I want. Just because some assholes are gathered around doesn't stop me from achieving my goals. I go outside sometimes to meditate. You always get some stupid kids who poke fun at you. But I don't give a fuck. I carry on because it's their world but it's also mine. Even though I'm exposing myself to this harsh, unforgiving environment, I feel happier than I've ever been in my life, because you do find evil in this world, but it should NEVER make you be deprived of all thats good in the world.

[@IRLSuperb]

Sounds like you have found the path

[@h.brennen1854]

That's crazy. I'm currently dealing with that exact situation. I had a traumatic experience that shook my world and refuse to go outside for fear of being hurt or harassed or reliving my trauma again. But, i'm tired of confining myself and am currently working to reach that potential that you have reached. I'm glad I came by your response. I needed to hear this.

[@youjustgotburned3980]

Oh wow that really inspired me. You have no idea how that applies to me as a black person (African in particular) who just moved to an all white-neighborhood (due to my job) I used to be something of a Hermit because the last time I tried going to a restaurant I got harassed and publicly humilated by a lady (3 times) and when I tried to go jogging I got insulted (a driver passing by said some really nasty stuff) so that really demotivated me from socialising and doing basic things like jogging or taking a walk All I do is go to work and immediately lock myself in doors (so I lost friends too) But now I realize that hey,I can't spend the rest of my life couped up just cz I'm afraid of some racists and abuse. I'm actually going to put myself out there no matter what...I have every right to go where I want. I'm breaking out of that hermit mode and gaining my social life and confidence back. Wish me luck!

[@oskarinomenapuu]

@@youjustgotburned3980 I wish you luck. Keep your flag high up.They (the people with bad manners, like talking like a rasist talks)are not better than you.Actually they are weaker than you but THEY dont understand it. Keep " good standing on your ground". Progress your mind (and body). Read books. Challenge yourself. Do 1% better than earlier day you did.

[@youjustgotburned3980]

@@oskarinomenapuu oh wow thank you I really appreciate your advice!

[@darlachief7446]

Thank you Father God for Jordan and Revelation today that at 55 I'm limitless and standing still..... Father God open the doors and secure the journey with peace and prosperity protection....

[@hungryhunter7158]

And even if your life is shity and meaningless he remains always bringing you comfort

[@motivationinspiration7126]

"Limitless and standing still" Love that! 👏👏

[@sugarfish223]

Or you could open the doors yourself, per this video, instead of making a preening little christian spectacle of yourself.

[@lisamarriott4732]

Thanks Jordan for all your teachings. Early this year I had a massive breakdown. I watched your university lectures and they helped me so much. I love you so much, you are a true saviour. Thanks again for helping humanity regain some dignity in the midst of so much evil.🙏❤️

[@motivationinspiration7126]

Well spoken, Lisa.

[@Seven-0777]

Jordan Peterson always make me better and stronger, he's really Great Man! 👍👍

[@rob-artfarmingnz6138]

@Lisa Marriott I feel the same way. I love this man...

[@KAPILKUMAR-tf5vp]

Lisa May god bless u with all the happiness

[@NYXERO_111]

can someone explain plz what does it mean to be a monster and dangerous in this modern era?? I mean in this time period we just can't dominate everything just by physical power..!

[@Noor-sl5ep]

5 months ago i really have gone through really hard and confusing time's. Jordan Peterson and few others really gave me a reason to live now am in a very good state in my life thanks to him ❤️.

[@vyomashanbhag123]

❤

[@lokeshkbathina]

I am happy for you.

[@Noor-sl5ep]

@@lokeshkbathina Tysm 💞

[@Chris-kr7gg]

You mean thanks to you.

[@BiG__Disgruntled]

I'm not sure how old you are or the magnitude of the event that shook you but I urge you to recall the understanding that tough times are temporary when the next tough time arises, as it surely will.

[@liammcwatt5508]

This reminds me of a quote that went something like this... "people do not fear the good man because he has too many rules. However it is for that exact reason that he should be feared, as those who do not fear the good man will soon discover why he has so many rules, not to protect himself from others but to protect others from him"

[@jossefjossikajit4169]

Super ❤

[@SilentNinjaaa]

Facts. Because the good man doesn’t know when to stop. He’s avoided the mud for so long, once he decides to get dirty he doesn’t care anymore.

[@motivationinspiration7126]

"The spirit, the will to win, and the will to excel are the things that endure. These qualities are so much more important than the events that occur." - Vince Lombardi

[@tylerc3588]

I like it

[@sebastianblackfyre]

Yeah

[@mirkogiljaca1051]

Beautiful.

[@Sup3riorr]

All Young men needs Jordan!

[@gotplague]

I was a nice guy when i was younger. Jordan is right. You cant live life like that. Be assertive, go for what you want, know how to be a bad man but exerciae restraint. Workes for me.

[@youjustgotburned3980]

Niceness is a bad habit that's hard to break. And it sucks cz you always attract the WRONG people while good people avoid you (Ain't it ironic? You're nice in order to please good people and repel bad people but only end up attracting cruel people and pushing good people away-cz good people don't really like pushovers)

[@GodlysRebirth]

How do I stop ?

[@crono3339]

Don't stop being nice that's absolutely trash advice. Perhaps being more assertive, but also be careful taking advice from old men on podcasts, they get paid millions to talk right out their ass. I've been nice to people most of my life and have a huge community of people I trust. Being kind is a virtue, being confident is a virtue, being a monster is an immature fantasy.

[@jsgv7935]

@@crono3339 the point is that you need to know how to be dangerous when it's needed, don't be harmless, you need to be capable of dealing great damage, just keep it under restraint

[@AAMM101]

Good long term relationships in business or with people are built on being consistently and reliably nice. It's misleading for the rich to tell us to become monsters, as if life isn't hard enough for us common folks.

[@socialpsychologymantras]

“‘Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” - Alfred Tennyson

[@rozkarim6241]

Im living the life his talking about, self experienced, i used to be bullied since i was 6 upp to 12, and one day i had enough and i beat the shit out of my bully, and then i kept beating upp every bully we had in school that was bullying other people, my lashing out made it so i got everyones respect and the nerds(i used to be one) loved me for standing upp for them to the point we had no bullies left in our school except me cause i bullied the bullies, u can believe it or not its a true story and since that day i havent let anyone boss me around or letting anyone weaker get hurt and me looking away, ive learned to not give a fuck and just stand up for others, i feel like i need to be a protector in the world i live in because so many people are being hurt and used by people with more physical strenght over them.

[@aurelianzafiu4155]

,, you should be a monster but to know how to control it " - amazing advice, thank you from the bottom of my heart!!!

[@macraeolinger]

I love this. I've always tried to confront danger as a means to move forward. It can be stressful and lonely. But, this is the way.

[@rob-artfarmingnz6138]

This is the way

[@jonathanbell8887]

This is the way.

[@Hjh826]

This is the way

[@SUD7117]

This is the way

[@rishabreddy2245]

This is the way

[@FilipRanogajec]

2:26 - "The hero has to be a monster." That makes a lot of things previously non-understood or misunderstood a lot clearer.

[@allmightlionthunder5515]

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[@yingyang5632]

Go for a walk alone in the woods at night without a flashlight, you will learn alot about yourself

[@larrysouthern5098]

I grew up as a kid in the country living out side in the woods...the critters in the woods won't hurt you... It's people that you come across in the dark that you have to have discernment about.. That's where the problem comes about... 🐺

[@dtrain9578]

Or even with a flashlight, it comes down to if you run or fight that’s where u rly learn about self

[@TheKlazar92]

Thats why I always admired people with strong self confidence, I was always insecure during my childhood and later on, felt like I am constantly a victim, allways soft, didn't know how to answer, there was always someone who had to protect me from bullies, because I never knew how to fight back and stand for myself. Today I feel only regret and shame on my past, I know that I never did anything bad to others but I did bad only to myself, so don't let yourself be like I used to be, don't be afraid to stand for yourself, better be arrogant then humble. Because I tell you what this society is jungle, If you don't adapt youself to it, it will consume you eventually.

[@direnb3401]

Jordan Peterson is my inspiration

[@monkeybanana9269]

This man is a true inspiration.

[@theghostkidltu2878]

"He who has never suffered will not sufficiently temper his character."

[@jasonlee7916]

You might be the smartest person alive... Is literally taking me 10 years to figure it out I'd read Machiavelli's the prince like a hundred times but you got to learn it for yourself but you explain it very very well God bless you brother

[@madanmohan5661]

What you said, we experience everyday but not so many people realize this...

[@properpsychology1276]

“Man transcends himself only via his true nature, not through ambition and artificial goals.” -Fritz Perls

[@HowardPritchartt]

Never take my kndness as a weakness! I can be your best friend or your worst nightmare! I set boundaries and those who have crossed them by betrayal in business and/or relationships can validate my stated. "You can drage me to the gates of Hell but I won't back down" as sung by Tom Petty

[@hollowking7414]

I just got home from MMA training. And this video has me pacing back and forth in the kitchen. I’m charged up 🔋

[@smartman123]

u are gold God bless you u bring tears to my eyes unleash your monster inside of you

[@kayaking1000]

Now is the perfect time to be a monster, break all the rules!

[@b4zz3d59]

@WhiteEagle 💪🙏

[@kayaking1000]

@Javier Alejandro Perez Lol, I think Jordan brought this out for a reason. Too many people are bowing down to the government

[@fabioooh]

Break all the rules and go to jail! Really a nice idea

[@ndkproduction318]

ഇദ്ദേഹത്തിന്റെ വാക്കുകൾ ലോകത്തിന്റെ എല്ലാ കോണിലും എത്തുന്നു. ❤️

[@razorbills7191]

Now this, NOW THIS IS WHAT I CALL MOTIVATING!

[@angelosorte5464]

Totally agreeing and living this since 2013 about.

[@HustlinHabits]

Needed this just feel as people been taking advantage on my kindness really need to cut back on saying yes and ok when people ask me for help with anything in life

[@moonram9639]

This was just unbelivable! A genius as its best…

[@rules4life337]

Love this so much. I live this way everyday. It's not easy but it's worth it. Biggest enemy is self, because the biggest lies we buy are the ones we sell to ourselves. This lecture is so so powerful and so much depth in it.

[@kr.piyush]

Be no monster...just strong will to do something.. be noble, be humble and even the evil will bow down

[@EF-bk4vf]

NAIVE.😢

[@andy764]

This is true! To be able to protect, provide and stand your ground, you must be dangerous within your own control. You must be able to damage other evil people, be ready to damage them, damage them when they cross the line! And be ready to do it again!

[@fabianabenites61]

Yuppers! Absolutely!

[@stephen9906]

Thanks for saying THIS I’ve been like this all my life and been told you scare ppl tone it down u get too hyped up u care too much why u gotta always win just chill. Don’t know how sorry 💯

[@tfaber9394]

this is true. When I was a boy I hated confrontation. But After 40 years in martial arts, whenever I'm now confronted by a bully, and he suggests "kicking my ass', I ask him very calmly, "have you ever boxed or wrestled? Because I hate fighting those types of guys...but if you really wanna go blow off some steam, sure, lets go. I'm kind'a needing to blow of some steam too". And I am dead calm as I say that. in other words, not messing around. I wanted to seriously fight. Just blow off steam. I love fighting. I love getting hit, and hitting. It's FUN !!! What in the f*ck is wrong with men today ? That guy , half my age, jumped into his Yellow Italian car and bugged out. I was 20 years older, 6" inches shorter, and 30 pounds lighter, and he coulda' kicked my ass. But he didn't have the balls to even try. He was like "Jerry" in that Movie 3 O'clock high. I wish more young kids would know.... punches don't hurt. Fighting doesn't hurt. Cowardice is what hurts the most. I ran away from a fight with Ed White in 1973. I started Karate in 1974. Running away from a bully is the most painful thing. I regularly fight above and way outside my class. In one class, my TaeKwonDo instructor fought me, and then pulled me out, after class...and I stood in front of my friends....., and said "you guys need to watch Tim. He fights with more heart than every one of you put together". I was embarrassed. We all fought together. With equal heart. We pounded the hell out of each other 3 times a week. But I knew he was right. Fighting is fun for me now. I jump at the chance to defend a woman or correct an asshole. I understand why men may be hesitant to fight. I was a coward at one point too. But once I tried it a few times, it's no big deal. Fighting is so fun, and it really doesn't hurt. I call it "rough housing" now. It gets the juices flowing, and I'm sure it's excellent for my health. To any Father.... teach your kid to fight and gain the self respect.... he may not win the fight, but he will hurt the other guy. And that's how I always entered every fight. I may not win, but dammit, he's gonna remember me and how much it hurt him. He may be bigger, but I'm faster. If he wakes up tomorrow with a trophy, he will have earned it, and will always remember the pain. For 2 years,.... alarm would ring....I would need to roll out of bed onto the floor. I couldn't sit up. My ribs were too bruised...breathing sometimes hurt. But I felt strong. If you ask me to fight Mike Tyson, I would. I'm faster, but if he punches me, I know it's gonna be like getting hit by a bus. Probably put me into the hospital...but its fun. When you learn to fight, "Confrontation" is nothing. A fight, or confrontation, can only culminate into a physical altercation....and once you are never afraid of that, a fight is never so ominous. For God sake, don't be a pussy. Teach your kids to defend themselves, and enjoy "rough-housing". Aiki Jitsu, or Ju-Jitsu, and then TaeKwonDo....is an ideal 5+ year path for producing a healthy individual that will never be afraid of anything or anyone, except maybe a Zombie Seal Team 6. I haven't worked the details of that scenario out yet, but I'll let you know. But I don't think it I'll bother with. Most people don't believe in Zombies, and I think they're right... and if there ever was a Zombie Seal Team 6, then God help us all. I guess we're doomed. Could you ever imagine....? Zombie Super Soldiers. What a nightmare.

[@coleprescott2154]

A+ comment, value and humor.

[@TheDefrede]

Love your comment, thank you for sharing. I myself was a peaceful, happy boy afraid of confrontation, afraid of an arse whooping, also afraid of being seen as the bad guy. As the years passed, ive learnt alot, ive stood up to the bullies i couldnt defeat at a young age, it helped push me to give my spirit the body/skills necessary to exist without fear from others. I stood in front of my father at the age of 5-8 so he wouldnt beat my mum, which would of been difficult but im proud of my young self. Today faced with aggression i am calm, i love to fight, but i dont want to hurt someone weaker than me, but If the aggressor gives me no choice Ill teach him a lesson. It rarely ever came to that, they may be a monster but they sense im an even greater monster. I see you are the same, i love that in a person, peaceful yet ready for war. I understand your frustration with alot of males today, either they are overly aggressive, rude, arrogant, or they are overly placid, weak, fearful, and that is no way for a man to be. Thankfully alot of young men today have fathers who were born in a time where they had to be men, and many of these kids are taught the traits of inner strength and perseverence. The feminization of boys, the breaking of families structures are leading us to a dangerous place, i fear for my young daughter's welfare in a world were masculinity is demonised and the boys seem to be getting weaker and weaker with the rise electronics. Outside kids rule ;) Admire your fighting spirit, i know it will never waiver and will be with us both until the day we die.

[@brettpilling7580]

Hah some guy 😁

[@hoseadouglassamson2880]

To fight for yourself is not only in martial art but other areas as well like speech, intellect and fighting against corruption in the work place, government or corporations. No one is going to mess with me as long as my rights are concerned

[@panchovilla4104]

@@TheDefrede man both personal comments are great as for myself i live in the north western cowboys type of rude but nice people and since boys they fight each other and they ride bulls and all of this competition is natural!, and as older mans they grow with a lot of respect for each other , WE NEED MASCULINITY BACK THIS DAYS i remember too that teachers used ti hit me with the one meter wooden ruler and i told my Abuela(gramma) that the teacher hit me and when she went to my school to talk to him she told him if my grandson keeps being disrespectful please hit HIM TWICE and i was like WTF i should never said anything lol

[@ssf9903]

Jordan Peterson is one of my favorites!

[@krissingh8717]

🙌 Thanks very much.. for so much knowledge..

[@BlakeC341]

One of the best talks of his by far. And more relevant now more than ever.

[@ashokwwf]

"It's sad for a girl to reach the age where men consider her charmless, But it's worse for a man to attain the age where the girls consider him harmless."

[@specialkaran]

Great visuals mate! Keep up the solid work!

[@GamingArtConnoisseurs]

Jordan Peterson has always given me a lot to think deeper , I am grateful for his ideologies

[@pulledtoworkout2833]

Very well put together video! Congratulations to the channel of people who constructed the video. Bravo for Jordan Peterson and to all that are watching ; Be a Monster!

[@Purnachandhar-S]

Respect from Indian guy, thank you sir

[@blenderx6754]

The editing is awesome man ❣️

[@BarbarellaAmericana]

Jordan always makes me feel better about myself without enabling ....love it! need it!

[@lindanorris3226]

AWESOME THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING SIR 🦁

[@viswakumarr]

His words are excellent guidance for real pratical life. Thank you Mr. Jordan.

[@bukagamkrelidze1669]

every time i listen to this man my charecter is growing. it's truly blessing to listen jordan.

[@dorym572]

The best mind coach ever. I dont know or this is sound stuppid but few months ago I saw shorts with Jordan. After that I started do something with myself, do step forward. Now I dont know where I'm gonna finish but I dont fell like a moster yet. Not now, but soon

[@romanvladimirovichpetrikov4947]

I thank you for the wonderful and inspiring video! Your subtitles help a lot! Keep it up and never give up!

[@emmanuelamadi798]

You are an educator, you are an epitome of knowledge mr Jordan peterson!!

[@allmightlionthunder5515]

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[@MKI4EVA]

So true........life forces you to face enemies..........might as well prepare and control.

[@depressedcheeseplatter376]

And once you hurt and pushed everyone away all there is left is the sound of your own crying in your empty room

[@parisapakzad7580]

Wow! Loved it!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@AngelLivesMatter]

Thank you buddy. Perfectly said.🎯

[@abduljalilmahama5682]

Who else can listen to Prof Peterson all day.. Prof U have saved so many lives

[@simonlambert4714]

Wow that is certainly the best speech I ever heard. Espacially when Peterson says "You should be a monster and the learn to control it". That is genius!

[@boborodin]

the MONSTER IS COMING INSIDE OF MEE!!!!

[@angeloreyes357]

Well said..different perspective..!! Life is violent..tough! Gotta go with it..man is meant ti suffer..thats life!! Gotta be strong..!! But not evil..

[@Ghost-vg6iq]

He is trying to say to be able to do evil without being one which is pretty self contradictory statement tbh.

[@eltonsufa2349]

A true path of wisdom! Motivating,Thank you Dr Jordan

[@prashantdogra48]

Like a great indian poet once said"क्षमा शोभती उस भुजंग को जिसके पास गरल हो उसको क्या जो दंतहीन विषरहित, विनीत, सरल हो।" meaning "Forgiveness only suits (शोभती) to the snake (भुजंग), who has poison / venom (गरल). What will he forgive who has no teeth (toothless), bows to everyone (humble) and is very simple." in our ancient texts this is everywhere.

[@satyambhaskar9311]

Hi, I want to know who has written this?

[@prashantdogra48]

@@satyambhaskar9311 shri ramdhari Singh Dinkar

[@emerlamine8184]

Someone like your speech some people they found out some people are they learned a lot meaningful courageous lessons thank you everyone for sharing

[@pradeepganipineni6106]

Powerful words 👌

[@Luckystoic]

Whoever is reading this, I pray for you: a heart free of sorrow, a mind free of worries, a life filled with joy, an abundant source of financial wealth, a body free of disease disability and a day filled with God's blessings

[@kerrylynnmcgeady4495]

No truer words about time some spoke this tuth

[@phoenixmotivation4635]

Thanks for teaching the right way. Folks let's start now 🌊🔥

[@user-uh9mi5nz2i]

This made me feel really good I was feeling down for the past few month thinking to myself that i have evil inside but this makes it logical

[@Farhan-Dabhoi]

Same

[@Jmacdonald2386]

You are damn right it does! I couldn’t agree more

[@user-yf4cw8or1n]

SIR, your advise is truly life changing. sincere thank you. :))

[@sulpherbratigh7936]

Intimidating a girl then be nice to them afterwards is my classic pick-up strategy that works 90% of the times, Some people may say it's manipulative but I never go too far with it

[@p52893]

Thank you Father

[@player-ne6hs]

I learned from my experience that facing the fear is much effective way than just ignoring it and it will eat ur confidence and mind one day. And for peoples who fear from being judged should know that everyone also living the same life like you and they also feared of being judge.

[@hish33p32]

"A good man isn't a harmless man, a good man is a very dangerous man". basically, Kindness without strength is just cowardice

[@yeledim296]

💯

[@elsaflores591]

To watch this video was the best thing could happened to me today.

[@shaikhemad3556]

Thanks you sir .

[@agustintadeo]

This will work awesome for people that has been holding themselves that know well that they can play tough but what about the ones that feels you are soft and fear to make a fool or being hurt?

[@willhart4762]

The best example would seem to be a martial arts expert that has the training to be a violent monster but also the discipline not to use that training unless absolutely necessary.

[@bijanpal6948]

Absolutely Right ....

[@TAMP-oj3sw]

Be thankful for the impasse. It speaks volumes

[@johnv6608]

Holy crap! This just woke me up!

[@assassinsrequiem]

Some of us are already monsters, far worse that you are thinking of right now. We stay passive because we don't know how to control it once it is free. We've seen what kind of damage we can do because we are also very smart, we know the weaknesses & how to exploit them if we really got angry, vengeful, & vindictive. So, telling someone to become a monster... that's literally like looking for more damage to society.

[@lastnamefirst650]

I feel like he’s more saying ‘accept the monster you have’ rather than act out what that monster would do. We spend so much time saying ‘oh I’m not like that’ but you’ve acted that way so some part of you is like that. It doesn’t mean you deserve the electric chair it means you need to accept that it’s part of you. Then from there be curious about what triggers you into that state. And build a system around awareness where you are in control because you see it coming and can stop it. Something like remove yourself from a heated situation long before fists start flying, stop drinking/abusing drugs that take you there, break off a friendship that encourages that monster. Etc.

[@akashpatel8410]

Social with more weak men and less monster is more dangerous

[@renegade-master29]

It's called a catch 22 system for a very good reason

[@mikehess4494]

Thank you.

[@Wishfull171]

Needed to hear this after a period of isolation from a lot of stuff after a lifetime of containing and fighting against what I find wrong. It feels lonely sometimes or after enough you go to a safe place, but that’s not a life or a way to stay forever. And it’s time for me to go back out in the world. What a big message, I’m a woman, not a man. But this spoke deeply to me, I am a human, and I realize now my faults aren’t bad, they are bad when I no longer have power over it and how to use it for things of purpose or higher meaning. Amazing message, might be my top two favorites of his I’ve heard.

[@nftportfolio]

I would suggest to you Dr. Joe Dispenza book called you are the placebo. *Warm hugs* 🤗

[@Wishfull171]

@@nftportfolio love the title, I will check it out!

[@joshdance9959]

Wow. So true. Very inspiring. I have lived like a rabbit. I want to live like a lion

[@thomasvanleuven1486]

Thanks for this uplifting video. Very clear simple language to the point. It was easy to understand and encouraging. Great for motivation.

[@getfitandeatright1074]

Never give up facing your fear and adapt learning from your mistake put yourself first and love yourself level up every year keep putting new levels don't care what others think about your fallow your path .

[@charlesallin]

Thanks jordan, I really needed to listen to it right now.

[@kurrupt-ninja9189]

I feel like my whole life led up to this moment of realization that my father taught me to be the man he speaks about

[@prasaddeshmukh3442]

The solution to the problem of tragedy and malevolence is the willingness to face them. Thank you JP for this.

[@753357851]

One of the best edits I've watched yet

[@marielalunetta6489]

Ty.